Er du fra Skandinavien? Du har en dansk accent.

@@Ashnesss Ja, jeg er dansk :)

Being always on is not healthy anyway. BECAUSE she's in such a demanding career she needs to learn to relax and switch it off.

As a woman, why should her masculine energy be always on?

Agree, but you can be a high achieving woman and be in your feminine energy, I never understood why do we have to be passive to pass as feminine.

@@sabrina1380m Because masculine energy is naturally more dominant. Men have the role of protecting and providing so they have to be dominant and aggressive. Women on the other hand are usually the nurturers throughout history, which is why they're expected to be passive and nurture.

@@sabrina1380m being passive is not considered femininity. You have to use your masculine energy at work but when it comes to men you're dating you have to drop it .

Sameee

i haven't watched the show. would you be able to give examples of how her masculine energy was too strong?

Yea I wanna know too

Not men in general, just the ones who made it on this show lol. She'll find her match, that I'm pretty certain of.

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And then her stans would throw hate on other women in the show. So much for women empowerment i guess. Seems like they only empower women with masculine traits and shit on women who exudes femininity.That is just plain misogyny.

From someone in their 20s struggling with the same thing do you have any advice on how to overcome this? 😭

@@anisasalah3399 It's helpful to understand the male mindset, how their brains work differently than women's, once you understand that you know what to look for and notice cues and intentions easily, which helps you react and behave wisely and according to your feelings and the situation. Try to educate yourself by watching lots of psychology videos like this one and exposing yourself to the interactions. Have confidence in your value as a person and be receptive to men's attention if you are interested in that person. You can learn soo much watching and analysing people's behaviour.

@@ScarlettBennett tysmm😭😭

@@anisasalah3399 feel you

@@justsomegirlwithoutamousta3173 the struggle is real😭🥲

Finally! I’ve been waiting for a comment like this. 😩👏🏽

Same. I don't take rejection personally or feel anything by it. If anything really pissed me off in a relationship, it's abuse and gaslighting.

Welcome 💗

It's good to know both 😌

​@Noname true find man who is more yin than yang simple balance it out

@Noname If you have masculine energy, you are more likely to attract a more feminine man and vice versa. But I get what you are saying. You don't have to change yourself though because we all have both feminine and masculine energy. Just tap into your feminine side more when you are trying to attract a masculine man.

​@@JuzzMe-xu4muwouldn't that just mean acting up or forcing something which may be hard to do or maintain in the long run

Right on point...

Yes me too lol but I just don’t want to act like I’m not like that… you’ll find someone who likes you for who you are

@@lylyginny hay idk anymore, i feel like im losing hope hahahah but it's not like i really want to be in a relationship so it's perfectly fine

totally relatable, but tbh as someone who doesn't trust men in romantic relationship lol I'm pretty happy I'm using all my energy and time to chase my academic and career goals

Lmao I am independent, honest and way too straightforward not to mention started casually seeing my bf and even sleeping with him from the start (because it was meant to be just a fling situation) and we still got together despite him being a very masculine man, very focused on being a provider and having a family with me asap. You don't have to change anything to get someone except the things that are objectively bad or that lower the quality of your life as is. We don't need to be liked by thousands of men, we only need to be really liked and loved by one. You just have to find him and he you.

@@user5c33fvjfua I completely agree with you. I loved Sejun and Seulki’s vlog together it was so wholesome. Her personality outside of singles inferno is a lot different than in singles inferno

don’t feel the need to change! there’s tons of men who have masculine and feminine energy, like jinyoung in the show, who didn’t want to approach first or be straightforward. your match is out there

Highly recommend the channel Elicia Goguen! Talks a lot about embracing feminine energy but also being productive.

You guys could look more about Song Jia she is one good example of a girl who have feminine energy and is ambitious at same time

Honestly I cringed when she started talking to him and all that stuff. I so get it. Masculine males would always want to chase. It's why Jia was so captivating in season 1. Females will have better luck if they express interest but not as straightforwardly as Nadine did. Like the video said, she would have better chances if she became more friendly to him instead. Maybe more eye contact, a smile, a banter here and there.

@@VV-zj5uw Have you seen other Korean reality shows? It's typical to see heavy manipulation in the editing part to drive a story but I doubt each of the cast members are handed scripts for the day. Your comments reek of negative energy. Did you know no one wants to be engaged much less associated with someone who attacks personal character instead of the issue being pointed out? Needless to say, OBVIOUSLY, there will always be some exceptions (welcome to planet Earth!) but it's literally imprinted in our genetics the way our brain is wired to function. Look up evolutionary psychology. Not to say this is the only component because we aren't animals with only primal instincts to drive us -- there are more complex dynamics at play including social, cultural, environmental norms that inhibit us from acting a certain way. Nadine showing insecurity -- it's been a while since I watched the show (and this video for that matter) but iirc, she approached the guy with the intention of "clearing the air" so as to let him know she's interested in him despite what she felt was her awkward indifferent disposition. However what it ultimately did was give off a nervous impression -- achingly similar to how an insecure woman would act when she's anxiously cognizant of her biological clock (again, just an example) except in the show they are given limited time and options. Yes she is courageous in terms of being upfront with him (kudos to her for stepping outside of her comfort zone) but it also displays anxiety which isn't very attractive. I also remember their dinner conversation where she revealed she prefers not to be emotionally vulnerable in relationships and one could see it turned the guy off (apologies - can't remember the name, again been a while). Being emotionally vulnerable is a key factor when it comes to making a relationship work. Saying you're open to being more vulnerable emotionally gives off the impression that you're not yet ready for a real and healthy relationship. So yes - we are social creatures with complex nuances. Asserting dominance that is obviously coming from an anxious train of thought? That is insecurity. Leaning back and letting the cards fall where they may (with a gentle nudge that you're receptive if they come your way) -- that's self confidence.

@@VV-zj5uw There's a way to disagree and communicate your points without having to be rude about it -- but I understand you could be socially inept to apply that given your lack of class in your writing. What use is your so-called education if you have an EQ of a turd. Online or not, no one wants to engage in a discussion with someone you're certain you can't have a healthy conversation with. Hope you have a good one because I know I will. :)

@@hazel6426 what did I miss? What did the other person say?

I think she is just boring.

It's the 💫chase💫

Yes, Ji Yeon has feminine energy, but she also got the most bland personality among all women during first season (at least on camera), she spent the season giggling politely but never doing or saying anything remotely interesting, maybe that's why she didn't receive that much success.

correct it sweetie Korean men, there's a huge difference on why they chose Seulki and not Nadine and we all know it lays on their standards

@@user5c33fvjfua you really don't know men especially those who belong to higher class or high paid jobs. None of these men wants a girl who might be at the same level of success with them let alone more successful. In men world everything is about who holds the biggest power

@@user5c33fvjfua Father multiple businesses? 😂😂😂🤦🤦 Honey it's just a surgery clinic, don't believe every lie you hear. Financially talking Nadine is richer than Seulki as long as she paid more money than her just for a university, imagine for other things. Anyway what I meant has nothing to do with money, it's deeper. Read that again 👋👋

@@beez5123 with all the respects, I disagree. Korean men could be biased, whitch is not exclusive with the fact that men in general are attracted to femeninity and it's energy. Traduction? Seulki or Jia.

i dont know any guys either who would want that - i had this convo w a guy friend abt girls in academia and he said "their obsession w success would make me feel unimportant" - turns out guys are just as needy 😭😭

@@millyrobinson5757 I know some guys that want someone as successful as them, just look at upper middle class men! Some guys are insecure and needy but that doesn't mean all of them are like that. You just need to be patient and you'll find someone that is secure and confident in themselves enough to be with someone high achieving.

nothings wrong with u ms girl, you did what you have to did to survive and women with masculine energy are unique and charming. but I feel u, hopefully all of us in the comment section who want to can tap into the energy we want soon 🫡

Haha I'm in the same boat. "Feminine energy" is so vague. We all understand what is being a go-getter, competitor, protector, provider, etc - the masculine traits. But wtf is "just being", "lean back" and "able to receive"? Am I supposed to just go with the flow and be dead on the inside? Not feel anything but magically generate positive energy around me?

@Lemonade ok this is my favourite take

@@Lemonade-up9brfinally someone said this😌

I understand your point of view, but it seems like some people are struggling to grasp the concept. However, I think that you embody both masculine and feminine traits. 😊 It's important to note that feminine energy is not exclusive to women and doesn't necessarily have anything to do with men. 💁‍♀ It's about how you present yourself. For instance, the Hofstede culture dimensions have a masculine vs. feminine dimension that is observed in different countries. 🌎 The USA is considered a masculine country while the Netherlands is more feminine. 🇺🇸🇳🇱 This doesn't mean that either country lacks the opposing energy, but one has more of it than the other. Overall, this topic is interesting, and if you learn more about it to gain a better understanding. 🤓

It explains it just seeing the kind of men that the west is raising in this new generation (leaning towards femenine energy in order to compensate the increasing masculinity of western women). Also, it was never the career. Dongwoo lost interest on her even before going to the paradise because of her cold attitude and all that "we are having a conversation about this and that" that she explains perfectly on the video.

Of course It's possible I'm also working on It but I also wanna know more about it.

Honestly there are a lot of men who like that as well. This whole video can also just be because he is not attracted to her, at the end this just a show

@@user5c33fvjfua okay lol

Hi, can you explain what intense feminine looks like that intimidates men? I would like to know from a man’s point of view?

@@janewambui2065 It's hard to quantify. To most men it'll seem like an aura or energy that a woman has. But if you want the full details it has to do with mannerisms. Women who are outwardly feminine tend to walk, talk and carry themselves as such. You could even call them elegant to a certain degree. It's usually also reflected in the way they choose to dress, how they do their makeup and hair. All these things contribute to a man's perception of feminine energy and it's mostly subconscious. All of the above combined will full stop make a man doubt his ability to pull you. Once you move passed appearances and get into the personality of a woman, she's confident but not arrogant. Composed and self assured in her opinions, but doesn't push them onto others. Knows what she wants, but understands compromise. Feminine personality traits aren't outwardly strong like men's are, but have their own inner strength that feel like a balance of Yin and Yang. Hope this helps answer a few questions in some way.

@@eonfluxparadox I understand what you're talking about. That kind of woman intimidates even other women too. It's the way women see masculinity in men not just outward appearance but the way they are inside .

Done!

always!!

THISSSSSS, hoping she does a video on her too 💗

The Seulki video is on it's way 💗

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 thank u in advance!!! Your content is really high value ❤

that's what I'm tryna say, all this ''feminine and masculine energy stuff'' is so strange to me. it just feels like rebranding of gender stereotypes but like more ''spiritual''

@@offective4498 also let's be honest maybe Dongwoo wasn't that attracted to her? she could be feminine all she wanted but she doesn't fit the Korean standards like Seulki fits, unfortunately guys over there are very into wanting women with certain criteria (Sehoon from s1 comes to mind with the comment of "white skin", why would this matter?). Nadine would do just fine in the US but in SK they're not there yet.

On it 💗

@@femininerenaissance will definitely watch!

@@femininerenaissance Yayy plss huhu thank youuu i struggle with thisss

It's coming

i wish more guys commented on vids like these so i can get their perspectives aswell. all i see is women assuming things which may or may not be true

This is an interesting perspective but at the end of the day, I believe that no matter how much I may be perceived as "feminine", if a guy is not attracted to me, he's not going to change his attraction because I leaned back or what have you. According to this creator I have masculine energy but I always attracted men from all walks of life. Ime, confidence and good looks will always prevail any type of energy woo woo.

@@AngelMonic I don't want to sound offensive but if you were not able to mantain the relationship with the masculine men, then her theory would be right. Attract someone onto sex or something casual is more relaxed but when we speak about commitment then I think all of this really matter.

@@norawalsh6980 no worries, I don’t take offence at all. We are here to share our opinions and experiences. I clicked on this video because I liked watching singles inferno and wanted to see what people were saying about it, I’m not interested in all this behavioural analysis. I’m actually in a relationship and I haven’t been in something more “relaxed” since I was younger many years ago. My boyfriend chased me because he liked me and I didn’t have to play guessing games or not respond, we got to know each other organically with no sex involved initially. My point is when a guy really likes you, you won’t have to work hard for his attention, masculine energy or not.

Ikr even seulki went to seoul national uni . Apart frm soe everyone there were overachiever . Its just that nadine speaks eng nd give off masculine energy female viewers hype her

Yes

Yes

​​@@fristith7880 but what if they're interested but they r not taking a step cuz they think im not interested (some boys are genuinely shy)??

no? Don't be afraid to go for someone you like. Everyone's different

yuri from what i learned, these guys who too shy to take the first step is a Failure to the Tribe (words by Shallon Lester) and in his feminine energy (next video about seulki and jinyoung dynamic, if seulki chase, she’ll be in this dynamic forever). And the only thing you need to do is smile (words by Mindfull Attraction 2.0 and Steve Harvey)

Yeah and like, you’re “acting too in control” if you’re not automatically leaning back and letting someone you *just met* and don’t know if you can trust take the lead on everything. Like… as a woman… you still have to vet people and the men you’re with before you let them take the lead. Let it be known what that person is about and if their romantic intentions for you are good before you let them take/lead you anywhere. That’s justifiable, especially for a young woman with no dating experience like herself, I’d say that just makes her maybe a little awkward and it’s clunky to watch her navigate casual social interactions, but according to this person it apparently makes her masculine and insecure.

@@c.v.3025 nt totally wrong but it’s how the only reason she even asked to c dongwoo was jst to apologize n show gratitude for how he took care of her n it’s turned into she’s insecure n desperate lol plus language barrier is beating her ass😭throughout the show hence y u would find a lot of awkwardness or silence on her part In conclusion the vid jst b sayin whole lot of bs

@@VV-zj5uw right! like these producers already had the jia plot line ready to go everybody else came secondary to them

There are men with softer, more yin based energy who you will match with from an energy perspective. You don't have to change anything about your energy if you don't want to.

@@femininerenaissance yes, but that implies that the role of provider and nurturer will be reversed, meaning that she’ll never be able to tap into her womanly essence because she’ll always be in her masculine, and as soon as she became feminine for X reason, her partner would no longer be attractive to her. It would feel like roommates/a lesbian relationship. I think she shouldn’t give up and at least try, because I believe that every woman has a feminine side! It’s what makes us strong ❤

I guess pretty balance too? I feel like It would fluctuate depending on the situation and It could work basing on your partners "actuation protocol" at the very moment if that makes any sense jajajaja.

The basis should be still the same. Women feminine and men masculine. You just move more towards center. And when it comes to roles they should take their traditional ones ulness they discuss it and make some changes.

Or maybe the west should lean back a little and take back some of the more traditional dating values. I personally feel the lack of masculine men in our society because of the efects of normalizing the godamn "unusual dynamics"