The Mindset Of Pretty Women 101

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11 ай бұрын

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@HibiscusJelly 11 ай бұрын

Probably one of your best, if not THE BEST videos you have made! Thank you so much for this content GOLD 💗

@femininerenaissance 11 ай бұрын

Thank you 💗

@godalwaysprovides 11 ай бұрын

@@femininerenaissancejust a genuine question , will all the tips given by you in all your videos,Do they work for long term or healthy or “ true love “ relationships ? I may sound dumb but will these work if we are looking for those movie kind of true love uk what I mean ? 😂 also make more videos on Jia and make some videos on Wonyoung too ❤❤

@marionprepon7145 11 ай бұрын

I’ve seen people analyzing Jia a lot and I think what makes her so attractive is if you watch her vlogs, she’s happy being alone. She just lives her life and does whatever she wants and enjoys her freedom. She does fun things like painting and cooking, her life isn’t centered around men. When you’re truly happy to be single, you don’t exude any desperate energy because you know at the end of the day, if you end up alone, you’re good.

@user-dv9xx3yy8v 10 ай бұрын

Tungkl ba san un show? Bt andn sya 2begin w

@yaheard30 10 ай бұрын

I agree, she’s fine with being alone

@mynew6972 10 ай бұрын

I would rather say she's confident and isn't desperate

@bobo0991 10 ай бұрын

that's so true

@wwo0ny 10 ай бұрын

true! i think she said that in 1 of her videos

@natural3362 11 ай бұрын

There is another thing. Jia doesn't have a wounded feminine energy. She never tries to please anyone or making an attempt to make people like her. She is natural. She excludes her natural feminine energy and that's what makes her attractive. Women should be able to heal their pasts and embrace their natural seductive charm.

@Miyankochan 10 ай бұрын

true

@natural3362 10 ай бұрын

@@Miyankochan all women are beautiful. Embrace your power, my fellow Queens

@seeexy 10 ай бұрын

ahh thats why i c now idk anything about her so it was helpful ty❤

@Marketwithv 3 ай бұрын

Loved this comment🎉

@sadelorraine8437 10 ай бұрын

What drew me to her was truly how calm and collected she was. She was just so confident but never rude to the other girls.

@Phd366 11 ай бұрын

To me the IT factor about Jia, for lack of a better word, is her confidence. Like, she knows she has it and doesn’t care what other thinks.

@dawnarxtic 11 ай бұрын

I agreeee

@jinhub2175 10 ай бұрын

Her aura radiates confidence, and the way she carries herself also plays an important role in her attractiveness

@ID_Kevin 10 ай бұрын

She did go to the Harvard of Korea. A certain mindset is needed to get in there

@MidnightMoonProductions 10 ай бұрын

Me fr. And yes.

@wiktoria5863 11 ай бұрын

I personally cannot sit through hours of episodes of dating/reality tv shows but Jia is such a fascinating ‘case study’ for us in the hypergamy and feminine circle.. I love your videos on her!

@no.6377 10 ай бұрын

Physically, l find Jia breathtakingly beautiful. But her quiet confidence draws people in too. It's not enough to just be pretty if you hate yourself. Anyway, the fact that l saw people poking fun at Jia's looks on Pinterest just prove this video's point about """objective""" beauty😂😂

@munalisaaa8560 10 ай бұрын

People poking fun at her looks are just jealous that they don’t look as good as her

@no.6377 10 ай бұрын

@@munalisaaa8560 part of me thinks that too. But then I think of some celebrities others commonly find gorgeous, who I find...okay looking. So even Jia may not be everyone's cup of tea physically.

@vixxexo6855 8 ай бұрын

@@munalisaaa8560Her eyes look very weird. She seems crosseyed also her face is too wide and flat. She fits korean beauty standards, but is not considered pretty everywhere in the world. Someone who is considered beautiful everywhere is someone like Megan Fox. Jia is only pretty for east asians.

@hxavens4227 6 ай бұрын

@@no.6377i totally agree that beauty is subjective BUT no confident person spends time commenting in a negative matter on other people's looks. that is a clear sign of insecurity. there's a big difference between someone not being ur cup of tea and going out of ur way to bash someone's looks

@chiagozieokwuaka6254 7 күн бұрын

@@no.6377It's true she may not be everyone's cup of tea but no body can deny that she's beautiful regardless of where you come from.

@whotfisnat 11 ай бұрын

Wow, this was honestly such a waking call for me. For the past year, I have let myself go so much because I simply believe I have nothing left to offer. I feel fat and ugly and disgusting and that nothing I do will ever make me like the pretty girls I see on screens. I stopped wearing my invisalign, stopped doing skincare, stopped caring about my physical image because I simply did not care anymore and I hated myself for it. “Think about how a pretty woman would behave, she may style her hair, do her skincare, go to the gym, etc. and over time those efforts will pay off” you have no idea how badly I needed to hear those words. Thank you.

@femininerenaissance 10 ай бұрын

💗

@mrgabe1 10 ай бұрын

Yeah feel like everyone has unrealistic standards for not only the people they want but for themselves also, best to not compare but to focus on improving oneself on your own terms, not to fit anyone else’s

@helinali2665 11 ай бұрын

I love the jia videos

@_megansum 11 ай бұрын

same

@femininerenaissance 11 ай бұрын

She is something special!

@creamy_dimples789 10 ай бұрын

when i first saw jia i found her pretty but her mindset is more attractive. the way she carries herself and the way she isn't desperate to find love, you can just see she doesn't need any kind of validation from everyone

@alexdavis360 10 ай бұрын

all of the girls on singles inferno were conventionally attractive. But Jia stood out because of her energy and her air of confidence.

@theadultsaretalking2582 10 ай бұрын

Be so serious rn, Jia was waaaay more conventionally attractive than the other girls in her season. She fits all the beauty standards, the guys were immediately attracted the moment they saw her, her personality was the last thing they cared about.

@rue.eudoxie 10 ай бұрын

@@theadultsaretalking2582yes her and jiyeon i think her name was

@brittanys505 10 ай бұрын

@@theadultsaretalking2582(Don't read if you don't want SPOILERS!!!!!!!!!!)eh technically the show was meant to put looks first so same could be said for the guys that weren't interested in her. I really think all girls had their charm and all were so pretty too. I kind of thought Jia was so white and skinny for the beach unlike Soyeon with her tan skin and stronger physique. I thought Jiyeon would be most popular with her cute look which Koreans love but Jin Taek could've chose her too but chose Soyeon in the end. I think her eyes were so seductive as well, she had cat like eyes which nobody else had and she looked cold on the outside too which gave an air of mystery and one of the guys pointed out how she liked communicating with her eyes rather than speaking out loud. The guys could've rejected her but she was very funny and flirty when they had moments in paradise with her.

@jia7969 11 ай бұрын

The fact that my name is Jia and the comments are making me feel special for some reason 😭

@etherealstrawberry9873 10 ай бұрын

ohmygosh jia is such a pretty name!!! love that for you

@jia7969 10 ай бұрын

@@etherealstrawberry9873 OMIGOSH ILYSM MWAH 💕💕💖💖💗💗💞💞😭😭😭 my late grandpa named me it when I was born! :D

@hey_you. 10 ай бұрын

@@jia7969 so cute ☺️😂

@jia7969 10 ай бұрын

@@hey_you. AWHH THANK YOUU! SO ARE UU 😭💗

@hey_you. 10 ай бұрын

@@jia7969 😚🫶🏻

@helennnnbg 11 ай бұрын

queen jia strikes again

@femininerenaissance 11 ай бұрын

👸🏻

@natural3362 10 ай бұрын

When you embrace yourself, your beauty and you know yourself so much like Jia, ( she said it that no man in the show is her type. She knows what she wants) therefore she has nothing to lose. That's why she's confidence. She never takes on the yang of the dynamic. She remains in her feminine energy, focusing on herself,caring for herself while instantly in a " choosing man " mode. She knows her power. She knows that women will thrive when they are to be pursued. She knows that it's a woman's job to approve or reject a man's pursuit. Such a beauty. All women possess this innate power within them. This is the power of the feminine energy which is bringing out the masculine energy in the man. The dynamic relies on the feminine energy. The feminine energy decides, the masculine energy responds like the yin and yang symbol. They are intertwine forever in a circle. Never ending

@_aoe 11 ай бұрын

if you believe you are unhealthy you will make unhealthy choices too..

@Anggieisgood 10 ай бұрын

She is confident and independent from the choice. And, she won’t only receive the kindness, then this makes people feel comfortable with her

@growlinda 10 ай бұрын

yes I agree, I was watching singles inferno s1 and I told my grandma “mira que linda ella esta” and she was disagreed with me. it reminds me of the saying “they see six and you see nine” not everyone is going to have the same opinion in you but it’s up to you whether you let their words hurt you. you know yourself.

@9rincesa 10 ай бұрын

Jia js very pretty though

@growlinda 10 ай бұрын

@@9rincesa ikrrr she saw a clip of Jia without make up on & she said that she looked prettier then without all of the makeup 🤷‍♀️ but I doubt Jia is worried about that

@mmmkkkyla 11 ай бұрын

I hate that I had such self limiting thoughts throughout high school and early adulthood if it wasn’t for my first relationship at 21 I would’ve never learned how to look my best she taught me what made me attractive and I learned to lean into that and since it was a lesbian relationship I learned more about how to perform femininely by watching her and how she maintained herself

@oiification 11 ай бұрын

Omg when you showed the Handmaidens Tale woman/Mad Men lady...i felt that. She is so beautiful to me, and i know she may not he conventionally beautiful but seeing her in interviews how she holds herself, speaks, holds gaze...it's everything she puts out about who she is or who she wants us to know she is by what she gives us. Shes always perfectly groomed and looks like she smells good. I love her. Another is Tracee Ellis Ross and Florence Pugh I don't know what they have but they know they have it

@natural3362 10 ай бұрын

Seulki also is very feminine. The way she doesn't take charge when she is with jin young. She remains in her feminine energy. She never took the yang of the dynamic. It makes men want to chase her. She vibrates on a higher level and they want her so they can vibrate on the same level with her.

@naphtalieb9618 11 ай бұрын

Omg i absolutely loved this. Everything you said in this video I always knew in the back of my mind, but when you’re in a vulnerable state with a sometimes weakened mindset you tend to forget these things. This just gave me the extra push that I needed. Anytime I may go back to being vulnerable I’ll just come back to this video😂 Thank you so much!! Truly can’t wait for more🥹💗

@metropunklitan 11 ай бұрын

This video is going to save me so many years of my life i just know it, everything is worded so eloquently. I’m so grateful to have the fortune to watched this and watch your channel at 15!!

@jk2000jk 11 ай бұрын

such an insightful video, breaks down all the limiting beliefs about beauty and attractiveness, especially for those who believe you need to be a certain race or body weight or have a symmetrical face

@queenamour7496 10 ай бұрын

From 4:40 this is exactly what i try to tell people when i use "miss universe beauty pagent" as an example . You can still be beautiful amongst other beautiful women , everyone just looks different. This video explains it very very welll❤

@mvng06 10 ай бұрын

I love her self love and the way she carries herself. It’s so attractive.

@lilleilei169 10 ай бұрын

thats why self love is so important

@macakombucha4816 10 ай бұрын

Just finish watching all of your 20 videos. I discovered your channel this afternoon. It was such a delight listening to your every word. Absolutely thanks, we know the hard work put in to give us these videos.

@annaclement9858 11 ай бұрын

I did NOT expect to see Kelly Stamps in this video! I love her ❤❤❤ 6:17

@HibiscusJelly 11 ай бұрын

STAMPEDE 🥄

@femininerenaissance 11 ай бұрын

She is the unbothered mindset Queen 👑

@annaclement9858 11 ай бұрын

@@femininerenaissance yes!!! 🙌

@annaclement9858 11 ай бұрын

@@HibiscusJelly Stampede University class has assembled!!! And we’re serving tiramisu for our Empress

@virna2432 11 ай бұрын

I already saw all of your videos, thankfully a new is coming soon

@anntoukin3388 10 ай бұрын

not only that but shes super super nice to her viewers. I love her and her vlogs so much. ❤❤

@githmi. 11 ай бұрын

thank you for these videos! ily 4 this

@Nana-cs1dg 10 ай бұрын

What she has is not that she is extremely gorgeous whatsoever (she's pretty but nothing out of this world) but she knows how to play her game to captivate men

@seraphicchic8829 10 ай бұрын

May I ask which celebrities do you think have out of this world beauty?

@sharmila9210 10 ай бұрын

@@seraphicchic8829Monica Bellucci

@lunaa764 9 ай бұрын

just discovered your channel and i am in love!! as a woman, i find your content very inspirational and helpful ❤❤

@JMBBrasil 10 ай бұрын

Amazing video!! So necessary!

@mergerogue4291 11 ай бұрын

This season’s love island was such good tv!!! 👌🏽😩👌🏽

@anitapius6225 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the points. ❤❤

@serellamadole 10 ай бұрын

Hi Feminine Renaissance! Just wanted to say that I truly enjoy your content. Keep up the great work! 😊

@heavencielo6999 10 ай бұрын

nah cause when i saw that comment that jia is boring i started to think that some people genuinely dont have taste period, but oh well everyone has an opinion. Buts that what scary to me is that i will never be considered beautiful to everyone, no matter even if i was considered the most beautiful woman on earth there will be one person that will consider me ugly or boring..I think thats something hard to accept but i already know.

@princ3ss_.lailaa 11 ай бұрын

Because she’s jia!💗

@user-sr1xl1oq3p 11 ай бұрын

I really love her 💕

@BeriXms 11 ай бұрын

i love this video!

@darkestpriestess 10 ай бұрын

She's gorgeous 💖

@brunageorgiagaspardelima7941 11 ай бұрын

I really enjoy your videos, been learning a lot, love specially the ones about Jia, from single's inferno But I'm still confused about how can I be the receiving energy without being passive

@user-om3vm8sp9m 10 ай бұрын

I love Jia and I really like the way you analyze her personality and behavior I’d love to see you analyze Katherine Pierce and her behavior, I think she is so captivating

@Seduction149 9 ай бұрын

what a great and insightfu video!

@s00a_ 11 ай бұрын

Love the jia vids

@meixymei 10 ай бұрын

Can you please do a video about what makes yeawon so attractive and liked by others? I’ve noticed that most viewers like yeawon and wished she got more screen time (including myself). She has an energy that is very different from Jia so I’d be interested to see what makes her beautiful in her way.

@thecoolintroverttv8381 10 ай бұрын

OMG Kelly Stamps, i love her😍❤️🙌

@oiification 11 ай бұрын

YOU GAVE US TWO VIDEOS WITHIN DAYS. Thank you, i know you have to plan and edit and script it all too

@jennatime8930 11 ай бұрын

Please make more videos about her ❤❤❤

@MidnightMoonProductions 10 ай бұрын

Thankful I'm genuinely pretty.

@superdani152003 8 ай бұрын

That was simply incrediblr❤

@kaiq9q8qu1 11 ай бұрын

We will be watching! Btw, we bring back her old videos (subbed) including topics you cover like dating and confidence... Maybe some will help you in future uploads?

@femininerenaissance 11 ай бұрын

I don't understand your comment, could you clarify? 💗

@kaiq9q8qu1 11 ай бұрын

@@femininerenaissance We reupload her old videos (that are now privated) where she actually explains her mindset in dating. Maybe that would help in any of your future videos...

@eggra 10 ай бұрын

yoooooooo da kelly stamps !!!!

@ahaha511 10 ай бұрын

Another woman that exudes feminity to me is Sloane Peterson from Ferris Bueller’s Day Off. I would LOVE a video about her.

@kfdsa 9 ай бұрын

Love your vids! Recently watched the new japanese dating show "Who is the Wolf"/"Is she the wolf" and it would be very interesting to see your analysis of Honaka & Mikako :)

@evybabe_ 11 ай бұрын

Honestly the main thing that I love in jia is that she look unbothering about men and not In a bad way. She’s is not like a pet around men which is good. Mature and wise men doesn’t like women who want so bad being in a couple and that the exactly same for us women. the only things that ick me about her is that she seems kinda shallow but maybe I am wrong I mean I don’t know her personally but the vibe she gave off idk, that’s the same thing with seulki. Idk Maybe I’m the only who think that .

@user-dv9xx3yy8v 10 ай бұрын

That's what i also see in her, shallow

@Kyouma. 11 ай бұрын

Let's not forget that the video refers to the outer shell, the body. That's not *really* who you are. If you think physical beauty is important, then you're falling for an illusion

@hdshjs 11 ай бұрын

Nevertheless I like your job a lot in general. And I agree that Jia makes for a perfect fantasy and has great successes in the attraction phase. However I don't believe that it's necessary or even worthwhile to put so much effort, time and money into one's looks. That alone won't carry a romantic relationship (or any other) far. But will attract an attention of a quantity expect of a quality guys.

@AC-ri2ph 8 ай бұрын

beauty can give you life altering opportunities. it def matters bc the resources it brings

@hendyho3240 10 ай бұрын

For my beauty standards she is not pretty or catch my eyes, but her energy, confidence and mind set does.

@WhoElseWillIHaveIceCreamWith 11 ай бұрын

Kelly stamps!!!!

@justminal9476 10 ай бұрын

“Healthy weight”?! She’s 40kg- tf

@chrystianaw8256 9 ай бұрын

Her weight seems fine

@4ng3_Chic 10 ай бұрын

Freaking LOVE the way you explained how to do things with a certain belief. Currently manifesting for myself to have a certain energy and love for myself and to look a certain way. But I’ve been doing it thinking “well if I do this I might become who I wanna be” not “I’m doing this because this IS who I am already” thank you sm, that helped me a ton!!! 🤍 I absolutely love your Jia videos..and I hope in the future you are able to make more videos about deciphering other empowering female figures energy and how to harness that energy yourself!!

@Chloe_Bea 7 ай бұрын

It's not about being feminine with your movements, looks, activities to be something special or attractive to men.. It is about doing it to feel in love with yourself and to enjoy yourself.. I think the words in this video capture this quite well, but don't say it outright :) With Jia, you can see very well that she is in love with herself (in a pure sense, not overbearing), which gives her confidence

@dansari0007 11 ай бұрын

I personally don’t think she’s that good looking, but she definitely has an aura about her.

@user-dv9xx3yy8v 10 ай бұрын

Jia?

@Taebear374 10 ай бұрын

Ikr. When I watched the show, I didn't find her that beautiful but there was something about her which piqued my attention. I found other girl more attractive than her but Jia do have an aura. I couldn't take my eyes off her. Her presence, manner, mysterious, communication skill, mindset make her very magnetic.

@It_was_all_a_dream 10 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@dum9696 10 ай бұрын

It a about mindset girls

@em77775 10 ай бұрын

Love how you show Meghan Markle when talking about negativity and victim mentality 🤣

@internationalmusicacademy2895 10 ай бұрын

lol hahahhaahaha ;) !!! :)

@bhunyee 10 ай бұрын

shes just pretty!!!

@vickapika22 10 ай бұрын

how many time did you hear word "beautiful" in this video :)

@user-tb6ik5mt7f 11 ай бұрын

Hi 🎉🎉🎉

@opssie7969 11 ай бұрын

@femininerenaissance, Do you believe in feminine archetypes?

@lilaclieutenant3675 9 ай бұрын

i want to feel beautiful and use makeup, be pretty too but my parents are just so strict they don't allow me to do makeup and dress up nicely

@AC-ri2ph 8 ай бұрын

when u move out

@8033R4 10 ай бұрын

Ngl, but it’s hard to be confident when you’re poor. 😔

@112lovablecutie 10 ай бұрын

7:05 who is this KZfaqr?

@user-wt4go2qq1o 10 ай бұрын

Sejung was being inviting, recieving, waiting role, how come she was not successful as Seulki in season2 ???

@chrystianaw8256 9 ай бұрын

Sejung kinda gave up after episode 2 and she was gunning for a guy who didn't reciprocate her feelings. She wasn't exactly open.

@dibra2497 10 ай бұрын

This makes me wonder: do you have the examples of naturally and objectively beautiful women but with bad personality that makes them unlikeable by public?

@megumegii 10 ай бұрын

Amber Heard haha

@vixxexo6855 8 ай бұрын

Megan Markle I guess