Fighting OCD | Jay Thadeshwar | TEDxSomaiyaVidyavihar

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A difficult childhood and a severe OCD failed to hamper Jay Thadeshwar's resilience and his will to launch a startup. At TEDxSomaiyaVidyavihar 2018, he delivers a powerful talk about the true horror of living with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and his personal battle with the same, with an aim to help others conquer their demons.
Jay Thadeshwar is a digital marketing professional and innovator from Mumbai.
A difficult childhood and a severe OCD failed to hamper digital marketing professional and innovator, Jay Thadeshwar’s resilience and his will to launch a startup. Founded in 2015, digital advertising agency Poised Media specializes in strategy driven digital marketing and interactive digital experiences, and has been a pioneer in providing interactive solutions on WhatsApp. Started as a one-man agency, Poised Media has grown to have 3 offices, including one in Dubai, 30 members and a name in the industry. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@alirhm2919 2 жыл бұрын

I was diagnosed with ocd when i was 13. I went through a lot of therapy and medication. I took my last pill about a month ago and im 19 now. I don't think anyone can even imagine the pain you have to go through when you have ocd. If you, my unseen friend are reading this comment and you have ocd or you have the same symptoms, i love you, i understand you, and i deeply hope you manage it as soon as possible.

@joyrut1770 Жыл бұрын

I have ocd too Its a difficult dependence on meds

@jaferwaseem4047 Жыл бұрын

@@joyrut1770 bro medicine cant do anything... just antidepressants.. u should fight with those demon talkings(cos its not us). best way is ignore it( nothing in the world will happend if we ignore it). and try to be social more it helps

@wybuchowyukomendant Жыл бұрын

@@joyrut1770 You shouldn't really depend on meds, ssri course takes around a year for a person to stabilize enough to slowly wean off, and hope for the best after that because the chance of anxiety (of any kind, whatever you had before) coming back is around ~36%. But saying that meds don't work for ocd, like the dude in a video said, is simply a lie. They work for me, and many other people I know - most of them never had any ocd comebacks after weaning off the meds.

@bhagyashreechoudhary6149 Жыл бұрын

@@wybuchowyukomendant I did not get it from your comment.Are meds recommended or not

@CCMorgan Жыл бұрын

Long time ocd sufferer, took medication for 12 years and tried to quit multiple times. Drastically reduced sugar, started exercising a lot and was able to get off the meds. Been off for over 2 years now. Make sure to keep studying and learning, and keep fresh in your mind the things you learned from counseling.

@pamalidhar3562 4 жыл бұрын

I have OCD and I cried while watching this.. it is so relatable.. it brings tears to think someone understands..

@RiteshKumar-gq6vs 4 жыл бұрын

I also have ocd. Please help me dhar ji

@RiteshKumar-gq6vs 4 жыл бұрын

@@nimmiskitchen5298 which type of ocd u have??

@financewithnavya5001 4 жыл бұрын

Ya it's wrost

@munnamichael778 4 жыл бұрын

I too have little ...but i hve cure 80% by taking homeopathic medicine it really really works

@missongraph 4 жыл бұрын

I have OCD from 8 years recently I got to know... Be strong, faith is important... God bless you..

@coldcuts3248 Ай бұрын

OCD is a prison. No other way to describe it. Anyone who doesn’t have it will never understand the pain it causes those who are afflicted with it. Prayers for all those still suffering. There are brighter days ahead. Stay strong folks

@learningtolive284 3 жыл бұрын

I hope everyone who's suffering from OCD would be able to fully recover from this horrifying disorder , and can achieve their goals 🤗

@adityaawasthi1877 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@rajeshbarnwal2664 2 жыл бұрын

Thanku .......aameen

@carolnahigian9518 2 жыл бұрын

it gets in the WAY of frirnd Ship- very disagreeable Co Worker ( microManager) wow

@SinestroDC Жыл бұрын

Thank you I really needed to see this im struggling really badly right now

@Mr_CENSORED_ Жыл бұрын

@@SinestroDC me too but which one u are suffering cleaning stuffs again and again?

@beawarrior2809 2 жыл бұрын

Some tips to OCD recovery :❤ 1. Thoughts does not equal to reality 2. U r a really good person . Ocd is your opposite 3. Dont react seriously to ocd thought . Ignore it or reject it 🦋 4. Ocd attacks what u care for the most 5. Dont do compulsion .The relief keeps u stuck in cycle 6. Do EXPOSURE N RESPONSE PREVENTION THERAPY AND CBT THERAPY 7. You r stronger than ocd . Keep recovery track everyday ✍ 8. Be positive and focus on better things 😊 9. SAY THANK U TO GOD EVERYDAY 🙏

@zigdalbhutia7612 2 жыл бұрын

It hard 😞

@bandarurushikesh2946 2 жыл бұрын

@@zigdalbhutia7612 yes it's very hard.suffering a lot with OCD pain

@breastmeatonly 2 жыл бұрын

Thank God for cursing you with OCD? That's the stupidest thing I have ever heard.

@patillaxman6247 Жыл бұрын

I want to add one more. Keep chanting your favorite God's name

@breastmeatonly Жыл бұрын

@@patillaxman6247 Satan! Satan! Satan! It's not working. 👎

@AnOCDFighter 5 жыл бұрын

Good explanation sir, People think OCD is all about cleaning, due to lack of awarness. We hv to raise OCD awareness in India. Come on OCD Fighters, Let's beat OCD together.

@radhikamaurya5453 5 жыл бұрын

How

@AnOCDFighter 5 жыл бұрын

I make videos about OCD self help..You're Welcome in my channel

@jj5048 5 жыл бұрын

Don't respond thoughts only 1 solution that can kill ocd from ur mind .I know this is though but you have to make habit to dont respond thoughts .

@baconpiebesties437 5 жыл бұрын

Yassss

@yashwarrior5231 5 жыл бұрын

I am with you all my bros

@krisarirai5059 5 жыл бұрын

I felt when he said in OCD you don't control your mind, your mind controls you.

@thesoccerjunkie5433 4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@rosef7862 3 жыл бұрын

So true

@pabloescobar4782 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly ☹️

@Neha-nb5zr 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@Mmmm12345 2 жыл бұрын

Brain not mind

@shamimyeasirsaion1467 9 ай бұрын

I am into tears by seeing the comment section that there are people like me, I am not ALONE and the best thing is-we understand each other. It sometimes kills me with depression by thinking the losses, the misunderstood by everyone, the lonely sufferings, the monster indie us, the unseen silent battles. May ALLAH protect you all and grant you recovery asap, Ameen.

@waqarahmedinsisghts 9 ай бұрын

Unseen n silent battles being fought within ,perfectly described dear may Allah help us all to come out of this deadly monstr killing us slowly

@shamimyeasirsaion1467 9 ай бұрын

@@waqarahmedinsisghts one thing-we are stronger than that monster or OCD. Keep in mind.

@ocdhelp 4 жыл бұрын

I recovered from OCD and you can definitely recover. Do ERP as much as possible and refuse reaction.

@shubhamrathi6891 4 жыл бұрын

Erp means

@thesoccerjunkie5433 4 жыл бұрын

Whats ERP ?

@sartajhussain3725 4 жыл бұрын

@ALI GREYMOND Is it possible to get complete recovery from ocd

@smritipandey515 4 жыл бұрын

@@thesoccerjunkie5433 exposure & response prevention

@smritipandey515 4 жыл бұрын

@@shubhamrathi6891 exposure & response prevention

@Dheerajkumar-zi3zr 4 жыл бұрын

OCD is such a bad disease that we can not express what are the thoughts we are going through. Normal people will not understand your prblm

@beawarrior2809 3 жыл бұрын

OCD can't be seen from outside . It's a bully inside your head that keep attacking u with bad thoughts and making u do things u don't want to do by giving u heavy anxiety . It's soo serious . No joke !!

@shurj6636 3 жыл бұрын

@@edwardjimenez505 Lol for me it's a voice that acts like a psychopath so It gets more disturbing every year so it's hard for me🥲 Edit: I can't hear it though, it's like an internal voice

@beawarrior2809 2 жыл бұрын

@@shurj6636 r u ok ?

@user-mx8ql5ic2q Жыл бұрын

While sitting with uncertinty while felling body sensation and urges are compulsion

@nkinyori 4 жыл бұрын

Very well explained :) It's funny how so many people suffer in silence around the world and yet we think we are all alone :(

@mosesmaina3272 3 жыл бұрын

Hey...crazy to see a Kenyan here

@nkinyori 3 жыл бұрын

@@mosesmaina3272 lol, we are everywhere 😅

@mosesmaina3272 3 жыл бұрын

@@nkinyori Great to know there is someone close we can reach out to when our minds are running wild on us :-)

@Pratiksalve1508 2 жыл бұрын

Inner me broken because of ocd

@humayrajannat6233 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah! I also thought that i am alone,even my family's words sound like that to me

@leed2883 2 жыл бұрын

Ocd produces the worse thoughts imaginable about the people and things you love. Forcing the compulsion because you cannot risk it. Complete respect for this guy.

@karenl8694 4 жыл бұрын

This is the best video of OCD I have EVER seen. You know exactly what we are all going through

@thesoccerjunkie5433 4 жыл бұрын

Yes it is . I have intrusive thoughts and diagnosed with ocd but meds dont help.

@ParkerPlays2005 3 жыл бұрын

@@thesoccerjunkie5433 try erp therapy, cbt therapy and meditation.. hope it’ll work

@garrethenderson9695 Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@GrowthWisdomKnowledge 9 ай бұрын

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@turzokhan2701 2 жыл бұрын

Almost 90% teenager have this worst disease OCD. I am a sufferer since last 5years. I know now i am in the higher stage in ocd,sometime i feel like to leave this earth. I need help but i can't tell anybody about those worst thought that come in my mind.But this vedio helped me a lot. Love from Bangladesh ❤🇧🇩

@kkth161 2 жыл бұрын

Even i can't tell this to my parents... only my sister knows.....i am not able to study properly

@V7B817 Жыл бұрын

@@kkth161 Exactly same

@V7B817 Жыл бұрын

@@mirhadi5453 not good

@preetiyadav5513 2 жыл бұрын

Whenever such thoughts pops up.just say to yourself..I can't do anything about it. Everything is mortal.

@hadassahmatase5112 Жыл бұрын

Suffering OCD since 14 years old and now I am 31 with a husband and son. A secret nobody knows just me and God and you (beacause ur reading this 😊) Our mind is the battlefield, it's so exhausting, stressful and frustrating. People with OCD live a different kind of normal. We keep on doing weird things to relief our fears .. do the compulsions all over again and again .. the cycle never stops. We can't sleep if we don't so these compulsions . I want to get back to the years where it all started.

@mahmoonie4262 Жыл бұрын

Hello lady I’m 18 I really wanna stop it and live a normal life so can you tell me how could you deal with this? How could you ignore it and just be normal? You know what I mean I’m just tired Thanks for reading ❤

@anuaethera Жыл бұрын

Stop doing the compulsions please, thats the only way out, focus on things that matter like getting a work done, cleaning, listening to music etc. overtime brain learns from your deeds and ocd thoughts begin to fade away, I did it and I can confidently say Recovery is possible! Pl research Jeffrey Schwartz books, esp his 4 R’s framework for curing ocd, it works! The anxiety is going to shoot up when u stop doing compulsions but u have to be strong, coz eventually that anxiety subsides too

@mahmoonie4262 Жыл бұрын

@@anuaethera Hi I’m really thankful for answering! Yes you are right the only way is to stop doing the compulsion but you know it’s not easy because if I wanna stop them then suddenly a what if comes an ruin basically everything and every single task that I’m about to start that obsessive thought comes to my mind. I know I have to be strong and stop doing the compulsions is the only way out so wish me luck 💚

@anuaethera Жыл бұрын

@@mahmoonie4262 yes OCD will send you anything to get your attention, just treat it like some dogs barking, do not pay attention. The anxiety is gonna go really high let me tell you when u stop the compulsions but dont give in, and it might even take weeks to months to get better coz you are teaching your brain a new way to behave, but be patient and be strong, you can do it 💪

@mohammedbasheer2860 4 жыл бұрын

I HAVE ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION , BUT NOW I UNDERSTAND IT IS FROM OCD

@helloboi1326 Жыл бұрын

Everyone will recover soon 😃 and will Happy life forever ❤️❤️❤️

@vishalthiyagarajan7276 4 жыл бұрын

Being an OCD person i really see him as an inspiration. ERP is good but combined with CBT it would be super effective(just helped me a lot in my life).The worst thing is that people wash their hands and clean their room and say they have OCD but you know OCD IS MORE THAN THAT.

@jiteshshukla1050 3 жыл бұрын

How you treated your ocd ,have you takem any medicines pl tell

@vishalthiyagarajan7276 3 жыл бұрын

I consulted a very good psychiatrist and i have been taking meds for past 4 years. Find a good psychiatrist and take CBT sessions regularly with the doc.

@jiteshshukla1050 3 жыл бұрын

@@vishalthiyagarajan7276 are these med are expensive coz nowday am financialy weak thats y hav asked and not hav psychiatrist at near by locality if u can tell me it will be helpful

@vishalthiyagarajan7276 3 жыл бұрын

Meds differ for each persons...only doctor can say which meds to take. My meds are not expensive anyway becoz i took only very mild medication.

@jiteshshukla1050 3 жыл бұрын

@@vishalthiyagarajan7276 does meds really helps ? Is it take long time to shuw the effrcts ?

@elliotblakey4000 Жыл бұрын

OCD is one of the most brutal disorders anyone can go through, first hand experience from this terrible illness

@rahulpagidimarri4677 4 жыл бұрын

Guys I recovered from Ocd, just be courageous it is very important, and never do compulsions ur brain tells to do don't listen to it, take deep breath and do other work, never ever think of it again, if ur compulsion reason is high then think and do compulsion of not doing compulsion it helps to some extent, but don't ever try to do compulsions if u dont do compulsions u can recover easily, have courage and sit in sunshine for 15-30 mins(for serotonin) and read books, I read bhagavatgita it helped me a lot do read it ,u will get some courage(u can find it online ) in that god says to fight and gives u courage to fight and says many more things about mind, keep ur self busy don't think too much and do the work more and also exercise and don't respond to your thoughts

@bilalrather5073 3 жыл бұрын

Bhai mera ph no ha ek bar muj se baat kr le ma Zindagi brr tere lie duaey kruga Bhai apna choota Bhai smj le 🙏

@bilalrather5073 3 жыл бұрын

Mera ph no 8825068566

@rahulpagidimarri4677 3 жыл бұрын

bro I've already told u everything ,read the 1st comment each and everything in it, it helps do apply all , Try all of that for next 2 months and see the changes its magical 1)do exercise a lot 2 )keep yourself busy by doing work 3 )never ever do compulsions for obsessions (don't respond to your thoughts) 4)read books like bhagavtgita and courageous books 5)dont think and analize too much 6)also try affrimations such as I'm health and I will get positive thoughts Try these for 2 months u will be fine Be courageous all the best bro

@ko-kf2nu 3 жыл бұрын

Bro is ocd thoughts are real being it extreme or normal?Or is it just an unrealistic thought?

@rahulpagidimarri7332 3 жыл бұрын

@@ko-kf2nu dont think do your work

@arunarawatigimath3521 4 жыл бұрын

Pain, suffering only those will know who have ocd I tooo know pain I have ocd

@vipergum7545 4 жыл бұрын

yes sir from lower kindergarten i am suffering this and

@gullalaikhan2930 Жыл бұрын

OCD Have Destroyed my life Completely from last 5 Years 😥

@shrutibora7691 5 жыл бұрын

Nicely explained. I have OCD, and I have a long way to go, but whatever improvements I've brought in my life, is all because of will power. We need to have faith in ourselves, we need to be confident and we must remember that we can't let OCD take control. Will power is everything. We will have to find the strength to fight it. The strength, the power all lie within us, we have to train our minds to not get carried away by those disturbing thoughts. We are not alone, there are thousands of people affected by OCD. Everyone's fighting their own battles. We just need to have faith that everything's going to be okay.😊

@cristinasanny8504 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks! For sharing your experience.. Apna purana ocd thoudht yaad aayga..those days were very disturbing... Apart from all..1 thought is very annoying i.e srf mujhe hai..or saari zindagi jhelna padega.. Can You help out?

@altamashmuhammadi2292 3 жыл бұрын

@@cristinasanny8504don't worry I will help u in getting rid of it...Contact me 9125215585..Have faith

@arnavraj6131 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😇🙏🏻

@right..5651 Жыл бұрын

Amen brother/sister ❤✝️🙏

@johnnybravo3612 2 жыл бұрын

“That’s what OCD does to you.” Such powerful words that those of us who suffer or have suffered can relate to.

@soniagirdha5515 2 жыл бұрын

U can try Vishal pahwa standing meditation.. Heard many persons got recovered .

@davidredpath4781 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been fighting OCD for fifteen years. I’m talking about debilitating OCD. Not the type of OCD where everything is neat and clean. It has taken A LOT of hard work to overcome my challenges, but it is not impossible. There is always hope! This guy hit the nail right on the head! Well done, sir!

@missalex2718 2 жыл бұрын

As someone who suffers, you could have more awareness than to continue spreading the narrative of “neat and clean.”

@davidredpath4781 2 жыл бұрын

@@missalex2718 we all have our own idiosyncrasies. I was just stating that my OCD is not about being neat and clean.

@Isabela-ex8hk 2 жыл бұрын

David, May I ask what type of OCD you struggle with?

@davidredpath4781 2 жыл бұрын

@@Isabela-ex8hk Hello Isabela, The type of OCD that I deal with has been hypochondria for a long time and it has been very challenging to deal with but progress has been made. A lot of individuals with OCD don’t know how to implement coping skills into their daily life. I was one of them until I told myself that this will not control my life. They are just thoughts.

@mirror7900 4 жыл бұрын

100% true first time have seen someone explaining something perfectly

@stephloey6224 2 жыл бұрын

I laughed so hard and cried because I thought all my life that I was alone, I do a lot of the things he describes, a great relief in my heart, thank you so much now I know it can gat better God bless you sir

@ambitiousqueen4025 3 жыл бұрын

I am also one of those who is suffering from this, all those who are suffering from OCD, please try to understand that nothing is bigger than you, all legends have won their battles alone so never get feared with anything, life is not a straight line but a road with many adventures. Second let go of anything you are attached to, practice detachment wherever possible, it's not that easy at the beginning but can be acquired after regular practice. Do mantra chanting which calms down your mind. I am doing all this to get rid of this illness. Thank you.🙏🙏

@vipergum7545 4 жыл бұрын

i am living with ocd and i was completely shattered at one pont of time i have become very very very strong emotionally now there were times i used to breakdown but as soon as i heal i will become a brain made of diamond solid matter

@nateoberfoell9364 3 жыл бұрын

I'm the same way man. I've become almost too strong, and I have my moments where I break down, but I bounce back and become even stronger. It's a blessing and a curse, but I'm overall happy I'm here with it, it's matured me and changed my perspective on emotions and life as whole🤟

@AtulKumar-kt6ox 3 жыл бұрын

😀😀 i agree with both of uuu i also strong with mind aaj jo hun gjb hun alg level pe hun :sala samjh accha h ki khraab...bahut roya pal pal mra lekin bahut gjb personality devlope kiya

@user-dt3fx5cw2o 3 жыл бұрын

u got it ik u will make a way out of it (im an ocd patient too i understand)

@vipergum7545 3 жыл бұрын

@@user-dt3fx5cw2o stop gapping brother

@shurj6636 3 жыл бұрын

Lol same it's because (too gory to say so if you want you can click read more:) Because for me it's like a voice that told me to do things or it would somehow kill my family or me. At first I never believed it when I first got it 10 years ago but it would then make my brain feel like it was emitting some next dark waves. Eventually it became kind of like a psychopath and forced me to imagine my family dying by exactly what it says. I used to watch a lot of gory and twisted scenes or anime to get stronger mentally, but I didn't know my OCD voice would become so disturbing. For example, it would tell me to imagine my family being killed by a trap in the movie "saw", then the killer disects their organs and puts it on a plate and decapitated them and put nails on their mouths to make them all smile very creepy like, and then puts them in an oven. I used to cry everyday from this because I love my family so much, but it tells me to imagine this to save them. It's so cruel... it makes me imagine the sounds, the screaming, and I can't take it... I've gotten used to seeing things in darker subjects but I can never get over something like that happening to my loved ones. I feel like it's twisted personality is affecting me... like I'm turning into him overtime... but at least I get mood swings now so when I'm with my family I'm happy. But darn OCD I used to be such a kind guy and now it just makes me say "damn you" to it and I'm always angry. Dammit Edit: lol sorry I vented too much

@robinsvantony 5 жыл бұрын

OCD gives u a lot of negativity .

@okeylokey 4 жыл бұрын

But after controlling it, you can not be negative in even roughest of situations of your life ❤❤

@RajeshKumar-wr1wx 4 жыл бұрын

@@okeylokey it is gift after curing

@okeylokey 4 жыл бұрын

@@RajeshKumar-wr1wx exactly ❤❤ its upon us weather we convert it into blessing or curse 🙏✌

@ShubhamSingh-hz2np 4 жыл бұрын

According to a study.. OCD hmesa intelligent ko hoti h

@Rack-Aid 4 жыл бұрын

Is it bad I enjoy the negative thoughts I have

@dikshitreddy2707 Жыл бұрын

Give him a standing ovation 🎉

@kgosiT7 3 жыл бұрын

This guy really explained OCD perfectly well, best video of OCD I've ever watched. Very helpful

@eyar0608 9 ай бұрын

I am not diagnosed by OCD but I am really sure I Have this 😢 all symptoms are in. And this gave me anxiety every single hour and day.

@femirfemir6948 3 жыл бұрын

I am suffering from ocd from the past 12 years and this vedio is so damn relatable that it makes me cry every single time

@arimassuh6294 2 жыл бұрын

How are you now?

@gaurinandana8771 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! only a person suffering from ocd can understand another who has ocd.each and every line ,so relatable

@Timepass-jd9it 2 жыл бұрын

I can really help u , mujhe bhi ocd tha pehle har type ka hand washing , god related , counting , negative thoughts , mene 16 ki age mai medications start ki and now i'm 17 and really almost(90%+) completely fine , i m just left with one obsession that is i really get confused and brain fogged while talking to girls , we can connect if u want , my girls exposure will also increase and i may even also help u that how i managed my ocd and could tell u about my medications i took.

@syedjafferimam5789 5 жыл бұрын

This video will do the world of good for me. Thanks Jay, you're amazing. I am facing some severe anxiety and OCD for several months now. Panic attacks are really scary but i am working on my will power with just homeopathy medicines and meditation. Wish everyone around the world all the best who are suffering with such situations which our society take as joke only. Stay strong guys!

@poojap4523 5 жыл бұрын

i m also suffering from ocd...

@user-ie1fg5ig5e 4 жыл бұрын

@@poojap4523 stay strong,never feel guilty or crazy..good luck🤝

@ashishkumar-rd8jg 4 жыл бұрын

Does homeopathy work

@user-ie1fg5ig5e 4 жыл бұрын

@@ashishkumar-rd8jg my friend, homeopathy work's..i am suffering from this beast'ive choose too many paths,and the legit one is homeopathy..i am practicing this 2 years.This period i am confident,and fight really hard.When an intrusive thought is coming,i ignore this thought and after a 15minute high pressure just stops!!! It's a habit of overthinking..overthinkink creates anxiety,and anxiety creates the ritual's..Ignore it again and again..and say to yourself that you cant die from this pressure'its not real!!!yes homeopathy work's..ive ocd 9 year's..its a long experience...and remember,not to use red line pill's for anxiety,and keep a distance from People,who stress you

@user-ie1fg5ig5e 4 жыл бұрын

Use everything from mama nature..just find a shop with herb's.. pill's are pill's..real homeopathy means herb's and not afraid to ingone the thought..when the temptation of rituals insults you keep walking🙂

@nayabkhanillkhan7040 10 ай бұрын

🙌🙌🙌👌👌 ‘I have OCD but OCD does not have me’

@santanusan9524 2 жыл бұрын

Challenge accepted...never give up.

@akshaypatil8215 Жыл бұрын

Watching this video is feeling like I myself is speaking, about the things which I am suffering daily from past 12 years…..No normal person can realise that what we have to go through every single minute of the day.

@gaurizarekar3008 5 ай бұрын

So true

@AlexiLexi111 2 жыл бұрын

Great talk. Ppl seem to think ocd is a fun trend. It’s instead exactly what u said it is. Very very painful.

@tapaisikder8421 2 жыл бұрын

OCD is a bad bad thing. I have been suffering for almost 20 years. For the last five years I have changed couple of doctors. Before that I did not even know about OCD. OCD destroys my whole life.

@alunmorgan2352 Жыл бұрын

I've had OCD since I can remember, maybe 5. I'm now 52 and it's still not been diagnosed. It takes me about 15 minutes before I can get into bed due to doing pointless irrelevant habits that I know won't change a thing, and yet, even though I know this I still have to do it or something bad will happen. Until the last few years I thought no one was the shame.

@sp-ye7ht 4 жыл бұрын

It takes courage to address & acknowledge in public platform that one suffers from the disease, but I am glad u overcame it. U are really courageous. May God give the same courage & will power to all those others suffering from this to cure themselves.

@emgoodluck416 5 жыл бұрын

Currently going through behaviour therapy for my ocd. It’s so hard, especially because of how bad it is now. I’ve had it for over 10 years and I’m nearly 19.

@hectorramirez9889 5 жыл бұрын

Do something you love. If you have anything to focus on, find it. My OCD was ridiculous it was all over the spectrum but i found peace through god. I started to read the bilbe and use it as my code of conduct and everything started to make sense. Trust I was never religious to began with but i found peace through it.

@syedsuhaibarshmalik1358 4 жыл бұрын

You'll be fine. You're not alone.

@cristinasanny8504 4 жыл бұрын

@@syedsuhaibarshmalik1358bass!! Isiliye toh yaha aana hota hai.. Ki koi yeh kehde..ki U are not alone So calming!! Thanks!

@martinw245 3 жыл бұрын

Emily... I'm 62. Had it since 8 years old. 54 years of OCD. Trust me... exposure therapy works. You WILL make a breakthrough and get you OCD under control. You can't cure it but you can prevent it from controlling you. Exposure therapy enables you to lead a normal life and relegates OCD to a minor issue.

@AA-cy9ib 3 жыл бұрын

I had ocd since childhood (around 5-6 years). Infact I don't remember any part of my life without OCD. It's changes from but it's present. After 20 , I have more mental ocd than physical one. I find it more difficult to control as my compulsion is mental too. The guy above is talking about the mental one and it's really terrifying as I can spend hours and hours stuck in loops of thought. I hate it when people make fun of OCDs

@aleenasaha986 Жыл бұрын

Nice to see an Indian person talk about ocd

@joydeepdas8732 Жыл бұрын

I have OCD and I think this is horrifying problem who faced it they know very well how pathetic it is . My suggestion for those who have OCD please go for treatment specially you need a good clinical psychologist who understands your problem please don't seat in room with this problem. I'm sure you will definitely win this battle and live a happy life 🙂

@heididaniel1539 4 жыл бұрын

This is they key for me. I have severe OCD I had to label it then give it up by not paying attention to or feeding it. Did that by ignoring it and doing nice things for others. I stopped calling others for reasurrance. I thought I was going to die when I stopped.feeding the OCD. It was so uncomfortable. But more practiced I would get these moments of being Free from OCD. I wore a watch and said ok I am not going to feed the OCD for 1 minute. Allot of practice. OCD never goes away but Its a liar and I ignore the liar. This talk really works!!!!

@ragsaroramaxii6175 3 жыл бұрын

Symptoms are almost same for everyone. But thoughts are different. Hence it is big disease.

@agarwalankit935 3 ай бұрын

It's better to conquer yourself than winning a thousand battles.

@urcomprehend6660 3 жыл бұрын

He is a man whom I feel truly understand ocd

@user-ls5in8ym1v 5 жыл бұрын

This is the best video on OCD in you tube

@nicholastan3211 3 жыл бұрын

One of the greatest OCD talks I've ever come across. As a university student who suffered severe OCD since the age of 13, I feel reassured and calmed as I'm not the only one going through this disorder. Thank you for the presentation.

@gavinduggan1147 3 жыл бұрын

Great great talk and great man. Thank you

@preyalgargav3131 3 жыл бұрын

Beautifully expressed!❤❤

@jamelmiller6591 3 жыл бұрын

This video is so helpful. When I’m going through this horrible thing that’s ruining my life.

@sehlengetohda 3 жыл бұрын

I am also fighting with ocd and one that is helping me out is a book name "Brain Lock" by Jeffrey Schwartz. First I also thought how can a book help me to fight against ocd but fortunately it is helping so please i request you to atleast give a try. And All the best

@blitzanks7533 2 жыл бұрын

“Ya it will never leave u “ this line is true Back in 2018 i was in kota prepareing for iit jee exam ocd hits me on 31dec many voilents thoughts came and shattered my whole believe system I couldn’t sleep always thinking repetitive thoughts my exam was on 12 Jan i somehow gave the exam I gathered my self up for next mains which was in april ocd was reduced i got my own ways keeping u busy doesn’t help u have to do more like I always thought that i have to live because my of my parents they love me and i love them I can’t risk anything for them and with some more effort i gave my advance in may 2018 i cleared jee went to iit bhu I thought everything will be fine now but after 2sem lockdown started and it again came woth much more venom but still i am fighting and every day i wake up with the fact that one day at a time today i will be free from it just for today so it works sometimes but after 2-3 weeks again it goes to low but i used to focus on just 3 lines “Time heals everything “ “U r not unique every 1 in 10 has the problem “ “U will never getting rid of it if u think u will get rid of it ,it always be with u u can just add or multiply this there is no division or subtraction so only think u can do is replace it with positve thougths”

@foujdaars Жыл бұрын

Good ... I don't have ocd but sad. I also have somewhat perspective towards my illness.

@phillipwarrioryt960 Жыл бұрын

Hey bhaiya can I talk to U?

@anandkh3612 11 ай бұрын

Try yoga with a proper guidance

@amanbhaskar_18 2 жыл бұрын

This is totally relable my current situation...I am also suffering from OCD and fighting with them and I have believe one day I recover it...Thanku 😍😍🥰🥰😊😊😌

@vineetasomani9616 3 жыл бұрын

Thanku so much Jay sir.

@iamtherealslimshady7296 3 жыл бұрын

I am having this disorder and I know that it is not permanent never was and never will be. Love and Strength to all my fellow viewers

@amarjeetsharma7359 5 жыл бұрын

I can totally relate to you sir this is a worst thing to deal with such a terrible thing .

@christinasmith1199 2 жыл бұрын

You are amazing. Thank you!

@hgraphicspro 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much brother😘

@sarahmadlahuddin2548 2 жыл бұрын

As a person suffering from OCD, this video gave me ease and comfort.. thank you so much sir for sharing your story 🤍

@Timepass-jd9it 2 жыл бұрын

can really help u , mujhe bhi ocd tha pehle har type ka hand washing , god related , counting , negative thoughts , mene 16 ki age mai medications start ki and now i'm 17 and really almost(90%+) completely fine , i m just left with one obsession that is i really get confused and brain fogged while talking to girls , we can connect if u want , my girls exposure will also increase and i may even also help u that how i managed my ocd and could tell u about my medications i took.

@adventureinn278 5 жыл бұрын

Sincere thanks

@maxsjj3482 2 жыл бұрын

man this guy nailed it thank you

@diangpreosimandal7401 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

@markferraro5250 4 жыл бұрын

great video Jay i can relate so well

@abhitech3760 4 жыл бұрын

Somewhat realistic presentation, got emotional while hearing because no one can understand not even Doctors and forget about family understanding. Some people will even laugh at you if they know your situation. -Abhijit Kumar Singh

@johnorkutcopero8656 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Graylegs 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this, dude

@OmkarSingh-jt3tq 5 жыл бұрын

congrats for you sir such brave thing u does get out ur self from it. I m also suffering from ocd since 4-5 month its like a monster in side my mind ..

@MukeshKumarAus 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent.

@babinaranjit7628 4 жыл бұрын

So perfectly explained👍

@ThisMichaelBrown 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, great talk and brave individual! Kudos

@yambungcalligraphy3278 4 жыл бұрын

Amazing u are...

@pawansidhu646 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for raising awareness about ocd

@KB-ps7fo 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sir.

@ayushgupta5391 3 жыл бұрын

How well explained sir... That's it

@varunbhalla7855 2 жыл бұрын

GREAT VIDEO MAN! Thank you so much for the tips, i have OCD and trust me those who don't have it are very lucky. I guess life is'nt that complicated that we try to make it, instead of improvement of ourselves when solutions are vastly available we still keep overthinking our problems and useless things. To all fighting this demon with me, all the best guys don't give up we will all become free of this suffering one day. Take care

@tanishabansal5047 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you sir, this is the best video on OCD

@tapsobaolivier2633 4 жыл бұрын

So powerful

@sandeshkumar9156 3 жыл бұрын

Great and much needed information

@devikanaidu1817 5 жыл бұрын

I cannot explain this in words how this video has helped me . I am right now taking counseling sessions and this is the best thing that could happen to me . Thank you very much

@alisonwilson3419 5 жыл бұрын

Are you seeing a psychiatric ?

@devikanaidu1817 5 жыл бұрын

Hai Why r u asking that question? R u a pshycatrist?

@alisonwilson3419 5 жыл бұрын

No, I have this ocd and I wanted to know what kinda help you are getting?

@salmananwar1229 5 жыл бұрын

hi can u plz tell me frm were u takin counselling

@naveenkrishna5790 4 жыл бұрын

counseling means what they gonna give u?

@PhilippUnterreiner 4 жыл бұрын

Much respect to you (Jay) for raising awareness and talking publicly about your personal experience with OCD. Best wishes to you!

@Satsarthak 3 жыл бұрын

Thank You

@manjunathyaligar9755 2 жыл бұрын

If u have OCD please listen what ur soul saying not mind...and also faith on ourselves only and will power s more important come out by this....

@govindsingla9596 2 жыл бұрын

before today I never knew there exist a term like OCD,I just searched random stuff to cure depression anxiety on youtube and found this video, oh my god I can relate to each thing said in this video like that's what I suffer every day and thought its only me but no I didn't know it exists and called OCD, like am literally suffering from 2013 and whenever I told my parents they never took me serious.

@kollabrahmaiah8467 2 жыл бұрын

I proudly say I am ocd definitely I will recovery from as soon as this video helped me alot thanks sir I can definitely develop the positivevity

@lavuchawla2378 Жыл бұрын

You are the truest person man

@mikyhtx 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video Jay.

@ritikrizwani3709 3 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏i will always be thankful to u sir❣️❣️

@oldcollection.11 4 жыл бұрын

This video help me because after watching this video u feel that same things happen with lot's of OCD fighter ...If they can u too. Thanks for sharing ur experience . We will win ... Come-on OCD I'll show u how though I am.👊

@michaeldeglory777 7 ай бұрын

I admire this man. Great advice this man gives.

@shivashankargoud422 5 жыл бұрын

Superb speech

@chocamon4617 4 жыл бұрын

thank you! thank you so much i suffer now but i know the real me is somewhere there and i don´t want to suffer anymore.. I will do everything i can to fight OCD..

@kartiksolanki3452 4 жыл бұрын

Do u ever got violent thoughts??

@Mskaykayx3 4 жыл бұрын

I love the way you worded that. “I know the real me is somewhere there” this inspired me to give this everything i have and fight. Thank you for this comment and keep fighting!

@beawarrior2809 3 жыл бұрын

God bless u 🙏🏻 Hope u recover soon

@AbcdAbcd-uw2oy 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot..........

@vishwanathg5661 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for giving this information 🙏🏻

@guckin95 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve thought of so many words to say during this comment. My OCD intrudes even as I do so. All I can say is I thank you & pray 🤲 one day I will recover as well as everyone! Just thank you.