It’s Okay Not to Be Okay: OCD and Mindfulness | Daniel McCutchen | TEDxYouth@BeaconStreet

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6 жыл бұрын

At some point, we need to stop fighting mental illness. Medication, therapy, and coping strategies only work when we are accepting and embracing our issues. This is a concept called mindfulness, a non-judging acceptance. Applying mindfulness to mental issues like anxiety, depression, and OCD allows us to stop fighting and start thriving.
Daniel McCutchen is a freshman at Harvard University. He is the founder of a non-profit fundraising organization called Walk For The Water, raising funds for clean accessible water for people in Burundi, Africa through local 5k races in Austin, Texas. He also serves as an advisor to the Aspen Institute’s National Youth Commission on Social Emotional and Academic Development, helping to push legislation on the implementation of social and emotional learning in public education. In high school, Daniel taught a class on social and Emotional learning, teaching at-risk freshman ways to manage relationships, emotions, and goals. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@Jessknowsbestt
@Jessknowsbestt Жыл бұрын
I read somewhere that people with ocd have a wildly creative intellectual brain more so than the average person. It’s a blessing and a curse but your mind is so creative and good at picking up patterns that it can cause you fear and unease and you’re stuck in that pattern because your brain is so good at making things vivid.
@silaakkidumma
@silaakkidumma Жыл бұрын
9:26 The last line chills - I have OCD, its part of whom I am I will probably will have it rest of my life, I am ok with that.
@deewatson5075
@deewatson5075 4 жыл бұрын
I struggle so hard with OCD. Today is one of those days I feel like I can’t do this anymore, it’s so debilitating sometimes.
@retrox64games
@retrox64games 4 жыл бұрын
Same here Dee, its okay, we'll get it through it together, may I ask what your obsessions are about right now? Maybe we can compare and help each other out.
@theringadingkid
@theringadingkid 4 жыл бұрын
You can do it!! Believe :) xxx from a pure ocd sufferer
@tanaykamath1415
@tanaykamath1415 4 жыл бұрын
I feel the same,I too have OCD,'but it shall pass!',I believe in this and move ahead🙌
@ricardorodriguessilva3432
@ricardorodriguessilva3432 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong
@emilandreica7316
@emilandreica7316 3 жыл бұрын
ERP therapy+ serotonin+risperidon
@vindaaku47
@vindaaku47 3 ай бұрын
Hi guys I have ocd, with several themes, I have been dealing with it since many years but got diagnosed 6 months back. I’m in a better position now. Few things helped me quite a bit in this fight. First I know you must hear it a lot but it’s acceptance, do not fight it consciously, just let it be. Second, Is trust on yourself, ocd gives you those thoughts because you fear them, sometime it can even confuse you with physical symptoms but do no fear it let it be. Just know this you’ve been with yourself since the beginning of time and you haven’t done this till now, why would you do this now? Lastly, keep in mind ocd is a disease of doubt, so just hold your head high, when you stop paying attention to the bully it will stop bullying you but sometimes to check your strength it will bully you more to get your attention but don’t give away and keep yourself busy. Lots of love.
@Djangofox1
@Djangofox1 Жыл бұрын
Daniel was the first person I met when I moved here at 2 years old. He's been my best friend ever since. He has such a big heart and is such an inspiring leader. It's okay to not be okay. Daniel McCutchen changed my life
@ak9041
@ak9041 4 жыл бұрын
I’m amazed at what a fantastic public speaker he is for being so young. He tells his story so well.
@mattlevy914
@mattlevy914 3 жыл бұрын
He’s so loveable
@chrissylane2323
@chrissylane2323 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for such an informative talk as well as sharing your journey ‘My 19 yr old daughter suffers f ty I’m OCD, Bipolar, anxiety. Everyday she tries to defeat the monster called OCD. She is my hero
@kerrymeyer239
@kerrymeyer239 Жыл бұрын
I have suffered with this monster in my head 27 years now . Iv been on ever meds there is and even studied at UCF . I’m far worse than iv ever been. I have been suicidal for last few years . There is nothing worse than not being in control of your own thoughts.
@georgielenkov5452
@georgielenkov5452 Жыл бұрын
Stay strong! Sending light from Bulgaria!
@whimsicalproductions
@whimsicalproductions Жыл бұрын
God bless you, stay strong! I prayed for you!
@DominionMovementDotOrg
@DominionMovementDotOrg 11 ай бұрын
🤍
@ethanjohnson1812
@ethanjohnson1812 Ай бұрын
Hope you’re okay, remember, this too shall pass. Stay strong Kerry!!
@joeargenine975
@joeargenine975 5 жыл бұрын
I was so stubborn like him of refusing medication untill life has bcame a real hell!!I got medicated and all the suffering has been 85%gone forever,,,!!!
@siriolsen7805
@siriolsen7805 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone with old, please avoid cilantro! Anyone struggling please google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on Weston Price website (just google these names) And read the Cutler success stories as it really helps explain how this protocol is able to help. Just want what’s best for you. Wish you all the best!
@Amber-gy6lj
@Amber-gy6lj 4 жыл бұрын
What meditation?
@AntarikshRajkonwar
@AntarikshRajkonwar 3 жыл бұрын
Sir, are you talking about meditation or medication that is medicines prescribed by the doctors
@eddycaballero5438
@eddycaballero5438 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Daniel!
@MrJazzbluesguitar
@MrJazzbluesguitar 6 жыл бұрын
Wow. Very powerful and moving, Daniel. You're an inspiration.
@boysaretriplets
@boysaretriplets 5 жыл бұрын
So Proud of you Daniel. You are an inspiration.
@jasnafarzina2536
@jasnafarzina2536 5 жыл бұрын
Thanking this person . Cause he gives confidence to many people like me suffering with OCD.
@ashwiniparmar4907
@ashwiniparmar4907 4 жыл бұрын
Thank You for sharing your story. Thank you so much. :)
@psicologiajuridica8543
@psicologiajuridica8543 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for sharing your story and how mindful exercises are helping you!
@loam
@loam Жыл бұрын
Title of the video - is the thought I came up with myself, dealing with such problem, the thought, that helps me actually.
@Oscar40694
@Oscar40694 Ай бұрын
Thats amazing! Very inspiring.
@DhyanaaWithSaumya
@DhyanaaWithSaumya 21 күн бұрын
Great talk. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@shelbyhall5532
@shelbyhall5532 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your share I suffer with ocd and its so crippling at times so any tools I can learn I'm grateful for
@timigs
@timigs 5 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring.
@heydarovelmar
@heydarovelmar 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you
@catherinekennedy7163
@catherinekennedy7163 5 жыл бұрын
DANIEL IS MY QUEEN YAAAAA WOOOOOO
@rishikeshsarang5593
@rishikeshsarang5593 5 жыл бұрын
I m fully out of my ocd
@ashishkumar-rd8jg
@ashishkumar-rd8jg 4 жыл бұрын
How
@ashishkumar-rd8jg
@ashishkumar-rd8jg 4 жыл бұрын
Please give any tips
@shafiulabid3215
@shafiulabid3215 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations brother.... Abid from Bangladesh
@zaewu2028
@zaewu2028 4 жыл бұрын
@Ashley C face the fear... make yourself a goal lets say that you will resist the compulsions for one week from there you will see what has changed and decide what to do next
@rishikeshsarang5593
@rishikeshsarang5593 4 жыл бұрын
Do yoga and meditation.i meditated for two hours daily. Dont fight yourself.i feared phychotic and mental illness word.. now im helping others
@reedbrooks3887
@reedbrooks3887 Жыл бұрын
Perfect talk, honestly just what I needed. Just acceptance and strategies for success. While it can be interesting to peel back my obsesions when I am in an anxious place it can do more harm than good. Most of the time even after I consider an event or situation that could have triggered an obsesive thought, compulsive behavior or some anxiety I have I just end up thinking "why me" anyway. At least right now being present is much better for me and my mental.
@lukastt99
@lukastt99 3 жыл бұрын
Good stuff, thank you 🙏💙
@melaniewolf7244
@melaniewolf7244 7 ай бұрын
Awesome talk!!
@deanmorris7409
@deanmorris7409 6 жыл бұрын
Daniel, great talk, and you are a fantastic public speaker. Well done!
@siriolsen7805
@siriolsen7805 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone with old, please avoid cilantro! Anyone struggling please google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on Weston Price website (just google these names) And read the Cutler success stories as it really helps explain how this protocol is able to help. Just want what’s best for you. Wish you all the best!
@greenmoneyetgaming6770
@greenmoneyetgaming6770 6 жыл бұрын
Daniel remember me it's Jacob evaro I love your Ted talk and keep up the great work
@PinkPreppy101
@PinkPreppy101 6 жыл бұрын
You're a great speaker Daniel!! This is awesome
@siriolsen7805
@siriolsen7805 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone with old, please avoid cilantro! Anyone struggling please google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on Weston Price website (just google these names) And read the Cutler success stories as it really helps explain how this protocol is able to help. Just want what’s best for you. Wish you all the best!
@drewcalver2142
@drewcalver2142 6 жыл бұрын
You are an inspiration to me! Keep up the good work!
@danielmccutchen95
@danielmccutchen95 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Calver
@laurawallace6774
@laurawallace6774 6 жыл бұрын
Well done Daniel! I really enjoyed your talk.
@siriolsen7805
@siriolsen7805 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone with old, please avoid cilantro! Anyone struggling please google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on Weston Price website (just google these names) And read the Cutler success stories as it really helps explain how this protocol is able to help. Just want what’s best for you. Wish you all the best!
@vaporosoez
@vaporosoez 5 жыл бұрын
This was awesome! Every school should have that class and actually all of us can benefit from it in this age of constant distractions. Good job!
@beigegold
@beigegold 4 жыл бұрын
My school had it but it was poorly implemented
@saabirchaudhry2545
@saabirchaudhry2545 5 жыл бұрын
Very nice explaintion .
@siriolsen7805
@siriolsen7805 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone with old, please avoid cilantro! Anyone struggling please google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on Weston Price website (just google these names) And read the Cutler success stories as it really helps explain how this protocol is able to help. Just want what’s best for you. Wish you all the best!
@reillypitzer4251
@reillypitzer4251 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel and I went to the same elementary school. Barton Hills Elementary, Austin Tx. He was two grades below me. I remember playing bball with him and his brothers all the time. Those were the days. It's crazy how he got into Harvard. Very impressive
@michaelarojas
@michaelarojas 3 жыл бұрын
Usually people who have disorders are typically intellectual beings.
@concernedhuman4559
@concernedhuman4559 3 жыл бұрын
Very well done, Daniel! This is a really fine talk. Have you read any works by Jiddu Krishnamurti or Thich Nhat Hanh (especially his short book 'Anger')? That are both brilliant spiritual persons who understand how the mind works and are tremendously helpful for people with OCD. All the best to you!
@rishikeshsarang5593
@rishikeshsarang5593 5 жыл бұрын
Maha maha maha maha maha maha maha thanx bro
@mizukunu3232
@mizukunu3232 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing video, it really taught me a lot about what im going through and how to solve it
@AA-rl1vb
@AA-rl1vb 6 жыл бұрын
I’m your fan! 🤗😎
@madhurimagupta3497
@madhurimagupta3497 2 жыл бұрын
I respect your journey and how you fought back, but honestly I don't believe in making it part of your life and be okay with it! We need to accept it and slowly be calm and patient , keep working on it getting resolved !
@theh3mpourium113
@theh3mpourium113 5 жыл бұрын
My good pal has this and I am trying to help him my other friend is trying but some afraid to listen to his compulsions and are afraid that they'll end up like him but I'm gonna recommend this video to him because it's very good he tells me he counts his footsteps and has all kinds of fears compulsive counting and other stuff but look anxiety depression on top of it id say that's part and parcel of the condition but look if I could heal him or anyone else my other friends a and I would as this is unfair to my friend who we love
@januarysson5633
@januarysson5633 3 жыл бұрын
When I brush my teeth, I think about brushing my teeth.
@theartshow2775
@theartshow2775 3 жыл бұрын
I am healing from ocd about health
@makudonarudo6727
@makudonarudo6727 3 жыл бұрын
It was just a normal day, at least for an OCD sufferer like me. I was about to sleep after a tiring day of performing my daily rituals when my mind told me that there are dusts and hair strands on the lid of the container of my newly bought paint. I didn’t hesitated to get the diy hand gloves sewed by my sister specialized for when I need to wipe something. I thought cleaning and wiping the container was just another counting of 1-2-3-4, 1-2-3, 1-2, and 1, until I realized that I was stuck in a loop again of counting. My mind tells me every time I was about to finish counting that my bare hand is touching the surface of the container and I have to repeat counting from 4 again, I was crying while doing for it’s almost half an hour and my mind is still not satisfied. That very experience is just one of the many themes and faces of my OCD. But I know that there’s hope, I believe that it’ll be hard at first but at the end of the day, all these, the sufferings and the rituals that tortures us everyday will end. Keep on fighting everyone, keep on believing that soon, this illness shall pass.
@emilandreica7316
@emilandreica7316 3 жыл бұрын
Exposure and response prevention + medicine. Try not to do the compulsions even If you feel like exploding
@concernedhuman4559
@concernedhuman4559 3 жыл бұрын
Adding to what the speaker said (and following the same vein), you might try reading a book by Thich Nhat Hanh called 'Anger'. It was a tremendous help to me. It might just be for you as well (and it's short!). It is truly a remarkable book. Good luck!
@d0ct0rteptmapsyd28
@d0ct0rteptmapsyd28 Ай бұрын
The OCD cycle sucks and mindfulness is awesome as a coping skill. I like sensory mindfulness sight, hearing, feeling, touching, smelling, be aware off those things mindfully
@JlNXED
@JlNXED 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I would of been able to take an seo class
@boysaretriplets
@boysaretriplets 2 жыл бұрын
SEL class (social emotional learning)
@franciskev4161
@franciskev4161 Жыл бұрын
❤️🔥
@whaPANYALASAISHIVANI
@whaPANYALASAISHIVANI 3 жыл бұрын
OCD draining me and my time I feel hopeless and I want to harm myself I am no more readyto
@concernedhuman4559
@concernedhuman4559 3 жыл бұрын
If you can, please see a doctor and tell him or her about your compulsions and thoughts. Millions of people have the same thing, the same compulsions and thoughts. The right medication will help you to relax so that you can think more clearly. If you have no money, there are clinics in most towns that are sometimes free or they charge on a sliding scale because you have little money. You might try reading a book by Thich Nhat Hanh called 'Anger'. It is short and was a great help to me and might be a great start for you. Good luck!
@ChildishName
@ChildishName 3 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@katecasey92
@katecasey92 6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@Ma-tu2jd
@Ma-tu2jd 3 жыл бұрын
Hello, thank you for your video, but actually you don’t have to live with it, you can completely get rid of it with aggressive erp work because it all comes down to rewiring your brain and neuroplasticity
@dudesalegend2356
@dudesalegend2356 Жыл бұрын
"You Are Not Your Brain" the mind can overcome the OCD monster with ERP therapy
@bk24682
@bk24682 7 ай бұрын
Do u cured ur ocd
@IBRAHIM_990_SUBSCRIBE
@IBRAHIM_990_SUBSCRIBE 2 жыл бұрын
Memory boosting tablets help in OCD.
@GSquid92
@GSquid92 Жыл бұрын
How to do that without therapist
@messpilo
@messpilo 2 ай бұрын
My ocd does not allow me to get a diagnosis. So I can not see a doctor.
@Stella-ei4fj
@Stella-ei4fj 5 жыл бұрын
I wanna know how he got rid of it
@i2pjd6hRw5P
@i2pjd6hRw5P 4 жыл бұрын
Mindfulness and meditation. I started a few weeks ago and it's already helping me so much. I use the app "Waking Up" but it's not for everyone, so try different apps or even go to an in-person mediation class.
@second5952
@second5952 2 ай бұрын
erp and cbt... rewiring your brain is the solution
@numamaheswarimaheswari5481
@numamaheswarimaheswari5481 2 ай бұрын
Hi I am a ocd patient I have taken tablets for 20 years now I am OK I have a son 17yrs old he is in nit hostel he was suffering for ocd 2yrs he was taking tablets but he was not well he has a compulsion behaviours like when he was studying a book he noticed the dots commas brackets he can't go out from room to canteen because he saw a uncleaned floor deeply and taking baths many times likewise many things he was suffered any solutions for this please we are from India in tamilnadu here no availability of erp therapy give good solutions for my son I want him to recover please please please It's my humble request
@jagadesan3134
@jagadesan3134 2 жыл бұрын
Hi
@majnukhan6690
@majnukhan6690 Жыл бұрын
Lol, there is a k-drama named "Its oaky to not to be oaky😅"
@Ma-tu2jd
@Ma-tu2jd 3 жыл бұрын
Have you tried erp
@redkin4743
@redkin4743 3 жыл бұрын
Is not ok to be not ok
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