OK let me call him and see if he can get it to it to be a good time for me to get yryrrryrrry

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Those words are more powerful than any gesture of love!!

Awwweeee

And, then she probably says, "that's a great compliment, but no thanks."

he's not in love with her in the conventional sense, but he feels that she is a good person to be with under the circumstances

@@aa-jm7js 😂

Marrying your best friend is one of the best things to do, you already have to much compatibility and will always be there for each other regardless.

That’s probably one of the best things you could do tbh.

How do arranged marriages look? Please enlighten me!

They might be childhood friends. That happens alot in old arranged marriage since parents want to partner they're child to a family they're close with.

@@seraby7151 I thought she was from Singapore and he's from India? They met because her sister in law's sister knew him?

That's the mind set I remind myself to be in for when I get into a romantic relationship/marriage. I we can like each other but are we compatible? Will we take care of each other? And can we trust each other?

Yup. Love is a choice we make every day, especially when the feelings aren't there.

Well said! They were all actively working to get the marriage to work, not bailing on the other on the first obstacle they encounter.

I guess cause marriage is a promise and love is a commitment

“The warmth and butterflies” is a western concept.

The way they lean towards each other. I found so cute!

That was so cute, I died. also, 1K liker~ c;

proud to say that I was the 1000th like

The goals is if she said that she will marry the same person in next life. Come on now

Cuz its rare to find a girl that will not demand all she wants. She is very greatful on what his husband could give.

Focal Crowd ❤️❤️❤️

preach

Many think that 2 of them are one of the same thing

yohanieca joseph they wouldn’t make a video about forced marriage

@@joeheller7581 and if they do they wouldn't romanticize it

Prosecutor what does that mean tho?

i want to eat your socks That he doesn’t really give her gifts.

He said he wants to marry her in another life if it exists, like that alone is more romantic than any blade of grass or bouquet of flowers.

He was so sweet to her in every answer. Tolerating how much she speak for 40 years is a talent.

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That is because they brought people who fell in love; where are those who did not? Oh wait those are forced marriages which will shutter the illusion here.

Deus Ex Machina imo it’s easy to fall in love with anyone really,, As long as you don’t feel forced to do it & you accept them the way they are, you’ll eventually find everything abt them their precious to you,, These people gave their consent to their marriage so they weren’t forced into it & they never expected anything grand from one another,, All they know is that they should always care for one another and their dynamics just worked bc of that

Deus Ex Machina no the ones that didn’t work divorced. All these people had the CHOICE to stay or go and they CHOSE to stay. It’s arranged because they didn’t go out find this person and say - “Hey I wanna marry him!” but they had the CHOICE to say no.

@@xalxvx consent and arranged marriage do not go hand in hand

@@kadejamckinzie3 still this is very much one-sided as only those who are happy are interviewed. what is the ratio of divorce to happy couples in arranged marriages? there are couples who cannot divorce due to tradition, pressures or responsibilities. traditional relationships are tricky as it is so excuse me if I do not buy into this.

I was literally thinking the same thing! They glowed up!

They also have beautiful chemistry

I think money did this for them, they both seem very highly educated.

The Indian man looks so good with the beard and glasses

Raerae IKR! They look even better today! They look beautiful... so full of love and happiness!

It is a culture matter ... Chinesse don't praise too much their children neither, nor brag about themselves . She is clearly into him and he is into her no matter what .

old times. The 1 child policy children are all spoiled brats.

as they say “ say say only “ she needs him more than she care to admit “

I think theyre taiwanese ://

She never said he a bad guy. But is an okay guy. And you can feel comfortable around an okay guy.🤷‍♀️

best advice ever

petty ass kids wont understand this. they think the world should change for them. cant stand these kinds of people.

Definitely not the best advice ever -_- ....Sometimes no matter how much you change, it's never going to work. Following that advice kept me in a relationship with someone who was cruel to me for quite some time. I kept telling myself that "it takes two to tango" and "when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change" - advice like that. I'm not saying it isn't good advice sometimes, but simply being determined to make things work, and accepting responsibility for everything under the sun because you have high expectations for yourself, but not others, is not going to work for you if you get snatched up by someone who is controlling and wants to use your morality against you. Be careful who you date. A bad person can have a terrible affect on not only your self-esteem, but on your physical health. Luckily, I got out of my relationship much more quickly than some women. Other women I've talked to have serious health issues as a result of chronic stress and depression, and they can't get their health back. Here's the lesson I've learned. Always take responsibility for yourself, and seek to change and grow. Be a good person, trust in others, and be honest. But give the other guy three serious strikes. If someone repeatedly proves to you that they don't deserve your compassion, support, and your willingness to change for the sake of the relationship, and if they don't demonstrate the same in return, then you need to be very firm with yourself and leave. No excuses. No looking back. No "I just need to try harder" or "I just need to wait this out because once x happens we'll be happy". There's a lot of canned advice like that which ended up not working for me in the long run. There's some truth to all of it, but insofar as I've seen, none of it is universal.

Its missing a part. You gotta change but for yourself, because you want to grow and be better not for your partner.

@@AK-jt7kh the same happened to me but not in that extreme level. Some things just don't work. And trying to change yourself to make it work sometimes just hurts you and even the other person

Thanks for this comment. Really appreciate it🧕🏾

My grandmother on my mum's side is 18 years younger than my grandfather. Their relationship is so beautiful and he has so much respect for her. I thought huge age gaps were unacceptable until I learned about theirs and I'm glad now that i have good example in my life.

My parents are 17 years apart! And they're happy.

How lovely!

Naimah Khan As long as one side isn't underaged, is should be fine. Two people can still love each other if they are many years apart, they just happened to be born in a different year is all.

Especially the part when she was talking about how she thinks of him when the children and grandchildren are together. So beautiful. 😢

@@nca4794 it is. a truly great example for all of us.

Anis Azziyati Juhari lol no Thanks

And look at her wedding photos, her husband is so handsome

Really? I suppose...but she talks like someone is holding a gun to her head and she looks scared and miserable. She can't stop fidgeting with her hands. I've never seen a woman her age act so timidly. Perhaps her husband was kind to her, but it seems like whoever lives with her now is probably not. I was too afraid to say anything, because it really does seem like someone abuses her. I don't want them reading the comment section and getting triggered by it.

Umi Sarah Ameen🤲🏾❤️

Ameen❤

Ameen

Goretti Ukuza Ye Jannah=heaven

@Goretti Ukuza close enough, but a good guess!! Well, heaven is like a paradise so I guess you got it right?

Hahhahaha I love the Indian couple. So cheeky

cheeky bugger! HAHA hes keeping the marriage exciting LOL

I guess you could say she ate frog meat

Beginning level? EXPERT setting

Ikr? Like what the heck lmao? Who does that???? I'm so confused lol

how do u have no comments

Vanitha Nair they scared prettipls post another roast video to roast them ma

No u Can we not bring her negativity her? Thank you!

@@iVengeancee what is this all about? Who's roasting who?

Loin king

you mean, nationalities???

maybe try ‘listening to her’ 😉 he did say in the heat of the moment he tells her to keep quiet ~

Shanaya Sarun yes that too 😂😂😂 but this one, his mother needs to take responsibility. mothers who have sons - please teach your boys that they are equally responsible for house chores and they marry to have a life partner, not servant 😂😂😂

Shanaya Sarun exactly.. yet he doesn’t or didn’t know.. 😱😱😱

she was so wise and kind too!

Beautiful ! Truly

she looked super cool too haha

Definitely because she eats nutritious meat ❤️

Me too. Seeing her there compared to the others got me all emotional.

@Hasiger Hase for the time it was enough for her and for him and they were happy and had love for eachother the woman even addressed the changes through these years she was sweet

yep

yassss

Anggie Aveneina love dis comment

I wish people simply knew this and had these traits nowadays ,ot would make marrige mich easier..

i cried while watching this, like honestly wow, deep respect, more humans like these need to exist

Anggie Aveneina Anggie Aveneina Tbh, I kind of understand why it is like that now. We've become a workaholic-culture who strives after more and more money, (therefore we work more and more hours and don't have much free time to date) so we can be stable and secure in our lifes later on (bec old people can't work). Also I feel like men and women have been divided and everything feels like we need to "one up" each other. Also people don't want longlasting relationships anymore bec = more stress and = more responsibility. I mean if I looked at it it from my perspective, I didn't want to "date" or even worse "marry" someone, bec I don't really feel secure in my own emotional lvl yet, or better worded; I don't feel like a real "grown up" yet. I don't know if I want to take the risk and date someone. I feel so overwhelmed by everything and I can't be the only one feeling like that. Also a lot people are scared of the opposite gender, either they are being "scary men who could do bad stuff" or "bad women who are gold diggers, who want to falsly accuse everyone". This world is scary and people are being more afraid of news and just everything. Everyone dislikes each other, but "flexes" at the same time bec of their new possessions. Also I feel like the new generation (the "new adults", starting at 18) are being pushed so hard, that literally all of them have that "melancholic blues" that they feel like giving up any moment (I saw a small comment section where literally 10 people were like "did you guys feel like after 2013 everything is turning more and more downwards?"). I don't even know anymore and maybe I'm being scared a lot, but god dear I hope some understands what I mean and I don't sound like a maniac.

Who ever reads this, I'm sorry and there you go with a bucket full of cookies.

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Sometimes 'talking badly' is genuine criticism. Where do you go if your spouse refuses to listen?

Bluebee Majarimenna if a couple can’t resolve issues by being understanding with each other then... they might wanna look at other alternatives.

Bluebee Majarimenna A counselor. A religious leader. A therapist. But not your families.

I mostly agree but sometimes keeping things in and dealing with anger and frustration on one's own is quite harmful as well. So if the partner refuses to listen it can be healthier for the person that is frustrated to let it out. It is probably better to talk to someone unrelated (for examples on free hotlines related to mental health and understanding) to simply vent though.

MiaØ you can definitely see that he was an awkward boy and still is.

Agree

Indian man was just joking

LOL he was a very playful man! he said it is easy to say you love someone but it is better to actually SHOW you love someone, personally i am hoping to have relationship like theres! lots of laughs and teasing between one another haha

He was clearly joking around... I hope to find a husband with this quality one day. Playing around.. Not serious all the time. Making me laugh...

vivien khoo y

He said that he doesn't know as a joke, like 'well duh!' kind of thing. He was joking throughout an entire video, for example when he said 'I am stuck with her'. He is just playful spirit. Despite what his mouth said it's basically engraved on his forehead how much he loves her.

Yep

Yan Yee Yip auntie also! Hahahaaha

Love for God teaches us to love a human the right way. And she somehow met the love of her life and even in death. May God give her more blessings. She's too loyal :')

Faris Johari right?! I don’t understand why everyone is romanticizing it in the comments and missing out of the fact this was not free choice . In just ended up in love and happy but most of the time it doesn’t so we should not give people hope that they will be as happy as them , man and women should have free choice... why they not talk about that? It’s brushed over..

@@IOPE_ ugh seriously! Wait till these people end up in a crappy marriage they can't get out of. That is if they even have a choice in the first place, so many don't.

IOPE but some of these people had the chance to decline it, and thats the difference.

@@IOPE_ Not having a choice in the matter would be forced marriage which is obviously wrong. They're two different things

@@IOPE_ arranged marriages are not the same as forced marriages. Your Parents found some nice Person introduce him/her to you and you can decide if you'll say yes or no....to it is a free choice.

This is so true! Alot of us fall into this mindset that wasnt around back then, ignoring feelings to feel independant and superior. We need to rediscover the true meaning of love as a generation and normalise patience and kindness instead of displaying our ability to be with the "richest or most successful" person

Me, a Indian , had a Chinese partner and he was the exact to the Chinese Uncle. He leaves his plates after eating..my pet peves.. And i nag and nag..he can win me with silence😂. I still remember how upset was i with him and we still had breakfast silently together.

My parents definitely had a tough time as an interacial couple. My mum is Indian and my dad is Russian. I am born in England, so I hope to not offend anyone by saying this, but I was always surprised that my Russian family was so much more accepting of their relationship than my Indian side. Still, my mum got spat on once.

@@llt6977 I'm a black person that lives in Russia and they do spit alot at me, I feel for your mother! They act like they don't care but behind your back they will say the most horrific things ever!! I hope all is well with your mother! 🙏

@@yoonginavy4967 Thank you! My mum has learnt to deal with lots over the years. I actually participate much more in Russian culture and visit every year, yet because I'm mixed-race I obviously look different and it's frustrating to be treated as inferior or to be automatically assumed to be more Asian because of my appearance (I actually ended up looking Filipina!). Best of luck in Russia, hope all is well :).

I’d like to see this too for some advice. I’m white and my boyfriend is Asian..we get stared at a lot and I’m terrified of meeting his family 💀

Wow. Something to think about.

@misuzu9254 fair point. Although as they say in this video - if you think further down the line you might divorce this person, don't get married

During those times people who married for good and practical reasons was when the age expectancy was 50 and divorce was frowned upon so how do you know those marriages were happy to begin with?

Divorce is frowned upon, atleast in India so a lot of people aren't able to get out of arranged marriage even if they wanted to

@@adela3153 life expectancy was not 50. Most ppl lived into their 70s or more But because people take into account infant mortality that bring the average life expectancy down

Everyone is asian in this video lol

Some young people do, but keep in mind that not everyone is looking for a relationship

Match making is an aged old practice that influential families still use. It’s a joke how people have made a business out of that. Consider yourself fortunate

Hi, I'm quite curious after reading your comment and would love to learn more about your arranged marriage. So, I'm trying to find individuals who are from arranged marriages and get some insights. Would you be okay answering my questions and is there anyway I could contact you?

Oooh this is such a good point! Same, when I was younger (I grew up in the US) I always thought that arranged marriages were oppressive, regressive, and backwards...I thought that the only "open-minded" belief was to promote self-chosen marriages while bashing arranged marriages, even though I didn't even understand what arranged marriages were. (I thought they were all coercive, when in fact most are just family recommendations!) I'm also glad I'm gradually unlearning my Western prejudice and actually understanding what I've always been taught to see as "oppressive."

I saw many arranged marriage tend to be made to connect family with similar life styles or practice, if not just better reputation and/or financial wise or is known to have practice that generally generates success in said co-relation. Many I met tend to have little time to find someone themselves, near end of time clock or trust their parents to try to find someone who would prioritize and take care of them especially when they are gone.

Depends on the culture I suppose

This applies for women as well. Especially women in their younger years

It doesn‘t have to. It‘s a beautiful goal to have but not everybody wants to marry and have kids.

oh it's a very popular thought. Having other people suggest who you should or should not marry is rather unpopular for obvious reasons

@@majarimennamazerinth5753 idk i want to think so but i find that most men nowadays and from what ive even see online seems to view marriage and family as oh shes going to divorce him and take his "hard earned" money..... :( sad thought

SuperDigitalDork bruh same. Maybe then they’ll give me a chance to show them who I am.

Same here...divorced and 4 kids later lol

I know right, me too

The part when she said I still remember him when I see the kids gathering.. not anphoto or sometuing physical I was tearing up too..

a love that is hard to find nowadays...

Same mine got an arranged marriage as well and saw each other for the first time when they went to sign the Marriage Papers. They fell in Love and still love each other. And it was war at that time so they escaped together which is their love story 😂😅