Over the past 2 days, we collated questions you had for our profiles on Instagram. Here are four most popular questions. Read this thread for their replies! 😇 1. How do you know your partner is the one? 2. How to have good conversations? 3. How to keep your passion/ love alive after many years? 4. Currently seeing someone but unable to progress due to lockdown... any advice?

Only an elderly Asian couple would make jokes like “I married you because you’re not handsome” and have a successful and happy marriage. GOALS.

“Excuse me... I’m not your soldier” “Ah! Right... sorry ma’am.” 😂 relationship goals

"the most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother"

The wheelchair couple is underrated. The amount of effort on the marriage must been very high. So young yet so down to earth and understanding. They are my goal.

The older couple is such a GOALLL, must be nice to be their children

0:40 “42 years married, 50 years dating.” #respect

I think what the interracial couple said about texting in arguments is really wise actually.. Most people feel like texting arguments is immature, but it also lets you take time to think everything through in a more comprehensive way instead of just shouting

As a person who’s losing interest in love, watching this video made me cry. It really feels good to see people inlove

wow the (elderly) chinese couple is so ...practical, down to earth and cool. and how the wife cares for the children and asks the husband nicely to speak to her in a loving manner to set a good role model for the children... 🥺❤️✨ i really want my future marriage to be so stable, grounded and open to communication. 🤞🏻

The vows in the end broke me man, especially the Malay couple when the guy apologised. There's more to life than material goods.

It's OK for him to forget the anniversary as long as he remembers that I am his wife - I just love that sentiment! The wedding was just one single day. The marriage is the daily relationship of love, honesty, connection and communication.

the Hindu-Catholic couple is amazing, they love each other and respect each other so much to adapt for the sake of their future.

i feel like the chinese uncle has a lot to share with the producer. He is cute haha

his advice is absolutely right, do not compare your marriage or significant other to anyone else's marriage or spouse

" we need to celebrate milestones in our lives and to tell our children that marriage is good" 🥺🥺

14:28 is my favorite part, "It can be washed off, don't worry". That just melted my heart

why i cry sia it's not even my marriage😭😭😭

my dad cheated on my mom so i didn’t believe in romantic relationships anymore but the older couple made me smile

this is REAL relationships right here. these are relationships that have been built on trust, communication, and respect. sometimes it means conflict, but it means working through conflict because they're your best friend and you wouldn't push away your best friend.

I have to say this video really changed me for the better. I honestly didn't expect to watch the whole thing but I did. I'm currently in a rough patch with my wife of 5 years in which I have two children with. I've gotten to the point several times in my head that it's over and that I'm just doing this for the kids at this point and weighing my options if i should stay or not. There are some solid pieces of advice in this video I think all married couples should hear. I didn't realize how jealous and detached from my marriage I was, always comparing my wife to other wives and wondering how much better could it be if I found someone else. While watching this video though, it really did remind me of all the reasons I love my wife and that we really can make this work. Very powerful video, I appreciate everyone involved!

"We need to celebrate milestones in our lives. And to tell our children that marriage is good. You know, ya, it's good. Look at mum and dad" 7:52 made me cry

"You can win the argument but you will lose the relationship with one another" 😍😍 so deep

"42 years married, 50 years dating." How sweet is that??

the old couple are shining with wisdom of life. They simply work things out and figure out how to make marriage better. GOLD!!

The cute chinese couple Hubby: I'm an ex-captain. I had a tendency to talk down to her. She has to remind me Wifey: "Excuse me, I'm not you soldier." Hubby: "Okay, sorry ma'am." THIS IS TOO CUTE

I like how the older couple incorporated the Love Languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, gifts, and physical touch. These show that there's more than one way to say "I love you." People often think that someone doesn't love them just because they don't say it often, but they can say it through actions ❤

The older couple is brimming with such wisdom, happiness, and hope. I hope one day when I do have a wife, my marriage is close to what they have.

My 40 year old co-worker told me, " My parents had been together for almost 45 years not because they love each other but because it's convenient to stay than to divorce." I was speechless.

" whenever i go work , i come back , she's the first thing i want to see" THIS is all we ever strive for

"Marriage is good. Look at Mom and dad".... Yep goals right there :)

Having this kind of relationship is a gift. Not everyone can have this. It takes more than love to get through marriage. It's so nice to witness these couples sharing their lives which makes me believe that love can still exist even without saying it. This is truly a blessing.

The sweetest thing I heard here this blog from guy said to his long time partner, “If God will take one of us to go home I hope HE will take me first, cause I can’t live without you”…AWWW melts my ❤️!!!

also the “so i choose you because i know nobody wants, only i am silly enough to take you” HAHA so cuteeee

In the current world where divorces are common and people don't want to get married because they don't want to be "tied down", it's great to see this. People always mention a statistic saying that 50% of marriages end in divorce, but another way to view it is that 50% of marriages are everlasting. Half empty, half full guys. OGS definitely need more subs. Thank you so much for posting this video!

I have no idea why I'm only seeing this in 2023! This was so sweet to watch. I felt so moved even though I've never been in a romantic relationship😂 . I'm 17 in 2 weeks but I'm already thinking of my future .These couples here are what I want to look like with my future husband. So sweet❤

All of the couples are so sweet and really passionate but my tears come out when the Malay couple husband apologized because he can't give a luxurious life to his family. I can relate.

Damn the Malay couple really reminded me of my parents. The husband causing financial problems and the wife being left in the shadow and the feeling of disappointment and anger when she found out about it and how he didn’t tell her. Reminded me of all the times my mom cried and how I blamed my dad for it. Really hit home. Just like the husband my dad has gotten better but we still have a lot of financial difficulties due to his past actions thats been causing a lot of stress for the entire family especially my parents. Now that I’m older I’ll do all I can to help fix our problems. Please pray for a happier future for my family 💪🏻😊

Wtf whY AM I CRYING NOT LIKE I MARRIED LOL MY LOVER HAS BEEN NON EXISTENT FOR 22 YEARS

Somehow my faith in marriage kinda restored We didn't asked for it but certainly we need it

0:55 - "I chose you because you're not handsome " 😅 2:14 - She's something I do not want to lose 3:50 - Talking down. In learning 4:30 - Security for women 6:05 - Women wanting to help 7:08 - BAAAAARRRSSSS 8:50 - Disagreements. Wife is strict. 9:55 - Walking out of the house to calm down. Texting helping. 11:00 - Raising the voice. Learning to say sorry. 13:20 - I can't live without you. ❤️ 14:40 - I love you 15:20 - LOVE IS ACTION!

Love the part by the uncle... "maybe you're right"

Thought the "can you say that all over again in a very loving voice?" phrase was a good way to calm my boyfriend down when we have an argument, until I imagine the conversation going like: Him: can you be quiet? Me: can you say that all over again in a very loving voice? Him: can you be quiet if it is not too much trouble?

This gave me an insight. My mother, who’s a converted muslim would always tell me to test, to let a man wait for years for me then to give him my “yes.” In today’s generation, love works differently. I have always opposed to my Mother’s words. Reasoning and telling her how different and better love has become compared to before and to traditional beliefs. After watching this, I realized her point of view is just the same as these people in the video. I realized how amazing and caring her advices were. I realized, I shouldn’t oppose to an idea without seeing or considering its point of view. She only wants security for me. A secured and happy marriage and I am thankful to have seen this video.

I believe love is not just a feeling but a choice honestly. It's a choice to love them everyday and each day even more. Its all about routine and habit with them as if truly they are a part of you.. May we all have our happy endings or journey, especially, these couples!

"I wish when the Lord calls me home, he calls me home first. I can say it to her right now. I cant live without you, seriously." "Can I live without her? Cannot. She plays a very important role in my heart. In my daily routines, whenever I go to work and come back the first thing I want to see is her. " I started crying at this point.

I am married and the old Chinese couple is simply #goals. I learnt A LOT from them. I cried when Jean started crying. THIS MAN IS SUCH A KEEPER!!

The husband from the elder marriage is such a character, I would love to hang out with him 🤣

“When I am called home , call me home first because I can’t live without you.” Actual tears man 😭🥺

I'm on the verge of divorce with my wife..... We have been married just over a year and we have a son. I hope I can reflect on these questions and maybe get close to what these guys have

the malay couple vow is actually like a prayer where she ends it by if god willing , amen. that is actually very sweet.

"You can win the argument but you lose the good relationship with one another" is the best best thing I have heard in a while.

All the couple's stories are so inspiring but I really love the old Chinese couple. I know the guy really loves his wife so much. The wife is a calm person while the husband has a good sense of humor. It's a good balance and has a harmonious relationship. You can see how he adores her very much. The older Malay couple is nice too. I can see her sacrifice but he never gave up on his husband.😍

omg when he apologized for not being able to provide luxurious things🙋🏾‍♀️dem allergies hit me

what i am gathering is that Singapore is a multidiverse Nation, different religions, different people, BUT SO MUCH HARMONY AND RESPECT WITHIN COMMUNITIES. AMAZING, REALLY IF ALL EARTH WAS LIKE SINGAPORE IT WOULD BE GOOD

My mom & dad met each other in HS. My mom was and still is really beautiful. She was raised in a village and since she looked mixed, a lot of guys chased after her. According to my grandparents, they’d get a lot of phone calls to the house asking about her & my grandpa would have to grab a stick and if any guy came over to the house, he’d chase them away and yell at them. A lot of guys would also try to ask her out at school, but she still rejected them all. My dad was the class president and also my mom’s classmate. They eventually became friends for years and after graduating, they started dating. Eventually, my dad went to the UK for a year to complete his bachelor’s. Then when he came back he went to work in SG. I really thought that they would break up, but nah, she still stuck around and waited for him, even when he was working for a while in SG and couldn’t contact her all the time because back then, they didn’t have a lot of money so they got by with what they could. Fast forward, they’ve been married for 25 years and my dad, let me tell you. My dad still treats my mom everyday like she’s his only queen. As for my mom, she still looks at him like he’s the only handsome guy. Like they’ll even hug in public sometimes, or I see my dad putting his arms around my mom’s waist, trying to make her smile and laugh. My siblings and I are currently in the UK for our studies and every week, we’ll get videos of the two of them doing everything together, from cooking to going out for a walk, even sending a video message. The love is so evident in their eyes that I used to be jealous of their love. But now, I’m really grateful because a lot of my friends’s parents are divorced and they tell me it’s shit. That just made me realized how lucky I am to have parents who still love each other every single day no matter the fights, the hard times & even when my siblings and I fight.

"I don't believe in anniversaries. The day I met her is the best day ever." Period!

As a newly-wed person, this is so true. Marriage is not all about romance, it's about commitment & communication. Thank you for this video ♥️🙏🏽😭

I want a separate session where only the old man is allowed to speak.

definitely a lot of gems that you can pick up from their answers..

All emotions in one video : laughing, and tears, most importantly couple lessons.

"you can win the argument bit you will lose the good relationship with one another" 👏

I'm crying like a baby. The vows did it for me, the older couples are goals!!! I know there are a lot of divorces and unhappy marriages, but mine is going to be one in a million, my marriage is going to be blessed and filled with lots of sunshine even in the storm. This video is so amazing

I LOVE the older gentleman with the green floral shirt, he is just so lovely and everytime he would talk I would find myself smiling. He seems like such a kind soul. I also liked the younger mixed race couple a lot.

Love between one man and one woman is so amazing, especially in a marriage that is divine. True love mirrors God's love for us, can be seen, experienced and reflected in a marriage. This episode makes me realize a lot of things, to communicate, to forgive, to affirm, to hold, to support, to be there and to be a listening ear. Hope to see more of such series in time to come..

7:25 "everyday we can do our anniversary" what a legend

Met my wife 2 years ago during my final year poly, when I was attached out to overseas internship in HK. 4 months into the dating and we got married. This coming August is going to be our 2 year marriage anniversary. People would think we married so fast because its a "shotgun" marriage, but we actually have no kids yet, I just graduated last year and enlisted last year and currently still serving NS. People will ask why marry so young, if it isnt a shotgun or I must be rich or she must be rich, and I would just tell people the reason is Love. Me and my wife has an age gap of 5 years, different nationality, and despite all the differences, we are still together after 2 years. Do we fight? Yes , but at the end of the day, I would rather lose the fight, than losing her. And no I don't agree couples fight to understand each other better ideology, I personally think fighting create more problems. Instead of fighting, learn to communicate well, make sacrifices. Remember, love is unconditional , don't let society judge when or who you should fall in love with or eventually end up marrying. Let the reason be love. True love, from within the heart. Unconditional Love. Especially in Singapore, don't assume you have to BTO, have degree and other "qualifications" or "rights" to get married. Heck, you don't even need to host a grand wedding. In the end, it's you and your spouse. Thank you for this video, it really voiced out what unconditional love truly is.

3 years on this video still creates meaning because companionship and love is timeless. we need more videos like this! =)

Not to exaggerate but I was watching this late at night on my bed, and had to walk up my shelf to get a towel to wipe away all those tears rolling down. This was too beautiful

Props for choosing a variety of non-typical couples!! There's probably an advice or two in this video that's applicable to everyone :)

Aww the Muslim couple too🥺🥺 the fact that he gives his all just to make his wife and kids happy is everything. May allah bless him❤️

3:31 search a man who look at you like this even after 50 years together.

My parents just celebrated their 24th wedding anniversary and my father is in the last stage of cancer and will leave us by the end of this year, so they won't get a 25th silver wedding anniversary next year, he is already paralyzed and lost his speech two years back due to a stroke and my parents love each other a lot. Growing up in a typical South Asian household my father and mother both were very active in both house and work-related matters, I always saw them working together in the kitchen, cleaning the house and going to work and taking care of us. They provided us with a very good lifestyle and always tried their best to form a healthy relationship with us even as teenagers. I do believe the best thing parents can do for their kids is to love each other because we grow up seeing that and enjoying it. Thanks, mama and Papa Life has its own way of taking things from you, we went through hell growing up but our love kept us strong, now that we have financial stability, my father’s love will be missing by the end of the year.

7:56 "And to tell our children that marriage is good" that hit me. Heavens! this video is awesome, thanks to all of you

"you can win the arguments but you will lose the good relationship with one another."

As a married person, I can definitely say the older couple has a LOT of wisdom. Also, all of these are a really good representation of marriage. "Marriage is about being so tired and trying again anyway."

after watching this I pray to God to have a good and understanding partner, and to let me be the answered prayer to someone.

“nobody ask this kind of qn before” 😢 rly appreciate what u guys r doing OGS!! 🙌🏼

Love the two elder couples. They definitely know their love languages very well.

suddenly tears up on the vowing parts. seeing this make me want to believe that happy marriage is real.. thank you

“marriage is good, look at mon and dad” 🥺❤️

Ahhhh this really warms my heart. Especially the two older couples.

“She plays a very important role in my heart” moved me to tears in a way that’s hard to describe. Thank you for sharing that 💗

The woman that was married for 26 years I was actually shocked but not at the same time at how young she looked.

The diversity is this video give me life 😍 Love to see what a real marriage is, even though I'm single 🤣

The malay uncle's vows were so honest and sincere ❤

@15:59 when he said "do not listen to others" its veryyy good advice. I guess marriage is about losing 99% of time and when you win that 1% of time, you'll start fighting harder then the next time you lose 96% of the time.

7:06 Damn, this guy really figure it out when most others don't

“If I can’t change, she changes. That’s how you get along.” That’s very wise

Hate being single. This was the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen and I pray I find someone who love me like that 😍

next episode could cover on divorcees and bring light to how not every divorce is bad

As someone who kept failing to find someone who loves me for who I am, this is such a wholesome video. I wish i can find someone like their spouse. it's really hard to find, so if you already found one don't take it for granted.

The oldest 💕 The wisest💕 All of them have so much respect for each other 💕💕💕

I'm 21 y.o, I'm single, I watched this in the middle of lunch break during my work time, and I cried :(

The oldest couple is just everything and more. They are an inspiration to younger couples❤️❤️❤️

"I've not said you may kiss the bride" 🤣🤣🤣

omg how i love that soldier man 😂😂😂 he's so funny and his wife is sooo fierce 😂😂 and they're so lovely 🤗

The oldest couple is so cute! God bless all of them. Great video!

It took my spouse 25 yrs to understand that he was digging holes with credit cards. Suddenly when he had to take early retirement for health reasons, the light went on. A little late but better than never.

I never wanted to be married because of how my parents marriage happened. But somehow these couples make it so possible to have that dream.