Feisty Shamara Downs Shots Of Tequila For Dutch Courage

Feisty Shamara Downs Shots Of Tequila For Dutch Courage | First Dates USA

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Жыл бұрын

Radio host Shamara is used to making snap judgements about people on the airwaves, but will she be able to play it cool with her date Cory?
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@eslaone8721 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad he said nope. Shows he has some integrity about himself

@Account-br9kc 2 ай бұрын

lol he is absolute loser. She used common sense

@Myview246 Жыл бұрын

I did find her very obnoxious. But when she said her mother left at 14 and her father was never around I understood why shes behaving that way. She has trust issues, understandably.

@soblase5342 Жыл бұрын

She shouldn’t have let her inner saboteur win but it’s easier said than done when it’s a constant battle. She was wrong but she isn’t a bad person, just needs to heal.

@lauradelaney5457 Жыл бұрын

So glad she apologised because she was notttttt being nice up until that point

@ubs16 Жыл бұрын

She apologized because she was drunk and her guard was down from the 40 shots she took

@bollegijz Жыл бұрын

She only wants to drink

@eduardomaldonado1647 Жыл бұрын

@@bollegijz She took 3 drinks and those drinks are high in alcohol content. She judged him too quickly didn't even give him a chance that is what most women do. Sometimes you get surprised with people when you give them a chance.

@bollegijz Жыл бұрын

@@eduardomaldonado1647 ye alcojolic

@reenh462 Жыл бұрын

He had alot of patience to sit through that horrible date. sheesh

@angelicharmony Жыл бұрын

Yikes, she was just awful towards him. I'm glad she recognized that and tried to reset, though. She said it - she was getting in her own way

@ChristineSmileyFace Жыл бұрын

I learnt a lot about not what to do on a first date after watching this lol

@rogdawg123 2 ай бұрын

hello there beautiful 😍

@ranapartap1501 Ай бұрын

Ya dont call you date a punk

@harbyarby1347 Жыл бұрын

I like that he said right away. Dudes legit told truth. They’re both pretty aware and awesome

@rooliver7798 Жыл бұрын

She was a freaking EMBARRASSMENT..And Extremely disrespectful to call a man a punk

@Account-br9kc 2 ай бұрын

he is absolute punk

@MichaMontreal Жыл бұрын

Good on her for having the self awareness to check herself. Maybe she's taken that forward into other first dates and found the right guy.

@kennybenjamin3230 Жыл бұрын

True

@Account-br9kc 2 ай бұрын

why? she was completely right

@kosoriwombe Жыл бұрын

He didn't say much, didnt react much, was in control through all of the neurotic wreck, battling of demons happening in front of him, kudos. The 2 babymamas started it but his choice of juice over alcohol hit the nail through the door of resentment. like how do you not cope with harshness of reality through intoxication like i do, punk..

@jennifergirling6850 Жыл бұрын

Four kids not married to either women sends up red flags

@ralphlyda4545 Жыл бұрын

His red flags weren’t nearly as bad as her drinking a dozen shots red flag.

@lavinder11 Жыл бұрын

@@ralphlyda4545 No. His red flags were glaring but a lot of you men here can't see it.

@butterflyblessbless5836 Жыл бұрын

She had more 🚩🚩🚩than him

@cb4017 2 ай бұрын

@@butterflyblessbless5836he has four red flags lasting 18 years each

@kabysummit5801 Жыл бұрын

Love the reset. It went so much better and got down to being real.

@IrishYobbo07 Жыл бұрын

I don't think she's a bad person, Just needs to work on herself more. He seems lovely

@purplebutterfly7257 Жыл бұрын

Neither one of them are a prize. 😂

@chickolat Жыл бұрын

she needs a date with AA.

@jubernardi23 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@bollegijz Жыл бұрын

100

@nantetoev1188 Жыл бұрын

😂

@c4arla Жыл бұрын

he lost me at damaged

@Von_RX Жыл бұрын

She learned a lot through this date. Hopefully she can reflect and find someone special. Same for the guy, he was great from the start and very respectful.

@Account-br9kc 2 ай бұрын

she dodged a bullet

@semvlasveld8799 Жыл бұрын

Can imagine when you hear about 4 children with 2 women that it is hard to not judge but I´m glad she apoligised for being over the top with bad comments.

@AdamFrancisco Жыл бұрын

He’s too mature for her

@annajames9682 Жыл бұрын

So glad she realized

@believeinyourself7511 Жыл бұрын

Tequila will catch up to you real fast and bring you down hard.

@cedricliggins7528 Жыл бұрын

Especially six shots

@hudsonkorion Жыл бұрын

Absolutely…I had to learn that the hard way 🤢

@Peteristrate Жыл бұрын

The guy dodged a bullet. Glad he's able to filter through the bs. He deserves better than that. She's a boss babe and boss babes are a nightmare.

@sssp7801 Жыл бұрын

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

@vaanipapadakis2226 Жыл бұрын

Boss babes aren’t like her. She’s just rude.

@peacheskong2245 Жыл бұрын

Does he really? He fathered 4 kids with 2 different women, and he was talking about wanting to find the ''right type of damaged woman''...WHEEEET???

@femkebouwmeester4272 Жыл бұрын

Sending love to this women, its brave to look yourself in the eye and change.

@space_btwn_notes 9 ай бұрын

he's got some denzel mannerisms in him

@ralphlyda4545 Жыл бұрын

Her horrible drinking was the first red flag. The second was ordering something expensive when he was paying. What horrible behaviour! She should either have one drink, & stop, or, if she can’t do that, *zero* drinks.

@beckstyles3467 Жыл бұрын

So dont pay then babe.

@eduardomaldonado1647 Жыл бұрын

@@beckstyles3467 it is considered courtesy and polite when someone else offers to pay to try not order the most expensive dish in the menu and order a bunch of expensive drinks. Also drinking hard drinks and getting intoxicated is a huge turnoff. She had 3 shots that is a lot of alcohol.

@elizabeth3280 Жыл бұрын

2 BABY MOMMAS and SMASHED within the last 24hrs before going on the date. He friend zoned her too 😅

@waynejones750 Жыл бұрын

Bless she was so nervous ❤

@Daisycakex3 Жыл бұрын

You know what, yes she was arrogant and judgemental in the beginning. But few people are able to self reflect and be honest about their flaws or wrong behaviour and apologise. Nobody is perfect and those qualities are hard to find. He does have two baby mommas so he probably did things wrong too in the past, but he also tries to improve himself and be the best dad. So, honestly, I think she deserves another chance. She definitely learned a lesson. And girl, don't be too hard on yourself. Trauma can cause you to be defensive and hard on others, but also yourself. Be kind.

@ulynvanzyl8474 Жыл бұрын

I know why she’s single...

@beckstyles3467 Жыл бұрын

and he has four kids with two different people

@karissakline6765 Жыл бұрын

40 year old women expecting men the same age not to have past relationships or children are just weird. It would be more of a red flag to me if he didn’t and was a forever bachelor.

@lynxo5695 Жыл бұрын

💯

@lavinder11 Жыл бұрын

No one expects a 40 year old man to have no past relationships. Most would find a man that age with no experience strange. No children? I lived in NYC and found plenty of childfree men my age (mid-30s). Plus, she was critical about his baby mama situation. That's irresponsible as hell. It's no wonder why he opened up with "everyone's damaged."

@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 Жыл бұрын

He has kids and never married.

@eagillum Жыл бұрын

"I'm the worst first date ever". Aww, hugs.

@Cal222 Жыл бұрын

At least she realized where the problem lied. Unfortunate. He seems like a good man and she seems like a good woman, she just needs to get out of her own way❤️

@sssp7801 Жыл бұрын

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

@lavinder11 Жыл бұрын

4 kids by 2 women is a no

@kennybenjamin3230 Жыл бұрын

Atleast she knew she messed up and tried to be better at the end,without the camera and no pressure I think she is a nice lady.

@Skeezer66 Жыл бұрын

She might need to talk to a therapist, she doesn't have walls, she has a fortress! Not a bad person!

@LSD77777 Жыл бұрын

This sounds like Drew Barrymore in the voiceover

@angelicharmony Жыл бұрын

it is

@menen9391 Жыл бұрын

He is so gorgeous especially when he smiles😊 ....this woman is a mess yoooh

@vs0063 Жыл бұрын

Yeah, he's really gorgeous. Super great personality too. Love how she apologized. That was real integrity.

@carleyanneart8068 Жыл бұрын

I think multiple mothers and a lot of children was her deal breaker, so she immediately shut down and started behaving badly. But yeah he was good looking!

@scarletlady3727 Жыл бұрын

I do feel bad for her….I think she simply doesn’t know how to receive masculinity because of her traumatic childhood….she knew internally she was off and half way through checked herself to apologize to him….it would have been so amazing if he would have given her a second chance

@bitcoinmaster3634 Жыл бұрын

At least have fun in the date even if you were not going on a second date. Now you are left with a terrible memory.

@giovanapc1 Жыл бұрын

He was so handsome, kinda gave Denzel Washington vibes. She seemed so nervous, I feel like her anxiety got the best of her, unfortunately. Not easy being on a first date (and blind, no less) but hopefully next time she can just more open and burp less, LOL.

@sssp7801 Жыл бұрын

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

@LynnTlr Жыл бұрын

@@sssp7801of course. Here you are again.

@lavinder11 Жыл бұрын

He insulted her. That clearly threw her off, along with the 4 kids by 2 women and married to neither. That should turn off any sane woman.

@lawrencekelli Жыл бұрын

What a gorgeous man charming and respectful. And what a women to realize she was being way to harsh and checked herself. Hope they both find true love.

@SongBillong 5 ай бұрын

She knew she was wrong and rightly apologised, but then continued to be judgmental at the end. Good on him for saying no.

@LynnTlr Жыл бұрын

Wow. He’s very much a gentleman and she is just wayyyyy too much.

@jn8922 Жыл бұрын

He stayed through that rudeness? It's a date, not a war. American men deal with a lot. That behaviour is a red flag.

@Burningarrow7 Жыл бұрын

Exactly! Western women as a whole are becoming more and more like this and they cry when we go after feminine eastern women. In the end it's just the women who are losing

@tiagoagm Жыл бұрын

Scary woman, went all the way in the oysters when he said he was going to pay.

@leahnyb6878 Жыл бұрын

Are you poor? Yes you are.

@tiagoagm Жыл бұрын

@@leahnyb6878 I am not. but from your conversation you have a lot of dates that are paying lol

@beckstyles3467 Жыл бұрын

do you have a minimum wage? Then dont pay.

@lynxo5695 Жыл бұрын

Damage is such a negative loaded word. Should have used flawed instead.

@Shaara1 Жыл бұрын

She behaved like trash. And he couldn't accept that his past can be a red flag.

@waitwho9283 Жыл бұрын

After the second shot, I’d have paid and left! She’s disrespectful but some guys when you meet someone this crazy you almost just want to stay, see it through and sit through the whole joke. 😂 She’s not 3years old, can’t treat people that way!

@JamesCraigWhoop Жыл бұрын

Blind Date - the freakin show should pay. If not they should go Dutch. It wasn't a date initiated by either person.

@CassTrashPuppy Жыл бұрын

The burping and the shots was a buzzkill 4 me ,take your time 🤗

@travmarquee3213 Жыл бұрын

Dating is for teens and young adults. It’s not for 40 year olds and divorced parents with a bunch of baggage. I say that because what tends to happen is women and men have too many expectations and experiences. Basically, to start the date she was hyper judgmental as most women are. They get in their own way. He has lots of kids so he has to understand that women will wonder why.

@jonathandow684 Жыл бұрын

That’s what I called a hit and Miss!

@matthewroze9734 Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, that comment about her being judgemental, he did it as soon as she walked into the room. So it was probably best they were not together in that way.

@lavinder11 Жыл бұрын

Right.

@LC-lf8se Жыл бұрын

"one of the things that went wrong...ONE of the things..:" LOL! I was cringing with her behavior.

@carolinerhodes8956 4 ай бұрын

I like him. Very confident, no ones fool

@akl9354 Жыл бұрын

Bless her!❤️

@ppumpkin3282 3 ай бұрын

She asks "who's paying" before the order and after several shots. Big red flag.

@Dymsx86 Жыл бұрын

Aw, I think they would have had a better time if she didn't come in so intensely. I'm sure the shots she was taking didn't help matters. I wish the reset was how the date originally started. While I can understand wanting to know more about his children, this was not the way to do it.

@asandi4444 Жыл бұрын

Wow did she ever miss out. Men like this sure don't come along every day. He is gorgeous, intelligent, easy-going and don't even get me started on his beautiful smile. Sigh...

@michelleroselilley4637 Жыл бұрын

She's so sweet

@kerriwilliams1503 4 ай бұрын

❤ the way shamar dates!

@teedee1170 Жыл бұрын

How does this woman expect to find someone😳she’s outright rude and crass… and the burping😩

@KetinaSolari Жыл бұрын

She just was interested in getting drunk with tequila shots, that's insulting.

@greedokenobi3855 Жыл бұрын

The host looks like John Locke lol

@prettyhollypolly7553 11 ай бұрын

She’s definitely a wreck, but he is heartbreak waiting to happen. Four kids with two women is a red flag.

@norahcutts6989 5 ай бұрын

I think with four children with different mams would make any real woman’s jaw drop and question his fidelity if nothing else…if so attractive. You won’t be the only one to notice either……RED FLAG. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL RADIO LADY…love from Wales

@ToFunForThis Жыл бұрын

I mean is good to ask questions, she had experience this already with her parents. Maybe not judge so quickly but yes ask questions!

@Annsunshine30 Жыл бұрын

I`m sure that seeing her downing strong alcohol like that, was turing him off big time already! !

@TheAndyweeras 6 ай бұрын

Imagine being a 5 at best 😊with all that sass

@tonysatie2291 Жыл бұрын

N O P E, bye

@hoops8534 Жыл бұрын

Good grief, at least you know you blew it 🤦🏽‍♀️

@jasminaj3682 3 ай бұрын

She is gorgeous

@daldas1 Жыл бұрын

And she wonders why she is single

@christineleahy2013 Жыл бұрын

Men like that are very few and far between , he was a gentleman 🥵

@Rahel8811 Жыл бұрын

To much alcohol! 😧

@syerega Жыл бұрын

She is way too damaged for you Corey.

@walkwithmeASMR Жыл бұрын

wow

@krisarbuckle Жыл бұрын

What is wrong with her ability to see what a train wreck she is! She is abrasive, crude, and presumptuous. Then she tries to pretty it up by saying she is a “blessing blocker”! Blessings come to those who are humble and kind and generous. Doesn’t give a man a chance to be smooth and easy to get along with. She likes battling, so she will be alone all her life.

@louiseputtock2645 Жыл бұрын

HE is gorgeous

@kennaharrison603 Жыл бұрын

she messed up he seems like a real catch!

@michelletanner7047 Жыл бұрын

Girl , don't worry about it, you will find a man! you're absolutely right 4 kids 2 baby mama's sorry I'm out the door!

@karissakline6765 Жыл бұрын

She’s 40 years old…any men her age are going to have history and children. Grow up!

@Oneofonenotoneofmany Жыл бұрын

You're the type of friends she has already, the way she behaved was unacceptable and unattractive

@sssp7801 Жыл бұрын

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

@dantoinettem6825 Жыл бұрын

@@karissakline6765 it's not the children, it's the fact that he never married any of the women who he had children with

@robkamanda Жыл бұрын

🤔 I didnt like her personality but... I wouldnt want my daughter persuing or being persued by a dude who has 4 kids by different women and is not at home with them. I dont care how nice his personality is. I grew up alot of guys who either hit it and quit it or call it quits when rosey love fades into the reality of fighting for their relationship or family. Her flaws aside, she dodged a bullet with that 1.

@patsyjohnson2064 Жыл бұрын

She to wild.

@tsambikatsa926 Жыл бұрын

She drinks quite a lot!! That’s why he did not like her! And he doesn’t wish to make a Commitment!! Neither are suitable for anyone! Unless they learn to amend their ways!!

@chimakalu41 Жыл бұрын

4:11 This lady is trying to sabotage her own date

@chimakalu41 Жыл бұрын

2:48 This lady better slow her roll. The man will handle this.

@mattneillninasmom 11 ай бұрын

Her apologies were too little too late. Her own worst enemy, throwing down shots of tequila like a desperate alcoholic and throwing out insults without provocation. Lady, you're a train wreck. That was a good man you had in front of you and you killed it dead!

@jessica-lz1dh Жыл бұрын

I think, she needs to watch this video ,reflect and get counselling.

@claudiacorral4559 Жыл бұрын

He was a catch ❤

@bronzb.1499 Жыл бұрын

her hand shake and terrible body language shows from the beginning she is not ready for loveor anyone other than herself for another 40 years.

@simonebarnett1896 Жыл бұрын

Self sabotage.

@zaveeramini9712 Жыл бұрын

Nah, you can't end the video by her saying "I'm the worst date ever!" I hope she will learn to be more open minded and find someone 🙏

@sssp7801 Жыл бұрын

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

@41Gecko Жыл бұрын

@@sssp7801 How many times you gonna post the exact same thing?! Clearly you’re taking it way too seriously. Shamara, is that you?

@sssp7801 Жыл бұрын

@@41Gecko triggered lol

@LynnTlr Жыл бұрын

@@41Gecko😂😂

@tonyhudson8698 Жыл бұрын

SHE SURE IS RUDE.. I watched up to 4 minutes, no more for Me.

@princessangerloo5905 Жыл бұрын

He’s fine and she’s a disaster 🤦🏼‍♀️

@sssp7801 Жыл бұрын

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

@LynnTlr Жыл бұрын

@@sssp7801why are you commenting the same thing under almost every comment in here? I mean maybe you should take out a billboard or go door to door. You seem way overly committed to your cause. You ok?

@sssp7801 Жыл бұрын

@@LynnTlr you seem triggered lol