FORGIVE YOURSELF AND MOVE FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE by RC BLAKES

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@deeveriamoore2205
@deeveriamoore2205 3 жыл бұрын
Those who are struggling to forgive yourselves please forgive you. My mother has never forgiven herself for past mistakes. I am now her caregiver she suffered a stroke and heart failure, she's bedridden and now she wants to live. When she was able to live and walk on her own she held herself in bondage from past mistakes I know God forgave her. Y'all live repent and move on ❤️🙏🏾
@tamarareese5347
@tamarareese5347 3 жыл бұрын
Amen sister 🙏
@salekyahpendleton2203
@salekyahpendleton2203 3 жыл бұрын
😇🥰
@lg3260
@lg3260 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sister
@BrittaniMeShay
@BrittaniMeShay 3 жыл бұрын
This is powerful. Thank you for sharing your story so others can forgive themselves before it’s too late 💕
@kd0ileydorsey349
@kd0ileydorsey349 3 жыл бұрын
Deeveria Moore wow just wow...... I am one of those who is struggling to forgive myself for the things that I’ve done. I don’t know how to. Just reading this made my heart heavy I am so sorry to hear that about your mom if you don’t mind my saying so. As a young girl I was molested and sexually abused I was introduced to pornography at the age of 4(if I remember right) and I was bullied in school from kindergarten up this is what made me afraid of people girls/women especially, people(both boys/girls) would intimidate me with their eyes and I would just crumble. I didn’t know this scripture at the time because I was terrified but it says the fear of man brings a snare but I wasn’t taught that until I got older. I’m 37 now and I still to this day struggle with SEVERE ANXIETY and depression I also suffered from narcissistic abuse and didn’t know it at the time which was another thing for me. At this time I am seeking help and going to God more because I now want to enjoy my life before Jesus comes in the rapture. I’d do anything to have the purest form of joy and to be able to enjoy my family I feel like a failure in regards to my husband and children as I want to do better for them.
@amandaweldon9022
@amandaweldon9022 Жыл бұрын
I Forgive myself for not saying No I Forgive myself for not seeing myself as worthy.
@KNByam
@KNByam 8 ай бұрын
Amen to that.
@amandaweldon9022
@amandaweldon9022 8 ай бұрын
@@KNByam 🙏🏾Be Blessed my friend ! In Jesus Name!
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
What?
@theskyizblue2day431
@theskyizblue2day431 7 ай бұрын
@@RachelWeepingshe had a hoe phase
@iknow----
@iknow---- 7 ай бұрын
😊
@tinaferr
@tinaferr Жыл бұрын
"if a person can't love you where you're at, they can't love you where you're going" AMEN PRAISE GOD
@PolishBehemoth
@PolishBehemoth 7 ай бұрын
Dang! That hit me different. Made me think.
@Rtb323
@Rtb323 6 ай бұрын
What if it feels like I’m not going anywhere, even tho I try when I try and end up just back to square 1 ? It’s like this habit I can’t seem to escape…
@cakesinthecity
@cakesinthecity 6 ай бұрын
Ooooooooh i like that
@shopperm4689
@shopperm4689 5 ай бұрын
@@Rtb323You are going somewhere, you have broken the cycle. Forgiveness is the answer.
@professionalpookie
@professionalpookie 2 ай бұрын
Dumb quote!!! This is an excuse to not take criticism
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 5 ай бұрын
"As long as your life is cluttered with your painful history, you will Never move into your destiny!" - Robert Blakes Jr.
@EarthAngelBre
@EarthAngelBre 3 жыл бұрын
I give myself permission to forgive myself for all of things that I did when I lacked self love......Thank-you
@porsh8465
@porsh8465 3 жыл бұрын
So do I 🙌🏽
@terrieverd5
@terrieverd5 3 жыл бұрын
Amen🙌🏾
@ILoveMyMelanin.
@ILoveMyMelanin. 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@travelchannel304
@travelchannel304 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! The sermon we've not really heard til now.
@GoodGrief101
@GoodGrief101 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!!!
@lamarbrown619
@lamarbrown619 Жыл бұрын
The people that are supposed to be in your Life Will Recognize Your Value🔥🏆
@jamoss2007
@jamoss2007 Жыл бұрын
so will the enemy...full fledge attack on you will be there also. Submission to the instruction of thee Holy Spirit, will allow the way of escape. from making those life-altering mistakes. Im living this mistake of not obeying the instruction of The Lord until eternity. I could forgive myself, yet society won't let that slide. Ever reminded day×day by random people of my mistake. this won't go away it seems. Lord knows
@imsorry3217
@imsorry3217 Жыл бұрын
@jamoss2007 You're not alone! I've been going through the same thing and I've gotten to a point where I started hating people an I want nothing to do with anyone anymore. 😔
@lala5061
@lala5061 9 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
I don't think so. Parole officers, prison guards, and court ordered therapists would not agree.
@quanguy8624
@quanguy8624 7 ай бұрын
@@RachelWeepingthose people’s aren’t supposed to be in your life they literally have no good intentions for you more often than not they are worse than the people they are supposed to be tending to they just hide it better
@laurendermody
@laurendermody 5 ай бұрын
I am living in hell because I am trapped in a loop of going over and over mistakes and regrets. I am 53 and I believe in God. Please pray for me!
@neicyluv553
@neicyluv553 5 ай бұрын
I'll pray for you if you'll pray for me, too. ❤
@janetbowers4427
@janetbowers4427 5 ай бұрын
Lauren, I will pray for you. Please know you are not the only one who has experienced this feeling. 🙏🙏
@ADOMGIFTY
@ADOMGIFTY 4 ай бұрын
May God show you his ways in Jesus Christ name
@Prodigious1One
@Prodigious1One 4 ай бұрын
Accept the decisions that you made and do your best in the present. I'm learning to do the same.
@neicyluv553
@neicyluv553 4 ай бұрын
Same here. I feel as though God is giving me a thousand lashes for all of my poor decisions and for NOT trusting Him.
@ReturningtoYOU
@ReturningtoYOU 7 ай бұрын
Former escort and stripper I agree this was holding me back indeed this was a much needed word of God Thank you Godbless you!!!!!! This broke me down Our father certainly knew I needed to hear this!
@iamthestorm1004
@iamthestorm1004 5 ай бұрын
Welcome to Gods family sweet sister ! Praise Jesus for your deliverance from your past and may God richly bless you and use you as a vessel in helping other young women to leave the worldly lifestyle and assist them in freeing them from the chains that bind them ! Be a beacon of light for those consumed in a world of darkness ! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌❤️✝️❤️🙌🙏🏻🙏🏻
@DAODDITYPRODIGYCLOS
@DAODDITYPRODIGYCLOS 5 ай бұрын
Forgiveness was bought with the precious blood of Jesus Christ. Amen. You are beautiful love yourself and love God for restoring you.
@tnt01
@tnt01 5 ай бұрын
No shame. Move forward with your head held high.
@roniil4589
@roniil4589 5 ай бұрын
We love you sis❤
@opticalraven1935
@opticalraven1935 4 ай бұрын
Remember, no one is ever too far gone.
@heather7119
@heather7119 3 жыл бұрын
"You hold on to the soul tie because the guilt you feel won't allow you to see yourself worthy of anything better" MIND BLOWN
@brequeen0725
@brequeen0725 Жыл бұрын
Struggling with this right now
@genesisguillory6744
@genesisguillory6744 Жыл бұрын
So good
@staceybarnett1801
@staceybarnett1801 Жыл бұрын
Thissssss is me sooooooo much
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
What?
@37H662
@37H662 5 ай бұрын
@@RachelWeepingyes.
@BeautifulHal0
@BeautifulHal0 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I just got off the phone telling a friend how I couldn't forgive myself for letting a no good man emotionally abuse me.
@mmxw2294
@mmxw2294 3 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone in having a men like that the blessing comes in leaving them in the past
@mammabear4334
@mammabear4334 3 жыл бұрын
I've done it myself for 10 years, left 4 months ago. Don't feel guilty for loving someone who wasn't worth your love, YOUR intentions were pure and honest. That's nothing to feel bad about. Love yourself and put yourself first because nobody else will. Much love from England 💕
@BeautifulHal0
@BeautifulHal0 3 жыл бұрын
@@mammabear4334 Thank you for the encouragement. This video has really cleared up some emotions. Much love & healing to you as well.💖
@tiffakasoultrykirksey1131
@tiffakasoultrykirksey1131 3 жыл бұрын
I have an issue forgiving my self for the same thing... And worse i lost my kids self respect self love all while taking care of him making excuses to myself for why i couldnt leave not understanding the full magnitude of a soul tie when my daughter died cps took my kid so all i had was him out of hurt we stayed together and i turned my back on god he began to abuse me regularly but i thought i needed even the lord told me why daughter why do yu go through this and i still stayed had another child he abused me still i kept letting him come back so YU CAN FORGIVE YOURSELF GIVE IT TO GOD AND MOVE FORWARD thank yu rc blakes
@bridgettejohnson4416
@bridgettejohnson4416 3 жыл бұрын
@@tiffakasoultrykirksey1131 I am so sorry to hear you went through all of that. Please seek counseling so you will heal and move on from all of that, pray and invite God into your life to mend your broken pieces. Jesus loves you and so do I.
@eddieashley9337
@eddieashley9337 7 ай бұрын
You gave this word 2yrs ago, and it has blessed me today. Thanks for your obedience Pastor.
@15walkeen
@15walkeen 6 ай бұрын
"You cannot shame someone who forgives themselves". I'm putting that one in my back pocket.
@daphneeb.897
@daphneeb.897 5 ай бұрын
Amen
@stathis301
@stathis301 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this message.. I am 41, grew up in a completely broken family, being guided by lust, addictions.. Being searching for God for the past 10 years. Then I would fail again. I am trying to forgive and love myself for the 1st time in my life. Anyone who sees this please pray for me.
@flowforever9084
@flowforever9084 Жыл бұрын
You're not alone
@stathis301
@stathis301 Жыл бұрын
@@flowforever9084 🙏🙏🙏💓💓💓
@Mr.DerekReese
@Mr.DerekReese Жыл бұрын
Personal hardship may feel like such a lonely burden to bear, but I promise that you are not alone. I'm 41, struggling with my own addictions, and not quite sure how to break this cycle. I sincerely believe you can turn things around and reshape your life for the better. One foot in front of the other my friend. 🙌
@stathis301
@stathis301 Жыл бұрын
@@Mr.DerekReese Thanks a lot brother. 🙏❤️
@millier9658
@millier9658 Жыл бұрын
@@stathis301 I can relate. Hugs n prayers
@GoodGrief101
@GoodGrief101 3 жыл бұрын
I’m working on forgiving myself. We live in a world where people refuse to let people forget what they’ve done in the past. God is stronger than Satan. Thank you so much and be blessed.
@vinnieedwards9699
@vinnieedwards9699 3 жыл бұрын
Remember, people don’t have a heaven or hell to put you in. Those same people will be held accountable just like everyone else.
@justbu3797
@justbu3797 3 жыл бұрын
@@vinnieedwards9699 thanks
@GoodGrief101
@GoodGrief101 3 жыл бұрын
@@vinnieedwards9699 thank you and you’re right! Be blessed.
@seanodwyer4322
@seanodwyer4322 Жыл бұрын
lav- that why ahh keep away from my family - they live in the past
@medmak1494
@medmak1494 Жыл бұрын
to forget and forgive is two different things . I can for forgive , but never forget . to forgive is to free your self from the bondage , It is What the Lord Jesus Christ said.
@immamancuso4553
@immamancuso4553 7 ай бұрын
“If you can’t forgive yourself, you don’t really love yourself.” So, really love yourself so you can forgive you.❤
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
@markchambers8641
@markchambers8641 6 ай бұрын
This is deep. I really like it. Thanks.
@drmichellefacaros8097
@drmichellefacaros8097 4 ай бұрын
Listen to this: To forgive your self is to pack up your past and put it away and make room for moving into a new season. As long as your life is cluttered with your negative history, you will never move into your destiny. ❤
@treefrog1841
@treefrog1841 Жыл бұрын
This helped me! I have horrible guilt. My daughter suffered an anoxic brain injury and I didn't get to her soon enough. She is in a nursing home now with a trach and feeding tube. Paralyzed and unable to talk. It's been almost a year and I am having a hard time forgiving myself. Please pray for me to accept His forgiveness!
@TheSunshinefee
@TheSunshinefee Жыл бұрын
go into meditation. recall the image of your daughter in front of you. talk to her and hear her voice talking back to you. do this a few times. even when you visit her you can do this. talk to her.
@ronbusby3335
@ronbusby3335 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that. I beg The Lord to surround you and your family with Grace, Comfort and Peace - amen!
@todddavidson2545
@todddavidson2545 Жыл бұрын
If your Reading this I sow Prayer seeds of Mighty Rivers of Blessings, Favor, Prosperity, Success, Grace, Protection, Love, Joy, Happiness, Peace, Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding and Good Health to You and your Kids Kids Forevermore. 444
@wendi2819
@wendi2819 Жыл бұрын
Bless you. You probably need a compassionate therapist. That is a trauma your struggling with dear. You did what you could to get help help. Find a therapist or even a minister if therapy is too expensive. You deserve to be forgiven!!! Your daughter still needs you. This story isn't written yet. You and she may find blessings in this tragedy. Prayers for you.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@carolynjones1929
@carolynjones1929 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
@Caramel_Kris
@Caramel_Kris 3 жыл бұрын
This is so powerful. My depression stems from my fixation on my past mistakes and what I’ve been through. I’ve been feeling bad for so long, I believed I was paying for mistakes for the rest of my life and couldn’t be positive about anything or trust anyone and it’s exhausting.
@rashimasimmons7583
@rashimasimmons7583 3 жыл бұрын
Something Great will happen for you and yours this weekend. 👣😊🥇🥠📬🙏
@realestatebykemi
@realestatebykemi 3 жыл бұрын
Same. I suffer from depression most when I dwell on my past mistakes & failures.
@tanyatanya9492
@tanyatanya9492 3 жыл бұрын
You can't change what happened,you can only learn from it.
@tamarareese5347
@tamarareese5347 3 жыл бұрын
@@realestatebykemi I am the same way but I know God heal
@tamarareese5347
@tamarareese5347 3 жыл бұрын
@@tanyatanya9492 Amen 🙏 To that
@melissaglasper1772
@melissaglasper1772 Жыл бұрын
God loves me so much that He brought me to this video on 02/25/23, exactly 2 years after it was posted in order to set me free from my own prison of guilt and shame. I watched 3 times holding on to hope. Finally at 2:45 am on 02/26/23, I surrendered it all. I finally accepted that God forgave me. Then I finally forgive myself. I can’t explain the joy I feel inside right now!!!!! Thank you for your obedience to teach this lesson. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@missfreshair
@missfreshair Жыл бұрын
Snap! I'm listening for the second time 29 April 2023 and beginning to be set free today. Stay well :)
@melissaglasper1772
@melissaglasper1772 Жыл бұрын
@@missfreshair Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
The fact that you can remember the time and the date frightens me.
@melissaglasper1772
@melissaglasper1772 7 ай бұрын
@@terencecambridge3243 Yes!!!! I am free! Others may try to bring up what I have done, but it was finished when God forgave me, I asked for forgiveness of others, and I forgave myself. The others may not have chosen to forgive me, but it was their choice. I will not walk around with guilt and shame because of it. I do have consequences for what I have done, and it is helping me to grow and mature. I am walking in the freedom of God’s and my own forgiveness because of the price Jesus paid for me.
@goarabs1
@goarabs1 6 ай бұрын
Melissa, I’m in a place of such dark despair. I’m listening to this beautiful sermon hoping and praying for God’s grace.a
@mayabythesea
@mayabythesea 6 ай бұрын
Please pray me. My name is Maya and I'm really lost and struggling and fearful. I need all the help I can get. If you see this and decide to pray for me I'm so thankful. If you're watching this with a heavy heart too you're in my prayers. God bless you all.
@bajangenetics400
@bajangenetics400 6 ай бұрын
Your in mine also ❤
@mayabythesea
@mayabythesea 6 ай бұрын
@@bajangenetics400 *hugs* 💗
@Dreams82978
@Dreams82978 6 ай бұрын
Praying for you 🙏🏿
@mayabythesea
@mayabythesea 6 ай бұрын
@jeffreyjean-paul4047 thank you so much
@somethingspecial1415
@somethingspecial1415 4 ай бұрын
​@@mayabytheseahi,I hope that all is well with you❤
@chicchica44
@chicchica44 3 жыл бұрын
"Forgive Yourself and move on with the rest of your life."
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
What life?
@teleken1235
@teleken1235 6 ай бұрын
powerful words!
@Lisa-kg8po
@Lisa-kg8po 6 ай бұрын
@@RachelWeeping "FOR I KNOW THE PLANS I HAVE FOR YOU," declares The Lord, "PLANS TO PROSPER YOU AND NOT TO HARM YOU, PLANS TO GIVE YOU HOPE AND A FUTURE." Jeremiah 29:11
@LuisVaal
@LuisVaal 6 ай бұрын
@@RachelWeepingthe life you about to build
@vmoore8868
@vmoore8868 3 жыл бұрын
I had such a spirit of heaviness on me last night because I could not figure out how to forgive myself for putting myself in situations that did not promote my higher purpose. This message is the only sign I need! God loves me! Thank you for listening to his voice ✨
@SweetTreatsBy_Marie
@SweetTreatsBy_Marie 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@evezazzle5974
@evezazzle5974 3 жыл бұрын
❤️🙏🤗
@gina9684
@gina9684 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@porsh8465
@porsh8465 3 жыл бұрын
Amen & Amen
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
What higher purpose?
@Grace77690
@Grace77690 8 ай бұрын
I forgive myself of all the wrong decisions I have made in my life in Jesus Christ mighty name Amen 🙏 ❤
@dollarwalls7926
@dollarwalls7926 9 ай бұрын
I've been married for a little over ten years, and my husband recently told me, " I WAS THE WORST MISTAKE IN HIS LIFE BY MARRYING ME" and I've been fighting within me to figure out what's wrong with me. I'm so angry with myself. Thanks for this message of forgiveness 🙏
@krystiesolfyre5340
@krystiesolfyre5340 7 ай бұрын
It’s so hard. My boyfriend feels the same way and I have old wounds and issues that I just haven’t healed from and I can’t believe I have the anger issues of my dad and the self esteem issues of having that same dad neglect me. But it’s not my future husbands burden. I pray the lord can restore me. We must forgive ourselves and move forward and learn the lessons we need to learn.
@AlejandroSovsa
@AlejandroSovsa 7 ай бұрын
Praying for you both 🙏
@Lisa-kg8po
@Lisa-kg8po 6 ай бұрын
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with either of you❤ You’re still worthy to be loved. And please never forget that your Father in heaven loves you more than you know. Ask Him to wrap His arms around you and heal your wounds❤️‍🩹. He most certainly will.
@Mepm3p
@Mepm3p 5 ай бұрын
What can help is that there are four steps of forgiveness: unvictimizing yourself and taking yourself out of the limelight, having empathy for yourself, having compassion for yourself (yes these are separate things), and loving yourself. Loving yourself can be in the form of praying for yourself (like to feel God's love, how to forgive yourself, etc), bless yourself, take care of yourself, giving self praise whenever you do something right (as long as it's not in a prideful way), speaking self affirmations over yourself that are godly and true about yourself. I decided to bless myself and speak over myself that I am loved, that I am made in God's image, that I am valuable, and other things. And then I felt God's love. It was so amazing. If He can do it for me, He will do it for you. Just ask Him and He will change everything. Ask Him to help you recontextualize your past and see yourself the way He sees you and He will do it. Remember God doesn't see you as your sins, He sees you as His creation whom He deeply loves. Remember that If you were the only person in the world, Jesus still would've died for you to save you. You are that valuable to Him. Try reading Psalm 139 and look for Scriptures about God's love. If you are having any problems, it could be due to a soul shattering. Look up Operation Life Force and broken soul overview questions and answers discussed
@dollarwalls7926
@dollarwalls7926 4 ай бұрын
@azhomeboy2000 Wow, it hurts to read this! Somethings you can't take back when you say them. I had to forgive myself in order to forgive him. I'm not closing my heart because of someone unworthy of my genuine heart. However, I still believe that there's a kind, loving gentleman out here to love me unconditionally, but I pray my heart will allow me to love someone else and not cause them great pain because I've been cut so deep. We all make mistakes, but think about what you're saying before you actually say it... Besides, if she told you those unkind hurtful words HOW WOULD YOU FEEL???!!!
@deja_1111
@deja_1111 3 жыл бұрын
"If a person can't love you where your at, they can't love you where your going"....Amen!!
@rcblakesjr2540
@rcblakesjr2540 3 жыл бұрын
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@raphael210
@raphael210 Жыл бұрын
Amen....well said
@paulA-xs1qt
@paulA-xs1qt Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@x3965
@x3965 Жыл бұрын
'If a person can't love you where you at, a person can't love you where you going!' WORD
@dorothymate3755
@dorothymate3755 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@earleneworrell
@earleneworrell 11 ай бұрын
Well alright now.
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
Oh, you're good!
@Me-xn7kx
@Me-xn7kx Жыл бұрын
If a person can't love you where you're at, they can't love you where you're going. Love this!
@lamarwilliams1025
@lamarwilliams1025 6 ай бұрын
I so needed this word. Im on my 3rd marriage and the guilt I carry is sometimes really tough on me. My dreams are always of my exes. I'm married to a wonderful woman and want to give her all of me. This word is definitely going to free me. Thank you Jesus for your forgiveness. Amen
@paulesaturday9490
@paulesaturday9490 3 жыл бұрын
"As long as your life is cluttered with negative history, you will never move into your destiny."
@Brilove1
@Brilove1 3 жыл бұрын
Wow . Well said
@SunshineRisesAgain
@SunshineRisesAgain Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@what582
@what582 Жыл бұрын
Paule Depth You're wrong.
@what582
@what582 Жыл бұрын
Nowhere in The Bible does it tell us we need to forgive ourselves The Bible tells us we need to be forgiven by God and if we are forgiven by God we are forgiven. No more forgiveness needed.
@veeherreraJanecka
@veeherreraJanecka Жыл бұрын
And when God says we are forgiven we are !
@wendyzbravo
@wendyzbravo 3 жыл бұрын
"When we forgive ourselves, we allow ourselves an opportunity to redefine ourselves."
@iamthedreamer6237
@iamthedreamer6237 Жыл бұрын
I love this 😊 💖 👏👏
@michellesimpson4093
@michellesimpson4093 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much I needed to hear this I have chosen to see myself the way God sees me I am the daughter in whom God is well pleased 🙏
@denisegladden-peters4435
@denisegladden-peters4435 Жыл бұрын
So true. Never thought about it this way! It’s an opportunity to learn and do better! Bless you! 🦋🦅
@gailvazquez4047
@gailvazquez4047 Жыл бұрын
I forgive my slfe
@Mel-os3ld
@Mel-os3ld Жыл бұрын
@Michelle Simpson love that Michelle ❤️
@monicabrown2334
@monicabrown2334 4 ай бұрын
This message is from 2 years ago. It was recommended to me by KZfaq this evening and it's the perfect message for this very moment in my life. Thank You God! And Thank You Pastor for sharing this message!
@katiemae9996
@katiemae9996 6 ай бұрын
Brother!! I’m just now listening to this on 12/14/23… thank you brother for letting God use you because this ENTIRE WORD was for me!! Glory to God!!
@sevysev
@sevysev 6 ай бұрын
Same ❤
@robertanthony407
@robertanthony407 6 ай бұрын
Same here❤
@roccodonatelli
@roccodonatelli 6 ай бұрын
Spoke right to my heart ❤️
@ambrosiahutchison6926
@ambrosiahutchison6926 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this ! Literally divorced. Now pregnant out of wedlock. Guilt and shame has been weighing me down. But tonight I forgive myself!
@oceejay5148
@oceejay5148 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾 ❤
@bettyboop__
@bettyboop__ Жыл бұрын
Only God can judge ❤
@charlesbanksbanks7532
@charlesbanksbanks7532 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@rockymntdan1
@rockymntdan1 Жыл бұрын
John 4:15The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.” 16He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.” 17“I have no husband,” she replied. Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband.18The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.” HE did not condemn her and chose to minister to her knowing this about her before she even showed up. Keep forgiving yourself daily after asking for it and strive to do better. Be blessed.
@pamelanafuna7082
@pamelanafuna7082 Жыл бұрын
It shall be well
@brendaferguson6478
@brendaferguson6478 Жыл бұрын
I loved when he said how can you shame someone that has forgiven themselves. That will preach a whole sermon. 🙌 Don't let people hold power over your past.
@bernadettekelly8165
@bernadettekelly8165 Жыл бұрын
Amen ....
@mmxw2294
@mmxw2294 Жыл бұрын
Free ❤❤❤❤
@lynettegreen2939
@lynettegreen2939 Жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@lunar5674
@lunar5674 Жыл бұрын
How?
@noahbodie222
@noahbodie222 Жыл бұрын
Very solid 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@kwester318
@kwester318 7 ай бұрын
I'm not 10 minutes into this and you have spoken truth straight to my heart. I am 64 years old, and I carry such shame and guilt. I can not forgive myself, but maybe with your words, I can start this process. "You can't shame a person who has forgiven him or herself. " Thank you for these words. ❤
@Ston247
@Ston247 Жыл бұрын
The best advice on the internet. Self-sooth, forgive yourself, reflect on your lesson then move on.
@shirleywilliams6924
@shirleywilliams6924 3 жыл бұрын
Love you and your wife pastor! I’m 21 years old and the reason I released myself from a 2 year soul tie at 20 was because of you and become abstinent for over a year now . May God bless you many times over
@kimberlyhansen6754
@kimberlyhansen6754 Жыл бұрын
Why is it so hard to forgive yourself but easier to forgive others?💜
@thefinancedr7162
@thefinancedr7162 Жыл бұрын
We hold ourselves to a higher standard most of the time.
@Dabotuboman
@Dabotuboman Жыл бұрын
Because of our emotions but once we start thinking with our heads it gets better
@comment5398
@comment5398 Жыл бұрын
Because that mirror don't lie
@jillsmith1134
@jillsmith1134 Жыл бұрын
Because we are always harder on ourselves.
@jillsmith1134
@jillsmith1134 Жыл бұрын
@@comment5398 demon
@ADOMGIFTY
@ADOMGIFTY 4 ай бұрын
I thank you God for your forgiveness I have forgiven my self for been soo hard on myself Thank you sir for your teaching I am grateful ❤
@Ohmrcole
@Ohmrcole Жыл бұрын
I'm giving myself permission to Forgive myself and walk into the new version of myself. Thank you pastor!
@KrystleLaughter
@KrystleLaughter 3 жыл бұрын
This was one of the hardest thing for me to do after an 8-year toxic marriage.
@brittanyb5942
@brittanyb5942 3 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@CantBELV74
@CantBELV74 3 жыл бұрын
Right.....8 here as well ...I can't get over the thought nof why do I have to forgive myself I didn't do anything
@chrisharris2367
@chrisharris2367 3 жыл бұрын
@Krystle Laughter Academy How did you get out and did people ever ask you to stay in the toxic marriage? I’m in a toxic marriage with emotional and possibly physical cheating but can’t prove with bouts of emotional and physical abuse God has spoken to me through this video; I know if I get out God will forgive me because he knows my heart
@CantBELV74
@CantBELV74 3 жыл бұрын
Well haven't got there yet....lol...that's gonna suck
@florieriddle1082
@florieriddle1082 3 жыл бұрын
You're stronger than, you're greater than, You are more than a CONQUEROR. Amen.😇
@josiegomz2350
@josiegomz2350 3 жыл бұрын
Knowing when to leave is so important. The party. The job. The relationship. . . . Thank you! 🙏
@gentleasa5728
@gentleasa5728 3 жыл бұрын
Well put lady💯
@RonniBB
@RonniBB 3 жыл бұрын
Love this Josie! ❤️
@julieanne413
@julieanne413 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@leeniehenry3728
@leeniehenry3728 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!! This is it.
@rashimasimmons7583
@rashimasimmons7583 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@Jasminepsalm
@Jasminepsalm Жыл бұрын
I don’t really have a family and you are like a father to me. Thank you for all you and your wife do for people. God bless you
@CaTharsis92
@CaTharsis92 5 ай бұрын
Very intelligent and wise man. I’m in a situation where I had a break up 5 months ago and I started changing I wanted to die. I felt I couldn’t get out of my past because people wouldn’t let me. I daily tried saving but watched it continuously fall through my fingers. And I reflected on my behavior how I ruined it. This was informative. I pretty much Ed locked myself in my apartment for 5 months. I think society keeps some individuals in a guilt trip. U are a good teacher
@taniathomas7353
@taniathomas7353 2 жыл бұрын
I no longer care what others think of me. I’m not going to keep destroying myself because of my past.
@jawilli6
@jawilli6 Жыл бұрын
The lie I tell myself is that no one wants me and to just settle. It’s hard but through therapy I am healing from shame
@Mel-os3ld
@Mel-os3ld Жыл бұрын
Bless you Jessica.. I said exactly the same today, I'm sitting with shame.. I've spke it out loud now, I need to heal also.. I pray for you and hope you're OK sweetie ❤️ 🙏
@Janice-ku9gz
@Janice-ku9gz Жыл бұрын
Me too 🙏
@jimabraham8613
@jimabraham8613 Жыл бұрын
Hang in there, ma’am. Don’t settle. Please let go of the shame. You are a good person.
@todddavidson2545
@todddavidson2545 Жыл бұрын
If your Reading this I sow Prayer seeds of Mighty Rivers of Blessings, Favor, Prosperity, Success, Grace, Protection, Love, Joy, Happiness, Peace, Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding and Good Health to You and your Kids Kids Forevermore. 444
@dollskull86
@dollskull86 Жыл бұрын
Same
@simplygem8449
@simplygem8449 7 ай бұрын
Was crying my eyes out at the beginning of this...i needed this... It all made sense. Thank you so much . Thank you, Lord.
@HumbleBeauty679
@HumbleBeauty679 9 ай бұрын
Thank you. Its hard to forgice yourself because we feel like we should know better
@archiedawg4877
@archiedawg4877 Жыл бұрын
You gotta apologize to yourself for letting yourself go through things, we all have done stupid stuff-when you hold onto the past that’s like a gravitational pull holding you back -respect yourself, wake up every day and tell yourself I love you I love you so much. And say it out loud!
@Candycanecoup
@Candycanecoup Жыл бұрын
Forgiving my self has been the hardest thing. I was so lost that I didn’t realize most of my problems and mistakes came from not loving myself. I am finally at the point that I’m letting the past go, toxic people and starting to see myself in a more positive light, and it feels great. I believe I am likable, lovable, and deserve the best as I am a loving giving intelligent woman 💗 thank you jesus
@Imcooolbro
@Imcooolbro Жыл бұрын
"I Am" is the best way to get results from God ..... because God Is the great "I am"
@RexMckinnis
@RexMckinnis 5 ай бұрын
I just scrolled upon this, I’m not really religious but this still hit my soul. I made a lot of mistakes. In 2021, I made a lot of mistakes and had a lot of falling outs due to my behavior. A lot of it I don’t believe I was at fault but there are a lot of flaws I indeed made. Im trying my best to get out of a cycle of depression. I forgive myself then I’m right back in the cloudy weather. I just want to truly forgive myself and be greater.
@andreejohnston516
@andreejohnston516 4 ай бұрын
I forgive myself for believing the lies my family told me my whole life and still tries. I am worthy deserving and a beautiful child of God who rejects abuse in all of its forms. I rebuke Satan and all his minions. Please Gid raise me up so I can serve as your strong vibrant healed child!
@charissahartunian3627
@charissahartunian3627 4 ай бұрын
😊🙏🏼🙏🏼☝🏼
@wachukas
@wachukas 3 жыл бұрын
Guilt is like waist deep quick sand. It won't kill me but it will not allow me to move forward. Wow. Thanks you @rcblakes. This is a priceless lesson right here.
@melissawhite9871
@melissawhite9871 3 жыл бұрын
The embarrassment of the things I did still brothers me even in my dreams..Working on being better and this I know..
@jimmyclassics4248
@jimmyclassics4248 11 ай бұрын
This is true Church!!! Thank you and bless this Congregation !!! The Father . The Son. The Holy Spirit. Amen.
@tawandagchiweshe3709
@tawandagchiweshe3709 29 күн бұрын
This is very timely! I forgive YOU TAWANDA GEORGE CHIWESHE. Now watch greatness unfold, I have been holding myself back because of guilt and shame! God let your will be done. I know who I am!!
@ToniViolaFreshFire
@ToniViolaFreshFire 3 жыл бұрын
SOME CONVERSATIONS ARE VERY NECESSARY THIS IS WHY I TUNE IN....THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!
@muyumyah
@muyumyah Жыл бұрын
You cannot shame a person who has forgiven themselves,damn that hit hard...Thank you for the lessons and the wisdom Sir
@ayity1985
@ayity1985 Жыл бұрын
Work that logic out and you will find it crazy. So I can do anything hurtful to people but as long as I reckon within and clear my mind off of it, then life goes on. That is crazy.
@soupsnakes424
@soupsnakes424 Жыл бұрын
@@ayity1985 I think of it more in the way where someone who flat out says “Sorry, I know I’m an a-hole” will say it but doesn’t try to fix it. Just because someone declares that they are crappy, doesn’t fix it. The forgiveness comes with knowing inside how sorry you really are and the intent to change for the better. A better way to put it would be that this probably doesn’t work the same way for psychopaths or people who lack empathy. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@SOLIDTHAGOD
@SOLIDTHAGOD Жыл бұрын
Hello are u single
@kissiegartei4395
@kissiegartei4395 4 ай бұрын
As I struggled to forgive myself today, this came right on time!! Thank you🤍🙏🏿
@RVCHAT
@RVCHAT 8 ай бұрын
I don't know if you read these or even hve time, but you are a real human, a real man and from the bottom of MY heart I truly thank you for forever that you took the time and energy to help so many others. There are no words to convey as to my, and others, gratitude and love for you and your advice and love to us all.
@he6153
@he6153 3 жыл бұрын
Very true, guilt holds us back.....I have felt very guilty for making 'stupid' mistakes, Blaming oneself for not knowing better, that we should have known better.....thank you for this.
@buttaflyantics8618
@buttaflyantics8618 Жыл бұрын
I needed to find this. I’m still soo mad at myself for letting people take advantage of me. I’m so mad I let nobody’s have an upper hand in my life.
@D1KvN
@D1KvN Жыл бұрын
Certain communities need to hear this.
@celpabedn
@celpabedn 4 ай бұрын
You can do it, but others will not,best thing is to leave and find a new place where the ghost of old wrongs do not abide!
@ermacarr1
@ermacarr1 3 жыл бұрын
This is for me I can cancel my therapist.
@lynnwoo1923
@lynnwoo1923 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! God and his messengers are the best therapy! Good look on your healing.
@rashimasimmons7583
@rashimasimmons7583 3 жыл бұрын
Something Great will happen for you and yours this weekend. 🙏📬🎁🥇👣
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
@user-zx5xw4yw2e 3 жыл бұрын
Don't cancel. It'll both be helpful toYa.
@yp8053
@yp8053 3 жыл бұрын
Keep both girl!!! God, therapist, messengers...
@ermacarr1
@ermacarr1 3 жыл бұрын
@@yp8053 I been in this for 8 months and I’m out of trauma now. I feel like they have done all they can do. Plus I pay cash and don’t have a job.
@ground851
@ground851 2 жыл бұрын
Today I forgive myself 100 percent. I don't not want to hold on to the past. I want to walk into my purpose with confidence. I will love myself and will attract ppl who will love me. We will uplift each other and walk with power of God in heart. Everyone have a blessed day.
@pat4502
@pat4502 24 күн бұрын
I right now today forgive myself in the name of Jesus…Amen
@TheZanReviews
@TheZanReviews 4 ай бұрын
Wow . I had been mewling over a mistake I made in the past that caused the decay of my relationship since they would not let it go. And it had been rocking me with guilt since I felt like I could never be good enough. So this was exactly what I needed. Thank you.
@j.daniellecass4807
@j.daniellecass4807 2 жыл бұрын
This is what I have been needed for the last eleven years. I was deep on sin. I have an extramarital affair with a married man that produced a child. I haven't been able to forgive myself even got married to what you have taught me is a narcissistic male to redeem myself and nearly lost what was left of me in that marriage. I walked away from that marriage. I have been walking with God and listening to your teachings. They have helped me tremendously. I thank you for your history as it set me free from mine.
@remainhumble6654
@remainhumble6654 3 жыл бұрын
❤The Title Alone, Made Me Click And Watch, ❣ and Click the Like Button❤
@ladye677
@ladye677 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@KimK_AllDay
@KimK_AllDay 5 ай бұрын
I stay in your video Playlist. They are so encouraging. This one hits home. Forgiveness, soul tides, and worthiness; all of the things I'm currently struggling with. I've failed myself, my marriage, my family, and I don't know what forgiveness feels like. I'll ask God for forgiveness, but I want to apologize to the ones I hurt. Doing that will open up pandoras box. So, I'll work on me and pray to God for a fresh slate. Thank you, Bishop Blakes❤
@JessLovesU86
@JessLovesU86 4 ай бұрын
I wish I could hug you and cry. Thank you for reminding me that I’m human who is growing past my past.
@somethingspecial1415
@somethingspecial1415 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ArtsyLadyCrafter
@ArtsyLadyCrafter Жыл бұрын
I like this: We are not defined by our mistakes. We are refined by our mistakes. Have to share and credit you, and Our Father. 🙏🏽
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
Who's father?
@neilsworldwide
@neilsworldwide 7 ай бұрын
I like this quote. Thank you.
@robertanthony407
@robertanthony407 6 ай бұрын
Amen
@northstar7397
@northstar7397 3 жыл бұрын
Forgiving someone seems hard, but you'll feel better afterwards 🥰 keep praying! Keep your 👑 on🙏
@marthascott292
@marthascott292 3 жыл бұрын
I have to learn to really forgive myself. I thought I had forgiven myself, but it keeps popping up in my mind.
@northstar7397
@northstar7397 3 жыл бұрын
@Martha Scott you have to X out the negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts of your NEW SELF and your NEW FUTURE! I always tell myself no no no don't go there! And then thank God for everything! 🙏❤️🥰👑
@rashimasimmons7583
@rashimasimmons7583 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@coachcoya5554
@coachcoya5554 5 ай бұрын
I can’t even tell you how much this has helped me. I didn’t even know I needed to forgive myself for this divorce that I am going through, but hearing your words and Gods word back to me…my God it has touched my spirit!
@nofilter5
@nofilter5 4 ай бұрын
I just have to say that I have tried to watch other videos to help me with the turmoil that I put myself through. I can honestly say that your video resonated with me in a time when it feels like I’m at all time low None of my friends or therapist could help but you sir touched me tonight. I’m so very thankful that God put it in your heart to make this video in the manner that you did and allowed you the proper alignment to touch those who need it. Thank you and God bless
@user-gn7rm1vq2j
@user-gn7rm1vq2j 3 жыл бұрын
Pastor RC is telling the truth. If your having to prepare for court it doesn't mean we have to keep thinking about what they did to us. Try to think about other things. Post notes on the mirrors, refrigerator and read Phillipians 4:8. Take a drive, listen to Christian music, chat with the cashiers at the grocery store, visit the book store, go to a Christian concert. Watch Apostle Helen Sadler & Dr. Carmen Bryant on KZfaq. Let them go! Watch Madea-Let them go.
@rashimasimmons7583
@rashimasimmons7583 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@tamarareese5347
@tamarareese5347 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@brendabeautiful3096
@brendabeautiful3096 2 жыл бұрын
Madea send missed messages@ conflate the truth, as written in the bible...
@toddsmith1690
@toddsmith1690 Жыл бұрын
Been alive almost 55 years been battling a life threatening illness for 11 years. Hated myself before this NOW I TRULY DID NOT REALIZE WHAT I HAD UNTIL IT IS GONE. HEALTH WEALTH AND THE ABILITY TO FUNCTION MORE THAN AN HOUR OR 2 EACH DAY. THANKS FOR THIS MESSAGE. 🙏🏻💙🌎
@todddavidson2545
@todddavidson2545 Жыл бұрын
If your Reading this I sow Prayer seeds of Mighty Rivers of Blessings, Favor, Prosperity, Success, Grace, Protection, Love, Joy, Happiness, Peace, Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding and Good Health to You and your Kids Kids Forevermore. 444
@toddsmith1690
@toddsmith1690 Жыл бұрын
@@todddavidson2545 thank you. Your response has me crying from the thought of you caring about another human being. God Bless you. 🙏🏻💙. I’m praying for you and your family. Much Love.
@thepeoplecouldfly3859
@thepeoplecouldfly3859 7 ай бұрын
Praise The Most High for bringing this lesson to me here and now in 2023. Thank you brother.
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
Who's the second Most High?
@jagzelleckie4571
@jagzelleckie4571 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this. “Self” I forgive you.
@judybrian3949
@judybrian3949 3 жыл бұрын
A book called "Love Yourself First" its a blessing
@msprettykawaii950
@msprettykawaii950 3 жыл бұрын
I have forgiven my husband. I realized I havent forgiven him yet. Moving on and letting go of the past is part of forgiveness
@michelleanderson9733
@michelleanderson9733 3 жыл бұрын
How????
@msprettykawaii950
@msprettykawaii950 3 жыл бұрын
@Cold Fire Yes, I have ccapetd the fact thta I have ignored Rd Flgas and there is nothing I can do to undo my mistakes. Ive forgiven myself for letting him abuse me
@Gemmarose9012
@Gemmarose9012 Жыл бұрын
Moving on and letting go IS forgiveness not “part of it”.
@pbufh
@pbufh Жыл бұрын
It was 50% your fault.
@zeex4807
@zeex4807 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I’ve been struggling to forgive myself for the better part of a decade now and all it’s done is keep me trapped in my sins and led to times of giving into despair. Shame is ugly, and tells us we’re bad people (Judas). Guilt tells us we’re a good person who did bad things (Peter). I needed to hear this video today. Thank you again.
@RachelWeeping
@RachelWeeping 7 ай бұрын
And indifference tells me I don't give a rat's ass.
@zeex4807
@zeex4807 7 ай бұрын
Are you okay?@@RachelWeeping
@mcitron3534
@mcitron3534 Жыл бұрын
If guilt holds you to your past then faith propels you to the future. That was a wonderful message, God Bless you.
@jeprusan
@jeprusan Жыл бұрын
“My mistakes do not define me.” I needed to hear that, and this entire message. God is SO good. He positioned me to stumble across this video when I desperately needed to. The cloak of guilt and shame is so heavy when you don’t know how to take it off. But now I know how to direct my prayers and Bible study. Thank you for this message.💖💕🙏🏼✝️
@frantasticmom8473
@frantasticmom8473 3 жыл бұрын
I just needed to hear this is just yesterday i prayed to God about ny mistakes again. I was also a young worshiper God pregnant out of wedlock. My partner left came back got pregnant again. I did not wanten the shame so i got married to a man i know is not my soulmate. And after two years i got divorce i left cause i could not stay in the unhealty relationship anymore. The guilt a have is not normal any time i hear the word mariage or see pics or couples i just sink. I love this word. Thank you pastor fot opening up. Because i offtend think i am not perfect enough and that i am a failure.
@JuzzMe-xu4mu
@JuzzMe-xu4mu Жыл бұрын
Wow, you are the definition of a real man pastor. To admit you were the one that messed up in your past marriage is very admirable. Not a lot of people can admit to their mistakes. That says a lot about the kind of person you are. Thank you for this video. It has helped me a lot. I have brought two of your books and they have also helped me. God bless you.
@Mskesia4ever
@Mskesia4ever 2 күн бұрын
I've learned to repent, surrender to God and then forgave myself. I had to for myself...it was such a weight lifted from God...I've done all I could to try to right my wrong with the person I hurt.... I was very remorseful. Admitted how shameful and how much guilt and regrer I had for my doing...he accepted my apology but CHOSE to NOT forgive me. My ex left me ...we have absolutely no relationship at all. I even asked him to forgive me for HIMSELF...he still chose not to forgive me. So moving forward for my life...I knew I couldn't keep wallowing in my own hurt of this. I couldn't keep letting my guilt take over...that's when I knew it's time to forgive myself...as long as I went to GOD like I did... "if he is for you who can be against you!" That weight was lifted off my heart. I wish my ex well in his life with choosing to be unforgiven.
@ladymillion7722
@ladymillion7722 3 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes, I just know that I have been forgiven. But at times I find myself being repetitive when I'm praying as though I haven't been forgiven. But I know that the devil is a lie. And now I am tuned in to listen to your message. And I thank God for you.
@MegaRose1958
@MegaRose1958 Жыл бұрын
I love listening to your different videos!! They have uplifted me, I have been sharing with my friends and family.
@russwaehler1
@russwaehler1 Жыл бұрын
I don't know how this popped up on my feed - but it was the right message at the right time. This hit hard - and I realized that I need to start the process of forgiving myself, and only then can I move forward. God bless you and thank you for this wonderful sermon!
@k-lashnikova0078
@k-lashnikova0078 Жыл бұрын
My question is how do you forgive yourself? Is it anything in particular you have to say or do?
@daughterofthemosthighgod6835
@daughterofthemosthighgod6835 Жыл бұрын
same here. this popped up. So true for me.
@alritastrydom3198
@alritastrydom3198 Жыл бұрын
Same, guys! Right, bright and top of my feed - what an entrance! I needed GOD's Word, truth and His message more than life. Blessed is this Pastor - truly.
@kabes2010
@kabes2010 Жыл бұрын
Popped up for me as well I have no idea how, what I know is that it came just at the right time when I was struggling with consequences of my past and failing to move on with my life due to the heaviness of the guilt and judgments and failed expectations. Thanks to God for this word.
@turkeytscrew1456
@turkeytscrew1456 Жыл бұрын
The reason it popped up was because God wanted you to hear it and he wanted me to hear it too!🙏
@catedi3679
@catedi3679 26 күн бұрын
Good night, Bishop Rc Blake Yes, thank you,for your clarity, and focus. State sell
@agneswanjihia8940
@agneswanjihia8940 7 ай бұрын
You are Redeemed!!! Sing & Shout for Joy😁😁😁💃💃💃
@pistolannie0714
@pistolannie0714 Жыл бұрын
“Is this helping anybody?” This changed my life tonight! I’ve been struggling so hard with this and I just didn’t know what to do I’m sure I will Watch this many more times I need it to sink in wow
@athaliahj.3572
@athaliahj.3572 Жыл бұрын
I struggle with past guilt, always replaying the situations in my mind. When I reminisce I feel a set back in my spirit, which leads to temporary depression. Then I try again to be positive. Constantly Praying 🙏. Thank U QueenJ, will do!
@Eleventyeleventh
@Eleventyeleventh Жыл бұрын
It sucks doesnt it. I even get headache.
@queenj5308
@queenj5308 Жыл бұрын
I can relate, ruminating and negative self talk is a learned habit/behavior so we have to reverse it by practicing new healthier habits like positive affirmations and positive self-talk/meditations, etc. It takes time, effort and prayer. Give yourself grace but keep practicing. 🙏🏾🙌🏾
@todddavidson2545
@todddavidson2545 Жыл бұрын
If your Reading this I sow Prayer seeds of Mighty Rivers of Blessings, Favor, Prosperity, Success, Grace, Protection, Love, Joy, Happiness, Peace, Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding and Good Health to You and your Kids Kids Forevermore. 444
@athaliahj.3572
@athaliahj.3572 Жыл бұрын
@@todddavidson2545 Thank You, Mr. Davidson, I receive your prayer!
@treefrog1841
@treefrog1841 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. It is the devil trying to make us re-live that tragedy! I pray for you. It doesn't help to keep re- living it. I know from experience! God forgives.
@moniquedoyles6138
@moniquedoyles6138 7 ай бұрын
This has blessed me greatly. The Lord literally lead me here. I am free from self condemnation.
@puseletsoish
@puseletsoish 2 күн бұрын
Some of yall's comments here are really uplifting. In a time where one truly tries to forgive themselves and let go, it helps. It's so hard. One minute you are positive then the next you feel so worthless and hopeless of life. You know you have to let it go and give yourself a chance at life, but the fears, guilt, disappointment in self, uncertainties, worthlessness and heartbreak just keeps dragging you down. I pray to God to help me love myself and give myself a chance at this life again 🙏
@Italiana72787
@Italiana72787 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this deliverance message that went straight to my heart and released the strongholds of guilt and shame over my life. I felt it. Bless your ministry Pastor Blakes
@tunisiaruth
@tunisiaruth Жыл бұрын
This video is 1 year old but showed up this morning when I opened the KZfaq app. Thank you to The Most High GOD for this word. 🙌🏿 "The inability to forgive self is a demonic stronghold to keep you from your greatest. As you forgive others forgive yourself for decisions that you made during your times of brokenness. Choose the lesson and wisdom over the pain, shame and guilt. Learn to forgive yourself on your journey for the experiences that you've had in the process of living as a humanbeing. Self forgiveness frees you from captivity of a dead past.."
@SOLID07
@SOLID07 Жыл бұрын
Lord You are gorgeous
@SOLID07
@SOLID07 Жыл бұрын
@Beautyby Nisia you are gorgeous
@todddavidson2545
@todddavidson2545 Жыл бұрын
If your Reading this I sow Prayer seeds of Mighty Rivers of Blessings, Favor, Prosperity, Success, Grace, Protection, Love, Joy, Happiness, Peace, Wisdom, Knowledge, Understanding and Good Health to You and your Kids Kids Forevermore. 444
@deborahlacy8904
@deborahlacy8904 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor. I love you keep on preaching God's words of love to His people keep on letting Our Heavenly Father use you .Keep praying 🙏 for oneanother . Deborah Lacy 63 yrs old and I have never been Marrie yet. Thank you .Stay safe in the Father.
@islandgirl9792
@islandgirl9792 7 ай бұрын
Three years ago I was present for this😢 I still come back every now and then for a reminder as I’m still struggling 😢
@zacharivalentin504
@zacharivalentin504 Жыл бұрын
12-11-2022 I will never be able to explain what this video did for me or how desperately I NEEDED to hear this today.
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