10 Ways You Can Get Used to Being Emotionally Abused by a Narcissist

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10 Ways You Can Get Used to Being Emotionally Abused by a Narcissist

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Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Help for Toxic Relationships

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Little by little, nasty, bitter, unfair things start becoming part of the day-to-day with a narcissist. Those Hijackals are relentless in wearing you down and getting their way, right?
You might pass it off as another "little thing to avoid" to reduce the abuse. WHAT? You're doing things to reduce the abuse rather than set boundaries and making plans to leave? SEE HOW SNEAKY IT ALL IS? Don't miss these ten main "features" of narcissistic abuse!!
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- You can get used to being emotionally abused...and, that's not good!
- Failing to see abuse as abuse is dangerous.
- Among the top ten forms of frequent emotional abuse
- 10 (of too many) ways you can subtly get used to being emotionally abused
* * Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.
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@rjlacroix3334 8 ай бұрын

Dr Shaler , I'm a 67 year old man from the East Coast . Your work has literally saved my sanity and saved my life . I'm so deeply grateful for you and your work . Many many thanks 🙏

@Uberqueenbee 8 ай бұрын

Is someone taking care of you? You care for all of us.

@131doves 8 ай бұрын

I am so deeply moved that your commitment to those of us who are suffering or have suffered from this kind of abuse even during your physical hardships makes me value these betrayals. You give me courage to move forward! Bless you and this gift you’re giving us🙏🌟🕊🙏💕

@TryM.yVivier 8 ай бұрын

ARE YOU OKAY??. I can't ignore my concern watching you still care sooo much about helping others, even while on oxygen. I know this is a Very public platform and I respect your right not to disclose anything you choose, but I would love a response of how I could say some prayers on your behalf. You are such a a beautiful light in the darkest times I've ever experienced. Thank you❤

@victoryamartin9773 5 ай бұрын

I agree.

@victoryamartin9773 5 ай бұрын

Being dismissed all my life has been so prevalent that whenever someone really attends to listening to me, I am absolutely shocked. I end up freezing, unable to speak at all for a few seconds. I've lost the attention of many because of that.

@TryM.yVivier 5 ай бұрын

@@victoryamartin9773 I've had that exact same experience. It really sucks.

@jacquelineprocter6157 8 ай бұрын

Prayers for a speedy recovery 🙏💜☀️

@MsZonia2 8 ай бұрын

Wish for you dear better health!!

@TamaraGee-qi3uq 8 ай бұрын

Dr. Shaler, you are profoundly articulate. Thank you for enlightening us all with your wisdom on this subject. Please take good care of yourself and God Bless❤️✨

@lilithjesus7718 8 ай бұрын

Dr. Shaler , thank you so much again for hosting this amazing session 🙏. I don't mean to be condescending, rather I am greatful for your wisdom and I feel concerned for your well-being as I see what appears to be a temporarily worsening condition ? I am very sorry if this is unwanted , I just hope you are getting everything you need 🥺 💜 🍲 🛌 💟 🍵 💚

@TryM.yVivier 8 ай бұрын

I completely agree with your sediments.

@bikimajic9610 8 ай бұрын

You are a beautiful soul. Thank you so much for all you do and share. You’ve helped me to start clearing the fog. I pray for your healing and know that you are precious to us too ❤️🙏🏻

@lynnemilazzo3904 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for all your advise ... You have helped me greatly to let go of my adult highjackle child.You are one heck of a fighter, to keep on keeping on through what looks to be a very difficult time......xo

@MizpahMoo 8 ай бұрын

I’m in this situation, my son is treating me so bad! Sending love Lynn I’m glad you have been able tk let go you deserve so much more . Xxx

@bikimajic9610 8 ай бұрын

@@MizpahMoosame here 😢it’s the hardest being a parent of an adult narc especially when the other child is so good and is now forced to leave me because of narc son 💔

@antroneb1 8 ай бұрын

I love you; we are better people because of you 🙏 Thank you

@rjlacroix3334 8 ай бұрын

I completely agree with your wonderful sentiment .🙏

@bixenbixen4195 8 ай бұрын

Thank you I just found you 🙏prayers to you

@juliaskagfjord6207 6 ай бұрын

You have a peaceful and calm manner in relaying information on narcissistic abuse that is otherwise unparalleled on youtube. I so deeply appreciate the work you have done and what you have been sharing.

@user-uc1go4io9c 8 ай бұрын

Please keep sharing. There’s so many that are hurt deeply, suffering, confused yet somehow have that gut feeling - now know - we were deceived. 39 years of this crap. Evil crap. And tries to say it’s all me.

@emj3677 8 ай бұрын

Please take care if yourself and get well. You are such a precious soul. You have helped me with your wise words. Please get better. 😢 We ❤ you!

@ChelseaDrouin 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this ❤ bless you I would just like to mention that here in Spain you can only call the police when they hurt you physically. Threats are not a problem. They can threaten your life and you just have to wait till it actually happens and then you can call. First survive People are allowed to even stay in your house if they get in. Unless you can prove they are stealing or hurting you the police can't do anything about it. The problem always goes to the one that makes noise. So if I scream out police and there is no actual physical violence or stealing just threats and someone that doesn't want to leave my home under my name I am the problem. You can imagine how easy it is for predators here.

@jackiep5009 3 ай бұрын

I am going through a breakup from a Hi Jackal. I love that term because he has been diagnosed with BPD but the rages and some times it looks more NPD like my mom. Your term fits! Today I know I would rather soend the rest of my life alone than one more day with him

@michellewilkinson8458 8 ай бұрын

He is all 10! Thank you for the reminder! I'm working on my exit strategy. I'm praying for you ❤ Thank you so much for your podcasts. He has me isolated financially as well! Without money he knows I have no where to go! In trying to find resources to help me. I'm fighting to get disability. But it'll be about another year before I'm approved.

@jacquelineprocter6157 8 ай бұрын

(((((((((((💜))))))))))) Praying for a miracle for you and your escape asap 🙏

@ms.texassoldier7203 8 ай бұрын

The fresh start keeps repeating itself along with the rage fits. It’s exhausting. I pray for those victims that are more disabled and struggle to shield themselves from this abuse. The real victims not the narcs. The narcs don’t ever get it. It’s a bad deal. Their minds are so deeply programmed to only protect themselves even to the point of hurting all family members or most family members. But thank God the narcissist education is been set on fire and these narcs are being cornered in. I’m so glad! Amen and thank you to all counselors, life coaches, book writers, KZfaqrs , pastors, and lawyers, survivors and any others who have contributed teachings and experiences! We can’t ever thank you enough!!

@Snow-wz6eu 4 ай бұрын

I hope you are ok Dr. Shale.

@victoryamartin9773 5 ай бұрын

@robinlindberg6339 8 ай бұрын

Your Love for us is obvious, ... and you must know.... our Love for you goes deep as well. 😔🙂 LOVE is a gift. Thank you.

@tammydietschweiler7852 8 ай бұрын

Thank you, you give me the courage to try and leave him. I’m on disability although I hope I can manage on my own, I will be more at peace. Take care, I know how sickness takes so much out of us!

@elskar1 8 ай бұрын

I love your wisdom and everything you share and am very grateful 🙏

@KBisme 8 ай бұрын

God bless you! Sending prayers and strength to you. Thanks for your wise, empathetic and sincere advise. ❤

@denise0777 8 ай бұрын

Dr. Shaler, you are a treasure and you show such compassion and understanding. You've said all the things that describe my spouse and what he does. I've wanted to leave, but have no means right now...I'm doing the best I can. I pray for you and your needs. God bless you!!!

@lucemarina1905 7 ай бұрын

Thanks so much. God bless you.

@wonderfulwenna2710 8 ай бұрын

Hello Dr.R.,lovely to see and listen to you again.I look forward to your podcasts.

@user-cv7ws5np2f 3 ай бұрын

I hope you are ok ❤

@cindysantos9300 2 ай бұрын

I past two times through silent tratment that was the worst thing i had to learn. I left when he gave it the second time. But it is still hard to heal since 4month i am in my process

@sheilawilliams9080 8 ай бұрын

Families often have genetic patterns of Narcissistic abuse. It can be all that you have ever experienced from family.

@lucemarina1905 7 ай бұрын

Women who have been in Domestic Violence, will take Emotional abuse because they are not beat. Mental abuse is as bad or worst.😢

@Countrylover1946 8 ай бұрын

I saw where narc mansplaing should be called correctile dysfunction. Lol

@tmking7483 8 ай бұрын

Take 2 tablespoons of organic coconut oil everyday _ and 1 teaspoon of fish oil for mylination. Peppermint smells will keep u in mindfulness. Box breath.

@monimcintosh2310 8 ай бұрын

Please take care of yourself.

@Jess-wk5jo 8 ай бұрын

I have questions for you over affairs and cheating. If i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating