There’s nothing wrong with playing video games, but when they take over your life and keep you away from your family... ISSA PROBLEM

I wish the episodes were at least an hour long. I feel like the Judge never gets to say everything she's thinking fully, though she does give some BOMB ass advice, the ends always seem rushed to me.

Judge Lynn is too smart for her own good lol I could only pray to be as wise and amazing as she naturally is. She's truly an inspiration!

That's a hard 30 and 32 years they have on their faces

She looks like she is old enough to be his mother!

Sick of this "revenge cheat" bullshit. Two wrongs don't make a right.

You know what else helps PTSD? Therapy🤷🏾‍♂️

I still don't get how people can cope with ptsd after serving in the military by playing first person shooters...

This is one of the best episodes - especially hearing what Heather had to say at the end of the show, which was a small window into what it's like living with someone who suffers from PTSD. I think it opened Chris' eyes as well. Luck and love to the both of them.

What i notice about alot of military guys who struggle coming back is that they become very passive. He's very soft spoken, very deferential, when something heavy pushes against him he wilts easier, etc.

That woman is not 32! I'm the same age but she looks like she could be my mother. As for the guy, I do feel where he's coming from. You can tell he's hurting and I could understand the wife's frustration. Do wish them the best of luck.

If I had a dollar for every time this particular situation was misunderstood, I would have a whole lot of dollars. I too am a disabled veteran diagnosed with PTSD. But things are not always what they seem to be. Gaming is soothing to him because it is familiar. His behavior is not the problem, it is a clue. PTSD in combat soldiers is also a clue. A symptom of traumatic brain injury or TBI. We often get so preoccupied with analyzing behaviors, we often overlook where such behaviors come from. We so desire the behavior to simply stop, we don’t go far enough to find the root cause which for most combat veterans of conflicts, past and present, is the injury to the brain. And the way brain injury, that cannot be seen by the observer by the way, manifests itself is through behavior. Most of these veterans suffer TBI through concussive blasts, explosions, etc... that may or may not knock them out. Through the proper diagnostic imaging (MRI/DTI and or SPECT scan) these injuries can actually be SEEN and properly diagnosed and , yes, even healed through Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy (HBOT). This is not the current VA protocol for treating these injured veterans. These real injuries are being treated with a series of medications, many of which carry “Black Box” warnings and are psychotropic in nature and absolutely do not in any way address the root cause of the problem, actual injury to the brain. If suicide and suicidal thoughts and ideation are a symptom of PTSD from TBI, then please know that introducing psychotropic medications to the injured brain increases the possibility of suicide exponentially. It already has. And it leaves families devastated and broken...and it can be prevented. To learn more, see the treatnow.org and NorthStarHBOT.com websites. This family deserves to be happy, they deserve to know that they are fighting something real, an actual injury and that their marriage, their family can be saved. I have seen the pain in that veteran’s eyes far too often. He is a man who has done extraordinary things and has broken through the glass ceiling time and time again. Do you really think he is HAPPY to sleep in and play video games? To be detached from his family? To be that young and suddenly become the nation’s next charity case? Something is very wrong with that picture... He needs healing, he needs his life back...all of these veterans do...

I love Judge Lynn! She is a wise woman with style lol

Judge Toler is a fair, honest, and a wonderful judge. Keep up the great advice that you been giving. Love you Judge Toler 😄😄😍😍

There is no justification for cheating. It's really silly and immature for adults to say I did this bc you did that. That's childish logic and behavior Smh

They both cheating throw the whole marriage away 🤦🏾‍♀️

The Judge was so right, instead of talking about what the issues they had and working on them together, they both just went and did what they wanted to do. He's lying when he says he never used the PTSD as a crutch, he doesn't even fully know if he did or not. Getting him some help is the best way to go and hopefully it will work. If not, it's time for her to dip and dip quick. Though I don't agree with her stepping out on the marriage, I can see that she was begging for him and he just couldn't give her what she needed. Hope they work out, but if not, hope they can heal.

Judge Lyn looks way younger than them...

I loved the way u told him to fight that fight judge #awesome

32!!! No way!

If he has PTSD from the war, how is first person shooter games going to help him move forward???? Also, how do they make money if she's a stay at home mom and he's disabled?

How do people live in those small towns were everyone knows one another and they all know each other's business that would just be too much damn drama for me?

Judge Lynn made a very interesting point... People feel like they have to justify their wrongdoings, within their marriages/relationships.... Talk about #factz!!!

I want to hug him so bad and pray for him💐💐💐💐😳 Am going to pray for them both.

I love to listen to judge everyday just to hear her words of wisdom.

he got that new call of duty i know he do

Judge advice literally gave me chills!!!

32?!... Where?

Lynn is the most beautiful woman on earth

May God give them strenght and protect their children's hearts and theirs. I want to hug them....my heart goes for people that endure stupid moronic wars trauma... such pain... ill hug them all and pray for them!😳💔💘🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

Why the plaintiff lyin about her age tho? 😒😒 He needs to get help. That PTSD will go nowhere until he addresses his trauma.

Why isn’t he making money from KZfaq. They have KZfaq Gamers who make several thousands dollars a month just playing video games.

Very helpful Judge.excellent video.

She aged like milk. She looks 49

She is too good. Very inspirational.

I hope they can work it out. Judge Lynn handled the whole situation with grace, tact and still tough-love.

she looks 50

As a country or people we are so critical of people looks. It is so sad and beyond disgusting! These comments mainly talking about what age they look like what does that have to do with the case? It’s just mean.

Aww He needs a hug.

32???

Love Judge Lyn ....what a great lady....

10 hours per day that's nothing compared to Geesice, he played 22 hours a day for 1 and a half months to get top rep

Judge Lynn is amazing Love her ❤❤❤

she looks like his mother. Seems like he doesn't care. She went elsewhere because he's not giving her what she wants so she goes else where. Why even be together..

Good episode ❤️😁💗😘

In other news, how much does Dr Mandel look like George from Seinfield

She looks old she said 32 lol

Why everyone mad at her for cheating n saying mean shit but ain’t giving him wrong for him doing it first cuz he is a veteran. Like wrong is wrong hold ppl accountable for their actions at all times. He know what he was doing just as much as she did. Y’all get on my nerves with that bs...

Judge Lynn make up is flawless. She is so gorgeous!

I like this case because people, including myself, are not completely educated regarding PTSD. We need to learn more & be more sensitive to these heroes. God bless him, & I hope that he continues to heal. He's a good person with real issues. I pray that they both get it together for Sunday plus!

Spot on.

He didn't speak much it's worrying. But I pray they work through it. He can be better for himself n then his family ❤

32??? 52 maybe!

My Favorite Showww!

Thank you Mr. Jones for your service.

Is she way older than him? Their haircuts are in different eras of life

God forbid that judge Lynn Toler' s marriage doesn't eventually turn, because she is so comfortable and lucky. I think boasting brings bad karma at times. Year's of good marriage can surprisingly go bad too.

Judge Lynn always so beautiful love that necklace

I don't know I just can't tell people to stay together after the constantly cheat on each other cuz I know I can't be nobody who does and I don't deserve a woman who stays with me if I do the same

At least he’s not out nowhere cheating with another woman 💯 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

He looks so sad. If she hasn't suffered with the pstd.she has no idea what he feels like on the inside if it's only thing keeping him sane then let him play . My heart aches for him. He needs stop cheating and she sure don't need cheat on him cause she got her feelings hurt. And she needs grow up . She needs quit being a baby about not getting 100% of his attention.. and he needs be in therapy .

what a sweeeeet doctor i like him too

32? come on now quit lying.

hillbilly love...

Judge Lynn Toler, what is the name of the black female judge hanging on the left side of the wall. I have googled, but I could not find anybody resembling her self portrait.

I love Xbox and Nintendo, but I don't play with it all the time like that and I am 33 years old. Haven't played that long since I was like 13 years old.

I'm married to a gamer. I resent it sometimes but I've learned to do stuff for myself. You take it away from them and they will resent you. She has no right to pawn his stuff and spend the money on herself. THIS man has problems and he need alot of help .cheating on each other's is so stupid and selfish .she's selfish.

Her husband looks like he could be her son

32 going on 55

WHEEWWWW JUDGE KILLED THAT ENDING.. Whatever weakness you have..just like he fought in Iraq fight that too! And keep your marriage a place of love and calmness an dont go outside ur contry...BOOOMMMM💥💥!

There are jobs for playing these crazy games and they pay good ,,, send him there

I definitely get where the wife is coming from about the games. My husband LOVES his games (I play with him occasionally ) and will play the PS4 for 4+ hours at a time sometimes (which I know is NOWHERE near the 10+ this guy is). There are times where I have to ask him to get off his game to help with dinner or chores (I'm physically disabled and it's hard to do some things alone) or I have to stand in front the tv when I want to start sexytimes lol. Luckily my husband understands that our needs as a couple/household come before anything especially his games. I couldn't imagine if it got to this point of him neglecting me/our future children.

32? Must be the granny Hair do cz she sounds 32

Dang! She looks like his mother.

I'm Confused. Playing A Shooting Game Helps With Ptsd From War?. Wouldn't That Trigger It?

When people look for excuss in other not to be a man... i bet you if this guy dont get financial supports, he will be up by 6 working...

Why do all the men on all of this court shows play video games. I just don't understand it. I guess they have not grown up yet

There’s no way she is 32😧

She said..."Get on my level" . I'm amost sure she's his mom.

Now i agree with the wisdom of judge lynn 90 percent of the time , there is a old saying in my country , who is in the fire knows it , the most everyone on this chat forum , judge and doctor can give is their personal opinion or expertises , i play video games , a lot sometimes , this help me to take my mind of the job i provide my service to , many of you would have a problem with this guy playing video games , i don't because i can feel this guy pain , let his ease of the psychological trauma he was exposed to slowly and surely , even if it takes him 20 years of playing video game to do so , he alone knows what he is feeling , because don't matter how much i explain the job i do in my country , u all would never know how i feel mentally , only if u are in it then u would know , i'm a correctional officer in a third world oil rich country , filled with greedy politicians , businessmen and criminals , i work 26 hours a shift then i'm off for 24 hours, then back on the job for 26 hours , when u enter the prison , the scenery looks like an old , colonial , barbaric , dungeon , with no proper ventilation , so you could imagine the scent the place gives off , prisoners are using bucket/ pails to defecate into , their are so many rodents wondering in and around the establishment , picture this a cell which is 8 feet by 8 feet , housing 12 men , which most sleep on the floor , to add on top of this currently prisoners have been threatening officers because the prisoners are overcrowded resulting in unavoidable confrontations between inmates and other inmates , for the past 3 years 7 officers were brutally murdered by ex prisoners or prisoners gang members , who called a hit on them , for doing their job and not allowing drugs , phone and other prohibited items to enter the prison, imagine u can't go nowhere with your family , can't take your family out because prisoners are telling you i know where u were last night , what u wore , what your children were wearing etc , so if playing game helping this guy through his mental depression so let it be , this guy would not play video game till he die , because everything in life got a expiry date , at least he is not out drinking , smoking , got a gambling addiction , partying everyday , but i can see this guy just want to pick up where he left off in his life , he is valuing life itself , many of you would not understand this , because u never went through it , this is the unfair part of life we all have to live with , did u heard his wife cheap champagne reason to justify why she cheated on him ? yes he cheated also , he nasty for doing that , but some women always want to play the emotional card , the guy is mentally depressed , who could be more emotional than him who saw his co worker foot blown off ? his friend bleeding to death , etc but i think he should get a job to help him fix back into society , nothing big , i know the military life takes so much away from someone , that when u return to society it's like things are moving slow , while the military world was moving so fast ,

FPS game is life

32! Wow

This woman looks like she's 50

Why is he still have that man bun. I could tell just from the side by side that he is very immature. You can't raise a man. She looks like his mother and acts like it too

There is nothing wrong with playing videos.. if u don’t like it then get the hell on or just live with it ..

show the couple in the thumbnail not the judge. we know who show it is

I to know nothing about PTSD I have heard of it I have friends who have dealt with dealt with it personally however he is not getting professional help he is self-soothing using a video game console and he's not really even self-soothing he's just being lazy if I'm honest because if you had a combat issue why are you playing first hand shooter games to overcome a combat issue it doesn't make sense to wrongs can't lead you to that happy place shooting somebody in the game and killing them after having PTSD over a combat issue doesn't make sense it's not logical

Judge Lynn 👩🏽‍⚖️ ❤️

That woman is not no 32

Really? c'mon bruh... step it up for your family.

I'm sorry, this heifa is NOT 32.

I'm sorry....32????

You can always tell when someone was a pass druggie

That’s a hard 32

This o'lady is 32 years old???

is that a mom and son? confused

Hold on pause you mean to tell me you spending 10 hours a game then on top of that he's cheating what is your reason for cheating you going to put this on PTSD also no lady I get it you're trying to be the strong one the backbone you're trying to be there for your husband because he went through some stuff however never let somebody take you down in the process of their healing because once he's fixed and he's all together and he's where he needs to be he has the option of leaving you broken now

Wot is PTSD?

Serve in iraq for a year saw things.... i wish he say what did he saw. Sometimes........ different people handle ptsd different way. See what you see accept and forgive and move forward. Dang. This is an interesting case. I wish he live out and live stronger. Psst, he should consider to find a job in big game company that is ..... game tester :) I'm telling you he'll enjoy his job and who knows....... career path into game industry? Yeah.

15:54 😮 she doesn’t care & seems proud of what she did. Acts like it was ok. What is it w/ people w this tit for tat mess and not taking vows seriously?!? What in the world.... I think what she did was just because she could and it had nothing to do w what’s going on now. Might have the beginning & led up to how she’s feeling now. Judge Lynn was spot on w/ what she told them. She gives advise specifically catered to what’s going on. I feel bad for them and hope they can work through it.