Gambling His Life Away

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Жыл бұрын

The plaintiff says the defendant is his son, and he’s concerned about his gambling addiction and wants to get him some help. He’s suing him for two unpaid loans. The defendant says his father took him to the racetrack as a child, and he’s had a gambling problem his whole life.
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@gospel4303 Жыл бұрын

Father is in great physical shape and appearance for 84yrs old. He has definitely taken good care of himself. Kudos Sir!❤️

@iamocube Жыл бұрын

Agreed 💯

@misterbee66 Жыл бұрын

Wow, GOD bless you Mr. Joyner.

@LeshaFBaby Жыл бұрын

Yesss

@MyThoughtzAndOpinionz Жыл бұрын

It’s that Race Track money 💵 😂

@geo745don Жыл бұрын

He really looks good, take care of your body folks

@sssssrrrrrrrtube7521 Жыл бұрын

They both are handsome and well kept looking men. Now, that's a DADDY!! Still looking out for his grown child. ❤️

@williamtefft3477 Жыл бұрын

That man is a hell of a GREAT example of what a father is, never gave up on his son ! 🤗🤗

@SweetnessChgoLady Жыл бұрын

Wow the dad barely looks 65

@GloryStephane Жыл бұрын

He is a product of his environment. However, at least his father is trying to help him still at 84.

@prettybrowneyes7481 Жыл бұрын

At 10 his dad sent him to stay with his mother that was struggling. That's a very impressionable age for boys. Definitely needed to be with his father. But he's too grown to still hold on to it and use it as an excuse.

@piinkam0r Жыл бұрын

@@prettybrowneyes7481 right and sounds like dad didn’t take him back either

@kenfaye3030 Жыл бұрын

This made me cry. I love father and son relationships. The dad looks wonderful for 84.

@gospel4303 Жыл бұрын

He’s a great father!

@fhenlizhao5406 Жыл бұрын

Gambling will take everyone and everything you care about. It’s a serious addiction whether you realize your addicted or not. This young man needs to first forget about the losses and any thrill of wins and quit before it’s too late. You’ll always live to be happy and fix your life the earlier you quit. Nothing beats honest bread

@msaudreyr Жыл бұрын

I second that. It’s definitely ruined my life.

@liljo911xxx Жыл бұрын

He lucky he still has a father…He should appreciate that…He seem like a good man…

@shannonholmes2292 Жыл бұрын

I lost my daddy in 2020, he was only 62. I'm 29 now. To hear his father say "Ill always love you" was so touching. He gotta talk to the universe and get it together for his fathers sake...glad his pops got the money back.

@brownskin2742 Жыл бұрын

Sorry for ur lost..

@whiteteaandpeonies9145 Жыл бұрын

I lost mine as he was 65 and I was 26. I know how you feel! ♥

@chad77657 Жыл бұрын

How do they get they money. Does the show pay it.

@deliciastevenson9413 Жыл бұрын

We as black people age gracefully black don't crack

@midwestslotdiva Жыл бұрын

84? Wow!! He looks amazing. Continued blessings

@AriesGem04 Жыл бұрын

Mr. Joyner looks very good to be 84! I wonder how old his son is.

@gwendlynjohnson10 Жыл бұрын

Dad is BLESSED !!!!

@shelocsher2396 Жыл бұрын

So because he doesn’t gamble at the race track, the father doesn’t have any responsibility for introducing his young son to the life? So if a parent introduces their child to crack, but the child grows up to prefer heroin, the parent is free from accountability? JM is such a flip flopper bc other cases he’s let the parents know they were wrong.

@scottrogue946 Жыл бұрын

I was looking for this comment. I feel like the blk community is delusional when it comes to fatherhood. If this were a BW who did this the comment section would look completely different

@sasbridgecloserstudent Жыл бұрын

I agree. I don't understand that comment from Judge Mathis. His father introduced him to gambling. How does his choice of location to gamble change that? It does not mean the son can continue to blame his father and not hold himself accountable. But it does tell how he became interested in gambling. To ignore this important fact makes no sense to me.

@butthatsnoneofmybusiness Жыл бұрын

Yes JM was wrong in his criticism !!!

@misslee3700 Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly

@misslee3700 Жыл бұрын

@@urluvizmyluv1999 LOL... wow. Did you just type that as an analogy? Okaaay!

@mzfancy4767 Жыл бұрын

Young Joyner need to take accountability for his actions. He has a great father. ❤🖤💚

@VocallyYours3 Жыл бұрын

84 man I’m not mad at him at all I need his health plans!!👏🏽

@yulnikita Жыл бұрын

Beautiful father son relationship. Mathis is so caught up on catching people sometimes he doesn't want to hear what they're saying.

@lc3811 Жыл бұрын

How is this man 84 years old? He can easily pass for 60-65, he's incredibly blessed. For the people that's not from Chicago, "the Boat" is the casino in Indiana that borders Chicago...lol. Great job dad and I aspire to look and move this well at your age.

@dorothycarty3554 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the information 👍, I was wondering what was The Boat".lol

@terry4161 Жыл бұрын

Wow dad looks 30 years younger, especially for someone who lived in the projects that will add years of stress! Son is ungrateful…living in the projects will test you but it’s up to you to want to get out. I was the only one in my projects who graduated college and moved out. And my neighbors had more money than I did! Be happy you have a good dad.

@valeedadavidson678 Жыл бұрын

WHEN DID YOU HEAR HIM SAY THAT HE LIVED IN THE PROJECTS?

@vanessatheurbantarotgoddes2192 Жыл бұрын

Ummm mathis let it go... his dad taught him the gateway to that world and son got sucked in

@johnnybing91 Жыл бұрын

Dad don't look 84 at all.

@AlliFromTheValley007 Жыл бұрын

The father is so adorable! May God bless him on earth and heaven

@annajames6701 Жыл бұрын

The father is a fine man and the son is also a handsome man but he needs to stop all that grambling

@tom11zz884 Жыл бұрын

He looks incredible for 84 years old. That said, as a father, it probably isn't a good idea to take your children to gambling events.

@sharonsmalls6846 Жыл бұрын

Yes, the zoo, circus, museums, movies, and theater are better options/venues.

@sheilae.9670 Жыл бұрын

Wow 84 years old, he looks great

@abdulwaheed5367 Жыл бұрын

The Plaintiff looks like Quincy Jones but besides that he looks great for 84

@coreyanderson5563 Жыл бұрын

My grandfather use to tk me on savage hunts when I was a kid, now Im a grown man with a dumpster diving addiction.. I say that to say Judge was wrong about his father not being responsible for his son"s gambling behavior

@lillianwilliams5510 Жыл бұрын

The father looks like Quincy Jones. This story sounds similar, just different scenarios. So many children, do exactly what they see parents ,relatives , friends do and too often end up costing parents hardships and heartaches. Children use parents!!! Gambling is addictive sometimes worse than shopping. I hope this young man will get his addiction out of his system! Gambling causes people to be homeless. His father, really loves his son Many of us have been and still going through similar situations. Now that Bobby has a son, prayerfully he will stop Gambling and put his money to more stable investments like a home for his son. The mother must have had no child support to have had to to move to public housing which attributed to Bobby getting in trouble. Father and son Shake hands but don't hug. Children often don't appreciate their parents until they are no longer alive and then still. look for what they can get.

@chrispinder96 Жыл бұрын

Judge mathis protective over these parents, esp. If they old!

@pesulanimwale9897 Жыл бұрын

Massive respect

@fosterfilms7849 Жыл бұрын

Now that’s the definition of a father.

@Mr.Boring_Man Жыл бұрын

Gambling is a tough addiction mainly because its legal. Best of to the brotha. Glad he changed his life around and his Dad is still trying to be supportive. Treatment should atleast give him ideas on how to help himself and make him aware he isn't alone.

@kapripetit8633 Жыл бұрын

Damn shame.. when they have a great father this how they treat em

@anthonyjones5551 Жыл бұрын

Race track or not he still taught him about gambling

@godschild5189 Жыл бұрын

The son is a grown man with a brain. The dad can't make him do anything. He needs to be accountable for his actions.

@scottrogue946 Жыл бұрын

Everybody keeps talking about what a great dad he is but you can’t tell me taking a kid to a racetrack doesn’t impact them.

@sasbridgecloserstudent Жыл бұрын

@@godschild5189 It is not about the son not being responsible for his own actions as an adult. This is about how he became interested in gambling in the first place. If a parent had the child around those who drink alot of alcohol, how does the parent not play a role in the child growing up to want to drink alot?

@trose202 Жыл бұрын

I really did enjoy this episode! You can just feel the good vibes and the RESPECT everyone had for one another in the courtroom!!😏

@karenk3458 Жыл бұрын

Father & son ❤️

@latoyas191 Жыл бұрын

Gambling is gambling, doesn't matter if its at the race track or the casino 🙄

@iSing757 Жыл бұрын

Dad looks damn good 👍🏾

@ethor747 Жыл бұрын

For 84 he looks great but I excepted his son to be older must be his youngest

@islandgirlruby2750 Жыл бұрын

84 y/o never looked so good.

@skettistraps1108 Жыл бұрын

The dad doesn't even look like he's in his 80's he looks younger. My dad is in his 60's & looks 1000 years old 😂😂😂

@eastside2473 Жыл бұрын

The best 84 years old dude I’ve seen Black do not crack

@reginaharrigan7454 Жыл бұрын

Son needs stop blaming dad and go to counseling

@generationalcursebreaker5397 Жыл бұрын

he has a great father

@lauralee60 Жыл бұрын

Wow daddy looks awesome for 84

@sabrinaburton3466 Жыл бұрын

Dang 84 years old, YOU ARE TRULY FAVORED

@jillcabler2186 Жыл бұрын

Damn,Pops looks Great!!

@reginaharrigan7454 Жыл бұрын

Good father and son bond

@LeshaFBaby Жыл бұрын

Father is blessed physically..he reminds me of Lisa Raye's dad..#ChicagoSwagg

@KINGDOMDAUGHTER Жыл бұрын

Pay daddy back his money, no parents money, hard working pension money, should not be any child's or children money bag. Your father/dad stood by you, unlike other dad's/father's; so shape up and stop allowing that gambling and any addictions stronghold you All the best in the treatment to rid that gambling, that is some spiritual warfare that the enemy of darkness has just cause to leverage control over the mind Remember these principalities of darkness, Ephesians 6:12, comes to steal, destroy, hinder, and take....so stay strong, focus, and push through the process, the end results is up to you and or us who are stronghold by darkness.

@highlander666 Жыл бұрын

He looks fantastic for 84, his son seems a bit delayed though 🤔

@kennethwilliams4909 Жыл бұрын

Bruh you look dam good for 84 years old! I hope I can follow them same foot steps!!

@serious7179 Жыл бұрын

He looks amazing for 84...better than some people 20 years younger

@GuyAye Жыл бұрын

Is the daddy Quincy Jones😂

@kiatarobinson6306 Жыл бұрын

Will he let him speak

@NYRealtorLovitt Жыл бұрын

What is "the boat"?

@codybreux4311 Жыл бұрын

Casinos!

@NYRealtorLovitt Жыл бұрын

@@codybreux4311 thanks lol

@codybreux4311 Жыл бұрын

@@NYRealtorLovitt They call them that,cause a lot of them is on the Mississippi river,But many aren't, Those used to it just call it the Boat!!!

@codybreux4311 Жыл бұрын

@@NYRealtorLovitt No problem!

@wildfiregirl1556 Жыл бұрын

Here in N.C. too.

@scottrogue946 Жыл бұрын

I notice people keep saying what a great dad this man is but who takes a kid gambling? 🤦🏾‍♂️

@tmston2 Жыл бұрын

you would be surprised, before laws were passed and still today in some of these small towns people took their kids to the bar

@sabrinaburton3466 Жыл бұрын

How can you judge someone who made it to 84 ? Hope you make it and I mean everything I'm saying out the KINDNESS of my HEART. I just want PEOPLE to live death is ALL WE HAVE IN COMMON. LIVE ALL THE DAYS LIKE IT IS YOUR LAST. I JUST LOVE PEOPLE SO MUCH AND I DONT CARE WHAT RACE OR COLOR YOU ARE JUST LIVE PLEASE.

@misslee3700 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@woolridge2498 Жыл бұрын

This one is heartfelt 💖 pray that God break that strong hold in his life seems like such a Great young man!!!!

@shanikaayanna9767 Жыл бұрын

His father introduced him to GAMBLING it doesn’t matter that they weren’t into the exact same type of gambling… and I wish he would’ve inquired as to why his father would send him back to his mother to live in the projects?!?!

@1234pixy1 Жыл бұрын

I wish I understood addiction….. when something is causing me harm, I just stop…. It’s such a strange thing… sad

@roshawnda97 Жыл бұрын

84?? Um Ima need to see some id talk about a silver fox wow

@iweardirtydiapers1114 Жыл бұрын

For all y’all trying to blame the dad for the son’s addiction y’all do realize this man is 84. Likely meaning he was born sometime in the 40s. Y’all don’t even know how old he was when he had his son. He probably was a teenager himself. Different time back then. Yea he may have introduced him to it, but how many times do you have to fail before you starting changing. The problem is with the son not the dad

@ethor747 Жыл бұрын

I feel like that’s his granddad

@michellekeller7488 Жыл бұрын

Awww Great case❤

@Breakfastwithmo Жыл бұрын

84!? My goodness, he looks fabulous!!!

@Tiffany-fo4zj Жыл бұрын

Father looks soooo good for his age !!! Wow. I love it.

@adrianprince7266 Жыл бұрын

So many things can jam up a man these days. It seems like nothing but a bunch of pitfalls. No good women, addictions, the system, racism, etc...cannot even get an honest break out here. But hopefully this defendant is able to pull himself out of the gambling addiction rut that's he's in and perseveres.

@mzfancy4767 Жыл бұрын

Antoinette is BAAAACKKK!!! 🤣

@aliciabrandon-cadichon85 Жыл бұрын

Here he goes...AGAIN, smh

@adrianprince7266 Жыл бұрын

You women always come at someone whose honest, especially an honest man.

@adrianprince7266 Жыл бұрын

Nope. No need to get paid for just being honest. Has nothing at all to do with money. Tired of the truth being out here but nobody wants to speak on it because they're too scared of the ramifications. Tired of it all. I won't be handcuffed in telling the honest truth. To hell with everyone else. They can continue to lie and fabricate the truth all they want but it won't be this man.

@sereneamani1713 Жыл бұрын

@@adrianprince7266 Once you mentioned that you had a daughter. How did that happen? What in your personal life turned you against women?

@riod7559 Жыл бұрын

How old is the son?

@valeedadavidson678 Жыл бұрын

APPARENTLY PEOPLE HAVE BEEN TELLING THE PLAINTIFF THAT HE LOOKS GOOD FOR HIS AGE. A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T START OFF WITH THEIR AGE. LOOKS GOOD SIR.

@kkanderson4872 Жыл бұрын

Damn he strong for 84!!

@SaViiKrstEYE Жыл бұрын

Eye used to be addicted to shooting dice till eye got robbed after a game 😭

@lindalovehate4910 Жыл бұрын

WOW 84 EXCELLENT A GENTLEMAN

@Monika-bc3dq Жыл бұрын

84? Seeesh... Man looks good good.

@modestinemungo4661 Жыл бұрын

But yo daddy evidently got ahold on his gambling 🎰, Now you can't even shake yo gambling addiction. 🤣 . This not yo daddy's fault! Get yo self together

@christinawheeler3123 Жыл бұрын

Yea I hope I look that good when I turn 84 iam 65 now.

@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 Жыл бұрын

They both are some nice looking men, the father looks damn good for his age

@alvedaallen1581 Жыл бұрын

Now I usually agree with Judge Mathis, but he got it wrong on this one! Up to the age of 7 children are sponges and if his father took him to the race track HIS FATHER ABSOLUTELY TAUGHT HIM ABOUT GAMBLING! It doesn't matter what type of gambling he's doing, he was taught the concept of gambling during his formative years by the most important authority figure in his life! So parents, be careful what you choose to pour into your children, especially during the formative years.

@tmston2 Жыл бұрын

The son is an adult, he cant keep blaming his dad, especially since the dad seems to not be a gambling addict

@alvedaallen1581 Жыл бұрын

You missed the WHOLE point! His father perhaps NEVER had a father that taught him gambling in his formative years, hence he has no addiction to it. It is quite different to learn a habit in adulthood as opposed to being introduced to it in the formative years of childhood. It is the same with ANY addiction, you will find that people introduced to alcohol before reaching adulthood tend to struggle with addiction to alcohol and the same goes for ANY vice introduced in childhood... sex, drugs, gambling, etc.

@alvedaallen1581 Жыл бұрын

tmston2... missed the WHOLE point! His father perhaps NEVER had a father that taught him gambling in his formative years, hence he has no addiction to it. It is quite different to learn a habit in adulthood as opposed to being introduced to it in the formative years of childhood. It is the same with ANY addiction, you will find that people introduced to alcohol before reaching adulthood tend to struggle with addiction to alcohol and the same goes for ANY vice introduced in childhood... sex, drugs, gambling, etc.

@tmston2 Жыл бұрын

@@alvedaallen1581 so if the dad introduced him to lemon cake and he became and obese adult with an eating disorder thats the dad fault as well? if the dad was smacking his mom around its all the dad’s fault and dad is accountable if the son is a woman beater?!? we all are responsible for our behavior & a clear sign of immaturity is blaming others instead of facing our issues

@alvedaallen1581 Жыл бұрын

@@tmston2 Read up on the how the brain developed on the formative years... And get back to me with a MATURE informed response rather than an off the cuff reply from what YOU think based on YOUR on emotional experience and a miseducation!

@bxbyfacebri_ Жыл бұрын

God bless him

@tinapeterson-tatman9013 Жыл бұрын

I don’t think the son is a bad person at all. He seems to be respectful and understanding of his wrong doings. Just like any other addiction, gambling grabs ahold of you tight and will make you do things you thought you’d never do to get that next “high”.. also, JM, gambling is gambling! Just because he didn’t go to the race tracks doesn’t mean his father didn’t play a part in his addiction. He could remember the excitement of it all and that’s the reason he started in the first place! Say a parent gets their teenager high on heroin for the first time but that kid grows up to be addicted to meth or crack.. you gonna sit up there and say “oh well, since you gave them H, it wasn’t your fault..” that doesn’t make any sense! Again, consistency. You bash some parents for the same thing you go easy on others for.

@jaysmith61 Жыл бұрын

Wish the brother well

@convowithashnicole Жыл бұрын

Selling drugs is still a gamble. He wasn't blaming his father but his father did introduce him to the "gambling world". The father is the one who mentioned his son's gambling therefore the son was justified in saying how him and his father use to go to the race track. Where was his father when his mother and him moved to the housing projects? Why did his father send him away to his mother?? Why? EDIT: BTWy, father looks good in his 80's! Go dad!