Thank you! I’m glad someone else is able to see it this way!

i forgot what SAHM was for a sec and i was like southeast asian…homemaker?? and then i was like ohhh stay at home mom 😂

​@@pepperspikes1849hahahahah!!!

I love the tradwife movement ❤️❤️. There's just so much negativity surrounding being a housewife and SAHM that you're giving your spouse leverage to mistreat and abuse you. My gosh it's so toxic. I love being a SAHM (yes I had a career before 🙄, no I'm not uneducated and I have a lovely husband who never complains about being the only one working). ❤️❤️❤️.

@@scholasticbookfair. uh, yeah the tradwife movement is toxic af and you love it? You may not like it but the truth is that being a stay at home parent does give the earning partner more leverage to abuse and control you. I’m not saying that always happens by any stretch but there’s a reason the past generations of women just grinned and bore all kinds of horrific things *because they had no choice.* You can be a stay at home parent without subscribing to all the religious, misogynistic bs that the tradwife movement brings to the table. We’re more than just baby makers and homemakers.

The fact she hit reverse cowgirl line and that wild laugh twice is exactly why I am subscribed 😌

What a sweet thing to say Lynn. 😊

Thank you 💓

Lol my parents take my money 😅

When I was a kid I use to get money from my mom an allowance 120 bucks a week.

Lol he turned 40, I think old enough to appreciate the ways she shows her love for him.

Thank you, love you❤

Thank you, love you❤

Not at all if you have a good husband.

@@pbear7814 You're absolutely right. There are many great men out there that make wonderful husbands. It's just hard to find them...I've dated several men before of all backgrounds and life experiences and it's tough. Not impossible of course.

I would say most SAHMs have some sort of budget, if they don't then the relationship is not a good one and it would result in the mom working anyways to help support the children's needs. You cannot fully support a family on government assistance and that's not even easily available to a mom who is married to someone with income because the gov takes into consideration how much the husband makes then. depends on the couple whether the breadwinner just has the one shared account. My parents have the shared account that automatically has a portion of my dad's paycheck deposited into it, as well as my dad having his own separate account and using that for savings from there too. I guess it just depends on the couple's trust for one another, in terms of how financially responsible the other typically is.

FOR ME WHEN I WAS A SAHM, I had a credit card that was paid off every 2 weeks or every month. I spent as I pleased but have always set a budget for myself on groceries and household necessities. Dining was always done as a family so we never budgeted BUT we agreed to only dine out 1-3 times a week . Entertainment was the same.. never budgeted but again, we only did it 1-3/ week as a family. If either of us wanted to buy something over $100 FOR OUR SELVES that was a WANT (not a need), we ran it by the other person to make sure we don’t have any other big bills we need to prioritize first.

I am a stay at home mom at the moment. I don't get an "allowance". The bank account we have is mutual, and we take the money we need from that account.

I have my own accounts, plus our joint account. My husband added me to his job’s payroll, so whenever he gets paid I automatically get a deposit as well. I have access to our joint account for whatever I want to use it for, whenever. He also hands me cash randomly sometimes. We have health insurance, life insurance etc and I am not being financially abused like so many people assume of SAHMs. It’s a blessed situation ❤️

It's not blood it's a protein & h2o

It’s not blood though it’s myoglobin which is a protein. All blood is removed from meat when it’s butchered. Y’all are eating steak with like over half of the nutritional value and flavor gone.

@@Coran_06 i don't care and people who preaches about "the right way to eat steak" sound like stupid condescending snobs to me so 🤷🏻‍♀️

@@suan333 I think people who continue to deny facts after being told otherwise sound far more snobby and condescending. Like you’re choosing to live in ignorance, if you don’t want to eat the steak that way that’s okay, but it’s undeniably not blood.

@@Coran_06 I never go to someone else to tell them the are eating their steak wrong because i don't like it like that way and try to make them look like they are stupid and ignorant because they are not getting their nutrients and whatever. And that's what you did and what you just confirm yourself. It's *PERSONAL* preference, not only i don't find it appetizing, but it barely tastes like nothing to me. Let people eat their food however they want to. Edit: and i call it blood just because it's red. I know how it works in a butchery. I live in a country where every year there's a thing called "matanza" with pigs, so i know animals get their blood drawn before. But again, you were assuming everyone is stupid because they want their steaks well done.

Rare?!? Well dang, here you go: 👑

@@gaming_foodie Thanks. 😂

That's not blood. All the blood was drained when they processed the cow.

@@anakelly76512 its blood with extra steps to make it not blood

@@user-fc2xk3uv8y It is not blood. The protein called myoglobin is what gives the juice a red hue. That's all.

@@user-fc2xk3uv8y Myoglobin and blood aren't the same thing, blood is drained at the butcher

@@user-fc2xk3uv8yAka it’s not blood and you just want to believe it is

@janiahfladger8048 That was a compliment. Especially after she had kids. My post wasn't for you anyways. You're the one who needs to stop trying throw 💩 on someone.

If you and your husband had to pay someone to come into your home daily to do the things you do, how much do you think it would cost? It would cost a lot. The money your husband earns is for both of you, and you should consider it as such, if it’s a problem, check fees for someone, or actually several people to come to your home on a daily basis that will do what you did and you take a job outside the home if that’s what it takes for your husband to understand your worth and for you to understand your worth. Then you won’t need to feel that you are spending his money on him, but rather y’alls money. I didn’t work outside our home for several years, only went to work part time because all of my friends went to work, but I always considered my husband’s paychecks to be for us, and I bought him many gifts with it, we put all of the money earned by him and me when I went to work in a joint checking account or joint savings account. We didn’t have to explain purchases to each other, but as far as big ticket items went, we discussed those purchases, neither of us would just willy nilly go out and spend thousands. Please consider changing your thinking about your importance and contribution to your household. You are worthy.