I love the honesty of this, it doesn’t take away from your gratitude for your blessings. You’re such a wonderful mom and inspiration

I feel like its hard to explain disappointment without the fear of people thinking you are disappointed with your child. I completely understand being a mom of two boys. I love them like no other, but I wanted a daughter and its hard to accept that something I want won't happen.

So nice to see a hijab represent!!! Ramadan Mubarak sister!

I definitely appreciate the gender disappointment feelings. We have two boys (now 6 and 4). I didn’t think we’d have a third, so I went through those feelings when I found out the sex of my second boy. Didn’t stop me loving being a boy mum, but just felt sad I’d never experience having a daughter. Anyway, we did end up having a third and was blessed with a girl (she is 5 months tomorrow). I absolutely love having a daughter as well as my 2 boys, but the irony is that I almost feel this weird ‘what if’ guilt.. like what if it had been another boy.. would I still feel so complete/content?! Deep down, I know I would.. but still can’t shake the weird guilt around it!

I can relate to what you said. I had gender disappointment but then fell in love with my baby, and then ended up feeling guilty for having the gender disappointment for a really long time.

I’m so sorry that you experienced this. You handle yourself wonderfully. I just subscribed

Just say Alhamdulillah 💖

I just found out that I’m having another boy I cried my heart out I’m so happy that the baby is healthy tho I’m a mom of four boys

He’s beautiful😍

Salaam alaikum thanks so much for sharing this experience gave me so much hope. My maternit 21 test said girl I really want a boy.

Which lady did you go to? Because I want to get a ultrasound. My obgyn told me it was a girl then said it was a boy and I’m soo confused.

You didn’t say how many weeks were you when you did the NIPT though ?

This topic is taboo people are quick to judge when a gender reveal goes wrong it happened to me with my second boy I was so disappointed and cried and prayed it wasn't true 😂 looking back it was so dramatic I'm currently 10 weeks and hope I finally get my girl but since it happend to me once already I'm ok with another boy but once we get that precious angel in our arms we realize how much we love them and wouldn't change it so don't feel ashamed mama's it completely fine to feel that disappointment at times

I hope mine is wrong lol , I have 1 boy 1 girl and they did that test and told me I’m having another girl and wanted a boy but only god knows why 🙏🏼 I’m waiting for the sonogram to confirm

I’m going through gender disappointment right now. I’ve been dreaming about a baby boy for 2+ years, didn’t have many symptoms and my blood test came back I was having a girl and I just……..I’m trying to wrap my head around it. I love my baby I really do but I hope the doctors are wrong lol

I understand what you’re saying! you just wanted to see that feeling of having a girl although their all a blessing I understand

I feel you 100% lol I have a daughter and really wanted a boy this second time. The clinic i went to was not my usual doctor and I did the same blood test with them. But I felt uneasy about it all And they said it was a girl on paper “consistent with female” but I’m second guess it something is just telling me they are wrong and it’s a boy 😬 could be me being hopeful for a boy idk but my anatomy scan is this Saturday so we will see ! 🤞🏼 Blessed either way!!

I have some questions for men that want another son after already having 2

I just took this test at 13 weeks 6 days. Hope its right n matches my sneek peek/ peekaboo results.

Hello! I just got my results today with the same company and it says it’s a girl but I have a strong feeling that it’s still a boy. Either way I am happy whatever Allah has given to us. I will do ultrasounds at 15-16 weeks.

Thank you for sharing this sis! I got my maternit21 test early in this pregnancy and found out i am having my 2nd boy .. i have always wanted a girl but when my first son was born i got over the gender disappointment .. and now in this pregnancy i got hit harder with the disappointment because this is most likely my last pregnancy due to fertility issues i faced with both pregnancies and mourni the loss of my girl dream .. i am now hoping my bloodtest was wrong but other than that i am trying to trust in Allah and believe He knows whats best for us i must have tawwakul and trust .. i prayed so hard for a girl both times and if i got boys .. i guess there may be a good reason why fron Allah swt

Gender disappointment is a real thing!!

I just had that test done and it says that it’s a girl but I’ve been hearing mixed reviews about that test saying that they were not as accurate as they claim and I got my 12 weeks NT scan today and when I looked at the screen it looked like a boy so now I’m confused but I guess we’ll know for sure at my 20 week visit. I think it’s smart to confirm the gender via ultrasound before doing any gender reveal.

Had my blood draw at clinic results came in the next day I'm about 8 or 9 weeks it said boy but im wondering if it's incorrect ....it's crazy bc the girl name I have is khadijah lol

Gender disappointment is very real. I’m going through it right now. Third pregnancy and really hoped and prayed for a girl. Haven’t had the anatomy scan yet but the blood test said boy again and I’m severely depressed about it.

i totally have gender disappointment and it’s ok girl i understand xoxox going through it right now ❤❤❤❤❤

I just got the same results today and I’m told is boy I already have two boys at home and I was so hoping for girl but the maternit21 test says is a boy again so I’m hoping it wouldn’t change. I’m so grateful that he is healthy

Mashallah handsome boy 🥰

Omg it can be wrong ????? Mine says boy idk I have a feeling a girl but my belly is low so I have ultrasound today but I’m 13 weeks and 3 days

I'm trying for a girl but twins and triples run in both families so gender testing is higher likelihood of being wrong. I'm trying to prepare myself for anything.

Omg I would’ve cried like a baby. 😭😭 don’t play with my emotions like that!! I too wanted a girl because I already have a boy. I opened up that envelope and was irked for 5 minutes 🤣😭 I made dua for a girl since I was like a month pregnant. I was let down for a second.

I did maturity21 result girl really praying it’s wrong and it would be a boy instead

Btw your boy is so cute mA

May I ask you about the fetal fraction you had in your test ? Mine is 7% and told me a girl. Let’s see after 3 weeks using ultrasound 😅

I decided to wait until the baby is born to find out the gender. It’s hard to be disappointed when you have a healthy, beautiful baby in your arms.

I'm can relate I'm pregnant with baby number 3 but I already have 2 boys now they did a blood test and they was like it's a boy again 😢I love this baby but I'm so sad but I was heard to just wait until the baby come out then I seen

We have 2 beautiful Daughters. We tried a 3rd time hoping we would get blessed with a little boy, just to get to live both sides of the baby world. Got a blood test done and we were told it’s another Girl. Praying for a healthy baby, but it would be nice if we were in that 0.01% of false results. Its a crushing blow only those who have been in the situation can understand. We due however feel blessed to have another little angel in our life

My current situation I have two girls already I want a son so this can be my last pregnancy but my blood work say female and I’m a little sad and depressed about it but I know I will soon get over it

I’m glad I clicked on your video. Because I just got my blood test back and they told me I’m having a boy. I really thought I was having a girl and my whole registry is filled with baby girl things. I had the panorama test done and I don’t know if anyone ever had a negative results from them. I picked out my daughter’s name and now the dad and I are kinda not talking because of this and he thinks all the information I tell him that I get from my doctors he won’t believe me

I have 3girls and now pregnant. They said today it was a girl I’m still in denial and hope it was wrong. This pregnancy is complete opposite of the three girls I already had so idk what to think now

He's beautiful

I'm 6 months pregnant and the DR did a blood gender test on me and they said I was having a boy. Then for my 21weeks Anatomy test it came out to be a girl. I was pregnant with twins at 6 weeks at 8-9 weeks one vanished. So when the did the blood test they said boy then did the anatomy it's a girl. Now they telling us the baby could be tested as a boy but have girl parts. I'm so confused. They for us to get an accurate gender they wanna put a needle in my stomach to prick the fetus to check its gender I said NO! We'll wait until the baby is boy. But we went out thinking it was a boy but now they say it's a girl. Bullshit. I'm just done going to the DR's. But congrats on ya baby boy.❤

I took the nipt test and I found out I'm having a boy and I wanted a girl for my little girl to have a friend to play with and they said its 100% right but I just feel like I'm having a girl

I did this test last week i was 13 weeks pregnant … the result was girl and in my heart i want a boy cause i have 2 girls .. I’m hoping the result is wrong 🥹because i want the experience having a boy and to be my last pregnancy 😢wish me luck ❤

I know this was two years ago but I'm pregnant with #7 I have 6 boys

Which test did you get ? I got the nipt and it came back a girl but I’m like what if that .01 and it’s a boy 😭😭😭😭😭 I go for my 20 wk ultrasound on March 10 so hopefully I can see her girl parts to confirm but this makes me even more nervous now lol

Sorry maybe I missed it, at what week did you do that blood test and also what was your fetal fraction (%) on the blood test?

May I know at which week we need to do the NIPT test

Yes I think this is happening to me now I have 2 girls and a boy and I want this 4th to be a boy. I took that blood test they claimed an error with another person w/same name as mine. She claimed I’m having a girl n I’m so sad but I’m only 10 weeks n I think she is wrong. Ima going find out .😮

I have same test done in 11 weeks Nd the result said it’s a girl ! But I need a boy ! Because I have already 2 girls , I wait my ultrasound! Than see !

This is my first baby and I just took the blood gender test a week ago, and they said that it was a boy and I was so depressed that I can be and I know that I wanted a girl because that's what I can handle but Im going to see when I take the Ultrasound in 2 months from now and I'm 11weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I’m dealing with gender disappointment right now. Really wanted a boy but having my 4th girl. I do have 2 older boys but I tried for our 3rd boy and now I’m really sad that it’s not!

I just did the sneek peek clinical blood test. It says boy. Problem is I already have 4 BOYS two of which are twins. So trust me I can relate. We tried for a girl this time. So yes disappointment.

Any idea about fetal fraction?

I am 16weeks and I just had that same test and my doctor toll me it’s a boy but I have two girls and I really feel in my heart that this a next girl my husband and I want a next girl every one in our family want a girl so we have a ultrasound to do at 20weeks we still praying that it would be a girl but if it’s still a boy we will love him the same way and be thankful for what god give us so thank you for your info and congratulations and your beautiful son he’s so cute 🥰

My wife was hoping/had a strong feeling our first child would be a boy. We just had the panorama test done and it revealed girl. She cried and was disappointed and your video helped me understand, I just wish I could help her not be upset

Someone please help me understand how many people experience wrong results. I’m currently pregnant with my 7th child. (Please don’t judge I take care of them very well) so I already have 6boys was praying that this baby I’m carry was a girl but I did the blood work and came back ANOTHER BOY! I’m beyond disappointed I cried my eyes out. I have my big ultrasound at the end of April. I’m praying the results are wrong and I could finally have my girl.

I was sure from the nub theory that I would be having a girl. Then the NIPT test came back boy. I’m deeply disappointed. My heart is broken and I feel so guilty. Worst part is I have no one I can talk to about this. A part of me hopes it’s wrong. But I hope I get over it soon. I don’t want to resent the baby when it’s born.

Aren't the blood tests supposed to be 99% accurate?

I want to have a boy 😔 i have 3 girls

With my 1st pregnancy I was told the entire pregnancy it was a boy. Every ultrasound but I felt in my heart it was a girl. 30days prior to her birth I did a 3D/4D ultrasound and was told it was a girl. Prior to there was a surprise baby shower and everything with boy things lol Today (4th child) I was told blood test is a boy but I feel it's a girl. My spirit is telling me it's a girl. I currently have a 16yr old girl, 10&9yr.old boy and 15wks pregnant.

I’m starting to feel like the only person to be disappointed to be having 2 girls 😂I wanted 2 boys

You can always adopt a daughter! There are girls in need 😉

I had a wrong girl result on maternit21 said girl I had boy

I have 2 boys and 1 girl and did sneakpeak snap and got boy result I'm so crushed I been crying all day. I know my fiance will be pissed

I got so pissed at your husband for getting upset that this child was supposed to be a girl while he already had two boys. Does he hate girls or sth?

U spend money that's not cool

Well maybe he’ll end up making you happy and turn trans 👍

This is why I buy everything gender neutral