Discipline is not the same as punishment or spanking. It’s about setting rules and boundaries to keep children safe or to learn appropriate behaviors. It involves following through on consequences when the child breaks the rules. In this video, we share our discipline techniques and welcome you to let us know which ones you use for your own children. We absolutely loved doing this show at the Golden Tulip Hotel, come solidify your family relationship at the Golden Tulip and explore more of what this gorgeous hotel has to offer. Thank you to Zuri Hair, Shades of Beauty, Shoe Puzzle and Fashion Episode for our look today :) If you enjoyed this video please like it, share with someone who will relate and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

Manuella, that hair piece looks lovely on you

We need a dad edition of this

Thank you for this topic ! I’m going to be a better auntie to my neighbor’s children 😊. Meanwhile-Emanullaz make up👌. Then all your attires👌

Thank you for the show ladies. Dealing with children in times like these one of the challenging things parents get. Trust me, no one wants their child to come out the bad one in community. By the time this mother got to this stage, lots must have happened. I have ever heard someone say, "Naye nga omuzadde, omwana akulema atya!??? Omwaana obwaana!? Ogamba otya nti omwana annemye!??? Olinga agamba Katonda nti ekirabo kyewampa sikisobola.... " The talk was lengthy. But in the end, he said, "Parents, kneel down and pray to God to teach you His kind of parenting."

Indeed l luv u guyz

This has reminded me how we nicknamed my dad police😅

Banange Manuela’s look 😍😍😍😍

Just to add on the many voices that have already contributed to this topic. The best time to give instruction and teach a child the fundamental values of life is when they are still very little ie between the ages of 1yrs and 3yrs.. Beyond 3yrs old. The child's conscience is starting to fully function but it functions off the moral deposits that you have been depositing in their moral warehouse when they are still little.. So that now you give the 'why' to the instructions you are giving.. The problem we face especially us the African parent we fail to instruct and teach and train the kids when they are little, because we be thinking that they are still little. Yet at that early age.. Their brains are at Rocket Speed in terms of capturing their sorroundings and learning.

There are repercussions pumla but you're right it takes hardwork respect and understanding. Raising with fear is short term and traumatising for the child

I agree with Rosette. Balance. Don't hold a grudge with your child. Move on after disciplining them for something. Don't be that African mom piling on words unnecessarily for hours or days.

Am actually here just to appreciate you Pumla Nabacwa for taking sometime off your busy schedule and not only look through but also respond to the comments. You really are a darling

You ladies have become 60yrs at 37..., the maturity of your words can start a whole new perfect generation and you know we need figures like you that have a positive mindset about life while others are their stealing money thinking it will give children a better future, we need more of this truth to change the mindsets of many and I pray that bumplovers will preach this gospel after learning from it but not keeping it to only their families bkoz our children may meet those broken persons in future. God bless you ladies and whoever is supporting the show

Am both. Its always according to what you have done,how bad it is and for how long i have warned you 😂

I would love to see a dad edition of this episode!

Great discussion ladies! Rosette, I've really enjoyed your submissions on this topic.

U guys shd tackle sibling rivalry, most tymz fueled by parents:knowingly or unknowingly

Arinaitwe is too beautiful 🥰❤

She's a single mum but it's not that boy's job to raise himself. Manuela as someone in early childcare too I am with you. The onus is on us

My mum practiced gentle parenting ,all my childhood I was beaten twice ,if I can remember. We talked through things . Just two canes made us quack .

Atleast iam eating new mans crisps as i watch this episode

I love this. We need to all be present and involved. Very wise ladies

Informative,,thanx lovelies

This has been really helpful. Thank you Bump love

Thanks ladies for the show

Learnt quite alot ... thank you ladies

Thanks bump love...sooo much good information ❤

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Thanks bump love

Such a great conversation.

wow❤Alot I dint know abt parenting has been fabulously said by amazing ladies here..thanks a bunch swthrts

Thanks for the show ladies ❤

Thanks for a show ladies ❤

Thanks always for the good guidance ❤❤❤

My son is 11 and I do co-parenting. My partner is an equally active parent and every time they spend time together, our son comes back a better person. my style of parenting is having conversations and teaching, the father's style is different. There are days when I would feel helpless in matters of disciplining but a phone call to the dad works wonders

Well,there is nee of a balance one parenting style won't wak if there is one thing I'm praying God for is that I will never get to raise my children alone.."single" my mum does gentle parenting but i feel like it has only waked for me..we are two gals and one boy..well for the boy like Rosette said mum can't relate with the boy bse she stays a gal😢and for my sister I really see the absence of my dad..my sister will do things that u riyale see that it's kamanyilo😢bse I'm sure if my dad was in the picture she wouldn't do such things as a young sister it's so frustrating and like Manuela is prayers and waiting on God

Looking fabulous ladies,love ,love you girls,thanks for always sharing,teaching and mentoring us,be blessed always.

Thank you Pumla for talking about the need for both parents in a childs life regardless of the status of the parents relationship. We need to hear more of this narrative. Thank you for sharing your story. You Rock 🎉

Loved it all.thk you especially

Learning more is the goal

This episode was very informative...Ladies you never disappoint. Stay blessed.

Banange ladies mmmhhh I had to watch twice cause the first I was distracted with your fashion, so on point👌🏽👌🏽 the shoes game🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Listen to pumla explain😮 njuwa nolutiko Thank you ladies🙏🙏

Thank you ladies for another fantastic episode. Pamela you couldn't have said it better, as children grow up - teenagers, we need to parent by influence, connect emotionally and also tap into the morals we have imparted as they grow up. Thank you ladies.

Thank you bump love, I love love you ladies, God bless you

I loved every bit of the show

i am so grateful to have known Bump love just when i happen to have a baby. i knew about you a year and mnths ago, and thats how old my baby is. 1 year 7mnths old. already im seeing myself "Do Better". i always look forward to your episodes and i repeat over and over watching. you are a blessing girls. i truly learn here.

Kyoka thank you ladies...I have learnt a lot.

Even in our teenage days mu used to say let your father come we could say tuwedde. So unless otherwise the man's voice in a home is very very important.

Early bird! Lemmi sit and listen bulunji! Thx for this topic

❤thank you ladies.

Angie I like the way you talk gently. Much love to bump love from Rwanda 🇷🇼

Great conversations always.....that summary indeed.....fix family and you shall hv fixed most problems in the world.....totally agree

Hello beautiful ladies thank you for bringing up that topic i have picked a leaf today thank you love from this side

❤❤❤this is greatly appreciated 🙏

Thank you Airtel for sponsoring bump love. I am officially an investor. Aka shareholder 😂

thanks ladies, u are really shinning, looking gorgeous...🥰🥰🥰.. my sunshines..

For me I do my best but it's hard to parent with an absent present paterners, at least ko when he's not around completely

I know of a man who is very responsible now but in his teenage years despite having grown up in a stable family with both parents present went wayward to the point of taking drugs and refusing to go to school. The parents took him to kyankwanzi in the military base for like 3months. He returned a different child. Calling the dad Sir, kneeling for the mum etc to the point that his own where even scared of him. I think depending on the child and how desperate you're for change in your child,you can take these extremes. He is now a successful lawyer in this country. Thank you for this show. Very informative

Great conversation as always there is something to learn and appreciate about each episode. Well done ladies 👏👏🙏🙏your looking lovely ❤️❤️

This is beautiful.. I really hope the boy's mother in the video can watch this bumb love episode. I realy think it can help. Thanks guys for the show. God bless you

Thank you ladies for this episode. My daughter is only 6 years but anything the father says is complied with immediately.

Ladies you look so amazing 😍😍 dress code colours are so coordinated ❤️❤️

Cute ring Pumula 😂

That Video, i do it even more, i talk sense to them and after i tell you to kneel and raise your hands up.

Wow, this is so enriching❤

😂😂 nze naleta owa defence, and he properly disciplined my 16 year old sister nga akana kantabuseko..

Outside the discussion; Rachel you are looking so good.

I don't have data🤣🤣, but just enough to say that you are all slaying today. The person behind the fashion is now getting it right. Keep up.

"Heal, so that you don't hurt those that did not hurt you" Who else noticed noticed this too?? it's the best quote I have heard today's night for sure. We all need healing for our own sanity and avoidance of resentment and regrets.

Ladies,thanks for this impactful and edutaining contect,u really teach us alot n am glad that i learn n everything in yo content is useful,cant wait to hv a family🎉❤❤

Pumla is very right about the definition of gental parenting and personally I've learnt it with experience, im not a parent yet but for the past two years I've been a nanny to a one beautiful girl and its been gentle parenting all the way, however its too tiring at times because it involves alot of talking you have to explain the same thing over and over again for even months and it also involves " do as i do" not "do as i say" as many of us were raised, because its exactly what you do that the child will gi after. Thanks bump love I've loved today's topic even though it watched it a little late its worth it though

Thank you ladies for this wonderful topic as a mother we keep learning something new about parent hood we are not perfect as some may think all we need is finding abalance between discplining them and loving them.having both parents who are engaged makes it easier too. Otherwise you ladies look very beautiful today in these colours your always on point be blessed.

Pumla your English is on high level

Kudos to that dad👏🏾👏🏾

But he also spoke to him in that time because he has been talk to her like that. So he had to use the same tone so that he can feel the depth of the aggressiveness he uses to talk to her. I am sure he woke up and he will never speak to anyone disrespectfully like that for the rest of his life

❤❤❤❤ the fountain example 😂😂😂😂 typical of children

The outfits are giving, ladies. Yall look fab. I believe in different parenting styles for different kids. For kid x, that man's talk would break them, whereas for kid y, the same talk would set him straight and change him forever in a positive way.

It’s the color coordinated outfits for me today. Lovely episode as always ladies. Sometimes I wonder if you guys are aware of how impactful your content is to even young women that are not mothers or may not even necessarily have it in mind. Always stimulating engaging with these conversations ❤

Ladies nga muli smart❤❤now i can start watching😊

I enjoyed this, as am most likely headed for co-parenting

You guys are looking gorgeous ❤❤❤ since am not yet a parent, am here to listen and learn 🎉 thankyou so much

Fridays are for bump love🎉🎉🎉

Thank you ladies! Let me just reserve my comment today but if possible I need another episode of this but on raising nonbiological children. I would appreciate! Will share my experience then. It has always been tough! With mine we are good,them.....a night mare. Otherwise,thx bump love. You looked amazing today

This is former serving veteran, who is helping parents with kids who are off the straight road. In most cases, he comes in like that but he also talks to them in a more calming way. He also listens to their side and them gives them ways to communicate rather than disobey their parents.

Great kb always

Ladies I love the colours

Good conversation ladies👍. Definitely educating though the video editor didn't do us a good number today, they was more than one glitch.

I am not a parent but from observation and conversations with older people I have learnt that you can only do it well if the two types of parenting are combined together. But most importantly start when they are young. Not older

But even going to boarding school made me feel abandoned 😞 Till today, I have never recovered

I truly understand the mother in the video. Growing up with a single mum i saw how my mum struggled to discipline us and it was much harder when it came to disciplining the boys

I can see how my brother turned out due to the absence of the father and yet our mother went all out. A father figure for a boy child is extremely important. Men really need to better 😢

I don’t know if the guy is a veteran, but the only person who can talk to a child like that in America is either the father or uncle because people here are not allowed to go physical

Am an early bird 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 excited thank u for teaching us before we arrive 🎉😂

Thank you Pumla, thank you ladies

I certainly do not know what kind of parenting I do. I think it's a mix depending on the action by the child. But I can honestly state that they are turning out right

How I wish I could be able to meet you guys with my daughter! Am a single mom, dad abandoned us and we have a disability on our body. It's now 16 yrs. Life has been extremely hard for the two of us. I appreciate what ever you people share on your shows. Thanks alot, Julia

Thanks so pumla coz l have gone through emotional journey regardless that my mum loves so heavily

As always Nabachwa with the brains.. explaining gentle parenting 😍😍😍😍a fave and more

Where is that full clip