GETTING YOUR CONFIDENCE BACK AFTER A BREAKUP by RC Blakes in a conversation with Chengi Tobun

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@irenemigliaccio 2 жыл бұрын

"She founds her value by being, not by doing", God what a Gem. Deep inside i always felt that. Thanks for reassure me!

@ChristianMotivationMedia 2 жыл бұрын

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”Matt 5:16

@jomelo7692 2 жыл бұрын

Amen Amen Amen 🙏 ❤💖❤

@olliewillis1569 Жыл бұрын

What great Information still learning who I am and myself worth In Christ .Thank you Have nt given up on me, Still Seeking.

@princessvuyolwethumntonint4490 2 жыл бұрын

Good morning family, 3am in South Africa and my alarm just went and my youtube reminder for this empowering much needed message. Recovering from a terrible discard 6 months now after 4 years into it full force with a narcissist that hid character so well. Broken but not shattered.

@loyalallies 2 жыл бұрын

Kuzalunga cc everything does subside with time and God on our side...Listening frm Cape Town 🇿🇦

@nikkyshamz2696 2 жыл бұрын

❤🤗

@Lovergirlstudiio 2 жыл бұрын

I am recovering from my 3rd narcissistic relationship. God is so good for the resilience we are gifted with as women. Much healing and peace to you! 🙏🏽❤️

@Mandycapetown 2 жыл бұрын

Hi. Also in SA. Also had a brutal discard in June.

@loyalallies 2 жыл бұрын

@@Mandycapetown blv it or not ladies last I was with a man was 24th Feb 2016 bcz WOW! 🤣 I had to choose my peace with the understanding that in good time I'll meet the right one. We tend to panick as woman due to time and I do t run my life like most . If having a family is part of my destiny so shall it happen in good time irrespective of my age with less burden. Love and light ladies. Cape Town weather is beautiful today 😍 😘🇿🇦

@Lovergirlstudiio 2 жыл бұрын

So powerful. I had to pause a few times to let these gems sink in. Coming from a broken home, I attracted men who have treated me subpar because they could sense the insecurities inside. I have my work cut out for me and I’m looking forward to the deep healing work.

@mmxw2294 2 жыл бұрын

You got this. What help me was freeing myself of what I was used to from very young toxic people God wants all of us to be free

@NostalgiaVibes420 2 жыл бұрын

Same here. 🙏🏽💯

@Lovergirlstudiio 2 жыл бұрын

@@mmxw2294 🙏🏽❤️✨✨✨

@emeraldtaylor228 2 жыл бұрын

Amen same here sis. You can do it.

@Mandycapetown 2 жыл бұрын

Mr Blake’s you have helped me break the soul tie with my ex narcissist. Thank you so much. Love from South Africa 🇿🇦

@ms.pearlyaintgoinnowhere9258 2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss !!!! Congrats

@Cee0215 2 жыл бұрын

👏🏾💕 I know that isnt an easy journey, Sending hugs from the UK🤗

@kinabutler3990 2 жыл бұрын

"When pain is not handled it turns into suffering" Chenghi. Powerful video.

@sophiabrown11 2 жыл бұрын

Give yourself a break.. you're not needy.. you're not crazy..🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

@rosadealva3524 2 жыл бұрын

Lisa is your Queens Name, Absolutely grounded and true to herself. Thank you for re-affirming my Value and giving me my crown as a Queen. 🙏🙏

@cherylalexander6513 Жыл бұрын

I JUST COULDNT UNDERSTAND HER TOO MUCH . ....I LIKE YOUR TEACHING IM ABLE MORE TO UNDERSTAND .I PREFER A MAN PASTOR TEACHING THANK UOU PASTOR RC BLAKE PERFER YOU I LIKE IT FROM A MAN POINT OF VIEW

@ilenek.5428 2 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this lady! She is phenomenal!

@mitz1919 2 жыл бұрын

I heard the Holy Spirit tell me this week u are worthy. That belief alone has changed my whole thought about relationship and what I accept. The belief that we are to accept whatever the world gives and not require what God wants for us has kept many women tied to unfulfilled relationship. It was the deliverance from the negative view of myself that has allowed me to walk away this week from someone that was not for me. Otherwise I would have remained weak. It’s time for us all to pray and cry to God for deliverance of these strong holds . He has a greater plan that what we can imagine.

@never4saken165 2 жыл бұрын

To God be the glory and I don't believe this is a coincidence, this video released on the same day my 30 yr relationship ended. I whole heartedly believe this is God speaking through his vessels. May God bless you both.

@chynnugilliam1112 2 жыл бұрын

ooo

@MissMotshabi 2 жыл бұрын

30 years.. I'm so sorry..omg..

@noirefit5954 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you get the clarity and peace you need. So happy you’re about to find you

@thullyyvonnesibisi2165 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry man. May you find God's peace.

@calvinmullins591 2 жыл бұрын

@Kianarevision 2 жыл бұрын

I can relate to the men in my life bringing the drama and I manifest it. And the men that do that subconsciously need to see you manifest it to feel familiarity of their mother wounds.💯💕 Omg makes so much sense.

@malo3002 2 жыл бұрын

My confidence has never been affected after a break-Up. When things has not worked out in the past I always felt that the person I was with at the time was just not the one for me which I feel has nothing to do with my self-confidence.

@RCBlakesJr. 2 жыл бұрын

Correct.

@sofiesofiachannel 2 жыл бұрын

Did you listen well? Point you need to understand why you are attracted to those not good for you

@malo3002 2 жыл бұрын

@@sofiesofiachannel i wrote this message BEFORE the video came on air. Now that I have listened to it yes what I wrote was not what I thought the video would be about.

@Claribel42 2 жыл бұрын

I want to have a consultation with her. Oh Lord this is great!!! We need more people like her to help us!!🙏🙏🙏

@fredapope58 2 жыл бұрын

OMG Bishop! This spoke to my spirit…. Not where I need to be but thank God I’m not where I was!!! 😔😀🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

@Dlachel49 2 жыл бұрын

How ironic, literally after just breaking up with someone today. After a year it’s been painful, but Thank God, that this popped up on my phone. Thank you, and Amen

@Whoknows12334 2 жыл бұрын

I’m slowly trying to regain my hope for love again in life . After my husband cheated and then a couple mths after my son died my heart was shattered . Great video pastor 🙏 I’m praying gods direction and fill me up as a confident child of god

@janeg1575 2 жыл бұрын

Prayers for you as you go through this time 🙏🏻

@wolke2298 Жыл бұрын

so so sorry for your loss.. remember this goodbye was not forever, you will see your beloved son again in the best of places! love from germany

@denisemyers733 2 жыл бұрын

Learned behavior from young. We need to Un learn it.

@MsP0624 2 жыл бұрын

Love the discussion and her hat!!!

@rosettaknight6653 2 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate you bringing these messages I have learned a lot listening to you thank you very much for the words 🙏🏻🙏🏻

@womenwhodate7643 2 жыл бұрын

Yesss please, this is definitely a MUST WATCH!!! Thank you!

@1mstraci 2 жыл бұрын

Whew I sooooo needed this! Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️

@shineawright7915 2 жыл бұрын

Great Content! Thanks and I’ll be following her!

@Kianarevision 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you two broke it down. I'm at the part now where you tell us how to fix it. I LOVE this. Thank you for giving us some tools. Thank you both💕

@tinak4067 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤ what an incredible conversation! So powerful and important content to discuss! Thank you so so much 🙏🏽❤️

@josefinetorresolesen Жыл бұрын

Incredibly informative! Thank you 🙏🏻

@ajbryant2873 2 жыл бұрын

This was absolutely so informative and greatly needed!! Thanks so much for this video 💕

@miranda2216 2 жыл бұрын

This was Amazing! I love listening to you two speak together!!!!🙌🏾🙏🏾

@HernameisSAFFA 2 жыл бұрын

This was amazing and now has prompted me to know her testimony...I'm getting ready to look her up because it will be something to bless my soul. Thanks so much.

@KD-qc5fr 2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!! Break the generational curses! They stop today with me and my children.

@cayad2591 2 жыл бұрын

Pastor Blakes this is amazing! i have been doing a lot of inner child work which this is also called. i love that you are talking about this which has had more recent scientific discoveries about the brain and how our brain development is crucially impacted by our early childhood experiences and then how those experiences shape pir path in life. this work you two are talking about will someday be the norm for therapy and i think it will change our world. it explains the pain and destruction we see in life. Thank you, i believe i am on a divine path to my healing because i keep being led to teachers who have the messages I need to hear. I believe that's how i found you here on KZfaq. 🙏

@joycesaulsberry6593 2 жыл бұрын

I soooo needed this. May God continue to bless the both of you. Thank you

@NostalgiaVibes420 2 жыл бұрын

This was so powerful and eye opening 🙏🏽 I really needed to hear this message. ❤️ thank you both 🥰

@toniwall3166 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what my spirit needed to receive in this season. May God continue to bless you both in your ministries. 👏🏽🙏🏽💜

@lisasmith8202 2 жыл бұрын

Very insightful and in depth. Thank God for this video!!!!!

@iliannasilva9270 2 жыл бұрын

This was so good! Thank you so much!

@eb3644 2 жыл бұрын

Such wonderful discussion, she really is amazing. Thank You!

@Denise_LilsSugarLoafKitchen 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, excellent!! Blessings🙏🏾😘

@innaredemptormeusvivat9057 2 жыл бұрын

That was such an amazing and mindblowing message! Thank you so much and big greetings from Germany ❤️

@goddessunivers3122 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you both so much for this topic! So much can learn from this! Very enjoyable to listen 🙌❤

@trayceelynn7911 2 жыл бұрын

This was excellent feels like a panel or show - lots of helpful gems

@elexisgentry2732 2 жыл бұрын

This was good! Definitely wanted more her intellect on how to dissect and dig on who I am. I love this, God bless you both for y'all time.

@sophiabrown11 2 жыл бұрын

I needed this word.. Thank God for steering me to tune in..🙏🙌👋

@debraenard2260 2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy 😊she came back TY great content love u & looking forward to seeing u n Houston 🤗God bless u Beautiful 👑 Queen

@lauriemendoza4671 2 жыл бұрын

I got so much from this teaching. I had a few awww haaa moments. Pastor you and Chengi are a powerful team delivering powerful messages. Thank you for hard work!

@annywalessa6433 2 жыл бұрын

This was so deep and enlightening! I thank God for both of you. You are amazing. Blessings always 🙏

@calledbygrace-fionaokwado5125 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your dedication to us women and helping us become confident and empowered! I love the chats you do with Chengi!! Lots of love from Alberta Canada.

@Godfixmylife 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks. That was an awesome session.

@Mo-bq8lz 2 жыл бұрын

This was a powerful message by a dynamic team. Thank you both!

@Bplays2u 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. Just when I thought your messages could not get better. You hit this out of the ball park. This was absolutely amazing. If I’ve said it once I’ll say it again, thank you Lord for sending us your servant

@usexybiissh 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Pastor RC Blakes ......You have truly changed my life ❤ Thank you for helping the world !

@evyeve223 2 жыл бұрын

This was powerful! I thoroughly enjoyed this💜

@gigipeach7179 2 жыл бұрын

This is awesome and much appreciated.

@ho66se 2 жыл бұрын

Bishop, this is so powerful. Thank you for doing this.

@derellyafreeman7421 2 жыл бұрын

So Enlightening! Really learn so much from both of you! Got me to really thinking, Appreciate ya! 🙏🏽

@ritadoran5039 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks again for the message

@DirectorAtSomaya 2 жыл бұрын

This is one of the best videos!!! Every broken hearted woman needs to see this

@taongapatriciangulube9786 2 жыл бұрын

10 mins in and I’m crying….. this was healing and everything, I learnt so much about myself today! Grateful to both of you, and thank you for your obedience, it’s true that someone’s restoration is on the other side of your obedience

@thedisabledanddiscarded 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you to you both ❤️ It is so needed and so appreciated 🥰

@kerry-annconnell9521 2 жыл бұрын

I have value by being not doing… so profound! This is a conversation that is blessing me on so many levels! I am grateful 🙏🏾

@kalapaul8192 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my this is wonderful. Mr rcblakes did a good job by bring her on. I enjoyed it. thanks bishop..u rock.

@l.christinejones8164 2 жыл бұрын

This is a blessing! Thank you Miss Tobun and Pastor Blakes.

@classymp 2 жыл бұрын

I can't thank you enough for this, what a blessing to our lives you both are

@cw8365 2 жыл бұрын

Looking forward to the gems that will be shared. Even though this isn’t my current situation, I’m always Blessed by your wisdom shared Bishop.

@irmaaguirre3953 2 жыл бұрын

I need this word!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@GaminGawdess 2 жыл бұрын

Learning sooooo much!!! loving ones self is for all no matter where you are in the world

@ebony916 2 жыл бұрын

I love your instrumental music for your show!!

@kimberlycarter5317 2 жыл бұрын

That was deep. A no cost therapy session! Thanks R.C. 💙

@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Pastor BLAKE'S and Chengi. Twin SOULS in God by reasoning with Women in mind. Amen

@StandupGirl-ym3ey 2 жыл бұрын

Listening to this while getting ready for work and on the drive and this is GOODT!!! Chengy has some jewels in this and I've got to re watch this and take notes! You two together, imma get this thang called me tagetha !!!!!

@leimagesalon_bylenab9421 2 жыл бұрын

I clicked on YT just in time to get this blessing🙌🏾🙌🏾

@sherickawarren1750 2 жыл бұрын

This was amazingly great 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@jaramillo471 2 жыл бұрын

Omg she drop so much wisdom!! Love her!!

@chystsanthamum22 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I needed this so much

@Kianarevision 2 жыл бұрын

You two!!!!!!! Are soooooooooooo great when u talk to us together💕 I understand when u speak of Chengi and say how she validates your thoughts. I feel that way about you your uploads are exciting to me. I love how you break everything down and give us tools. Your delivery and correction feel like love. Sometimes hard to hear but I trust what you say because you are consistent in your message and delivery💯 . I'm still growing glad I found you. I love listening to you and Chengi. You two are twins. Lol I see that. you two are AMAZING Chengi is EVERYTHING!!! love you guys🙏🏾🥰

@mypassions8880 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this great discussion, i have learned so much. Thank you for helping me understand my situation as i've been struggling to finally put an end to my lingering emotional soul tie to my ex- which seems like forever! Thank u for arming me with these tools of additional knowledge for me to continue to work on myself. I needed this. Thank you Pastor and Chengi❤️

@nickyaetaylor8475 2 жыл бұрын

God is so amazing in how He places people in the right place at the right time to assist in troubling and trying times. I'm right at the point where I know I have to leave a relationship for the sake of my soul, and it has not been an easy decision. I felt all those terrible things spoken earlier but now I have a better understanding that will give me the strength to walk away with my head up and a smile on my face knowing it's going to be ok, I'll be ok. Thank you Bishop for sharing her with us, this has saved me from crumbling under the pressure of having to let go. God bless you both!!!💞

@andreawindrim8235 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Blessings.

@kimbailey4004 2 жыл бұрын

RC Blake’s once again I enjoyed this video you never disappoint! I really enjoyed chengi and will be sure to follow her as well. Very informative I also shared this video with My broken hearted ladies so that they too will enjoy! Thank You!

@taylored-inlimited364 2 жыл бұрын

Unbelievable. This was fantastic!!!!

@bellisimaamor6245 2 жыл бұрын

This video content is powerful. Thank you both for these golden nuggets of wisdom & insight. God's continued blessings to you both! 💜☺

@Kianarevision 2 жыл бұрын

Good morning. Catching the replay💕 I'm excited to watch. I thoroughly enjoyed the last upload with Chengi. She's amazing😍

@rosaleeclarke6242 2 жыл бұрын

Great, have learned a lot, love it ,thank you Pastor, lovely lady. 🙏💯

@yoki1777 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️🤯I’m speechless!!! Need to watch a couple more times to really digest! AMAZING teaching!!! Please do more videos with Chengi and the Black Swan Academy!! We need more of this please! Also please do a web seminar as well 💖✨

@keshachanel6964 2 жыл бұрын

This was incredible. I am very grateful that I have done and am doing my inner work. So many gems in this. "Inner work is the work of the Holy Spirit". "My dad brought the drama but my mom manifested it." That was my story. So glad I am breaking generational curses. Praise God! 👍🏿💙👍🏿💙

@frantasticmom8473 2 жыл бұрын

This is wonderfull all the info. I had a divorce and i was broken and so. After a while i started dating someone just wonderfull but some kind of way God shut is down and i went into the desert and in the desert God took me on a Journey and brought me back to my past things that happend to me and what actually broke me. To hear this is so wonderfull the lord was literaly my therapist. God is so big i am lost for words😥

@debbieray8245 2 жыл бұрын

What amazing insight my sister. RC & Chingy ministries compliment each other so well!

@GaminGawdess 2 жыл бұрын

Oh congratulations pastor for doing your own zoom🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@fashionforwarddd 2 жыл бұрын

chengi is on another level! wow wow wow wow! sir, your videos have been recommended to me for a long time and when I finally clicked on one of them I have been watching two of your videos a day. and now you have introduced me to chengi. it is amazing to listen to people that think just like me. I have thought like this for years but have been surrounded by people with "broken consciousness" that insist that I have to accept how everyone else is living. so grateful for these videos

@misguidedpearls7456 2 жыл бұрын

This was beautiful Got a few people to share it with Thank you💙

@mbm97r 2 жыл бұрын

So good!

@cheshahale 2 жыл бұрын

This is WHAT I NEEDED!! Watching and listening to RC Blakes and now Chengi!! Lord have mercy! This is a match made in HEAVEN!! Powerful messaging and the understanding. Thank God for you RC Blakes and Chengi!! The men and women need this!!