Women you need to hear this when he told me those words I said don't let the door hit you I forgave him and I have moved forward God is my strength

I'm 21 & dealing with getting over a soul tie with my first love. I was depressed and suicidal. Your videos are bringing me back to life. Thank you so much!

I really believe that you love us. You are the truth. I feel like you my uncle! Thank you so much!

@RCBLAKES do you even know what you have done for me?????? I was swimming so deep in the pit because my husband told me that HE IN NO WAY WANTED TO BE MARRIED TO ME! He said the best day of his life was the day he left. I was devastated! But you know what? I AM THE PRIZE!!!!! He is such a moron. To think that he will ever have anything as good as me. And, you sir- are the one that helped me remember this. So I listened to this- and went and put my makeup on and dressed up so cute and went down to the neighborhood club and turned on my smile and engaged with all the people. I even had to turn a guy down!!! Thank you RC. I am so very glad that GOD brought your ministry into my life. Your faithfulness to preach Queenology and High Value have changed my life. I am a daughter of God and and I will protect myself and live like the princess I am.

Lol 😂 Hahahaha when you said don’t be sitting there gazing at the ceiling when he or she is in Jamaica sipping out of a coconut 🥥 Hahahaha the Truest words ever spoke

I really needed this teaching. My ex-husband married the woman he cheated on me with recently. The divorce was final Feb. 2018. He was and still is trying to keep me in the background as a "friend". Unbelievable! I have cried a thousand tears over this situation. This has helped me so much. Thank you for the lesson.

Love your sessions...no more ice cream, get up and laugh, ..and set goals!!!

Your videos are pulling me through a very dark season. Thank you for these teachings! ❤💡

Great message. For years I suffered from the spirit of rejection. My extreme sensitiveness nearly ruined all my relationships. I never gave people a chance. it became easier to walk away. Through much prayer and reading of scripture my breakthrough came. I now enjoy life and the people in my life. I wrote and published an e-book on rejection. (They Just Don't Like Me: Moving Past Rejection by Laura Alexander) I never want to make others feel the hurt I felt for years. Thank God for delivering me! Amen

You are a great and godly man! You have helped me so much in my life of disappointments. I was married to a woman for 12 years that I loved so deeply! Life was great until about 5 years ago. That was when I had my first stroke, and in the next 3 years I had three more, the last one being the worst one. All of the doctors said I should have been dead after the first one, but God intervened in my life and pulled me through that! A year ago while I was still bedridden and could not walk or talk my wife walks in and told me she could not take me being sick anymore, and she had found someone else and wanted a divorce. It hurt very badly, especially since I could not walk or talk because of my paralysis from the latest stroke I had incurred. After our divorce came final, I found out that she had had multiple affairs while we were married. It really broke me down, but still I kept trusting in the Lord, and now I can praise His name for all the many blessings that he has given to me. It is time for me to move on with my life, I am 53 years old and I live by myself. I have had many women ask me out on dates but I am just now feeling strong enough and good enough about myself to maybe start dating again. I had to work on myself I started exercising I started crawling from the bedroom to the kitchen every morning and back to bed with my cup of coffee and take my medications. Now I can walk talk exercise, and even though I still don't have all of my strength back, I Look to God for that strength and he has never let me down ever! I have always been a man of God since as far back as I can remember. The only difference now is I can see everything happens for a reason. I am actually happy being here by myself and with my three dogs, it feels good, I can come and go as I please or anything I want to do and not have to worry when I lay down at night if someone is being unfaithful to me! God has worked so many miracles in my life, I just need to express it and let everyone know there is a God!!! I have heard his voice, I have asked for him to show me things, and within a couple of minutes he would show me. That's how I found out about my wife having the affairs. I asked him while I was laying in the bed the night before she told me she wanted a divorce. I asked the father to please reveal it to me, even if it hurt I could take the pain, but I needed him to show me. That same night she was late coming home from work and that's when I found out about the affair. The next evening is when she told me she wanted the divorce, I could see in her face the embarrassment and the discuss she had with herself. But she never once apologized or ask forgiveness for any of it. Thank you so much for your videos! They have helped me tremendously, I mean tremendously I say again. I am blessed I am favored and I am loved by my heavenly father, and that is all that matters. And you showed me that. May God bless you over and over and over again. Sincerely with brotherly love!!! MR....R.L. GRANT

Laughter is like medicine to my soul!!! 🤪

I went through a bad break up about 6 weeks ago. I have been watching your videos to help me. I have adopted you as my Spiritual Father since my father and step father did not teach me about relationships and what to do. My dad wasn't in my life the last 30 years and my stepdad going through things himself. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

Your videos are truly blessing my life and building me up spiritually. I see where my weaknesses are and see now how to strengthen myself. Thank you!!!!

I'm hollering. Also exercise is a great tool... I used to have that ice cream spirit. God is Faithfull.

Thank you for being obedient to God. God is truly using you to speak to the women. Glory to God hallelujah !

Dr. Blake you make me laugh. Thank you. I thank God for letting me see your messages. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Amen. I know I don't try to keep someone who don't want me around or accept me. Even a relationship with a guy, I don't want a man who don't want me especially treated me invaluable. I love myself.

Amen! This is exactly what happened to me, my husband said he didn’t love me anymore. I told him I would never beg him to stay, he needed to want to stay and work on our marriage. He split and blamed it on me! I was disappointed & deeply hurt, but I knew God was always with me! God is good.

Finding this pastor, recently, saved me!! Now I understand the UNGODLY soul tie I have with a narcissistic man and now I am aware of what I have to do to get rid of him and be delivered from that evil bond. It feels amazing to know how God got rid of him and saved my soul from him. Praise God!

There are a lot of women Christian perspectives on life dating and being single on KZfaq but it is very nice to have a male Christian perspective. Thank you for your wise words and always referring to the bible it shows you are getting your knowledge from a higher place

Amen, pastor. I cried out to my Heavenly Father because I am His daughter. I can feel His arms around me. I began to speak life over myself. "I shall live and not die, I am a child of the Most High God, No weapon formed against me shall prosper" I kept go on and on with the word of God. I am a free woman. I sang a song I wrote long ago " I'm Free (From Burden Down)" Glory, pastor!!!👏🙌

This pastor's message is deep and at the same time funny how delivers it.

Break THROUGH the misery. The loss. Their loss. My gain. Freedom to SAIL AWAY!!! Go do things you WANT TO DO. SIMPLE ACTIVITIES!👍👍👍👍😂😃

So on point! Only #2 is not a good plan for me..I wouldn't do it..no contact . No mail or letter or text mss . My ex narc told me that he was gonna pack his stuff. I said..ok cool..and I walked away. I never looked back..its been only a week since the discard..he still gives me the silent treatment. .. blocked him and that is that! I don't need no closure. Great video..👐

You are hilarious.....I don’t need any ice cream 🍨, You crack me up 😂

I needed this been with a man 18 years he left me for another woman n I been holding on to nothing. This has been helping me to let go.

I have to say, i am binge watching your videos and this is my favorite video ever!

This all in my spirit...lol Put that ice-cream down..lol I love it!!!

You made me laugh tonight! Man! I thank God for you! God bless you!

this happened to me and you hit it on the nail.....I needed to hear this

Thank you Pastor for biblical words of instructions on how to successful get through a break up with dignity..

I really enjoy these messages, they really relax my mind..

I wish you was my father I like the way you talk and my father died when I was six's years old and I'm 36 years old now

Tears you bring right at that moment you said in private! I deactivated all my social media! I’m drinking less! I’m pulling back inward An seeking my Father God! I know I’m aligning up An he hears me! I been watching you for 3 days in a row! Not like catch up but Devine timing! I’m carrying a lot! Thank you! I’m so grateful!

You sound like your Father, who was my pastor many years ago. Am proud of you keep up the wonderful works, love your messages, very informative, and a blessing to my soul. Your father and your mother is smiling down on you. Peace

Dr. Blake's your daughters and spiritual daughters are truly blessed to have such wisdom shared from the home to the church, from the church to social media... Work it Jesus work it !!!!!!!

Pastor Blakes, You have been a complete blessing to me. I am on a journey to be closer to God and with dealing with hurt issues that have happened in my life- has hindered my close relationship with God. Many Thanks to you and God.

God hears and he heals now that was strong. Thank you I needed that

Great teaching on an important subject. I Had to do this recently can't believe the person came back after me!!! Only thing that matters is I got it outside of myself and now feel cleansed and peaceful👍😇 so sad to see the light go on in the other person when its too little too late !!

People can really rebound and still don't get healed. Excellent scope.

I don't have the words to explain how this has helped me. God is amazing and intentional in his instruction. I'm growing so much , I'm identifying things I need to correct and am so glad I found your videos😀 Blessings to you!

*Such a blessing! This helps clear my mind from all of the craziness going on. Thank you for being my beacon of light*

my problem is with BITTERNESS

I will never comprehend how some persons can thumps down these teachings...these teaching are sooo real and truth. These people dont want freedom from themselves and heartbreak.

I'm here for anything Mr. Blakes has to say. Prophetic

Thank you man of God

What a blessing you are. Thank you 💕

Powerful!!! Thanks for the info Pops(I've adopted you as my spiritual father😃😄). Each and every one of your videos that I've watched has really blessed me tremendously in a spiritual, mental, and emotional way.

Yes Im done with Snakes

Your absolutely right! From the first beginning, A person knows if they really want to be in your life/or with you ....people always come with a motive....whether if those motives are good are bad.

I think it’s important to realize that God doesn’t intent for every relationship to flourish. Pastor, this video was so good. Thank you for your Godly wisdom! Xx

I don’t even have to watch Netflix, I’m already laughing at u the way u say things.. 🤣 Thank u for keeping it really !! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

This had me crying laughing...OMG. Thank you for this wonderful word of encouragement.

Amen Pastor Blakes! This was right on time! You are truly a blessing to us spiritual daughters. God bless you sir!

Thank you very much. I needed to hear this. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊

God bless you you have been such a blessing to me oh I've been struggling for almost 14 years with a soul-tie keep blessing us with your God sent knowledge

Thank you Pastor. I really needed to hear this. You are truly a blessing.

I just love ❤️ your spirit Thank you for helping me get through these times. You are truly a blessing in my life 🕊

Mr. Blakes you are definitely an inspiration to me and my life. Thank you so much!!! God bless you🙏❤💪👑

Listening to this in May 2020 and this message is definitely something I needed to hear 👂🏾 God Bless you R C Blakes 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thank you so much this word was such a blessing to me. GOD bless you Pastor Blake's

I too needed to hear this. Very insightful and helpful. I actually did a lot of the things you said NOT to do, however, I did not have the life experience or guidance to know much better. Even still, after hearing this I feel hopeful and stronger. Thank you!

God bless you Pastor RC Blakes.. you really help prevent emotional devastation and help broken people recover. It's been helpful ... thank you

Hi Pastor Blake's, I just want to share with you that your GOD given words have been and are a source of comfort and healing for me during a very dire point in my life and I would like to thank you. I pray that GOD will continue to bless you and your family, always! Thank you, Michelle❤

Thank you for your knowledge and keeping it real. This is so true! I appreciate the scriptures to back up what you put out. Very helpful! May God continue to bless you and your family.

Oh my, how I needed to hear this today! Pastor it seems like every time I need something the Lord allows you to teach it or for me to find it perhaps you have already taught it.... AMAZING WORD!!!

So the shoe is on the other foot for me. We were together for 2 years and he decided he just wanted to be friends. I did that for a few months but it didn’t feel right because he was still treating me like I was his girlfriend, but without the title... and I let him. Once I said that friends don’t do x,y,&z he slowly started to draw back. My final straw was when he didn’t respond to me for 3 days. I should not have to chase after anyone, friendship or romantic relationship. I told him that he can’t give me what I desire and deserve in either relationship aspects. I’m steal dealing with the fact that he doesn’t want anything to do with me. I’m just glad I saw it sooner rather than later. As hard as it was I spoke my truth and I realized my worth!

What powerful words ! !!! Thank you 🙏

Thanks Bishop for the people that didn't like this video your ignorance doesn't allow you to see the wisdom in his message. I'm so blessed to be able to let this message sink in deep. Awesome message we appreciate you and Lisa so much. Truly educational. Keep it coming.

Yes Pastor, laughter is like medicine! I am learning and laughing through your messages...and I love to laugh!!

God Bless You! You have truly blessed my spirit with your wisdom. I needed to hear this message.

Thank you for all your videos. Your like the father I didn't have. I feel as thou you are talking straight to me. God bless you!

I praise God for you!! Your videos are helping me beyond what words can explain. Thank you for your generosity and being a steward of God’s word and wisdom. I’m divorcing a narcissist and you’ve helped keep me moving forward in the truth of who/what I’m dealing with, instead of continuing in the confusion and lies his type inflicts. God bless you and your family! 💜

Lol I was sipping on a milkshake.. When he said put the ice cream down.. Lol

Pastor R.C. Blakes is really on point and on time with his teachings. The steps and key points that he shares really helps me understand how to identify and address my issues, problems and feelings with Godly principles. Such a blessing.

Overall I do agree with your video your teaching the Word Great Job Mann of The Lord your helping so many people including myself

Amen for the Lord bringing this message to my heart. Thank u pastor for the conviction in your words to help bring the healing process with positive examples of letting go. Netflix time, Kevin hart time, nooooooo icecream!

I stumbled across your videos and I can say is that I know God letting to your site nothing a blessing and you hear a lot of things my father told me growing up may God continue to bless you so that you can continue to bless the women of this world

Pastor you speaking the truth. Love listening to you. Love the way you express the meaning of the he message. (FUNNY) bowl of ice cream, but meaningful You are a blessing.

Amen!!!!! I loveeeeeee your teachings!❤

Spot on RC. You are doing some wonderful work to the glory of God and the help of others.

You made me laugh listening to this for sure great uplift love listening to you and your messages keep up the good work paster blackes 😀

This msg blessed me. Thank you and God bless you for sharing!

Thank you for this. Glory to God though it's been so long time ago this video had been. It still have help a lot. 🙏🌈

Thank you for sharing your life with us and giving us the inspirational words only all your messages

Needed this! Thank you God for your message.

Thank you thank you I'm healing my soul and heart.

So True and Powerful!!!

Man of God your messages are a blessing to me. God Bless ♥️

I never begged nobody to stay with me, you want to go. I'm like bye bye and that is final.

love it! I learned so much today!!!!

I needed you when I was 19 & wasted 28 years with the WRONG man !!! Every teenager needs to read your book & watch your videos !!

With all due respect, Bishop Blakes YOU keep me laughing! 🤣 Your words of wisdom are always therapeutic for the Soul! 🙏

Just 😂 laugh!!! Laughter soothes the soul😅 Go for it!!!!🤪😜😅

Exactly what I needed....

Your videos are always on point 🙌 Preachhhh

I wissssssh i found your videos sooner u are so wise and as someone who never had much of a father figure this type of knowledge would have saved me in so many situations

😂🤣❤️ Thank you for making me LAUGH!!!! So true about never chase a person whom chooses to disrespect you and leave you. I have a 3yr old that makes me laugh, and I work with Seniors at retirement center, and boy do they definitely tell the truth! Lol! Working on bettering myself and getting closer to God. For me, not for anyone else.

Thank you,l am healed.from Kenya

Thank you because of your wisdom I'm able to bless others, I'm not in a break up, I'm just dealing with being a widow of 17 yrs at the age of 61 and my husband was my only boy friend and husband. I find your teaching very helpful but wish you would give pointers to the older woman. Thank you