Girls Night vs What Husbands Think

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Жыл бұрын

He thinks he knows what actually happens on Girls Night. #girlsnight #comedy #marriedlife
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@queenofputrescence5167 Жыл бұрын

My husband is convinced that weekends away with the girls involve pillow fights in our nighties. Sorry, honey, it's eating carbs, drinking wine and diet coke in our sweats and yoga pants.

@darthraider2050 Жыл бұрын

Cheating also

@JenniferA2027 Жыл бұрын

My first girls night of 2022 is next Thursday and I totally relate to this!! My hubby thinks just like Penn and I had him watch this to show that most of us just want to catch up and share life stuff with our besties. Being almost 50, I have no interest at all in all that nonsense of my 20s. I’ve got 3 kids grown and 3 more still in the house. I’m TIRED! 😂😂😂

@dpfljr Жыл бұрын

Because it's exactly what Penn "thinks"

@trebmaster Жыл бұрын

These juxtapositions are comedic genius!

@JamieReviewsStuff Жыл бұрын

Yep, 110% what girls night out looks like in your 40s 🤣

@tjk200081 Жыл бұрын

True, but I don't have kids. Everything else is true. 😂

@denisefallin8042 Жыл бұрын

It's all the stuff your husband doesn't wanna listen to so everyone is happy!! Lol

@hollylovepeace Жыл бұрын

This is how my bachelorette party went. Too introverted to actually party or to do the night scene, so just dinner and conversations with 3 other people.

@lucjawawrzyniak Жыл бұрын

I'm 25, I have a one year old and I can't wait for this stage of life. We live in a spa town with a bunch of old people visiting and they have these parties that start at 5 pm and end around 9 or 10 pm. I always tell my husband this is what I want in a party and he thinks I'm joking but I'm dead serious

@catboxcleaner3532 Жыл бұрын

Kim’s wink at the end - priceless.

@markely7587 Жыл бұрын

I love it when my wife goes out for girls night. I fire up Netflix and watch a western, or war movie, pop some corn, and have a beer or two. Sometimes I’ll grill lamb chops or rib-eye for dinner. It’s great!

@juliefeicht7787 Жыл бұрын

Were you at my last girls night out?! Stalking us from the other table?! Literally had all these conversations!

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Julie 👋 How are you doing today?

@shaunah.creations9233 Жыл бұрын

I’m 34 and this pretty sums up my girls nights lol. It’s so true! We do sit and chat for like one or two hours after dinner or go out in the parking lot 😂

@IreneHelenowskiPhD Жыл бұрын

LOL, this sums up the girls' nights I had in my 20s ;)

@lanbao2010 Жыл бұрын

Reporting from my 30s, 100% we just sit and chat forever. There’s so much to talk about…

@lisamedla Жыл бұрын

Just got home from one and yes we just talked off for hrs over one cup of tea

@jenniferjaudon-otero5611 Жыл бұрын

Too funny. Went out for a ladies night last night and seriously these are the conversations. Also I think the staff hated us because we were just talking forever. Haha! Very relatable video as always!

@megellen5357 Жыл бұрын

I’m still a teenager and this applies. I’ll go to a girl’s youth group and we’ll spend the first hour talking to each other about random crap before actually getting to anything imortant.

@ashley31278 Жыл бұрын

Sobre Mesa is a Spanish thing that means "over table" and it's that time after dinner where you just hang out and talk at the table. So Kim has Sobre Mesa with her girlfriends! I love a good sobre mesa but I rarely get it!

@theholdernessfamily Жыл бұрын

I never knew there was a name for it. I love that!

@hypatia4754 Жыл бұрын

It's "sobre mesa" or simplified to sobremesa.

@ashley31278 Жыл бұрын

@@hypatia4754 yes, that was an autocorrect mistake the first time I typed it. How embarrassing. It was correct the next times i typed it. Sorry for confusion. 👍😁

@pattykittenguru8296 Жыл бұрын

Kim, I must know the multi vitamin that doesn't upset your stomach!!!

@pattykittenguru8296 Жыл бұрын

If it's not just a joke

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Patty 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@UWL_Thomas Жыл бұрын

Penn thinking what she does: She will go to the club and what she actually does: 😂 go to Sam’s club! Love the content Kim and Penn!

@holdernessfamilylaughs Жыл бұрын

Clubbing is totally different in your mid-40s 😂

@RuariB-gp4jt 5 ай бұрын

I was dying when Sunny was chewing her foot while penn is talking. 😂❤

@patriciadurham643 Жыл бұрын

That is so me! We usually go out at 2:00 in the afternoon so we get home early. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 on a Saturday!!

@moniquetroth Жыл бұрын

My best girlfriend lives in France, & I'm in Mississippi, so when we're actually in the same country, this is absolutely our girls' night! We'll spend a couple of hours at a restaurant, then move to a coffee shop that has outdoor tables & spend another couple of hours there (so we're not hogging prime real estate without paying rent). And, yep, we've both just recently passed 50, & it is AAALLLLLLLLLL about perimenopause, bodily changes, life hacks, the stupidity of fashion for 50+ ladies who don't want to look 20-something or 80-something (yet), medical commiseration, jealousy over foods available in different places, etc.

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Monique 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@shannonbrice8012 Жыл бұрын

we now do "lunches" between because we are just so tired by suppertime that no one wants to have to get all dressed up and try and talk in a loud restaurant.

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Shannon 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@cjaime53 Жыл бұрын

So true!! And yes, do you know how hard it is to get 5 busy moms’ schedules together to meet for dinner?? We have to schedule around our kids’ practices, classes, and meetings. It seriously is like twice a year and yeah, we have to talk for 4 hours just to catch up! Forget about a girls’ weekend away! We’ll have to wait until they can drive themselves or go to college!😆😆😫😫 Thanks for the laughs!❤

@brucewallace3860 Жыл бұрын

I don’t say this often enough…..but thank you for making us laugh at ourselves. Your work is appreciated in my house.

@blitzer-ln2nc Жыл бұрын

I lived in Fort Meyers Beach, FL. In my early 20's and was "entertainment" for several girls weekends. I know first hand what really happens!

@jhuang81 Жыл бұрын

This is so funny. When I do a playdate at my friend’s place, my husband is always like, “What on earth did you find to talk about ALL DAY LONG?!” “Everything Hunny, seriously everything.”

@wideawake5630 Жыл бұрын

Sad that he doesn't remember when you and he talked all night right? Maybe you 2 should do girls night sometime.

@madelynrasmussen5693 Жыл бұрын

My mom has a friend that he does lunch with twice a year. Last time they purposely chose a restaurant where they wouldn't be inconveniencing the waiter if they stayed and talked for two hours.

@marilyna.1686 Жыл бұрын

I've done this on several occasions. They appreciate the heads up and don't try to rush us out. I always make sure to double or triple the tip depending how long we're there.

@TravelSmallLiveBig Жыл бұрын

Girl’s Night Out gets even worse in your 50s and barely into your 60s. Because we even talk a little bit about the weather.

@wishingonthemoon1 Жыл бұрын

Look, I’m “only” twenty-seven, and I can confirm, this is already what girls’ night looks like… 😂 ❤️

@meganofsherwood3665 Жыл бұрын

So true!! Except I'm pretty sure the restaurant is Panera and by about hour 2 or 3 past dinner/lunch (if it's a Girls Afternoon), somebody has gone to get a second cup of coffee or a snack in lieu of table rent

@KerryLuckett Жыл бұрын

When she said Sam’s Club, I couldn’t hold it in anymore. Editing is everything! 😂

@joannafoster3423 Жыл бұрын

Just had girls coffee date. Gettin' wild at the coffee shop at 10am! Bahaha.

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Joanna 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@kesiautah Жыл бұрын

Pretty much that 😂 We even tip way more based on the time we use the table

@TheGreatLKHS Жыл бұрын

Kim is indeed a smoke show. YES!! 😍👏👏👏👏

@handlingthehowards9543 Жыл бұрын

Honestly my oldest is going to be 17 next month and I don’t think I’ve ever done a girls night dinner with my friends. Maybe there’s something to this. Maybe I should take the initiative and just go ahead and plan one.

@crystalwhite5135 Жыл бұрын

You totally should! I have one group of friends that go out to dinner and another that does movie nights every Wednesday. Her hubby puts the kids down and we hangout. Always refreshing to spend time with good friends

@kc7280 Жыл бұрын

Do it!

@tiffanymichaels2429 Жыл бұрын

@@crystalwhite5135 I'm sorry but I laughed at the "he puts the kids down." I know it means he puts them to bed for the night but it sounds like something a person might say on a trip to the vet.

@nenah-startingfromscratch Жыл бұрын

Totally!!! What I’ve noticed is even going to restaurant with a girlfriends, waiters are no wear to be found. However when I go with my husband and his friends the waiters are so attentive to them. I tried explaining this to him and he doesn’t believe me!! I’m like, you have so many miss-conceptions. I think your thinking of what guys night looks like 😂 Great skit, I feel validated 🙌🏻

@Lindamr71965 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely sit for an hour and talk, every single time! I didn't even think about it being weird! 🤣

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Linda 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@barbshircel9154 Жыл бұрын

My girlfriends and I rarely get past just doing dinner... we end up closing up the restaurant talking and talking and talking. Inevitably, we always forget to talk about something we had planned to discuss. My husband does not get it at all. I can go away for a weekend with the ladies... shopping and eating out or in.... and we NEVER run out of things to talk about and tend to all be talking at the same time. I love it!

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Barb nice to meet you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@bradfirestone533 Жыл бұрын

Heard about the shootings in Raleigh last night and my wife and I's first reaction was hope that you guys were OK. Saw it was in a neighborhood and our hearts jumped into our throats. All you folks are a part of our on line lives now so couldn't help but thinking of you. Stay safe!!

@holdernessfamilylaughs Жыл бұрын

You are so kind to think of us. We are safe. ♥

@angelaporto5753 Жыл бұрын

@@holdernessfamilylaughs Praise God you all are safe & I pray He KEEPS you that way! I didn't know anything about this. (Don't watch network news, for 15 + yrs.) I'm 58 & relate SO much to the girls night out & changes in priorities! My husband & I LOVE your videos & are grateful for you turning us on to Dude Dad (& I'm warming up to some Charlie Berens, too.)Blessings to ALL of you -love watching your family grow.

@marthahancock7938 Жыл бұрын

@@angelaporto5753 Charlie Berens, SO funny!

@piiinkDeluxe Жыл бұрын

I'm 30 and our girls nights are pretty much like that! 😄 There's nothing to worry about, Penn. 😉

@deedeewilliamson4162 Жыл бұрын

🤣 happy Friday! 8:45 is LATE!! FOMS! 🛌

@larissagrubb9344 Жыл бұрын

“My wife’s a smokehouse” 😂🙌🏻❤️

@chadlee2624 Жыл бұрын

I can clearly see Penn thinking these things. He has a creative mind that runs rampant at times. It is kinda cute to hear the things he "creates". At least he is willing to learn differently.

@American1made Жыл бұрын

So glad you talked about the family photography, much appreciated. Thanks

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Janice 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@ColleenJoudrey Жыл бұрын

My last girls night out, my friend and I went for a walk, bough some Timbits and then ate them on a bench by an intersection so we could talk and watch traffic for an hour. The one before that, we left our screaming children with their fathers and paddled our SUPs way out into the lake and floated there for awhile.

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Colleen 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@maria51va Жыл бұрын

Sunny on the couch is hilarious!

@berenerchamion4654 Жыл бұрын

You two always make my day a little brighter. Thanks!

@theholdernessfamily Жыл бұрын

thanks for being here with us

@rachellehart1375 Жыл бұрын

This was great! My favorite part, though, was Sunny chewing on his foot during one of Penn's scenes. Dogs can take the gravity out of anything!

@naomiarram5187 Жыл бұрын

If that was Sonny passed out on the couch next to Penn, then we know who really has the wild nights!

@ashleytouchatt5019 Жыл бұрын

I think Penn secretly wants her to still do the drinks and clubbing with her friends....🤭

@tracyramos9863 Жыл бұрын

So true. My 2 friends from high school and I just spent a week together. My husband thinks we had pillow fights in our lingerie. We are 53. We compared hot flashes, lounged around in sweats and compared vitamin regimens.

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Tracy 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@Matacron Жыл бұрын

One comment that you made stood out to me, because I was in a similar situation. Certain TYPES of alcohol can affect your sleep. Vodka in particular can really screw with your REM cycle. BOURBON, on the other hand, actually HELPS the REM cycle. I have a couple of shots before bed every night. It's a godsend.

@barbara_schumann_lamb Жыл бұрын

Yes!! Table rent - so glad it’s a thing.

@betsysanders4524 Жыл бұрын

We do a girls weekend. It does include drinking but we stay in & sleep in the next day. We make brunch. Go out to dinner & then come back & watch a movie. Again brunch the next day & then go home. If we stay our girlfriends in FL…we lay on the beach too & add a day so we have a couple of days of beach time. Not very exciting but since we live in separate states, VA, PA & NJ… you do what you can with what you’re given.

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Betsy 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@RJ-go3sn Жыл бұрын

YESSSS! (Prayers to you all in Raleigh. Thank you guys for being the purveyor of great humor in life.)

@roche320 Жыл бұрын

My husband and I jokingly say we're "tai tai" when we're tired and I thought it was just us 😂😂😂

@GiveItAGoBakes Жыл бұрын

I've never heard of it before. I'm sure my hubby will hate it but I'll do it anyway to annoy him 🤣 #17yearsandcounting

@AHufflepuffAndASwiftie Жыл бұрын

I love how Sunny is just like randomly bitting her (his?; lol still don't know for sure the gender of your dog even after all this time watching you guys 😅) foot next to Penn!! Classic dog; "I have no idea what you're talking about, human, so I'm just gonna be here, next to you, bitting my foot, okay?"!! 🤣🤣

@notyoung1808 Жыл бұрын

Wait until your girls night becomes all about talking about your aches and pains. You’ll get there. 🤣

@hemaccabe4292 Жыл бұрын

Kim was definitely out doing shots.😉Great video!

@lydiacooper9260 Жыл бұрын

Penn is pretty spot on with my girls night. 🤣🤣 I guess I am part of the 1% .

@oliviamullins5512 Жыл бұрын

This had me gigglin. Love it

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Olivia 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@virginiathompson7978 Жыл бұрын

The dog chewing on its back paw what got me😂❤

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Virginia 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@MovableNu Жыл бұрын

So, Kim, a multi-vitamin without stomach upset? Don’t hold out on us! 😂

@Nola_Travel Жыл бұрын

“Not an hour . . . “ yes it is, it’s an hour

@lillianlamantia9605 Жыл бұрын

Sunny putting her paw in her mouth like: “seriously dude are you still doing this?” 😂 My husband legit tells me to “be careful” when I go out for a girls night out or something, like really? What he is thinking goes on? Now I know!

@BBMc107 Жыл бұрын

Mine always says that, too. He should know me better than that. I guess I should never let him out without a child present again. The tattler is going with him.

@lillianlamantia9605 Жыл бұрын

@@BBMc107 😂😂😂

@jackirichard414 Жыл бұрын

Hello. It’s awesome to have a night out with friends! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

@cheshirecat5416 Жыл бұрын

Damn it, Penn almost found out about our secret women fight club!

@HanaTheRussell Жыл бұрын

You've finally explained the mystery of my childhood. Why did my family not leave after we paid the bill. We would also stay and they'd keep talking for a while and I never understood.

@Tbnasib3 Жыл бұрын

This is so accurate!! 🤣🤣🤣

@daniellecardamone2453 Жыл бұрын

So much truth! Having my husband watch this!

@charlottep.4843 Жыл бұрын

So true, and the girls nights are so valuable!

@sarah-phillips Жыл бұрын

First rule of girls’ night out fight club is that you don’t talk about girls’ night out fight club.

@janethays1503 Жыл бұрын

I went to lunch with a girlfriend. We spent so long just talking at our table, we ended up staying for dinner.

@carafrederick6613 Жыл бұрын

1000% on point. ❤

@AndreaOwen17 Жыл бұрын

So true! We end up talking until 3am most times

@denisemckinney3973 Жыл бұрын

I am with you sister! We girls need some conversation 😅

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Denise nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today ?

@emilymitnitsky6814 Жыл бұрын

😆 🤣 so true.. and talk about husbands .. for hours! Hahah

@lauren32313 Жыл бұрын

Ladies who Lunch, we have one every season, and tomorrow we meet @ IKEA for lunch and shopping!!

@Grim_Sister Жыл бұрын

Why is this so relatable?! 🤣 Everything except the kids and the coffee. My ADHD doesn’t let caffeine to do it’s job

@victoriamooney2176 Жыл бұрын

I'm 28 and this has been my girls out since 23 lol college destroyed me lol

@laurajones6486 Жыл бұрын

My friends and I do the same thing. We talk for at least 4 hours.

@BriGuySour Жыл бұрын

Table rent it VERY important! Thank YOU!

@icedog1123 Жыл бұрын

Good to watch you guys all the time

@jennted Жыл бұрын

Girls nights! Yay! Once a month. I don't tell my husband when I'll be home anymore. He just knows. 😂

@freespirit2005caa Жыл бұрын

The first rule of fight club…😂

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Carol 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@JAMZ1960 Жыл бұрын

“She’s a smoke show” awesome

@kathyfortner_kitchen Жыл бұрын

This is awesome and so true. My friends and I did a baby shower at The Melting Pot and my husband was convinced that it took 4 hours to eat there. Then my sister and I went and we were back in less than an hour. But he still thinks it’s the fondue and not the socializing. 😂

@belindahugheslifestyle Жыл бұрын

Can't remember my last girls' meetup. It'll probably be like Kim's. Blessed be.

@tom2point0 Жыл бұрын

Accurate! I even have a voice I do when my wife talks about a girls night. It’s a high pitched voice with my hands and arms in the air going “Heeeeey bit¢h3$!!!! Let’s go girls! Time to partaaaaayyyy!”

@OlichkaNesterova Жыл бұрын

Maternity bras are so comfy 🤣🤣🤣

@teresaroubal7237 Жыл бұрын

Uggg, my husband does the same thing we pay the tab and poof he’s ready to move

@Meems1113 Жыл бұрын

Accurate! I'm having a girl's night tonight. Haven't been able to get together since July.

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello friend nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@jessicaloree9033 Жыл бұрын

YESSS!! Table rent is everything!! 🙌

@amberyoung4425 Жыл бұрын

😂🤣 this is so true! In my 40s now and I can barely stay awake past 8:30 and I definitely can't take shots anymore, maybe one or two a year lol!

@MadiMoo-jm7pd Жыл бұрын

No but really what’s that multivitamin called😂

@sheriwadsworth5797 Жыл бұрын

Soo true !! I go out once a month with my girlfriends ! I just went last night and we all just chat and catch up . Good byes lady for ever 😆!

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello Sheri 👋 nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today?

@GiveItAGoBakes Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 I had 1 crazy girls night like what Penn thinks (8 years ago) but other than that it's all chatting and 1 glass of wine

@thiswelldefense5762 Жыл бұрын

Hello friend nice meeting you here on KZfaq How are you doing today ?

@Sweet_Melissa22 Жыл бұрын

I love it!!! This is truly what happens!!! 🤣🤣🤣come home what did you do, did you get wasted? where did you go, did you go to the clurb? Did you get turnt up, im like who are you, and what did you do with the person that suppose to know me after 20 years 🤣🤣🤣 love you guys much love ❤️

@JessieMouse8 Жыл бұрын

Hahaha Yep, totally relatable and so beyond true! I think my husband might have a guess of what happens depending on which friend I'm with lol. Another awesome video! Thanks guys❤️

@holdernessfamilylaughs Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@JessieMouse8 Жыл бұрын

@@holdernessfamilylaughs You're welcome ❤️

@sophiacrockett6115 Жыл бұрын

You nailed this😂😂😂😂

@tngirlz4622 Жыл бұрын

Penn, if you’re worried about guys hitting on your wife, that happens at the supermarket at our age. (Seriously. At least here in Canada 🇨🇦). Also, sunscreen on your hands is an excellent idea, but keeping it in your car may not be - the heat in a car can destroy sunscreen’s effectiveness. Not sure where you can check this, but I’m pretty sure you’re not supposed to expose sunscreen to heat.

@dedhampster4730 Жыл бұрын

OMG, id be thrilled if girls night was a fight club or video games. It is always health, kids, work etc and some appropriate lady activity like painting, or baking. I like those things, but i alao like a good game of Halo, Orcs Must Die, Dwarves in Space (damn cant remember the title)...

@laurabuckles7961 Жыл бұрын

Guess I'm an outlier, I used to go to lunch with friends, and would sit there while they went on and on about husbands, kids, the latest health issue, the weather, etc. and think "How do I get out of here without making everyone mad?". 😄