I am an 87-year-old grandmother with six grandchildren and a marriage that lasted 52 years before my husband died. The longer one lives together the more you understand each other, and, although arguments never cease, may become a whole lot easier to deal with.

I am a 75 years old gay man in a 44 years relationship with my husband and it get easier with time and we give each other space regularly and since we are both retired now, the personal space is very important. We do lots ot things together but still keep the personal time every day. Arguments are good and the loving after is the best. Communication is effectively key. You are doing good. I like that you are sharing your life examples with us. Thank you for this and keep at it. Oh! Happy Birthday Ryan. Long life ahead of you.

Hey Joe and Ryan: I appreciate your sharing with us about your life together. I am 76 years old (truly old) and with my life partner for a very happy although not always easy 32 years. He is younger than I am and our age difference has been a great gift. I value your ideas, because I find that the young can teach how to live today and the old may have perspective and experience that only comes from living. We need each other to learn to successfully live our lives and achieve the last stage of life, balancing both old age and youth at the same time in ourselves. Thanks for what you share with us here.

Now you have everyone thinking is Ryan really only 19 and is Joe a groomer 😂strum that air ukulele!!

always look forward to these! happy birthday Ryan

Happy Birthday Ryan!!! Much love for you both!

Happy birthday Ryan!! You are amazing. 🥳 Thanks for sharing your life experiences with us!

Love you guys and this new podcast style is so good! X

We appreciate hearing your insights on both sides. Keep working hard.

If you don't have conflict, it usually means one or both people are not being honest. That eventually blows up from built up resentment. Learning the skills of good communication and conflict resolution is so essential.

I truly enjoy how you are communicating with each other. There is so much respect, maturity and of course love. Thank you for staying true to yourself and giving valuable perspectives on sharing one's relationship online + coming out as a couple.

loved this talk. Also, happy birthday ryan !!

Happy 19 Ryan! 💕 Thank you both for another relaxing and interesting episode

Happies of birthdays to Ryan!!! Love the video!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN! and thanks for another great vid, Joe :)

Great watch as always 👊🏿 and happy birthday Ryan.

Man I love this format of video

Hi guys, loved the vlog. I always learn something new about you. You're doing all the right things in maintaining a good and supportive relations ship. Communication is paramount.

Happy birthday Ryan! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊 Loving this content. Thank you to you both!

Happy Birthday Ryan! Love your haircut!

Happy B - Day Ryan You both are BEAUTIFUL !!!

Happy Birthday Ryan!! May your every wish come true today, and always!!

Happy birthday Ryan 🎂 hope the new year is treating you well! Really love these calm conversations - equally as soothing as the weekend vlogs 🧡

Happy Birthday Ryan! 38 here, feel tired more and more lol but it feels like a turning point realizing more and more about myself and learning to step back not giving more of myself then I need to. Savour the friendships you have, don’t waste your energy on negative relationships. It’s exciting when the mind shift starts and worries and concerns from the past don’t mean anything and the bigger picture comes into play. You two are very inspirational I’ve learned from you two to continue working on communication-it is oh so important! Your hard work ethic is also epic and inspiring and it shows!

I also like that both of you are unapologetic. Always do what’s best for yourself.

Happy Birthday Ryan hope you have an amazing day🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰

Happy Birthday Ryan and love you both🥰🥰 I love how you present your healthy, sincere relationship spontaneously in the video, rather than showing us a fixed, stereotypical gay couple interaction just like you said a lot of kisses, cuddling or so, which makes everyone know the diversity of LGBTQIA+ relationships. Thanks for bringing us these unique and genuine lifestyle videos.😇

HB to Ryan! Lots of Love for both 🖤🖤🖤

Feliz aniversário, Ryan!! Parabéns.

Getting older is mostly just the process of inadvertently broadening ones perspective through the accumulation of experiences, which in turn is inadvertently measure against future, novel experiences. Over time, your perspective changes as the amount of days you have lived becomes greater than the amount of days you have left. Combined, we are lead to to adapt our approach to life, and new priorities and intentions behind the thoughts, behaviours, and expressions of our older selves. For me, coming in to my 30s was followed by a profound sense of certainty and calm I had never experienced before. I'm stoked to reach my 40s, but I'm also just as eager to see how the rest of my 30s plays out. If you get a chance, I hope you guys are able to visit the Maritimes some time soon! hbd🎂

Happy Birthday, Ryan!

happy birthday, Ryan!!🫶🏽

Happy birthday Ryan!🎉

Happy birthday beautiful Ryan 💜

Happy Birthday, Ryan!! 🎉🎉🎉

Happy birthday, Ryaaaaannnn!

The only KZfaqr who I have post notifications on 🤗

happy bday!

I think the fact that you’re not kissing on camera very often, makes your relationship seem even more authentic, natural and real, which it is. There’s nothing I find more awkward than couples kissing in an artificial way on camera. So thanks for not doing that! 🫶 also happy ✨19th✨ birthday to our precious Ryan!!!

Relationships require effort and work if you want it to succeed. When I was younger I just assumed everyone knew how I felt or thought especially if they are important. Growing up is kinda nice.

Happy Birthday Ryan 🎊🎉

Happy birthday Ryan! 😊🍰❤️

happy birthday ryan

Happy Birthday Ryan!!🎂

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN!🥳

Happy Birthday!☺️🎂🎉

Happy Birthday Ryan🎉

I love Joe’s flawless skin🤩🤩

I hope you keep this video and listen to it again every 10 years and reflect on what you said.

Happy birthday Ryan!

How many times do you say "like" in this video? Just asking. Happy birthday, Ryan!!

happy birthday ! (:

happy birthday 🎂

The reference he made to Colleen and her lil song 😂

Happy Birthday Ryan 🎉🎉🎉

Happy birthday Ryan 🎂🎊🎉

HAHAH i think i’m the only one who noticed ryan doing the “i’m not a criminal” colleen ballanger uke ‘apology’

Happy Canada Day / Birthday!!!

I remember when I was young, dreading to get older, because of fears of health and other things... but now I love it! Happy Birthday Ryan 💟 P.S Not y'all got these people freaking out about ryan being '19' lmaoooo

Happy birthday, Ryan! Jasper stole the video at the beginning with his wagging tail and cute face popping up behind Joe.

I love this style sometimes too..from the daily vlogs to this its nice to slow down and just have some coffee and chat!

You two are my favourite ‘Men in Black’.

Happy Birthday Ryan

Could you do a coffee vlog and post which ones you drink and enjoy?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN!

🎉 Happy Birthday to Ryan...best wishes...

Happy Birthday Ryan!! 🎉

5:20 This reference killed me fr 💀💀💀💀

Happy Sweet 16 Ryan!

Congrats on being 19!! 🎉 (Oh my gosh, you guys freaked me out 😆 ... I swear )

Happy birthday Ryan future brother in law. May God bless you with lot of happiness and success in life🥰 lot of love from India🇮🇳

The air ukulele I see you Ryan 😭😂💀

i didnt know that ryan is now 19 happy birthday btw 🖤🖤

I love the both of you ❤

happy birthday to my favourite Ryan

Happy birthday Ryan no matter what your real age Is enjoy your lives together❤❤ i agree some of bl couples chanel where they focus o n kissing etc is done to round up subscribers remember guys stay happy and positive ❤❤

Happy birthday hopefully you have a awesome birthday day

Happy birthday paw paw!😂😂😂

Ryan, your haircut is a great! Variety is good, but I hope you keep this one for a while.

That's incredible, not only did you come out but btw here's my him, all at once😂

Happy Birthday Ryan, mine was yesterday.

R u guys going to have a meet & greet w/ur fans in NYCin Fall?

Happy Birthday Ryan! Don't worry - my father in law plays basketball in a league regularly at nearly 80, you'll be just fine :)

🎶 Happy birthday to YOU x2 🎵 Happy birthday dear Ryan 🎶 Happy birthday to YOU 🎵 Happy birthday Mister🎈🎁🎉🍾🎂🥂🎇💥💫 Wishing you good, lasting, happy years to come 💯

happy birthday

"It's in his kiss!" Smoldering passion begins with a kiss.

First!! u guys very cute💓💓💓

NO WAY YOU'RE JUST 19!!!!!

Please don't or do not ever regret anything you did or do. Everything happens for a reason.

Hi happy birthday Ryan 🎂🎉 in joy your day by robert

hey yall. do you guys have any travel plans to asia like Korea or Singapore?

He looks cute with the short hair!

Happy birthday Ryan! I missed an episode evidently because who is getting married? I know you’re excited about the possibilities of new coffee adventures while traveling. Thanks for the video. BTW Ryan the haircut looks great on you.

I was searching the christimas vlog and I tyled joe pee💀 im so sorry, luv u guys

Sorry but what is the coffee? I want to try it!

Yeah I think I do this too I love kissing and everything but I can't really see myself doing PDA I'd rather enjoy the intimacy.

What a beautiful vlog Joe and Ryan without Jasper ,??? I loved your discussion an age.. I am older. We all hae arguments as you agree.. but sometimes it clears any misunderstanding...kissing is ok when it comes naturally..but a table and.microphone may prevent that...ive loved watching you over the past 3 years.. Do continue these ktype of vlogs. Love you three xxxx❤❤❤😊😊😊

The Colleen reference was unexpected bahaha. . Happiest Birthday Ryan! PS. I hunted down that christmas vlog. The mistletoe did its thing XD. .

19 ???

Hey i need you, can you tell me where did you buy the fanny pack from a previous video I need it