Luckily this never happens to me, because anytime I meet my cousins, it’s when we’re at a place with no internet XD So I have the option to say yes, by my own means. ….but I still won’t throw the match lol

HOLY SHIT YOU ARE SO RIGHT I swear there's always that little cousins that your family forces you to play with even though they know that child is a asshole to

I approve. Never throw a game for any reason. It is disrespectful to yourself and your opponent, possibly even moreso than 3-stocking your opponent.

yeah but thats in your personal family environment not the internet

XD

So true lmfao

Right!! They end up making fools of themselves

11 year old Xx.Gachamoonlight.xX wants to know your location

they think because they’re 13 and not 11 that suddenly they’re just not kids anymore lol

Im one of them •_•

Here here

@@Twist3dDisast3r Why do people say that? "Here,Here"

@@serenity5702 it used as basically "I understand"

@@angelspiritfoxx Ah ok, at first I thought it meant something derogatory or mean

@@serenity5702 In the UK, it’s what you say when you agree with something. In parliament, that’s how people vote lol. “All in favour?” “Here here!”

THIS!

Except some people don't ask to have kids and it is forced upon them so they may resent the children, but I agree! There should be books about this for teenagers so they know how to handle kids when the time comes, and what to do if they're stuck with kids and don't want them.

please don't tell me you're one of those people that think that every negative personality trait of a child can be blamed on the Parents. There's only so many times you can 'sit a child down and have a talk with them' or some other benign punishment before you realize the child needs stronger discipline that is frowned upon now a days.

@@coebaltraizure6137 I agree that it isn't always just parents who are at fault, sometimes it's the environment outside our home that could affect us (friendship groups, teachers, bullies...etc). My parents did their best to be as affectionate and loving, but couldn't understand why i had at time bursts of anger, running away from school and hiding my bad grades, or moments of complete silence and isolation back in elementary and high school. They only found out later when i started Uni that i had been severely bullied throughout my childhood and adolescent years which made me into a bitter and closed up person. I only had the strength to tell them the truth once i actually began working on my mental health and self-asteem, thanks to studying psychology and finally surrounding myself in a normal and healthy enviroment. It took years of self reflection and work to change my mentality and develop more healthy and positive traits. My parents still feel guilty and personally responsible for turning a blind eye, but we're all doing our best to support each other now and look only at the present and future.

@@coebaltraizure6137 The way a child behaves is dependent on so many factors including parenting, their environment, and even just themselves. And of course you can't always blame the parents because sometimes they are doing the best they can and nothing is working. But I've seen plenty of times where the parents WERE to blame, like most of the time I've personally seen, you can clearly see what the parent did and how that is affecting their child.

I hate kids. And i hate those people too… I dont wish harm on kids though, i just want them to stay the fuck away from me cause they stress me the fuck out as an autistic person. Though i want the best for them of course.

When you’ve been literally teabagged by a brat you’ll understand….

@@tikimillie oh yeah. I understand. It's not easy to deal with kids when sensory issues and sometimes straight up abuse puts you in physical pain. There's just some points where you had enough and no longer enjoy them. Pushed to the limit. I compare my relationship with kids to leaving a dog with kids. It is gentle until it is provoked or physically hurt by the kids. Dog gets blamed for biting the kids when the kids were too rough with it. Yes the kid is still learning, but that doesn't mean it was okay. So some dogs and some people just can't be around kids that's okay. 💙

My stephdad sees kids as his personal workslaves tbh, like he wont givz you respect and he just wqnts you to do what he wants done. He doesnt even see other people as even to him, anyone is a lesser to him. A real a hole 👀

They're going to be the new boomers, give it time.

Yes!!

As a child myself I don’t really like other kids but then again I don’t really like people in general, and I think your right and that it’s very different.

@@scarletlight2763 I’m 13 turning 14 this march. I’m finally a teenager! Time to bully kids because there kids, and pretend I was never a kid!

@@insaneproductions9117 what?

@@scarletlight2763 The joke is bashing people who believe they have the right to attack children because they are now "13 or 14". It is mocking those who think hurting those younger, is okay.

Yeah, I agree. Granted, I wouldn't mind having a child but I've gone through the samething to understand where you're coming from. EDIT : I wouldn't have a kid (by myself) because I know myself and I know that I wouldn't want to put a kid in the enviroment of feeling like it's there fault because I can't find away to deal with my apathy and depression. If I had a partner and I was better with my mental health, that would be the only way I would have a kid.

This is exactly me

Agreed 100%

Exactly.

As the oldest child, my lil siblings made me regain faith in children and love them more. Including my baby brother who I was able to successfully program him to love me

Children have always been pressured from a young age to grow up more quickly than they’re ready to. However this sentiment really does grow stronger and stronger over time to the point where many people now have downright unrealistic expectations for children (pre-teens and adolescents are absolutely included in this as well). Speaking as someone who had to grow mature at a young age, it actually seriously stunted my emotional growth and ended up in me not maturing at all. Kids need to be able to grow up in a timely fashion and deserve far more kindness than what society’s general attitude gives them.

I myself am a kid(I’m younger than 18) and honestly this is true. My parents do love me, but they pressure me a lot to be older than I am. To them, I’m actually 18 years old and I can do everything and understand everything they can. I know they mean no harm but they are doing a bit of harm.

Honestly, teenagers and adults bully kids for doing ''cringe'' things when they are literally playing, It's okay to look back on YOUR childhood and think about what an embarrassing gremlin you were, but judging others is just hypocritical, you went through that stage in life yourself so allow others too.

fr. I remember wanting to grow up quickly so people would start taking me serious

As a pre-teen, thank you for the message. This type of subject buggles my mind a lot, again thank you. :)

Miserable people want other people to be just as miserable, and it's sad. I guess the phrase misery loves company has some truth behind it.

Oh sorry, I read what you said wrong, whoops! You said everyone “was” a child and I though you said everyone “has” a child. My fault for reading late at night lmho

@@Quarter_BeetheSkid I accidentally read it like that too 💀

i misread it as “everyone wants a child at some point” 💀💀💀

Thing is,childhood wasn't a happy experience for everyone.

OMG really?!?!?

THANK YOU.

@Eggfriend omfg people are Gross

Yeah, it really sucks that there are adults who aren’t mature enough to realize that kids are still learning. The reason why they can’t act mature is because they aren’t full grown adults with the same experiences. Maybe someone doesn’t have the skills or patience to deal with kids, but that doesn’t mean going out of your way to hate them or bully them.

@@angelhanachi That sounds rough. I hope you’re doing okay now.

But there's nothing wrong with disliking them, it's just another opinion. I personally have a strong distaste for children but I absolutely love and cherish my 6 year old brother. I'm the type who never wants to have kids and definitely question why people have them anyways but I'd never discourage of shame anyone for doing so. I know children are still growing and can't really control themselves and their emotions but I don't really care they're still extremely annoying.

someone said i was crazy because i wanna adopt a baby 😭🤚

I would be like "listen bro. Everyone has a kid trapped inside of them. *Let me enjoy me toons* " 😆

Its sad how normalized it is, I have autism and I still fucking love cartoons at heart. I wanna become a cartoonist and make cartoons for all ages! Yeah little kids can be annoying but it's just how they are, you can dislike them and it doesn't have to be for you. But it's gross how people wanna mistreat them, hug them. Give your kids loves, selfish people

I like kid shows too because they comfort me and my friends bully me for watching them :’) its sad how its normalized

@@Crystix same, but nobody bullies me for it fortunately. If your friends don't support your likings then are they REALLY your friends?

Power to you for realizing you don’t want kids.

Yeah, people confuse not wanting children with being anti-children so often. I have seen people on so many occasions bemoaning about how "everyone" hates children, and when they give examples, it's not the actual abusive behavior towards children they describe, it's people who simply do not want children. Which is so frustrating, since I dare to say that the majority of people who don't want children of their own still don't hate children in general. And also because many people who actually display the abusive anti-children behavior are the parents of their own children. There's just such a strong stigma against people who don't want children (especially if you're AFAB), and on the other hand so many protective falsities towards parents (especially if you're AFAB).

same just same

That’s very understandable and not really what I was trying to talk about. I also have sensory issues

That’s about how I feel. I do not dislike kids, I just don’t like being around them due to sensory issues and general social awkwardness. But even then, it’s not all the time I don’t like being around them. Only when they’re being loud. I have a little cousin who I love seeing, and my band directors have kids who I love giving high fives to and talking to.

I’m also still 15 so that can also factor into it what with social awkwardness and all of that

My exact thoughts. I don’t hate kids per say, just how loud they can get sometimes. The age I actually start to dislike people are like, 12 to 13.

@@theautismrizzler Yeahh, I remember having to join my mother's friend's 8 y.o. because she wasn't allowed to go to the park alone. I was pushing her on the swings when these 11-13 y.olds were picking on one of them's younger sister. They didn't actually do anything damaging, but would kinda ignore her or make her do things that they thought would be funny before bicycling away from her. All this time they had that "I'm the older one, so cooler one" look on their faces, and because of how I myself have had that phase I just kinda... cringed- unless there's a better word to explain how I felt? The 8 y.o I was watching was acting more mature than them. I get that being forced to tag your sibling along might be annoying, but from an outsider's perspective treating them poorly just makes you the bad guy, like there wasn't anything funny about it.

wishing you the best with your career!! im shooting for social work too :D hope you're doing well xx

goodluck to you

Yeah this whole hate on kids might be a reaction to the pressure of "you must have kids or else you're a failure because life is about reproduction".

@@-kurow-7113 I kind of felt like it also had to do with being convinced by the adults around you yourself, that you were less of a person because you were a child, so then it gets ingrained in them, causing them to grow up to have the same feelings towards children, and feel like now they themselves have more value as a human because they are adults, compared to their child selves. Notice how a lot of these same people who say they hate kids, are extremely disparaging of themselves from when they were kids? Saying they were a bad kid, etc? It's because their parents put those words into their head, making them believe these are inherent characteristics of not just themselves as a person, but especially children overall. If they don't act like little adults, they are bad children in their minds, because that's what their parents taught them.

If you really need to express your hate you don't need to fabricate your past for get attention. Curb your ego

I would punt one

''Getting mad at a child is like getting mad at a beginner.'' this type of stuff i see very often in games coming from ppl who played the game for bazillion hours or some shit, bashing on someone who just installed acting like their ruining the community like theyre the plague or smth, like OF COURSE THEY DONT HAVE EXPERIENCE THEY JUST ARRIVED HERE and it pisses me off so much, thank god there are some pure souls who see these beginners and help them thru out, theatching them and stuff, and i just whished those tryhards would learn to help others but no, they never do.

@@vinny464 they also act like they werent kids before, like bro 🧍‍♂️

What's wrong with disliking children

@@scrotum_666 Never there was, I even said I dislike kids. I ment being mad at a kid for something you learn from experience/being told.

I have a theory as to why there are people that hate children, and I think it boils down to how we were raised, and how our parents responded to us at the common stage where many of us start to hate those younger than us. When we don't get to be socialized with others around her age enough when we are between the ages of 6 and 14, then we can create this animosity towards anyone younger than us. When there's not enough adult intervention that doesn't include any sort of harsh punishment and only a good talk to, then this could lead to either resentment because of the parents not seeing things from your point of view and being extremely punitive and painting you as a monster, or they are so uninvolved, that you just continue on your way of being hateful and bullying, and also the urge for this kind of sensation oftentimes comes from again, deprivation of socializing with those around your age. I know I felt this way when I was around 8 years old, I didn't like 4-year-olds, I found them extremely annoying, and I found it extremely unpleasant to hang around them for any longer than 5 minutes. I think because this is a crucial time for our brains as a child, in order for them to develop properly, we need those brains to be around other brains that are around the same development, not someone who is still learning the ABCs and still likes blue's clues. When you're eight, you need to be around other children that have a similar understanding of the world, similar development, etc. Not that you can't ever interact with someone who was younger or older, but in order for the brain to develop properly and become more mature, it needs to be exposed to others who are in the same or similar field of development. I remember preferring to be around children between the ages of 7 to 10, as we had a similar understanding of the world at that stage of life. Some of us may have been still learning how to read and write, but we absolutely knew our abcs. We were at the stage where we didn't just find iron Man cool because he's iron man, but because we were starting to get an intricate understanding of the marvel universe, and started to actually play the marvel universe Xbox games, and we're starting to read comic books. We were starting to get exposed to more involved, more mature content than before, and our brains were ready for it. When a child at the stage is more exposed to those who are younger than them, at a stage that the child themselves have finally come out of, it feels frustrating, annoying, belittling even. Then, when you express any bit of this annoyance, when your parents brush you off and tell you you are being ungrateful, not being gentle enough, etc, tell you to be nice to your brother or whatever, this only creates more resentment, and not more respect for children younger than you. A good parent would notice this sense of deprivation from you, and maybe try to involve you in a more mature activity, and might separate you from your annoying sibling, and try to find a way to make sure both of you got healthy interaction that each of you needed, instead of telling you guys that you had to work it out yourself, and that you had to be more patient with your littlebrother. How can you be more patient at 8 years old with a 4 year old brother, that you live with all the time, and have to make compromises with all the time, because they are still too small to have an understanding of things? You want to reach out farther, develop more, you want to have more intellectually deep conversations, you don't want to just talk about how iron Man can blast lasers out of his hands, you want to talk about a more intricate side of his story, you want to look into all the various iron Man suits he's had in the past, but all your little brothers capable of doing, is making flying sounds and repetitively explaining how cool iron Man is on the basis of that he is simply cool. How much of this can an 8-year-old take? When a parent doesn't respect the developmental stages of each of their children, this could lead to problems, and if prolonged enough, can lead to a long-term animosity towards those greatly under matured from yourself, thereby creating the hate for children. Another aspect that can play into this, is if the parented themselves project a lot of their own hate of children unto you, with every little childish thing you ever did, being bad or disgusting or annoying. They hourly expressed it to you, and so you internalize the message that, because you are a child, you are annoying, undesirable to socialize with, and are disgusting. When you grow up, you feel like you are finally outside of that, so you are more willing to be disparaging of children, because that was what was framed for you. Not that these things can't still impact you on a personal level as an adult simply because it was modeled as a childish thing, cuz it does become your integral and your voice whatever your parents believed or thought of you, if it was mainly portrayed because you were a child, a lot of your sentiment of negativity towards yourself will largely be due to the fact that you were a child. Part of what makes me come to this conclusion, is the fact that almost every person I've met who said they hated kids, whenever they speak of their own childhoods, it actually sounded really really horrible. Whenever they describe themselves as a child, instead of seeing themselves as innocent and naive, they tend to see themselves as idiotic, annoying, gross and just straight up evil little gremlins, why? Because that's exactly what their parents made them feel about themselves especially for being a child, thereby making them a child hater as an adult. And then, their parents ask why their kids as adults hate children, which every abusive parent seems to wonder how their children end up the way they do, it just seems really silly to me when these parents just don't see the errors of their ways.

Honestly I feel like somthing like this is why I don't want to become a parent. Alot of parents & non parents pressure folks into having kids but it's not tht easy cuz not only do u have to pop them out & provide the basic food water & shelter but u also have to raise them & and be available emotionally & mentally for at least 18 years if u want to be a GOOD parent & I just don't want to put that burden on myself Like in that situation the dad was in I'd probably just think of walking away & leaving my kids. A parent can do tht but a good one certainly would not

Yeah, but if we tell our kid to sit down and behave someone else is gonna call us a monster abusive parent. Yall childless people are impossible. No sympathy. Like sorry children exist and are disruptive to your 30 minute bus ride. Poor baby.

@@emilyann4549 I don't have kids, but I have six older siblings and they have kids so I have always been around kids and I have been their babysitter sometimes. I know which of my siblings that are strict, their kids are fine, the other ones are not well behaved on any level. I understand that there is a lot of opinions being pushed on parents but would you rather have kids that are well behaved and you being criticized for being "a monster" or would you rather not tell your kids to behave and have kids that always disturb other people one way or another (which would be criticized too in another way). The example I used was just one of many incidents. We're talking about a full buss, people were standing even. The boys were wrestling and punching each other and bumping in to other passengers. And they were screaming and shouting. The father didn't care one bit. Some passengers told the boys to stop and that lessened the screaming and wrestling a little. The father didn't say anything. But this was just one example. Things like this happen all the time. On the street, on the bus, in the store during social gatherings, in church, on the beach etc. And no I'm not talking about children being tired and whiney. I'm talking big disturbances.

@@StarOfRaven Yalls judgments either way dont count because you dont have kids. When no one else in your culture is having kids, everyone has an opinion with 0 expirience. I do not take you people seriously. I have no people in my life, my age with real life experience raising kids. Strait up winging it with the advice I get from elders and online. I'm 27 and have 0 friends with kids. If you want your opinion to be heard, join the club or shut up. Yall child free people decided you don't want the responsibility, so you don't get to make the cultural rules around parenting kids because you chose not to join the family class. You want to see perfect shiny kids and parents, but you don't want to contribute anything to child rearing or parenting in the culture? Not how it works bud. Do I have complaints about other people's parenting style? Yes. But I actually know how it is, so I'm not so damn cruel about it. You have no idea whats going on in that man's life. Parents have their give up moments, especially in this culture where no one gives a damn about each other anymore. If it was me on that bus, I'd try to spark a conversation with the kids or just get over myself. An bad behaved kid bumping into me isn't ruining my day.

​@@emilyann4549Discipline isn't the same as abuse. Discipline is the opposite of abuse, actually; parents who never discipline their children, or parents who only discipline their children behind closed doors, are teaching their child that obedience is conditional to being able to get called out on it. Those children will turn into adults who only take accountability when they're caught, regardpess of how horrendous their actions were. Train your children to feel genuine empathy and respect for other people, and you will not have this problem. Saying "sit down and shut up" isn't teaching them anything, but telling them "these people are trying to concentrate and you're disturbing them" reminds a child that they aren't the only person in the room, and that respect of other people's personal space is the quality of a good person. Raise good kids, don't start slacking off now just because us "childfree people" are "impossible." Us childfree people don't know your child, so don't use us as an excuse to slack off on your parenting. If you choose to have a child, at the very least know the difference between abuse, discipline, and punishment.

Yeah, people don't give kids enough credit. Some people think that just because someone is younger than them that means that they are dumber than them. When that isn't true. Seriously, there's some grown adults who are as dumb as bricks out there. There's even some kids shows and movies that dumb themselves down just so the kids can understand the moral of the story. These kids can figure it out on their own and them shoving their cheesy message of the story down your throat just ruins the movie/show. Kids are honestly smart, accepting, and understanding...until some of the adults in their lives corrupt their mindset. But that's a whole rant for another day.

Kids are SO much smarter then what people give them credit for It’s really infuriating when I see people do or say terrible shit in front of a kid and say “their young they don’t understand/won’t remember” like ??? The fuck???

As a minor, I agree, besides, they were kids at once too, not realizing that they were kids once too makes them even more stupid besides, why do people forget something called “their brain is still developing”

@@spaceaster You said it. There's always children who are smarter and maturer than anyone else out there.

I relate because I have anxiety and younger kids make me feel uneasy

Also if people were to stop having kids there wouldn't be anymore adult to help at somepoint. Just saying. Babies don't get delivered by storcks

I agree! I love kids, but I don't think I'd ever want my own, sure they can be little spawns of evil, but that's what people always pick out, why not see the wholesome things kids can do!

Yes, I personally like kids, as I babysit for my aunt and sister-in-law from time to time, although I could never ever deal with them as a parent would. I love my niece and cousins to death but sometimes I need a chill-pill to just do me. The crying and yelling that occasionally happens can get my anxiety levels far to high for my liking.

The sad thing is you can tell them this and they'll respond with some excuse like "they posted it online and therefore we have a right to give our opinion" while also silencing others from giving their opinion about why the response was uncalled for.

@@connycrayy I totally agree with the anxiety thing, it does stress you out thinking you did something wrong

@@JewelWildmoon Tell them "and I also have a right to my opinion."

aww.. i really liked your story, i personally don't want to have kids, but i don't see why some people hate them so much... like, they're not mentally formed yet AND if they do bad things, it will be the parents fault for not educating their child

@@melonitaa I am very shy with new ppl and it makes me sad that people are like that

I have a little brother and I still find him annoying

Nice story! :)

I loved working with kids but had to quit aswell due to my manager not treating me well and laws that don't seem to really protect teachers. I just couldn't anymore, but have no problem caring for anyone I personally know kids when their busy.❤

When I hear a kid cry in public, I don't want to lay a hand on the kid... I want the parents to act like parents, and comfort their kid, or if it's a temper tantrum, to teach the kid. Young kids don't have impulse control. Been there. Done that. Obviously I was that way too. So were you, probably. So, donf bully kids over it. Its hypocritical. And at that age? The parents are responsible for raising their kids.

If they say that... They'd be the next child abuser on the news.

I think it all boils down to how we were raised. I know I posted this somewhere else, but I think if we get a fundamental understanding of the psychology behind adults hating children, perhaps this is something we could break down. My idea is, it has to do with one of two things, and even perhaps both simultaneously: lack of proper socialization between the ages of 6 and 14 with like-minded individuals at similar or the same developmental stage, often coupled with being forced by their parents to mostly socialize with their much younger siblings, and the second aspect that can play a part, is how their parents treated them as a child themselves, and what messaging they gave them as a child, for example telling them that they were gross, annoying, or bad, causing them to not just look at them as a child in a bad light, but every child other than themselves, especially as they grew up. First, I would like to address the first example here, which is a very very often phenomenon, we're either the parents are so unattentive when there is conflict between say, and 8-year-old older child and their 4-year-old little brother or sister, or are so heavy-handed about negative behavior from the 8-year-old child, that the child only feels further negativity, and doesn't get their true need met. When we are between 6:00 and 9 years old, we kind of go into an awakening, so to speak. We have finally walked out of our little kids stage of life, we are starting to have a more conceptual, more adult mentality of the world, even though it's at its infant stage up at all. We have learned our abc's, we are currently learning how to read and write or at least have an elementary understanding of it, we are way more advanced than we were not too long ago. This is an exciting and adventurous time of our development, causing us to yearn to socialize and interact with those who are like-minded, others that are at a similar thinking capacity as our newfound brain capabilities. That being said, many of us grew up with younger siblings, and many of us grew up with bad parents. Putting all of that into consideration here, when let's say in this case, an 8-year-old child is stuck with their four year old sibling all the time, it can be quite draining and frustrating, as their 4-year-old sibling is only capable of a certain amount of intellectuality, for example 8-year-olds are ready to talk about their favorite media franchises in a more mature manner than they did prior, for example maybe the 8-year-old's brother likes iron Man just like they do, but on a very superficial level, and only believe iron Man to be cool by virtue of him being iron Man and being a superhero. The 8-year-old, on the other hand, is starting to like iron Man for more intellectual reasons, starting to get into the true backstory, and is not just watching some Saturday morning cartoon about iron man, but is starting to get into marvel comic books, and the whole marvel cinematic universe as a whole. When you are at this brand new stage of maturity, Way beyond your younger siblings, it can feel mentally exhausting and anxiety provoking to be in their presence, especially for extended amounts of time. If you ever tried to have a more mature conversation about iron Man rather than just talking about how cool his suit is, or the fact that he could fly and beat up bad guys, it is very annoying. This could eventually lead to the 8-year-old snapping out of good behavior, and causing lash out. How a good parent would deal with this scenario, is not punish, nor tell them to behave better, but will intervene by maybe talking about how that was mean and inconsiderate of them, but also at the same time recognizing the underlying need that is behind this negative behavior, and tries to talk it out with the eight year old, as well as the four year old. Trying to find a compromise, for example engaging the 8-year-old and something more mature, maybe the parent themselves talks to the child with newfound levels of intellectuality about their favorite franchise from a more adult perspective, so then they don't have to be stuck with the four-year-old perspective. In the meantime also, maybe try to get the eight year old to socialize or be around more with other 8-year-olds interested in the same thing, or even 7 year olds or 10 year olds, as they are all at a similar stage of life, with a new sense of intellectuality and maturity, and equally might get easily bad tempered around those younger than them, out of mere frustration of them not having the same understanding of the world that they just discovered. children at the stage, so desperately want to run as far away as they can from the previous maturity that they had not too long ago, trying to reach greater heights. That feels bothered, when there are little kids in their presents, and they are the only ones that they can socialize with besides their parents. Another solution again, could be the parent seeking out other children around their 8-year-old's age, whom are also into marvel comics, where they are all at a similar development developmentally, understanding the world, intellectually, etc. Being in this environment way more than being in the presence of their little brother, makes the presence of their little brother a lot easier, and when they have the urge to interact with something a bit more of their maturity, perhaps maybe take them to the library after school, instead of just hanging around at home, the 8-year-old can perhaps run into other kids around their age and talk about marvel comics, can maybe look at and check out some marvel comics, while maybe the parent and the four-year-old child can go into the little kids wing of the library, and read books together there. if you're wondering what a bad parent would do in the situation, and overly permissive parent will just be uninvolved, and not do anything to intervene when the older child gets annoyed, and just tells them to tolerate their brother better. In the household of strict parents, the parents will not just do that, but verbally abused the 8-year-old, and might give them a hard punishment, leaving the child feeling unfulfilled, and even more angry, and even further hating the presence of those younger than themselves.

I remember I saw people using sensory overload as a reason to dislike children. When I said that's not a valid reason and that the kids are probably in sensory overload they started throwing buzz words at me and ironically being ableist and sexist by assuming my gender and assuming I don't have mental health issues.

@@rerenanabanana yea^^ 90% of the time if a kid is screaming or crying in public it’s because they’re overwhelmed and tired and just want to go home, not because they’re being obnoxious or anything. They aren’t doing it to overwhelm people, they’re doing it because they need a place to calm down and destress

Same. They’re little and they barely understand the world around them. It’s cruel to laugh at them suffering. Some people just disgust me.

Nahh bro they evil

@@scrotum_666 You're actually looking a lot more like the evil one here y'know. I think you've misunderstood the entire idea of a child, Think maybe you should go reflect on what an ''evil'' child you were even when you literally didn't ask to be born

@@thearlgrey I can't tell if they is joking or not.

@@legendgames128 Think for yourself, it doesn't take much IQ to understand

I just compare hating kids to hating blacks, gays, the disabled, the elderly, women... I could go on forever.

Cursed take: adoption is just thrift shopping for a child.

Now that is messed up glad she doesn't have kids

I feel like that's something to report

Call 911 or get her a psychiatrist, do it before she actually harms a child cause she sounds sadistic.

There’s a point where it becomes illegal.

That’s gross! Why would she want to hurt a child? They’re weaker then you, it’s called child abuse. I happen to like kids and babies, I don’t understand sociopathic people who want to harm a child.

Why are they working with kids if they don’t like kids? I mean people that work for kids don’t even really make that much and it isn’t easy in the slightest, theres no upside for them working with kids unless you LIKE kids 😅

@@user-uj6nq8bi3p exactly my thoughts! It really confuses me considering the fact it’s not an easy class in the slightest too.

Good for you! I hope you end up pursuing the role, we need more positive adults in the childcare industry! Somehow, it's more common than you'd ever believe for people who genuinely seem to hate taking care of kids go into these fields.

my only theory is for them maybe having been bullied in their youth a ton so now having long lasting resentment towards kids. those people not getting/seeking help dealing with their issues.. but it's either way nonsensical. i too was bullied my whole childhood & still fear kids a little from time to time but hating on complete random unrelated children makes no sense to me either 🤷‍♀️

@@vivvy_0 Could be that. I get annoyed with kids that don't listen, do I hate them? No way! I'm not emotionally ready for kids.

@@katherinedonovan974 the internet seems to bring out the worst of side of some humans :(

@@vivvy_0 Oh yes, unfortunately.

Holy fucking hell!!! Don’t they know that cyber bullying is one of the reasons why a lot of kids commit suicide?! Fuck those commenters!

I always felt like that too!! I once wrote a birthday card to my mom basically saying "sorry for being a bother to you" as a kid lol

Exactly, someone older than me was ageist to me for being young when I didn’t do anything wrong yet they call me immature when they’re the childish ones.

Me to

TOO REAL!!! YES!!! THANK YOU

People who hate on children are the weakest link

This 💯💯 I get it, kids aren't for everyone but people especially adults who hate kids are weirdos in general.

Save the hatred for the politicians.Because it's not like they don't deserve it

I like their attitude, "It's not because you're disabled, I just hate all babies equally." 😭😭

by the way, the way you use lines is super cool!!

vouch- kids deserve more respect

True

Fr not like they were 17 like 1 day ago.

Glad you recovered!

I feel this comment with my whole asexual being rn XD Having children doesn't mean anything in the grand scheme of life. You can live fully satisfied with children or without children. It's so annoying to hear people push having children on teens/young adults when no one is ready for that. That also contributes to bad parents being created cause not all of us can handle the stress of caring for another being for 20+ years. Like dang my bird is 20 years old. I would be paying 3x the money if I had a child just for all the food, schooling, medical bills, entertainment, space, clothes ect ect ect. Having a kid is really expensive and a big responsibility. I don't think a teen/fresh adult should be thinking anything about having a kid right after highschool lol.

@@whoahanant OHhh gods yes Or people have kids to "fix relationships" or think it would keep a couple together. No if you argue now you will argue with a child. And a lot of people in 2021 do not have any financial security or have own home to provide any stable life to a child. And I am sorry but if people have kids while in no way being able to provide for themselves is incredibly selfish imo

I can agree with this. Having a child and a relationship is great, but real fulfillment comes from within, not outside, not to sound like some goofy inspirational poster, but if you don't have anythting going inside yourself, your kids / family life isn't going to be fulfilling either. You have to love yourself and care for yourself before you can present that love and care to someone else.

This is so Pathetic this comment should be removed

If you don’t wish harm to them your an Miserable Person

​@@Freddy87-fazbiteyou're just going after air at this point

"Kids are money pits" the mothers of those people shouldn't have had them then.

​@@legendgames128 I feel like this is where it starts, a lot of these insecure people are probably from abusive / neglectful homes and internalized the kind of pain and rationale their parents had against them as being "normal". so now they carry on that torch.

Honestly! How will they feel if someone were to joke about how much they wanna hurt a puppy? It’s like that! They’re sick and need therapy!

@@Blazdragon34 You have a point. They can cry and get upset over a puppy getting hurt, when children are just as defenseless as a puppy. Both can't fight back and can get hurt easily.

@@daniboy4153 except puppies are actually cute and not annoying 🥰

@@maxXxine0101 nah they can be. My mom used to have one and it keeps pooping and at the point he scratched her.

ME I plan to adopt one day, maybe a slightly older kid so yo my future kid may be out there already and like oh my God thats just so weird to think about I hope they're happy I hope whatever leads them to me isn't traumatic

You do you! Giving birth is pretty scary to be honest! I do want Biological children and I actually don't mind adopting either but, listen just enjoy life and live it how you want! 🌸💕

Giving birth sounds painful, I love babies but nope! I’m not popping one out of me!

@@Blazdragon34 Same! I also want to adopt to give a kid a home

That's honestly pretty noble. Lots of people have this obsession with blood attachment to their kids, but I hope you are able to adopt in the future.

Ohh....that makes its a loop.

Very well put

Close,but no joint.you almost got it this time though!

literally how cycles of abuse are in a family. and yes, usually they are.

Lol

then this video just got rebutted

With all those overly priced micro transactions

REAL

It's a bit like hating on dogs for bad behavior, in the end it is on the owner to teach their animal the good way

Same with me. I couldn’t care for a kid due to sensory, responsibility and dysphoria issues, but I’ll absolutely spoil any nephlings (children of siblings) or grandkids of mine I might meet in the future.

* hugs* good on you!

Bratty kids are better than little miss goodie two shoes. Don’t at me

@@mdtisthebest6249 bratty kids>>>>teenage mfs who are "not like other girls" or adults having edgy teen mentality

​@@mdtisthebest6249 lmao someone got snitched on as a kid one too many times

that's so sick

it’s valid money is money?

because they are innocent and free before the world crushes them, maybe those angry teenagers are envious of this state of mind =/

@@vivvy_0 no it’s because they can’t shut up

Because they're easy targets that can't defend themselves. Kids turn into psychopaths without a moral compass and parents have long abdicated that responsibility to the internet. And guess what's on the internet? More sociopathic kids.

I feel like all of these people meet the requirements to be a roa roald dahl villain

Same here. We get forced to escalate so much, you're definitely not alone. My husband's family were making 'holes in condoms' jokes, knowing our stance, and damn near were kicked from the wedding & planning. We just want to be left alone.

"oh you should have kids they're life changing" Well I mean yeah, quite literally. Whether this change is positive or not is another story.

First. You're not alone. Thats why I intend to adopt. That an asexuality. Second. God my mom once worked with a lady who asked her "Ew why would you have kids?" And my mom was about to throw hands if it wouldn't get her fired. Not alone on that front either.

@@thepinkestpigglet7529 I've never really thought about my fear of pregnancy being related to asexuality, but it makes so much sense since I've recently discovered I'm aegosexual! That gives me a lot of peace of mind. Thank you so much!

I can agree with both sides. Nine years old is far too young to begin questioning relationships and sexuality, let alone dating. I felt the “crushing” on both genders since I was a kid, but I never outright questioned if I was bisexual until far later. I don’t think sexuality should be a factor for kids until the parents decide they’re ready to start dating, or until they decide to have that talk. In a perfect world that talk could just be a flat statement of “I will support and love you no matter who you decide to love”. Nine is.. just a bit too early, and I’d say the same for straight kids

@@clownrat5759 I mean yea but like it’s technically saying the same for other ages too 9 was an example

@@clownrat5759 It depends in my opinion, Kids usally discover sexuality around 10-11 from what I know. I dont think its important to go in depth until they are around the dating age but having talks about sexuality at nine is honestly something I wished happened in my house hold. Of course this is my opinion and that may just be because I matured fast but hey.

@@clownrat5759 things the Bible said would happen has and is happening

@@JaelynnRenee things the Bible said would happen has and is happening

Wow, that last sentence...props to you, that's some good prose. And it's true, too.

Lmfao

find friends that are socially open and family-friendly, don't let your life be dictated what other closed off minds think is correct

F_ck "selfish", have kids if you want. Any decent *empathetic* friend will understand you have new obligations to work around. Just take care until you're ready.

You should never feel selfish for wanting to make your own decision to have kids. If your friends are real ones, they'll help and support you even if they don't have kids of their own, many people who don't want kids simply don't want that commitment 24/7. And if they don't want to be around you and your kids, that is their loss. It's a wonderful thing to grow up with your friends especially as they start their family, and you share different experiences in life. I wish you the best, and I know you got this ✊💕