Getting my 3-year-old to listen without yelling with a visual timer

Getting my 3-year-old to listen without yelling with a visual timer | Montessori Bedtime Routine

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11 ай бұрын

Montessori bedtime routine with 3 year old, trying out using a visual timer in our routine.
Alina is in the process of adjusting to a new sibling (7 weeks old).
In this video, I share our Montessori bedtime routine with my 3-year-old and how we incorporated using a visual timer in our routine.
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@brookiemmm 11 ай бұрын

What a great setup to foster independence that kids thrive!

@hazieandmotherhood 11 ай бұрын

😊

@carinen8119 11 ай бұрын

Wow! I'm amazed at how you're managing a newborn while making quality time with your toddler and also filming videos! This was a fun watch. :)

@happymummy1984 11 ай бұрын

We have a visual timer and this has reminded me I need to use it more. Your videos are so good. It’s rare to find this quality on KZfaq - thank you for making them even though you must be super busy!

@hazieandmotherhood 11 ай бұрын

Glad you like it! 😉

@boopdoop2251 8 ай бұрын

Love that timer! Giving kids notice of what’s going to happen and a visual way to see how long they have is such a good idea!

@Scassolina-rv2xj 11 ай бұрын

1:29 you could use a small bucket or a tray at the wardrobe. So Alina can put the sand directly into it without a huge mess. We did this at daycare :)

@lenac6999 11 ай бұрын

Love how she swaddled her toys like a baby. Someone has been watching momma care for baby Elijah!

@amyfrancis9423 Ай бұрын

You're an amazingly patient mother! I wish I had created this routine with my now 10 year old!

@phuongchin5978 11 ай бұрын

*rushes to buy the visual timer* - totally sold by your video! Thanks Hazie!

@kh4l3dhi 10 ай бұрын

I'm learning alot from your videos, my wife and I have a newborn but we're taking all the notes we can to prepare!

@montenotssori2184 11 ай бұрын

Using a visual timer is such a brilliant idea 💡 thanks for sharing!!!

@BeatlesPlotagonShow 11 ай бұрын

I’m glad you figured out a bedtime routine that works best for you and Alina! This regression that she’s doing is very common in little kids when there’s a new sibling since they see they’re no longer the only one getting attention from their carers, and hopefully soon this regression will pass

@cathy4632 11 ай бұрын

You're an incredible mum. ❤

@hazieandmotherhood 11 ай бұрын

🥹🥰

@kbsurveyor 11 ай бұрын

Love your videos! Getting ready for baby #2 and feel like these will be extra helpful when baby is here

@AGoddess18 10 ай бұрын

I appreciate your clear, common sense approach. These tips and routines really make a difference ❤ Thank you

@MamaJeanMontessoriMusic 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your timer ⏱️ I used a digital one with just numbers, but think the visual one will work much better. And especially love your suggestion of having a clear ending to the bedtime routine so they feel loved but know it’s really the real end :)

@pixkypix7071 11 ай бұрын

Omg I FEEL for you! My kiddos are only 2 years apart but boy was this the hardest transition by far for my oldest!

@UnreasonablyNiceEE 7 ай бұрын

Brilliant idea with the timer. I'll try to use something like this as my LO gets older. Thanks for showing us your routine!

@dame_montessori 11 ай бұрын

She is so adorable. Wonderful video! Thanks for sharing ❤

@LucasdeFarias 10 ай бұрын

That is amazing. I fell so bad. I overprotect my daughter. I realize that now.

@rawlyroo5975 10 ай бұрын

This timer is awesome...some children find a sand timer more calming ....

@asmr_mushroom 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the lovely content! Purchasing a timer right now! wish me luck haha

@avaarley 9 ай бұрын

I love your routine ! ❤you’re great mom and very patient ! Lol 😂

@Happy._.LittleBean 7 ай бұрын

❤ well done mom xx

@vsn5474 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the video. Would you consider doing a video on bilingual parenting? I am very interested in your aproach regarding this topic. Thank you!

@sweetmother2406 6 ай бұрын

Good job! Both of you 😉

@laurah1011 6 ай бұрын

your channel has been a huge help to me as i’ve raised my two year old, thank you!! a few videos i have gone back to again and again to rewatch what you’ve done. i remember you sharing that Alina plays in her room, even on the day you slept in accidentally, she waited for you! have you considered or ever used an “okay to wake” clock? i’ve wondered if you’ve needed it at all, with your montessori based philosophy. thanks for your thoughts!!

@zinnia4698 6 ай бұрын

멋있어요,,,, 딱 제가 원하는 방식으로 아이를 키우시네요 열심히 보면서 공부할게요😊😊😊😊

@ballanballan 10 ай бұрын

Hazie, how do you deal with arguing and strong disagreements. Need a video on this!

@ichsll 10 ай бұрын

몬테소리 책을 접하면서 저도 많은 걸 배웠는데 이렇게 일상생활에서 아이에게 적용하신 모습 보니 공부 많되네요! :) 유익한 영상 감사합니다 :)

@allruby208 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely love your videos. They are so inspiring and I’ve been watching and following for a while! Just wondering if you can do a video where you show your routines but with the both kids - just wondering how you balance your baby’s needs and Alina? Maybe I’ve just let my children have too much of me and so they demand it all the time 😅

@hazieandmotherhood 3 ай бұрын

Hi! glad you like my videos thank you!! this one i made recently is about morning routine with both kids! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/irZmrJN2sajGiJc.html

@aliciarbusch 10 ай бұрын

I love your videos as a mom of a toddler. I am concerned about how much of your child was shown during the shower since online predators may be looking for those kinds of images. I would like to continue to watch your channel and am wondering if this could be considered when posting content? Thank you for all of your wonderful Montessori ideas. I love incorporating these with my son.

@hazieandmotherhood 10 ай бұрын

omg I literally went right back to the video and blurred the area as soon as I saw your comment. Thank you for your comment I really appreciate it 👍

@thatsenoughsays7179 10 ай бұрын

Where did you buy the bench and table she sits for dinner? I love the setup ❤

@lauraanh 10 ай бұрын

Hello. Tank you so much for sharing ur video. Much appreciated. I would like to refer to a bedtime previous video you did with Alina when she was 1year old. I happen to see a small bath tube that you used for her in your video. I wonder if you could advise where you got it from? Many thanks

@Jeeps4evaandeva 11 ай бұрын

Where did you get that white floor mat looks so comfy

@KrabbyPaty. 8 ай бұрын

Omg I love this! Our nighttime routines are so bad rn 😢this is inspiring! Did I miss the tooth brushing? Can you share about that pleas!!!!!!!! That’s our big struggle sad😢

@MinkaKalinka 11 ай бұрын

I will try out this timer idea! 😊👍

@Ohinmongl 10 ай бұрын

Love your videos! Would you share where or what is the brand of the stainless steel bowl? I want to avoid using plastic. Thank you ❤

@TheChan7 10 ай бұрын

Your kids are adorable. We love our visual timer also. But somehow it gets misplaced by the kids frequently. I should use it more often.

@Bnice2any1 11 ай бұрын

It’s crazy how our situation is so similar and that our bedtime routine is also similar too! Even tho I’m not full on Montessori parent. The difference is when we pray is usually at the beginning of our lay down time together, and then we do all the calm chat, quiet giggles & cuddles for 10mins. Then it’s time to kiss good night with my daughter.

@SAMSARA0819 10 ай бұрын

I loved this video can you do a meal video on what you cook and make for Alina?

@hazieandmotherhood 10 ай бұрын

Hi! I have a few videos cooking with Alina! here is one of them. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/o8uSea2JqbXThYE.html

@noonjif49 11 ай бұрын

I love ur videos and the ideas u give us thank you very much Can you please tell us how u taught ur toddler to hang her clothes and then take them off again!? My 18 months old pulls them down so hard I’m worried the hanger will fall off 😅 I don’t know what to do

@ashtonsmith9305 11 ай бұрын

Where did you get your water table? I like that it’s large and has shallow and deep ends. I am enjoying your videos immensely. I have a 7, 5 and 10 month old in a tiny house (700sq ft) and am looking forward to implementing Montessori design in the new house (3000 sq ft). Should be done by March 2024!

@broccolipropaganda 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. I have a newborn of 3 months. I can’t imagine having to care for a toddler at the same time. Where is the baby when you spend time with your daughter like shower and night reading?

@Ohinmongl 9 ай бұрын

Love your channel! ❤ I have 2.5 year old daughter. Where do you get her winter pyjamas? Her room is pretty cold in winter and she is not staying under cover.

@veryusefulreviews 11 ай бұрын

Hi! Can you share why you decided to switch from a floorbed to a new bed for Alina?

@egitimuzmanipedagog 10 ай бұрын

❤

@swang5738 11 ай бұрын

would you mind sharing why you changed the floor bed to this cute pink bed for Alina? I wanna try the floor bed but saw you have changed it, wanna know if it's because the floor bed didn't work well?

@sabujak_doha 11 ай бұрын

헤이지님의 영상은 언제 봐도 힐링이라 기다리게 돼요! 오늘 영상도 하원 전 저에게 에너지를 주시네용!! ㅠㅠ 아린이와 이엘이 개월수 차이는 어떻게 되나요? 둘째가 고민인데 엄마가 육아하기 수월한 터울(?)을 찾느라 고민이에요 ㅠ

@hazieandmotherhood 11 ай бұрын

하핫 감사해요! 아린이랑 이엘이는 38개월 차이나요. 보통 3년이 제일 괜찮은 터울이라고들 하는데 3년차도 쉽지많은 않은것같아요.. 😭 그래도 지금생각해보면 두돌 차이났었으면 정말 너무 힘들었을거같아요. 두돌때쯤에 말을 진짜 너무 안들어서 미치게만들었던 시기가 있었거든요 ㅎㅎ 너무 터울이 생기면 같이 잘 안놀거같아서 저는 개인적으로 2.5에서 3년 터울이 좋은것같아요^^

@finendandy872 10 ай бұрын

Name of the cute pajamas?

@amikum90 11 ай бұрын

저도 둘째가 태아나고 첫째의 습관이 무너지고 있어서 고민했는데 타이머랑 생활스케줄을 같이 짜야겠네요. 저번에 설거지통 근처에 분유통을 씻을때 누루면 물이나오는 그 기계이름이 무엇일까요? 편할거 같아서 질문 드려요. 오늘 둘째랑 첫째랑 아기띠없이 병원 다녀오다가 한쪽팔이 거의기운이 없네요 ㅠ 이영상보면서 휴식을 가지려고 해도 둘이 번갈아서 깨네여😂😂😂

@maddiemoodyhartgraves6860 11 ай бұрын

How do you respond when you indicate the next step of routine and they shout NO or say I don't want to? My boy pushes back on nearly every step of the routine and it gets so frustrating. Going to try visual timer - we've used Google timer and it worked for a while but less now.

@kimmilicious1 Сағат бұрын

super curious if you had done any sleep training for either kiddos? sorry if I had missed that part - FTM here to 6mo and we recently transitioned baby to her own room - but between teething, growth spurt and travel sleep has been crappy and she wont go down in her floor bed without me (and i haven’t been able to roll away yet) Curious what your thoughts are on sleep training within montessori teachings. Thanks!! ❤

@aishwaryanagaraj2393 11 ай бұрын

Hi Hazie, I've been watching alot of your videos, I have a daughter who's a little over 3 years too.. seeing your routine and Montessori video is soo relaxing.. i have 2 questions if you dont mind answering, I understand you have alot on your plate with a newborn and toddler but if you can please take sometime to help me here, i would really be greatful 1. Whats time does your daughter wake up, how long is the naptime and when is the bedtime - ive recently started sending my daughter to Montessori and i see the routine is way upside down and need any advise to set it right 2. I'm soo happy to see Alina eats soo well all by herself, im struggling with food time for my daughter, she totally refuses to eat. I let her prep and choose where she wanna eat and to some extent give her choice of food as well but she's totally refusing and has become very stressful - any tips will be a huge huge huge help please

@nogafb1854 11 ай бұрын

I would like to know more about the rest os the routine as well. My daughter is a few days older then Alina and we have been struggling with bedtime on most days. She used to be able to sleep alone a few months ago, but after a particular day when there were to much noise from the neighbors she started calling me out every 2-3 minutes to "help" with something and eventually I gave up and got back to staying with her untill she fell asleep. Now I am trying to go back to independent sleep and it's been difficult. I love your videos, they inspire me a lot! Thank you so much!

@hazieandmotherhood 11 ай бұрын

Hi thanks for your comment. First of all I must let you know im not an expert so I feel really cautious about giving you any advice here. And this video is a really polished version of our life so it doesnt always go so smooth like this, in fact, as I mention in the beginning of the video, it can be really stressful just like yours. But I will do my best to answer your questions 😊 Alina wakes up at around 6-7am. Nap time is different everyday. She goes to childcare Mon- Friday. Some days she doesn't take a nap and some days she does. On the days she doesn't take a nap, she goes to bed early like around 7pm. If she takes a nap, she goes to bed around 8pm. Our bedtime routine is still the same regardless of the bedtime. I'd leave the room at the end of the bedtime routine (even if she cries and resists) and let her fall asleep independently when she's tired. One thing I can tell is I try to be really consistent with our bedtime routine and I think it does help. In regards to eating time, honestly, it sounds like you're doing all the right things. I cannot think of anything else you can do more. In our home, if Alina refuses to eat, she refuses to eat. I just clean up and that's it. And if she says she's hungry and wants to eat later, I wouldn't give her anything until the next meal time. I know it sounds harsh but this is to let her learn the consequences of her action and mum cooks only for mealtime. I believe kids will eat when they're hungry. FYI, Alina is having her favourite meal in the video, natto rice with seaweed, that's why she eats so well all by herself. She does refuse to eat time to time and she asks me to feed her and do all the things that would make me frustrated just like every other kids lol. I hope this helps and sorry if it didn't. Motherhood is hard isnt it, but you're doing great. Sending you lots of love xx

@aishwaryanagaraj2393 11 ай бұрын

@@hazieandmotherhood Hi, thank you soo much for writing back to me.. I understand and you are only sharing things that have worked for you.. but thats wat helps alot of times.. mother's can to some extent surely help mother's.. thanks again for writing back.. Your videos really give joy and keeps me motivated to keep trying new things

@pj8857 3 ай бұрын

May i know the language you are speaking ay home? Just curious 😊 just found your channel. Its ❤️ beautiful

@kochiachea7563 7 ай бұрын

Hi. A question please: does Alina sleep in total darkness, or does she sleep with a night light? If the latter, when did you start or do you know if a night light will be better or not?

@hazieandmotherhood 7 ай бұрын

Alina sleeps with a night light. In our experience, she won't sleep without it. She gets scared and tends to linger by the door, calling out. We've found this light helpful-it's adjustable and has Bluetooth capabilities for changing the light setting: amzn.to/3sLZ4qC

@user-gw9mu8ic4y 5 ай бұрын

안녕하세요! 몬테소리육아에 관심을 갖게되어 우연히 알게 되었다가 공부하는 마음으로 열심히 보고 있어요! 저희 아이는 4갤부터 분리수면 중인데요, 곧 돌이 될 예정이라 궁금한 점이 생겨 댓글 남겨봅니다!🥹 저희는 아이가 돌이 되면 침대를 저상으로 내리고 한쪽 가드도 내려준 뒤 자유롭게 매트리스를 오르내리며 잘 수 있도록 할 예정인데요. 이런 경우 방에서의 사고 가능성이나(서랍을 열고 닫는 등부터) 방 밖을 나와 밤중에 거실을 활보하는 위험한 상황이 발생하지 않을까 걱정이 돼요ㅠ 헤이지님은 어떻게 이런 상황을 대비하고 대처하고 계신지 궁금합니다..!

@hazieandmotherhood 5 ай бұрын

안녕하세요! 암요암요 침대에서 내려와서 별짓을 다하죠! 저희는 아이 방 앞에 게이트를 설치해서 밤에 혼자 나오는건 못하게 하고 있고 방 안에서 만큼은 자유롭게 놀으라고 최대한 심플하고 깔끔하게 유지하고 있어요. 서랍 안에도 딱 옷만 있고 위험한건 아예 눈에 보이지 않게 치워두었어요. 나중에 혼자 할거 없으면 옷들 다 꺼내서 종류별로 패션쇼하더라구요. 위험하지만 않으면 제가 다시 치워야 하더라도 그냥 두고 있어요. 혼자서 집중해서 노는 시간에 엄청난 뇌발달이 일어나니까요^^

@user-ol4ql4hp6n 5 ай бұрын

@@hazieandmotherhood영상 넘 잘보고 있습니당! 분리수면 성공하셨다니 넘 부러워요~~ 혹시 아기가 언제부터 혼자자는 연습을 했을까요? 초반 혹은 중간에 깨서 엄마를 엄청 찾지는 않았나요? 저는 22갤 둥이인데 아들이 유난히 깨고 엄껌이라 시도도 못하고 있어요. 곧 이사가는데 그때부터는 해볼까 싶기도 하고 애착있을때라 너무 늦었나 싶기도 하고 고민되서 댓글 남겨용~* 혹 보시면 답글 주심 감사용❤