Words cant express how much i hate the gender wars😭 pls let this be over 2024

So, she expressed her standards.. the minute she gets a guy who meets the standards, she goes “he’s weird”? Nah, more like she’s weird in my opinion.

My number one thing with the whole men v women dating nonsense, is the generalizations people make. Even more than that are the people who then go on to interact with people based off of other people's generalizations. When you're dating, date the human being before you for who they are. When you do end up experiencing someone crappy don't go and project that on the next person and if you find yourself projecting, please take the time to check in with yourself, so that you're not out here hurting people.

It’s like people are trying to end up alone. As humans we have to realize that we are not perfect and while there may be certain deal breakers that are fine. I think people can sometimes get to picky and end up shootings themselves in the foot.

Thank you Dee. Honestly seeing these videos be having me thinking folks is all crazy out here so its nice to hear your perspective

Some of the women just NEED to have something to complain about. Aint no damn way she would have been happy if ol dude said “Hey let’s go for a walk on our first date”. She would be on here complaining about how he’s a bum and don’t wanna pay for dinner.

She was gorgeous until she opened her mouth. I mean she still is but you know what I mean 😂

Going to the gym on a first date is crazyyy😂

I just said this a while ago, playback sometimes don’t know what they talking about lol

I’m so tired of ALL THESE REQUIREMENTS to be with somebody! But I’m really tired of these butthurt boys putting all women in the same boat! Like I’m over it & this toxic internet.

The dude was ugly, that’s why she felt like he was weird. If he was attractive to her, she would’ve liked what he was doing from the start. That’s my opinion.

I'm not on the red pil train, but why is it acceptable to cancel a man experience? When a black woman meet a black man that ain't shit yall don't say " well that's only a few black men who are like that" I don't like when women try to act like they don't know what men be talking about. If we gonna care about what happens when women are dating we have to also care about the men experiences too.

You right fr, coz why do we (including me) generalize everything like we have lived so many experiences when in reality we haven’t and we just be talking out our asses to get by.

Playback has gotten on my nerves for the last few videos so 😭 I'm over seeing them tbh

I will say one point she made was “all that we say we want we really don’t want.” Yes for many people. People want familiarity not necessarily healthy. For example, men say they want a good girl who is a virgin that doesn’t sleep around and isn’t easy and is housewife material. But when they get one they expect her to have sex with them within THIER time limit. Like if she followed that she wouldn’t be the girl you’re talking about 😂

I agree we shouldn't generalize. My problem with the whole situation is women have been generalizing men for the longest. Now that women are getting some push back its a problem or all men who agree with some of these points are demonized as incels. Its ok you are not perfect ladies its called constructive criticism.

too respectfully? first women want a man that super respectful now it’s “he’s too respectful”..even as a female i don’t understand this wishy washy logic at all

Fellas if u trynna understand women just let em talk. Thats literally all u have to do. Listen to them then believe them. Dont attack women. But just listen. Just like dee rant at the end, its alot u can tell just by what she said .

If I start dating again and a man tells me “women don’t-“ anything I’m out. These gender wars are wack asf…. And POINTLESS!

Heteros, yall gotta start communicating. The gender war is only on yalls side💀💀💀 I personally don't like the sit down at a restaurant typa thing cuz...the anxiety be real but I just communicate that. It aint hard. And I'm tired of Playback thinking 1 woman's experience is everyone's. There are BILLIONs of women out here. Literally who hurt Playback cuz they stay doin this to women and women only💀

People online are crazy.

Not bum ass!!! 😂😂😂 Dee be going in!

The issue here is that individuals who tarnish the reputation of relationships and dating are given prominent exposure, making their behavior seem like the norm and acceptable.

Men aren't mind readers, if a woman is different in what she likes in date outings she should say it. That's a part of two people getting to know each other.

Dee speaking facts at the end 😂💯

See Dee you be keeping me grounded with your reactions & takes on dating EXTREMELY intelligent & down to earth woman ❤

I feel like people need to ignore people that get online with their feelings bashing the opposite sex. It seems to be doing more harm in a lot of cases. For some it is very tough dating so there is a need for some of this but not to this degree.

i think low and agent generalize everything because the side of the internet they’re on is everything they say in these videos. cause i know me personally on twitter i see all the shit they talking about and see thousands of girls agreeing with the fucked up shit, but i also see women that have a good head on they shoulders and don’t condone any of the shit and call out the weird women they speak of.

The women are different, but they don’t know how to tell the man what makes them different. I didn’t think that was hard to follow.

I love Dee so much bro 😂 she be having me dying

That list of of places of where not to take women on a first date gave hilarious content and I knew the response list would come

I hate when people take something a person from any community says or does and make it sound like the whole community thinks or believes this way.

You can tell she was just chatting. She just happy to have a camera and a microphone in her face 😂

Dee: ok guys wrap it up lol😂

Do people actually got a checklist? Like Does he open the car door? Check Does she use makeup ? Check Does he pay on our date? Check Does he follow Andrew Tate or James Charles? Check I really wanna date someone but these kinda things turn me off. I want a relationship without the mental gymnastics and psychological maneuvers.

She was weirded out which makes sense most bad things are normalized Which is why I always find it ironic when people use weird negatively given the fact that most things that are good or rare to come by and are painted as being too good to be true and make people uncomfortable So instinctively people will go to self-sabotage situations or find any excuse to leave them because they are uncomfortable because they are too good to be true

Everybody makes generalizations. Also, it is wise to remember that generalizations are easier to make when one has extensive experience with something such as…dating🤷🏽‍♂️

Leave it to Dee to keep it 💯

Your laugh is as joyful as ever ☺️

I’m too high for this, sounds like Dee and low are playing mental chess in this episode

I COMPLETELY AGREE. they do pander and it’s kind of sad because i really like agent.

You definitely react to CJ Da Champ Shibuya Trials 1 & 2

Dee that war is not imaginary, many if not most men go through this shit, that situation is very common mostly in our community. You women gonna have to acknowledge this at one point

Flowers coast 25 dollars open a door and showing interest is free. If you can’t do that you shouldn’t even be on a date. I thought they was finna say something crazy 😂. Sound like she use to being treated like a thot and accepted it

This gotta be some cointelpro type stuff 😂 these disagreements don't seem organic to me.

0:15 I was just talking about this yesterday, its so annoying🙄😂

Dee I think you took that wrong low said females are all different. So they should help guide the man into what they actually like and don’t like. He worded it bad 😂😂😂

Agree with you Dee!

I can never take these guys seriously

Everyone has standards male or female

is it just me or do these guys get more and more hateful and ignorant with every video? in my eyes she said nothing wrong, she was treated in a way she wasn't used to, wasn't sure how to react to it and brushed it off that's very normal in my eyes you can't just expect someone to just be 100% on board with something they are unfamiliar with. I would have been side eyeing this guy too if that's not what I'm used to yeah she didn't make 100% sense with everything she said but they like to pick and choose words and use that as their whole argument, they latched onto the word "corny" so hard this video

I think what she wants is genuine actions, some guys just do performative stuff like flowers and all that but you can tell its not genuine from the heart, im trying to give her the benefit of the doubt here really I suppose

The guy sitting next to agent seems like he gets rejected a lot lol

Actually, there's a study done that you yourself can read that western women killed chivalry and one of the reasons was because they didn't actually want it to begin with. So it's not just based off her, but thousands of other women with different backgrounds too.

🗣️Talk yo shi D

I think playback has had a decent amount of videos on what men do wrong and they bring up some extreme example but still it usually makes sense and I think the same applies when they do it for women a lot of men mess up and a lot of women mess up i don’t think they are catering to one audience in my opinion

When shorty said she want to go to a museum I knew she was not on her own timing what type of people or environment setting you think you deserve to b around when you admit openly you want nothing you really want ? Smh walking contradiction head ah

The words "most," and "all" are different. General statements are general for a reason. Stereotypes are that way for a reason.

Cause she's not the only woman that thinks like that

These girls nowadays be weirdos it’s either you wit it or you not! That’s just my approach

So what if this happened in Atlanta... bum ass town right lmao

If she tired of the old first date routine of going out to eat at a restaurant than tell the guy that she want to do others things. Guys are not mind reader.

I hear generalisations aren’t really and good me myself I’m trying to break that habit. But let’s not act like everybody isn’t a victim of this in one way or another. You’ve probably generalised without even noticing or subconsciously

Titles don't generalize everyone. When it says "men this this this" or "women this this this" there are talking about a significant number of people who do these things. The reality is there are enough number of women who act this way that its relevant to speak on. Obviously not everyone acts the same. If someone don't fit the description then okay but vouching for the women in general as if there aren't any who act delusional and unappreciative is false.

Their talking points is giving incels. If I’m being honest. I hate this gender war mess it’s so stupid

agree with dee, women like her only rep a certain flock of women, not all women are like that

3:18 at least she's self aware

Dee i fuck with you but how are you going to tell them what it's like to try and date women? You dont date women so at the end of the day you don't know. How you gonna tell me man he's wrong when he's the one experiencing it and not you?

Use me as a representation of all men, I'm tired of this gender war BS on both sides

agree, gender videos is soo outplayed, NOT everyone is like that, everyday people not like that,

wait you don't have to pay to go to the museum?!?

People making issues and problems that don't exist istg..

yeah so like what if he’s the type of guy that does it on every day and is like “oh so they do like this” but she just happened to be a girl that’s not used to that, just too ppl not on the same level is how i see it, all men and woman aren’t on the same page

Just dont care about dating. Focus on yourself

Yeah she needs to speak for herself. And stop putting we in her sentences.

Mf must b in break dem views n likes keep going up

Thing is Dee that most women that respect that type of man at home with their man not sitting around talking about how 'weird' a stand up guy is. She is a weirdo and confusing. But Playback need to understand 1 woman isn't all women.

These men vs women whatever is crazy .......cause they both do the same to each other what i see and hear

Hey Ms Dee, how you doing? listen. This is what we wanted back in the eighties and nineties this is what new edition and Keith sweat and Bobby Brown were singing about back in the'80s and 90s. Being a gentleman without being completely clingy and overwhelming is where it's at. Tell these young girls to get some Gen X in them😂😂😂 Gentlemen this little girl does not represent all of womankind. She is as confusing as a left turn downtown. Maybe she shouldn't even date until she grows the hell up.😅

I don't believe her😑😑😑

It is kinda corny to give flowers and open doors when u very first meet somebody, she probably was thinking "i barely know you i dont deserve all this niceness", women wanna earn that ish

Just because your mom says you should take her to dinner, buy her flowers, open the door, and throw your jacket over a puddle it doesn’t mean you should😂 that’s setting you up for failure. He looks corny, weird, and thirsty because he’s doing all this for a woman who hasn’t earned it. Mothers deserve flowers and a nice dinner before a woman you just met.

Dee ur thinking “oh they’re taking one girl & saying all women” but ur forgetting the likes, comments, reposts & responses of hundreds of thousands of women condoning & supporting this. We see all of it, we’re not just hearing her & it’s coming from the horses mouth To answer ur question about why dissecting video on her when she don’t know what she’s talking about is cause to us men(who are actively dating) & women who really know…SHES NOT RARE or an outlier. Many women think how she thinks & move how she moves. One thing I find in similar in women who don’t believe many women are like her is that they’re maybe not & their small group of girlfriends aren’t so y’all assume all women are like y’all but y’all aren’t out here actively dating y’all so y’all really don’t know what we experience on a daily worth. Last response since I just finished the video, Dee men aren’t making large generalizations, women are & were listening & repeating what y’all, say, show & post that’s all

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All due respect, no, one woman doesn't represent the 8 billion people on this earth, but remember that includes men, children, and all races/cultures. But there are not 8 billions blk women in the US. Most of these videos are a fair representation of blk modern women in the US only, which is not 8 billion women. I will say that these gender war videos are meant to divide blk people because we are the only ones feeding these agendas. Instead of us getting to know each other as blk people and imperfect human beings, we create these videos to indirectly talk and degrade each other, sadly. 80% of blk kids are born to single blk mothers, there is something wrong in our community so these "Wars" do talk truth somewhat.

Wife no thot