He Said He Wanted Someone "Extra" | Tell My Story, Blind Date

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4 жыл бұрын

It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
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@bearcat579
@bearcat579 4 жыл бұрын
I like how he expresses disagreement. Very respectful but very real to himself.
@Samira-sb3lv
@Samira-sb3lv 3 жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking
@youtuber-nx5en
@youtuber-nx5en 3 жыл бұрын
YEAHHH!
@mrtech2259
@mrtech2259 4 жыл бұрын
One thing I really like about him: his confidence. He's not afraid to confront the girl when she's talking nonsense (despite what he said earlier that he had a hard time dating.)
@sleepygirl96
@sleepygirl96 4 жыл бұрын
Ummm when did he confront her. He was like "yeah I understand" all the time
@kingsmith1012
@kingsmith1012 4 жыл бұрын
Yup. And he was respectful when he did it. Rare.
@sleepygirl96
@sleepygirl96 4 жыл бұрын
@JBcoolbreez yes he wanted to make a good impression but that's what I don't understand. She is hot but seems shallow, self centered and dumb. I don't get why he even wants to make a good impression on her.
@see9968
@see9968 4 жыл бұрын
Lena C Yh he said he understands as in he knows that she’d rather receive and not give that money, but he did call her out on her double standard.
@ivys9544
@ivys9544 4 жыл бұрын
my exact thoughts!
@JhonniePeach
@JhonniePeach 4 жыл бұрын
So no one was gonna mention how Gorgeous this man is? That jaw line. Those cheekbones! His face is beautiful! Desola is a beautiful name too!
@dayshola6203
@dayshola6203 4 жыл бұрын
Cheshire Woww thank you 😬
@JhonniePeach
@JhonniePeach 4 жыл бұрын
dAyshola oh wow! no problem 😊!
@MsChantae
@MsChantae 4 жыл бұрын
of course girl...
@caramelkisses8857
@caramelkisses8857 4 жыл бұрын
I was about to comment about that lol I was looking to see if anyone was going to say that 🤣🤣🤣
@mukondimashamba2125
@mukondimashamba2125 4 жыл бұрын
@@dayshola6203 I wouldn't mind dating you.
@prettysweetlimegreen8481
@prettysweetlimegreen8481 4 жыл бұрын
Can someone please talk about this guy's perfectly chiseled face Omgg..
@DonInADress
@DonInADress 4 жыл бұрын
prettysweet limegreen it’s the classic Yoruba facial structure
@pablovagnor9588
@pablovagnor9588 4 жыл бұрын
It's the voice. Clean , cut, straight !! great conversation master
@pastordonkoh7692
@pastordonkoh7692 4 жыл бұрын
I ain't gay
@atelierfrost
@atelierfrost 4 жыл бұрын
He is SUUUUPER handsome!!
@randomcitizen3939
@randomcitizen3939 4 жыл бұрын
He could model.
@nanayaaakoto3790
@nanayaaakoto3790 4 жыл бұрын
He thinks way deeper than her 😊
@Seanonyoutube
@Seanonyoutube 4 жыл бұрын
And he knows it, that’s why he said she’d be friends with Paris Hilton 😂 No way he’s dumb enough to date her long term.
@Kabaselefh
@Kabaselefh 4 жыл бұрын
Most men do
@jslack8973
@jslack8973 4 жыл бұрын
Yes they are definitely unequally yoked!! She would ruin him but he would improve her
@pluffshangazi8487
@pluffshangazi8487 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I think this won't go anywhere..I think he is more sincere..she sounds fake
@tyrajackson6816
@tyrajackson6816 4 жыл бұрын
Let’s not be mean to her we can’t judge someone’s intellect. Also are you Ghanaian? My aunts name is nana Akoto
@illijah
@illijah 4 жыл бұрын
Her prenup answer and logic is extremely disturbing and one of the reddest flag I've seen on here in a while. Keep your eyes open Desola!
@vickkhosa310
@vickkhosa310 4 жыл бұрын
Uuuh yea, you people do know that its extremely obvious that "she" is a he, smh, the discernment is gone from people these days.
@illijah
@illijah 4 жыл бұрын
Vick Khosa you wot mate?
@sebia322
@sebia322 4 жыл бұрын
@@rune9284 I think it would've been normal had she said she believed in traditional gender roles. It's a mans duty to provide from that perspective.
@jslack8973
@jslack8973 4 жыл бұрын
I sure hope he keeps his eyes open on her BOTOX ways
@aksun1130
@aksun1130 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss!
@Adriana.RamirezFL
@Adriana.RamirezFL 4 жыл бұрын
this guys face structure! he looks like he could be a model
@thanamesny7807
@thanamesny7807 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! A mix of Alton Mason and Adonis Bosso.
@taehxmmond901
@taehxmmond901 3 жыл бұрын
yess
@kingovue
@kingovue 4 жыл бұрын
her teeth is brighter than my future
@knightingg8324
@knightingg8324 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@inhle1688
@inhle1688 4 жыл бұрын
Kingo Vue my future is probably gonna be very dull so I agree
@sodvine3486
@sodvine3486 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@purplegirl8036
@purplegirl8036 4 жыл бұрын
his too
@kellyclark6238
@kellyclark6238 4 жыл бұрын
trying to get mine like that. lol
@kiannaaaaaa
@kiannaaaaaa 4 жыл бұрын
"Always pay my bills on time, all the time.. Never been late ever, I mean unless you know you like forget" 😂😂😂
@OdehyeK
@OdehyeK 4 жыл бұрын
Kian na that’s me no lie🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@OGSuki.
@OGSuki. 4 жыл бұрын
Meeeeee
@bettinaivory28
@bettinaivory28 4 жыл бұрын
It happens 🤣
@MsKwesi
@MsKwesi 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. I caught that. Had me laughing cuz he realized never say never!
@beheshtasiddiqui900
@beheshtasiddiqui900 2 жыл бұрын
I love this guy's honesty.
@AB-il5bv
@AB-il5bv 4 жыл бұрын
She low key a hypocrite tho about the prenup thing
@egcarswell
@egcarswell 4 жыл бұрын
Nope... she's HIGH KEY a hypocrite lol. Not low. HIGH 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she knows she's wrong lol.
@hannahhoward1533
@hannahhoward1533 4 жыл бұрын
She's a huge hypocrite. Once she said "If I'm use to living that lifestyle it aint fair for me to go back to living like i was before" But then said a guy could. Girl got it twisted
@KunalM-ec3pm
@KunalM-ec3pm 4 жыл бұрын
Not low key. Highest possible key 😂
@Kre8iviT27
@Kre8iviT27 4 жыл бұрын
Not even low key about it.
@Rasheda71296
@Rasheda71296 4 жыл бұрын
Alexander Boas agree. I get gold digger vibes
@kameko.studio
@kameko.studio 4 жыл бұрын
She wants to be Oprah wealthy with no debt and a prenup only for the husband to sign? Yikes
@Keiaradise
@Keiaradise 4 жыл бұрын
Kame'ko Akans that’s what I was saying! All wealthy people have some kind of debt. Debt is not a bad thing for the rich, it’s the best way to leverage their wealth.
@knightingg8324
@knightingg8324 4 жыл бұрын
Keep your sons abreast of this situation...because is a situation....
@anissa2361
@anissa2361 4 жыл бұрын
I hope she's doing what she needs to do to get to Oprah wealthy and not relying on a man to get there.
@Hellsing7747
@Hellsing7747 4 жыл бұрын
The girl's explanation about prenups didn't make any sense lol
@leonid4781
@leonid4781 4 жыл бұрын
She just wants money!
@stebossm3195
@stebossm3195 4 жыл бұрын
It did ..she can get rich of her mans hard work ..he cant get rich off of hers...
@UntaintedIndigoChild
@UntaintedIndigoChild 4 жыл бұрын
steve mayala, selfishness full stop.
@Izzy1032156
@Izzy1032156 4 жыл бұрын
Random but the guy has a very symmetric face
@jojobanks8857
@jojobanks8857 4 жыл бұрын
And perfect skin!
@aishab282
@aishab282 4 жыл бұрын
He's beautiful
@traceford4904
@traceford4904 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect for tv.
@eleasebarrow7897
@eleasebarrow7897 4 жыл бұрын
@@traceford4904 Right! Someone tell his agent we want to see this man on TV more.
@mediaiweb
@mediaiweb 4 жыл бұрын
yea, we Nigerian usually do from the Yoruba tribe.
@cahidijoyoraharjo7833
@cahidijoyoraharjo7833 4 жыл бұрын
This blind date is already ruined when they hit the prenup bit.
@Arithekiller
@Arithekiller 4 жыл бұрын
Cause she makes no sense 😂
@vivianhilllawson
@vivianhilllawson 4 жыл бұрын
@@Arithekiller She's really talented (music artist - 3 albums and many music videos on KZfaq), smart, and beautiful inside and out. She said on Instagram that she was nervous. @KedaSings
@adaezenjoku7527
@adaezenjoku7527 4 жыл бұрын
@@vivianhilllawson okay? Her whole argument still made no sense and was very hypocritical.
@Chelseaaaa333
@Chelseaaaa333 4 жыл бұрын
He’s so cute!!! And he seems like such a sweet, genuine guy
@anihtek
@anihtek 4 жыл бұрын
He said he is closer to his mom but he must have gotten his mannerisms from his nigerian father. The way he speaks, listens and acts is very african to me (an african).
@lotusflower8030
@lotusflower8030 4 жыл бұрын
yes, and thats beautiful... handsome smart African.
@diva70smusic
@diva70smusic 4 жыл бұрын
@Daniella H. A lot of old school, southern blacks are the same. He did say his mom was from Alabama. I bet he was raised in church, did well in school, had chores, received no allowance, and got spanked. I don't know but I am guessing. Even though he was raised in Las Vegas, his mom instilled her those values in him. I am sure his Nigerian family was influential as well. Don't sleep on southern gentlemen 😊.
@anihtek
@anihtek 4 жыл бұрын
@@diva70smusic Yeah that's possible too, but it's just his facial expressions and the way he speaks and carries himself that is so Nigerian to me.
@peridozq9390
@peridozq9390 4 жыл бұрын
Daniella H. I thought so too, for someone raised by his mother, has a stepfather and I think he said they moved away... yeah he acts very African. Just an observation like you, not a good/ bad thing
@lotusflower8030
@lotusflower8030 4 жыл бұрын
PeridozQ but his accent is not too Nigerian, more of African American...you could always pick up a Nigerian accent when they speak,no matter how fluent they are... and we only know 0.0001 percent of his background, he probably spent so much time with his dad side of the family 🤷🏼‍♀️
@hyacinthdibley2420
@hyacinthdibley2420 4 жыл бұрын
I saw him and just knew he was Naija...and his skin though... perfect.
@kind2423
@kind2423 4 жыл бұрын
hyacinthdibley: omo Naija. He’s fine sha
@mediaiweb
@mediaiweb 4 жыл бұрын
gba, me too he ain't go date her. he is too advance for her ko ye e...
@hyacinthdibley2420
@hyacinthdibley2420 4 жыл бұрын
Ade doyin bahahaha
@shola7987
@shola7987 4 жыл бұрын
🇳🇬 He's handsome and smart and sweet. She's a lil shallow.
@AbiyeKetema
@AbiyeKetema 2 жыл бұрын
@@mediaiweb now ya hating, I think they vibing
@sionhardy3960
@sionhardy3960 4 жыл бұрын
Think its weird that she automatically thought mama's boy when he said he talks to his mom a lot. Wouldn't a woman want a man that has a good, loving, close relationship with their mom? In my opinion i think how a man treats his mom speaks volumes about his respect for women, but thats just me.
@katedecareaux4708
@katedecareaux4708 4 жыл бұрын
sion hardy exactly what i was thinking
@aishah5244
@aishah5244 4 жыл бұрын
Yes and no. I've dealt with a few men who love and adore their mother, but act like their disrespectful unstable fathers. It's better to judge a man based on how he treats people in general and how he values himself. If he is respectful to himself and other people, then he will be respectful of you, as well as his mother. Also, you want to make sure he is independent of his mother. He may love and adore her, but may be subconsciously resentful, because he is so emotional, financially of some how dependent on her, and he does not have the capability to hold his own, as a man. This man will subconsciously take it out on you.
@blacketernal7139
@blacketernal7139 4 жыл бұрын
sion hardy Depends....
@drd.n4695
@drd.n4695 4 жыл бұрын
This girl is a hypocrite. She talks to her mom all the time too. If talking to Mom is weakness for a man, then why is she strong?
@anniebanana3698
@anniebanana3698 4 жыл бұрын
@sion hardy I immediately saw that as a plus. I think only someone who is petting and shallow would see that as a negative right away.
@cher2086
@cher2086 4 жыл бұрын
My face that whole prenup conversation:🥴
@taylorcwimberly
@taylorcwimberly 4 жыл бұрын
He seems like such a down to earth guy.
@parisrose2077
@parisrose2077 4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t think he was attractive in the thumbnail but the more he talked, the more attractive he got
@happycleanhouse
@happycleanhouse 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!!!
@elizabethoguntade5465
@elizabethoguntade5465 4 жыл бұрын
He's a really good communicator! I really enjoyed the questions asked and their conversation. Keep it up SoulPancake!
@SmokeyRoseWolf
@SmokeyRoseWolf 4 жыл бұрын
Nooo! I don’t like them together.
@taytertot666
@taytertot666 4 жыл бұрын
I bet they would fight about money all the time lol
@lifesavercandy3239
@lifesavercandy3239 4 жыл бұрын
I see marriage for them. #Blacklove
@Jibrilliantt
@Jibrilliantt 4 жыл бұрын
BE THE LIGHT and that’s on periodtt
@lissettejs5535
@lissettejs5535 4 жыл бұрын
I don't like them to!!! Wel, I like him, but not her
@tls4022
@tls4022 4 жыл бұрын
Her energy was weird. Wasnt feeling her.
@joshvincent8002
@joshvincent8002 4 жыл бұрын
It's quite strange but girls with the RB face are actually much nicer than the ones that's all smiles never judge a book by the cover.
@elijahlewis924
@elijahlewis924 4 жыл бұрын
And it's proven that a lot of women with the RB face are actually single because many guys don't approach them
@yupyup2113
@yupyup2113 4 жыл бұрын
@@elijahlewis924 I'm guilty lol..
@ertemyha
@ertemyha 4 жыл бұрын
What's rb face?
@JustCallMeDani
@JustCallMeDani 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾
@p.silyag7449
@p.silyag7449 4 жыл бұрын
Word I’m a prime example of that
@AJITHPJ18
@AJITHPJ18 4 жыл бұрын
To be frank , I wouldn't date her....
@shadowdq
@shadowdq 4 жыл бұрын
agreed, it was an "i would" right at the start but once she started talking about prenups, its was like "nahhh ill pass"
@redvelvetcakeYUM
@redvelvetcakeYUM 4 жыл бұрын
I’d call you a smart man. Her stance is hypocritical on the pre-nuptial.
@inhle1688
@inhle1688 4 жыл бұрын
AJITH P.J bruh, I agree with you but ngl, maybe she wouldn’t wanna date you hahaha💀 peace and love tho💕
@lifesavercandy3239
@lifesavercandy3239 4 жыл бұрын
You would probably date him though, right?
@amnajaved6894
@amnajaved6894 4 жыл бұрын
And you're not going to lol
@lightningmcgee
@lightningmcgee 4 жыл бұрын
I love that he asked for someone extra
@Keiaradise
@Keiaradise 4 жыл бұрын
This girl reminds me of Porscha Williams 😂 just a wee bit airheaded
@idaramma3210
@idaramma3210 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly tho😭😭😭
@Ruetendom
@Ruetendom 4 жыл бұрын
I actually initially thought omg she sounds so much like Porsha
@kevikev214
@kevikev214 4 жыл бұрын
Facts lol
@MsChantae
@MsChantae 4 жыл бұрын
voice probably made u think of porsha. but porsha in her bag tho...so no the two cant compare. porsha making her coint chal. hair company, radio show, tv show, etc. nothing airheaded bout that
@h.peters
@h.peters 4 жыл бұрын
OMG that's the same thing I said after watching her confessional.
@bercca89
@bercca89 4 жыл бұрын
He really said Ryan Seacrest
@leggs4113
@leggs4113 4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca right. What about Nick Cannon!!
@ivyp8762
@ivyp8762 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂👌
@Honeysmma
@Honeysmma 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I SCREAMED
@tz7344
@tz7344 4 жыл бұрын
🤣
@Queenb2001
@Queenb2001 4 жыл бұрын
Well he said he is a Host, and as host goes Ryan really is one of the few at the top.
@zzinkk
@zzinkk 4 жыл бұрын
Him: "Yeah, we have a lot in common😊" Her: "You think so🤔" Him: (subconscious) "Or not" 😔
@inhle1688
@inhle1688 4 жыл бұрын
Blackelly 5 idk, maybe she was trying to play hard to get😭😭😭 i thought that was so funny wow.
@yulnikita
@yulnikita 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of women will say that not to shoot it down just because it's very nice to hear I think we have a lot in common maybe she just wanted him to expound 😊
@sillygirl_kera
@sillygirl_kera 4 жыл бұрын
KeKe Palmer is all of our friends. ❤❤
@bree6276
@bree6276 4 жыл бұрын
Pause. Their teeth 🙌🏼.
@ramzy4458
@ramzy4458 4 жыл бұрын
black ppl got good teeth
@KP-ce6fx
@KP-ce6fx 4 жыл бұрын
@@ramzy4458 its just the constrast
@azaniajuicethwala5324
@azaniajuicethwala5324 4 жыл бұрын
Major Depressive Disorder - Treatment Resistant i have horrible teeth😅
@sergei9227
@sergei9227 4 жыл бұрын
Bree, brighter than my future.
@juliab.5199
@juliab.5199 4 жыл бұрын
she's so beautiful but eyelashes are ruining her face
@emily-2653
@emily-2653 4 жыл бұрын
more like her personality
@chesneectp
@chesneectp 4 жыл бұрын
Waaaay too much makeup
@DaishaMichel
@DaishaMichel 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. And the outfit is looking like something from 2012
@RDCFemmes
@RDCFemmes 4 жыл бұрын
she is beautiful and her look reflect her personalty. I love it.
@RDCFemmes
@RDCFemmes 4 жыл бұрын
@@chesneectp she has minimal make up, just big eyelashes and big red lips but I understand that the big red full black lip may translate to you like too much make up
@tatutaylor
@tatutaylor 4 жыл бұрын
Literally no one: Millennials: “vibes”
@mohampton7235
@mohampton7235 4 жыл бұрын
I had to stop the video and say how handsome this man is! Whew...going back to the video with a cold drink now.
@mohampton7235
@mohampton7235 4 жыл бұрын
They are so cute together. I hope it works out!
@amnajaved6894
@amnajaved6894 4 жыл бұрын
He kind of looks like a young denzel
@chloegaudet3142
@chloegaudet3142 4 жыл бұрын
Don't know why everyone's hating on her. Really don't get that selfish vibe at all. Plus, even if she couldn't explain her feelings well for the prenup thing, she still heard the guy out and I didn't sense any pettiness or bitterness after that talk either
@lilysbox2139
@lilysbox2139 3 жыл бұрын
also maybe because of her nervousness she can't really say what she meant
@allenevans622
@allenevans622 4 жыл бұрын
“Michelle & Obama” 😂😂😂
@mistamista4271
@mistamista4271 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@faithfashion273
@faithfashion273 4 жыл бұрын
I caught that too!
@MsKali05
@MsKali05 4 жыл бұрын
she dumb
@LoveGigi99
@LoveGigi99 4 жыл бұрын
I’m dumb too bc I would’ve said the same thing 😂😂😂 I rarely call him or hear people refer to him as Barak (only)
@vickkhosa310
@vickkhosa310 4 жыл бұрын
@@LoveGigi99 ,Michael Obama and "her" have something in common.
@priscilladade9188
@priscilladade9188 4 жыл бұрын
He’s really handsome
@peridozq9390
@peridozq9390 4 жыл бұрын
Priscilla Dade nope
@09kenedy
@09kenedy 4 жыл бұрын
Extremely!!!
@applejuice5635
@applejuice5635 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is so cool that he almost comes off as a skilled actor playing a character.
@beheshtasiddiqui900
@beheshtasiddiqui900 2 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHA
@hellennelson3140
@hellennelson3140 4 жыл бұрын
I will definitely date this dude, he's really deep and I like that
@sillygirl_kera
@sillygirl_kera 4 жыл бұрын
Same! But I'm not in LA 🤣
@valsam9218
@valsam9218 4 жыл бұрын
I can't with her. She seems full of herself and selfish.
@eq1092
@eq1092 4 жыл бұрын
Dats Baltimore girls for you
@eejjidol2142
@eejjidol2142 4 жыл бұрын
@@eq1092 Now you are just sexist. Who hurt you?
@mer1304
@mer1304 4 жыл бұрын
Physically , they look really good together!!! Personality wise idk....
@Kachardia
@Kachardia 4 жыл бұрын
she need to get rid of those lashes 😂😂😫😫
@vintageglaze3593
@vintageglaze3593 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah they look crusty ASF 🤣🤣
@oops_yobad
@oops_yobad 4 жыл бұрын
I literally got a headache watching her keep her eyes open. ...Gotta be some heavy equipment there..
@chedbeckford8067
@chedbeckford8067 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh
@yvonne3970
@yvonne3970 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all, she is not that bad. She’s sweet, & knows what she wants.
@boat11111
@boat11111 4 жыл бұрын
Yvonne Antonio lol ur trolling right?
@yvonne3970
@yvonne3970 4 жыл бұрын
boat11111 no no
@BINGBONGWOOWOO
@BINGBONGWOOWOO 4 жыл бұрын
I agree! I like her.
@adaezenjoku7527
@adaezenjoku7527 4 жыл бұрын
My only problem with her is the whole prenup hypocrisy thing
@oim102ssmith
@oim102ssmith 4 жыл бұрын
This brother is fiiooonnneeee!!!!! Whew chile!
@lexiegurl10
@lexiegurl10 4 жыл бұрын
I thought that prenup answer was the beginning of the end. Glad they rebounded from it. Don’t agree with her logic but glad he saw past it. lol
@Ry-rz9hy
@Ry-rz9hy 4 жыл бұрын
I was rooting for them up until the prenup talk.. she’s such a hypocrite!!
@redukos
@redukos 4 жыл бұрын
When she said "no job, no goals and no ambition" I felt assaulted in my core...
@kiannaaaaaa
@kiannaaaaaa 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like they are so connected.. I don't know they seemed to click instantly Edit: and then there was the whole prenup situation😂😂
@20somethingsworld97
@20somethingsworld97 4 жыл бұрын
Kian na ikr i was cringing hard core how it went from going smoothly and hitting it off too a minor but huge disagreement
@kiannaaaaaa
@kiannaaaaaa 4 жыл бұрын
@@20somethingsworld97 yeah right😅😅
@20somethingsworld97
@20somethingsworld97 4 жыл бұрын
Kian na you don’t believe me ??
@kiannaaaaaa
@kiannaaaaaa 4 жыл бұрын
@@20somethingsworld97 no I mean you're right
@kiannaaaaaa
@kiannaaaaaa 4 жыл бұрын
@@20somethingsworld97 sorry if that didn't come across in the right way, I am from Germany so my English isn't perfect😅
@shawna4610
@shawna4610 4 жыл бұрын
I love that they had the prenup and overall finance discussion. Desola is beautiful
@user-dv6cs2bz7b
@user-dv6cs2bz7b 4 жыл бұрын
i feel like she made up some of her answers so they can match
@naomi6372
@naomi6372 4 жыл бұрын
Yess
@pluffshangazi8487
@pluffshangazi8487 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@ThatOneWeirdGal
@ThatOneWeirdGal 4 жыл бұрын
They write them down before anyone says anything.
@user-ts6yi3gk6d
@user-ts6yi3gk6d 4 жыл бұрын
ThatOneWeirdGal They don’t show each other what they wrote down so she can easily say what she thinks he wants to hear
@ThatOneWeirdGal
@ThatOneWeirdGal 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-ts6yi3gk6d I suppose you're right. I always thought that the producers might like look at it afterwards and see that they lied tho.
@TynkB
@TynkB 4 жыл бұрын
Desola...young man you have a serious future infront of a camera! You're voice is perfect and suites your physical attributes. Blessings on finding a mate that is perfect for you.
@dominquebrown5447
@dominquebrown5447 4 жыл бұрын
Love him ... he said “I think a lot of the things we have in common” She said “ really?!” He says “I mean you don’t think so - from what we wrote we pretty much wrote the same things!!!?” (He was over her yet again in that moment! She’s an airhead and doesn’t think much) She says “yea ..... yeaaa yea ” LIKE duhhhhhh wtf were you not in the room?! Ugh this is annoying me how indecisive she is
@SherylS
@SherylS 4 жыл бұрын
She said she was nervous the whole time.. sometimes nervous people go a lil dumb
@Kariwoo
@Kariwoo 4 жыл бұрын
Uggh can they put me on this show
@undaunted1065
@undaunted1065 4 жыл бұрын
He reminds me of Sidney Poitier And she reminds me of Porsha from Real Housewives of Atlanta & Dish Nation.
@wearenotpoetsx
@wearenotpoetsx 4 жыл бұрын
her voice too right? ?
@poutymouf
@poutymouf 4 жыл бұрын
Omg yessss
@poutymouf
@poutymouf 4 жыл бұрын
Both are spot on!!!
@valery5900
@valery5900 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on.
@laurynlavish
@laurynlavish 4 жыл бұрын
She seems kinda narcissistic but he seems like a very genuine sweet guy
@laurynlavish
@laurynlavish 3 жыл бұрын
@@itsarsa262 he looks like a sweet guy too good for her to be treating him like that
@laurynlavish
@laurynlavish 3 жыл бұрын
@@itsarsa262 this was a year ago I don’t remember why I said that lol
@itsarsa262
@itsarsa262 3 жыл бұрын
@@laurynlavish Yeah i think his good looks blinded you ;) soft spot right there hehe.
@laurynlavish
@laurynlavish 3 жыл бұрын
@@itsarsa262 no lol
@thecurse23
@thecurse23 4 жыл бұрын
during that prenup discussion, I would have stood up and walked out. gentlemen, women like that are not worth it
@JLricas
@JLricas 4 жыл бұрын
She wants to be wealthy, but WHAT DOES SHE DO?!?!
@philipadjapong6095
@philipadjapong6095 4 жыл бұрын
Best comment so far 😂 lol
@KunalM-ec3pm
@KunalM-ec3pm 4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow that girl's throwing up all sorts of red flags 🙉🙉💩
@jaykay5086
@jaykay5086 4 жыл бұрын
“Deep book” “michelle and OBAMA”???
@georgenep1082
@georgenep1082 4 жыл бұрын
A mess!
@katsweeterly2039
@katsweeterly2039 4 жыл бұрын
I scrolled for this comment...I wondered about "I'm gonna say AMERICAN"!?! ---- could be that she is nervous (I know it is not the problem here, tho)
@savorysoup
@savorysoup 4 жыл бұрын
deep book sent meeeee 😂
@katsweeterly2039
@katsweeterly2039 4 жыл бұрын
@@savorysoup like...nicholas sparks ;)
@lizahkinyua
@lizahkinyua 4 жыл бұрын
Who else went "don't do it!" When he said he would date her.
@bruceerogan3662
@bruceerogan3662 3 жыл бұрын
Its gonna end in tears
@chedbeckford8067
@chedbeckford8067 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Even if he does date her it wouldnt work out
@larissa6054
@larissa6054 4 жыл бұрын
The money talk ☠️🤣
@jill3060
@jill3060 4 жыл бұрын
Nigerians are great husbands. And he definitely is mature and respectable and looks very good. Momma raised him right.
@yuliasihombing2505
@yuliasihombing2505 4 жыл бұрын
I noticed the contrary... Stiff and rude
@celesteburden327
@celesteburden327 Жыл бұрын
No there are not. Big Cheaters, liars.
@meyou2236
@meyou2236 4 жыл бұрын
I like how he can really speak on his thoughts. I like her optimism. Although, her double standards are a bit cringe worthy, she is honest about her thoughts.
@spookyfirkser
@spookyfirkser 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone is extra in SOME way and we all deserve to embrace it.
@WhatIsItToBurn
@WhatIsItToBurn 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not, I am extremely bland =P
@inhle1688
@inhle1688 4 жыл бұрын
spooky firkser nope, definitely not
@RDCFemmes
@RDCFemmes 4 жыл бұрын
i agree
@mina8495
@mina8495 4 жыл бұрын
The prenup thing was stupid, i agree with him lol. This was interesting though
@lailaes802
@lailaes802 4 жыл бұрын
I hope they don't end up together he's soo much better he's smart and very considerate. I hope his mama tells him to let her go
@amnajaved6894
@amnajaved6894 4 жыл бұрын
This episode had such a chaotic energy. Not negative chaotic but positive chaotic And he looks like a young Denzel Washington
@bercca89
@bercca89 4 жыл бұрын
The people that choose “I wouldn’t date you” at first because they don’t know them aren’t playing right
@fbspin
@fbspin 4 жыл бұрын
I think he said that to let her off easy lol. He probably wasn't into her look
@lizsmith247
@lizsmith247 4 жыл бұрын
@@fbspin or into the prenup hipocrisy
@peridozq9390
@peridozq9390 4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca red flags
@debbiedattilo7026
@debbiedattilo7026 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t like her at all. Her comment about him being a mamas boy was rude.
@TheCiddie
@TheCiddie 4 жыл бұрын
Debbie Dattilo Rude but that’s hella real...so many nosey and meddling mamas out there and there’s a few mamas boys in my fam....I would never date someone who la led independence in that way man or woman. But it seemed like they cleared that up anyway so that’s good
@debbiedattilo7026
@debbiedattilo7026 4 жыл бұрын
Unique I have to agree. I was married to a mamas boy. It was a disaster. I just thought she rushed to judgement based on phone calls. If it’s okfor her to call her mom several times a day why can’t he? But I do see your point.
@marcusscottbalahari7198
@marcusscottbalahari7198 4 жыл бұрын
Well he talks to his mother 15 times a week. I don't think its that much of a reach to say that he is a mama's boy.
@naomi6372
@naomi6372 4 жыл бұрын
I don't feel like it was rude but more of a misjudgment
@MsChantae
@MsChantae 4 жыл бұрын
@@marcusscottbalahari7198 i mean he's single right...so all he has is time lol..im single and can totally relate. when i was in a rs i wasn't as close to my mom then and we barely spoke.
@paigewelch4986
@paigewelch4986 4 жыл бұрын
Damn she’s a manipulative one...I think he could find someone who fits him more.
@lifesavercandy3239
@lifesavercandy3239 4 жыл бұрын
He likes her and like he said they have a lot in common #BLACKLOVE
@phreshprincesss
@phreshprincesss 4 жыл бұрын
like me 😞
@naomi6372
@naomi6372 4 жыл бұрын
I would be so offended by the Paris Hilton comment
@lano3234
@lano3234 4 жыл бұрын
At 17:31 he sounds like that one guy from the okay meme😂
@dayshola6203
@dayshola6203 4 жыл бұрын
Delano Redden Hahahaha 😂
@jobs4813
@jobs4813 4 жыл бұрын
She’s pretty and I didn’t mind her personality she just a slow talker
@KAIZORIANEMPIRE
@KAIZORIANEMPIRE 4 жыл бұрын
lol nah she's a hypocrite
@maryannorisakwe3245
@maryannorisakwe3245 4 жыл бұрын
I really hope we get to see the follow up from this couple because I'm very intrigued 🤔😍 Also, I agree that she was hypocritical regarding the prenup issue, but damn people need to chill with the negative comments about her. You can't determine her entire personality from this short video
@ashleycarver9434
@ashleycarver9434 4 жыл бұрын
He is so likable. I just want to have a meaningful conversation with him and pick his brain on what he thinks.
@thetriplethreat3
@thetriplethreat3 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVED this episode. I didn’t think I was gonna like her at first, but once I got a sense of her personality she was cool. I think she could’ve explained the whole prenup thing better, in terms of comparing the wage gap in women or the sacrifices they make physically. Like he could do a million hosting jobs while she has to sit back pregnant. At least something to justify. But overall they both were great.
@hyacinthdibley2420
@hyacinthdibley2420 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like she said yes just to help her save face. Her "prenup" way of thinking is just... something else.
@3izzy0
@3izzy0 4 жыл бұрын
I want an update on these guys!!! Great interview process -- I thought hell no at the beginning but was sold by the end.
@joynero
@joynero 4 жыл бұрын
Feel Keda in the “Xtra” video was very honest, relatable, and entertaining! Here answers kept me wanting more
@cenonya4967
@cenonya4967 4 жыл бұрын
They'd make really cute presenters! Especially at the end -- revive 106 and park for these two? Lol
@daretolove5950
@daretolove5950 4 жыл бұрын
She looks like she could be one of Michael Jackson's sisters.
@Michelle-up4yr
@Michelle-up4yr 4 жыл бұрын
Dare to Love you’re so right 😭
@abilinc
@abilinc 4 жыл бұрын
hee hee!
@AgnesM
@AgnesM 4 жыл бұрын
Lol literally thinking Latoya Jackson 🤣
@shola7987
@shola7987 4 жыл бұрын
I see it
@purpleegypt15
@purpleegypt15 4 жыл бұрын
This the best teeth on the show yet
@dayshola6203
@dayshola6203 4 жыл бұрын
This was such a cool experience, thanks Soul Pancake!
@meaganschenck547
@meaganschenck547 4 жыл бұрын
this girl looking to get that divorce MONEY get it
@prettytinaplease9813
@prettytinaplease9813 4 жыл бұрын
Meg ! It’s call being a smart woman
@egcarswell
@egcarswell 4 жыл бұрын
Hopefully they go on an awesome second date! Whether it lasts or not, they seem to have a lot in common and had a vibe for sure. Keep us updated!
@mrtech2259
@mrtech2259 4 жыл бұрын
And hopefully she doesn't sign a prenup and gets all his money too 🙈😜
@dayshola6203
@dayshola6203 4 жыл бұрын
Mr Tech Haha
@hormorlaryor
@hormorlaryor 4 жыл бұрын
That’s Desola from Mr Kate’s Design vs Design. I feel like a genius for finding out this info😄😄. Like this if you’re a Mr Kate’s fan! #creativeweirdos 👍🏼
@egcarswell
@egcarswell 4 жыл бұрын
Checking that out right now lol
@arielharris2104
@arielharris2104 4 жыл бұрын
Omolayo Eniola I was like where have I seen before?!
@shimag1992
@shimag1992 4 жыл бұрын
Where can we watch it?
@alicewonder5193
@alicewonder5193 4 жыл бұрын
I KNEW I re recognized him. Thanks !!!
@nagydominika9232
@nagydominika9232 4 жыл бұрын
Where can we watch it?
@ChristineTinaD
@ChristineTinaD 4 жыл бұрын
Aww, yall are too cute. Can't wait to hear about the wedding and kids😂😂
@therealcinnimo
@therealcinnimo 4 жыл бұрын
He looks west african so much, immediatly thought so, but wouldn't have thought nigeria :D love the way he reacts, he's special in some way
@jesuislapluie695
@jesuislapluie695 4 жыл бұрын
He's boyfriend goals to me💗😂
@DyannDrew
@DyannDrew 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that she couldnt tell his background is West african. That was the biggest red flag
@therealcinnimo
@therealcinnimo 4 жыл бұрын
@Sam he is super handsome, I thought West africa but couldnt quite tell which Country. :) your super right about his mannerisms.🇳🇬🇳🇬
@wanderer2589
@wanderer2589 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is logical and she is emotional
@jesuislapluie695
@jesuislapluie695 4 жыл бұрын
He's mature and she s not really..
@ganiru1351
@ganiru1351 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all are extra dumb. People are not one or the other. Black Jesus save us.
@sheenabailey
@sheenabailey 4 жыл бұрын
Damn well, I guess now she really knows why she’s single.
@AndSoWeLaughed
@AndSoWeLaughed 4 жыл бұрын
He said he liked KeKe Palmer. Yes!! Then she said it too. omggg. I love me some KeKe!! I think everyone's dogging her response for the prenup, but forgetting she said sometimes. Also, my man said he would spend how much he wants without consulting but she said $1000. I think that's smart and considerate of her. They got so many of each other answers right and even sometimes the meaning behind them. And it's mad because they based a lot of their answers on themselves. I see chemistry.
@cvally4313
@cvally4313 Жыл бұрын
This was super cute! Love it! Soul Pancake is the Best!
@ticheri16
@ticheri16 4 жыл бұрын
Omg his looks, personality and mannerisms remind me so much of my crush! 😍😍
@stuartwhite8939
@stuartwhite8939 4 жыл бұрын
She totally got rid of her Baltimore accent. It's no where in sight 😂😂😂😂
@michellehaysbert4420
@michellehaysbert4420 4 жыл бұрын
Loved this. Very light but forthright. Cute couple that seem to have alot in common. Like the format of this show. Enlightening
@trishl707
@trishl707 4 жыл бұрын
this looks like so much fun! the questions are dope. I wish they had this in my city.
@chellemiller9046
@chellemiller9046 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so use to soul pancake being kid president that this was a nice more grown up change.
@annaliesegogadi598
@annaliesegogadi598 4 жыл бұрын
How tf did she say AMERICAN for him like is I-
@niku9999
@niku9999 3 жыл бұрын
I like how he’s not the average dude who just agrees with and panders to the girl for her validation and acceptance. He calls it like it is and doesn’t care who disagrees or not. Good job Oseda.
@lordkene
@lordkene 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this was really good! His communication skills are incredible
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