Healthy vs. narcissistic relationships

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@butslug 3 жыл бұрын

when you feel alone and your in a relationship. that's a huge red flag.

@dianewalters6605 3 жыл бұрын

I've never had one healthy relationship in my entire life. Not one. I feel like an alien on some Planet Narcissist where the elusive healthy person is an extinct being. Thank you for your videos. Such a breath of sanity here.

@meganpoole955 3 жыл бұрын

About 3 months into a healthy relationship, I one day realized my new guy had never “put me down”. It’s been 6 years now. I finally learned to quit waiting, and he still hasn’t put me down or said I am incompetent.

@NarcSurvivor 3 жыл бұрын

In a healthy relationship, your partner will listen to you. Even if you don't agree, you will still feel understood.

@ohaiyoashchan 3 жыл бұрын

"they won't remember things about you outside of an argument but as soon as there's a fight, they know everything"

@AshleyOlivia90 3 жыл бұрын

❤️ first thing I noticed after several narcissists in a row was that in my (first!) healthy relationship i didn’t have to ASK for affection, it was just freely given

@bhaminivenkat 3 жыл бұрын

A healthy relationship is about you AND your partner whereas a narcissistic relationship is mostly only about your narcissistic partner and how you can fall in line with their life, adjust yourself and put yourself through trauma just so that they get validated.

@Zarasha1 3 жыл бұрын

In a healthy relationship you can actually tell them things about your life that hurts you or embarrass you and it won't be used against you later on. Every unhealthy relationship I ever had used my hurts and insecurities as a weapon against me.

@jacobopstad5483 3 жыл бұрын

That desire to rescue someone and believing in "the one" is exactly what got me into a narcissistic relationship.

@kristenheatherei-star8254 3 жыл бұрын

In a healthy relationship you build one another up...it’s fulfilling. A narcissist just looks at you as an emotional punching bag or mirror to reflect their “glory”

@TyGoNoodles 3 жыл бұрын

Narc - Sucks the life out of you.

@ceebee1704 3 жыл бұрын

Healthy Relationship:

@tammyabray256 3 жыл бұрын

I used to say, "arguing with him was like bringing a plastic spork to a steel knife fight."

@jcsrst 3 жыл бұрын

To be in a "healthy" relationship you need to be healthy yourself, otherwise you will only be excited by the "unhealthy" option.

@cwb1259 3 жыл бұрын

Been dating a “healthy” girl for the past year after being with a narc for over 20. Strange how peaceful it is. It’s just nice. I do struggle with how consistent it’s been. I feel like my whole life has been spent putting out fires or walking on eggshells.

@isabelmorin77 3 жыл бұрын

During a first date, he got offended that I was looking at the people coming into the restaurant. He asked to switch seats so I can solely focus on him! Took me 4 years to finally open my eyes with the help of prayer to see clearly! Amen!

@seckhoffable 3 жыл бұрын

i'm so tired of being yelled at.

@cBe9999 3 жыл бұрын

"every fight with a narcissist is a dirty fight" - my god, if only someone had told me that 20-30 years ago

@sheiladay9775 3 жыл бұрын

After I divorced my husband many years ago and then talked to him with grandchildren, etc., I realized that he did not know me. He never knew me. The relationship was about him, not me or our children. I am so happy I left when they were still very young.

@annabananna789 3 жыл бұрын

I’m in a healthy relationship with my husband and I can guarantee that on the outside it looks ordinary and unlike the stuff you see in romcoms, which I always thought was something I wanted. Growing up in an unstable home, there’s something so comforting about the “mundane”. Our every day acts of love are more memorable and dear to me than the grandiose shows of affection. We’re far from perfect of course. Over the years we’ve grown as people with each other’s help and still continue to learn. In that way, it’s never truly “boring”