Sorry about the blank space in the middle, go to 54:23 to skip past it!
@will_hunt2 жыл бұрын
You can cut that part of the video out in the KZfaq editor (you don’t have to take the video down)
@h0p3less12 жыл бұрын
A good reflective space for black pill members
@saintjezebel2 жыл бұрын
You have no formal education. You are a fraud. You beg people to watch your videos so you can get ad revenue. No one who has ever """untaken""" the blackpill will have their problems solved. Nothing will change.
@LostOnceLefthanded2 жыл бұрын
will do
@dinofrog9262 жыл бұрын
now this comment looks like a troll comment
@ianbrowning2190 Жыл бұрын
"People learn how to fart but they don't learn how to open a window" is the greatest analogy I've heard from Dr. K yet.
@incredibleflameboy11 ай бұрын
"you can always trust that a window will open but you can never trust a fart"
@hulamei311711 ай бұрын
A healthy - To thine own self be true.
@plantfan6689 ай бұрын
I agree - appreciate the unintentional pun also hehe
@Ljosi6 ай бұрын
All the quick witts and analogies aside, one can't untake the blackpill without accepting some amount of delusion again
@sasaha83892 ай бұрын
Well then u show them how to open the window
@dcgamer10272 жыл бұрын
I've been trying to explain part of this to my friends, not with black pill, just absorbing negative information/news is making them unhappy and its better for them to ignore it or at least consume less of it.
@Tailionis2 жыл бұрын
Yup but doesn't change the truths
@dcgamer10272 жыл бұрын
@@Tailionis True, and if they were doing even a little to try and change those truths for the better I would encourage them, but all they do is be sad, nothing else comes from it. Being informed is good and healthy, being consumed by negativity and only negativity while ignoring the good is neither helpful nor accurate or 'true'.
@RyanEdwardVetter2 жыл бұрын
Looksmax, settle, get extremely lucky, or die alone. These are your 4 options when it comes to online dating as an average looking guy. Hypergamy will continue to exist regardless of whether or not you choose to acknowledge it.
@phosspatharios96802 жыл бұрын
Who would have guessed that not listening to propaganda is healthy and commendable?
@yeetman49532 жыл бұрын
@@RyanEdwardVetter capitalism just made hypergamy worse.
@viggokneib648518 күн бұрын
The sub5 trying to cope 🙏💀
@fuadi7413 Жыл бұрын
try being 4'11
@arpit.sharma Жыл бұрын
You can get girls around your height. Why do you want someone like 5'6? Would you date 4'2?
@stevenx399 Жыл бұрын
@@arpit.sharma Yea and down syndrome girls want down syndrome boys. Oh wait they do not and never have.
@easternequinox9324 Жыл бұрын
4'9 here. And yes it sucks.
@saadmanalam7283 Жыл бұрын
How tall is Danny devito?
@elgrek0249 Жыл бұрын
You’re going too far, try being 5’5 lol
@alanmonteros64322 жыл бұрын
That negativity cycle is the main reason I stopped visiting the ADHD subreddit. It was great to know I wasn't alone,but man that sub made me feel even worse after a while,there was just SO MUCH negativity that I ended up feeling depressed for quite a while.
@KaliFlesh2 жыл бұрын
I think it's Reddit thing lol
@Moon-ci9ev2 жыл бұрын
I think the same for me. But I try to engage with positive stuff there lately
@dudedude3652 жыл бұрын
Most of subs of wheat waffle are kids who got no logics it's fictional sh!t in reality it's not what the creator of that channel and the kids think
@NFSMAN502 жыл бұрын
Same with the aspergers subreddit, it can become a negative circlejerk full of doom and gloom sometimes.
@shinyduck2582 жыл бұрын
Jix
@Just_Desserts.2 жыл бұрын
Those blackpill conclusions are only true for online dating, where you can't see much more than just pictures, so looks mostly matter. I've gone months trying online dating and only ever had 1 match and no date. Whereas when I've attended meetups or approached women in public, I got way more numbers and dates (and even hooked up with a girl one time). Honestly, seeing people go hopeless due to the blackpill is frustrating, and it's mostly because people are relying online dating more and more. Online dating sucks
@Hekinsieden2 жыл бұрын
This right here, how is it such a stretch of the mind to realize that women are people. Just as complex of a life for however many decades, same as anyone else. With terabytes of info in their brains and their own unique life experience, ideas, desires, fears, etm.
@Just_Desserts.2 жыл бұрын
@@Hekinsieden online dating kind of objectivizes people, it's like selling a product. When I speak to women in person, I can bond with them like a human being.
@thesaddestdude35752 жыл бұрын
Well its the thing, those are still really rough numbers for the real world. Top 20% of males still get basicly all the women, if you are anything less than that we can only find love if you are incredibly lucky and even so they will probably end up cheating or treating you badly becaus they would rather have somone who is better. Im not sure i want to be "settled for" And thats if im lucky. It's hard not to believe the black pill when i freaking live it every day.
@Just_Desserts.2 жыл бұрын
@@thesaddestdude3575 just improve your looks as much as possible, and try approaching women/people in public to improve your social skills. I've seen way too many real life exceptions to the blackpill to the point that their conclusions fall flat to me. Wheatwaffles can probably give you good advice for improving, but that's about the extent of his usefulness imo.
@Vannabee132 жыл бұрын
The irony is that there's a disproportionate amount of men to women on all the dating apps and it's BECAUSE most women don't like a looks based approach to dating and need more than pictures to feel genuine attraction to men. Women on tinder don't represent the majority of women at all.
@braces11111 Жыл бұрын
I agree that thinking about negative things makes them depressed/anxious however sometimes your life really does suck.
@dopex89 Жыл бұрын
Your life can objectively suck and you can still find joy in small things.
@omnissiah72479 ай бұрын
Sure, but that doesn't do much for romantic relationships. My cousin is disfigured from terrible complications at birth, and he'll never find love because of it. That fucking sucks. He has to live life on extreme hard mode and it's not even due to his own actions, just shit luck. I'm not sure why people struggle to admit that some people are simply born unlucky.
@EloWhisperer8 ай бұрын
@@omnissiah7247yes, but most people are not born with those same physical disfigurements, and those people should not be the basis the generalization is based on
@omnissiah72477 ай бұрын
@@EloWhisperer It was not a generalization, just stating the simple fact that some people are dealt a shit hand. It's not doing anyone any favours to ignore and deny the existence of those people because the thought of them makes you uncomfortable.
@johannaa25497 ай бұрын
@@omnissiah7247 I’ve seen people with severe disabilities and disfigurements find love, get married, have children… It might be statistically harder for him, but definitely not impassible
@TricksterLawlet2 жыл бұрын
The black pill when it comes to *All* aspects of life is slowly growing
@j.d.s.18372 жыл бұрын
💯 There are so many aspects blackpill concerns, but normies only focus on the ones they feel are the weakest. They'll never dare touch on the importance of looks in careers.
@SB-nh7uv2 жыл бұрын
@@j.d.s.1837 very true, the last job I got was only due to the fact that one of the females colleagues found me attractive.
@TricksterLawlet2 жыл бұрын
@@j.d.s.1837 I didn't mean the looks blackpill, but like the existential blackpill, the economic, and reality blackpill
@circleinfo2 жыл бұрын
@@TricksterLawlet Is economic blackpill that poors can't get decent money? And what is existential and reality blackpill?
@t.rebentisch27772 жыл бұрын
@@circleinfo probably something like anti-natalism, nihilism, „life is suffering“, „there is no (deeper) meaning to life“ etc.
@levidestin67832 жыл бұрын
over for healthygamercels
@creeperkingdom31902 жыл бұрын
did it ever begin in the first place?
@kushdax48882 жыл бұрын
@@creeperkingdom3190 how can it be over if it never began?
@improover113 Жыл бұрын
@@creeperkingdom3190 never began
@GingeryGinger6 ай бұрын
What are these threads lmao.
@MrLove7174 ай бұрын
Super OVA!😂😂😂😂
@2Grills1Kappa2 жыл бұрын
I think it's much easier to understand the concept of a fart chamber than of an echo chamber, so I'll use it from now on. Thanks for the funny explanation! 😁
@abcdefzhij Жыл бұрын
Fog chambel!
@theboyisnotright63126 ай бұрын
AKA people that love to smell their own farts 😂😂😂
@user-hl3qv8qg2s6 ай бұрын
4:53 thats so true... looking at my social circle. i work with athletes so i know a lot of "chads" and average people. most chads dont have kids, because they have soo many opportunities that a lot of them cant handle a serious relationship. its like they suffer from the "being beautiful curse" or something. in the other hand, most average guys already have kids when they are 30 or even younger. i think social media has a huge impact on this. because a chad wants to always be the "high value man" forever. and having kids and a wife, puts you out of the market inmediatly (at least if you are a decent person).
@mark8200 Жыл бұрын
You skipped over how much the dating scene has changed, parents grew up in a different world with no tinder insta etc
@lightworker29564 ай бұрын
Indeed. I firmly believe that no one understands average young men, because they're the only ones who are having to struggle with dating women who grew up with social media and Tinder.
@TheGeorgeD13Ай бұрын
@@lightworker2956 Eh, I'm an average young man. I don't really "struggle" with dating. The key is to just avoid Tinder and other dating apps. I barely get any matches on there, yet I regularly find opportunities to date women. Out of the many issues in the world, this is an easily solvable problem. Just get off the fucking apps and meet people in real life. Most people are cool and are not out to get you.
@ruslankoller989126 күн бұрын
not everybody uses tinder. those who uses tinder you would never met in pre tinder days anyway
@arc-audio Жыл бұрын
I had to delete the dating apps which gave me constant doses of rejection, unsubscribe from negative feedback loops on social media (turning off notifications being an important part of that if you keep the apps), and one day I found the courage to reach out to a therapist. I sold my Series X to afford the visits and the dark clouds in my life started to evaporate a little as the months went by. I got a little more energy. I found a gym with guys that didn't care about my weight or social awkwardness and were more than happy to teach me about fitness when I hadn't worked out in years. I kept showing up even though it was hard. The clouds start to drift further away. 11 months in, I look in the mirror and don't immediately think about despair. Mental health pros and a support network (like a gym or club) can really change your life guys.
@na3rial Жыл бұрын
That was a huge step you took, and I know I’m a random stranger on the internet, but I’m super proud of you! I’m so glad it helped you ❤
@arc-audio Жыл бұрын
@@na3rial your reply is appreciated :)
@albertowilliams959 Жыл бұрын
Would go to a gym…if there were any queer and feminine welcoming ones
@i_am_b1anca_207 Жыл бұрын
So happy for you! That’s a huge step ❤
@gleipnirrr9 ай бұрын
@@Brandanmayhew only if you're tarded and think a few online trends reflect reality. get out the damn house and see for yourself.
@darrellshoub75272 жыл бұрын
cancer survival is a perfect analogy , i also nearly died, and once did die for 2 minutes, and was revived and ....the survival years that follow are strong, as you said resiliant, etc, great show HG !!!!!!!!!!! however , later on my wife and son died in the Thai Tsunami , and that has been harder to bounce back from .
@ellisjackson33552 жыл бұрын
RIP to your wife and son 🕊
@sprocastersprocaster2 жыл бұрын
Be strong brother, I can’t imagine your feelings but the universe knows you can handle it. I wish you peace and happiness❣️
@StudioHannah2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. That is hard to come back from.
@SilientShadow2 жыл бұрын
That's a wild comment bro. Keep on keeping on.
@qwertyasdf40812 жыл бұрын
Wow man, sounds like you’ve had it rough. Huge respect for soldiering through all of that, I could never
@sophdog25642 жыл бұрын
I would say that number one (after just hearing the initial post): stop looking for friends on tinder. Most people are not on there for friends, so you already have a limited pool, but also women don't often believe when guys say "just looking for friends" because guys often lie about that to get in your pants. It's so hard to meet people offline, and I get that, but frankly meeting them online is frustrating too
@XMaster3402 жыл бұрын
Amen to that. Tinder has a pretty strong reputation for being a hookup platform. You are way more likely to find people who are interested in friendship by joining local clubs.
@paulogaspar82952 жыл бұрын
what a way to twist the narrative to blame the dudes. The reality is girls want hot guys to have sex on tinder and/or validation. Nothing else. If you say you just want to be friends it hurts their ego and they get mad.
@sophdog25642 жыл бұрын
@@paulogaspar8295 I'm not trying to twist the narrative. My point is that tinder is a shit place to look for friends because most people on there (including many people--guys and girls--who say they're just there for friends) are there for hookups or dating. The genders used in my comment reflected the genders in the post
@XMaster3402 жыл бұрын
@@paulogaspar8295 Well, that's some mental gymnastics, if I've ever seen some.
@TricksterLawlet2 жыл бұрын
I do agree
@HellyeahRook Жыл бұрын
The farting in the room analogy is a perfect example of AA vs evidence based treatments for substance abuse.
@simplyharkonnen Жыл бұрын
Not to mention AA and other 12-Steps are quite literally a cult/recruitment arm FOR cults, so..
@jakejason4333 Жыл бұрын
its funny because the more evidence you get the more sense black pill makes
@PartnershipsForYou Жыл бұрын
Jakejason is an incel
@jakejason4333 Жыл бұрын
@@PartnershipsForYou ???
@HellyeahRook Жыл бұрын
@@jakejason4333 evidence +based treatments. It is a specific form of therapies, and not what you think I meant but something you would no doubtedly benefit from.
@Ohwhataguy Жыл бұрын
What if going outside makes me more blackpilled?
@moaen1 Жыл бұрын
Skill issue
@QAI145 Жыл бұрын
How so?
@xtdycxtfuv9353 Жыл бұрын
It’s actually not a joke. Seeing attractive men living easy lives is suic fuel
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat6 ай бұрын
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 This is like refusing to ever go to the gym because you know you'll never compete with the beefcakes. That's not why you're going to the gym lol. You're going to the gym because it will make you feel better about yourself and improve your well-being and you'll grow as a person.
@romanmakarevych44832 ай бұрын
This is how you know you aren't cut for deluding yourself your entire life
@King_NL2 жыл бұрын
Ironic how 60% of this video is just staring into the darkness silently.
@Moose924112 жыл бұрын
By 15 minutes in, I cannot possibly express how grateful I am that I turned to physical fitness to be my outlet for negative emotions.
@Verrisin2 жыл бұрын
:(
@Moose924112 жыл бұрын
@@Verrisin why are you sad?
@Verrisin2 жыл бұрын
@@Moose92411 I did not turn physical fitness into an outlet for negative emotions. I just sit at my PC all day, not going outside, and when I try to exercise, it usually makes me feel awful, and I never want to do it again. - I'm not obese, but I sure am not fit, and lots oh health issues. Not too serious yet, but I can see the trajectory... I am also tired all the time, and have no willpower to improve anything. - and I have no idea what my outlet for negative emotions is, if I have any. I just focus on either intellectual stuff, or "fun" stuff, that is sufficiently attention capturing for me to ignore the awful reality around. (which, relative to others is probably not even that bad, but my brain interprets it as not worth living in)
@Moose924112 жыл бұрын
@@Verrisin have you started really small? If you did ten pushups a day, or walked one mile a day, for a week, then moving to 11 or 1.25 miles, and holding yourself accountable along the way?
@Verrisin2 жыл бұрын
@@Moose92411 I don't like going outside, but I did daily exercises, for about 5 days. Then I got sick, so I stopped, and did not restart for a long time. - I tried a few times after, sometimes even smaller stuff than what you wrote... I just always gave up after 1-5 days. - It's what I said about willpower: Now and then I feel like I can do it ... but most days I dread getting up to go pee. 😕 - I definitely don't think I've ever managed to hold myself accountable. Giving up is easier. (I don't believe I will be successful anyway.)
@dyslexicsoap7605 Жыл бұрын
"All you have to do is go outside" I wholeheartedly agree
@issac7787 Жыл бұрын
@John Doe it is that simple
@dersieborg5088 Жыл бұрын
@@issac7787 ...not if can ´t find the exit ... or you have to unlock the door first
@criticaledition9199 Жыл бұрын
It's easy just touch grass right? 😂
@criticaledition9199 Жыл бұрын
@@issac7787 not for all just , some of these dude can't
@martinledermann1862 Жыл бұрын
@@issac7787 Going outside for some pointless lonely walk? Yeah, that's simple, at least as long as you're physically healthy enough to do so but it doesn't get you anywhere just the same as sitting at home.
@Luke.-cv9uv9 ай бұрын
Just cope theory
@beefkd2 сағат бұрын
the entire "blackpill" is coping par excellence
@danman23able Жыл бұрын
I'm done with life in general.. this shit is tiring.
@NBackTA Жыл бұрын
real. All I do is play cod all day, idgaf about my life anymore lmaoo
@SuburbanoidMisfit111 Жыл бұрын
@@NBackTA I feel ya. I stay so blazed that everything is cool. I've made peace with my situation.
@MeowMeowMeowPurrPurr Жыл бұрын
It's over.
@NBackTA Жыл бұрын
It never began.
@user-xc7vk6bt3f Жыл бұрын
Over for neverbegancels
@somedudeontheinterwebs459 ай бұрын
Never began for me. I haven't talked to a real life woman since I was 14, and I'm 21 now.
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat6 ай бұрын
@@somedudeontheinterwebs45 21 is very young, a lot changes in life with time, ESPECIALLY but not only if you work at it.. When I was 21 I was unemployed dropout living in my parents basement doing literally nothing but playing World of Warcraft. My entire 20's were a mess. I floundered for well over 10 years -- addiction, drugs, alcoholism, bad influences, etc. But I'm 34 now and all that's gone. Life changed. I got older. Circumstances changed. In the past 5 years I managed to pull myself together a little bit and even at 29 the improvement was well worth the effort. I own a condo, got a good job, got a few promotions, tried to be a little more social, picked up some hobbies. I'm still lonely, but I also still have hope even that can be improved. Life is a long time, and people age differently now. Almost no one is getting married at 23 and popping out 2.5 kids. Life progress has slowed down for a ton of people, don't let yourself believe this is permanent, that's a mistake. "Now always feels like forever, but it never is." -John Green
@yangerlongchar7784 ай бұрын
@@somedudeontheinterwebs45 brutal
@forcedtohaveahandle Жыл бұрын
truecel curry coping jfl
@--Traveler-- Жыл бұрын
lmao
@AesirThor Жыл бұрын
CURRY COPING LOL. BUT ITS TRUE THOUGH.
@NimrodTheMaidenless Жыл бұрын
The blackpill always comes to collect
@badfrad17542 жыл бұрын
It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. This is the blackpill
@vividcolorandrichaudio61342 жыл бұрын
That's not the blackpill, that's just life. Nothing's guaranteed. However, if you act like a loser, then failure IS guaranteed. Defeat is only defeat when you accept it.
@Aenygma_2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom from Captain Picard!
@fred_g78022 жыл бұрын
Blackpill is absolute 💯
@TactlessGuy2 жыл бұрын
That isn't the black pill. The black pill is realizing that and using it as an excuse to pathetically give up in life.
@H0kram2 жыл бұрын
How original. Jeez, sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't start a religion to milk you people. Sounds like a 2hours job.
@weight3820 Жыл бұрын
If you untake blackpill no worries sooner or later blackpill will find you.
@Heisenbinks Жыл бұрын
And if you kept being negative and didn't do anything for yourself you only gonna bet in that shitty state people like you are in. Ffs work on yourself, go outside, go to the gym, go somewhere that relates to your hobbies and talk to people! You only shoot yourself in the foot by not trying. And you might respond saying 'well I've been doing all those things for x amount of time', then good keep doing it because your on the right path, it might take time but don't give up. Fuck the blackpill 🖕
@DJ-vg1pr Жыл бұрын
you could be happy if you tried
@BlackpilledNihilist Жыл бұрын
@@Heisenbinkspeople like you always talk about muh muh self improvement yet have shitty phisques
@Heisenbinks Жыл бұрын
@@BlackpilledNihilist speak for yourself, what's the point in giving up? You should be fighting for it ffs!!
@alexw6849 Жыл бұрын
@@Heisenbinks No gym for you height and facial bone structure
@galacticguardian27832 жыл бұрын
You can't "untake" truth and reality
@florenceicu2 жыл бұрын
But you can decrease the dosage💯, pills have dosages right?
@j.d.s.18372 жыл бұрын
@@florenceicu Yeah you can return to a fog of lies and deception. Blackpill doesn't make you positive and happy but blue/red pill makes you absoluetly miserable.
@eatcereal52002 жыл бұрын
See thats the problem, the black pill tell you something extremely obvious people already know "you're not going to beliive this but looks matter you guys" and you mfs take it to the extreme, yall need to chill the fuck out
@snark5672 жыл бұрын
@@florenceicu You can't unlearn what you have already learned, you can of course try to avoid reality and facts to keep yourself ignorant in the future, but the question is why? Why purposefully deny seeking the truth knowing it will screw you over down the line? People amaze me. The phrase "toxic positivity" exists for a reason. When you try so hard to avoid reality in order to save your feelings from getting hurt only to get screwed over down the line due to your purposeful ignorance.
@perilousintent29362 жыл бұрын
@@florenceicu Just don't be too optimistic to the point where it leads to delusion.
@Tidalx Жыл бұрын
"just b urself dude"
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat6 ай бұрын
The idea of "be yourself" is to get rejected. You WANT to be rejected by people who don't like you. If you're not yourself, the people you end up with will like someone who is not you. And you shouldn't even WANT to be with someone who doesn't even like who you are. It's saying: "Stop trying to make women like you and start looking for a woman who likes you." I feel like this is pretty obvious if you think about it for a minute.
@tommygertcher27476 ай бұрын
@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoatThe only time I ever got any attention from women, I was pretending to be somebody else. They don't like "myself", myself sits on his lazy ass playing videogames all day
@CK-lt6jl5 ай бұрын
What’s missing from that saying is “best”. “Be your best self”. I mean you wouldn’t want to be with a girl who watches kdrama (or whatever vice that you’re not into)10 hours a day, right?
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat5 ай бұрын
@@CK-lt6jlThis is a very bright way of putting it well done.
@jaysibiri Жыл бұрын
Black pill term is cringe but the idea is truth. Looks are in fact mostly genetics. And they are the most important thing in dating, it’s not everything but it’s the most important thing. These are facts
@1ledluverjlp Жыл бұрын
Women don't care about looks as much as men do. If a guy is a pleasant person to be around he is more than likely to be successful in dating as long as he puts in proper effort.
@1ledluverjlp Жыл бұрын
@Spots Corner bullshit
@adamg6711 Жыл бұрын
@@spotscorner6040 "You'd be an Incel if you weren't hot " most out of pocket blackpill thing I have ever heard lmao. You know for sure you are attractive after that.
@VoidDweller86 Жыл бұрын
Jay A Black Pill A Day Keeps Delusions Away.
@VoidDweller86 Жыл бұрын
@@1ledluverjlp A Black Pill A Day Keeps Delusions Away.
@michaelmcgee3359 ай бұрын
I’m not black pilled but how one can say looks isn’t a thing in the dating game seem pretty naive. Yes charisma is also a thing, so if you haven’t got looks charisma or money you’re probably screwed.
@hoop69884 ай бұрын
Oh, you’re meaning to tell me that if you have nothing to offer you’ll also get nothing in return.
@randominspector7366Ай бұрын
@@hoop6988 So money is all a guy can offer? lmao
@apollo52612 жыл бұрын
Wheat waffles does present evidence though. He regularly uses studies in his videos to prove his points. He does not just make up his ideas out of nowhere. I don't agree with everything he is saying but I also don't agree with everything you are saying. You don't just discredit people's points of view. I noticed you don't actually check the content your subreddit members are mentioning before talking about it. I don't think it's right to judge the content you haven't yet seen.
@harsh39482 жыл бұрын
He can’t admit the blackpill is correct, because therapy teaches people cope and gives false hope. He would lose his profession that way
@Stonloy2 жыл бұрын
His video isn’t serving to refute wheatwaffles or whatever. I agree with you, many channels have evidence, but I don’t think the point of his channel is to do that; it’s to respond to an overarching zeitgeist by giving advice and perspective. Wheatwaffles May have valid points, but Dr. K seems to rather address the ideas of dating
@avztralopitec2 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of evidences that earth is flat. And what? You don’t understand Dr.K point of view. It’s not about some channels. It’s about psychology of traumatic experience and echo-chambers. Which don’t allow you see the world.
@DMHR1002 жыл бұрын
@@avztralopitec lol no there’s not evidence for that. I think is useless to try a psychological approach to disprove an evolutionary phenomena.
@damolaogunleye63412 жыл бұрын
Flat-earthers also present "evidence" for their beliefs. Does that mean the earth is flat??
@jeremyferguson558810 ай бұрын
The black pill is real...im 5'5 and women don't like short men..
@rubixcube377210 ай бұрын
No no women don’t like ugly men
@bro91810 ай бұрын
Same. Totally invisible to women. Maybe we should start gofundmes for leg lengthening surgery
@QWERTY-gp8fd10 ай бұрын
im 158 cm. thats 5'1? or around that. i have wife. stop being ass and improve yourself.
@chillout83209 ай бұрын
@@QWERTY-gp8fdlmao I could practice sprinting everyday for 10 years but it won’t make me as fast as Usain Bolt.
@QWERTY-gp8fd9 ай бұрын
u dont need to be usain bolt to be in relationship
@jcrosenkreuz52132 жыл бұрын
Society and its members are adapting _around_ the internet. We're finding what's great online (shopping) and what when put online works worse (dating).
@myridean2k42 жыл бұрын
Yes, exactly! Dating sites is like window shopping. We're just looking and trying stuff to see what works and what needs improvement. Real relationships is like investing in a portfolio and you can't do that easily online when it comes to a person because you miss out on so much. To go back to the smells analogy, a shampoo might look nice online but until you are in contact, it may not smell so nice. Smell, taste, feel, touch and hear. We experience someone as well as our reality with all of our available senses.
@j.d.s.18372 жыл бұрын
Online dating is the new norm. Back in highschool *ALL* girls in my graduation class had Tinder and were swiping left on 99% of guys. Most had 20 year old 6'7 Gigachad mogger boyfriends. Saying blackpill is wrong is literally lying.
@gegedu13622 жыл бұрын
@@j.d.s.1837 Yes of course,the online dating is the new norm of sexual mating,only blue pillers are desilusional to tell the opposite.
@Yellow.18442 жыл бұрын
@@j.d.s.1837 explain to me how ALL girls manage to end up with the 0.5% of guys that are 6'7? just because youre a loser doesn't mean you have to drag everyone down with you, most people find a partner, go touch some grass
@VoidCael2 жыл бұрын
@@j.d.s.1837 what i don't get about black pill is, even if it's not wrong, why give a crap? Like, do you really need to be in a relationship/laid to live a fulfilling life?
@NichePlays2 жыл бұрын
Really interesting video! I actually had a similar experience to what was explained here since the pandemic started, albeit not with black-pill communities. I got a bad case of infectious mononucleosis/EBV in July 2020 that has since gone chronic and, up until April or so of this year was constantly reading chronic fatigue horror stories/reddit posts, as well as lurking and trying to be supportive within the CFS/CEBV community. Finally, I stopped following those communities on reddit (I moved them to a private feed that I check once a month for any clinical progress on treating them) and, at around that time, noticed my fatigue start to get a little more manageable and that I was no longer quite as depressed about still being chronically ill. In essence, cutting those inputs off from my day to day life made it easier to see myself as *more* than being chronically ill.
@plesiosaurmilk2 жыл бұрын
How long were you sick with Mono?
@NichePlays2 жыл бұрын
@@plesiosaurmilk Still sick with Chronic Ebstein Barr Virus (the virus that causes mono). Basically, I get what feels like a flu (but is mono) every month for about a weekend or so and am constantly feeling like I'm about to get sick/have recently been sick. As for my first bout of it, I think I was sick with full bed-ridden symptoms for about 2 months
@lemontea5762 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you made a post - I relate to you a bit as I recently had lung surgery due to a recurring collapsed lung and there's a chance this nasty disease will continue to be a problem in the future leading to more scary moments. I'm trying to come to a point where I can only do so much research and safe precautions (often too safe for the average person I think) without sacrificing the quality of life or life that I'm trying to protect. Maybe my ability to work and live without anxiety day-to-day outweighs some of that but it's hard to do esp. with COVID and being in a time where the only certain thing is more uncertainty
@Kurkumator Жыл бұрын
Dude, just stop coping and accept the reality :D
@KetsuSenShi2 жыл бұрын
A discussion between Dr. K and Wheat Waffles would be quite nice.
@matt566 Жыл бұрын
Why would it? Dr K would say yup it is a meat platter and people will take advantage of it as much as they get away with. Hed then say if you don’t have success on there then get off there. Simple as that.
@issac7787 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I disagree, W.w doesn't have the mental capacity to see that he could be wrong. It's best to not engage
@Lo-to7zh Жыл бұрын
It’s another load of bullshit you can obviously work on yourself and mindset but you can’t force attraction to women if they don’t find you attractive because of your face or height for instance
@Lo-to7zh Жыл бұрын
DR k is talking so much non sense his explanations are not even proven by empirical data while Blackpillers have a ton of evidence. Watch women behavior if you want the answer, most women are lovely when they find you attractive. It’s another load of bullshit you can obviously work on yourself and mindset but you can’t force attraction to women if they don’t find you attractive because of your face or height for instance.
@Jedilord882 Жыл бұрын
@@issac7787 this is objectively false as he has taken accountability multiple times lol
@user-vg2qc2db8f Жыл бұрын
You cannot untake the black pill.
@quietgiant47411 ай бұрын
It's like un-doing the universe.
@Mew2Win11 ай бұрын
“I went from negative thinking to positive thinking. I’m not blackpilled anymore and am doing much better in life yaaaaay” What fking bp are they talking about
@quietgiant47411 ай бұрын
@@Mew2Win probably British Petroleum
@romkobomko320011 ай бұрын
@@Mew2Win They probably meant sadness or despair, but not an actual ideology. One thing is to have a good mood, another thing is to recognize that odds are stacked against you and there is nothing you can do to fix rigged situation. Normies have a misconception that blackpill is an ideology based on mood. But actually mood is the result of reality as perceived by ideology.
@Mew2Win11 ай бұрын
@@romkobomko3200 that’s why it’s so hard to bp them. That’s the paradox. How can we solve it?
@lol69203 Жыл бұрын
"Un-take reality."
@justinfoar1562 Жыл бұрын
@Stephen Kizlik looks matter, it's just how it is
@Felix2011y5 ай бұрын
Blackpill is the ultimate truth, Looks are everything , literally.
@ReadmyBioo4 ай бұрын
Not everything. It wont affect your life unless u are too unattractive or very good looking
@aktivniigomes19894 ай бұрын
@@ReadmyBiooguess I've never lived in a body of truly ugly person, that's fate worse than death
@Residentevil1.5 Жыл бұрын
This is a really helpful video. The way you explained seeing your problems in someone else made a lot of sense. I don’t have the same issues as OP, but I still saw my own issues. The part about distracting yourself and things building up especially resonated. Thanks Dr. K
@rayali9854 Жыл бұрын
Same herwme but now I'm on Cloud 9.
@chronos31197 ай бұрын
You can only ignore reality for so long. In the end, the blackpill always comes to collect.
@noramos48487 ай бұрын
nah dude hope you get a better view in life if black pill doesn't make you enjoy living
@whatokigetityouthinkiam7 ай бұрын
@@noramos4848 denial is the first stage to acceptance
@coke49506 ай бұрын
🤓🤓🤓🤓
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat6 ай бұрын
Explain how giving up hope in yourself helps you.
@Trisof886 ай бұрын
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat It's not giving up hope in yourself, its accepting your circumstances in life and not allowing your unmet desires to conquer your sanity. You are okay whether you get something you want or not because you have in-built stoicism and self sufficiency
@KurokamiNajimi2 жыл бұрын
It’s hilarious to see how big Wheat Waffles has gotten to where I keep seeing large channels make videos about him. I found him when he had like 5 videos with 1000 views. His collabs with Alexander Grace and FACEandLMS really helped and from there he kept exploding
@SB-nh7uv2 жыл бұрын
yeah but what does he have to do with the blackpill? WW is a redpill coper lol
@KurokamiNajimi2 жыл бұрын
@@SB-nh7uv If you define black pill as a strict ideology then yes he is not black pilled. I am not either but I subscribe to many beliefs that are black pilled to most people. I get downvoted on Reddit no matter how logical and balanced I present the views bc most of society is profoundly delusional when it comes to why certain men get certain women. I had a guy literally tell me women get sexually aroused by money, these guys are living in fantasy land. A rich lesbian could pay a straight woman to be with her, doesn’t mean she’s attracted. Even Wheat I would argue is wrong about Tinder. Once you understand how Tinder works in that the reason most guys get few likes is just bc women aren’t seeing their profile+bad photos there’s no reason to think someone who didn’t give you the right swipe on Tinder is gonna say yes in person 99.99% of the time. There’s variation in the beliefs we hold about this stuff but we all share the impact of looks, predetermined limitations, and how hard it really is for most men to be successful with women. Which most of society doesn’t understand. They think an average guy who does x y and z could rack up a high body count if he wanted when in reality he’s lucky to reach 5 looksmatched women let alone above
@TricksterLawlet2 жыл бұрын
Qoves Studio is the biggest blackpill channel
@shrekdonkey9027 Жыл бұрын
The truth always comes to light. This was inevitable
@yathercantillano3874 Жыл бұрын
Dude is BANKING
@Soul-Burn2 жыл бұрын
48:19-48:43 actually made me well up. I have some friends, good friends too. But mostly I want to be alone. I don't want to be a burden on others. I don't think I can actually help them, and then if I come burdening, I feel guilty. And of course I won't actually open up, because that's a huge burden. The sort of burden I don't seem myself taking for others. So I just stay alone. Keep to myself. Think about things myself. And that sucks.
@SS-fy6hk Жыл бұрын
i know what you mean. how are you doing?
@KornFlace6 ай бұрын
Just erase your memories theory
@aaronvischer13 Жыл бұрын
This is such an important topic and I have to say I love your work and how you approach these topics. You're incredibly wise and your breakdowns of issues like this are very nuanced. For anyone wondering, even people considered to be attractive can be blackpilled too. I don't say this as discouragement but rather to emphasize that happiness and satisfaction come from finding value and enjoyment in your own life. I find that this is easier said than done, but even taking a small step in that direction can make a huge difference. I wish everyone luck in becoming their best selves and hopefully in turn finding a great partner!
@bandi6422 жыл бұрын
handsome guys have 2 advantages how handsome they are helps a lot but mostly being handsome makes them more likeable to be confident in themselves, and thats a a major part
@bandi6422 жыл бұрын
@@Couscous77 im only saying that ugly people tend to be less confident when talking to girls due to their look is kinda an insecuritie in a lot of cases, im not saying that its the best confidence
@gatoloco39492 жыл бұрын
@@Couscous77 nope, being good looking is important for your confidence since you receive nothing but positive reinforcement, which makes you feel belong.
@idkhehe658 Жыл бұрын
You can't untake the black pill thats like trying to believe in santa clause again
@arpit.sharma Жыл бұрын
What really is Black pill Matt? Can you explain
@siddharthkrishna7249Ай бұрын
Lack of conventional good looks and a lack of an attractive outgoing personality is what creates incels. Nothing complicated about that.
@GimmeAll-u8p17 күн бұрын
they will never stop selling hopes and dreams
@Ytremz2 жыл бұрын
I'm clicking this just to read/watch the cope.
@improover113 Жыл бұрын
Based YTremz comments
@criticaledition9199 Жыл бұрын
Only 10 mins in......and I only see counters to low hanging fruit got me about to take the black pill now 💀
@criticaledition9199 Жыл бұрын
20 mins in hearing some good points not enough to debunk anything
@tommygertcher27476 ай бұрын
@@criticaledition9199What part do you disagree with?
@boboblacksheep50032 жыл бұрын
Oh God. Sometimes it just so distressing to see so many people fall down the rabbit hole.
@aliasno.4andover6442 жыл бұрын
The Black Pill is BS for sure, because I see plenty of attractive women with ugly men and I'm like, "How?"
@unknownentity82562 жыл бұрын
@@aliasno.4andover644 Intelligence, Charisma, Ideology, Wealth, Physique, none of which are genetical. etc.etc.etc. if you look for women in Tinder, sure they will only look for good looking people because that's literally all you get, sure there is bio but usually it's just a way to look for a fuckbuddy. Wrong place to look for a woman if you're not attractive in facial features.
@mojojojo31412 жыл бұрын
@@aliasno.4andover644 It's not complete BS. It's more of a massive overreaction to the "Blue Pill" that we hear ever since we're kids of "looks don't matter". Of course they matter. They matter so much that BABIES are actually friendlier to good looking people (look it up, it's true). Good looking people are liked more even if they behave horribly (halo effect) and treated better at work, in day to day life etc. But... you can improve your looks. As a man, number one thing is get swole. Find a haircut that fits you. Get stylish. Smell good. You can go from a 5 to an 8 in like a year. Most guys who fall for the black pill aren't even ugly, they're average or just fat. Sure, if you're horribly disfigured like the elephant man then it might actually be hopeless but you're not so stop complaining, fix your mindset and get in the gym.
@Kungigad2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@jamesgentry132 жыл бұрын
From my personal experience it has to do with being hurt and failing over and over and over again. Of course negativity is going to take over the mind at some point. Right?
@gergelymagyarosi92852 жыл бұрын
AFAIK blackpills don't exactly think that only handsome guys get dates. They think women in their prime years can afford to be much more picky that rationally justified. After that, men's chances go up (but can end up as a provider in an unhappy relationship). The other part of this belief (ugly=creepy, handsome=flirty) is kind of justified. There are plenty of studies that people are biased towards a good-looking person.
@Badjazy8 ай бұрын
ah a shame, this was a miss this video. You can't untake something you didn't willingly take in the first place. Only one that does not have success can truly understand.
@3n3j0t48 ай бұрын
completely useless vid that barely scratches the lookism mentioned in the post
@j.d.s.81328 ай бұрын
@@3n3j0t4 Exactly. The whole discussion is about mentality, personality, etc. when really mentality doesn't matter if you are so ugly, that you cannot get girls to talk with you in the first place.
@Modi_8 ай бұрын
@@j.d.s.8132 everyone can be a 7/10 with work and dedication. looks dont help you with holding relationships, improving your mentality and becoming someone you would see yourself dating helps 100x more than being a blank slate personality wise and looking like a model. all you end up getting as a attractive person is fwb's and shallow hook ups on tinder.
@chillout83205 ай бұрын
@@Modi_😂 COPE
@EvilShadow77772 жыл бұрын
There's about 20 minutes of dead space in the middle of the video between 32:30 and 54:20 roughly. Great commentary, I think this is a very helpful video even outside of relationship/incel context just because I think so many of us have fucked up understanding of our emotions. I never really thought about the fact I never got passed just venting.
@MochaxMatcha2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@vitoramorim93612 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro, I thought my browser was bugged or something
@Vivivofi2 жыл бұрын
Not dead for me??
@seriouscat2231 Жыл бұрын
@@Vivivofi, he fixed it later.
@Vivivofi Жыл бұрын
@@seriouscat2231 bro it’s been 8 month wtf
@yorksfolly12552 жыл бұрын
4:30 looking at older generations doesnt help. Men had it easier back then and women now awadays are settling and feel annoyed at it with average guys. 1/3 of all men today are virgins what does that tell you?
@yorksfolly12552 жыл бұрын
@@Tocinos the internet and videos have facts you can verify whether you and I like it or not.
@moonysteps80642 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend and i did meet over the internet, but we didn't even see each other's face for the first year or so because it really didn't matter whatsoever :) we fell in love over each other's personalities, our connection etc., which (btw) is how true love, opposed to a stupid superficial crush, actually works. We saw each other's faces for the first time probably half a year after we started falling in love with each other. We met on an art/anime community online and talked about politics, anime etc. Looks don't matter to everyone. I'm 20, he's 18. So... "Young people" (and what's frankly very disrespectful and hurtful, "women") aren't like that, you just choose to believe that. Probably because you got hurt and find it easier to give into being hopeless, which is your choice. It's a real waste, but it's your choice. What's not fair though is going around and spreading lies about this stuff, because that affects other people negatively, like for example me. It's insulting. I'm not that simple-minded. And you're spreading these lies about me, about many other people who try being good people, good gf's/bfs etc.
@gatoloco39492 жыл бұрын
@@Tocinos you're using the internet too chief.
@tomasrocha61394 күн бұрын
1/3 of men aren't virgins, a single study found 1/3 of men under 30 didn't have sex for a year big difference
@oftengone2 жыл бұрын
Blackpill advice has literally brought more peace and excitement into my life. I don't feel frustrated by the bs that blue pilled people have fed me all my life...
@caixo5604 Жыл бұрын
Bro, the internet =/= real life Blue/Red/Black pills are the stupidest things ever, real life is way more complex than what a "Sigma male" on 4chan with no life experiences say
@ponternal Жыл бұрын
The truth can destroy some people
@VoidDweller86 Жыл бұрын
@@ponternal A Black Pill A Day Keeps Delusions Away.
@VoidDweller86 Жыл бұрын
@@AbuBased731 A Black Pill A Day Keeps Delusions Away.
@adrithmanvik185311 ай бұрын
Keep telling yourself that
@BlueGoyim717 ай бұрын
you can let go of reality but reality won't let go of you
@RitaMcCloud Жыл бұрын
"Hope will show you no mercy." "Hope is a mental illness."
@seekchristwithin4464 Жыл бұрын
this doctor later in his life gets 1 girl and suddenly he is an expert on women and dating? there are 15 yr old guys with more experience than him.........
@peacefulwarrior9518 Жыл бұрын
The video isn't about dating he almost completely avoided that topic. t's about how negative feedback cycles affect your brain and how to break out of them.
@ty-xq7bl Жыл бұрын
JFL
@user-xc7vk6bt3f Жыл бұрын
This self proclaimed expert on women relationships is probably grateful that she allows him having intimacy once in a year at his birthday, jfl
@chillout832011 ай бұрын
There are dogs with more experience at human women than him😂. Dogpill is brutal.
@chillout832011 ай бұрын
@@user-xc7vk6bt3fa hand job for being a good boy and providing
@ThatisnotHair Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah. Instead of solving the problem, lets pretend there is no problem and fool ourselves. People actually take this guy seriously?
@soumiliguchhait51776 ай бұрын
You have to realise there's is no problem for people not liking you because of your looks ..I am sure you too haven't liked someone because of their looks without even realising
@ningyosekai Жыл бұрын
The point Dr. k made about group and how it benefits us is so true. I often tell people that this is my favourite KZfaq Chanel and it’s helped me a lot. Which is confusing to some because I’m not an incel or a gamer. I am a fashionista party girl who uses Instagram as my main platform. But I love the way dr. K breaks down things in a systematic way. Most people who talk about emotions or spirituality say it in a feeling way but I need it explained step by step in a cognitive analytical way before I get it. Tldr: I agree, you don’t have to have the same specific problem for this to apply
@soumiliguchhait51776 ай бұрын
Ya me too i totally love it I don't use insta but I am quite social love painting and chess, an also I am kind of aiming for psychiatry..not sure it in 5th year of ug but let's see
@j.d.s.18372 жыл бұрын
Where are your facts? Where is the empirical evidence prooving the blackpill wrong?
@punisher63872 жыл бұрын
None,he is just mumbling nonsense like every other video of his
@creeperkingdom31902 жыл бұрын
that's all we ask for really. the facts bit they can never give it.
@donnypasta52602 жыл бұрын
@@Tocinos I hope you're trolling cause if your serious, that's some real mental illness sh*t right here
@j.d.s.18372 жыл бұрын
@@Tocinos says the guys giving tutorials for glitches in Skateboard games 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Grow up, man!
@donnypasta52602 жыл бұрын
@@Tocinos youtube is one big kid and you can't swear anymore or you're comment will be hidden. But yeah seek therapy
@AkiRa220849 ай бұрын
The park is not evidence. That's survival bias. You don't know how many people are lonely and therefore are not in the park. You don't know how many of those will be divorces, you don't know how many of those couples are faithful.
@youngwindow9 ай бұрын
true
@stickmouse50029 ай бұрын
you're moving the goalposts
@AkiRa220849 ай бұрын
@@stickmouse5002 How so. Park is a bad sample size. Looking at the park is not scientific. And, when I look at parks, I see obese women with decent men.
@stickmouse50029 ай бұрын
@@AkiRa22084 there is no missing data in the park example. there are handsome and ugly men with handsome and ugly women. it doesn't matter who's lonely and who's divorced because the whole point of the black pill is that your success in dating is entirely dependent on your looks. Also you're just seeing what you want to see when you go to the park
@AkiRa220849 ай бұрын
@@stickmouse5002 Then it's not a study of any use. You can easily say that any exceptions you see prove the rule. BP is talking about trends anyway, they don't say it's impossible. Small sample size is useless in this discussion. "you're just seeing what you want to see" - But we can say the same thing for HG, too. How do you not realize this?
@jummers887 ай бұрын
The black pill is so brutal.
@Pickle22226 ай бұрын
its untrue BS. Men care more about looks than women. The black pill is a group of incels that have a horrible worldview and are extremely insecure so they take it out on women.
@Ratalo-is5on4 ай бұрын
@@Pickle2222 na, women care more about looks.
@coper38832 жыл бұрын
"Just process your emotions bro"
@vivvpprof2 жыл бұрын
Look. You can break down the path to recovery, take each step in isolation and say "just do this or that", thereby implying it's impossible to do that thing. Like "sure, doc, if I could, I *would* just do it but obviously I can't". That'll get you nowhere. The question is: why do you adopt this "can't" attitude? And why do you need to feign incompetence to people?
@harsh39482 жыл бұрын
@@Dimitris_Half so does getting a gf
@shrekdonkey9027 Жыл бұрын
"Just stop being a doomer bro"
@AbuBased731 Жыл бұрын
Touch Grass bro
@VoidDweller86 Жыл бұрын
@@shrekdonkey9027 "Just Keep Right On Allowing The Normies and Such To Be DelusionMaxxers For Life Bro"
@eliakachun99932 жыл бұрын
It’s like trying to believe in Santa again
@shrekdonkey9027 Жыл бұрын
Lol Based
@improover113 Жыл бұрын
True
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat6 ай бұрын
You realize Santa was real and it was just your dad going to Walmart, right? It's a great analogy honestly. Because you think this is some impossible magic after becoming fixated on a comforting narrative that blinds you to what is in reality a pretty straightforward situation that you could definitely navigate yourself if you got past the narrative fixation.
@MetalHopper5 ай бұрын
Or like believing in god again
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat5 ай бұрын
@@MetalHopper I dunno about that one. I've been an atheist for 20 years and god is starting to look real good.
@idealsAREisomorphic11 ай бұрын
Black pill is not prescriptive, it is descriptive. It offers realistic view of dating market and dynamics. What you do with that is up to you, but since the reality is so harsh and so different from the blue pilled view of romantic relationships we are taught as kids, most people can’t face it and need a cope. Notice how every criticism of black pill is about “negativity”, which is basically people projecting their reaction were they to accept the truth of the black pill. It’s not a criticism of the truth of the matter. I’d argue the opposite - after the initial shock the black pill is freeing. You realize IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Some things are out of your control. You become stoic.
@fireflyredux337311 ай бұрын
Took the words right from my keyboard.
@oroderes11 ай бұрын
but less attractive people really do have children, and can end up in happy marriages...
@oroderes11 ай бұрын
@@fireflyredux3373 black pill arguments aren't entirely false, but if you fixate on them, they become your entire narrative and it doesn't leave you with motivation to try and go beyond them...
@fireflyredux337311 ай бұрын
@@oroderes If you consider black pill arguments to be false its because you have someone trying to sell you his online course on how to be a sigma male. All the black pill ever did was describe- accurately mind you- plainly and exactly how short-term relationships are becoming far more the norm than long term relationships and how that effects the male attractiveness bell curve. What you do with that information (Your actions + "motivation" as you put it) is entirely up to you and not the purview of the black pill. Which is exactly what OP said. It's giving you the cold hard truth of the matter, nothing more, nothing less. If you can't figure out what "descriptive" vs "prescriptive" is, that's on you. If you think you can outperform the black pill with self-help books and cardio your sadly mistaken and will probably spend the rest of your life labeled as a "creep" by women. (That's for 3's and below on the female Short Term dating market, aka 85-92% of all sexual relationships atp) And to answer your question, yes, ugly people date ugly people and get married. Talk to any ugly guy whos currently or used to put himself out there (I was one till I got mass and cleared my acne, look at that, a direct source!) and he'll tell you that not even the ugly women wanted him. His DM's weren't dull, they we're nonexistent.
@LilReezy_143711 ай бұрын
@@oroderes Oofy doofy does exist...
@hzenes11 ай бұрын
i'm not into any of these pill bullshits but in this 24 years of my life i learned that (don't get me wrong i'm not a some depressif doomer or smt, i have a beautiful life and i'm very happy about it) LOOKS IS EVERYTHING, not everything but everything... Sad truth. I'm not saying it should be or must be but most of the people thinks that way so that's a fact, there is nothing to do about it.
@j.d.s.813211 ай бұрын
You cannot "un - take" human nature.
@Randomlad567 ай бұрын
@@j.d.s.8132 You can choose to simply not believe it and stick yer head in the sand while coping :D very common, yet barely effective lel
@ferranp3600 Жыл бұрын
I think you are quite nice dude, but many people who are in the blackpill once believed that they could improve themselves only to be crushed by reality, very likely multiple times, how can you convince them that what they lived wasn't real?
@HAHAHAHAHAHAHahHHA Жыл бұрын
truth ^ most blackpillers went thru the redpill phase who ru to tell others what theyve been thru
@remnant2484 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@saltator8565 Жыл бұрын
He can't, and nobody can. All they can do from that point is lie gaslight us.
@BoringTroublemaker Жыл бұрын
@@saltator8565 I’m sorry, but what make you any different than anyone else who has been rejected and had to dust themselves off and keep trying (I.e. literally everyone) Why is your outrage about how YOU feel physically judged so justified when so many of you live on forums that talk sht about ugly women? I’m going to give you a piece of advice that Dr K is far too nice to give - your looks aren’t the problem, your ugly attitude is. No woman is going to put up with a guy who behaves like an emotionally underdeveloped, entitled sex pest who is obsessed with nothing but looks and has nothing but complaining to offer. You aren’t a victim, you’re no different than anyone else.
@AbuBased731 Жыл бұрын
@@BoringTroublemaker Certified Teeheee momento
@user-rv3po9dq9i2 жыл бұрын
I wish it was that easy, I don't use incelforums for months but still cannot escape The Blackpill in real life.
@lordbreastpads36262 жыл бұрын
You cannot escape the blackpill if you are ugly, short or mentally my friend. I am a combination of all three, hopefully you are not.
@mafumofu9862 жыл бұрын
@Richaroo that's not escaping the blackpill but solid advice nevertheless
@Elrog32 жыл бұрын
@Richaroo There's definitely a degree of truth to the black pill, but saying getting a job is completely dependent on your attractiveness is a ridiculously massive overstatement. With the right skills, you can do contract work from your chair, online, without having your face published. And irl, minimum wage jobs don't give a crap how you look. They'll take just about anyone. Especially with the labor shortage. And for a final counterexample: Asmongold. He goes weeks at a time without showering and has a room littered with trash and is a huge twitch streamer.
@gatoloco39492 жыл бұрын
@Richaroo nothing can you make you taller or attractive, no matter how much you lift. Self improvement is important, but it isn't gonna save you. To me, the only thing I'm aiming for is money, it's the best cope I have. I just want to live financially stable.
@SeSdesc Жыл бұрын
@Richaroo GYM six times? Bruh…
@aneeshfroome4464 Жыл бұрын
I wish i took the blackpill sooner. I wasted so many years listening to blupill crap like this, but the blackpill always comes to collect
@--Traveler-- Жыл бұрын
always collects. you can run away from the blackpill but the blackpill will find where you live.
@lucasinator Жыл бұрын
@@--Traveler-- U guys are hilarious😂
@user-xc7vk6bt3f Жыл бұрын
@@--Traveler-- Dont be free agent in life. Let the blackpill guide you
@keifer781319 күн бұрын
The blackpill is reality. The most important factors in success in dating or success in life are completely out of your control. Your height, bone structure, and race are all genetic. Your personality has a large genetic component too. For some people, they were doomed from the start.
@x80HDx2 жыл бұрын
Black pill feels like a pretty logical conclusion for a generation of guys who’s entire life experiences with women have been altered by the internet. On top of that, we have so much available information now, it’s much easier to *think* we know something about the world without ever testing or experiencing it.
@TheNobleFive2 жыл бұрын
@@Vorock16 The second sentence explains how that point turns into a self-fulfilling ideology in some corners of the internet.
@prod.arcsyne29902 жыл бұрын
Yeah, its easy to blame the state of the world rather than remembering you exist in that world and have influence in it too. It might bring shame, but you have to forgive yourself for your inaction
@j.d.s.18372 жыл бұрын
That is literally not true, most in//cels have tried dating in real life BEFORE they came to the community. And most just had the normie experience of being rejected by everyone, before reading any comment or viewing any video.
@x80HDx2 жыл бұрын
@@j.d.s.1837 i actually completely agree with take as well. I think there are people on both sides.
@shealovealicia10172 жыл бұрын
@@x80HDx Man most of these folks forget that they are too part of the reason why they have issues with dating. Most of these "pillers" hate themselves or have mental illnesses/disabilities. Those things alone can play a part to why they consume these pill theories. Mental health, self reflection, and self awareness is the key!
@BlackMita2 жыл бұрын
Excited for the wheat waffles response video :)
@alwaysright3943 Жыл бұрын
You can't really unsee the truth.
@thetruthisright6750 Жыл бұрын
red pill is the truth the black pill people thinks looks are all genetics they aren't tho you can go from a 4 to a 9 with hitting the gym and looks maxing
@AEH-df7ho Жыл бұрын
@@thetruthisright6750 you go king keep grinding till you rich your peak at 70. Also buy my tactical soap it will make you an alpha and get you more women trust me bro
@alwaysright3943 Жыл бұрын
@@AEH-df7ho Becoming a sugar daddy at 70 is still preferable to wallowing in self pity your whole life. The best course of action is to acknowledge the black pill, and then do all you can to better your situation.
@AEH-df7ho Жыл бұрын
@@alwaysright3943 I only responded that way to his comment because he said that gym will boost you from 4 to 9. Also I think that picking between being sugar daddy at 70 and wallowing in self-pity is like picking between dying of cancer or dying of lungs failure. In my country men's life expectancy rate is less than 70 lmao what sugar daddy thing are you talking about, you'll be lucky if you are still walking with your two legs by this time 😂
@alwaysright3943 Жыл бұрын
@@AEH-df7ho Suit yourself. Self pity can be quite addictive and some people are just beyond help.
@panicineurope2 жыл бұрын
How appropriate that a video on the blackpill has thirty minutes of *void* in it.
@nowie40072 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jimmynegatron46192 жыл бұрын
The entire video is void of substance
@badunius_code Жыл бұрын
4:35 Wrong. Settling with someone reliable after you had as much fun with as you could, does not disprove this point. Also you can't tell if they doesn't cheat or wouldn't cheat when opportunity is presented. Also there are "boring people" who has next to no free time for "adventures".
@vailynx2 жыл бұрын
I love how half of the time the solution is "go outside"
@ralphwilsin2 жыл бұрын
Did you shower? Drink water? Just be confident bro!
@ralphwilsin2 жыл бұрын
@@Dimitris_Half Any advice for a high value man like me who does all these things and is still struggling?!!!?
@shealovealicia10172 жыл бұрын
@@ralphwilsin Here's a another solution, DETOX from social media. Take some time off the internet and live your truth. Delete or log of all your accounts on the internet Because 90% of social media just like TV is CAP. Some of info in these cult like spaces on here are to some extent are lies mixed in with true.
@ralphwilsin2 жыл бұрын
@@shealovealicia1017 I LOVE TV!!!
@shealovealicia10172 жыл бұрын
@@ralphwilsin lolz😄 well ok....you can love those things just minimize your time with them and live your life. Good luck.
@Keroloth92 Жыл бұрын
Going outside to see that women date below average men is bad argument. You're talking about all age range of ppl, but it doesn't work like that. Boomers, people of previous generations were not expose to internet, tiktok, dating apps - basically globalized dating market. We need to take into consideration the age range of young ppl from this new digital generation. Now here is my experience, as a center Europe citizen.. When I go outside I see younger generation women mostly, like 95% (not all, but exception to the rule doesn't make the rule) with men above average of height in my country which is 178 cm, and full head of hair, when it comes to face it's mostly average, above average, even sometimes below. So we see a certain regularity here, height is highly demanded feature - new options served to women through the internet etc. make them choose better genetics because they just can, and also they can provide financially to themselves so they don't need to compromise with looks because they need men to take care of them anymore, which is also a factor nowadays.
@fragebogenvbc27 күн бұрын
@@Keroloth92 not much more than 50 percent of women cares about height in real life. And if you are not above average in looks, just try to know women at your university, work, hobby, etc., mainly the ones who aren't on dating apps or insta (with a little practice it can be said in large percentage from a girl at first sight).
@yagovmolotov5127 Жыл бұрын
Take these copium pills gooeyim
@jaysibiri Жыл бұрын
3:50 wheat waffles uses studies and data for his videos though
@centripetal61572 ай бұрын
Very specific and hand picked data...
@kallax7172 Жыл бұрын
I see His comments about group therapy reflected in my interactions with school clubs. When I go to anime club no one is going to judge my love for fictional pirates and mecha battles. Has really helped me get out of my shell. Now I can talk to people about the things I’m passionate about with far less feelings of anxiety.
@MR-el2ym10 ай бұрын
Saying you should 'untake the black pill' is like saying you should embrace delusional instead of truth and fact. Knowing and accepting the black pill does not mean you have to think about it and/or watch videos 24/7... If it bothers you, learn it, understand it, then put it to one side and try to enjoy life by doing other things.
@Nei98210 ай бұрын
Even if black pill ideology was 100% true it still doesn't make any sense to give up. Your chances are absolutely zero in that case.
@MR-el2ym10 ай бұрын
@Nei982 I would think it depends on the person. I wouldn't tell anybody to give up completely, but realistically, if you are very physically unattractive then it might be best not to obsess over relationships and try to move on and find fulfilment in other way's. Would you tell a 5 foot tall guy to pursue his dream of becoming a professional basketball player to the expense of other career's? Or would you tell him to accept reality? I think it can be dangerous for guy's to NOT be blackpilled. There is value in having this knowledge. So many guy's are clueless.
@db3games43 ай бұрын
@@MR-el2ym Except, the evidence for the blackpill and the wider in//cel community is based entirely on IG, TikTok, Snap, and YT. And its whole basis for someone’s ability to get in the door with a woman is based on online dating. There is no empirical peer reviewed study that supports the ideology of the in//cel community. If you can provide me one please tell me
@BlackpilledNihilist2 жыл бұрын
cope
@cosmicdot. Жыл бұрын
@WAAAAAA!!! MY CHIIIIIINNNNNN!!! Cope
@loudseik99978 ай бұрын
Cant relate. Blackpill saved my dating life and I am grateful that I stumbled upon it.
@Nei9828 ай бұрын
Could you go into specifics? I'm 90% you just improved your looks/confidence which you can do without the blackpill anyway
@Alien_From_Another_Universe8 ай бұрын
@@Nei982 blackpill shows you lookism and how the female nature favors good looking guys. Blackpill knowledge is useful
@loudseik99978 ай бұрын
@@Nei982 Well, kind of. I did lose a lot of weight. But until I found the blac kpill I was convinced that I was just a loser and that losing weight wouldnt matter anyways, I was always told that looks arent important and that I should focus on improving my personality. I was suicidal and didnt want to live. After learning about the bp it gave me some hope that its not over so I lost the weight and I magically went from being an incel to girls literally trying to initiate flirting with me. All these years I had an attractive face hiding behind the fat and I didnt even know it.
@zae332478 ай бұрын
@@loudseik9997 Real, nice job mate am proud of you !
@pumpkineater69857 ай бұрын
@@loudseik9997 thats not the blackpill thats just self improvement most blackpillers believe that ur genetics are what makes u unlovable
@beganitdidnt65352 жыл бұрын
its ovER boyos
@terrybunch73132 жыл бұрын
lol Imagine pretending that genetic determinism isn't a thing. This is a bunch of cope.
@BitchChill2 жыл бұрын
I'm starting to believe it more and more
@AroundTheBest5 ай бұрын
I'm unable to get a date, even with someone who is significantly heavier than me. My anxiety level is irrelevant to the fact that women won't date me due to my physical appearance. I'm 5'9" and have been going to the gym 5-6 times a week for 2 years. There is no gym for my face. Leading with my job title and income is just a recipe for someone to use me for my money. I rarely even come across single women outside of work and the gym, two places that I've been told my advances are unwelcome. For context: I interact with the public at my job and have no one interested in me. I've tried dating apps, have swiped nearly 100,000 times on Tinder and have no one interested in me. Nothing he said in the video refutes my experience.
@ScienceofAesthetics14 ай бұрын
Brutal man, friend group maxxing is the only way for you cause looks matter less there. Don’t even bother with tinder if it’s going that badly
@michaella57994 ай бұрын
Dude ive been single 5 years went through some heavy stuff that burried me, my child got injured im a single dad so had to. It wiped my great paying job and all my money and i was doing good before lived good had plenty of savings. Anyways the event rocked me im unemployed broke and ive just felt like a loser lately, i do zilch except raise my kid. Dont see friends for 2-3 years only people ive talked to were 6 year olds the past couple years for real. my heads been down all the time in a dark place. couldnt think of dating or being wanted in this state, i wasnt even looking i have no value right now. Then out front doing whatever the neighbour girl walks up and introduce herself, shes been my neighbour for 2-3 years, lol. Our doors are ten feet apart.not once have i ever looked at her at all. She has even said hi before my head down im like ya whatever hi back, dont even look. So she introduce herself again kinda went out of her way, i was stunned shes hot, i didnt even tell her my name back, lol. I blew it whatever. so our kids play once and she gives her number. Blow the texts too is she flirting nah dont believe it, i lightly try to flirt back a bit, text back a bit to long, damn blew that too. Shes throwing signals its over my head im oblivious to it nah shes just being nice, im a loser right now im unemployed broke damn. But then i start crushing on her a bit beating myself up nightly like heartache for a girl i dont even know really. I dont even leave my house, how this neighbour find me this is all in my head. Were both shy its painful but damn i kinda think she throwing it out there and pretty much asked me out for dinner. and I still blew that somehow. every text im like oh god i blew it again, say too much, overly nice, its amazing how badly i did and still am doing. Well heres it is. we got a date lined up, we seem to really like each other. But im being real with myself and it will probably go no where and ill be crushed after. Anyways the moral and point of the story is, it always comes when you LEAST expect it. And eventually a tiny bit of light comes that can bring you out of the darkness.
@lightworker29564 ай бұрын
I'm sorry man. Yeah, dating is absolutely brutal for men: - 60% of young men are single - women only go for the top 5% on tinder - women rate 80% of men as "below average" That's what the research says, as much as people don't want to hear these things. I think most of the anti-black-pill messaging comes from: - people just emotionally not liking it - those people who are in a happy relationship living in such a completely different world that they can't wrap their heard around the perspective of a man who genuinely can't find a date. If I was the type of man who relatively easily found a girlfriend and now I'm happily married, then yeah I'd also be inclined to think "just clean yourself up a bit and go date." - and the belief that "black pill is harmful, telling men to improve and go date is helpful" but... is it? Obviously in some cases yes, in some cases no because it's just more societal gaslighting. I'm getting a bit sick of this attitude of "we can't tell the dumb masses the facts, instead we must tell them what motivates them to keep running in their hamster wheel, and what stops them from forming so-called bad opinions." Honestly, I think the black pill position is a bit like the "working hard isn't worth it under late-stage capitalism" crowd. In both cases there are people who want to tell them "just work harder and you'll succeed", and certainly individuals can succeed just by working harder... however most won't. That's just the cold statistics. Most people don't fall outside the norm, by definition.
@checkerboxchats2 ай бұрын
for an increasing amount of us it is truly over but these copers and gaslighters will never admit that
@topy7064 күн бұрын
dating apps won't work for you if you're below 6ft. also depending on your ethnicity you will not have success if you're not white or black
@psychosytheXmediaXco5 ай бұрын
I love how everyone who has any success in dating sounds exactly like a republican talking about what people of color deal with. It's literally just "the system worked for me so that means there's nothing wrong with it, because then I might feel invalidated. So obviously it's your fault." Doesn't seem like the Dr K community is having it judging by the comments.
@j.d.s.81324 ай бұрын
It's the survivorship bias.
@tregittens39715 ай бұрын
The blackpill always collects you can ignore the truth but the truth will always follow you.
@shashankshekhar2895Ай бұрын
Blackpill is the truth. After learning that, what you do with your life is entirely on you. Don't blame the blackpill.
@Jazzmaster19922 жыл бұрын
I think the biggest struggle for some, in order to "stop believing in [insert color pill here]", is that some of what these people are saying is true. Yes, physical attraction is an important component in someone's desire to be with another. Yes, attraction has a lot to do with shallow/arbitrary characteristics that have nothing to do with if you're a "good person", or anything else you would think or hope makes you desirable to another. It's what can make dating so frustrating and hard. Where black/redpill types go wrong is getting hung up on these things and thinking they are all that matter, but I think it's easy to see why. When I talk to women or people in general, I feel sort of disillusioned about the whole thing because I see some of this stuff too. I don't know of any woman who's ever been attracted to me, for example, that didn't mention my looks at least once, so it's hard not to feel like it matters so much, even if it's not all they care about.
@anthonyskrzypczak94372 жыл бұрын
Looking good is hard and takes hard work. That makes it a GOOD measure of romantic suitability. Why would this be a depressing idea? Yes there's some people that get a head start. But once you're in your 30s, or even late 20s, there's no way to keep it up without massive amount of work, discipline, and asthetic talent. Attractiveness is not just a shallow measure of a person. It correlates (not perfectly) with long-term mindset. You might be beautiful on the inside. If you are, show it. Find clothing that looks good on you. Experiment with cheap jewlery/accessories. Take care of your health, by eating well and caring about yourself. Demonstrate the ability to love yourself by showering regularly, wearing deoderant, and brushing your teeth. Give your body the exercise it needs to live a long life. Live optimistically about the future and your presence in it, and these behaviors will come easily, without effort. If you do those things, you'll be attractive. It's that simple. It might take time to dig out of the hole, but its simply a question of persistence. There is nothing stopping pretty much anyone from doing these things. (The best part? Do these things and you'll be living a great life, maybe to the point where being single will stop being such a burden) If you can't do these things, it says a LOT about what is going on inside you. And honestly, why shouldn't people use physical appearance then as a shortcut measure of romantic suitability?
@dyrellius2 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyskrzypczak9437 This is so facts, couldn't have said it better. If someone can't at least portray themselves in a confident and attractive way, I think it says a lot about their romantic suitability. Not everything, but when relationships require time, effort, and emotional investment, of course people will weigh their options with extreme scrutiny. I find that people that consider attractiveness to be a shallow measure, are typically unhappy with themselves.
@creeperkingdom31902 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyskrzypczak9437 um non of this is going to make you taller or change your facial structure the most important looks factors can bearly be changed no matter how much effort you put in minus surgery which had tge possibilities of making things worse
@lucasinator2 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyskrzypczak9437 "looking good is hard"? Looking good is mostly genetics and not being fat.
@creeperkingdom31902 жыл бұрын
@@PrincessMeganLeigh statistically speaking physical attraction is the biggest determinor or relationship access and success. look up the study "stated preferences vs what actually lead to relationships in speed dating trials" ot show that while ladies say they care about intelligence and personality those things did not actually predict dating success looks did about the same amount for both men and ladies. so in other words it's not that men cant conceptualize attraction that isn't physically its that men are honest.
@marko9695 Жыл бұрын
I have been feeling extremely exhausted at work lately. This helped me realize that its because I'm heavily suppressing all the shitty things I'm feeling. Thank you so much!
@melodybales2038 Жыл бұрын
"This internet has created a way of validating emotions, but not a way of processing them." Wisdom
@ruzzianbot6 ай бұрын
unhealthycopergg
@blackpilledchad1927 Жыл бұрын
A truecel in denial explaining why you should leave the blackpill. I'm 6'4 and good-looking. I'm also blackpilled, since i used to be a fatcel.
@blackpilledchad1927 Жыл бұрын
@WAAAAAA!!! MY CHIIIIIINNNNNN!!! Got nothin to prove, big dawg.
@BlackpillObeah Жыл бұрын
As someone who has also blackpilled himself. Its even more obvious because you experience it with yourself. You live 2 different worlds. Look up cameron herrin bald. Assuming you know who that is, I rest my case
@blackpilledchad1927 Жыл бұрын
@@BlackpillObeah Whole different world. I always been an introvert. Anxiety seemed to paralyzed me when i would talk to people, my friends always told me "you need confidence bro" (even though they're social normies yet they barely can pull a sub5 girl). After losing weight (i just stayed at home most of the time), i started going to the gym and the first day i was hit on by 2 girls... after the first "romantic" contact with a girl, i just felt that "confidence boost", that a girl obsessing over you gives you... Of course you have "confidence" when most girls turn their heads too see you, they stare at you and blush when you look at them. The moment you look a girl in the eyes and smile and she blushes and can't control her happiness, you know that k*tty is already 90% yours... there are not mixed signals
@cosmicdot. Жыл бұрын
Based
@dobridjordje Жыл бұрын
@@blackpilledchad1927 Is it really tho?
@ashaaib2 жыл бұрын
even if you show them the truth they just say tinder is not real life jfl grow up swallow the pill
@currycel470 Жыл бұрын
You can't unsee reality once witnessing it.
@flangeinspector9959 Жыл бұрын
Good point. Every time I start to fall into any of these terminally online beliefs like lookism, Black Pill, etc., I just go to my local Walmart and witness people of all shapes, sizes, and appearances paired up and seemingly content.
@dootdoot5891 Жыл бұрын
nihilism is not realism.
@AEH-df7ho Жыл бұрын
@@flangeinspector9959 and then you wake up. And realise that there are other factors. I.e. that 4/10 man with 8/10 woman. She leads the relationship. She has the final word. He pays for everything. In particularly bad cases, it's an "open relationship" (for her). Because she made a compromise and must gain something for it. Simple human nature.
@MrApocalisse Жыл бұрын
Self destruction isn't "reality"
@MarceloSilva-oq8mk Жыл бұрын
@@AEH-df7ho so engage with a 4/10 and you'll be happy
@Sol-xk8ho2 жыл бұрын
The black pill is the truth, deal with it and get in line. We must make ourselves as physically attractive as possible.
@nocturnaljoe95432 жыл бұрын
You are talking to a wall. They pick some young aged doomers (like waffles) and present them as the majority of cels. Even now, that red pillers are turning black and many people completly accept and use bp terms from the celwiki themselves, now. Just ask the creator of this clip.: What would be needed in order to prove common bp knowledge? How many more statistics and how many more million experiences do you need? I find it funny, that people ask this guy about that topic. JFL. Imagine him going out and asking girls out. Holy mother Macree... Then after he got rejected by every single girl, that doesn't know about his internet fame, he walks back into his room. Sits on his chair and tells you, that it is all bs. The bp is not true at all 🤣
@fifiadan2 жыл бұрын
@@spliffrotation7238 No lower your standards get a job and be a step dad
@gatoloco39492 жыл бұрын
@@fifiadan lmao, lower your standards doesn't do anything.
@littlelady9801 Жыл бұрын
You sound like a robot
@fifiadan Жыл бұрын
@@timothywade9618 Yes Yes Yes you don’t have a choice, loneliness is one of the biggest factors for unhappiness and decrease of life expectancy you have a biological and survival based imperative to get out there denying it will only hurt in the long run
@MythrilZenith2 жыл бұрын
"taking the blackpill" isn't an issue I have now (though I went through a period where I started feeling the start of that), but this video is a really good breakdown of any negative spiral feedback loop and how to break out of it. Becoming aware of particular emotions and triggers, learning to be okay with the uncomfortable emotions instead of having to do something to get rid of them *right now*, and eventually growing away from those destructive thought patterns is ultimately the core of most healing cycles I've been through or seen experienced. It's hard, it sucks to do and it feels like you're "just ignoring the problem" sometimes but it really does work and helps you be so much happier (or at least more content) in the long run.
@Lo-to7zh Жыл бұрын
DR k is talking so much non sense his explanations are not even proven by empirical data while Blackpillers have a ton of evidence. Watch women behavior if you want the answer, most women are lovely when they find you attractive. It’s another load of bullshit you can obviously work on yourself and mindset but you can’t force attraction to women if they don’t find you attractive because of your face or height for instance.