You can cut that part of the video out in the KZfaq editor (you don’t have to take the video down)

A good reflective space for black pill members

You have no formal education. You are a fraud. You beg people to watch your videos so you can get ad revenue. No one who has ever """untaken""" the blackpill will have their problems solved. Nothing will change.

will do

now this comment looks like a troll comment

"you can always trust that a window will open but you can never trust a fart"

A healthy - To thine own self be true.

I agree - appreciate the unintentional pun also hehe

All the quick witts and analogies aside, one can't untake the blackpill without accepting some amount of delusion again

Well then u show them how to open the window

Yup but doesn't change the truths

@@Tailionis True, and if they were doing even a little to try and change those truths for the better I would encourage them, but all they do is be sad, nothing else comes from it. Being informed is good and healthy, being consumed by negativity and only negativity while ignoring the good is neither helpful nor accurate or 'true'.

Looksmax, settle, get extremely lucky, or die alone. These are your 4 options when it comes to online dating as an average looking guy. Hypergamy will continue to exist regardless of whether or not you choose to acknowledge it.

Who would have guessed that not listening to propaganda is healthy and commendable?

@@RyanEdwardVetter capitalism just made hypergamy worse.

You can get girls around your height. Why do you want someone like 5'6? Would you date 4'2?

@@arpit.sharma Yea and down syndrome girls want down syndrome boys. Oh wait they do not and never have.

4'9 here. And yes it sucks.

How tall is Danny devito?

You’re going too far, try being 5’5 lol

I think it's Reddit thing lol

I think the same for me. But I try to engage with positive stuff there lately

Most of subs of wheat waffle are kids who got no logics it's fictional sh!t in reality it's not what the creator of that channel and the kids think

Same with the aspergers subreddit, it can become a negative circlejerk full of doom and gloom sometimes.

Jix

This right here, how is it such a stretch of the mind to realize that women are people. Just as complex of a life for however many decades, same as anyone else. With terabytes of info in their brains and their own unique life experience, ideas, desires, fears, etm.

@@Hekinsieden online dating kind of objectivizes people, it's like selling a product. When I speak to women in person, I can bond with them like a human being.

Well its the thing, those are still really rough numbers for the real world. Top 20% of males still get basicly all the women, if you are anything less than that we can only find love if you are incredibly lucky and even so they will probably end up cheating or treating you badly becaus they would rather have somone who is better. Im not sure i want to be "settled for" And thats if im lucky. It's hard not to believe the black pill when i freaking live it every day.

@@thesaddestdude3575 just improve your looks as much as possible, and try approaching women/people in public to improve your social skills. I've seen way too many real life exceptions to the blackpill to the point that their conclusions fall flat to me. Wheatwaffles can probably give you good advice for improving, but that's about the extent of his usefulness imo.

The irony is that there's a disproportionate amount of men to women on all the dating apps and it's BECAUSE most women don't like a looks based approach to dating and need more than pictures to feel genuine attraction to men. Women on tinder don't represent the majority of women at all.

Your life can objectively suck and you can still find joy in small things.

Sure, but that doesn't do much for romantic relationships. My cousin is disfigured from terrible complications at birth, and he'll never find love because of it. That fucking sucks. He has to live life on extreme hard mode and it's not even due to his own actions, just shit luck. I'm not sure why people struggle to admit that some people are simply born unlucky.

⁠@@omnissiah7247yes, but most people are not born with those same physical disfigurements, and those people should not be the basis the generalization is based on

@@EloWhisperer It was not a generalization, just stating the simple fact that some people are dealt a shit hand. It's not doing anyone any favours to ignore and deny the existence of those people because the thought of them makes you uncomfortable.

@@omnissiah7247 I’ve seen people with severe disabilities and disfigurements find love, get married, have children… It might be statistically harder for him, but definitely not impassible

💯 There are so many aspects blackpill concerns, but normies only focus on the ones they feel are the weakest. They'll never dare touch on the importance of looks in careers.

@@j.d.s.1837 very true, the last job I got was only due to the fact that one of the females colleagues found me attractive.

@@j.d.s.1837 I didn't mean the looks blackpill, but like the existential blackpill, the economic, and reality blackpill

@@TricksterLawlet Is economic blackpill that poors can't get decent money? And what is existential and reality blackpill?

@@circleinfo probably something like anti-natalism, nihilism, „life is suffering“, „there is no (deeper) meaning to life“ etc.

did it ever begin in the first place?

@@creeperkingdom3190 how can it be over if it never began?

@@creeperkingdom3190 never began

What are these threads lmao.

Super OVA!😂😂😂😂

Fog chambel!

AKA people that love to smell their own farts 😂😂😂

4:53 thats so true... looking at my social circle. i work with athletes so i know a lot of "chads" and average people. most chads dont have kids, because they have soo many opportunities that a lot of them cant handle a serious relationship. its like they suffer from the "being beautiful curse" or something. in the other hand, most average guys already have kids when they are 30 or even younger. i think social media has a huge impact on this. because a chad wants to always be the "high value man" forever. and having kids and a wife, puts you out of the market inmediatly (at least if you are a decent person).

Indeed. I firmly believe that no one understands average young men, because they're the only ones who are having to struggle with dating women who grew up with social media and Tinder.

@@lightworker2956 Eh, I'm an average young man. I don't really "struggle" with dating. The key is to just avoid Tinder and other dating apps. I barely get any matches on there, yet I regularly find opportunities to date women. Out of the many issues in the world, this is an easily solvable problem. Just get off the fucking apps and meet people in real life. Most people are cool and are not out to get you.

not everybody uses tinder. those who uses tinder you would never met in pre tinder days anyway

That was a huge step you took, and I know I’m a random stranger on the internet, but I’m super proud of you! I’m so glad it helped you ❤

@@na3rial your reply is appreciated :)

Would go to a gym…if there were any queer and feminine welcoming ones

So happy for you! That’s a huge step ❤

@@Brandanmayhew only if you're tarded and think a few online trends reflect reality. get out the damn house and see for yourself.

RIP to your wife and son 🕊

Be strong brother, I can’t imagine your feelings but the universe knows you can handle it. I wish you peace and happiness❣️

I’m so sorry for your loss. That is hard to come back from.

That's a wild comment bro. Keep on keeping on.

Wow man, sounds like you’ve had it rough. Huge respect for soldiering through all of that, I could never

Amen to that. Tinder has a pretty strong reputation for being a hookup platform. You are way more likely to find people who are interested in friendship by joining local clubs.

what a way to twist the narrative to blame the dudes. The reality is girls want hot guys to have sex on tinder and/or validation. Nothing else. If you say you just want to be friends it hurts their ego and they get mad.

@@paulogaspar8295 I'm not trying to twist the narrative. My point is that tinder is a shit place to look for friends because most people on there (including many people--guys and girls--who say they're just there for friends) are there for hookups or dating. The genders used in my comment reflected the genders in the post

@@paulogaspar8295 Well, that's some mental gymnastics, if I've ever seen some.

I do agree

Not to mention AA and other 12-Steps are quite literally a cult/recruitment arm FOR cults, so..

its funny because the more evidence you get the more sense black pill makes

Jakejason is an incel

@@PartnershipsForYou ???

@@jakejason4333 evidence +based treatments. It is a specific form of therapies, and not what you think I meant but something you would no doubtedly benefit from.

Skill issue

How so?

It’s actually not a joke. Seeing attractive men living easy lives is suic fuel

​@@xtdycxtfuv9353 This is like refusing to ever go to the gym because you know you'll never compete with the beefcakes. That's not why you're going to the gym lol. You're going to the gym because it will make you feel better about yourself and improve your well-being and you'll grow as a person.

This is how you know you aren't cut for deluding yourself your entire life

:(

@@Verrisin why are you sad?

@@Moose92411 I did not turn physical fitness into an outlet for negative emotions. I just sit at my PC all day, not going outside, and when I try to exercise, it usually makes me feel awful, and I never want to do it again. - I'm not obese, but I sure am not fit, and lots oh health issues. Not too serious yet, but I can see the trajectory... I am also tired all the time, and have no willpower to improve anything. - and I have no idea what my outlet for negative emotions is, if I have any. I just focus on either intellectual stuff, or "fun" stuff, that is sufficiently attention capturing for me to ignore the awful reality around. (which, relative to others is probably not even that bad, but my brain interprets it as not worth living in)

@@Verrisin have you started really small? If you did ten pushups a day, or walked one mile a day, for a week, then moving to 11 or 1.25 miles, and holding yourself accountable along the way?

@@Moose92411 I don't like going outside, but I did daily exercises, for about 5 days. Then I got sick, so I stopped, and did not restart for a long time. - I tried a few times after, sometimes even smaller stuff than what you wrote... I just always gave up after 1-5 days. - It's what I said about willpower: Now and then I feel like I can do it ... but most days I dread getting up to go pee. 😕 - I definitely don't think I've ever managed to hold myself accountable. Giving up is easier. (I don't believe I will be successful anyway.)

@John Doe it is that simple

@@issac7787 ...not if can ´t find the exit ... or you have to unlock the door first

It's easy just touch grass right? 😂

@@issac7787 not for all just , some of these dude can't

@@issac7787 Going outside for some pointless lonely walk? Yeah, that's simple, at least as long as you're physically healthy enough to do so but it doesn't get you anywhere just the same as sitting at home.

the entire "blackpill" is coping par excellence

real. All I do is play cod all day, idgaf about my life anymore lmaoo

@@NBackTA I feel ya. I stay so blazed that everything is cool. I've made peace with my situation.

It never began.

Over for neverbegancels

Never began for me. I haven't talked to a real life woman since I was 14, and I'm 21 now.

@@somedudeontheinterwebs45 21 is very young, a lot changes in life with time, ESPECIALLY but not only if you work at it.. When I was 21 I was unemployed dropout living in my parents basement doing literally nothing but playing World of Warcraft. My entire 20's were a mess. I floundered for well over 10 years -- addiction, drugs, alcoholism, bad influences, etc. But I'm 34 now and all that's gone. Life changed. I got older. Circumstances changed. In the past 5 years I managed to pull myself together a little bit and even at 29 the improvement was well worth the effort. I own a condo, got a good job, got a few promotions, tried to be a little more social, picked up some hobbies. I'm still lonely, but I also still have hope even that can be improved. Life is a long time, and people age differently now. Almost no one is getting married at 23 and popping out 2.5 kids. Life progress has slowed down for a ton of people, don't let yourself believe this is permanent, that's a mistake. "Now always feels like forever, but it never is." -John Green

@@somedudeontheinterwebs45 brutal

lmao

CURRY COPING LOL. BUT ITS TRUE THOUGH.

That's not the blackpill, that's just life. Nothing's guaranteed. However, if you act like a loser, then failure IS guaranteed. Defeat is only defeat when you accept it.

Wisdom from Captain Picard!

Blackpill is absolute 💯

That isn't the black pill. The black pill is realizing that and using it as an excuse to pathetically give up in life.

How original. Jeez, sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't start a religion to milk you people. Sounds like a 2hours job.

And if you kept being negative and didn't do anything for yourself you only gonna bet in that shitty state people like you are in. Ffs work on yourself, go outside, go to the gym, go somewhere that relates to your hobbies and talk to people! You only shoot yourself in the foot by not trying. And you might respond saying 'well I've been doing all those things for x amount of time', then good keep doing it because your on the right path, it might take time but don't give up. Fuck the blackpill 🖕

you could be happy if you tried

​@@Heisenbinkspeople like you always talk about muh muh self improvement yet have shitty phisques

@@BlackpilledNihilist speak for yourself, what's the point in giving up? You should be fighting for it ffs!!

@@Heisenbinks No gym for you height and facial bone structure

But you can decrease the dosage💯, pills have dosages right?

@@florenceicu Yeah you can return to a fog of lies and deception. Blackpill doesn't make you positive and happy but blue/red pill makes you absoluetly miserable.

See thats the problem, the black pill tell you something extremely obvious people already know "you're not going to beliive this but looks matter you guys" and you mfs take it to the extreme, yall need to chill the fuck out

@@florenceicu You can't unlearn what you have already learned, you can of course try to avoid reality and facts to keep yourself ignorant in the future, but the question is why? Why purposefully deny seeking the truth knowing it will screw you over down the line? People amaze me. The phrase "toxic positivity" exists for a reason. When you try so hard to avoid reality in order to save your feelings from getting hurt only to get screwed over down the line due to your purposeful ignorance.

@@florenceicu Just don't be too optimistic to the point where it leads to delusion.

The idea of "be yourself" is to get rejected. You WANT to be rejected by people who don't like you. If you're not yourself, the people you end up with will like someone who is not you. And you shouldn't even WANT to be with someone who doesn't even like who you are. It's saying: "Stop trying to make women like you and start looking for a woman who likes you." I feel like this is pretty obvious if you think about it for a minute.

​@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoatThe only time I ever got any attention from women, I was pretending to be somebody else. They don't like "myself", myself sits on his lazy ass playing videogames all day

What’s missing from that saying is “best”. “Be your best self”. I mean you wouldn’t want to be with a girl who watches kdrama (or whatever vice that you’re not into)10 hours a day, right?

@@CK-lt6jlThis is a very bright way of putting it well done.

Women don't care about looks as much as men do. If a guy is a pleasant person to be around he is more than likely to be successful in dating as long as he puts in proper effort.

@Spots Corner bullshit

@@spotscorner6040 "You'd be an Incel if you weren't hot " most out of pocket blackpill thing I have ever heard lmao. You know for sure you are attractive after that.

Jay A Black Pill A Day Keeps Delusions Away.

​@@1ledluverjlp A Black Pill A Day Keeps Delusions Away.

Oh, you’re meaning to tell me that if you have nothing to offer you’ll also get nothing in return.

@@hoop6988 So money is all a guy can offer? lmao

He can’t admit the blackpill is correct, because therapy teaches people cope and gives false hope. He would lose his profession that way

His video isn’t serving to refute wheatwaffles or whatever. I agree with you, many channels have evidence, but I don’t think the point of his channel is to do that; it’s to respond to an overarching zeitgeist by giving advice and perspective. Wheatwaffles May have valid points, but Dr. K seems to rather address the ideas of dating

There are a lot of evidences that earth is flat. And what? You don’t understand Dr.K point of view. It’s not about some channels. It’s about psychology of traumatic experience and echo-chambers. Which don’t allow you see the world.

@@avztralopitec lol no there’s not evidence for that. I think is useless to try a psychological approach to disprove an evolutionary phenomena.

Flat-earthers also present "evidence" for their beliefs. Does that mean the earth is flat??

No no women don’t like ugly men

Same. Totally invisible to women. Maybe we should start gofundmes for leg lengthening surgery

im 158 cm. thats 5'1? or around that. i have wife. stop being ass and improve yourself.

@@QWERTY-gp8fdlmao I could practice sprinting everyday for 10 years but it won’t make me as fast as Usain Bolt.

u dont need to be usain bolt to be in relationship

Yes, exactly! Dating sites is like window shopping. We're just looking and trying stuff to see what works and what needs improvement. Real relationships is like investing in a portfolio and you can't do that easily online when it comes to a person because you miss out on so much. To go back to the smells analogy, a shampoo might look nice online but until you are in contact, it may not smell so nice. Smell, taste, feel, touch and hear. We experience someone as well as our reality with all of our available senses.

Online dating is the new norm. Back in highschool *ALL* girls in my graduation class had Tinder and were swiping left on 99% of guys. Most had 20 year old 6'7 Gigachad mogger boyfriends. Saying blackpill is wrong is literally lying.

@@j.d.s.1837 Yes of course,the online dating is the new norm of sexual mating,only blue pillers are desilusional to tell the opposite.

@@j.d.s.1837 explain to me how ALL girls manage to end up with the 0.5% of guys that are 6'7? just because youre a loser doesn't mean you have to drag everyone down with you, most people find a partner, go touch some grass

@@j.d.s.1837 what i don't get about black pill is, even if it's not wrong, why give a crap? Like, do you really need to be in a relationship/laid to live a fulfilling life?

How long were you sick with Mono?

@@plesiosaurmilk Still sick with Chronic Ebstein Barr Virus (the virus that causes mono). Basically, I get what feels like a flu (but is mono) every month for about a weekend or so and am constantly feeling like I'm about to get sick/have recently been sick. As for my first bout of it, I think I was sick with full bed-ridden symptoms for about 2 months

I'm glad you made a post - I relate to you a bit as I recently had lung surgery due to a recurring collapsed lung and there's a chance this nasty disease will continue to be a problem in the future leading to more scary moments. I'm trying to come to a point where I can only do so much research and safe precautions (often too safe for the average person I think) without sacrificing the quality of life or life that I'm trying to protect. Maybe my ability to work and live without anxiety day-to-day outweighs some of that but it's hard to do esp. with COVID and being in a time where the only certain thing is more uncertainty

Dude, just stop coping and accept the reality :D

Why would it? Dr K would say yup it is a meat platter and people will take advantage of it as much as they get away with. Hed then say if you don’t have success on there then get off there. Simple as that.

Unfortunately I disagree, W.w doesn't have the mental capacity to see that he could be wrong. It's best to not engage

It’s another load of bullshit you can obviously work on yourself and mindset but you can’t force attraction to women if they don’t find you attractive because of your face or height for instance

DR k is talking so much non sense his explanations are not even proven by empirical data while Blackpillers have a ton of evidence. Watch women behavior if you want the answer, most women are lovely when they find you attractive. It’s another load of bullshit you can obviously work on yourself and mindset but you can’t force attraction to women if they don’t find you attractive because of your face or height for instance.

@@issac7787 this is objectively false as he has taken accountability multiple times lol

It's like un-doing the universe.

“I went from negative thinking to positive thinking. I’m not blackpilled anymore and am doing much better in life yaaaaay” What fking bp are they talking about

@@Mew2Win probably British Petroleum

@@Mew2Win They probably meant sadness or despair, but not an actual ideology. One thing is to have a good mood, another thing is to recognize that odds are stacked against you and there is nothing you can do to fix rigged situation. Normies have a misconception that blackpill is an ideology based on mood. But actually mood is the result of reality as perceived by ideology.

@@romkobomko3200 that’s why it’s so hard to bp them. That’s the paradox. How can we solve it?

@Stephen Kizlik looks matter, it's just how it is

Not everything. It wont affect your life unless u are too unattractive or very good looking

​@@ReadmyBiooguess I've never lived in a body of truly ugly person, that's fate worse than death

Same herwme but now I'm on Cloud 9.

nah dude hope you get a better view in life if black pill doesn't make you enjoy living

@@noramos4848 denial is the first stage to acceptance

🤓🤓🤓🤓

Explain how giving up hope in yourself helps you.

​@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat It's not giving up hope in yourself, its accepting your circumstances in life and not allowing your unmet desires to conquer your sanity. You are okay whether you get something you want or not because you have in-built stoicism and self sufficiency

yeah but what does he have to do with the blackpill? WW is a redpill coper lol

@@SB-nh7uv If you define black pill as a strict ideology then yes he is not black pilled. I am not either but I subscribe to many beliefs that are black pilled to most people. I get downvoted on Reddit no matter how logical and balanced I present the views bc most of society is profoundly delusional when it comes to why certain men get certain women. I had a guy literally tell me women get sexually aroused by money, these guys are living in fantasy land. A rich lesbian could pay a straight woman to be with her, doesn’t mean she’s attracted. Even Wheat I would argue is wrong about Tinder. Once you understand how Tinder works in that the reason most guys get few likes is just bc women aren’t seeing their profile+bad photos there’s no reason to think someone who didn’t give you the right swipe on Tinder is gonna say yes in person 99.99% of the time. There’s variation in the beliefs we hold about this stuff but we all share the impact of looks, predetermined limitations, and how hard it really is for most men to be successful with women. Which most of society doesn’t understand. They think an average guy who does x y and z could rack up a high body count if he wanted when in reality he’s lucky to reach 5 looksmatched women let alone above

Qoves Studio is the biggest blackpill channel

The truth always comes to light. This was inevitable

Dude is BANKING

i know what you mean. how are you doing?

@@Couscous77 im only saying that ugly people tend to be less confident when talking to girls due to their look is kinda an insecuritie in a lot of cases, im not saying that its the best confidence

@@Couscous77 nope, being good looking is important for your confidence since you receive nothing but positive reinforcement, which makes you feel belong.

What really is Black pill Matt? Can you explain

they will never stop selling hopes and dreams

Based YTremz comments

20 mins in hearing some good points not enough to debunk anything

​@@criticaledition9199What part do you disagree with?

The Black Pill is BS for sure, because I see plenty of attractive women with ugly men and I'm like, "How?"

@@aliasno.4andover644 Intelligence, Charisma, Ideology, Wealth, Physique, none of which are genetical. etc.etc.etc. if you look for women in Tinder, sure they will only look for good looking people because that's literally all you get, sure there is bio but usually it's just a way to look for a fuckbuddy. Wrong place to look for a woman if you're not attractive in facial features.

​@@aliasno.4andover644 It's not complete BS. It's more of a massive overreaction to the "Blue Pill" that we hear ever since we're kids of "looks don't matter". Of course they matter. They matter so much that BABIES are actually friendlier to good looking people (look it up, it's true). Good looking people are liked more even if they behave horribly (halo effect) and treated better at work, in day to day life etc. But... you can improve your looks. As a man, number one thing is get swole. Find a haircut that fits you. Get stylish. Smell good. You can go from a 5 to an 8 in like a year. Most guys who fall for the black pill aren't even ugly, they're average or just fat. Sure, if you're horribly disfigured like the elephant man then it might actually be hopeless but you're not so stop complaining, fix your mindset and get in the gym.

Exactly

From my personal experience it has to do with being hurt and failing over and over and over again. Of course negativity is going to take over the mind at some point. Right?

completely useless vid that barely scratches the lookism mentioned in the post

​@@3n3j0t4 Exactly. The whole discussion is about mentality, personality, etc. when really mentality doesn't matter if you are so ugly, that you cannot get girls to talk with you in the first place.

@@j.d.s.8132 everyone can be a 7/10 with work and dedication. looks dont help you with holding relationships, improving your mentality and becoming someone you would see yourself dating helps 100x more than being a blank slate personality wise and looking like a model. all you end up getting as a attractive person is fwb's and shallow hook ups on tinder.

@@Modi_😂 COPE

Thank you!

Thank you bro, I thought my browser was bugged or something

Not dead for me??

@@Vivivofi, he fixed it later.

@@seriouscat2231 bro it’s been 8 month wtf

@@Tocinos the internet and videos have facts you can verify whether you and I like it or not.

My boyfriend and i did meet over the internet, but we didn't even see each other's face for the first year or so because it really didn't matter whatsoever :) we fell in love over each other's personalities, our connection etc., which (btw) is how true love, opposed to a stupid superficial crush, actually works. We saw each other's faces for the first time probably half a year after we started falling in love with each other. We met on an art/anime community online and talked about politics, anime etc. Looks don't matter to everyone. I'm 20, he's 18. So... "Young people" (and what's frankly very disrespectful and hurtful, "women") aren't like that, you just choose to believe that. Probably because you got hurt and find it easier to give into being hopeless, which is your choice. It's a real waste, but it's your choice. What's not fair though is going around and spreading lies about this stuff, because that affects other people negatively, like for example me. It's insulting. I'm not that simple-minded. And you're spreading these lies about me, about many other people who try being good people, good gf's/bfs etc.

@@Tocinos you're using the internet too chief.

1/3 of men aren't virgins, a single study found 1/3 of men under 30 didn't have sex for a year big difference

Bro, the internet =/= real life Blue/Red/Black pills are the stupidest things ever, real life is way more complex than what a "Sigma male" on 4chan with no life experiences say

The truth can destroy some people

​@@ponternal A Black Pill A Day Keeps Delusions Away.

​@@AbuBased731 A Black Pill A Day Keeps Delusions Away.

Keep telling yourself that

The video isn't about dating he almost completely avoided that topic. t's about how negative feedback cycles affect your brain and how to break out of them.

JFL

This self proclaimed expert on women relationships is probably grateful that she allows him having intimacy once in a year at his birthday, jfl

There are dogs with more experience at human women than him😂. Dogpill is brutal.

@@user-xc7vk6bt3fa hand job for being a good boy and providing

You have to realise there's is no problem for people not liking you because of your looks ..I am sure you too haven't liked someone because of their looks without even realising

Ya me too i totally love it I don't use insta but I am quite social love painting and chess, an also I am kind of aiming for psychiatry..not sure it in 5th year of ug but let's see

None,he is just mumbling nonsense like every other video of his

that's all we ask for really. the facts bit they can never give it.

@@Tocinos I hope you're trolling cause if your serious, that's some real mental illness sh*t right here

@@Tocinos says the guys giving tutorials for glitches in Skateboard games 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Grow up, man!

@@Tocinos youtube is one big kid and you can't swear anymore or you're comment will be hidden. But yeah seek therapy

true

you're moving the goalposts

@@stickmouse5002 How so. Park is a bad sample size. Looking at the park is not scientific. And, when I look at parks, I see obese women with decent men.

@@AkiRa22084 there is no missing data in the park example. there are handsome and ugly men with handsome and ugly women. it doesn't matter who's lonely and who's divorced because the whole point of the black pill is that your success in dating is entirely dependent on your looks. Also you're just seeing what you want to see when you go to the park

@@stickmouse5002 Then it's not a study of any use. You can easily say that any exceptions you see prove the rule. BP is talking about trends anyway, they don't say it's impossible. Small sample size is useless in this discussion. "you're just seeing what you want to see" - But we can say the same thing for HG, too. How do you not realize this?

its untrue BS. Men care more about looks than women. The black pill is a group of incels that have a horrible worldview and are extremely insecure so they take it out on women.

@@Pickle2222 na, women care more about looks.

Look. You can break down the path to recovery, take each step in isolation and say "just do this or that", thereby implying it's impossible to do that thing. Like "sure, doc, if I could, I *would* just do it but obviously I can't". That'll get you nowhere. The question is: why do you adopt this "can't" attitude? And why do you need to feign incompetence to people?

@@Dimitris_Half so does getting a gf

"Just stop being a doomer bro"

Touch Grass bro

​@@shrekdonkey9027 "Just Keep Right On Allowing The Normies and Such To Be DelusionMaxxers For Life Bro"

Lol Based

True

You realize Santa was real and it was just your dad going to Walmart, right? It's a great analogy honestly. Because you think this is some impossible magic after becoming fixated on a comforting narrative that blinds you to what is in reality a pretty straightforward situation that you could definitely navigate yourself if you got past the narrative fixation.

Or like believing in god again

@@MetalHopper I dunno about that one. I've been an atheist for 20 years and god is starting to look real good.

Took the words right from my keyboard.

but less attractive people really do have children, and can end up in happy marriages...

@@fireflyredux3373 black pill arguments aren't entirely false, but if you fixate on them, they become your entire narrative and it doesn't leave you with motivation to try and go beyond them...

@@oroderes If you consider black pill arguments to be false its because you have someone trying to sell you his online course on how to be a sigma male. All the black pill ever did was describe- accurately mind you- plainly and exactly how short-term relationships are becoming far more the norm than long term relationships and how that effects the male attractiveness bell curve. What you do with that information (Your actions + "motivation" as you put it) is entirely up to you and not the purview of the black pill. Which is exactly what OP said. It's giving you the cold hard truth of the matter, nothing more, nothing less. If you can't figure out what "descriptive" vs "prescriptive" is, that's on you. If you think you can outperform the black pill with self-help books and cardio your sadly mistaken and will probably spend the rest of your life labeled as a "creep" by women. (That's for 3's and below on the female Short Term dating market, aka 85-92% of all sexual relationships atp) And to answer your question, yes, ugly people date ugly people and get married. Talk to any ugly guy whos currently or used to put himself out there (I was one till I got mass and cleared my acne, look at that, a direct source!) and he'll tell you that not even the ugly women wanted him. His DM's weren't dull, they we're nonexistent.

@@oroderes Oofy doofy does exist...

You cannot "un - take" human nature.

@@j.d.s.8132 You can choose to simply not believe it and stick yer head in the sand while coping :D very common, yet barely effective lel

truth ^ most blackpillers went thru the redpill phase who ru to tell others what theyve been thru

Exactly

He can't, and nobody can. All they can do from that point is lie gaslight us.

@@saltator8565 I’m sorry, but what make you any different than anyone else who has been rejected and had to dust themselves off and keep trying (I.e. literally everyone) Why is your outrage about how YOU feel physically judged so justified when so many of you live on forums that talk sht about ugly women? I’m going to give you a piece of advice that Dr K is far too nice to give - your looks aren’t the problem, your ugly attitude is. No woman is going to put up with a guy who behaves like an emotionally underdeveloped, entitled sex pest who is obsessed with nothing but looks and has nothing but complaining to offer. You aren’t a victim, you’re no different than anyone else.

@@BoringTroublemaker Certified Teeheee momento

You cannot escape the blackpill if you are ugly, short or mentally my friend. I am a combination of all three, hopefully you are not.

@Richaroo that's not escaping the blackpill but solid advice nevertheless

@Richaroo There's definitely a degree of truth to the black pill, but saying getting a job is completely dependent on your attractiveness is a ridiculously massive overstatement. With the right skills, you can do contract work from your chair, online, without having your face published. And irl, minimum wage jobs don't give a crap how you look. They'll take just about anyone. Especially with the labor shortage. And for a final counterexample: Asmongold. He goes weeks at a time without showering and has a room littered with trash and is a huge twitch streamer.

@Richaroo nothing can you make you taller or attractive, no matter how much you lift. Self improvement is important, but it isn't gonna save you. To me, the only thing I'm aiming for is money, it's the best cope I have. I just want to live financially stable.

@Richaroo GYM six times? Bruh…

always collects. you can run away from the blackpill but the blackpill will find where you live.

@@--Traveler-- U guys are hilarious😂

@@--Traveler-- Dont be free agent in life. Let the blackpill guide you

@@Vorock16 The second sentence explains how that point turns into a self-fulfilling ideology in some corners of the internet.

Yeah, its easy to blame the state of the world rather than remembering you exist in that world and have influence in it too. It might bring shame, but you have to forgive yourself for your inaction

That is literally not true, most in//cels have tried dating in real life BEFORE they came to the community. And most just had the normie experience of being rejected by everyone, before reading any comment or viewing any video.

@@j.d.s.1837 i actually completely agree with take as well. I think there are people on both sides.

@@x80HDx Man most of these folks forget that they are too part of the reason why they have issues with dating. Most of these "pillers" hate themselves or have mental illnesses/disabilities. Those things alone can play a part to why they consume these pill theories. Mental health, self reflection, and self awareness is the key!

red pill is the truth the black pill people thinks looks are all genetics they aren't tho you can go from a 4 to a 9 with hitting the gym and looks maxing

@@thetruthisright6750 you go king keep grinding till you rich your peak at 70. Also buy my tactical soap it will make you an alpha and get you more women trust me bro

@@AEH-df7ho Becoming a sugar daddy at 70 is still preferable to wallowing in self pity your whole life. The best course of action is to acknowledge the black pill, and then do all you can to better your situation.

@@alwaysright3943 I only responded that way to his comment because he said that gym will boost you from 4 to 9. Also I think that picking between being sugar daddy at 70 and wallowing in self-pity is like picking between dying of cancer or dying of lungs failure. In my country men's life expectancy rate is less than 70 lmao what sugar daddy thing are you talking about, you'll be lucky if you are still walking with your two legs by this time 😂

@@AEH-df7ho Suit yourself. Self pity can be quite addictive and some people are just beyond help.

Lol

The entire video is void of substance

Did you shower? Drink water? Just be confident bro!

@@Dimitris_Half Any advice for a high value man like me who does all these things and is still struggling?!!!?

@@ralphwilsin Here's a another solution, DETOX from social media. Take some time off the internet and live your truth. Delete or log of all your accounts on the internet Because 90% of social media just like TV is CAP. Some of info in these cult like spaces on here are to some extent are lies mixed in with true.

@@shealovealicia1017 I LOVE TV!!!

@@ralphwilsin lolz😄 well ok....you can love those things just minimize your time with them and live your life. Good luck.

@@Keroloth92 not much more than 50 percent of women cares about height in real life. And if you are not above average in looks, just try to know women at your university, work, hobby, etc., mainly the ones who aren't on dating apps or insta (with a little practice it can be said in large percentage from a girl at first sight).

Very specific and hand picked data...

Even if black pill ideology was 100% true it still doesn't make any sense to give up. Your chances are absolutely zero in that case.

@Nei982 I would think it depends on the person. I wouldn't tell anybody to give up completely, but realistically, if you are very physically unattractive then it might be best not to obsess over relationships and try to move on and find fulfilment in other way's. Would you tell a 5 foot tall guy to pursue his dream of becoming a professional basketball player to the expense of other career's? Or would you tell him to accept reality? I think it can be dangerous for guy's to NOT be blackpilled. There is value in having this knowledge. So many guy's are clueless.

@@MR-el2ym Except, the evidence for the blackpill and the wider in//cel community is based entirely on IG, TikTok, Snap, and YT. And its whole basis for someone’s ability to get in the door with a woman is based on online dating. There is no empirical peer reviewed study that supports the ideology of the in//cel community. If you can provide me one please tell me

@WAAAAAA!!! MY CHIIIIIINNNNNN!!! Cope

Could you go into specifics? I'm 90% you just improved your looks/confidence which you can do without the blackpill anyway

@@Nei982 blackpill shows you lookism and how the female nature favors good looking guys. Blackpill knowledge is useful

​@@Nei982 Well, kind of. I did lose a lot of weight. But until I found the blac kpill I was convinced that I was just a loser and that losing weight wouldnt matter anyways, I was always told that looks arent important and that I should focus on improving my personality. I was suicidal and didnt want to live. After learning about the bp it gave me some hope that its not over so I lost the weight and I magically went from being an incel to girls literally trying to initiate flirting with me. All these years I had an attractive face hiding behind the fat and I didnt even know it.

@@loudseik9997 Real, nice job mate am proud of you !

@@loudseik9997 thats not the blackpill thats just self improvement most blackpillers believe that ur genetics are what makes u unlovable

I'm starting to believe it more and more

Brutal man, friend group maxxing is the only way for you cause looks matter less there. Don’t even bother with tinder if it’s going that badly

Dude ive been single 5 years went through some heavy stuff that burried me, my child got injured im a single dad so had to. It wiped my great paying job and all my money and i was doing good before lived good had plenty of savings. Anyways the event rocked me im unemployed broke and ive just felt like a loser lately, i do zilch except raise my kid. Dont see friends for 2-3 years only people ive talked to were 6 year olds the past couple years for real. my heads been down all the time in a dark place. couldnt think of dating or being wanted in this state, i wasnt even looking i have no value right now. Then out front doing whatever the neighbour girl walks up and introduce herself, shes been my neighbour for 2-3 years, lol. Our doors are ten feet apart.not once have i ever looked at her at all. She has even said hi before my head down im like ya whatever hi back, dont even look. So she introduce herself again kinda went out of her way, i was stunned shes hot, i didnt even tell her my name back, lol. I blew it whatever. so our kids play once and she gives her number. Blow the texts too is she flirting nah dont believe it, i lightly try to flirt back a bit, text back a bit to long, damn blew that too. Shes throwing signals its over my head im oblivious to it nah shes just being nice, im a loser right now im unemployed broke damn. But then i start crushing on her a bit beating myself up nightly like heartache for a girl i dont even know really. I dont even leave my house, how this neighbour find me this is all in my head. Were both shy its painful but damn i kinda think she throwing it out there and pretty much asked me out for dinner. and I still blew that somehow. every text im like oh god i blew it again, say too much, overly nice, its amazing how badly i did and still am doing. Well heres it is. we got a date lined up, we seem to really like each other. But im being real with myself and it will probably go no where and ill be crushed after. Anyways the moral and point of the story is, it always comes when you LEAST expect it. And eventually a tiny bit of light comes that can bring you out of the darkness.

I'm sorry man. Yeah, dating is absolutely brutal for men: - 60% of young men are single - women only go for the top 5% on tinder - women rate 80% of men as "below average" That's what the research says, as much as people don't want to hear these things. I think most of the anti-black-pill messaging comes from: - people just emotionally not liking it - those people who are in a happy relationship living in such a completely different world that they can't wrap their heard around the perspective of a man who genuinely can't find a date. If I was the type of man who relatively easily found a girlfriend and now I'm happily married, then yeah I'd also be inclined to think "just clean yourself up a bit and go date." - and the belief that "black pill is harmful, telling men to improve and go date is helpful" but... is it? Obviously in some cases yes, in some cases no because it's just more societal gaslighting. I'm getting a bit sick of this attitude of "we can't tell the dumb masses the facts, instead we must tell them what motivates them to keep running in their hamster wheel, and what stops them from forming so-called bad opinions." Honestly, I think the black pill position is a bit like the "working hard isn't worth it under late-stage capitalism" crowd. In both cases there are people who want to tell them "just work harder and you'll succeed", and certainly individuals can succeed just by working harder... however most won't. That's just the cold statistics. Most people don't fall outside the norm, by definition.

for an increasing amount of us it is truly over but these copers and gaslighters will never admit that

dating apps won't work for you if you're below 6ft. also depending on your ethnicity you will not have success if you're not white or black

It's the survivorship bias.

Looking good is hard and takes hard work. That makes it a GOOD measure of romantic suitability. Why would this be a depressing idea? Yes there's some people that get a head start. But once you're in your 30s, or even late 20s, there's no way to keep it up without massive amount of work, discipline, and asthetic talent. Attractiveness is not just a shallow measure of a person. It correlates (not perfectly) with long-term mindset. You might be beautiful on the inside. If you are, show it. Find clothing that looks good on you. Experiment with cheap jewlery/accessories. Take care of your health, by eating well and caring about yourself. Demonstrate the ability to love yourself by showering regularly, wearing deoderant, and brushing your teeth. Give your body the exercise it needs to live a long life. Live optimistically about the future and your presence in it, and these behaviors will come easily, without effort. If you do those things, you'll be attractive. It's that simple. It might take time to dig out of the hole, but its simply a question of persistence. There is nothing stopping pretty much anyone from doing these things. (The best part? Do these things and you'll be living a great life, maybe to the point where being single will stop being such a burden) If you can't do these things, it says a LOT about what is going on inside you. And honestly, why shouldn't people use physical appearance then as a shortcut measure of romantic suitability?

@@anthonyskrzypczak9437 This is so facts, couldn't have said it better. If someone can't at least portray themselves in a confident and attractive way, I think it says a lot about their romantic suitability. Not everything, but when relationships require time, effort, and emotional investment, of course people will weigh their options with extreme scrutiny. I find that people that consider attractiveness to be a shallow measure, are typically unhappy with themselves.

@@anthonyskrzypczak9437 um non of this is going to make you taller or change your facial structure the most important looks factors can bearly be changed no matter how much effort you put in minus surgery which had tge possibilities of making things worse

@@anthonyskrzypczak9437 "looking good is hard"? Looking good is mostly genetics and not being fat.

@@PrincessMeganLeigh statistically speaking physical attraction is the biggest determinor or relationship access and success. look up the study "stated preferences vs what actually lead to relationships in speed dating trials" ot show that while ladies say they care about intelligence and personality those things did not actually predict dating success looks did about the same amount for both men and ladies. so in other words it's not that men cant conceptualize attraction that isn't physically its that men are honest.

@WAAAAAA!!! MY CHIIIIIINNNNNN!!! Got nothin to prove, big dawg.

As someone who has also blackpilled himself. Its even more obvious because you experience it with yourself. You live 2 different worlds. Look up cameron herrin bald. Assuming you know who that is, I rest my case

@@BlackpillObeah Whole different world. I always been an introvert. Anxiety seemed to paralyzed me when i would talk to people, my friends always told me "you need confidence bro" (even though they're social normies yet they barely can pull a sub5 girl). After losing weight (i just stayed at home most of the time), i started going to the gym and the first day i was hit on by 2 girls... after the first "romantic" contact with a girl, i just felt that "confidence boost", that a girl obsessing over you gives you... Of course you have "confidence" when most girls turn their heads too see you, they stare at you and blush when you look at them. The moment you look a girl in the eyes and smile and she blushes and can't control her happiness, you know that k*tty is already 90% yours... there are not mixed signals

Based

@@blackpilledchad1927 Is it really tho?

Good point. Every time I start to fall into any of these terminally online beliefs like lookism, Black Pill, etc., I just go to my local Walmart and witness people of all shapes, sizes, and appearances paired up and seemingly content.

nihilism is not realism.

@@flangeinspector9959 and then you wake up. And realise that there are other factors. I.e. that 4/10 man with 8/10 woman. She leads the relationship. She has the final word. He pays for everything. In particularly bad cases, it's an "open relationship" (for her). Because she made a compromise and must gain something for it. Simple human nature.

Self destruction isn't "reality"

​@@AEH-df7ho so engage with a 4/10 and you'll be happy

You are talking to a wall. They pick some young aged doomers (like waffles) and present them as the majority of cels. Even now, that red pillers are turning black and many people completly accept and use bp terms from the celwiki themselves, now. Just ask the creator of this clip.: What would be needed in order to prove common bp knowledge? How many more statistics and how many more million experiences do you need? I find it funny, that people ask this guy about that topic. JFL. Imagine him going out and asking girls out. Holy mother Macree... Then after he got rejected by every single girl, that doesn't know about his internet fame, he walks back into his room. Sits on his chair and tells you, that it is all bs. The bp is not true at all 🤣

@@spliffrotation7238 No lower your standards get a job and be a step dad

@@fifiadan lmao, lower your standards doesn't do anything.

You sound like a robot

@@timothywade9618 Yes Yes Yes you don’t have a choice, loneliness is one of the biggest factors for unhappiness and decrease of life expectancy you have a biological and survival based imperative to get out there denying it will only hurt in the long run

DR k is talking so much non sense his explanations are not even proven by empirical data while Blackpillers have a ton of evidence. Watch women behavior if you want the answer, most women are lovely when they find you attractive. It’s another load of bullshit you can obviously work on yourself and mindset but you can’t force attraction to women if they don’t find you attractive because of your face or height for instance.