“Those who are heartless once cared too much.” -Capt Davy Jones

Shaggy is becoming dangerously based

This is actually accurate af. The ones who love the hardest, are also the ones that are the most deeply destroyed when that love is no longer enough for the one they'd give the world to.

Director: Hey ummm none of that is in the script bro, you ok? 😂

Nah brah, my man forgot he was acting and was speaking from the heart.

The way his voice shakes when he says the word "crushed" shows that he really means all of this. It's beautiful

In 2017 I had my heart ripped out by a girl I loved since 1st grade. We dated for 5 years. I’m 28 now and have dated my share of women in my life and never even think of that one girl anymore. But I’ll tell you this, it turned me stone cold and I’ve never opened my heart up towards anybody like that ever since. And all the women that have came and gone since, had zero effect on me.

This man just nailed it completely! Makes the boy in me cry

Shaggy after Velma didnt give him a scooby snack once:

So who hurt my man shaggy for him to know these things

Man! Those words came straight up from his heart. Love isn't always fair but God damn is the the most beautiful painful thing.. stay strong my kings 👑

I'm a woman and my heart got crushed so many times by boys or men. I'm somehow very trusting and I give my all when I fall in love. But time and time again I was not only disappointed, but crushed by how cruel men can be! I did not become a player. I became depressed. But I still had hope and one day I met my husband. It's still sometimes a struggle, because I fear that somehow he doesn't love me as much and will destroy my heart again. Men and women can be cruel. The kind hearted get hurt. But that's no reason to become a player and hurt other women!

When u were a child u were always on the heroes side but now that u grew up u understand the villains

from his eyes, we know he aint acting this one. that came from deep inside 💔

"Cause you never get over it" "God no, you never get over it, you recover but you never get over it"

Bro Mathew Lilard is a Chad and deserves more recognition

all my guys in their 30’s right now can feel this, couldn’t understand it in the teens and twenties but feel it now

As an ex-romantic I can confirm this

Andrew Tate said it , losing a child is much worse than losing a parent. women sees men as providers , protectors and leaders , while men sees women as somebody we take care of , protect and guide. It hits men much harder. We are not the same.

feels good to know i’m not alone. feels bad to know i’m not alone

The greatest, kindest guys I knew growing up became players for exactly these reasons.

lost a close friend to a women he fell inlove with in highschool. after almost a yr she broke up with him with a note that said " we cant be together anymore, my friends dared me to date you as a joke and i took the dare, i took it to far and im sorry". 3 days later his parents found him with a bullet in his head

I’m a girl and I used to be a serial monogamist and gave it my all … my loyalty got used against me and I turned into the complete opposite where I wanted to hurt guys and play with their emotions. I realize that’s not helping anyone.. if you’re reading this and you feel like you lost that part of yourself just don’t hurt other people work on yourself become the best version of yourself and you will attract that. Stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined.

This is actually an interesting take. And it shows that guys need to take care of themselves and that we need to support each other. Care of each other. And especially take care of each other's mental health.

Women don’t understand how much they play with our hearts, they treat it as a game because they have so many options and they don’t feel bad until it’s too late

Like zoinks, scoob. She broke my heart, man.

Wow, the passion in his voice leaving me all woozy

I mean I just recently went through a breakup where I did nothing wrong only trying to help and love the woman and just out of nowhere she called me and told me its over and my heart just shattered, I cried for days and i still cry every day, and now I cant trust any woman nor love any woman ever again I want to hurt every woman because to me they all are the same. Its tough to be heartbroken when you truly love someone and you were willing to give everything to that woman

I can feel that the actor can relate to these lines... He spoke with his soul

Did you hear his voice crack when he said about getting cheated on or laughed at??? See his eyes tear up? This was not acting, this was personal truth, noone else in that room expected this! This got personal and real, authentic!!! What a performance sir!

Being a Man is rough af. Woman and children are loved unconditionally, but Men we are only loved when conditions are perfect or ideal or when its convient.

This is what I use to cry 😭 To force out the tears 😭

2years ago I got my heartbroken...and ever since then, I've been at it at the gym working hard and focusing on myself and I had watched this video(not this clip) sometime back and it motivated and pushed me even more, and now rewatching this made me realise how far I've come...and yet it still hits home for me...and so now...now its back to work.

Everyone talking about him being shaggy forgetting he’s one of the og killers in scream

I feel like this reflects on our society a lot today and makes a good point. We're good, but after enough times, the heartbreaks change us

This is spot on! I will never allow this to happen again. I PROMISE YOU THAT!

Crazy how we all identify with this. We can all think of her and how we were happy and then how she also changed us for the rest of our lives.

Turns out Velma wasn’t the sweet shy girl we thought she was 😢💔

I feel this. I realized i started doing it and decided to go celibate. I don't want to hurt others like I've been hurt.

This is a beautiful thing. Men can be worth it, we evolve, and we are always trying to better ourselves. We always make the sacrifices that no one sees. Sadly, women just want the “lifestyle”, and break the men that are worth the world, but won’t give the time to see the real man they are with.

I can't even laugh at this cause it's my life

This hurts me far more than I care to admit.

Betrayal..by definition, can not come from someone you don't know, trust, and/or love. You can literally die of heartbreak. Value yourselves, Kings. You are worthy of love. You deserve to have happiness. The love of a good woman, will change your life. But..the sting of a woman you thought was good..can make the world cave in around you. Stay vigilant, trust carefully, and fucking CRY! if you need to. We are human. Men DO have feelings, it's normal to need to process things. Somehow, it's become taboo to talk about your feelings as a man. I get it..but there's a time and place for stoicism and emotions. Be the best you, and find yourself, first. The rest will happen, so much easier. 👑 Here's one on me, free of charge. You lost it when that girl broke you. When that boss fired you. When YOU second guessed yourself, and your value. Carry on, King. Welcome back, you'll make YOU proud, this time.

Yup, told myself I would never let it happen again and now I treat em like goldfish, always keep 3-4 and replace em as needed, never giving any one girl that much power again.

"the little boy in men weeps for the monster you created"

Matthew Lillard: putting his all into his performance Everyone: SHAGGY!

If you were broken, dont break others. Heal, break the cycle.

That's how humans are. Some are inherently born this way which started this domino effect. Players, criminals, it takes an ironclad will to go through all that and still stay moral. Ask what was done and said to them when they flipped and I guarantee they can tell you.

If they made a movie about the average man’s life we’d all get depression after watching it

Man Matthew Lillard is so underrated cuz this scene was awesome and so true🥺

I gave it all, all to the one woman in my life upto this point who looked at me with such compassion, so much compassion, and said I love you. Seven months later through utter hell for is both, and she decided to break it off due to mental health. Guess I wasn't worth struggling for... And here I am..😔

Shout out to all those who can relate. Keep ya head up

My late grandfather had a saying and told it to me when I was a kid. He said I'll tell you this now but I hope there won't be the time you'll remember it. The saying is : " What a woman can do from a hop, the devil can't from sprint". Unfortunately I can't forget it last few years.

Fuck man that hits way too hard. Like I don’t even have any words. I’m speechless. Just … yeah, you’re right. You’re 100% right.

It's hurts deep inside your heart when your in a relationship and the one who you put so much time into so much effort so much energy into suddenly leaves you and your stuck shackled by thoughts of torment wondering why ,how could this happen,and worst of all was I ever enough will I ever be enough. It truly hurts but the battle is not yet won completely forget about lust forget about love and aquire value to yourself so you will not be easily replaced you are the prize kings focus on the main goal love you all kings🖤

“I just wanted to know what her favorite horror movie was”

That really did happened to me.. Now all the girls cry for me, but u never forget that first heartache, damn🤦🏽‍♂️

"Nobody can hurt me if I can hurt them first"

I take back everything I've ever said about this guy. That was awesome.

They always go for the “bad boys” so they can “tame the beast” or make him a house husband. It is in their nature. Us nice guys eventually figure out how the game is played and we start playing it that way. All us men have is each other. Change the way you play the game, but don’t turn fully to the dark side. Time will eventually heal you, you just have to let it

The emotion in this scene is made by the water in his eyes

It's a sad day when having unrequited love makes a man feel lucky.

I swear I thought he was on a stage in a college assembly at first. (Guest Speaker) Nonetheless, he is so right. I used to give my heart to women I really liked and it has brought me pain and misery once their plan was clear every time. It slowly turns a man's heart from warm and soft to a cold piece of stone. Since a little boy i always wanted a family with a responsible and respectable wife...it sucks because such a valued asset is at the very brink of becoming a non existent phenomenon. Time goes on and why should we stay stuck on a heartbreak where someone didn't value that time we once had...never give your heart to a woman...

When u realize that Shaggy has grown after all these years🥺

This is 💯 me I was a real romantic guy, and only wanted 1 woman. I was with the same girl for 12 years we were ingaged to be married, and in the end I found out the truth she was cheating on me pretty much from day 1. She had addiction issues which caused a lot of problems, and broke us up in the end. She could never get over her addictions. My boys were taken from me because of her, and we had a baby girl who died at a month, and a half from SIDS. She stole from me and manipulated me for 12 years. I loved her we had 3 handsome boys together, all I ever wanted was her to get better us be a family, and raise my boys together. It completely shattered my heart in a million pieces. It took me years just to be able to tell myself to move forward. I was lost when we broke up, and I turned into a player for years, but in reality my heart was always broken, and it did not matter how many women I was with, in the end I was alone and still going through these things, I feel like I gave everything I had into that relationship, all my love I feel like I have no love left in me. I am Not the player I used to be, and when I stopped being a player I started to think of the reasons why I am the way I am. In the end I loved the wrong woman for far to long. I lost everything in the end nice 4 bedroom house nice new suv awesome kids who I love with all my heart in end I lost it all. Hard to move on after something like that happens I thought by distracting myself by being with women all the time, if I am with enough women I will not have to think about everything, by the end of my career as a player I still was just as broken as the day she left me. Really hard to move on after putting so much of yourself to 1 person. I got emotional writing this, I am not afraid to admit it. This really hit home with me.

No cap. I changed after my first heart break. Now I’m a cold uncaring person, and sometimes I think maybe I should go back to being the other guy. Then I remembered how I got played and just shove the feelings back in the hole and lock the door.

I've thought about this a lot... I used to be a romantic, go out of my way just to make my SO's day... now I question if all the best ones are behind me now days.

Gotta get hurt to learn these things

Finally someone puts that feeling into words

Worse is when they give you an excuse of “I just can’t put my hole heart into a relationship right now” and then you see them a week later dating someone else. And all you feel is anger and sadness that you weren’t good enough

This hits home hard. He is %100. I got crushed. Everyday I wake up and tell my self I will get better. Stay up man. You guys will get better too. We are all going through this one day at a time 👊🙏

Never knew Stu was motivational dude

When you’re crushed so much it feels like physical pain. Never got involved again since that happened

We gonna have to go after Velma she hurt are boys Shaggy 😭😭

I vowed not to do it again but I did I gave my heart to this girl and for 5 months I was the happiest I've ever been until a hour ago she messaged me saying she wants to break up and possibly friends. To be fair I don't know what I did I gave everything I had to her and yes it wasn't alot but u tried my hardest to make her comfortable to make her happy and she goes and does this.

All these actors are also having a real therapy session right there

I remember back in prolly 5th or 6th grade, I was talking to a girl I had a crush on and she told me she felt the same way. Giddy as can be, we txted non stop for little over a week. She later told me that every ounce of attention she gave me was fake, she never liked me and was only doing all of this to “see how good I was at lying”. Swear on my mother, at 5th grade she was practicing how she would destroy men’s hearts later on. I wonder how many victims she has now.

I felt the pain he had in his eyes, and his heart

Very true Players were once beautiful souls

When you wanna tell the world this but no wants to hear

What sucks is when you can't bring yourself to hurt others even after being hurt many times

I love the raw emotion in this scene you can see him tearing up

Yep relate 100% I've been lonely and single most of my life now, all I've ever wanted was a family. But got crushed by those women. Just had my 37th birthday. Live on my own and work in a 95% male workplace. Women these days aren't up to standard. A lot of them try too hard to be men. Im just going to keep on going and concentrate on staying alive. Maybe i will have a better turn in the next life. 🎉

Bro is speaking facts I have gotten my heart broken 4 times by the same girl but when I became successful she came back and she got a taste of her own medicine 😢😢😢😢

Got my heart broke and didnt date for 6 years. Now been with this girl for almost two years and ive definitely opened up and we can be ourselves around eachother but I still seem to always have my guard up even if its just a little.

This is true for a lot of guys. Women complain about the monsters they helped to create. I’d be one of them, but I had help to keep me from turning…….

for all my bros going through this, it's not the end. there is one out there for you. never let some thief steal the light from your heart. I promise it can always be better, you just need to find the greener grass my friends

I can't begin to explain how accurate this is.

Its called falling in love for a reason. There's in it the idea of the fall. Give it away and it comes back to you.

2 years ago my ex left 2 weeks before my wedding. Took everything I had and disappeared. So my daughter and I started over and now I am doing better than I ever have. But I didn't allow it destroy me. It was the worse heart ache of my life.

What's tough now is those who are too scared to give it up in the first place

People in the comments seem to misunderstand what he's saying. This isn't even ablut being rejected. This is about literally giving your everything to the person you love and being cheated on, laughed at, hurt, back stabbed, etc. Also, I think people downplay how actually hard it is for a straight man to get into a non-toxic, one-sided relationship. This might seem like a woe is me, but its just true. Men spend a good chunk of their lives being miserable and having to mold themselves to someone they aren't to attract attention or love. The only exception to this is above average wealthy and good-looking men. As long as you're beautiful and rich, you can get almost whatever you want in this country.

Shaggy goes deep

I’ve been drinking to much to hear this rn😂

Those who cheat were once loyal and didn’t have a fear in the world about being cheated on

Facts straight up...she had my heart and left. I became the man I didnt want to be

Low key explained what Tupac went thru and a lot of us men went thru Stay up Kings 👑

can relate unfortunately I was humiliated by this girl when I was 14 and since then I have been working out and going to clubs. It’s soulless and disgusting but it fills my heart with the validation I need……it feels like the part of me that can commit to one woman is broken.

As true as this statement is, it still tells you 1 important thing about that person. They're either the type to think "this happened to me, i dont want it to happen to anyone else" or those who think "this happened to me, its only fair it happens to everyone else". Which person would you rather be. Just because someone hurt me doesnt mean i want to hurt someone else. Thats just projecting at its finnest.

as some who had been crushed by the girl I loved I get the feeling of never wanting to give my heart up again, I still find it hard to love to this day