"Help! Our Parents Disapprove of Our Relationship" Advice (Indian-European Dating Struggles)

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4 жыл бұрын

Interracial relationships between Indians and Westerners aren't easy... Especially when your parents don't believe in interracial marriage. What do you do when your Indian parents don't want you marrying outside of your race? What if your horoscopes don't match? These are some problems I've had to deal with in my life with Indian women I've dated.
In this video, Manisha and I tell you what to do to get your parents on board with your foreign partner, what life would be like if you decided to marry into an Indian family and come live in India, and what to do when both Indian and Western parents don't like races mixing.
4:47 What's it like living in a joint family?
7:08 How Manisha convinced her Dad I'm not a bum.
9:50 Is there privacy in a joint-family?
13:34 Before marrying into a family in India, do this!
15:20 What to do if the families don't want you to marry.
20:01 What if your family threatens to disown you?
21:54 How Manisha approached her parents about us.
23:31 What if it all goes bad?
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@KarlRock 4 жыл бұрын

How did you deal with family saying they'll disown you because of your relationship? 4:47 What's it like living in a joint family? 7:08 How Manisha convinced her Dad I'm not a bum. 9:50 Is there privacy in a joint-family? 13:34 Before marrying into a family in India, do this! 15:20 What to do if the families don't want you to marry. 20:01 What if your family threatens to disown you? 21:54 How Manisha approached her parents about us. 23:31 What if it all goes bad?

@rencyvarghese8792 4 жыл бұрын

Hey man I just wanted to say you both are so sweet ❤ So happy you both are married

@KarlRock 4 жыл бұрын

@@rencyvarghese8792 🙏 Thanks Rency!

@thelifeline8823 4 жыл бұрын

@@KarlRock Jay Hind. Like the way you represent culture of india it's amazing. Love to see New Zealand culture also 😊

@stewartmeetball3417 4 жыл бұрын

thank you for the hearts. Made my morning probably my weekend. 🙏

@suncheema 4 жыл бұрын

Dont marry if his father family dont want to but be true to each other and also dont marry with anyone else ... if you both love and don't want to loos your mom dad ....

@SavannahPhillipss 4 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend is Indian Hindu and I’m white and comparatively I think we’ve been really lucky. Although his parents weren’t sure at first, and I had to sneak out the house without his dadi noticing (!) we’ve got a good relationship now :-). Main Hindi sikh rahi hoon, and his mum bought me a lehenga from Etah. To other interracial couples out there, there is hope ☺️💞

@KarlRock 4 жыл бұрын

Fantastic ❤️

@aleppo5398 4 жыл бұрын

Wholesome 100

@HairyBottom 4 жыл бұрын

Why do you hate your own race? You can delete my comment if you’re too afraid to debate me. Just an FYI, you will lose the argument.

@possibly_bell5366 4 жыл бұрын

HairyBottom wow your a asshole

@ra-wj1wl 4 жыл бұрын

@@HairyBottom Jesus!

@13niharika98 3 жыл бұрын

Locking the room is biggest reason of conflict in my home. I don't know how and why Indian parents garnered the concept that locking the door means something bad.

@viserion2209 4 жыл бұрын

Manisha is such a intellectual person I like hearing her voice

@rahulkrishna1657 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I find no .

@deepakarya3670 3 жыл бұрын

She is wanna be cool

@juronchangmha8807 3 жыл бұрын

Deepak Arya typical narrow mind head ,she’s smart dude unlike you

@deepakarya3670 3 жыл бұрын

@@juronchangmha8807 ghantaaaa smart , I saw his Instagram and her videos ,she is wanna be cool bullshit

@petitben5240 3 жыл бұрын

@@deepakarya3670 what wrong with wanting to be cool.

@stewartmeetball3417 4 жыл бұрын

I hope they can live happily ever after. Hi Karl and Mrs Karl. God bless

@tkotecha5715 4 жыл бұрын

Karl Rock, with zero achievements has been rejected by all the White females. so he has come to India to marry an India girl.

@bosokid9427 4 жыл бұрын

@@tkotecha5715 least of his achievement is that people who are critical of him still spend their time watching his videos.

@tkotecha5715 4 жыл бұрын

@@bosokid9427 : Karl Rock has achieved zero. That is why White females are ignoring him. Only in India is this foreign New Zealander treated like Royal King amongst his servants like yourself. Have a nice day in and good luck in your admiration for Karl Rock, Long Live this King of India!

@stewartmeetball3417 4 жыл бұрын

@@tkotecha5715 my guy calm down Manisha just prefers the cream too the chocolate

@tkotecha5715 4 жыл бұрын

@@stewartmeetball3417 Now now my guy? Easy easy boy. White creamy girls have rejected your zero achiever Karl Rock. You Stewart Meetball are also a zero achiever; ignored and rejected by beautiful white creamy girls. You should also marry Manisha's sister.

@KAL-589 4 жыл бұрын

The entire family living in a single house, on different floors, is a very German thing too ;-)

@pgornicki 4 жыл бұрын

xDDD

@arceusgodsupreme5324 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@LS-Moto 4 жыл бұрын

Not really. Its more and more vanishing in Europe, being replaced by this American way of "gotta be independent". Living with your parents at 25 is looked down upon.

@dxb8086 4 жыл бұрын

In deinem Dorf vielleicht, aber in der breiten Masse nicht.

@KAL-589 4 жыл бұрын

@@dxb8086 Dorf? Haha....sehr lustig.....

@supritach4180 4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love how Manisha answered the questions 😂 I'm in an interracial relationship and my Indian parents were so concerned at first with my boyfriend's wild ideas and dreams lol worked out in the end tho

@sanishthebrilliant2558 4 жыл бұрын

Pedro Parashar 😂😂😂

@KarlRock 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks 😊 I'm glad it worked out for you guys. A little bit of perseverance helps I think.

@user-im1ld9gw9o 4 ай бұрын

Wow that great of you, if you don't mind me asking how did you guys met?

@nwedrikkozijn 4 жыл бұрын

Karl, learn to give Manisha the time to complete her sentences. She can think for herself and is an interesting person. Great to see your "team" working. Keep growing your channel.

@bosokid9427 4 жыл бұрын

I agree. she is very logical and Karl interrupts her though unknowingly

@amandeepvirk7989 4 жыл бұрын

I agree, Manisha is very intelligent!

@thefunkyzoe9655 4 жыл бұрын

Was thinking the same too. Lol

@IngridK7564 4 жыл бұрын

I agree. I would like to hear Manisha’s point of view.

@TheSoleSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын

Scrolled to see if anyone else had already made this comment. I was quite annoyed by that. Some points she started, never finished and I really wanted to listen to them. She's bringing a very unique perspective to the table which we couldn't experience to the fullest.

@Pixel2523 4 жыл бұрын

Just moving to India is a huge step! Living with parents in law is another one. It might be too much all at once. Definitely checking out India first on her own (sorta) might be the best thing to see if she can adapt to India first. Culture shock can hinder the relationship.

@Q_QQ_Q 5 күн бұрын

You don't live with parents in laws. It's forbidden. You can have your own house.

@mrm5183 4 жыл бұрын

Person in the background looked mad restless. I hope they finally got comfortable 😂

@amosand7476 4 жыл бұрын

I once was dated a white Christian and he literally wrote my mom a 3 page letter declaring his love for me but she was stubborn and never came round and I gave in to her because she said she would disown me...I ended up marrying a indian from india and now I'm a single parent but I worked hard own my own house and car and raise my child with no financial help or involvement from her father or any of his family. I'm so proud of myself and love my life I'm glad u have discussed this issue u guys have a great platform and will help any people thanks guys

@parassharma7800 4 жыл бұрын

Powerful you ✨

@amosand7476 4 жыл бұрын

@@parassharma7800 thank u dude.. sometimes I do feel powerful only rarely tho

@amosand7476 4 жыл бұрын

@MrMagooo nah dude it was many years before I met my husband I was married for a year just had a baby and he decided life in uk was not for him so he fucked off back to his homeland leaving me with a new born baby hope I have cleared that up for u...he by the way is not married and lives with his parents u seem to have a problem with me for some reason in the wording of your message.... I know u are a bloke a male from india and do not like it when I a woman does everything for herself... hate all u want mate dickheads always going to be dickheads lol

@bharatkapoor4062 4 жыл бұрын

@@amosand7476 I am looking for job in USA can you guide me amo ji

@amosand7476 4 жыл бұрын

@@bharatkapoor4062 I would really like to help but I don't live in the usa I know though truck driving is a money making game in the us plus there are many mainly punjabi truck drivers so launguage won't be such a issue too that's in the california area

@DomiTravels 4 жыл бұрын

95% of my indian friends when they find out i live alone since I'm 18 : " What ?? what happened! where are your parents, are they okay?, had your dinner? " I think my parents are the ones enjoying the most that I'm gone haha :D As allways nice & also interesting video! Greetings this time from the Czech republic :D!

@nandanapalchowdhury4588 4 жыл бұрын

Domi Travels haha...I get it..Living without our parents is kinda not possible in our culture...at least not for me...we are deeply involved with our families

@creepy_assassin6234 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, last time i mentioned how cool i thought it was that in certain places/cultures you'd be doing small jobs and living by yourself, by the time you're an adult, we literally had a full on verbal fight. I still dunno what i did wrong :p

@DomiTravels 4 жыл бұрын

@@ElonHusky I'm 25 :) but i moved out 7 years ago :D

@Abhishek-sr2pu 4 жыл бұрын

Well westernising is a very bad thing. Sometime people forget that modernisation and westernisation is not the same thing.

@Abhishek-sr2pu 4 жыл бұрын

@@DomiTravels maybe that's why kids in western countries got more drug addiction, homelessness,Lack of familial bond, Students debt and lifestyle debt?

@r.m6883 4 жыл бұрын

The boy has to take a bolder stance and be clearer about him-self and his parent. If he is weak and ambiguous, this could lead to everything negative in the future.

@r.m6883 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@nandanapalchowdhury4588 4 жыл бұрын

Kanwer Vikram Don’t worry. Be successful and be assertive, man. The only reason why my parents listen to me.

@Hashslingingslasher- 4 жыл бұрын

This is harsh but so accurate

@Hashslingingslasher- 4 жыл бұрын

UNLESS the parents are super clued in and understanding

@r.m6883 4 жыл бұрын

Another advice : If the parents are narcissistic, its better to stay separately and monetarily independent. ...... Don't let the parents know the true reason for staying separate.( a highly valued secret between you and your partner alone/ no relatives/ 0 )

@B-55 4 жыл бұрын

Parents disapproving is what wrecked my last relationship of 5 years. Still pissed at them.

@sangitahermione 4 жыл бұрын

Ahh the worst part 🙁

@Pixel2523 4 жыл бұрын

So sorry.

@brucewayne1636 4 жыл бұрын

Why would you listen to them?

@B-55 4 жыл бұрын

@@brucewayne1636 I didn't, eventually she did.

@brucewayne1636 4 жыл бұрын

@@B-55 sad bro

@rhitamdutta1996 4 жыл бұрын

I have a friend who’s sister got disowned by her parents because she agreed to marry a guy whom her parents detested. It turned out well, she has a little son and they are happy together. It’s sad for her to never speak to her parents ever again, but she moved on and is doing amazing things with her life. For once, she earns more than her father who disowned her. So it’s not always a bad story when your family disowns you, sometimes your family could just be too toxic and you might need to let them go.

@Q_QQ_Q 5 күн бұрын

Same caste ? Or different caste ?

@anshul8569 4 жыл бұрын

Bribe the Pandit for horoscope! I did the same.

@offbeatsofficial 3 жыл бұрын

Oh man, we Hindus need to stop this horoscope stuff.

@swagatochatterjee7104 3 жыл бұрын

This is the best advice like ever!!!

@Dkaran1307 3 жыл бұрын

@@offbeatsofficial yah

@bikramjeetsingh7864 3 жыл бұрын

Masterstroke 😂😂😂

@sagnickbhowmick6191 2 жыл бұрын

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh *meme music plays*

@akshayp8820 4 жыл бұрын

Notice a guy sleeping in the back 😂😂

@mafiaboy4925 4 жыл бұрын

brother in law

@vinayn9110 4 жыл бұрын

looks like an elephant trunk to me.

@BidenSUCKSS 4 жыл бұрын

Vinay N 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@sankalpangira 4 жыл бұрын

@@vinayn9110 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@lazlaz59 4 жыл бұрын

lol yeah i was scrolling down to see if anyone said anything about that

@djangocc3315 4 жыл бұрын

Thankfully my parents were very forward thinking, my wife is from the Philippines and geld well with my folks when she came to India. It's now 30 odd years, kids, grand kids. Thanks for all the nice vids🕉️

@IndyStry 3 жыл бұрын

Indian guy here living in Toronto, Canadafor the last 5 years. In a relationship with a Korean girl. She was born and raised here but her parents are still very rigid and don't know about us. Her last bf was Iranian and when she told them they straight up disowned her. I wish so hard that they would just see me for the person I am and not categorize me based on their past experiences. They want someone Korean for her. Heck, even though they don't know I exist, I am learning Korean language hoping that whenever she does tell them about me and if I ever meet them, I can talk to them in Korean. I can't look like a Korean guy but I hope learning the language sweetens the deal a little. She is ok if they disown her but it guilt trips me as she has a good relationship with them right now. Finding out about me and her choosing me no matter what is only gonna break this family and I don't like thinking that I am the one responsible for this... i don't know what else to do...

@Kap00rwith2os 4 жыл бұрын

In addition to Karl and Manisha's excellent advice, my suggestion is also to MAKE ALLIES IN THE FAMILY. I've chimed in with this before but my parents are mixed, Father's side Indian, mother's side Japanese. Fathers on both sides were fine with the marriage, but the mothers were not. My Mom was headstrong though and got married to him anyway without getting her mom's blessing (she eventually came around after I was born and saw my dad was a good person 😂). My father's brothers and sisters loved my mom so they begged their mother to bless the wedding, and she eventually said she would bless it if they bought her a refrigerator... They did, and she approved. LESSON: MAKE ALLIES WITHIN THE FAMILY! Begin an introvert it might be hard but the girl needs to reach out and get close to her potential brothers and sisters in law, since they're most likely in the same age group, and it'll be easier than with the older generation. Also if she gets in good with the Aunties and Uncles, who may be more open since it's not their kids in the situation, will be a HUGE help. They can be her wingmen and put in good words for her and may have an influence. Also touch their feet whenever they see each other. 😁 👍

@substrate.academy 4 жыл бұрын

As my cool mom says, they should run away and get married, and later the family has to agree 😬. On a serious note, if they are so rigid that they can go to the extent of disowning, she will probably never be accepted completely in the family. And she has to have the confidence in the guy that he will protect her. Imagine being an American, staying with your in laws in India and everyone ganging up in the family pushing you into a corner with the guy silently watching and letting it happen. This happens a lot with Indian girls as well and you will just be frustrated and resent your decision after a point.

@Abhishek-sr2pu 4 жыл бұрын

Hm last time I heard that indian men are now interested in marrying foreign girl because of baised indian laws favouring women like dowry laws,etc.

@Uniqp23 4 жыл бұрын

Tabhi toh itni saari Indian aurateyein femenism ki taraf Jhukk gayi specially thirty and forty year old women and women in their late 20s

@roshanigladson9331 3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!

@yrashid6108 3 жыл бұрын

So on point,

@clashgamerlabique 3 жыл бұрын

Tell your mom to Adopt me 😂😂

@LaxmikantKachhap 4 жыл бұрын

I'm blessed with parents who don't actually indulge with their children's private life and just give what their children want to go ahead with their lives because happiness matters.

@LoneWolf-tk9em 3 жыл бұрын

U r a rare lucky guy..

@Q_QQ_Q 5 күн бұрын

That's a rare

@TheCultureBlender 4 жыл бұрын

It really is something that has to be talked about! Unfortunately I am not in the position to talk openly about this (yet🙏🏽), but at the end of the day love is love! Sending everyone struggling about this (too) lots of strength! Love from Switzerland 🇨🇭 Cat

@vinayakzanjad1534 3 жыл бұрын

Love Zurich city from India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🚩🚩🚩

@nezerthonthethird 3 жыл бұрын

As someone who has lived in a house with extended family, I can hand on heart say that the experience of living with extended family entirely depends on the maturity and empathy of everyone involved. Any immature, horrible person will ruin the experience, and you never know that until you live with them.

@sydguitar99 4 жыл бұрын

I hate how toxic my our culture is. For decades in Bollywood they show movies about ppl falling in love with whoever they want and the parents finally understanding their children but in reality it's never like that

@jonsmith5626 4 жыл бұрын

Are there any good Bollywood films that show a realistic depiction of Indian life?

@0themanticore0 3 жыл бұрын

Not in my experience with my Indian fiance, so using the word never may be a bit rough don't you think?

@Kumar-24 3 жыл бұрын

Could you please shed some light how toxic our culture is?

@harshitatripathi7047 3 жыл бұрын

We are not allowed to marry with the person we love .. in 70-80% of cases..

@0themanticore0 3 жыл бұрын

@@harshitatripathi7047 I guess it depends on the community where you reside, village, etc...

@theunpredictable4615 3 жыл бұрын

Karl, my elder brother had a similar problem. He was in love with a Filipino girl. My mother didn't approve it at all. My mom told my elder brother. You will see my dead body if you marry that Filipino girl. My brother was totally heart broken he didn't know what to do. He came to me and asked me for help. Being his kid bro, I supported my brother 100%. I told him it's your life and your future. Parents don't have the rights to choose your future. My Filipino sister in-law thanked me for being their shield. I married a Russian the love of my life. No one controls me.

@deepanksrivastava4416 4 жыл бұрын

Children : dad I'm in a inter racial relationship and I'm serious with him Parents: NAHI CHAIYE JI

@sami9810 3 жыл бұрын

😀😀

@gooseblur2609 4 жыл бұрын

When you have money💵💵. Parents: No problem

@gorakhmiral7399 4 жыл бұрын

True

@ahamatibrahimhassan3265 4 жыл бұрын

True I'm living in india from past 2 years and I confirm that

@theinstayatri9463 4 жыл бұрын

Nope. Some parents look at gotra religiously.

@diest3164 4 жыл бұрын

Basically is the solution

@vipulsingh7362 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true!

@snipercog961 4 жыл бұрын

Your the best Karl. Thx for talking this out. Being an Indian, I can say this is true.

@mysticondeflamme 4 жыл бұрын

I read the title of the video from the notification, and thought that your parents suddenly disapproved of your relationship😅

@KarlRock 4 жыл бұрын

Haha! Oops! But I've been through it before.

@whyaskmeaskyourself.6617 4 жыл бұрын

Same

@MisterGeorgianBoy 4 жыл бұрын

thats called a clickbait to get more views

@coolsirohi8 4 жыл бұрын

@@MisterGeorgianBoy hahah so true

@coolsirohi8 4 жыл бұрын

@Kush Patel there is nothing negative in that comment bhai ... clickbait is not a bad thing at all ..

@O.G_WINO 4 жыл бұрын

Is like us Mexicans brotha, we don't follow that cause of religion or what ever... My parents are straight up MEXICANS and believe we should married our own RACE... But I tell you what, find your other half that makes you happy cause the LORD is LOVE!!! Remember the key word is LOVE!!! I'm Mexican American and my wife Is White American cross with Mexican American. So just imagine what others would think? I don't care and wouldn't follow that tradition cause at the end of the day it is what makes me HAPPY! ♥️♥️♥️

@kyo4386 4 жыл бұрын

Sup bro ! Tambien soy Mexicano. Im pretty happy to say that my parents dont care about races they just want me and my brother to be happy with who we chose to be our partner for life, Hope you have a Great Day.

@O.G_WINO 4 жыл бұрын

@@kyo4386 I grew up in the 80's so just imagine how it was back then to married your own... My parents came to America in 1979 and had my sister in 1980 and me in 1981 and my brother 1983 and ever since they built this idea in us, but funny cause I I'm with my other half that I love and had a baby when I was 34, now he is 5 years old and I'm happy with her and my parents are too! We just need to break this old old old tradition at the end of the day cause it doesn't work brotha. And same you you bro have a great day 👍

@O.G_WINO 4 жыл бұрын

Acceptance is the key word today in 2020.

@ch1mptast1c 4 жыл бұрын

yolo :)

@michellea5415 4 жыл бұрын

My sister married a Mexican but we not Mexicans but we are Latinos, so I guess we belong to the Latino clan. But back then yeah it wasn’t easy to marry outside your culture but now days you see it more that it isn’t rare.

@echocamp5204 4 жыл бұрын

Hey bro sending a huge shoutout from Canada 🇨🇦 thanks for the great content!!

@echocamp5204 4 жыл бұрын

James Mathew I’m sure in some communities of Canada they practise their culture!! But Indians that were born in Canada don’t don’t always fallow the same culture!! Culture now is for the old school ppl!! Same rules don’t apply anymore!!

@samvimes9510 4 жыл бұрын

I've been single for years and I've never dated a foreigner, so I can't relate to most of this stuff, but you guys talking about living with your parents really hit me. I'm in my early 30s and I live with my dad. I lived on my own for most of my 20s, but when my mom passed I moved in with my dad because he'd be alone otherwise. It's been pretty nice living with him, we've gotten closer than we ever were when I was in high school. But if I were to tell a girl _"I live with my dad"_ she'd dump me in a heartbeat, doesn't matter if I live in a big house or not. If you tell a girl you live with your parents, you're automatically a loser. Something went wrong in western society. We stopped placing value on family, we try to move away from them as soon as possible and we only seem to care when something bad happens. Hell, most of the time we just throw our grandparents in nursing homes so we can forget about them.

@patrickmannion4106 3 жыл бұрын

I hear you, also live with my Dad (and my mum, sorry for your loss), an have definitely worried about that reaction fro m potential partners. Although I've now been in a new relationship for 10 months and he's been fine about it. So maybe give people a chance and hopefully they will surprise you. Also the right person should value the compassion you've shown by choosing to live with your Dad after in his time of struggle. Does make more casual situations hella akward though! An I think it's a lot more common than it was, certainly here in the UK. I know a lot of people who live at home to save for mortgage s, and travel, with the high cost of rent its sometimes a necessity. I couldn't ask for better room mates though.

@samvimes9510 3 жыл бұрын

@Indic history I don't know about other western countries, but yeah, it happens a lot in America.

@taylorhurst1499 4 жыл бұрын

Manu is a very wise and savvy woman. I really enjoy hearing her speak. You two together seem to make the most perfect couple, I hope to find in someone, what you both have found in each other. Thanks again Bro for another great video.

@JoseSanchez-xj3xn 4 жыл бұрын

I think interracial relationships are particularly hard when the old world meets the new. The old world is steeped in heritage, tradition, and customs. The new world is avant-garde, laissez-faire and post-modern in comparison. Compromise and a bit of capitulation is key. Most of all, you really have to love the culture you are adopting.

@patrickmannion4106 3 жыл бұрын

But what are you actually saying?

@dawndusk6366 3 жыл бұрын

Yep indeed

@AwittyPotatoee0506 Жыл бұрын

For Real

@QuanzerCODM 4 жыл бұрын

People should b marrying to whoever they want!🔥❤ it's none of the saints business to say their horoscopes aren't matching hence they can't love each other

@rishabhrana3289 4 жыл бұрын

its just an excuse that parent's made.

@b-zar8912 4 жыл бұрын

@@rishabhrana3289 Not the parents, but our ancestors.

@rajk6192 4 жыл бұрын

@@rishabhrana3289 nowadays ppl getting worse bcoz of movies, says its love. (who plans to marry after 6 months in relationship) what if a bad guy whom you dont know and he marry someone in your family, and the guy is worse your parents warned the guy to do not follow family member after rejection, and finally he marry someone in your family. You can't imagine what that guy can do.

@QuanzerCODM 3 жыл бұрын

@SAHIL RANA can't sacrifice our love for race bro.. Stop being stupid.

@QuanzerCODM 3 жыл бұрын

@SAHIL RANA after all... Every single kid of mine is going to love a human being... Stop being such an ugly racist.

@3stagesoflife 4 жыл бұрын

Indian parent please allow them to get married its their live and they ll live together not you. So obviously she ll choose to whomever she want her life to spend. 🙏

@tkotecha5715 4 жыл бұрын

Karl Rock, with zero achievements has been rejected by all the White females. so he has come to India to marry an India girl.

@b-zar8912 4 жыл бұрын

@Haters toh jalte rahege Trolls exist on this guy's channel.

@harleyanne3720 4 жыл бұрын

T Kotecha Shut your rude mouth!

@the_pr3d4t0r8 3 жыл бұрын

Might be the Indian boys abroad who got all the whites he liked.

@rencyvarghese8792 4 жыл бұрын

Be strong both of you. We are here for you ❤❤

@10kreviews2020 4 жыл бұрын

I just really respect the strength of your friendship and resulting relationship. Appreciate all the info. Sad the travel company can't launch just yet, but once the world gets back to sanity, would love to check it out. :)

@LuxxenoMusic 4 жыл бұрын

I’m glad you are sharing these stories and providing advice, you are making a difference in these sort of relationship situations

@RakeshGupta-ni6vj 4 жыл бұрын

Gotra is the name of the ancient SAGE, who is your family ancestor. If Gotra is same, you cannot marry since you are termed as Brother and Sister.

@Q_QQ_Q 5 күн бұрын

Mythology is not a history

@2351028 4 жыл бұрын

"Gotras" is taken into consideration to make sure that the couple getting married are not from the same bloodline. It's important because getting married in the same bloodline might cause health issues in the child.

@himanshugupta7933 3 жыл бұрын

Millions of people have same gotras here. Scientifically your bloodline last for only 3 generations after that you have no commonality between a person of same gotra.

@2351028 3 жыл бұрын

Himanshu gupta scientifically how long genetics last from first generation of a family is debatable in some case it even last upto 10 to 12 generation ... anyway gotra is just a filter if someone feel it doesn’t matter to them then they shouldn’t consider my whole point is people should understand thn in marriage not everything in superstition it just society don’t understand logical behind it and then they just follow it because it has been happening since ages

@Q_QQ_Q 5 күн бұрын

@@2351028retard 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

@amreenshaju8038 4 жыл бұрын

As an South Indian I know how important education is, so most probably she will be able to work and can do whatever she wants. The problem lies on what comes after, traditions, what parents expectations are. The best thing to do here is what Manisha did, and communicate. She needs to talk to him, and understand what the expectations are. He needs to talk to his parents and let them know that YOU ARE SERIOUS! That your not just playing around and your willing to fight the fight. It’s going to be a struggle but trust me if your meant to be the journey and struggle will make you stronger as a couple and at the end of the day hai parents will accept you. If the journey is too much for you, and you can’t bear then it’s time to move on. This is what my cousin did after being in a relationship with a girl from a different state. It will always depend on your love and if your willing to fight for it

@shamshers5008 4 жыл бұрын

Bhai aapki videos make sense everytime.....cheers!!!

@thilakunkili5204 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Karl, hope you’ve recovered from covid. Thanks a lot for such an amazing video. Keep working hard and lots of love.

@KarlRock 4 жыл бұрын

Feeling great now! All recovered :)

@princedcruz4345 4 жыл бұрын

Such an insightful video...

@Keyee1 4 жыл бұрын

That was very insightful. A twenty-something may not know what perils could lie ahead. Wishing that girl, all the best. I can imagine her family's fears. All the way across the world. She knows only one person. Parents can't even talk to the other parents. Very scary.

@yasminedey8612 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Karl for taking the time to help others and I more and more like your wife, she's such an empathic, gentle, charming and diplomatic soul.

@Q_QQ_Q 5 күн бұрын

LoL

@rohannkk 4 жыл бұрын

Yo we are here for you man 👊💯👊

@cheerup9135 4 жыл бұрын

Respect on you bro........ Godbless still this world has some good heart like you man.....

@daniels.4270 4 жыл бұрын

Talking about Privacy while someone sleeps in the backround 😅

@untoldexplorer7680 4 жыл бұрын

Keep fighting Man!!! Life is short just stay with the person u love the most !!

@bryanjefferson6575 4 жыл бұрын

That's not right, intermarriage should be respected just like every other marriage and should not be judge.

@l00ney-76 4 жыл бұрын

This makes me sad because i'm with a indian girl that's from Kerala and her parents are strict and we're both in love with each other and i love her siblings we always hang out and they love me.. her parents don't know of me yet well they knew of me but they sent my gf off to india to a different school because her parents wanted us to separate but my gf and my mother said that this could be a test to see if we'd leave each other.. but we've never left after that, it's made us stronger and the love that i have for her and her siblings is beyond belief. we both live in ireland and i get sad when i think about it because i can't imagine life without her and neither can she.. Hope something can understand me and sorry for the grammar. Thanks for listening

@jerrygeorgopolis8015 4 жыл бұрын

Very interesting insight and dialogue between both of you. Nice to see you both safe, and in a video together ! khyaal rakhana

@niefiazupancic3063 4 жыл бұрын

Great Video - loved that you present both sides & how to compromise - also loved that Manisha was part of this video - please have her participate in more videos as she speaks to a certain part of your audience that you may not be able to reach!

@mr.sachin1260 4 жыл бұрын

Karl Ji... I wish that you both enjoy a happy life together, and forever. I support YOU & India supports YOU.

@BATMAN777888 4 жыл бұрын

Namaste, I love your channel. If you accept the idea of different races then you are lost. We are in fact all unique yet all part of one human race. Some people are mentally limited to not accept larger differences in people.They can’t help it, it’s scary for them. Enlightenment will bring happiness. You and your beautiful wife are obviously enlightened. 💓

@Ajay-dd5cu 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Karl & Manisha it's really nice of you to advice someone in need. Lots of love... I really hope that they can convince their family and live a happy life. "At the end everything will be just fine" God bless...

@KrutharthSujay 4 жыл бұрын

This video is very helpful.

@parmehsan 4 жыл бұрын

So a woman does go through a lot in Indian traditions and it is a lot to take in. The only support she can get is from a husband who's ready to support her with half of all responsibilities around the house plus give her the freedom to work if she wanted to. Staying with parents is skeptical cus you can own two places near and around your family but easily balance your personal life. It's actually a big thought before you make a decision.

@lolislol972 4 жыл бұрын

The irony😂...He says 'Hello Dosto' and she says 'hello everyone'

@beastgamingyt9798 4 жыл бұрын

We are with you Always, we will do what we can do for you.

@kevindgamer2980 4 жыл бұрын

Keep up the good work

@hariomkushwaha9773 4 жыл бұрын

I came across your channel last night and i watched all your videos. I was relating to everything. (I didn't sleep even) I saw your video-interview of your wife. And realised you both are awesome people. I also have vitiligo and was in depression for years bcz of this. But now i'm okay. I recently turned 19, and had realisation that these things don't matter. And i want to thank you for being a open minded person, karl. You and manisha look amazing together! #EveryoneIsBeautiful♥️

@doraemon4704 4 жыл бұрын

whenever karl was telling that he is white i always laughed because his wife is more white than he is No Offence I am 13 years old from INDIA Love your videos keep going

@whoopjohn 4 жыл бұрын

I live in the UK. Both white British. There were all kinds of prejudices our parents had, but we went on our own. I left home with almost no money, no job, at a moment's notice, after a row. Just a sleeping bag and a few clothes. I slept on a friend's kitchen floor for 3 months. I got a job, kept seeing my girlfriend and eventually lived together for three years. We got married with no parents invited and just two friends as witnesses. We've been married over 40 years now, but what is a piece of paper? My wife has never worn a wedding ring. We simply left it for our parents to put up with the way we were going and our independence was always more important than family prejudices. We saw both sets of parents until they all died, on our terms and not very often, a couple of times a year. My wife was cut out of her parents' will, but we'd made our own way in life. In India things would be very different though, and the parents and their extended family and friendships could well make your life very difficult and uncomfortable. Best advice is take Karl's suggested one month holiday with an open mind and see the reality you face. Go home and if you still want to do it, try to talk through the fear points with them one by one, as Manisha suggests. Otherwise you are flying into something blindly and you would be crazy to do that, however much you love the boy. Our parents only met once in our entire lives and that was for a few hours at a neutral restaurant that we arranged.

@nikooazad3004 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome advice, love you both ❤

@transporteruk2927 4 жыл бұрын

Its an age old problem ... it even happens in the uk ... great channel keep up the good work👍

@ashishkrupakar5365 4 жыл бұрын

The head wobble - Karl's now totally mastered it!

@joeyfitzjurls1490 4 жыл бұрын

This is such a great video, Karl you and your wife are a amazing couple I’m so glad I can listen to both of your wisdom!

@purpletree7690 4 жыл бұрын

I mean love is love. My parents say if they really love each other so yeah 😇hope you two stay together ❤️

@Cherylm875 3 жыл бұрын

I am married to a lovely Indian man my husband is my one true love and I was very lucky that my family accepted my husband 100% my mum and dad love him so much and treat my husband as if he was their own son and call him son. My husbands family are very accepting of me and treat me with love and respect and so do I. Unfortunately I never got to meet his parents they passed away in 2002 and 2005.

@Q_QQ_Q 5 күн бұрын

Love jih@d

@SameekshaRana 4 жыл бұрын

You guys make a lovely couple 😊 Always stay blessed.

@nimbalkarankita 3 жыл бұрын

This channel is so postive. My heart smiles when I see the videos. Your new subscriber!

@whyaskmeaskyourself.6617 4 жыл бұрын

EARLY LOVE YOU!

@ElBrandenBrazil 4 жыл бұрын

Meenisha is such a wonderful woman. My Japanese family-in-law asked me the same questions.

@trollface7998 4 жыл бұрын

Guys you both live together after them 💯 it's your call ... Yeah parents must be worried of overseas family connections but today world is not that big to ga around 🤔 it's all about confidence from both of you and your vision towards your family , they'll agree ...... Nothing is more important to the parents if their child's are alright 🤗 good luck 👍 just do it nothing is easy and nothing is impossible 💯

@jacktripper7422 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing.

@girishgangadharan8837 4 жыл бұрын

Very wise discussion . So nice of you to help her and a lot of couples.

@aviationandminecraftpro6404 4 жыл бұрын

We are all here for you

@ankitrawat3818 4 жыл бұрын

Bribe the priest to make your own choice horoscope 🤣

@vishaldudhia5192 3 жыл бұрын

🤣PERFECT🤣

@nagaredarmy3359 4 жыл бұрын

12.17 point Manisha ....very true.!

@nsbhater 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent video, Karl and Maneesha👌 so much fun seeing you two tackeling this challenge! I loooooved watching you talking about this topic. You had such a nice way to interact🧡so beautiful🧡Love you both😘

@rekleif 4 жыл бұрын

I absolutley love most of Indian culture. My father in-law is wonderful, i miss him so much. Former officer in the army, he has unbelivable discipline. Sorry that me and my Punjabi wife can not get visa anymore, so no visit for a while. Love your vids, Karl! Greetings from a true Viking.

@abhishek9249 4 жыл бұрын

Actually in biology inter racial relationship are considered best as genetic diversity produces the strongest offsprings. You can start your argument with that😉, bcz the only thing indian parents care is having a baby

@ndjubilant8391 3 жыл бұрын

Right on

@rajandhaka1 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Karl and Manisha, what an insightful video. We love your videos. Love from Auckland.

@maniksharma6904 4 жыл бұрын

You are doing a great job bro. keep it up🤙🤙🙏

@karan.parakh 4 жыл бұрын

I have a similar situation like your's Karl. Im from Delhi and my wife is from Belarus and we live in Belarus. And i understand the problem given girl is facing, We also had a bit of similar issues our parents had some doubts needed some convincing but were not so rigid. We also went through all the parts of game like horescope matching etc. but they were not the deciding factors. We did this after our parents agreed, i guess just was for fun. Whatever you suggested is right, but most important point is time give your parents time visit them let them know you and you should make efforts to know them. Absolute vital is having pure 100% support and confidence in partner (you need to be 10000% sure of it, rest you'll fight with). Marriages like us need a lot of effort and lot of compromises but if both of you love each other equally then it should not be a problem. Try to slide things smoothly do not force anything on anyone and it might take time but consistency always pays off. We were in a long distance relation for 3 years but we visited each other and met parents too. So time is what you need, remember marriage is not only about two individuals (exceptions are always there).

@KarlRock 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Karan. Great advice

@karan.parakh 4 жыл бұрын

@@KarlRock happy to help, you all r doing great work. Best wishes. I could go on for long on advise but difficult to put it in text.

@Q_QQ_Q 5 күн бұрын

L0ve jih@d against which you vote 😂🤣😂🤣

@pankajyaduvanshi2837 4 жыл бұрын

my mother and sister twice went to school to warn a girl i was talking to.............that was scaring

@coolsirohi8 4 жыл бұрын

Arey Chunnu bhaii ... teri b GF thi kya ??😃

@pankajyaduvanshi2837 4 жыл бұрын

@@coolsirohi8 work on progress tha............bhai mera naam kaisa pta ha aapko

@royalkumar795 4 жыл бұрын

@@pankajyaduvanshi2837 Tumhare sayaad Kisi Neighbors ne information leek Kar Diya , So be careful next time

@pankajyaduvanshi2837 4 жыл бұрын

@@royalkumar795 nhi bhai baat krta hua pkda tha.........

@rajarshinandandeka0037 4 жыл бұрын

This is the problem of modern Indian society. Ancient India was not like this for example have a look at Krishna's time . He used to hang out with girls and gopias but I don't understand why not now

@vijayamohan33 4 жыл бұрын

this video is so much helpful karl, happy to hear your advice , its a pleasure to see you and Manisha together

@aj2480 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful couple. Keep up the good work Karl!

@musclepost4747 4 жыл бұрын

Leave the world behind. Happiness is there ahead for you 🌷

@PenguinjitsuX 3 жыл бұрын

17:15 "You can try to bribe the person to 're-check'" LOOL HAHA that is hilarious, but also an actual valid solution

@senkottuvelan 4 жыл бұрын

Dude, If it's your problem, it's ours too. We are with you. Don't worry. 🔥

@ashishkrupakar5365 4 жыл бұрын

Namaste doston! Hello everyone! Classic Manisha. Good discussion and advise both of you 😊 also Karl I appreciate all the efforts you've taken and are taking towards embracing the Indian culture. I can understand that it must have had its own challenges but you've done it rather quickly!

@bogtrotterEringobrach 4 жыл бұрын

Hi from Ireland guys. Karl, I love your videos, discovering them while I was recovering from COVID and housebound for 14 days. I watched them all two or three times at this stage (my favourite is the pashmina scammer). I’ve spent over 8 years (from 1991) in India and as soon as India recovers from Covid (whatever that means) I plan to figure out how to move to there. Is that possible without marrying an India? I would like to eventually all the same. It’s all I think about. India is my 2nd home. I totally share many experiences with you Bhai, the one that really stands out is the altitude sickness while I was biking to Kardungla. One time I went to India with a set plan of all the places I wanted to visit but just spent 6 months in Delhi where I have many friends. Keep doing what you do. I check for new uploads daily. Jai Hind. Ps: Let Manu finish her sentences :)

@bogtrotterEringobrach 4 жыл бұрын

I just get 6 month tourist visas :(

@bogtrotterEringobrach 4 жыл бұрын

Light Yagami thank you. That may be what I will do. I have a good friend in India who may offer me employment to secure this visa. It is for 1 year but can be extended a further 5 years. Thanks again.