As a man, let me tell you, men know what they want. Pack up sis.

Starting over after 6 years is better than wasting another 20 unhappy

When I met my man a year ago, he wasn’t making much and was financially unstable but right after we started to date, he changed his job to a better one , trying to pay his debts, and still looking to increase his income .. he is working on getting back to school .. he sat plans and goals that include us .. he never once said that we can’t move forward because of his finances ( with around 30k).. he proposed to me 7 months of our relationship .. it is not a 10 thousands dollar ring but I love it .. even his family said he became a new person.. btw I have never asked him once to change anything in himself for me .. he did it because he loves me .. Girls don’t waste your time chasing and waiting for someone who doesn’t want to be with you or trying hard to be with you

Perfect advice ! I left my husband of 19 years. Nothing was going to change. I was 20 when I married him and left when I was 39. Did not want to be 40 and regret. I remarried when I was 49 and still married to a wonderful man for 18 years. Leave this guy and find a finer guy. 💗💗💗

"If you gonna ask God for something, you gotta make ready to receive it." well said Steve

She already had the answer, but needed validation.. I hope she heeds his advice! 😀

Steve is so right. You give a men 2 options - to treat you right, or leave. Everytime I set those boundaries to some guy I dated, that revealed their true intentions with me. Dear ladies, don't be afraid letting someone leave if it is perfectly right thing to do. As Steve said, some breakups are blessing. It is much healthier to stay single instead of being desperate and investing yourself in guys who are not good for you.

No matter your age, I wish more women would 'get' Steve's advice before investing all these years in such relationships. Sheesh!!

37 years old, not financially stable and he doesn’t want a title 😳😳😳😳.. run away.

Steve, your Mom was a very wise woman. I love that story 😊

That is exactly what she needed! Look at her face beam! I hope she’s happy now ❤

I’ve been right where she’s at. It was either I would put in another 6 years with a guy who wouldn’t commit with marriage or I walk away. It ripped everything out in me to leave but I knew I deserved better. My man I’m with now proposed in 8 months, we have a house and two cats. Getting married this spring 💕 When someone shows you who they are believe them and don’t try to paint them into something they aren’t.

I'm broke AF; I decided not to go into a relationship because I ain't ready yet. Stop wasting another man's daughter time. Set that baby free & join us my brother.

The fact that he don’t like titles speaks volumes! She refer to him as her friend. Read between the lines baby girl. He is not looking to commit period. In so many words he’s making that clear.

You should have walked away a long time ago.

Damn I started crying when he was talking about his mother. The teachings our parents give us. We keep them so we can pass them along as we meet people. ♥️ this is how we make our world a better place.

Steve’s analogy was for me!!!!! Ouchhhhh

That is priceless advice. "Get rid of that old car sitting up on cinder blocks."

By the end of the first sentence I was already aggravated. A whole six years of your God given life.....I'm tired 😭 P. S: Steve is our online father

This man has a story for everything 😂

And let the church say Amen!

Soon as he is comfortable with titles he'll be moving on to someone else.. Don't waste your time honey...

My best friend from high school met this guy when she was 24, she spent not 5, not 10 years, but 18 years in love with this guy who never settled down on anything..finally after all those wasted years she moved on continued living her life, working hard, and one day she met a new guy (momma's boy) she spent 5 years dating this unemployed careless guy, she used to pay anytime they went out and finally one day she called me to tell me the good news: the guy finally proposed.. she paid for almost everything for her wedding reception, but she looked so happy at her wedding day that I felt little guilty for being so harsh sometimes about the guy, but only after 6 or 7 months into her marriage the mom's guy kicked her out of the house ( yeap the guy took her to live at his mom's house, with Mom included), the guy continue living with mommy and never tried to go after my friend and live as a couple in their own place. Long story short: she's been waiting on this dude to settle down for a total of 15 years by now...she is 50 years old now and she wasted years and years of her life on men who now are happy married or dating someone else. LADIES believe me this is a real life story.. don't waste time on a man who doesn't wants to commit believe me doesn't worth it. Don't waste your time because that time will never ever came back...

37 years old + don't like being called a boyfriend = he's a player man child Betcha he's got a side kick or more than one This girl deserves better

“He’s uncomfortable with title “ Steve face changed quickly 😂😂

In this case, mr. Steve have a good point!!! She’s woman of certain age and ain’t nobody got time for that. She waited 6!!! Years and he’s not stable in his late 30s... time to move on sorry

WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE WE GOING TO DO WITHOUT THE STEVE HARVEY SHOW?????? His wisdom, grace, humor, and straightforwardness is so needed when it comes to considering the cost of having a REAL, PURPOSEFUL relationship with someone.

My husband was 35 yo when we met with low income. But somehow he manage to purchase a house & decent car. That earn my respect when he proposed again in our 10th date. I always have short relationships. 6 months top. Because I’m not affraid to cut a guy who show incompatibility or red flags. People said that’s my red flag. But I’m married for 14 years now and gone through hell & back together. We’re not perfect, but we still dating 😁 The key is commitment. It’s not have to be about your starting point or current condition. Don’t be afraid to cut someone when they not compatible or show future.

Steve’s like the father I never had. Thank you ❤️ #Gems

37 and not financially stable?!?! 37 and not into titles?? This fool has some serious growing up to do and you need to run sis!!

Steve is so good with his stories! He puts it all in perspective and clarifies to perfection!

PREACH! He's speaking truth !!!!! 6 years in, 37 years old and still waiting to be financially stable, not into titles... smh A man claims what is his! No matter if he's broke! If he sees you as a wife material, he will say to the all world you are HIS! Women deserve so much better than some guys like this... I put an ultimatum to an ex boyfriend, I was afraid of doing this because I knew, deep inside, that our relationship will be over. He ran away. He got a new girlfriend the next week. He broke up with her at some point. He tried to get in touch with me less than a year after we broke up. But the thing is, I was so over him. I cried a lot, prayed a lot, and after all this time, I was happy that the universe got rid of this guy from my life. I was working on myself, on my body, on my mental health, on my attitude of gratitude, on my work goals, and so on. Everything happens for a reason. Life doesn't happen to you but for you.

Very good advice Steve. The worst mistake we make in life is to settle. For a partner we know is incompatible, friendships that lack mutual respect, jobs that are beneath our capabilities. It takes internal strength to know when to say enough and walk away.

Sister is GORGEOUS!😍 I hope she will make a wise decision

I once dated a man that said, "it takes five years of dating to know..." I'm thinking you are crazy. if you don't know sooner than that you are not for me. After 9 months I knew he was not for me.

Amen, say it again Steve. Many individuals need to hear this.

6 years and he can't even call you his girl? 🙄 Sis, miss me with all that. She is way too beautiful to be having some 37 year old boy who can't even call her his girl after nearly a decade. That's insanity. There are plenty of guys who'd be willing to call her their girl after a month or so of dating.

37 years old and he is not financial stable yet!!!! either he a loser or he is just not that into you, girl move on .

His mom seems wise. I loved that story. 🙌🏼 And sometimes the thing that you don't wanna do, is the thing that you need to do.

Lady.. ✌ to this guy

Damn she is very beautiful and cute edit:I ve never got223 likes on youtube before thx guys

Steve's mama must have been an amazing beautiful woman! Steve is carrying on for her. God bless you Steve.

I've experienced both sides of men: turning the world upside down for a woman they love and also letting them wait and hope for years for who knows what reasons. When a man wants you, he will make sure you know!

I'm in tears ,cause it sounds like Steve was talking directly to me

I really need to hear this. This is my present situation, I'm so tired of waiting on this man to gain his financial independence. Tired of taking up his slack. Rather to be single and not feeling burden down.

Preach!!!! Forget the title "uncle Steve" you "Daddy Steve"!!! That right there was the truth! #lifelessons

What a great mama so wise!

Her outfit and smile are amazing. Hopefully she gets her ‘new car’.

I wish these guests had ig pages. I have a job she dont have to wait 6 more seconds.lol.

This young lady gave this man 6 yrs of her life and hasn't gotten the return on the investment she's made. She should cut her losses and move on because he figures as long as she's willing to keep the status quo, he sees no reason to change it. He hasn't in 6 yrs. After 3 yrs she should have had a clue.

Felt this on a spiritual level

Get him TOWED OUT for $15!!! 😩🤣🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽

You gave him the best gift that you could give.... Your time! Sadly you can't get that back as Steve said "ask yourself do you want to continue another six years of this?!" I myself was in same situation and sadly took me a while to leave it hurt but it was best and I got something even better out of it a blessing I've been wanting for the longest...a man who claimed me and wanted me and swooped me up before anyone else could and put a ring on my finger! thank God I let go and got something better I been praying for the longest. Your a beautiful woman there is a guy out there who'll see your worth and will swoop you up as well and you'll be happy that you let go for better 😊🌸

Alot a women going be waiting for a long time.....

I needed to hear that today

I love Steve. Here is a true inspiration. He always has some wise words to teach.

Good teaching sir.I better clear my driveway

How you’re with someone for 6 years and that’s your “friend”? This guy needs to stop playing games. Whatever his situation is, he needs to work on that first then when everything is in order, now he can start dating.

I can relate to this message in so many ways so i always return to hear it again. Steve Harvey's a genius at delivering‼

Steve always has a way of making sense of any situation.

Sis , I said the same thing and invested 23 years for nothing. The only thing I am proud of, out of that relationship, is the child I now have. Love Steve's response. Well said

37????...He ain't tryna get married at all. He almost 40 years old. If he wanted to get married he would have proposed by now. A person who wants to do something goes and does it. A person who doesn't wan't to something just doesn't do it.

I showed this to my “boyfriend” and we broke up 3 days later. Not sure if i was the old car to him, but he was definitely the old raggedy pos on blocks for me. Needless to say, I’ll take some time to heal and go get me a new car! Thanks Steve.

Steve's stories are golden teaching for all people no matter the financial life but he always love to give from his own life experience for us to learn. He is 62 I think a man with that history must something to say for the young to learn. God bless Steve and his family forever. Great example.

Steve Harvey is one of smartest man. God bless that man

Man I understand her pain. Trust yourself girl and move forward

Thank you! I needed that!

That's was a good one!! "He is in the driveway , on blocks!" Gotta get prepared for your blessing. 🙌🙌

Is she living with him?!! Don’t live with a man before he puts a ring on it. 💍💍 It’s hard, but it’s worth the wait to live by yourself or with a roommate compared to shacking up with a man and fearing that he won’t put a ring on it.

I teared up watching this. Bless you Mr. Harvey.

Aaww you’re mom was a wise woman. God bless her soul. I don’t know why but as you were telling your story about your mother I started crying. Mamas are always right. We need to hear them out. And sir you’re pretty wise too. Thanks for sharing your stories. 🙂 I do learn a lot. 💕

this one touch me to the core. I'm in the same situation... Thanks Steve!

If a man can’t give you a position move on. Don’t be scared of fear to start over plus you still young girl. Remember men can do some things that women would never get away with.

Jesus spoke to me through this video!!!!! Thank you Uncle Steve!!!

"I call him my friend because he's uncomfortable with titles" And that right there is the exact latitude and longitude at which he had you effed up 😐

Thank you Mr. harvey...

1:18 You can tell a lot of women in the audience felt that in their spirit. We;ve all been there.

Man !!! Stevie a living legend 💯 obviously his mama was legend too 🙏🙌

Best answer Steve ! Genius!!!

So real. Steve, your mother was a wise woman. Thanks. Blessings. Franny P.

Honey when they get stability forget about him! They drop you like hot potato

Thank you Steve Harvey! It's time! Out with the old In with the new

Dude Steve always make some good old school stories that relatable. Man good job.

Steve’s mom was a very thoughtful lady! What a great analogy...

Not comfortable with titles = you are not his wife material... Run lady run lady..!!! Hey Steve 👋🏾 please bring her back and find her a fine man

6 YEARS?!?!?! Girl PLEASE!!! These women be killing me!!! I’m gone after 2!!! I’m gone much sooner than 2 if you can’t give me a title and be exclusive!!! Why is Steve’s advice not common sense???? This is so sad 😞

That story is everything 😭💞 it's solving all my problems

I definitely enjoyed the message from his anecdote!!!

Steve you betta PREACH!! Young Lady, he’s just not that into you! He’s into titles, just not with you. Pick up your mat and Run 🏃🏾‍♀️ You are worth so much more! You’ve waited 6 yrs too long..Best Wishes to you, there is someone out there in the world looking for you.

I love this response from Steve!! I agree 100 percent

Preach, Steve! Amen and amen again!

WOW!!!! Great point! I love how he put it!!!

I know Steve is making light of the issue but that is an important principle in growth, you've got to get rid of the old to make room for the new - it work for clothes, cars and spouses.

That's some heartbreaking truth right there!👏👏👏

Big fan of Steve Harvey man...ladies listen

HEY STEVE IM A HUGE FAN OF YOUR HEY STEVE SEGMENT.... SINCE I MISS IT DURING THE DAY I WATCH IT ON KZfaq BEFORE I GO TO SLEEP ....AND JUST WANTED TO LET U KNOW THAT MY DRIVEWAY HAS BEEN CLEARED UP FOR 5MONTHS AND NOT PLANNING ON LETTING NO ONE PARK IN IT ANY TIME SOON MEANWHILE I GOT MYSELF A BUS PASS AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE TIL IM READY TO GET A NEW RIDE .... U HAVE HELPED ME IN SO MANY WAYS ESPECIALLY IN MY LOVE LIFE THANK YOU I APPRECIATE IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART 😁😁😁😁

Steve nailed it!

Wow, I love this message and I love the way Steve delivers them. He's got that old wisdom.

Success is when Opportunity meets Preparation.

I’ve seen this before, Uncle Steve’s advice is on point! Also...men who are financially unstable tend to be proud and often stubborn even when their circumstance doesn’t allow. They will let golden opportunities. I think men must step in and help advise eachother...maybe they can understand each other better. 💛