Hospice Papers Are Getting Signed Today

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3 ай бұрын

Hospice here requires two signatures, and one of them is happening today. The other will happen this weekend, but it can't be me. I can't sign for that and my dad understands why. I just do not think my mom is ready to go yet and I believe she is hanging on, despite everything, for a reason. The only problem is, I don't know what to do for her. I am reading about literally everything to try to stimulate her and heal her, but I'm super limited in every way so I feel lost. Its just been one thing after another for her, and I'm not contesting or fighting with anyone about this, because it was a hard decision to make for her. She is the center of our family and has done everything for us, so I want to do everything for her when she needs me.
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@bixby451 3 ай бұрын

I’m autistic and I’m an only child. I don’t have many friends, I don’t have a partner or kids and my biggest fear is losing my mom. I know that day will come but every time I think about it, it destroys me, I cry like a baby even though I’m 31. I can’t imagine how you’re feeling, Andrea. I was crying when you were talking to your mom. Cherish every moment you have with her. Hugs to you all ❤

@observer6421-ds8uu 3 ай бұрын

@bixby451 Is there some way that I can message you privately regarding your own situation?

@dalaimommadrama8929 3 ай бұрын

I'm sorry. I have a 16-year-old with autism and it is my biggest fear for him although he has siblings. I worry that they will not be able to care for him financially because they can barely financially support themselves. He is high functioning, but he has his preferences and needs and I know only I truly know what bothers him and what helps him. I cry myself to sleep every single night thinking about it. I wish I could help every single person in this world with this struggle....I wish I could help them never be afraid to feel alone. I know it's of little solace to you....but when that time should come, know you have people that get it and care.

@2115virgo13 3 ай бұрын

Big hug. I lost my mom at 17. My dad is 82. I can’t think abt it!

@AB-bl1fb 3 ай бұрын

When we die we are sleeping, Jesus words to Lazarus was “Lazarus…wake up”. There will be a resurrection of all those dear to us during Jesus Christ Government or “Kingdom of God”, soon coming, and this kingdom will make of this earth a global paradise where no one will ever suffer again and death will not exist anymore. It’s all in God’s word, and God does not lie. All those that put faith in the Good News of this Kingdom will be there when our loved ones wake up and we will see them again and receive them back to life again in paradise. Matthew 24:14.

@bixby451 3 ай бұрын

@@dalaimommadrama8929 My mom is the same, she’s the only one who truly gets me, she’s the only one who knows the way I am 100% which makes the thought of losing her so painful. This was really comforting to read though, thank you.

@serenababe 3 ай бұрын

I hope to God that your Mum Pulls through! I love her in your videos over the years. She’s amazing and we all LOVE ESTHER!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

@lolaoftwo9045 3 ай бұрын

Andrea, I am so sorry for what you are going through! I hope your mom pulls through. Hugs 🥰

@FoolyLiving 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

@allysonauld3416 3 ай бұрын

Me too😢❤❤❤❤❤❤

@hydrofire1296 3 ай бұрын

Oh beautiful grandmother you are such a blessing in this hard World. Thank you for sharing yourself with the World❤

@OkieDokie680 3 ай бұрын

Praying for you all and sending love.

@annemarie3769 3 ай бұрын

Oh Andrea my heart breaks for you 💔..... Raphael said, "we wish you were well Grandma!" And I broke!!!! Your Mom is so loved. God be with her at that moment and for eternity.

@darettablack3794 3 ай бұрын

Andrea, this has to be the hardest thing you and your family are going through 🙏. As a long time viewer it was hard for me to watch your sweet family suffering . 🫂🫂🫂🫂….Sending my prayers for you and your sweet family. 🙏♥️🙏

@FoolyLiving 3 ай бұрын

Actually, it can always get worse and it did, unimaginable, but still holding on to hope that were done with this storm for a very long time.

@isabellahenderson566 3 ай бұрын

@@FoolyLivingeverything will be ok Andrea, we're all here for you ❤️ I heard a beautiful phrase "everything will be alright in the end, and if it's not alright, it's not yet the end 🙏

@serenababe 3 ай бұрын

Sending love to you all seriously I mean every word I say! Your Mum is amazing! We all need to stay positive for your Mum ❤❤❤❤❤

@Myeverydaywifelife 3 ай бұрын

I’m am so sorry Andrea. My heart goes out to you. I went through hospice with my sister, my mom & my dad. Sister had cancer in 2017, moms had Alzheimer’s 2020 and Dad had dementia . He just passed in January.💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜

@Kat4u2 3 ай бұрын

So sorry Andrea ❤, I cried right with you 😢 I lost my mother 5 years ago now ,but seems like yesterday ! It’s really important that you talked to your mother this whole time that she’s been in a coma ,like say , they can hear everything you say ! I’m praying when Hospice takes your mothers respirator out , that she can breath on her own and miraculously recovers fast w/ no lingering health problems , and makes a full recovery! Miracles do happen ! All the prayers that everyone has been saying for your mother and family are strong , God is good . What ever the outcome , your mother knows she was greatly loved by you , your family , and all your KZfaq family . Prayers here will continue for your mother , you , and your family . Sending big hugs and lots and lots of love ❤

@icajnel 3 ай бұрын

My heart is breaking for you.❤praying that you all feel his comfort in this time. We are still praying, miracles do happen.

@buns2380 3 ай бұрын

😢I am so sorry for what you are going through, It is One of the hardest parts of Life we have to go through, I will continue to pray for you and sending Love and Hugs ❤

@missyd6935 3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry Andrea. My heart breaks for you and the kids. And sweet grandma. I pray for peace for all.

@miss_michelle 3 ай бұрын

Bless you all I can't stop crying I'm so sorry this is happening to you all 😢

@tinamartino9343 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for updating us!!! My heart and prayers are with your family.

@mbain9793 3 ай бұрын

Praying and sending you all hugs! 🫂❤ Thinking of you Andrea, sending you comfort & strength at this difficult time 🕊

@marsene5919 3 ай бұрын

Sending all of you hugs full of strength, courage, love, prayers and comfort.💔🩷💔

@Thunderpaws111 3 ай бұрын

Bless you all. This is so hard. I’m glad that your children are with you, Grandma is hearing you, just struggling to respond. I’m glad that you’re ‘on the ball,’ and aware of the medical gaslighting. You can gently moisturiser Grandma’s skin, it might help keep it stronger and intact. EDS, of course, means extra care when removing adhesive dressings. (The nurses need to be gentle) Don’t forget your needs, as well as Grandma’s needs. Try to do ‘self care’ for yourselves - you’ll be more resilient. EDS’ers bruise easily, another EDS ‘thing!’ As Abigail’s IV was removed, if it happens again, add pressure for a few minutes after to help prevent bruising next time. (I’ve got Classical EDS) Sending you love and encouragement. X

@shannonprice2325 3 ай бұрын

I am sooo sorry for your mom being sick I been watching your channel for a while and I love your family ur a great mama I was with my granny who raised me when she was passing the hardest thing I have ever had to witness in my life

@lindacostello1162 3 ай бұрын

Andrea, I'm so sad for what you and your family are going through right now. 😢 your Mom is definitely in there! I got excited when I saw her feeling around with her tongue to stick it out! She is in my thoughts and prayers every day and I keep those little candles lit for her, your Dad, and the rest of your family. I love you guys! ❤❤❤❤❤

@koc4787 3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry!!! My heart breaks for you! I agree on the lies. Experienced it with my grandmother and now my mom. Hang in there. Sending prayers for strength! Love to you all from Wisconsin!

@celinesanchez2106 3 ай бұрын

Andrea I am so sorry I know what you’re going through. My mother was put on Hospice last year. She went to be with the Lord on Jan.4,23. You are absolutely right about the hospitals. You have to have a watchful eye if a love one ends up in the hospital . We learned this lesson ten years ago when my father passed. Praying for your family. God bless

@FoolyLiving 3 ай бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss, you only get one momma, you know? Its a big loss, but she had you for many years and I'm sure she is watching over you

@MFF901 3 ай бұрын

Andrea I am praying 🙏 your mom wakes up ny the grace of God and shows them she is still alive 🙏❤Sending blessings to you and your family 🙌

@carousel15drummond92 3 ай бұрын

Oh Andrea I am so so sorry I feel your pain ,I nursed my mother until the end at home,.. I was 39 she was 70 hardest thing I have ever done it’s so hard hugs and prayers my darling

@teeshriiska 3 ай бұрын

So so sorry Andrea!! Sending prayers and hugs your way!!😢❤️😢❤️😢❤️

@cherubimarch4268 3 ай бұрын

Andrea and family, I am so very sorry you are having to go through this and I understand what you are going through, I had to deal with this myself here in North Carolina with my Grandma. It was just my uncle and I having to fight for her after she had a stroke (she suffered with strokes for years) and slipped into a coma. Nobody cared and we did unfortunately lose her when she was sent to hospice. I do know that no matter what anyone says, there isn't going to be comfort even from those who've gone though similar because it just hurts so bad. I really hope that Esther pulls through this. Praying for all of you. Not that it'll help much, but something that got me through everything at least in terms of taking my mind off what all was/happened, was to play games, I just played on my PlayStation and PC and it helped, just thought I'd mention that since you all play games too. Prayers and hugs from a fellow gamer in North Carolina.

@justathoughtmyfriend1403 3 ай бұрын

Sending strength, healing and protect to you, your mom, and family.

@angelmission 3 ай бұрын

I am so so sorry, Andrea! I'm also sorry I cannot watch as this bring back some horrible memories for me. I just wish you were not having to go through this. I understand you totally! Hugs to you all!

@simplydanlrene4276 3 ай бұрын

Hospitals have changed so much that I hate having to go. My doctor even realizes I have strong feelings about it. I am so sorry Andrea. I know how hard it is to watch your parent dying. I came into the hospital when my father was dying and he seemed so agitated. I went over and put my hands on him and said "Daddy I am here." I knew he knew it was me as I am the only one that called him Daddy. I told him not to worry, we would take care of Mama. I also told him to go be with his mother. She was there for him. It was the hardest thing to tell him but less than five minutes later he was gone. I am still praying for that miracle for you. I feel your pain and know you are trying to be so strong for the kids. I am praying for you and the family too.

@CJAH-gc4ci 3 ай бұрын

I pray for a miracle for your Mom.🙏🏻

@nikelindstrom4176 3 ай бұрын

You’re such a sweetheart and I understand how you feel❤️ I’ve worked in a hospital and I’ve dealt with a lot of family members that won’t accept the situation, it’s normal and loosing ones mom is unbearable! I can assure you that not all doctors and nurses are liers and indifferent and only cares about the money.. they’re just more realistic about what’s happening😘

@elizabethanne6361 3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry, what a difficult decision. Sending you are your family prayers for comfort.

@phyllispartonmarks8912 3 ай бұрын

God Bless you all. I Pray for God to give you strength. Strength to do what you think is right. Strength to get through the days ahead. Sending love & hugs & many Prayers 🙏🙏🙏

@aliciapaquette1131 3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for all of this. My heart is breaking for you guys. I'll be praying ❤❤🙏🙏

@deecates7715 3 ай бұрын

Andrea I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through. I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. And sadly I agree about the drs and staff lying to you. I have been through similar situations with a few of my loved ones. My heart hurts for you Andrea especially. Watching you and your mom always doing things together and spending time together really has made me think of me and my mom. ❤ The special bond that you both have with each other. I think it is so sweet when Abigail and Rafael talk to Grandma. And I know watching your mom like this is so hard.

@alisonlee7944 3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry Andrea. sending you love and prayers ,

@LivingMyBestLifein2024 3 ай бұрын

Oh no, I'm so sorry for you and your family. I went through this with my father. I held his hand as he passed on.

@susanasetas 3 ай бұрын

This is so heartbreaking... It's a decision no one should have to make. I will keep praying. ❤

@stephburnett202 3 ай бұрын

Im so sorry you’re all going through this! Soo heartbreaking!!

@estherruesink1144 3 ай бұрын

So so sorry for you and your family....❤ This must be so hard to go through....

@ValentinaMitchell1 3 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry, I know this is a tough time. I hope things turn around for the better. I’ve been thru similar with my mom already and if you have any questions, I’m here. It was a long process for sure. All my love

@amyeli33 3 ай бұрын

I'm sorry to hear that your mom is going to go on hospice soon. Hopefully she will be able to breathe on her own soon so she has a chance to recover.

@connieheitz8982 3 ай бұрын

My heart goes out to you and your family. I've been there. Nurses overdosing to where the respiratory therapist couldn't wein her off the ventilator. She was in a nursing home far away from our homes. It was a nightmare. Finally they worked to get her out of there. So we would leave them alone. She finally got to come home. Make sure they are not over dosing her to where she can't wake up. They do that so that they don't have to bother with them. And mom was always a good patient. And kind to the nurses all her life. Mom didn't have it in her to be mean. It's a sad state we live in when those paid to take care of others could care less. This is a very short version of what all went on there. God bless. Sent up prayers.

@FoolyLiving 3 ай бұрын

I know what you went through, believe me. I know! I didnt know until this happened to my mom. She worked all her life and pays for health insurance. She thought she was safe. I know.... but you dont know what you dont know, and I hope to bring awareness to the heartlessness that goes on in hospitals. No, not everyone is like this, but moreso than not from what I've found, and I'm sure you experienced exactly the same thing and you feel absolutely POWERLESS. I cannot be there 24/7. The night nurses at the first hospital would crank up the babysitting juice at night and I called one night and asked how she was and the nurse told me that shes sedated because she was pulling at her wires and cords. I said, Did she wake up????? SHES IN A COMA!!!!! That did me in right there.... Just did me in... I am so sorry for anyone having to go through this. It is a nightmare because you are literally stuck and helpless.

@connieheitz8982 3 ай бұрын

@@FoolyLiving yes you are and your at the mercy of them and government. My dad, sister and I would go twice through the week. And never the same days so they wouldn't know when we were coming. Then on the weekends my brother's and dad would go. When I would leave, which I hated to do, I would have to put the place and mom out of my mind. I know it sounds heartless, but for my own sanity I had to. Thank God my doctor called me in something for my anxiety, cause without that I would have really been hurting. And it wasn't like we could have her moved. She was a vent patient and it's risky moving them to another place. Once Medicare knew there was a bed open there they said she had to be moved from the hospital she was in to that place. Which I might add was on the states watch list. And you're right, it's about the money. The day she was checked in the the nurse administrator said vent patients were their bread and butter. Again prayers.

@connieheitz8982 3 ай бұрын

@@FoolyLiving you do feel powerless. You're loved one is left at the mercy of people who don't care. When I would leave there I would have to put the place and mom out of my mind. I know that sounds heartless. But I had to, to keep my own sanity. And it is about money. The day she was being checked in the nurse administrator told us vent patients were their bread and butter. We should have known then but we thought they were good at what they do. Nope it wasn't. They were on the states watch list. We all found this out too late. Once Medicare found out a bed was open there she had to go. The place needed to be shut down. We are at the mercy of the government and a failed health care system that allows bad nurses and the like to keep their jobs, and nursing homes that has no business being open still operating. This was in 2008 and their still operating. We feel blessed she made it out alive. And if wasn't for us I don't think she would ever left that place. We went twice a week, my sister, dad, and me. where it was far from where we lived, and we never let them know what two days we'd be there. And my brother's and dad would go on the weekends. It was a nightmare to say the least.

@kayleigh7575 3 ай бұрын

Hi, Andrea. I’m I silent viewer and have been watching your channel for many years. I just want to tell you that you are an amazing daughter, mother and wife. You are so selfless and watching the love and affection you have given to your mum whilst she has been in such a traumatic state has been absolutely heartbreaking yet so wholesome. I pray Esther pulls through this. Stay strong. Keep hope. Keep pushing. Sending so much love from England ❤❤❤

@lynno7725 3 ай бұрын

Andrea, I'm so sorry for what you & your family are going through. Your mom is a gem and I'm praying for a miracle! ❤

@frootlooop 3 ай бұрын

im so sorry, my grandpa just passed away september of 2022 n this video reminded me so much of it all, i feel for you n your kids really, i wish nothing but the best for all of you🙏🏻💕

@CarolPlant-hc9cu 3 ай бұрын

So sorry you are all going through this, warm hugs for you all

@kellyabear6361 3 ай бұрын

I’m so very sorry that you guys are going through this!!

@Amandapanda888 3 ай бұрын

You saying “good god” about the door chime made me laugh out loud 😂

@FoolyLiving 3 ай бұрын

lol I know, that thing.. I have to move it. Its got a big sensor rofl.

@evsheskin 3 ай бұрын

My heart goes out to you and the family Andrea. I hope that at lest your mom is comfortable and has no pain.

@EV-rc4jm 3 ай бұрын

So sad!!!! she is still there, she can definitely understand, you are such a strong daughter and the kids are the sweetest!!!! Such a strong lady, she wants to live definitely!!!! Sending many prayers Andrea!!

@nancyfarkas3592 3 ай бұрын

You can’t really know what she is thinking. None of us can

@pennyr9989 3 ай бұрын

I took care of my Mama while she was on hospice with end stage COPD last year. My heart and prayers are with you during this difficult journey, in Jesus Name

@gorginajonker4808 3 ай бұрын

I pray grandma pulls through!! So sorry you are going through this, it’s so hard! You are an amazing daughter and your kids are just beautiful. Praying for a miracle.

@BrendaD72 3 ай бұрын

Those poor kids just love their Grandma. 😢 We’ve been there, and the doubt, the wondering, the hope…it’s such a hard mix. Praying for you all.

@TaraLemieux 3 ай бұрын

God bless you for inviting each of us into this space with you ❤

@saraharmstrong8150 3 ай бұрын

Stress and shock. It's absolutely heartbreaking. Continued prayer, blessings and huge hugs❤

@naiomimoore6403 3 ай бұрын

❤❤sending you lots of love and praying for you're mom 💕💕

@lisabinkley592 3 ай бұрын

I’m so very sorry 😢 I know how it feels to lose a parent, a feeling you can’t describe. Im praying somehow a miracle can happen…I’m praying regularly for all of you. So sorry you have to go through this ❤

@Andi-bj4ig 3 ай бұрын

I don't know what to say😢 I'm so sorry for you! My love and hugs for you❤

@Sunday-praise 3 ай бұрын

I am praying for your mom and your family! I been following you guys so a while since my 6 year old was very little! I lost my old KZfaq account and a few years later I finally got back into watching you guys! I’m so sad to see you hurting! I truly have love and admiration for you and your mom and family! Much love and prayers to you guys!

@Jackashermacias7 3 ай бұрын

sending a lot of hugs from the heart, prayers, and absolute strength, Andrea and the family ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏻

@elmo1119 3 ай бұрын

Oh Andrea! I know and understand what you are going through. My mom and I went through this back in 2013 with my dad. He had COPD/Emphysema and had gotten sick with pneumonia. He wound up on a respirator and was in the hospital for almost 2 months! He seemed like he was getting better but then something happened and it came down to where my mom and I had to make the decision. Beforehand though my dad had told the both of us that he wanted the trach off. My mother and I looked at each other and she told him but if we have them take you off, there is a chance you may not make it and I don't want to feel guilty. He managed to sit himself up straight, looked at my mom and although you couldn't hear his voice, you were able to read his lips and he was like No! Don't feel guilty. I think he knew what was happening and I don't think he wanted to live off of the vent. A couple of days later, when my mother and I went up, I walked into the room and if you had seen the look on his face and how he was struggling, it was not pretty. He wanted the nurse to give him something to help him relax. And as we were sitting there with my Aunt and a neighbor of ours, both mom and I kept looking at each other, looking at my dad just laying there and at some point, I was like I can't. Dad wanted the thing off... he did not want to live the rest of his life for however long he had on this ventilator because his system was slowly shutting down anyway. Everything they did, with medication and treatments to try and help him were not working. His body was just not responding So, we made the hard decision. He lasted maybe 6 hours after they took him off. He passed away on July 2nd, 2013... And then in 2021, I lost my mom... she had stage 4 Ovarian cancer which spread and metastasized into her pelvic and abdomen area and so I had her in hospice care. She deteriorated quite quickly when diagnosed. She only lasted about 3 weeks after being diagnosed. She passed right on Sept 11th, 2021.... now I'm alone and trying to manage by myself. I have no siblings. Oh Andrea! I am so sorry you are going through this and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! ❤

@dalaimommadrama8929 3 ай бұрын

This is heartbreaking!! I watched this twice, ugly crying the entire time. Ugh, the thought of what you have gone through. We saw her....we saw Esther only months ago, laughing and talking, and helping the kids open gifts and going thrift shopping with you. How the hell can this be??!!! Gives me memories of how we lost my grandma because of cancer. They treated her until her and my grandfather were drained of all their life savings (and it was A LOT) and when it was all gone they said there was no more they could do for her. Months later my grandpa died. He refused to live without my grandma. We knew his heart broke irreparably. Life makes me so mad that it has to hurt so much. P.S: I have faith in many of those that work in medical. I have family that are doctors, nurses....my favorite cousin has been a nurse in many specialties and she is amazing. She struggled with welfare and school and eventually becoming a nurse...blood sweat and tears...all for her kids. She knows the pain families go through when it comes to insurance and money. BUT, yes....as she even says, it's heartbreaking what families go through fighting for their loved ones and the financial side of all of this. She ALWAYS is the one that shows up at the hospital and appointments and advocates for us when doctors are not listening to us. She has done it many times and she has also been very mad at the treatment that so many patients get. HOWEVER, not all are liars or terrible and most fight their own personal life frustrations to help their patients...many have their hands tied to what they can do. And then you have the others....as you are dealing with. It's maddening. Frustrating. I'm thinking of Esther and you all.

@LillianVanDerKruk 3 ай бұрын

Dear Andrea , i know how hard this is , i pray for all of you ! Wish i could help and do something for you all !! You all have a place in my heart!! Please stay strong, God bless you ❤and 🙏 from the Netherlands 🇳🇱 ❤Lillian 🌺🌿

@yvonnmaryhughes 3 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear about your mom cherish every moment with her she knows you all are there with her ❤

@e.skhamis6086 3 ай бұрын

Im sorry Andrea 💔💔😭 i stopped a few times and still haven't watched all coz it s so heartbreaking. Im so sorry stay strong please... *I hope and pray you get good help/people for your mom. And Rafael and Abigail are both so lovely and brave. Sending love and prayers 🙏❤️

@melissalove2463 3 ай бұрын

I hope you can feel my cuddles from Australia Andrea ! I hate to see you & your family going through this ! What sort of world do we live in when money is more important than a life ! 💞😢💞

@Judy122550 3 ай бұрын

prayers continue for your Mom & for all of you & Andrea you are beautiful, beautiful you, with your hair up or down !

@cathybrown554 3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your family.Hadar is such a big help.Cute Smokey Bear shirt.This must be difficult for your dad as well.❤&🤗

@kristenleblond5047 3 ай бұрын

Andrea, my heart goes out to you. Your mother is such a kind, sweet, loving woman. I can totally understand where you are coming from. Making the choice/decision, between life and death of a loved one, I can't even imagine how difficult it must be for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers continue for you and your family.

@aprilroberts7917 3 ай бұрын

This is so hart bracking we all love your mum ❤️❤️

@karrieferman4816 3 ай бұрын

Oh my I’m so so so very sorry 😞 love to you and your family praying for a miracle 😘😘😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕💕💕

@weightnomore4darla845 3 ай бұрын

Andrea, please fight for your mom. Follow your instincts. Do the doctors believe there’s no chance of her survival and/ or that she would not have any quality of life? We (being the viewers) love your mom and your family! I know this is killing you inside. Just continue to advocate for her Andrea. It doesn’t mean you’re going against your family because sometimes they can be looking at it differently than you. just do what you think is right honey. We’re here to support you, but I just can’t stand the thoughts of thinking that she’s not gonna have a chance to recover. hugs from Ohio

@karolynpieren5129 3 ай бұрын

I love your mom. Such a bright spot in your channel. Too young to go thru this. I’m So very sorry. Praying for her health.

@karenchakey 3 ай бұрын

Oh Andera i feel for you. I had to let my mom go like that as well in 2015. I know how heart breaking it is, i sang to my mom as she went to heaven. ❤❤❤❤ your in my prayers

@karendelaney7456 3 ай бұрын

Keeping you all in my prayers just remember miracles happen you got a strong mother all my love♥️🙏

@JenniferMarie1990 3 ай бұрын

Praying for you and your family. God is good and he is with your mom right now watching over her.

@FoolyLiving 3 ай бұрын

For sure, she has so many blessings, and we need to get her the help she needs (therapy) because they are holding back on helping her and I dont know why!

@imacurlygirl 3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you are going through this. We did it with my dad. It was a month of hell. Does your mom having a living will??? My dad did and he was adamant that he didn't want to live on machines, etc. It is such a painful experience losing a parent. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time!

@timothysherreyehler5095 3 ай бұрын

Andrea, Hadar, and family, I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful Mom, and Grammie, and her recent health crisis. She is such a loving, compassionate, and incredible woman. I am crying watching what is happening to your entire family.; I so wish I could lessen your pain. Please know that I think of you often, and I am sending you my love, and hugs, always, Sherrey💕💕💕💕💕💕🍁

@user-eb7yk7qd2i 3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry about your mom my heart breaks for you😥

@capybara5073 3 ай бұрын

Praying for you in michigan, praying for your mother ❤ I have ocd myself

@penny3406 3 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness I hope Abigail is ok ❤❤ and each night I will pray for your family ❤️💕

@sharonflanagan2404 3 ай бұрын

Oh Andrea its so hard to see you mom like this 😢thinking of you all ❤❤❤❤

@Worldtraveler2003 3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry Andrea.. I am sending you lots of hugs during this hard time…

@janetdavis6157 3 ай бұрын

I sorry for all that your enduring, I’m still in mine! I just lost my mom at in home hospice. I was in the hospital myself confined to my bed for 2 weeks I was only able to talk with my mom via FaceTime 😟😟! Although I should be grateful for that. She left us on Valentine’s Day!! But I will say you are so right about people telling you different things in the hospital!!! It is so so very important to have a Person speaking up for your loved or yourself. You just keep doing what you think is best go by your gut feeling. Im not saying to listen to the medical staff but you know what i mean. I wish your family the best through this season in your life,.Have a Blessed Day🦋

@SOUTHERNLADYLIBRAASMR 3 ай бұрын

God bless her soul. I’m still praying Andrea.🙏❤

@Alirobin77 3 ай бұрын

I’m sorry about your mom Andrea 💓 I am praying for a miracle! And yes, hospitals are all about money. My mom is a cardiac nurse and they will work her to death because the more surgeries, the more money! It’s quite sad

@jneher2992 3 ай бұрын

God bless you all.such love for Grandma.She knows you are there with her.

@BlessupJuliaTazzJazz 3 ай бұрын

Stay strong my friend ❤❤❤

@michellejones4934 3 ай бұрын

Andrea, prayers!

@deelindastimac7359 3 ай бұрын

It's awful seeing her this way definitely a hard decision but she's in there maybe more time is all she needs holding out hope sending prayers big hug 🫂 ❤

@pinkfigi6725 3 ай бұрын

Prayers for your family Andrea. 🙏🏻❤️

@supercreeperstar5976 3 ай бұрын

0:19 I’m so sorry to hear that. that is so sad. sending my love to you your dad and kids.

@ClaudetteMalespina 3 ай бұрын

Hello I'm so sorry you have to watch this happen to your Mom.I went through this with my Mom in 2011, and it is such a hard thing to go through. Time just goes so quickly. I'm sending you healing prayers and light.🙏💞

@allysonauld3416 3 ай бұрын

Andrea i lost my Mum from an aneurysm 55yrs ago . I feel your pain. I love the way you guys love her. Your kids are so loving and brave at Grammas bedside❤ sending lots of love and strength from Down Under❤❤❤❤❤

@serenababe 3 ай бұрын

My partner’s Mum passed away on the 16th of January, and they didn’t give her fluids on two occasions-one for 3 days and just before she passed they didn’t give her any for a few days before she passed. They said she needed to be on oxygen and then she will be on fluids, but she was so thirsty that she kept asking to take her mask off. Anyway my partner’s sister turned up and she kept begging to take her mask off, she had it off had a sip of water, tried to get the oxygen mask back on and couldn’t and that’s when she passed away. So heartbreaking. Also she signed a DNR when she first went into the hospital not knowing really what she was doing, and we asked her if she wanted a DNR(I recorded her saying she didn’t want one) we spoke to the staff there and they said they would change it-it never was changed so when she went flat lined they were about to resuscitate her then looked at the board showing she signed a DNR and didn’t resuscitate her. So we are getting them done for neglecting her and lying to us too. SO PLEASE FIGHT FOR YOUR MUM (as you are doing) AND DON’T LET THEM GET AWAY WITH ANYTHING! Don’t regret anything cos I know my partner does. ❤❤❤❤❤