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How A Polyamorous Foursome Manages Their Money
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Күн бұрынRachel, Kyle, Ashley and Yair are two married couples in a non-monogamous relationship. They share a house, car, dog, cat, partners and finances. They also have plans to have children together.
Obstacles they've faced having to do with rights and benefits as four partners have prompted them to meet with a lawyer to get divorced from one another and create a co-habitation agreement.
Watch this video to learn how they manage finances in their non-traditional relationship.
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How A Polyamorous Foursome Manages Their Money
@TheNoerdy 2 жыл бұрын
Are we at the point that you need 4 people with normal jobs to afford a house
@lynwilson9259 Жыл бұрын
The truth of this comment though..😆😆
@ebonydarknessdementiaraven204 6 ай бұрын
Yes
@CurvaLish 4 ай бұрын
Bruh! 😂
@FriesLIVE 4 ай бұрын
Yes.
@kbanghart 4 ай бұрын
@@FriesLIVE good. More excuse to sleep around 😁
@Jonathan_Solomon 2 жыл бұрын
I would love to see a follow-up story 1-3 years from now.
@stoonookw Жыл бұрын
I mean a lot of relationships don’t work 1-3 years later
@whiteyobanion1104 Жыл бұрын
They'll all be dying of STDs.
@hotshotx1598 Жыл бұрын
They'll still be together and you'll still be alone, most likely.
@lorrainea.285 Жыл бұрын
That will most likely be on “Snapped” or “Crime ID”🤨
@nazapadu02 Жыл бұрын
the beta guy leaves
@bindu6490 2 ай бұрын
For everyone wondering, here is a 2 year update, Kyle broke up with them and moved out a few months after this video. Rachel and Ash both got pregnant around the same time with Yair. They seem to be doing ok based on their social media.
@SteveAcomb 7 ай бұрын
0:20 A mixologist, a culinary director, and a private chef bro thats not a polycule thats a catering company 💀
@EugeneWangombe 2 жыл бұрын
Just register a company and consentually smash as co-workers. Get tax benefits, and discounts on insurance and good credit. It doesn't have to be this complicated. Unless...
@N0Xa880iUL 2 жыл бұрын
Go on
@UserName-iq7uu 2 жыл бұрын
Lmfao 🤣
@eligreg99 2 жыл бұрын
Hey you might be on to something….
@beatricerights 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao, genius. They should hire you.
@holdencawffle626 2 жыл бұрын
Pls yes, go on
@saintking64 2 жыл бұрын
Kyle looks like a hostage for 70% of this video
@gb5007 2 жыл бұрын
Kyle is clearly submissive to the other man who does all the talking for him...
@shannongreen1520 2 жыл бұрын
Evan Ward :In my Neal Brennan voice..My name is Kyle..I am ok...Tell my family that I love them....Send the ransom money...😆😆😆
@Finite8614 2 жыл бұрын
"Hey I'm Kyle and this is my wife's boyfriend Yair"
@Talkwithtina808 2 жыл бұрын
😩
@In-Gall_Tegidda_n_Tesemt 2 ай бұрын
You’d have to be a hostage to agree with this nonsense… Looks like Stockholm Syndrome to me…
@annery993 2 жыл бұрын
Did I miss it or do Kyle and Yair not interact much? It seems to be the Rachel show.
@PraiseEmmmanuel 2 жыл бұрын
Whoever is paying down the mortgage without owning it is getting scammed 😂
@Tmoises58 2 жыл бұрын
I laughed harder than I should have. This is why I live alone
@llcross04 2 жыл бұрын
The non owners should pay cheap rent. A win win for everyone
@beatricerights 2 жыл бұрын
It's called rent. They are tenants
@TheCreoleSon89 2 жыл бұрын
Courts won’t help with this situation either lol
@PraiseEmmmanuel 2 жыл бұрын
@@beatricerights they’re not just tenants 😂 imagine paying down your partners mortgage and your name isn’t even on the title
@user-gb5ff7gj1m 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine how much more complicated life is having three partners . Having one partner is already complicated enough.
@kayleighshuler9758 2 жыл бұрын
Try shifting your focus and imagine how much love and support you might have!
@ghastlycandle Жыл бұрын
I feel like a relationship with multiple people works better with an even number of people compared to say 3 people (I'm not polyamorous so I could be wrong, but that's my guess). I think as long as there's everyone's communicating and everyone's on the same page and consenting I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't know if I personally could do this, but it's not my place to judge others on their relationships if they're okay with it. I know some people will use the scenario of Person A and Person B leaving Person C for each other and to that I'd say that I think it depends on how they go about it (cause not every relationship lasts, sometimes people fall out of love and that's okay), if A and B explained to C the situation and why they feel what they feel, then that's better than just running away from C or keeping it a secret
@N0Xa880iUL Жыл бұрын
@@ghastlycandle Ah yes, maths.
@hotshotx1598 Жыл бұрын
🌠 Unhealthy Relationship Quotes 🌠
@jk-gn2fu Жыл бұрын
@@yukijames1321 You got bored because you smash the same partner everyday. If you have two partners and switch between those two, it feels new everyday!
@xislis6037 2 жыл бұрын
I'm more shocked at how they share finances than the type of relationship they are in (their choice). I have so many questions like, "does everyone put in the same amount and get to keep whatever is leftover in a personal account?" I've only ever seen dysfunctional polygamous relationships and money is kept separately.
@greyrock9747 Жыл бұрын
I'm poly and I'd say I've seen less dysfunctional than in monogamous relationships.
@vicconstruction9126 Жыл бұрын
@@greyrock9747 Lol. You have so much to learn. Good luck.
@greyrock9747 Жыл бұрын
@@vicconstruction9126 You have confused being overconfident and condescending with intellect. Easy mistake. I bet you never even been in a poly relationship and you are speaking from ignorance.
@richardprice5978 Жыл бұрын
one way is i make the $$ ( im okay with them working but me/primarily-income and kids come's 1st priority's so as a example 1 is full time and 1 is homemaker or both are 20hours at work the rest of the time is homemaking ect ) and the bi wife's allocate it like congress/parliamentary does aka one big happy account and something squirrelled a side for my car/racing hobbies that there ok with my spending aka like the uk king as yep he can do anything he'd like but parliament can stop him by not funding it
@kbanghart 4 ай бұрын
@@vicconstruction9126 monogamy is successful?
@2BOLD4U 2 жыл бұрын
I wasn't expecting their financial situation to be as complicated as it is.
@denoosoo Жыл бұрын
rocket power 😎
@narutofan4545 11 ай бұрын
@@denoosoohuh
@marisabeltran3084 10 ай бұрын
For you it’s complicated.
@gb5007 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel is clearly the main man and boss in this four-way relationship / household ...
@Dr.HouseMD 2 жыл бұрын
Its pretty bananas that a person can go off her meds for just a few months and accomplish this much in two years.
@savvyw5891 2 жыл бұрын
Yet she is wearing a collar. So . . . Is she?
@jnspincliffe2 2 жыл бұрын
You don’t have to use ‘man’ to describe her taking the lead
@beatricerights 2 жыл бұрын
@@savvyw5891 Lmao
@lineage13 2 жыл бұрын
She's got two husbands and a wife and she owns the house which is in her name, while they pay her mortgage haha
@d.prescott4895 2 жыл бұрын
This all happened during the pandemic? So, in two and half years they met, moved in, joined finances, are getting divorces, and hired a lawyer to work out their relationship? Why the rush? I still haven't figured out how to make bread.
@brynnwalk4390 Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly 😂. I thought I heard the timeframe wrong.
@TheErmerm999 Жыл бұрын
I am here to check on your lockdown sour dough starter...
@henkaistudio Жыл бұрын
@@TheErmerm999 Polygamous Foursome relationships are very rare because you see two women and two men in altogether in this relationship.
@carmagurl317 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@ede.5487 2 жыл бұрын
Kyle, blink twice if you need rescuing. These people are running all over you !
@corinneblair8795 2 жыл бұрын
Or subtly raise you hand 🙋♂️🤚!! We’re here for you Kyle!! Platonically, of course! 😉
@moxiejones7582 2 жыл бұрын
😅
@naturalbeauty_abena1230 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@michaeljohnson6752 2 жыл бұрын
Glad I ain’t the only one. He’s getting the short end of the stick 🥲
@Detroitmamma 2 жыл бұрын
😆 🤣 😂
@tuckermay2597 Жыл бұрын
they're worried about not all of them getting credit card benefits but casually glance over the fact that the home is only in 2 of their names yet they split it equally! meaning the other 2 have no legal claim to the equity
@borderlinenocturnal6195 Жыл бұрын
Yea because the law is created to only accommodate monogamous relationships. Did you not hear them? They’re literally trying their hardest to get all four of them rights as a four-way-relationship.
@hollynonya6991 7 ай бұрын
@@borderlinenocturnal6195 that's because monogamy is the norm for human adults It's called pair bonding
@sd7785 3 ай бұрын
@@hollynonya6991For the zast majority of human history, polygamy was the norm. Monogamy is a very recent development
@hollynonya6991 3 ай бұрын
@@sd7785 men spending their seed? Yeah 😂 Not women however But we're talking about NOW Presentism, Google it
@planetChristie Жыл бұрын
They should’ve just kept their account separates and had 1 account for the bills. Transferring money over is less complicated!
@ariels2730 Жыл бұрын
I agree. That's how my polycule does it.
@ScottDDavisMusic Жыл бұрын
That seems simpler to me as well.
@thedarksideoftheforce6658 Ай бұрын
@@ariels2730You are poly?
@ariels2730 Ай бұрын
@@thedarksideoftheforce6658 yeah, for over 10 years now
@alohaazzie8462 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s see…Rachel is the ring leader Yair often has the power struggle with her, but usually just falls as second in command Kyle is the silent yes man and just goes with whatever they all say Ashley is just happy to be included
@boba5559 Жыл бұрын
Spot on!!! You could be a forensic scientist 😂
@shinji1264 Жыл бұрын
Rachel is glad she gets to take advantage of this man and his wife at the same time 😂
@ThePeanutGiant Жыл бұрын
Silent man is the simp and is bottom of bottom.
@mikehawk9810 Жыл бұрын
Yeh.... the two women are into each other and the betas follow along because they have no idea how to lead.
@Tunechi65 2 жыл бұрын
This is Rachel's show, everyone else is just living in her fantasy. 🤡
@inko123 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@letsgetjackdup9952 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel and Yaier... you see that connection is strong there. The other two are just there
@shaia9427 Жыл бұрын
I love how free and honest they are to live their truth. It might not be for everyone but they do what makes them happy.
@Jaime-eg4eb 2 жыл бұрын
I wish them well, they seem happy. Personally I would never want to share finances like that! It's difficult for two people to disentangle their finances when they separate, this seems even more complicated (potentially).
@AG-en5y 2 жыл бұрын
Sharing finances is your main concern? Brah
@Jaime-eg4eb 2 жыл бұрын
@@AG-en5y Yep, they seem happy and who am I to tell them that my life choices are better? If anything, in a nihilistic disconnected world they seem to have something special going on.
@shinji1264 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jaime-eg4eb I'm a practice nihilism to some extent and what they got going on is doomed for failure.
@Jaime-eg4eb 2 жыл бұрын
@@shinji1264 I think you are probably right, but if we only valued relationships that weren't doomed in some way we'd all be pretty lonely haha. I see some good in this one, for sure.
@ghastlycandle Жыл бұрын
@@Jaime-eg4eb I agree, I think it's interesting how a lot of people who haven't been in this kind of relationship dynamic automatically assume that a poly relationship won't work out in the long run. Not every relationship lasts obviously, but how can we know when something will or won't work based on a 10-min clip that shows a brief segment of others' lives? I think most see polyamory with "infidelity" glasses, I don't think they see it as a relationship where people are happy being with each other but rather people who are "incapable of choosing" or "like to cheat" or "like to sleep around". Just like any other relationship, if everyone is communicating, consenting, all on the same page, then what's the issue? They're grown adults who are okay with this relationship dynamic, no one seems to be getting hurt, who are we to judge them?
@MsTek 2 жыл бұрын
How to make your life way more complicated.
@WhatistheplanCaroline 2 жыл бұрын
How to be happy. It's makes them happy and our systems do t support anything else than man and woman relationship and that is sad. They care about each other and not hurting anyone in process so... Why are we care it's nothing to us to judge them! We may or may not agree with that way of life but should not disseminate :)
@pouroverfinance 2 жыл бұрын
@@WhatistheplanCaroline she simply stated a fact, this lifestyle choice is very complicated. The video did very little to highlight finances, it was literally a video about their complications as a foursome.
@N0Xa880iUL 2 жыл бұрын
@@WhatistheplanCaroline Average polyamory enjoyer
@stoonookw 2 жыл бұрын
Yoooo why is there so much hate here? Y’all are robots LOL
@user-gb5ff7gj1m 2 жыл бұрын
Not to be judgmental, but one partner already complicates life... two more partners... I can’t even imagine ... not even talking about kids later in their relationship
@Corey25 2 жыл бұрын
Graham is going to have fun with this one
@ManifestwithMary 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@donnyjay4269 2 жыл бұрын
For sure..I’m looking forward to his take 😂
@Veerow2005 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@Devinn504 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@uiucchemistry2664 2 жыл бұрын
Same, can’t wait to see his reaction video! This is so messed-up and will likely end up in flames lol
@jerrykennedy2082 Жыл бұрын
this should be a tv show.
@gb5007 2 жыл бұрын
This just seems like a solution for Rachel to justify her affair with Yair...
@AJ-jw6yp 2 жыл бұрын
That's what I thought too!! I don't see this ending well at all
@jessevilla9948 2 жыл бұрын
Or perhaps it’s possible for people to happily live outside of social norms.
@MisterMellyC 2 жыл бұрын
Right???
@lilbrova 2 жыл бұрын
Looool thank you!!! 🤣🤣 All this long story.. it's so obvious
@lalakuma9 Жыл бұрын
and with Ashley?
@AnonymouslyYours290 Жыл бұрын
Why stop at 4?
@lbpee9962 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@traetonmcglohon4563 2 жыл бұрын
This is definitely not going to end horribly 😅
@shinji1264 2 жыл бұрын
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL 😂😂😂😂🤪🤪
@hotshotx1598 Жыл бұрын
Can't end any worse than those monogamous relationships that end in murder due to infidelity....
@kelechiezealaji4202 Жыл бұрын
@@hotshotx1598 double the people, double the murder lol
@jellybellyfun3288 Жыл бұрын
Not??? 🤔
@gregsgrowth530 Жыл бұрын
@@kelechiezealaji4202 or triple ?
@JohnCarlosMartinez 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Graham Stephen is not reacting to this one.
@tonix8470 2 жыл бұрын
lol
@samanthacruz5587 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard just to find one partner while these people managed to find more than one. Unbelievable
@chioma_u 2 жыл бұрын
😭🤣😭🤣
@elisakrivas 2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand this problem, really.
@hotshotx1598 Жыл бұрын
Cause they actually have a degrees of selflessness, unlike you and most other lonely people. ;)
@Coastpsych_fi99 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mikehawk9810 Жыл бұрын
No they didn't. The red head is into the brunett. The hubbys are tagging along because they have no choice or balls
@rommyaznaran9508 2 жыл бұрын
These people are very disciplined and organized! Sitting down to budget all expenses. That’s discipline.
@RaiiiL 7 ай бұрын
Yes, they are the best role model to show this type of relationstip. Population doesn't work out well without intelect, a 4 man relationship is basically the same. it requires alot of intelect and discipline It doesn't work with goofy heads.
@metorphoric Жыл бұрын
The therapist runs this "relationship". Her entire mannerism says it all.
@saidzid3379 Жыл бұрын
Way to go! 👏
@RaiiiL 7 ай бұрын
Imagine having a Relationship Therapist in a Polyamorous Foursome xD Succes guaranteed
@ThePeanutGiant Жыл бұрын
Kinda troubling how you can tell the dynamic that exists within this group without explicitly being told just from a short video.
@lalakuma9 Жыл бұрын
I feel like relationships like this could easily go wrong if each person does not love all the other people in the relationship equally. And then they also decided to add the complication of money, marriage, and power dynamics... yikes... I can't look.
@Strawberry143x Жыл бұрын
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@normandy2501 11 ай бұрын
I don't think it's ever possible to love them all equally in an intimate context. Polygamy wouldn't really be a need otherwise based on my understanding. It at least makes it easier to regularly build on their relationships under one roof, otherwise I'd just call it glorified friends with benefits in order to avoid any hurt feelings.
@damnjustassignmeone 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine the litigation if they ever want to separate this arrangement. Wow.
@metorphoric Жыл бұрын
She is a divorced marriage counselor still living with her ex husband while also sleeping with the ex husband of another woman who she is also sleeping with. WTF....?! Who on earth would want counseling from her? She is a walking contradiction.
@borderlinenocturnal6195 Жыл бұрын
She’s not just sleeping around. They got divorced so they could have more rights as a four-way-relationship. When people are in “lifestyles” or relationships you don’t understand, you could actually listen to them when they talk about it
@ede.5487 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel is the mastermind behind this. Split up two marriages, Kyle is unhappy and Ashley is unhappy. I stay away from people like Rachel !
@sexytechreviews_ 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel is a very toxic Narcissist. I also stay away from people like her.
@Ovprksdnw 2 жыл бұрын
What makes you state so confidently how unhappy Kyle and Ashley are? I've checked their social media and podcasts, and they're all extremely content with the arrangement, at least as of now
@bee1979 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ovprksdnw what’s their social media?
@acenariomanuel5251 Жыл бұрын
Just because they study and have an extensive vocabulary that does not mean that they are not crazy.
@intheuniversekey Жыл бұрын
Well ever met a doctor with a PH D that has misdiagnosed before? I have. So high vocab and education and knowledge does not equal wisdom and they lack the wisdom of where to apply the knowledge.
@kevingaymon2707 6 ай бұрын
No more crazy than the rest of us. Have you seen divorce rates and people still can’t get married fast enough.
@alonasistrunk2620 Жыл бұрын
Why can't they just add all of the non-card owners as authorized users? Most cards offer five slots. That way, they all would benefit from the cards and their history.
@NicoliePollieOllie Жыл бұрын
This could really work for some people but they've only known each other for 2.5 years, and that's not nearly enough time
@beatricerights 2 жыл бұрын
This could get more complicated if Rachel decides she wants to bring another couple into the mix. She has to figure out a different sleep arrangement. GO RACHEL!!
@cabinfeverremedy5636 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@JH-nb4nn 6 ай бұрын
No chance that all four of them are happy. 😂Looks and sounds like an absolute NIGHTMARE.
@emekaagbo6697 7 ай бұрын
They are very practical, the danger would be if anyone decide that they have had enough
@carlosflores85 2 жыл бұрын
So a monogamous non-monogamous quad?? Just wait until player 5 enters the game…
@Bishopspipes Ай бұрын
Breaking news: I’m happy to announce that I’m #5!
@makeracistsafraidagain7608 2 жыл бұрын
It seem like Kyle is the only person who has been dragged into this type of relationship, he’s just there looking like confused person about this relationship..
@rommyaznaran9508 2 жыл бұрын
That’s what happens when you live in NYC lol… you need as many people in a relationship to divide expenses. The up side is that you can split the mortgage
@leonardscottiv7682 2 жыл бұрын
Did I just watch 4 white people talk about being discriminated against??? please!! also, this is Rachel's show and everyone else is obliging. the final statement in this entire video was from Rachel and she said "and frankly, it helps me." Coincidence? I think not.
@Tunechi65 2 жыл бұрын
White people love finding a way to be the victim LMAO
@llcross04 2 жыл бұрын
Right. 4 white, employees, attractive, able bodied straight people.
@JoyFay 2 жыл бұрын
She is using them
@MrMlbfan6 2 жыл бұрын
She looks like she had a affair with the chef and convince them to share
@tioswift3676 2 жыл бұрын
Here’s your daily reminder that discrimination has zero bounds. The more you know
@Luboman411 2 жыл бұрын
At 0:30. The sleeping schedule already sounds like it would require a simple Excel spreadsheet since this would be permutations of four people on two beds. So...8 combinations, rotating each week? Right? LOL. Can't wait to get to the Gordian knot that is their finances! Get the pivot tables ready! :D
@Dr.HouseMD 2 жыл бұрын
This is the background music you use for a quick documentary on a cat that’s getting his GED…but he’s literally a guy living full time in a cat costume and won’t take it off.
@jacquelinm2662 2 жыл бұрын
This is so complicated and probably will end the relationship. Why not split up just the basic bills: rent, light, water, etc.? Trying to share a credit card and tracking every expense among is the four is doing the most. Sounds like Rachel's plan and she is defiantly in control in this relationship.
@edb484 2 жыл бұрын
for sure she is running things
@kayleighshuler9758 2 жыл бұрын
I’m curious if you’ve been in this type of relationship and seen it fail due to finances firsthand?
@emem2863 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I don't get the complications with the finances. They're purposely making things more complicated. I don't think Rachel is being defiant, though she seems to definitely have a more dominant personality, as does Yair. The other two seem to be more submissive, but given that they all decided to do this, they all are fine with being in this foursome.
@JaZmine147 Жыл бұрын
They could have 1 account that everyone has access to and they send a specific amount each month like a household account. They buy food from there and pay rent etc. And then everyone has their personal accounts.
@RaiiiL 7 ай бұрын
They are socializing and doing it very well. I mean we all do it. What's wrong about it?
@jwonz2054 Жыл бұрын
8:30 - Just look at the awkward subtle infighting: Rachel: "I wouldn't mind if he got down on one knee" (points to Yair, the other man) *Yair smiles* *Ashley looks quickly to see her former husband's reaction* *Yair stops smiling and feigns panic* Totally stable! Definitely not Rachel just pursuing Yair while not wanting to breakup with Kyle.
@nothingc 7 ай бұрын
And Kyle did leave the foursome
@RaiiiL 7 ай бұрын
You know they said they switch every day right at the start? You guys are so unreasonable.
@jwonz2054 7 ай бұрын
@@RaiiiL The proof is in the pudding and their pudding spoiled.
@laurencestephenson1093 Ай бұрын
It looks like Kyle is out of the picture (far left male) but the other three are still together. Rachel is currently pregnant
@gb5007 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel looks the most satisfied with this arrangement...the other not so much
@adeyosola414 2 жыл бұрын
You read my mind.🙂🙂
@yoyoiven 2 жыл бұрын
Poor Kyle lmao
@trishytrishhh 2 жыл бұрын
I noticed that Kyle just seems like he’s going with the flow but isn’t too key on the situation. Notice how Rachel mentioned she wanted to have a baby with Ashley and the look Kyle gave was like he’s being left out of the decision
@shinji1264 2 жыл бұрын
We live in a society.... They said, choose your partner's wisely ladies n gentlemen, if you're quiet and non combative it's probably best you get someone of similar attitude.
@davidthompson1573 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve always been a huge fan of just how well people are able to rationalize destructive, bizarre, and bad behaviors.
@rajenderkarupakala Жыл бұрын
Yes, modern day clowns everywhere. Some sense is not common these days
@brynnwalk4390 Жыл бұрын
? How is this destructive? It's what they all want, so what does it matter? Remember freedom of choice? It's no more bizarre than regular marriage, where you literally sign an expensive contract to love ONE person forever. Now that's stupid and destructive. I hate when people like you try to decide what is normal and what's not. Obviously your way isn't working out either, judging by the high divorce rate of traditional marriages.
@emem2863 Жыл бұрын
If this relationship works for all of them, then it's not destructive. It isn't for most people, but obviously, they're not most people.
@whiteyobanion1104 Жыл бұрын
@@brynnwalk4390 That's how the followers of the Branch Davidians, Heaven's Gate, and Jim Jones felt; we see how that worked out.
@hotshotx1598 Жыл бұрын
@@whiteyobanion1104 yeah but those people justified their beliefs through religious dogma, rather than humanitarian logic
@medical4652 Жыл бұрын
Grab your popcorn for this one, boys and girls!
@DamianR36913 2 ай бұрын
The future is uncertain, and the rising cost of living may lead to a reality where difficult choices and sacrifices become the norm. It's disheartening to think that financial pressures could shape our lives in ways we never imagined.
@temeka4288 2 жыл бұрын
They did one thing right and that was divorce. So, whenever they want to leave, they can just pack it up and go. No legal strings attached. Just finacial.lol
@editorjohn8803 2 жыл бұрын
Yair and Ashley have cooked up something that'll go from Wright to completely Wrong
@danaibanga9297 2 жыл бұрын
Underatedd comment
@wackymojo3419 Жыл бұрын
I expected Johny Sins brother to live with two women didn't expect him to live with another man too, maybe he's the camera guy? 🤣
@shelly5224 Жыл бұрын
It looks like Rachel is really the puppet master with Yair as her second in command here and it appears that she's convinced these ppl that some of the VERY unintelligent financial decisions being made are good ideas. There is literally no reason they couldn't have separate accounts and contribute to one joint for bills. I feel like something nefarious is afoot but hey, I hope I'm wrong and they live their best lives happily ever after.
@MillionaireMindMotivation 2 жыл бұрын
The women are more into each other than they are to their male partners. This whole situation is sick, distributing in the fact that they also want to big in kids to this mess and confusing and complicated. Life is already complicated on it’s own. Live simple and be happy. Someone is going to age badly and this will not go well as they will lose attraction to one or more partners because they have options within their relationships. Give us a 15 year update please!
@temeka4288 2 жыл бұрын
There will be no 15 year update on this mess. They won't last that long.
@Tunechi65 2 жыл бұрын
More like 1 year update
@edb484 2 жыл бұрын
we need a reality show lol
@shinji1264 2 жыл бұрын
15 years? Covid, Monkey pox, natural disasters? I give em 4 tops
@Chrisbit1 2 жыл бұрын
I think that those 4 will be able to give a child or children a better life than most 2 ppl relationships. There's nothing "confusing" or "sick" about there relationship. I thin you are to quick to judge a situation where you don't have all the facts, do you know them ? have you seen them in public ? have you talk to them ? I'm guessing no. The excuse "life is complicated" is BS in my opinion, they are all adults and they will figure it out even if they have kids. There love is just as strong as the love you have for your partner, they love and show love in a different why and there's nothing wrong with that
@jmtm82 3 ай бұрын
Maybe I’m too old to understand these ppl but whatever works for them
@veteranredbeard6222 Жыл бұрын
In poly, you don't have a best friend and partner. You have people you sleep with.
@TomikaKelly Жыл бұрын
There are people in poly relationships who are asexual though...
@jk-gn2fu Жыл бұрын
I think polyamory is great in terms of economy, fixed costs such as property tax can be divded by many people, 3~4 people can combine their money to buy a house. Currently, the rent is expensive, while house prices are constantly going up, earlier you get your own house, more money you earn. Everyone benefit from one Costco membership. Also many people can take turns to do house chores, doing many people's work at once takes less time than doing two people's work many times.
@Adrian-hn4lx 2 жыл бұрын
What’s the household income though ?? Don’t leave us in suspense like this !!
@sadiqraji5376 2 жыл бұрын
Is this even CNBC anymore? More like BRAVO or TLC than CNBC tbh.
@llcross04 2 жыл бұрын
I was sure waiting to hear it. I'm guessing $450k
@Ovprksdnw 2 жыл бұрын
All 4 are gainfully employed professionals
@noahjoo7231 Жыл бұрын
this is the world we live in
@borderlinenocturnal6195 Жыл бұрын
yes it is. look at everyone existing together and minding their own business.
@NewsSeriously Жыл бұрын
It’s not your problem.it’s theirs. You can be in and relationship you want. If you can find someone
@NPAMike Жыл бұрын
So does Kyle and Yair hookup also?
@zamarst Жыл бұрын
9-minute long promotion video for the "family therapist" Rachel
@shivinunitholi2493 2 жыл бұрын
The producers of CNBC Make It seems to have pivoted to another level of "make it with more than one"
@pkmnan00bis 2 жыл бұрын
" No more than $30 a month on video games. " Aight imma head out ...
@ariels2730 Жыл бұрын
Ikr, that doesn't even cover one game, unless it's crap.
@gb5007 2 жыл бұрын
Why does it seem like Rachel is the initiator of this and the others are not entirely happy and just accepting this situation...?
@llcross04 2 жыл бұрын
A farmer and the sheep
@ariels2730 Жыл бұрын
Because you're a monogamous person who doesn't get it lmao
@RR-wc6xc Жыл бұрын
Don't assume that the "quiet" ones are not the ones controlling the show. Rachel may be a chatterbox, but the introverts can control things like you wouldn't believe.
@alona724 2 ай бұрын
I support them 100% … one relationship seems too much for me… 4 sounds like just too much work
@blakeaaron5698 Жыл бұрын
Just curious if the two men have a romantic connection as well, as clearly the two women do.
@lbpee9962 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@monstervain Жыл бұрын
Ashley and Kyle look like they're suffering in silence
@investedfemelle7564 2 жыл бұрын
I can even make a relationship work with 1 person much less 3 😫😫😫….. good for them
@shoumikahmed6373 Жыл бұрын
I am confuse...As she stated her sexual routine...So two days heterosexual and one day homosexual for her...I am not sure about the men...Are they also bisexual??? Can anyone please clear my assumptions??
@PnoMonies 3 ай бұрын
I believe that people can do whatever they want with their lives as long as it’s not harmful to anyone. In other words, your hole your problem. Live and let live
@Back_To_Basics 2 жыл бұрын
Getting a divorce from each other would simplify this situation. Rachel can get married to Yair since she’s hinted while the other two can exit this relationship and live freely as they wish.
@ryanl3812 Жыл бұрын
Fascinating. I dig it. But I hate splitting the bill at the end of a meal with 3 friends so I don't think I'd enjoy this much
@adiaj9228 2 жыл бұрын
I wish them all the best......because this could be DISASTROUS if it doesn’t work.... like Dateline, 20/20 disastrous .
@Strawberry143x Жыл бұрын
Bloodbath central
@abetterme7013 2 жыл бұрын
So are the dudes sword fighting too?? I'm confused
@devontawhite 2 жыл бұрын
I found this very fascinating. Love hearing stories of people living unconventionally. Thanks for sharing your financial journey.
@VanillaEarth744 2 жыл бұрын
That is sinful living
@Pyasa.shaitan Жыл бұрын
@@VanillaEarth744 so is a person starving on street and government giving wallst trillions. Are you doing something against it?
@VanillaEarth744 Жыл бұрын
@@Pyasa.shaitan I've helped out ppl in the streets and other Charity's. Hbu?
@Pyasa.shaitan Жыл бұрын
@@VanillaEarth744 you and me helping is not the same as government making healthcare education free with wages going up for mass of people. Instead of funneling trillions into military and wallst. Can you and me helping save the planet? I don’t think so. Government has to work for the working class people & not for the billionaires and multi trillion dollar corporations.
@borderlinenocturnal6195 Жыл бұрын
@@VanillaEarth744 wearing a shirt made of two different types of fabric is technically sinful living so like… shut up
@Tunechi65 2 жыл бұрын
America is wild 🤣 folks get bored and start inventing problems to over complicate their lives. My goodness. Is there a "phobia" for this yet if I don't follow along and support it?
@elisakrivas 2 жыл бұрын
Well, it is an orientation. It's not a choice for everyone. The only complications are legal issues, honestly, and that's the government's fault, not people who fall in love or have an orientation.
@00SuperHAN00 Жыл бұрын
There is no way this kind of relationship can last longer than 10 years.
@Christiamorous Жыл бұрын
Recently celebrated a polyamorous friend's 15th wedding anniversary. Just because you can't imagine it doesn't mean it can't happen.
@00SuperHAN00 Жыл бұрын
@@Christiamorous I’m sure there can be some successful polyamorous relationships, but the ratio has to be much lower compared to monogamous relationships. Think about all the drama they would get involved in.
@Christiamorous Жыл бұрын
@@00SuperHAN00 Compared to monogamous folks? That's silly. I can go to my female best friend's house and can sleep over without it being a problem for my fiancee. Think I could do that in a monogamous relationship? There are so many rules and lack of healthy communication in monogamous relationships - those are just a couple of the many reasons I don't do monogamy anymore. 70% of straight monogamous relationships end in their first year. 41% of marriages end in divorce. Would you blame monogamy for that? No? Why not, since you seem to be so sure polyamorous relationships are doomed to failure?
@ElizabethJBond Жыл бұрын
It didn't. Kyle apparently walked out a few months ago.
@00SuperHAN00 Жыл бұрын
@@Christiamorous Lack of healthy communication is not the problem of a monogamous relationship but rather an individual problem. If one is experiencing consistent relationship issues, that individual needs to do introspective work rather than blame the structure of the relationship. You said you and your fiance have absolutely no problem with sleeping over at other partners’ houses, but in the long run, this can create serious trust issues and jealousy. Yes, a lot of monogamous relationships don’t last forever. But I am sure the success ratio is still way higher than polyamory.
@AG-en5y 2 жыл бұрын
Red head is the running the house. She’s the king, queen, prince and princess of the house
@moff_gideon 2 жыл бұрын
They are trying to get famous on a reality show or something. Otherwise this is just stupid.
@Jalisialuxe 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting … I wonder does the guys also have a relationship with each other? Like are the guys bi? Or are the guys doing this because their ladies want it?
@thedarksideoftheforce6658 Ай бұрын
The guys were dragged into it.
@Craftgirly 2 жыл бұрын
How to get someone else’s husband and do it under both your husband and his wife’s noses……… How much longer before Rachel and Yair run off into the sunset 🤣
@alyhs3 Жыл бұрын
I'm surprised about how many people in this comment section have been living under a rock.... Non monogamy is a very common thing in society and can be very fulfilling and rewarding. I don't understand why it angers people so much that consenting adults chose to pursue a loving relationship with more than one person, if you don't like it, don't do it. Polyamorous people exist, get over it!!!
@kdubpharm 2 жыл бұрын
My God please don’t bring children into this mess.
@TheCreoleSon89 2 жыл бұрын
I usually say stay out but my gosh. I couldn’t agree more. This is over the top.
@Talkwithtina808 2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@otterguyty 2 жыл бұрын
I don't see any mess. Just humans who love each other
@elisakrivas 2 жыл бұрын
It takes a village to raise a child. Why are so many people anti culture if it's not US and American? Do people not realize how racist comments like this sound? US Americans are a rare culture that believes upbringing a child must only be done by two parents. It's a very white attitude.
@EldePHX Жыл бұрын
Please god don’t 🙏🏻
@Anonymous-li6py Жыл бұрын
This is a rectangle love but if the two men are also in love with each other, then it is a square love.
@christiangasior4244 Жыл бұрын
This won’t last more than a couple years tops. Jealousy is real
@TheOneAboveAll_ 2 жыл бұрын
I mean if a man can "change" into a woman, and a woman can "change" into a man and get married, then what's the big issue with polygamy being legal when all parties agree to it.
@elisakrivas 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@borderlinenocturnal6195 Жыл бұрын
Buddy that’s a really uncool way of describing trans people
@borderlinenocturnal6195 Жыл бұрын
Also polyamory is different to polygamy cmon
@TheRachag Жыл бұрын
I agree that I don’t see the point of any of them being married if they choose to live this way. Wow so everyone is basically married to Rachel?
@gb5007 2 жыл бұрын
"The system has been designed for monogamy"...yeah for very good moral, legal and ethical reasons why this type of situation is not normalized.
@pkal244 2 жыл бұрын
Ok grandma, it's past your bedtime
@gb5007 2 жыл бұрын
@@pkal244 Ok, Rachel...
@beatricerights 2 жыл бұрын
@@gb5007 K=LMAO, RACHEL IS THINKING OF BRINGING ANOTHER COUPLE INTO THE MIX. I'm afraid moving forward this may become the norm. I'm afraid men may force their wives to do this unwillingly.
@ai.cherie 2 жыл бұрын
@@pkal244 you’re so open minded that your brain fell out!
@Chrisbit1 2 жыл бұрын
yeahs because monogamy has been the solution for marital and relationship problems for ages, No monogamous couple has ever had issues and all societies that praticed monogamy have been fair and just... um seriously... wake up
@alisonm3700 2 жыл бұрын
She is a 'marriage family therapist'? Who's marriage?
@ScottDDavisMusic Жыл бұрын
Her client’s marriages?
@NoneNoneNone78 5 ай бұрын
Why do i feel like Rachel’s doing all this just for yair 😂 She seems to be in love with him. And is making ( manipulating) everybody to follow her needs and wants
@rachael4408 Жыл бұрын
The decision to divorce their original partners is so brave... That is so destabilizing to me. I can't even imagine.
@erikzumwalt4229 2 жыл бұрын
But are the men ever sharing a bed together 😏😏😏
@N0Xa880iUL 2 жыл бұрын
😳
@gb5007 2 жыл бұрын
Just thinking about their situation is extremely exhausting
@JH-nb4nn 6 ай бұрын
Yair looks and acts like he doesn't like his wife, Ashley. This is sooooooooo gross.
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