I believe that Pst.Rc Blakes channel wasn't searched by many of us. It found us through God's mercy and since then, our lives have been constantly changing. This message right here, MORE PRECIOUS THAN GOLD! God bless you Pastor. You're changing and healing the lives of women like me.

I just left a man who thought I was going to chase him. I left him soon as I seen he wasn't ready .stop missing the red flags ladies. pay attention it will save you a lot of heartaches.

Those days are sooooooooo behind me .. thank you Jesus. I would NEVA act like this ever again. Queen over here 👈 self love, self worth, and working on me

Chasing acceptance and the love that she needed, that she never gotten from family. 1: STOP and THINK about the futility of what you’re doing. a) risking your mental health to chase b) you paint the picture that you are easy. c) attracts users and not husbands 2: REPLENISH yourself that the chase depleted certain areas a) self-esteem b) self-development c) heartbroken d) restart your personal vision God + Counselor = healthy me! 3: DEPOSIT the knowledge gained, into your wisdom bank so you can grow with interest. 4: READJUST your crown. “Don’t chase but attract and approve..”

I don't have the time to chase men at all!!! That is beneath a Queen's behavior. Queens we have better things to do with our lives Amen!!!!!!

I needed to hear this ...I am chasing a man who I know don't care too much about me ...If I don't message him he won't message me ...when I call he don't answer and don't return my calls ...I stopped doing all of that for 3 days now ...nothing from him since ...I know God wanted me to see this ...I thank you .Blessings

Sometimes one of the best methods to deal with relationship trauma is just to take a freaking time out! A time out ladies!

I finally escaped from a 39 year abusive toxic marriage by listening to pastor RC Blakes I listened to him for over 3 years and I finally did it. It's it's been the biggest blessing and the best thing that I ever did. His youtube videos literally saved my life! That's NOT ❤️, Signs the relationship is over, It's time to move on! LIFE SAVERS FOR REAL....

Whew!!! This topic is gone be good!!! Was just dating a guy who all of a sudden ghosted me…I’ve just left the situation alone and moved on…I’m not chasing no man!!!!

I’ve enrolled in school, joined the gym, and I’m on my 5th book thanks to you. Queenology workbook included. Thank you for continuing to pour into our lives.

Sir, I found you over 3 years ago. I was broken, lost , confused, chased men, made a fool of me. After listening to you & your teachings, I am proud to say I am not engaged 💍 & happy. He is truly amazing 🥺🥹🥹♥️ thank you for all of your teachings 💙💙💙 muchas bendiciones 🥹🥹♥️♥️

Too many women have too much time on their hands. Should be chasing purpose and like Ruth, the man God has for you will find you

I have been in the healing process for a while now and am starting to discover how I became this kind of woman. Yes am the type that chased men. And I have realized that it didn't start with them. It started in my childhood when I was made to believe I needed to earn love. I never believed that anyone could truly love me for me but that I needed to earn it. This teaching is one that has left me feeling some what grieved due to the realization of just how much of the damage I have suffered would have been avoided if I had the right mindset. Anyway am on my way to wholeness now. And thank you RC for this.

Pastor Blakes, i am a muslim and i follow your teachings, i think there are a lot of muslims that listen to your podcasts too. Respect and love from Algeria ❤️ to all our christian brothers and to Pastor RC and Lisa ❤️

I do not find your material offensive or triggering at all. This is coming from a highly sensitive woman. Keep preaching truth!! Thank you

If you're chasing something that means its trying to get away from you.

I wanted you to know just how grateful I am for everything you have done to my life.Thank you so very much Bishop RC Blakes 💐

I'm ready to watch this , You have helped me in so many ways , My father was never there to teach me about how important it is to have self love and protect your mind , body and soul. You are a true blessing in my life

Can everyone take a moment and like the video. That’s the least we can do for the “Free” knowledge we’re receiving right now. You can like while the video is playing. That’s a new feature on KZfaq 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

This man helped me through pandemic sometimes you don’t open your Bible but his words comes from the word and it’s enough some days

Thank you pastor RC Blakes I'm only 18 years of age and your videos have helped me greatly!! From your videos educating on the topic of Narcissism to Queenology & your vids on the father daughter really have blessed my life tremendously.

Yes!!! I can adjust my crown and wake up because I was a "Sleeping Queen." Powerful!!!

In fact. Im celibate for 2 years now. Happy.

The internet has been teaching women to approach men for all kinds of reasons these days smh

Wow... This is so true that guys bait you to chase them and women go from one situationship to another situationship and loose decades. Unfortunately so sad! I like your preaching because it shows the point.

Also RC is that my ex boyfriend also had a broken consciousness from coming from a broken home as well !! So he does not know how to be the man that is marriage oriented so we woman need to be careful of what kind of a man we are relating to. And put God First And fill our Spiritual needed self !! 🌟❤️🕊🙏

I’ve been chasing all my life. This makes so much sense to me.

I needed this lesson. I didn't know I was chasing but being flexible but no more! I'm just tired!

I’m starting over from the ground up I don’t do half the things that I use to do I cut off things & place that no longer serve me

My God! My God! This was once me but no more! I stopped over five years ago! Living alone. Learning to love myself! ❤ Staying home doing other important things; journaling, watching movies, taking classes, focusing on my career, decorating my home, taking care of myself, resting! And more rest after chasing all my life! I’m exhausted! No more!

👀Chilllle...this gone be a GOOD one!😂 🙏🏿THANK YOU kindly Bishop Blakes for being so gracious and generous with your time...Yah bless you, your lovely wife Lady Lisa and your family!

I have been a complete fool!! Even at the age of 49. I chased my husband. Currently still in it and suffering. Lord please help. Me. I don’t cry anymore I weep. The pain is unbearable at times. I though things would get better but it get worse. Y’all please pray for me.

I remember dealing with one guy things were going really good! Professing well and one day he just stopped accepting calls or texts and didn’t show up anymore. I got worried because it was odd and caught me off gaurd. No explanation. I thought something was wrong so I would keep trying to reach him and that’s when I realized he probably just left for his own resins… I realized I was chasing him for answers and I never heard from him. When men disappear suddenly it triggers out nurturing nature to show him were there to help if there is something wrong. I just made up my mind after 2 weeks to leave it alone and heal n move on.

I will Never Chase a man again in my life as my masculine energy is here doing greater things to benefit myself as a woman for my career. Thanks for being here for us woman ❤

This is 100% true for me. Just focus on God and wait!

Sometimes it's because you want to fix things and you are chasing a man... You're not even aware... you're fighting for your relationship

Love the picture of you both before the video! Thank you bishop blakes and Ms Lisa blakes for your wonderful ministry of helping people to be the best versions of ourselves! I have learned so much from listening to you since last year. Thank for being a spiritual father to us all! May God continue to bless you both on your journeys! 🙌🏾 👏🏽 🙏🏽 🙌🏾 👏🏽 🙏🏽 ❤️

I would love to see RC Blake’s have a podcast. I need to be listening to him on the go 24/7 🥺

I love listening to you Pastor. I'm already so aware of your teachings and principles, but sometimes I like to get on here because you have such a kind, warm, and fatherly presence. Its just comforting on days where I feel sad or just need some gentle reminders and affirmations. So comforting for my soul. God bless you

Thank u, RC Blakes, for giving us excellent advice! I, myself, am healing, understanding and accepting tht it's very unbecoming to chase after a man. I am learning to "Rest in my Femininity," and I actually can say tht it's very peaceful and graceful. Letting things come to me with little to no effort is a blessing and seeking inner peace is the way! It's about not stressing about a man or anything for tht matter. We must be willing to accept tht they're things beyond our reach tht we cannot control, and thts ok. We cannot change or fix everything. We can only learn to change ourselves as individuals. I've been working on my personal growth since last year and I've encountered some obstacles, but I'm overcoming thm. If a man pursues me, and then turns around and doesn't give me the time of day, I'll stop dealing w him. I'm not initiating any call or text anymore bc I shouldn't have to do so.

Mike drops ... 🎤🎤. Pastor thank you for your healing words

It hit me hard when pastor R.C Blakes said that I am sleeping on my crown. Because Sleeping Beauty is my favorite Disney Princess. Hallelujah I have AWAKEN!! 💜

“Attract and Approve” sounds like an Outstanding next step to this session! Good Night, Pastor Blakes!😇

Your teachings calm my spirit. Thank You.

This right here is Nourishment for the depleted Soul. Oh! How I wish I had this knowledge 10 years ago. Nevertheless, it is still on Time.💗

I honestly don't know if there are any good men out there or not bc I'm NOT even looking 🤷🏾‍♀️ 🤗

I have been healing and i NOW understood this message and it has brought me to tears The first one he did on chasing men just glossed over me because i needed to heal To actually hear the message. I am so sorry to myself for allowing this kind of mindset (chasing mindset). I am so sorry self.

"The chase took you off track to YOU!"

Lisa and RC Blake's you both have transformed my life in a way that I never thought that it was going to be transformed and it's a daily process I love you both and I love your children and your whole family

So much wisdom here, RC Blakes Jr. is telling you ladies the absolute truth! Cherish yourself 1st, you’ll attract the right men who are worthy of you & you choose who you want to be with!

Good lesson for women of today. I'm 41 and have had only one sexual partner and I Married him. Just became single recently and I realised how much women chase men but I also think men like it when women chase them Lord have mercy!!

At 37, finally learning these hard truths. It hurts but I need to accept reality ❤ Thank you!!!

It's so sad I've only dated the men I've got with out of boredom not wanting to be by myself. Then I get so attached to having them around but they irritate me so much and don't treat me right all while convincing myself I actually love these men when really I don't. It's sick now thinking about it. But thank God for this page I have learned so much.

This was wonderful information and right on time. Thank you!

Thank you Bishop RC Blakes JR for all that you & Lisa do. Many blessings 🙏🏼

*How does a woman recover after chasing after a man* When a woman is awakened to her Queen Consciousness and she knows who she really is or begins to come into a revelation of who she really is and she realizes the ERA or the ERRORS of her ways, she needs to recover and come out of that lifestyle. She should come out whole and healthy and healed and in a positive and progressive way. • First thing you got to do is *STOP* and think about the futility of what you’re doing. Most women identify their value and worth in terms of their proximity to a man in a relationship so if they don’t have a man they don't feel as though they are worthwhile or of any value. The tendency of a woman with broken consciousness is she attempts to recover from that chase by starting a new chase. Her brokenness is apparent to a predatory community of men and they bait her into a new chase so what happens is you find yourself out of one *SITUATIONSHIP* into another *MANIPULATIONSHIP* and then you waste a few more decades of your life. Do not be afraid to stop. You will not miss out or you will not lose anything. You can’t bear hug the breeze. Can you catch the wind? Same way, do not chase after a man. It is a futile way to have a good and wholesome relationship. *Chasing a man does not make sense and here are a few reasons why* • You are risking your mental health to chase and the rejection may break you. Hope deferred makes the heart sick. • Women develop reputations that discourage husbands and attracts USERS (These are the kind of people who smooth talk themselves into the into the homes of unstable, depressed and needy women and take advantage of them). You are disqualified as a wife because wives do not chase. Wives are in full control of their virtue, they handle themselves like the prize, wives are not running around with this rhetoric that, ‘men of the prize’. Wives understand that ‘I am the prize’ and wives perfect themselves to attract husband material and they approve of the right one. • Replenish yourself where the chase has depleted you. When a woman has been a chaser you have to understand that you've been that because you've been empty in certain vital areas of your life. 1. One is an emptied self-esteem. That could be because of a father wound. He was never there to pour into you and to give you a solid sense of who you are or maybe you did have a great father but maybe you still chose the wrong man and he just broke you, leaving you in search for a sense of worth and value. Your value and identity that only comes from God. When you don't know the identity or the purpose of a thing always go back to the creator. Reconnect with the Creator he will restore your soul, your mind, your will and your emotions. 2. Some of the areas that must be replenished would be the area of self-development. The only way you could chase a man is when you put your own self-development on hold. You've wasted time chasing what should have been invested in to perfecting yourself by trying to find a relationship before you did the work to find yourself. You were chasing before you became your best version of yourself. You need to pause and take a sabbatical from all of this and the whole biological clock thing. Your lack of self-development is the reason you never attracted what you deserved and always chased what you didn't deserve. 3. You have to you have to understand that your heart is broken. You need inner healing. The Chase has made your soul sick. What the soul is, is the mind, the will and the emotions. So you're sick in your mind your will is all screwed up and what you should be doing you aint doing and what you should not be doing. So reconnect to God, forgive yourself and others, try therapy and counseling to get a greater understanding of you. Helps you see who you are beneath the surface and then reimagining your life and your future 4. You have to restart your personal Vision. The chase took you off of your personal Vision and the chase took you off track to you. You were so busy trying to catch someone, you lost yourself. You’re beautiful on the outside but empty on the inside. • Make the deposit of knowledge gained from the chase into your wisdom Bank. Now that you have gone through it, hopefully you will choose to grow through it and the only way to grow through what you go through is to take the knowledge of the experience and to deposit it into you wisdom bank. Knowledge is data committed to memory but wisdom is having the proper application of that knowledge. Therein lies the difference with the two. if you don't know what to do with the knowledge it can't benefit you. • Readjust your crown. Don’t feel unworthy of it. Your crown is your mindset. Elevate your thinking to prepare for your throne. As a man thinketh in his heart so he is. So when you elevate your thinking to Queen Consciousness, your behvaiour will follow and that means you can’t behave like a chaser. Fix your attention on God you'll be changed from the inside out readily recognize what he wants from you and quickly respond to it unlike the culture around you that is always dragging you down to its level of immaturity. God brings the best out of you develops well-formed maturity in you You will never again chase a man. You you're not desperate, you're not needy, you do not need a man for purpose or for value or for fulfillment. You are becoming the best version of you, your best version and allow your essence to attract a capable of or suitable man. Don't chase. Queens ATTRACT and APPROVE.

Please do a teaching on how to attract and approve! That would be a blessing! Thank you Pastor Blakes, these lessons are pure gold!!! 😊💗🙌

Thank you so much for this. I was so sad after the previous video. Thank you so much for making this video. I'm on it RC 📝

I neeeeded to hear this today! Thank you 🙏, God bless you for trying to help us.

Ooooo the new second camera and set up. I love all the scenic backgrounds and changes especially the fireplace and pianos….niiice!

Thank you so much Bishop Blakes for this message! I am always blessed by your videos.

Greetings R J. Thank you for the post. Wow! This touched home, especially the part about no. 2, 'replenishing'. This deals with healing, which is essential when addressing this topic. Love, love, love your intro. The song was very powerful, and so was the message 🙏🏾💖

Such a blessing!I loved how you pointed out the problem in one video and provided the solution in another. Complete Ministry! 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯

Thank you for the transparency. It is received and appreciated. This series hit home but life changing events to ne usually do. Looking forward to the third teaching.

Thank you for the ministry its always something in your videos that are uplifting. I am grateful for the teaching and. I will continue to share your message.

Life changing information I needed to hear. Thank you Pastor Blake’s. 🙏

Message and knowledge well received 🙏 thank you Bishop, I appreciate you more than you know

Very good speach!!! Thank you from Spain❣️

Amen, Wisdom will always open the front door into your life 😇

Thank u Pastor Blake for your lesson on how to recover from chasing. I had a breakthrough with my therapist on how I've chased unintentionally or unconsciously throughout my life. Examples were passing notes in K-5 school professing liking boys, be my boyfriend, asking for "a chance", middle school, if my favorite songs came on, asking boys to dance and even high school, asking a boy on my block to go on my prom but he couldn't go b/c he had a track meet the next morning. I guess with the rejections I got my heart broken several times but thank God He was with me to mend it and build up my confidence and self esteem where I never looked for love in all the wrong places, remained a virgin through college, etc. I have a stronger relationship with God more so than ever and I thank the Blakes for their ministry to remind me that I am virtuous queen that needs to STOP chasing a gentleman of recent interest. Let go & let God, take control of the situation to bring us together or not.

Thank you so much for this powerful word. Noone addresses these issues in our spiritual homes anymore out of fear of chasing us away with hard truths. I thank God for you!

I can’t say thank you enough for all that you pour into us. I needed this SO much; truly humbled by everything you put down. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤

This message has woke my spirit UP ⬆️ 👑 It has made sense of my childhood and entire life this far. I need to listen to this a few times over and over to make it stick. Thank you so much.

Now i even consider having sex too early as chasing. I hate that i did this to myself. My esteem was rock bottom when i was chasing this last dude. I started to hate myself

Thank you Bishop! You are changing life’s and generations to come. God bless you

THANK YOU, for the ENDLESS BLESSINGS of your teachings!!!

Thank You Pastor !! This was a Great Message. l really appreciate your messages. You have helped me tremendously, l am very Grateful and Thankful for You. Bless You and the Family❤

I definitely need it, has been on a chase for 2 years that finally failed 😞

It is my second time God helped me through to over come evil 😈relationship!!! God bless you my brother.

THIS RIGHT HERE AIN'T NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!!! Thanks Bishop & 1st Lady L love you both:)

Such a helpful inspirational couple. May God continue to bless you both.👑👑💖🙌🏾🙏🏾

Thank you Brother ❤... God bless your ministry!

Good evening Kings and Queens. I too am excited about this topic this evening. Though I can’t say I have ever chased a man. The women who raised me never displayed such behavior. Also Pastor, if you would be so kind to speak on women asking men to marry them. This is a thing and I find it quite disturbing. I have a friend who was asked by a woman to marry him. Of course the marriage didn’t last. They divorced after two years. I asked him if he knew she was the head of the household. I also asked how on earth would he marry a woman who proposed to him. That means she is the provider, the one who covers, the one who leads and so on. I also asked if he took her last name. He was hot then. 🤣🤣🤣 He didn’t get it. I will NEVER in this natural life feel that it is ok for a woman to COURT a man, CHASE a man or ask for a man’s hand in marriage. Not today, not ever. We are out of order with the role reversals. Begging men to stay when they have already left is also an absolute no. Waiting to Exhale is not sustainable.

What another great lesson from Pastor Blakes! Thank you so very much for your tremendous wisdom; I just can't get enough of it. You are such a blessing to so many women!

Life changing, thank you. May God bless you even unto your tenth generation. Goodness and mercy will never leave your household.

❤️ Love the photo played with the song it just made it even more Powerful it's refreshing to 👀 a king and queen about God's business POWER COUPLE blessings to you 🙏 and your family

I always appreciate your wisdom 🙏🏿 hope y'all have a blessed day💕

Store the knowledge into your wisdom bank for future recall!! 🔥🔥🙏🏽🙏🏽 I feel so blessed that God brought your ministry into my life Bishop! Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Thank you Pastor. Blessings to your home and your house.

This episode is very much timely. Thank you Bishop..... You really shared wisdom.

Please keep going Bishop Blakes , its life changing. Praise God Amen. Glory to God Amen

I appreciate this message You are like a father I wish I had ....my mindset is different now and I feel great I finally understand what it means to be a queen 👸 Thank you

Wow to see the channel and production grow is outstanding. I have all the books. Love y'all

I got a mental breakdown from it n neglect my children sometimes chasing men I’m now praying n god relationship with god legs closed n gaining my esteem back

Had to come back and watch this one again ❤️

I feel blessed to have someone like you in my life.Every word of yours is a blessing and wisdom for me.Millions of thanks to RC Blakes sir & Lisa ma’am.🙏

Bishop thank you for listening to the Lord for this message. I thank the Lord this message we need this in the Body of Christ as well as the world.

Thank you so much RC Blakes ❤ You are like the dad I never had appreciate your wisdom

This really helped me!! Thank you

Uncle RC Blakes, you’re always a blessing 🙏🏾