You can't ignore anyone who is already distant. Simply focus on yourself, your goals.

Let me help y'all out. If a person ignores / ghosts you, do NOT allow them back into your personal circle. You CANNOT trust them. Take my word for it.

This is why so many women stay single because WHO HAS TIME FOR THIS SHIT!?

If a guy ignores you. He’s not interested. Move on. Do not allow him back in.

Don’t let them come back. Most of the time they return because their other situation didn’t work out.

When he goes ghost you go ghoster❤

A guy doesn’t play with what he wants. When he plays, he’s playin you. Don’t want what doesn’t want you. Test this.

AS A MARRIED WOMAN!! When my husband is distant and “taking me for granted”. I join a class like yoga or a Church group. I start making plans with my girls.. and it totally works!!! He starts switching up, he wants to hang out more and join me in yoga. He totally realizes his behaviors and tries to be more present. this guys advice is Solid… Men are men. No matter single or not.

Be mature, communicate efficiently, and then walk away. Nobody has time for games.

If a guy pulls away because he wants to maintain control….Run! Run Fast! Run Far! Don’t stop running! You do not want to be in a long term relationship with a man who will manipulate you for control!

A Confident Woman Always, Knows Her Self Worth. She Always, Knows When To Walk Away!! ❤❤

I actually learned this by accident, lol. I stop caring and start ignoring and distanting myself from certain people when I think I am being mistreated and taken advantage of. When you become silent and distant while enjoying your life, certain people will begin treating you with respect, especially when you stop accepting disrespect.

If a man wants you he will double text, he will travel across the world to spend time with you, he will invest in you. But you have to make him work for you. Don’t be available all the time x but when you are available be available then back off a bit get on with your stuff. Let him double text before you answer, let him miss your voice, let him miss your face, he will call if he misses your voice… don’t answer the first call. Call him back an hour or two later… you’re busy! Let him plan your date, let him chase you. It’s his proghtive xxx

My ex did this to me..... he didnt know im actual Casper's uncles 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂but seriously, he still trying to get me back....I dont play games, I move on.... Ladies, never pretend...give all the love you give others to yourself and watch your life transform....you deserve the love you gave....you are worthy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 and whether you decide to give that man another chance or someone new, "remain giving yourself healthy love everyday" walk in your power always...

When he's on and off he's not interested...get another one..... ..

He was pulling away, I confronted him then asked him to delete my number. He reacted with anger, then pulled away a bit more so I blocked him. I know for sure that I have my power back, don't be careless ladies, be protective of your power and your mentality not his ignorance, not acceptable. If he doesn't come back with a better attitude and adult mentality then walk away, actually run away!

He started getting distant and scarce- so, after A great Valentines Day- I just Ghosted him- went completely silent- stopped responding- he went crazy, calling- texting- even sent nasty mean text- I did not respond- I know he was distracted with other women because I saw evidence in his apartment- I didn’t argue or say a word- just had a wonderful V-day & disappeared- I’m ✔️ done- whenever you have to figure them out & you feel like a burden or that he is just buying time- kick him to the curb on your terms & leave - ✌🏽

at this point, it's not even a matter of "trying" to force myself into ignoring this person and "acting" all distant. it's just an honest, natural response coming from me because i've run out of faith and energy to keep this toxic situation going. it's not even about playing "hard-to-get" when I've just naturally reached a point of indifference because of their actions (or lack thereof). in a very effed up and roundabout way, it's like they trained me to stop caring and now i legit couldn't even force myself to give a crap :-/ it's sad but its' true

Men whom behave childishly don’t deserve me, if he ignores me that’s a red flag for manipulation and is not worth my time

If someome ghosts you...walk away...leave the dead alone.

I was a psychology major, and this is an example of what I call POLI - Principle Of Least Interest: the person who's less interested has the other person on a leash. It really works. I've used it on men, on sales prospects, and on nasty coworkers too. Just stop talking to them. Pretty soon they're leaving lip prints on your backside😂

This has been so true for me. My ex and I are back together after a year and a half of being broken up and now that I’ve learned to love and respect myself, he’s almost obsessed with me. I don’t ignore in a manipulative way, I’m just waaaay more invested in myself and my life that I don’t give him the time to play games. If he’s distant, I don’t take it personally like I used to. One night he said something rude and I got busy with a project, put my phone away, had several missed calls from him and he showed up at my house to check on me and said he needed a hug and to see my face. This is coming from an extremely avoidant man! I’m not enabling his past avoidant behaviors anymore by jumping every time he reaches out or begging when he used to push me away and our relationship is growing stronger every day. Love advice tv has literally changed my life when it comes to all of my relationships, romantic or platonic. ❤️❤️❤️ THANK YOUUU!

Why do men do this ? Isn’t it easier to say “I am not connecting with you anymore”’ instead of ghosting…. It irritates me so much.

O God give us the grace to ignore

It works every time. Especially when you know you’ve developed a special bond. I’ll walk away, I don’t care. If he likes me, he’ll work harder. If not, ✌️ but they always come back, so you can take your time. 🤭

No wonder why so many women don't want to date anymore. After a few disappointments, a behavior becomes predictable and she pulls away before he pulls away. Nothing ever starts. 😂

How you treat the man you don’t like is how you’re meant to treat the man you like.

If he pulls away is acting distant he's going with someone else for sure .

I'm an advocate for meeting them with the same energy. Meet me in the middle. Otherwise, if we can't be each other's priority, then we need to refuse to be an option. People only treat you the way you allow, so know your worth, and don't be afraid to walk away without looking back. Your Peace and Happiness is waiting for you to show up💖

When a guy pulls away it's bc he doesn't want a relationship. He's a player and not worth your time nor energy.

I'm very good in ignoring a man that distance himself...that bothers them...I'm not running behind no man they are not God

If a guy needs to be challenged it's not the guy for me. I want something easy, I don't play games. Games are exhausting.

Once ignored, never come back to this man

He thought he could use me but he didn't know that Alex is my coach ❤️❤️

If he pulls away why the hell should i want him back , he is free to go 😂 A woman should ONLY mirror the man. Each and ever day of the relationship the man is making his OFFER to the woman. He can offer good words, kindness, attention or he can offer gasligting, lies, violence, disrespect, neglect, etc. The woman is making HER DECISION to accept (OR NOT) his continue behavior and offer. So after he is vanishing few weeks and IGNORING you, why would you accept him back, why would you show acceptance to his disrespect....in this way you only encourage him to disrespect you more.

You’re a 100% correct , life Is too short to continue wasting time on someone that’s not going to change! Love yourself more and move on! Furthermore use you female intuition!

Not every guy comes back. Sometimes you ignore them and you never hear from then again! They don't always come back.

Hello ladies. Be alert when he pulls away. That means that he is out there with other options. My BF was inconsistent in our three year relationship and also picked arguments with me so he could run off and be with the other woman. I found out by a reliable source and my BF denied it at first but a week later confessed the truth. He is now begging for forgiveness and promising counseling and spiritual help . He has started the help but! I am going to end it . I told him to call me when he is a changed man but he wants to keep seeing me during the process. I am not doing it at his terms. I am now considering other options. I only miss the fake person he was but can't respect someone who wore a mask . Hope this helps you to move on. I know it hurts but hurt lasts a little while or for a season but is better that a lifetime in misery not trusting him . ❤️

I've always treated men this way and its always been so hard for them to leave me when I leave them. I dont rush to answer the phone when they call all the time even though deep down I want to talk to them so badly. It really works! The hard part is getting rid of them when u dump them. 😂😂

Why don't we all grow up and learn how to communicate properly😂😂😂 LOVE to all ❤

I use the Double-Down method ... what ever number of days they ghost, go distant, as soon as they reappear ... i start the clock and give them back Double what they just dished out ... smgdh lmao 😂😂 You disappear for 4 i dont respond until after 8 ... you disappear for 2mths ... i disappear for 1yr ... you got me fckd up

So true sometimes I go to the gym and I miss my bf's calls then on my way back I see he called several times and he is whining about me being complicated " not available" after words he became really attentive and kind to me. Men's love language is uncertainty.

Oh lord please give me the strength to ignore him 😢please lord 🙏

Just ignore them if they're playing mind games. Soon, they will reap what they sow!. KNOW YOUR WORTH!🤨🤨

Ignore a man who's playing mind games to you. Don't be so doofus to their tricks. Reminder to all tricksters: WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!

I've seen friends stalking their men and even call them numerous times a day without giving them space, and then wonder why he left. Never stalk a man!!!!

If he does not care its not going to effect him at all. He simply does not care.

It can work if he were not a narcissist. He will pretend that he was getting better and then plays you again. I cut them off because I hate narcissists, toxic, childish, insecure, evil, jealous, envy, manipulative men. I can give a clue about my interest, however I never chase. I like chase for a short time, but if does not reciprocate, I lose interest. I know my value and I was victim of narcissistic people who tried to destroy me because of my beauty, intelligence, independence, success etc.

I'm ignoring him because I got tired of standing by, "just in case", and decided to start dating again and it is soooooo much fun. I am sorry I waited this long!!!

When someone deliberately ignores you, call him/her out on it, dont play games (such as, dont double text etc and let them get away with it), make them accountable for their actions. Tell him/her I know your ignoring me, I get the message. However, if you didn't want to talk to me then you should have just said so, and I wouldn't have continued to message you and embarrass myself. Leave it at that and dont message him/her again. Ignorance shows weakness and bad character.

MOVING ON IS THE SOLUTION! IF YOU REACH OUT AND THEY DON'T RESPOND YOU MOVE FORWARD! IT'S SIMPLE!

I love this video.❤ My boyfriend broke off with me for a financial matter and said he wanted to just think of himself so I decided to leave and go to my parents who live far away. I gave him space. We said we would stay friends. Then, I just wanted to stay in touch with him but he became even more distant. He was just being friendly in his replies. But I still haven't punished him for his decision. So now I'm ignoring him starting today. No more giving him attention in hopes he regrets his decision. No more letting him be in control. I'm in control.

If he ghost me, he would have to pay a psychic medium to help him get in contact with me. I'm dead and gone baby

Set your boundaries, and demand self-respect. Say goodbye, and wish him or her the best. They are in their own journey. Don't hold resentment. Forgiveness is key, and for your own sake.

Those reaction only means one thing, his heart is elsewhere with someone .

i did that ..took control and challenged him. This video is just a confirmation i made the right decision.

5:40 6:45 7:20 8:04 👏 ignore him until he offers better treatment. Take control of your love life again. Dont be scared to be a challenge!

He kept ignoring me, playing mind games and even cheated. I’ve told him he will never see me again. Good men are out there ladies. He ever wants me he needs to become a man not a boy. Time to value myself

For how long should we ignore him❓😩This man hasn’t spoken to be in more then 10 days😭😭💔now I want to ignore him for the whole month. I am tired of this disrespect ❗️

I always ignore a man that I like when he starts playing games. This is my personality. I don’t like controlling men. My current situation with a guy who is becoming distant after I went to his parents house to give his mother a Mother’s Day gift. I thought I was doing something nice, but to him it was an offense. After that day, I never heard back from him. He was visiting me before, he was calling me and texting. Suddenly he vanished like a ghost in thin air. Here’s the funny thing. He lives down the street and he spends his time watching me from his window and driving by my house.

After all, nothing is permanent. So I just accepted the fact that all of us here won’t be here for good. I don’t chase, I don’t beg. I just do things that could help me. Because when I grieve, that’s the time I’ve realized that only God will help you. No one. So I pay attention to myself and my health and heart.

Ignore them forever will give me peace of mind and love myself ... Thank you for all your advices

Love has become very difficult, if people love each other why should they play games?

This was what I'd been needing to hear all this time. It's because he does it on purpose. Thank s

I just wanted to thank you Alex. I attended your courses, read your book and followed the tips. Today I got my first result. OMG! I was overjoyed. I thought it will never happen for me. Thank you for your dedication, your empowering words and consistent encouragment. 🎉😅🎉🎉

I was in relationship , and everything was going great . One day he left and said that he is thinking about us and he left for 3 months after he come back . I lived in tears thinking what I did wrong . After he come back I took him back I was so happy … but inside of me something was wrong … after some months I lost my job and went to a difficult situation and asked him for help … he didn’t help. He said he will. After he didn’t help .. I had a conversation with him and I decided to move on … he got so mad … I’m Like if a person doesn’t love you react like this … I did a mistake to accept him back … so sad … now he doesn’t talk to me at all .. I’m Glad I was able to move on and I know god will Send someone else in my life …. Be careful ladies who you meet outside .. that’s why woman’s are alone this days …

I’m no longer interested in playing these stupid games when it comes to men. If he isn’t grown enough to communicate then he can go away. I don’t have the time or the patience to wait around on a guy to make up him mind on what he wants. If he doesn’t have time for me, I don’t have time for him. Simple as that.

Ohhh yeah exactly what I did I decided to leave him and ignored him because I saw that I'm not important for him worthless so I will go far away from him and focused to my self thanks for this channel I heard many good advices I'm cross watcher here watching from Riyadh Saudi Arabia god bless us all

Thank you for this valuable lesson. I am going thru this right now. I went ahead and started ignoring him on Monday.

Its too many men that do this.. this should not be normal.. why be mean to someone to show your worth?

Thank you for this great advice. It's important to hear this validation from a man that understand how other man think.

I chose me, I went no contact it's been a year and he started going to my adult son work place 8 wks ago spouting about what he's done for me (crazy talk.. now he's in a relationship he never fought for me and sadly my fault. I was always bottom of the list in his priority. I have learnt so much about myself this last and current year that I'm moving on I'm excited about the future and I just can't explain the peace have in my heart. I have forgiven him and pray for him and hopefully one day he will get rid of his demon addictions coke and alcohol and all the crazy that comes with this man. I truly love me so I just need to say thank you for this blessing and lesson. The world is my oyster ❤

what а strange advice...if he started behaving like this, you need to stop all communication and close this story for yourself, and not be drawn into an emotional swing. You don't need to ignore him to apologize, this must be done because you have lost confidence and you do not want to communicate with this guy anymore. The biggest trap in this advice is that you ignore it for some reason. That is, for some reason you are already planning the future in advance, how this guy should behave after your ignore. Girls, stop, trust my experience: ignore only to break the connection completely. The guys who allowed themselves to disappear for at least 1 day are no longer trustworthy. We live in the 21st century, when every person spends 12 hours on the phone. Do you really believe that he was sooo busy and could not notify you in any way? Are you that naive? There is only one reason for his disappearance: he does not need you and he does not care about your feelings. Dot. Never justifies bad attitude towards you. Do not expect changes from such people, you yourself will get stuck in thoughts about them. I myself went through such an experience and I am writing this with complete confidence that I am right, there can be no other options.

Am going through this right now. My eyes are filled with tears 😭😢. God pls help me 🙏

(5:34) "You need to trust yourself".......the statement of the year!!!

Thank you so much for this video , Alex you make me value my self. I stop texting him ,and stay away from him. He is a guy that will not talk, if I don't say anything to him. I was feeling so empty in side. That's not how he was in the begining he use to text me often and calling me to make sure that am ok but as you said I make the decision not to text him. So thanks again. God bless you and your family.

It's pretty easy to ignore them when he distance himself

Indeed you are a presenter, you are our mentor,thank you Alex for your good advice

WIse man once told me "how do you get someones attention by stop giving them yours"

Thanks so much Alex, I've been doing this naturally for this past week, and feel good, loved your cheering us up, hugs from Mexico They will miss us like the desserts miss the rain, for sure, hahaha

I'll share my sad story. A man came onto me very strong even suggesting marriage. We flirted for awhile and he was exceptionally warm and loving with me. I stayed light thinking I wasn't getting hooked but I did. Then he just stopped texting me without telling me why. He got very sick and I thought that was it and so I held out hope. I thought he would reach out when he was better. I was also in a bit of denial because I was so filled with dopamine. I saw this video and even prior to seeing this, I knew what to do in these situations. I reached out twice with kind words, hoping he'd get well soon. Then I knew to stop because he wasn't responding back to me. I went on with my life. Then he calls me angry...he wants to blame me for his being sick. I stand up for myself and I am left shaken because this was so contrary to the loving attitude he had towards me. I again leave him be. THEN, I see him at a social gathering. He didn't warn me he'd be there so I was taken aback and sensitive about it. I didn't know what to do but since he ignored me, and I don't know why, I ignore him. It wasn't to punish him in anyway, it was to protect my heart. I honestly thought he didn't want to know me anymore. It was so painful for me because I cared about him but if he ignored me for at least a month and a half and prior to that a month with no words of us getting together (that was the original plan) what else am I to think? Maybe he can't stand me? I don't know. THEN I find out he was VERY UPSET that I ignored him! That made me feel bad, too because then I thought I did the wrong thing. I felt anguish and sadness and so wanted to talk to him but I felt it wasn't good to reach out because I had already reached out with kind words the last time. Two times. A month or so later I told his friend to tell him I hope he is OK. I was told he was much better. No response. I do my best to move forward with my life. I was hoping he would reach out to at least heal this relationship but that didn't happen. Fast forward a year later, I find out he is in a new relationship and is happy. I am glad for him but this whole episode has been enormously painful and sorrowful. Never got to clear the air in any way, never got to fix any misunderstanding, none of it. I cannot believe I still have to grieve this. So painful.

Ignore… then forget that he existed.

When the relatuonship between 2 people reach to, who's the winner, it is better to leave the whole entire case for good

I love you so much Alex,and thank you for the relationships advice

I really needed to subscribe to your channel. This exactly is my present predicament. I tend to ignore when I know I am not given the right attention. Excuses all the time. I asked him to buy me something almost three weeks now , no response. Not that I can't afford to buy it , which I ended up doing for myself , but a woman feels good when her partner helps her do certain things . Instead all I get is bad attitude from him. Really worn out considering walking away bcoz it seems to be reoccurring more frequently now.

Thank you so much for your great advice ❤

You really mean it, thanks for good encouragrous words my presenter, we women we should preseve our integrity for us to be respected

I was invited for a drink, I accepted happily and then he disappeared. I cancelled and then he came back. Crazy.

Figured this out years ago lol I never chase a man. It’s not my responsibility as a woman!

everytime when me and my man we had misunderstanding he ignored me for not communicating or chatting with me for a couple of days or week and after that once he is ready to talk to me he explained to me that being silence it doesn't mean he's ignoring me but to calm himself down to avoid of getting more conflicts and avoiding himself not to talk bad towards me.

If he pulls away show him what its like to play that game 😂😂

Ppl who ghost ppl, have been ghosted themselves, by family &friends. Ppl are the way they are 4a reason. Don't allow any1 2change u, unless it's 4the better. Love always

Ghoster competition on😂😂😂

This era is about MANIFESTING. No more games or no time for techniques. Vibe how you wd love to feel and love yourself unlimited ❤ see results of worthy loving ppl attracting towards you and your way. Vibe as you align with your vortex ppl😊😊😊😊

more like: "i choose to decide for myself from now on. i refuse to give this situation power over me, i have to save myself now and do the things i've wanted the other person to do for me."

Thanks Mr Alex for good encourageous words , you are our mentor

Omg thank you very much!😭😭❤️ i got my power back, this worked amazingly

Thank you so much I hear you 🙌

You are right. Show him you are in charge and in control. Show him that you don’t need him. Show him you are okay without him in your life. Distance yourself, go to your family. Tell him that your family has your back and you don’t need to depend on him not financially or emotionally. He will see his future alone. He will live his future alone. Give it a week or 2 if you live together. He will see things differently when he’s alone in his thoughts

I really needed this message. I hope he comes back and if he doesnt then it means he doesnt care. Its been 2 days.