How Feminism Saved Me | Shirley Graham | TEDxFoggyBottom

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7 ай бұрын

After a personal epiphany, Dr. Shirley Graham decided to dedicate her life to gender equality, and she entered the TEDxFoggyBottom stage to share how feminism can save our collective future. Dr. Shirley Graham is the Director of the Gender Equality Initiative in International Affairs and an Associate Professor of Practice in International Affairs at George Washington University. She teaches two graduate courses: Global Gender Policy and Gender, War & Peace, and an undergraduate course: Women in Global Politics.
Shirley is from Ireland and growing up during the time of “the Troubles” in Northern Ireland influenced her decision to work on peace and security issues. Shirley’s research includes the analysis of gender discourses on peacekeeping amongst officers in the Irish Defence Forces and the role and challenges of military gender advisors in U.S. security cooperation missions. She led a civil society consultation process in Ireland, north and south, to inform Ireland’s first national action plan on women, peace, and security . She is a member of the U.S. Civil Society Working Group on Women, Peace & Security (WPS), a coalition of experts serving to inform and educate U.S. Congress, the Administration, and civil society on WPS thematic areas and issues.
Shirley is the founder and faculty mentor for the Student Consortium on Women, Peace & Security with over 200 members focused on researching and publishing about the necessity of women’s equal participation in all aspects of peace and security, the protection of women and girls human rights, and women’s role in the prevention of violent conflict. Each year, Shirley hosts an international women’s day event to highlight progress and gaps in achieving gender equality and providing a space for women’s powerful voices to be heard. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@lauralegault
@lauralegault 9 күн бұрын
I found the part about her counselor helping her uncover suppressed memories very powerful. It highlights the importance of mental health support and also shows the kind of breakthroughs that really are possible and all the benefits from it
@jordanbaslier
@jordanbaslier 2 ай бұрын
Hearing about the experiences of women in the Irish Defence Forces was eye-opening. It’s shocking to learn about the extent of harassment and assault. I hope this talk encourages more conversations and actions to protect and empower women in all sectors.
@elviragabriele
@elviragabriele 11 күн бұрын
I loved how she emphasized the importance of asking “where are the women?” in all aspects of society. It’s a question we should all be asking!
@clarasands8549
@clarasands8549 Ай бұрын
Her journey from feeling lost and burnt out to dedicating her life to gender equality is truly inspiring.
@notthatoneorthoseones
@notthatoneorthoseones 2 ай бұрын
The point about women's inclusion in peace talks leading to longer-lasting peace agreements really stood out to me. It's a powerful reminder of the impact of gender equality on global security.
@immayasass
@immayasass 2 ай бұрын
It's amazing how a personal epiphany in Nepal led her to change her career path and impact so many lives. Gender equality is indeed a cornerstone for peace and security globally.
@therealdualippa
@therealdualippa 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for highlighting the importance of women at the peace table! It's a reminder that diverse voices lead to more sustainable solutions
@iamtheyesmanallthetime
@iamtheyesmanallthetime 2 ай бұрын
the stats on gender equality and peace are eye-opening. more people need to know this.
@aldennoname
@aldennoname 3 ай бұрын
I never realized the connection between gender equality and peace negotiations. This presentation has opened my eyes to the broader impact, thank you.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for watching and for your interest, please feel free to share this information it is so important.
@VodkaforDinner
@VodkaforDinner 4 ай бұрын
I appreciate the honesty in sharing personal struggles. It's inspiring how you turned your pain into a powerful force for change.
@tabbybiddle
@tabbybiddle 6 ай бұрын
Congratulations on this brave, powerful and important talk, Shirley! Thank you for sharing your story, your expertise, your wisdom, and your ideas to help us end war and create peace.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Tabby and for all of your support 😍
@robyncrosby666
@robyncrosby666 12 күн бұрын
Hearing about the progress Ireland has made in gender equality was uplifting. It shows that change is possible, even if it takes time.
@silversurferdude
@silversurferdude 23 күн бұрын
feminism saving the speaker’s life is a powerful statement. shows the impact of awareness.
@coopercrank
@coopercrank 2 ай бұрын
The story about the little girl in the yellow dress was heart-wrenching. I can't believe this sort of thing happens and more so that there are people out there who would have bought her. There are probably even people who go to places like that exacctly for that purpose. Such a sad reality.
@perfectplanssampler
@perfectplanssampler 26 минут бұрын
her journey from corporate life to gender equality advocacy is so inspiring. It’s amazing how one dream can change everything!
@carstenberns7104
@carstenberns7104 2 ай бұрын
Gender equality in peace processes is crucial. glad this was highlighted.
@IAmTheNeuroticSpy
@IAmTheNeuroticSpy 2 ай бұрын
So incredible how personal experiences can drive such powerful advocacy for gender equality.
@madelineley4605
@madelineley4605 5 ай бұрын
I have watched this presentation a few times now and take away something new every time. Gender equality makes peace and stability possible. Feminism can definitely save us all!
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching it a few times, Mimi! I am so glad you found the talk valuable.
@AFitTraveler
@AFitTraveler 20 күн бұрын
Feminism is such a powerful force for change. I love how she found her calling through her experiences and dreams.
@aleenazirvi6834
@aleenazirvi6834 4 ай бұрын
Truly an exceptional and inspirational talk, Dr. Graham!
@BrainLoon
@BrainLoon Ай бұрын
Ireland's progress is hopeful, but there’s so much more to do globally. Hopefully more people can see the merits of what Shirley is advocating for here
@emmashubert
@emmashubert 25 күн бұрын
I think it's amazing that she took the time to pursue something else when her corporate life had her burnt out and detached. That kind of reinvention can be really scary
@loochbardooch
@loochbardooch 5 ай бұрын
This is such an inspiring speech. Feminism saves so many lives across the world, but I'm not sure anyone has framed it the way you have. Thank you for sharing your story- truly an inspiration, starting with me!
@fionaross2429
@fionaross2429 5 ай бұрын
Shirley, you are a captivating storyteller, and your passion for helping others is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story and, most of all, for inspiring others to follow their true path.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 4 ай бұрын
Thanks Fiona! 😍
@IAmShootCute
@IAmShootCute 21 күн бұрын
Her determination to follow her dream and change her career in her 30s is so encouraging! It just shows that it's never too late to find your true calling.
@salsadevrees
@salsadevrees 22 күн бұрын
I love that her friend was like "it's so obvious what you're passionate about" haha sometimes we just need that outside perspective to give us a little clarity.
@sheilalindsay
@sheilalindsay Ай бұрын
The statistics about the decline of democracies and its impact on women's rights are alarming. It’s a crucial call to action for all of us to support and defend gender equality as a fundamental human right.
@merlemackenzie
@merlemackenzie 3 ай бұрын
The issue of gender-based violence is so prevalent, and it's crucial to address it. Your courage in shedding light on it is commendable.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, the more we talk about it and bring it out in the open the more we break the silence and create change.
@merlemackenzie
@merlemackenzie 3 ай бұрын
@@shirleygraham5853 very true...
@babssinnerd
@babssinnerd 3 ай бұрын
Personal struggles always add depth to a discussion. It's a powerful reminder of the resilience neede to fight for justice.
@andididntknow
@andididntknow 3 ай бұрын
The intersectionality of this story is really interesting, addressing gender inequalities both internationally and domestically really highlight how pervasive these issues are. It should serve as a wake up cool for our global community, hopefully people see this and answer said call.
@Stuckallthetime
@Stuckallthetime Күн бұрын
her honesty about her struggles with mental health was very brave. It shows that even advocates need support sometimes, something that I feel gets overlooked quite a bit
@sarahfreeman10
@sarahfreeman10 4 ай бұрын
Such an excellent TED Talk--I wish I could've seen it in person! Thank you for your inspiring words!
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Sarah! :)
@Elusive-Khan
@Elusive-Khan 4 ай бұрын
The story of the little girl in the yellow dress being offered from sale broke my heart. Surely it was just a matter of time before someone did buy her.
@emelybermudez3534
@emelybermudez3534 4 ай бұрын
This was outstanding and really touched on the complexity and intersectionality of feminism. It could not have been better said!!!
@nina_plateroti
@nina_plateroti 4 ай бұрын
Such a powerful and inspiring talk! Thank you for your continued commitment Dr. Graham!
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Nina! And for your commitment and leadership on women, peace and security issues.
@diemorat
@diemorat 5 ай бұрын
Right up there with the very best TED talks I've seen. Bravo.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much, Jeremy!😊
@orlageary5104
@orlageary5104 Ай бұрын
Feminism has saved a lot of people and I wish there was more content that properly explained what it actually is
@sushiladhikari9857
@sushiladhikari9857 6 ай бұрын
captivating and inspiring story and experiences dear Sherley. Thank you so much for sharing this to the world, and espeical thanks for mentioning Nepal..
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Sushil, it was so wonderful to meet you last year in Nepal and to hear all about your voluntary work organizing training and finding livelihoods for women who have disabilities.
@the-coffee-lover
@the-coffee-lover Ай бұрын
I'm impressed by the countries with fminist foreiqn policies. It's encouraging to see nations actively working towards qender equality.
@imnotq5509
@imnotq5509 4 ай бұрын
The statistics on gender inequality are staggering. It's disheartening that progress has been so slow, but your call for action is motivating. Hopefully once more people become aware of the kind of stuff that goes on, there will be more progress towards equality.
@Riya_Sharma2606
@Riya_Sharma2606 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Dr. Graham, for your powerful words and drive. You continue to inspire me with all the passion you put into your work.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thank you, Riya! And for your incredible leadership of the Student Consortium on women, peace and security
@aaliyahstump6826
@aaliyahstump6826 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your work and commitment!
@faisalshaob
@faisalshaob 2 ай бұрын
the story about the girl in a yellow dress broke my heart. we need change.
@chaddydescil
@chaddydescil 28 күн бұрын
Sending this to my mom, she needs it.
@beckettt
@beckettt 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations on following a powerful dream and answering your life's calling. An inspirational example for us all.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! 😊
@brodyalexandra
@brodyalexandra 3 ай бұрын
Wow, your journey from a corporate job to advocating for gender equality is commendable. It's proof that anyone can make a difference.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! I believe we can and do all make a difference in the lives of those around us 😊
@StarPointExodus
@StarPointExodus 3 ай бұрын
The review group's report on SA in the Defense Forces is shocking. Hopefully acknowledging the issue is the first step toward change.
@rosemerle540
@rosemerle540 4 ай бұрын
I can understand how frustrating for women peace keepers not being able to talk to men outside their tribes. Difficult cultural barrier to overcome.
@eleanorgreenbaum137
@eleanorgreenbaum137 4 ай бұрын
Such an incredible talk, thank you Dr. Graham!
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thanks Eleanor! And congratulations on your recent presentation at the UN CSW 👏👏👏
@nanburkhardt
@nanburkhardt 3 ай бұрын
I appreciate this kind of conversation around what feminism actually is. Lots of weird misinformation and resentment about it these days
@mariamcconalogueharkin1967
@mariamcconalogueharkin1967 5 ай бұрын
Inspirational Shirley! 👏🤩
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching Maria! 😍
@vanessapearse6211
@vanessapearse6211 5 ай бұрын
Well worth listening to.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 4 ай бұрын
Thanks Vanessa! :)
@shannonnikita
@shannonnikita 2 ай бұрын
it's concerning how slow progress towards gender equality is. we must do better.
@thephilosopher59
@thephilosopher59 4 ай бұрын
Oh my heart!
@AnastasiaCostcalla
@AnastasiaCostcalla 3 күн бұрын
The fact that 88% of women in the Irish Defense Forces reported harassment is shocking. We need to do better in protecting women in all sectors.
@mateomardenson3022
@mateomardenson3022 27 күн бұрын
I've seen so many tiktoks lately of these girls saying "I dont agree with you, I wear dresses and cook and blah blah." It's an absolute train-wreck and I don't know if it's just rage bait but the comments are full of people trying to explain what feminism actually is and how so many fought for her right to CHOOSE what she wanted to do and I think that's the whole point, really. Having the freedom to make choices. It's sad to think about how many women still don't have that right.
@barbsteele
@barbsteele Ай бұрын
It's very unfortunate but I think you can judge the development of a country by how they treat their women
@regissanford7104
@regissanford7104 3 ай бұрын
This story is truly eye-opening. It's heartbreaking to hear about the challenges girls face worldwide. We need more advocates like you!
@kanejsloane
@kanejsloane 2 ай бұрын
When you think about what those inequalities translate to - like Iittle girls being sold off the street - it's actually so shocking, we need to do better
@user-qf2gm3sr9n
@user-qf2gm3sr9n 4 ай бұрын
An excellent presentation of a thought provoking topic. Lets all do our utmost in whatever capacity we find ourselves to accelerate the process of gender equality for the benefit of all man/ womankind.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 3 ай бұрын
Yes! I love that, thank you! 💗
@ayxanmamedzade8106
@ayxanmamedzade8106 7 ай бұрын
🧐
@kikiseegers2270
@kikiseegers2270 6 ай бұрын
Yes, empowering women is actually empowering men to listen to their actual needs, to be able to grow real power. Real power is not based on suppression. It speaks freely from the heart.
@shirleygraham5853
@shirleygraham5853 4 ай бұрын
Wonderful, I so agree Kiki! Thank you :)
@FlameChump
@FlameChump 4 ай бұрын
How terrifying for a chiId to be told they were going to work as a domestic and then end up in a brotheI.
@tomkochanka9834
@tomkochanka9834 27 күн бұрын
Oh my Lord... ...I pray 🙏 for your salvation through Jesus Chtist... Wow..
@emmashubert
@emmashubert 25 күн бұрын
This is weird. Why don't you pray for the girls being sold into the s*x trade instead?
@iamthefootyfan
@iamthefootyfan Ай бұрын
Technically feminism has saved all the women righht?
@thisdidnotfkinghelpatall
@thisdidnotfkinghelpatall 3 ай бұрын
love how she emphasizes the importance of listening to women in all spaces.
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