I also realised once you let a man know you don't work and you have problems they run away or just use you.But once you let them know you have your life together they treat you differently,some find you extremely interesting and some become insecure and intimidated by you.
@joymboya38672 жыл бұрын
Lol. My ex husband had serious problems with me working. He finally told me to choose between the marriage and and my job. I beat mazematiks ile shida nilipata in search of education ndio nikuwe na my own money...I said NO!
@jomurugi33852 жыл бұрын
😆😆u beat wot?? I like that
@mercymwangi93952 жыл бұрын
that one was a narcissist
@glodieglodie9192 жыл бұрын
Am proud of you.. after YEARS SPENT IN UNI EXACTLY we can't deny our parents sacrifice for a man
@pierrawanjiru32162 жыл бұрын
She can challenge the Man(Has her own skills,has depth while engaged in conversations) -She Knows how to handle issues Logistically -She has high people skill standards -She Knows the pinch of earning -She can get her personal things(small monies for her and her people) -She Has a disposable capital(she can request in times of emergencies)
@rispergeke41812 жыл бұрын
Woow...as a woman am inspired to work harder.Thank you Benjamin.
@Bee-wd4mh2 жыл бұрын
This show cracks me up so much! I literally died when Bramuel said “water”😂😂😂😂. Water sir, that’s what we enjoy, water and sunshine.
@ayotadhiambo2 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed to watch... Thank you Benjamin. When you are busy in the area of your gifts and purpose, you become a person of depth and you connect better with your spouse.
@saudah17832 жыл бұрын
Benjamin telling men that they should look for ladies who are working, tell them also not to look at our money and borrowing 😑😑they don't want to pay back
@Jojo.kazumi2 жыл бұрын
The accuracy 💯💯💯💯💯 Ladies! Your own money, no matter how little... That's your security!
@tsitsichipenzi13812 жыл бұрын
*Side note* Bramwel is glowing BZ is such a good mentor
@faimaally73292 жыл бұрын
Marry a woman who knows the pinch of earning
@eunicechebosaieunice2 жыл бұрын
Girls, ladies, single mothers come let's gather our answers ♥ are here..
@essiemofficial10022 жыл бұрын
My job my first husband
@janewanjiku75852 жыл бұрын
Yeah, either a job or a profitable business.
@Mkisii6122 жыл бұрын
Waaoh the whole reason why a woman can’t just be the table but bring at least,SOMETHING to that table 💪👏👏👏WOMAN,Develop yourself before you demand that TALL,DARK,HANDSOME and FINANCIALLY STABLE man,right?
@irenesalvatory52722 жыл бұрын
Wealth of wisdom here❤️❤️❤️
@kagoyaasinati5782 жыл бұрын
Let me first laugh before I watch the Zulu show"it's what are men looking for in a woman for me 😂😂😂😂"🙌🙌🙌🙌。
@jeannekaze5602 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sir Zulu it’s also women following men because of money,searching job and building your future is better than what they have.
@inalumieresonia96772 жыл бұрын
The laugh is so contagious
@christinemuritu93472 жыл бұрын
👍looking forward to hosting your best half here 😊
@Americanlady_46652 жыл бұрын
Aii....just raised my shoulders high..thank you!
@hellen59402 жыл бұрын
Just needed to here this...sure ladies should be independent...you look attractive when you are independent...
@annnjoki47342 жыл бұрын
God help us to cultivate the wisdom of your Man into our lives
@Nancytitu6032 жыл бұрын
You guys you inspire me always big up 💖👏👏👏
@arriwintress30872 жыл бұрын
For a broke man ... a man that got money don’t care about your job .. it doesn’t impress him
@missachieng.179 Жыл бұрын
You’re clearly missing the point !
@fatmanasir66912 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm in that single mothers group that throw stones,LOOOL, but I'm working class,phew!! Benjamin is right, men also look for high value women to lean on. No wahala,so long as they also pour&invest in me¬ just a leech. I know the pinch of earning, and as much as I love a man to lavish on me, I feel bad to just misuse someone's money. Preach, a woman needs to have her own money, you are not at the mercy of the man, gives you dignity
@estherwendot67122 жыл бұрын
Powerful presentation.i love it.kudos!
@kagoyaasinati5782 жыл бұрын
Performing chores can't change the world ✍✍✍✍👂👂👂👏👏👏👏。
@patiencemagoola1012 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@christinemuritu93472 жыл бұрын
Great presentation and true...keep it up👍
@bridgetteirene82282 жыл бұрын
Wow! Am 22 yrs old have got the best advice ever before marriage
@christinemuritu93472 жыл бұрын
One of the best presentations... looking forward to more
@fredrickkoech83962 жыл бұрын
best teaching
@judykemboi15802 жыл бұрын
Work is important that's the key thnks sir for your show
@wendymkhwanazi98622 жыл бұрын
Great session 👌👌👌
@liliankimani95242 жыл бұрын
Good discussion
@blessedmum73172 жыл бұрын
Thank you Benjamin
@IjeomaJudithIheanacho2 жыл бұрын
Yes I liked even before watching
@milnerkaisa6422 жыл бұрын
Well said .
@agnesndumia17132 жыл бұрын
21st century advice, I treasure this, sio calling bae ' nitumie pesa ya kiberiti'.
@MdawidaMdawida2 жыл бұрын
Am inspired indeed by the wisdom.. Great job there
@mundialishebo29812 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is really great.
@carolinemutegi10562 жыл бұрын
It's the laughter me.. Hahaaaa.
@peninahmwende3682 жыл бұрын
Pure truth 🙏🙏
@vainesmwacharo64842 жыл бұрын
Wow B.Z great mind, nothing but the truth
@Aaliyah.SK.1993.2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the show for real.its challenges
@godsfavour56652 жыл бұрын
Wow I love this👍💞💞
@kimulirebeccapriscilla11492 жыл бұрын
Wow wow perfect time for me to come across this show thanks Benjamin🙏
@nyasuba_jaber_dolly2 жыл бұрын
Logical is the word 😊
@mtotowababatajiri2 жыл бұрын
"They have cat skills"....nimecheka karibu nianguke. Yawa Benjamin
@eunicefreetime12802 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening! Setting us women straight.
@wanjirukarago93082 жыл бұрын
Then am about to get unattractive 😂😂😂 cz am quitting and becoming jobless but guess what,even with my joblessness i still won't no shit from any man.
@UrSoLovedByGod2 жыл бұрын
Money is a protection. There's a verse to that effect. Been where you're headed, done that. I know you'll probably not listen, but let me hope against hope, that you will rethink it.
@bridgettehondo28992 жыл бұрын
#You can't change at world staying at home. Obama could have never been president with a housewife. Proverbs 31 woman has learnt people stills. Amen
@darlenesworld99092 жыл бұрын
Word💯
@primmycooks8842 жыл бұрын
I currently dont work because i live in a foreign country with my husband. And i cant work here because im on a spouse permit . Now im feeling worthless
@clotildah28212 жыл бұрын
The most important thing is doing what you both agree on and not putting pressure on yourself, im sure u take great care of your husband now thats a very important job in itself.
@emilywanjiku91392 жыл бұрын
You can try online Or craft .....
@rosemushelle822 жыл бұрын
Awesome video
@anthonymirriam21282 жыл бұрын
@Benjamin Zulu What if you have business together and you are operating that business together and you'r not paid by your dominating husband . ??
@ckb78782 жыл бұрын
As long you are acquiring property together, bills are gathered what else do you want ? Ama pocket money
@yolz555 Жыл бұрын
Have a conversation with him . You should also ensure your name is on every important documentation. As you are legally a partner on that business and contributed
@yolz555 Жыл бұрын
Have a conversation with him . You should also ensure your name is on every important documentation. As you are legally a partner on that business and contributed
@annsitymakena23822 жыл бұрын
I need a job again
@janekanyiha54802 жыл бұрын
Mmmmh I tend to disagree.....I have a job and men see me as a threat 😂😂...They fear challenges or I'm I meeting the wrong bale???
@ckb78782 жыл бұрын
It's only you are in the wrong place, go where your standards are
@stephenmaithyatalkske Жыл бұрын
Low-value/Low-quality men are intimidated by independent women. Take note of this.
@janekanyiha5480 Жыл бұрын
@@stephenmaithyatalkske wowwww...I really needed to hear this
@florahnemaorani34929 ай бұрын
What about a business...
@pierakarwitha93452 жыл бұрын
Poverty wewe ... Will fight you for better generation