Benjamin is a blessing to this generation!! I'm 23 and don't really have a male figure who'll speak to me about these vital life lessons but God uses Benjamin each time to motivate and inspire me🙏thanks for having him on the show

When Jules is quiet and humble, you know it's getting serious 😂😂🤩🤣🤣🤣

How y'all were silent through this episode is the same reaction we the audience have just listening to facts 😂. Benjamin Zulu 👏👏👏

The collaboration I never knew we would get but ❤

WE NEED A PART 2 guys 👏👏👏👏...... I love this women using their platform to refine and equip fellow ladies with the tools to navigate our love life's juu wueeeeh....

It's unfortunate that Benjamin doesn't know what he's talking about with regards to polyamory. The most famous book written on the subject was authored by two women who are probably old enough to be his mother. He shouldn't be so dismissive, does he really think GenZ and Millenials are the first ones to come up with this? 😂 It's been going on for as long as humans have been around. A little bit of reading and investigation is needed here, it's not difficult. His views seem quite close-minded.

Wow. I'm 34 and I agree with Zulu 100%. At 22 I would have thought he's pushing it but looking back I agree. Hind sight is 20/20. Let those who have ears hear these gems and apply them when they still have the time

I had goosebumps the whole episode. I'm one year down in my singlehood era and I'm glad I am learning through lessons. This is an episode I didn't know I needed and I know I'm not the only one. Thank you ❤

It has been said, the "modern woman" will submit to a man that is a leader, a protector and a provider. Just watch how these 3 very chatty women, are attentively listening to Benjamin. His persona alone has reeled them and me in. 🎤 Drop!

You guys remember when jules said that her mom ongezeas tv volume when Benjamin is talking so that jules can hear lmao 😂😂😂

Ivy's facial expressions are sending me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she's deep deep in the conversation.. love her!!

I'm in Awe!! Use this comment section as Benjamin Zulu's life quote dump, I'll go first : "Relationships don't survive because the guilty are punished but because the wounded are merciful".

“Whoever shoots their shot first, is the one leading the relationship” 🤯 JEESUUS, the FACTS are FACTING today😩😂

Requirements are not the rules you shout at him, they are the rules you live by... (Goodnight, Merry Christmas, Happy New year...the year can now end.😆😆😆) That my friends, is the part where Zulu should drop the mic (but pick it back real fast because we need such council 👌) Best show yet👍) Shikie❤❤❤

When he said "In school you are judged by your answers and in life by your questions"😂I just put a hand on my head ,waaahhh!!!

Lornzie has been giggling like a baby the whole time she looks so happy.

I rarely listen to "life coaches" or "socialogist" and the whole lot cz, most of them speak like they know your whole life story, they generalize a lot of issues and simply put, life is not that simple. That said, Benjamin is cut from a different cloth, he is very subjective and doesn't teach perfection, rather he looks at life as an average of two things, good and bad, right, wrong, failures and lessons cz life can't be without the two sides, and that's why I listen to Benjamin and thoroughly enjoyed and learnt a lot on this episode. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Whenever i listen to Zulu. I thank God for saving me nikiwa pre 25. I made alot of damage..not many say this, but growing up in a healthy home makes you trust easily..me sikujua dunia ni cruel..thank God at some point i was completely shaken. That was my wake up call..

The white dress 😍😍😍😍😍 Ivy looking like a billion dollars!!!

Ivy's expressions are killing me, lmao.😭