How I'm Overcoming my Disordered Eating

How I'm Overcoming my Disordered Eating | Q&A

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Hope this helps❤️🤗 I love you.
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@spiritualanonymous7670 3 ай бұрын

I love how you are not afraid of being vulnerable! Really needed this episode. it couldn't have been better timing ❤️

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

Much love & hugssss🤗🤗🤗!!!

@gabi_abi_2767 3 ай бұрын

queeraaa your energy is so contagious 😭😭 i love your laugh and all your videos, sending you much love

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

Aw thanks for watching ilyyy❤

@jennsumbera6435 3 ай бұрын

RED LOOKS AMAZING ON YOU GOD YOU LOOK SO GOOD :,)

@ryanmorejon5813 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing Q@A Keara it's ultimately interesting to learn more about your body image and I hope that you and your friends and loved ones have a fantastic weekend 🏳️‍🌈🌈❤

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

Same to you!🤗 Thanks for watching!

@ryanmorejon5813 3 ай бұрын

@@KearaGraves you're very welcome 🤗

@FroggyFreg 3 ай бұрын

You can do it! Ofc I still have rough days but it's been about 3 years for me and I started loving myself. On the rough days I like to watch creators that have helped me with my body image and my disordered eating. And remember on the days that give rough don't give into those thoughts. You have to push yourself. Sometimes that means eating when your brain is screaming at you to not.

@astral_bumblebee 3 ай бұрын

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

@jennsumbera6435 3 ай бұрын

missseedddd askqueera more than i realized...THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME SO HAPPY IN MY OWN SKIN. we love you endlessly keara!!!

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

I LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU KNOW❤

@jennsumbera6435 3 ай бұрын

@@KearaGraves 😭♥️ i love you MORE

@mairead4303 3 ай бұрын

i needed this sooo bad today. thank you, you're an incredible human

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

So glad it helped🤗🤗🤗💕💕💕

@chiefdancingostriche 3 ай бұрын

i'm sorry you ever felt that way. you are not ugly. you never were. you are very beautiful. you always were. we all always were.

@ZoeRazzino30 3 ай бұрын

Hey Keara! I hope u see this: This made my whole day. You are super helpful and i have come so far on my gender journey and sexuality journey ( queer and non binary💖) I loved the music in the back ground it was very helpful because I have Tourette's and have been ticcing so much today and have been SUPER overstimulated :( so you really helped me relieve lots of stress and stop ticcing! Thanks again Keara ( or QUEERA :D)

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

I'm so glad the music I chose was soothing for you :) I love you SO much!💕🤗

@al.se.youtube 3 ай бұрын

Oh ! Hi fellow queer enby with Tourette's !

@jennsumbera6435 3 ай бұрын

happy february keara!!, WE LOVE A Q&A TO BEGIN THE NEW MONTH

@justinfelt748 3 ай бұрын

Hi, Keara! Happy Thursday and welcome to the first day on the second month of February!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🌈💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇👍. First, you look fantastic with the makeup and the "Outfit of the Day."😍😍😍😍😍😍. And second, I subscribed to your best friend's KZfaq channel, Lauren! YAY!!😀🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🌈🎇👍. So...yeah. Also, your topics are so...terrific about being normal and be stronger like a machine with feelings. And I love it so much.😢😢😊😊😊💙💙💙💙💙💙👍

@LauraLParr 3 ай бұрын

You make that top look like ABSOLUTE freaking fire flames!

@seagurll 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this. You're beautiful both inside and out, and have every right to be as proud of yourself as we are of you 💕

@FroggyFreg 3 ай бұрын

I can really relate to you on your healing journey so you have really helped me

@whatsuplavren 3 ай бұрын

needed to hear all of this today!! so proud of you and your journey

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

So proud of YOU!

@Julieta_Figueira 3 ай бұрын

Babe I needed this so much. Thank u for talking about it.❤(also that top is so cool)

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

of course ❤ hugsss🤗

@Aaron.T_82816 3 ай бұрын

As someone with extreme "up AND down" body dysmorphia (and image issues in general), I appreciate you sharing this video to help me cope ❤ 7:44 Especially needed THIS question

@ellouisebadger849 3 ай бұрын

Not on topic but love the red colour theme, it looks so good ❤

@nathaliedaviee 3 ай бұрын

Girl you look tf good 😍

@sarah_stirlen 3 ай бұрын

Hi Keara your content has really helped me so much in the past few years. I’ve been struggling with body image issues since I was 6 I’m 16 now and I’ve also been struggling with and really serious eating disorder and have lost years off my life. I’m really trying to recover but it’s been really hard when I have a shitty father who was proud of me when I was “skinny” but I was sick. (He didn’t know that). And my family has been a huge factor as to why I have and ED. I’m really working on recovering I’ve gained a lot of weight back and it’s hard but therapy has been really helping and I love you and I hope you have a wonderful day ❤

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

You’re doing SOO good in your recovery process- I’m so proud of you & I know how hard that is to do ❤️ Keep going, you’re doing great🤗

@ce2428 3 ай бұрын

who told you to slay this hard😍

@floydross9000 3 ай бұрын

You grew up with (and girls still must contend with now) the additional pressures of social media, which only exacerbates body image problems. It’s great that you overcame your unhealthy expectations, but many others still struggle with the topic. Let’s hope they find your video!

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

yes i think my generation has been struggling extra hard because of social media and that’s exactly why this topic needs to be addressed!

@pidetods5880 3 ай бұрын

You are a beautiful person, this was so kind of you to make this video! 🥰 also I would love to buy that shirt so if anyone can direct me to where to purchase it thanks ily 😘

@Ray-xr8fo 11 күн бұрын

Hii Queera I hope you're still doing great!

@mathildehb0076 3 ай бұрын

I totally agree that reminding ourselves that we need food and eating is good should be a go to-behaviour. We should always give ourselves this act of self love. Some foods give us pleasure and we need and deserve this kind of pleasure. Also, if we eat balanced, even unhealthy food becomes a healthy thing. Growing up, people kept saying to me “You are too skinny. You should eat more and become fat like me.” This developed a slight fat phobia inside me that it also made me very limited in what I ate. In this period of my life, I was also pretending to be a straight cis man, living in the closet as a lesbian trans woman. When one is closeted they usually have transphobic, homophobic, racist and even sexist behaviour, all as a result of a lack of confidence and self hatred. I even did self conversion therapy, by going to church and praying daily. Though low quality psychology and growth, I started eating more varied, but I did not gain any weight before I started vegetarianism, 19 years old, and later coming out of the closet, 20 years old. The last four years, I have gained 17 kilos and I am so much healthier, as well as happier with my self. I am heavier now and it is a result of me being more happy with myself and more stable in my psyche ❤❤❤

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

Soo incredibly proud of you and grateful for your vulnerability❤

@mathildehb0076 3 ай бұрын

@@KearaGraves I am grateful for being my true self and I think every LGBT person should live happily as themselves and that the past should not confront us, nor the future use the past as an excuse against our identities ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Currently I am making art that reflects my heavy past. It might be received as great by many people but as too dark by others 😂😂😂

@tomdg13 3 ай бұрын

Loving the art on your left arm. Is that new? I've not seen anything like it.

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

Thank you! Yes I’ve been working on it for the past few months with my tattoo artist💙 I might add more to it in the future, we’ll see :)

@itsnicole11 3 ай бұрын

omg I need this video so bad. My mum told me years ago that I needed to stop eating and that I was too fat for anyone to love. She starved me after that. The only good comments she makes is if I lose a noticeable amount of weight. I'm overweight now but have such a horrible relationship with food

@KearaGraves 3 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry she did that to you… I can’t even image how someone could do that to another human being. I hope this video helped, even in a small way at least!❤ Sending you love & hope you find peace with your body very soon🙏🏼

@quincybrown1496 3 ай бұрын

Beautiful ❤❤❤

@lilithofthenight1991 Ай бұрын

I LIKE CALISTHENICS + SOME BODYBUILDING + COMBAT CARDIO WORKOUT 💁🏻‍♀️👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍💻⚔️🖍️🧧🙌🏻🗡️🙆🏻‍♀️🪖🪖🪖🪖

@mars-lb6bj Ай бұрын

im trying to recover but i overeat so my stomach is rejecting the food and i throw it up naturally so its triggering what do i do..

@user-wc4mg7lf5h 3 ай бұрын

I hate to live down my phone for a minute to go and poop

@nordichana 3 ай бұрын

I have body disphoria🥺

@bossyboots5000 3 ай бұрын

I'm sorry to hear that. Therapy might be helpful in discovering the root, which can then make it easier to have fewer dysmorphia days. For me, my body dysmorphia is rooted in trauma (mostly physical, some psychological) and I'm at the point where it doesn't pop up unless I'm intensely triggered (at which point I can feel so hideous that I'm $uicidal or curled in fetal position sobbing). Learning your triggers takes time, as does learning your root cause. But it does get easier with time and support. Wishing you a healthy recovery.

@nordichana 3 ай бұрын

@nathaliedaviee 3 ай бұрын

KEARAAAA GIRL THIS LOOK 😍😍😍😍😍 red is your mutha fucking colour girl

@ZoeRazzino30 3 ай бұрын

i agree! but u should use gender neutral terms :) like swirl or bestie!