Men use what they do not respect. And they do not respect the ride-or die- and hold-me-down-chicks who tolerate all kinds of mess and cheating. They may not ever leave but they will drain you to the point that your soul is depleted.

For a man to truly be in love with a woman, he needs to have a deep & devoted relationship with his creator, God. Because only God can hold him accountable and faithful, when that man is alone by himself.

one lesson i’ve learned is that the heart is the root of everything... if a man doesn’t give you his heart; everything he does give is nothing more than an illusion. even if it includes marriage...

WE fear being hurt, OVER and OVER again....but we still believe in love. But it’s getting pretty tough to keep wanting to try. Men need therapy from adolescence.

Too many games. I wish the men of my grandparents days were still around.

Men do not love they USE. They put themselves first always. Men place there needs above everything and everyone else. We as women should recognize this and DO THE SAME. put u first at all times. 🌹

"I'll leave at 11...go and get the moon and be back by noon". Chile...if my future husband can't do that...I don't want him. Lol

When i hear Tony talk about the Queen, i get tears in my eyes. That's love right there and it gives me hope. To the moon and back...

Who still has 2-3 yrs to waste when you in your 40's? Why do people play so many games in dating/marriage?

Desperation is not attractive 🙌🏾 love this !!!!

You can tell a man loves you if he makes the fullest effort to protect and defend you. No matter the circumstances he puts in his best effort.

“I’m yours. I’m your husband. You own me.“ TG

It's definitely challenging for most men to be in love or to see themselves as falling. I think it becomes challenging when they are unaware of how to love and becoming vulnerable. Love is a sacrifice and it's powerful.

Sounds like an excuse to cheat to me. When you really love someone you will NOT cheat on them.

He said, "I will leave at 11 and go and get the moon!" My heart melted!! ‼️

Your wish is my command...I will leave at 11 to go get the moon and be back by noon(I might've misquoted)...THIS IS WHAT I WANT!!! 😔😔🙏🏾🙏🏾

I fear the same, that's why I hold back in relationships. The man has to show me he can be trusted before I show my true feelings.

Awwwww that is so sweet to hear a man say, "I'll leave at 11 and go get the moon and be back by noon."

Men don’t have to do anything hard anymore. Some women make it too easy to get over on them. Men lie and say “I love you” then move on. Women then open up their hearts too fast because they don’t want to be alone. Men don’t seem to want to fight for our love anymore. The dream of the white knight in shining armor riding off into the sunset fairly tale has been awakened. Now women need to put on the full armor of God just to date today especially if you date so called “Christian” men. For me, discernment from God is the rule. We live in a relationship culture where women fear being alone and men fear being fully in love. A clash of the titans power struggle then ensues. It hurts us all. We then become too accepting of what men do in our own quest for love.

It saddens me how most men are sooooo deeply, low-key insecure. And they will self-sabotage a relationship bc of their inaccuracies. It's sad. Our men need healing

Yes!!! Preach about taking those rights captive to the obedience of Christ!!! 🔥🔥🔥 Not every thought is even our own. The spiritual realm is very busy and active around us. 💯

We women are some beautiful people..we are so open and trusting and we still have to not be ourselves to have a real relationship? So sad 😪

Thank you Tony Gaskins, I think some men don't know how to love, or don't want to love a woman, because he missed out on something when he was a young adult. I know a guy who were raised by 2 middle class working patents, and he still don't know how to treat a woman. Not that he's a cheater or no good man. He just don't know. Sad!!! God bless you Tony.

I am 53 years old and you are telling the truth. It's just that a lot of females my age can't accept that they are older and single. They want to believe the hype pushed on "Sex and the City." I know NO ONE my age who is dating a younger man that's not paying for everything and putting up with foolishness.

I love that..." I belong to you" to" the moon and back if that's what you need".. be blessed.. both of you... A good man will say those things and a good woman will never take advantage of that vulnerability.

By the time I got to that place, I no longer loved him like before. Yes, he changed completely, but I no longer care either way. I could leave and never look back. But I promised to try and I have always kept my word. I loved him with all my heart at one time. But that’s gone. I know he is trying really hard now . But I think he’s a little to late.

Changed My Life Tony! I pray God continue to pour out in you and your family lives so that you may continue to bless your viewers with your wisdom. God Bless You!!

Pay attention and know your self worth! Thank you and be blessed. I’ll be sharing this one!

My ex broke my heart. I'm trying to move forward some days it's hard 😥😥😥

Gotta hold a man accountable, okkkkay!

Happy Monday blessed tribe👋🏽👋🏽 Make sure you keep your head up no matter what circumstance may come your way. Even if you fall, get up. You only fail when you give up. 🤎

Thank you so very much sir for this words. Seriously, we ladies/women needs to understand that men also hurt, fears, and have a kinda insecurities.. because we just want men to listen to us but do we listen to them at all💯💯 we want men to appreciate us, respect us, love us , care for us but do we do the same ...🙏🙏🙏🙏

Well Tony I checked him on only texting and lack of conversation. Guess what ?? He gone

I did those things with the last guy, but he wasn't there. I had to accept that I wasn't his "one". So I left.

I dont want a manipulative man. I want a man who wants me for who I am. If I have to check him , I honestly dont want him. So I guess I'm be happy single and just date who I want. Because when I commit I put in my all threw good or bad. I dont need a man to test me. I need honesty.

The truth hurts but thank you so much Tony 😩

I feel like I owe you my whole check, because I promise you my ex has told me everything you have told me!! Everything!! I'm about to break down in my office!

This man just spoke my soul

ready for class ‼️

Awww the moon in a hour 🥰🥰🥰 you guys are so blessed 😊

Always right on time. Have a great day.

Finding a good balance is so hard, but working on it day by day.

My current struggle Thank you 🙏🏾 Mr. Gaskins for explaining in how to handle your emotions and being cautious to being submissive to the wrong Man when he’s not even the Man of God that was sent from God for you. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾🙌🏾 True word I recognize that

No shade but I seen that they barely get with the guy and have to make it Facebook official and then in a couple of months they break up and now they feel stupid taking it down that’s why I said to myself until I am one year or more with the guy I will not be posting him

As women, we need to have discretion. Everything ain't for everybody. If you value it keep it private and continue evaluating the situation. Nothing more embarrassing than bragging about your partner online or irl and you are the only person unaware that he is sleeping with all your best friends...male and female. 🙄 "Coach Francesca"

One of the best Tony Gaskins.God bless you.

To risk being talked about, to risk being embarrassed, thats strength in there

Men don't love the same as women, their feelings are much more shallow and surface level. The only way we can love equally is if women date guys they're not into. Thats why the relationships that last the longest are the ones where the men are obsessed, and the women couldn't give a damn.

Go and get the moon and be back by noon, God bless you Tony and family

You exactly right!! They slap it together !!

Thank you for the breakdown. It is so important to see the difference in how we express love and recognize it! Thank you for teaching me so much during my single season!

Tony Gaskins POPPIN IN...The pop up Coach!

Thank you sweetie I really needed to hear this message. GOD BLESS YOU.

Be blessed. Great message.

Interesting thought Tony, that "men know themselves". Why don't women take the signals? An ex-friends-with-benefits told me after he moved cross country "I'm just flying by the seat of my pants." Why on earth would I think he would have any real plan with me? He just wanted loose fun. Lesson learned.

Great video! 💯 Thank you for all you do for humanity!

I am thankfull to have found this channel. It helps me a lot, lots of love from Belgium. 🌹

On time ❤️

Blessings and Peace! 🙏🏾🕊💖 thank you for sharing.

YOUR BEST ADVICE EVER GIVEN🤗 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

I’m here for it speak factz 🗣💯

Very good insight Tony. God bless you and your family.

Energy!!! He said he would goto the moon at 11 and be back by 12 all for his WIFE! ❤️❤️🤞🏽 big energy

I needed to hear this tonight. 🙌🏾

This is one of the best video I’ve seen you post.

That was so 💯, I really do appreciate this , my God, had I known.....But I Know Now!! Praise God!!!

Hey tony i rarely comment but thanks for everything ❤️

I love it Tony “Leave by 11, go get the moon and be back by noon”. ❤️

Thank you Tony for helping me to feel and be more empowered for when I start back dating again!

“Breadcrumbing, ya got a word for everything” 😂

TY for telling the truth!

Love your new office-looks great!

Greetings Tony and the BLESSED TRIBE 🙏🏾 here ready 📝✍🏾️

BE BLESSED!!

Listen. I did this and some but WE as woman need to understand that it do not matter how much love, understanding and care we may give to a man. If he is not mature enough,emotionally stable enough or even have a good character it will go out the window and leave you with unrequited love!!! My advice, love yourself 100%, focus on creating your own happiness and accomplishing your dreams! The man God has for you will find YOU and have to elevate to your level or be left behind! We need to stop giving these “men” so much power!!! WE ARE THE PRIZE! Not them! We bare children and then some. They are NOT on our level what so ever. They need to step up and meet us where WE our not the other way around! I’m done ranting

If you watch Tony’s videos every day. You will literally GROW every day!!

I enjoy watching a man in love. And this man (Tony Gaskins) is in LOVE

Be Blessed 😊Thank you Mr. Gaskins for this powerful message much needed to hear this love and relationship advice keep doing God ‘s work bringing forth these motivational and inspirational and powerful encouragement message on love and relationship truly are helping woman’s across the world wide😊

Peace&Blessing,☺ Blessed Tribe Family!🧕💙🙏💪

Thanks for your honesty

Thx Tony!! Love this 💃

Hey big brother ! I love this ! I was asking this last night 🙏🏾🙏🏾. Thank you !

She still don't know cuz she still don't play boyish games. We are wired to be mature because we carry life and nourish it.

Very informative videos, Tony. Thanks kindly for keeping it a brick! 🔆😇

This is so interesting thank you Tony Gaskins for sharing

Preach and teach!

How Men love part I... Excellent insight 2 a sometimes very confusing subject... Blessings 2 my bro Tony G. 💯✔🎯‼

Love the new office!!

Thank you Tony for all the information that you are giving regarding men, I am a woman that is always going to keep love in my heart, but listening to that about men, it sounds so much like a game, if a men love me and I love him I would not have to check him and he shouldn't have to check me, we should be grown and mature enough to respect each others boundaries, that is too draining for me, it sounds like I would be talking to a child about how to respect me, I enjoy listening to your topics, May God continue blessing you and your family.

Thank you Tony!

Great insight, Tony. Thank you! I used to think something was wrong with me for having such a low tolerance for things that don't sit right with me; I've been called boujee, mannish, stuck up, entitled, delusional, etc then discarded .....for having standards🙃 But you explained why men ALWAYS pull away and ALWAYS come back, even after THEY discard YOU. This makes so much sense. I don't like it LOL, but it makes sense.

Your wife is Jamaican, Jamaicans don’t like to beg no one to do nothing for them lol !!

Love love love him with eyes wide open

Exactly 💯 U respect, check, honor him, but U aren't a pushover, agree 🙏

This one of my faves by my faves lawd

Love the new decor Tony

Great word ,I’ve observed this what you speak of . I never called my bf anything or past relationship. I’m not a yell or scream type person either .

Am learning thank you

Good job, 14 years! Congratulations

This is good I have to watch this again