I understand

Love that!

Yes! Well said!❤

Amen sister! I have never chased a man. The faults for me have been that I’ve settled and tolerated stuff too long or given too many chances. No more. I’d rather be alone than tolerate such nonsense!!😢

Indeed

Exactly

@@JonathonAslay So why does he ring me every night?

I appreciate that

Thanks for sharing 👍🏼

Alpha men often don't do commitment

@@JonathonAslay Not true. I know many that have. They know they can achieve a better, balanced and successful life with a partner by their side. They are too focus to be jumping around from woman to woman, that’s a waste of their time and energy,“They need peace in their personal life and familiar works for them”.

Alpha males tend to cheat

Dating someone who clearly liked me from the first date on. Acted interested in a balanced, thoughtful way and we have been growing in an authentic, natural way. Maybe it’s bc I’ve been listening to Jonathan and keeping my sovereignty and boundaries without playing games? So very very nice! There’s hope for a mature, open relationship. Where is it going? In a good place….

Yes they do and they do not like pushovers

Men often chase sex...

​@JonathonAslay I wish I knew that 30 years ago. Us naive females thought that when a guy wants to have sex with you, he really likes you & really wants to be with you. That's what we thought. The guy only wanted to get laid. He said & did all of the I really like you & we should date stuff for about 3 months then disappeared. At this point in my life, I could care less about men. Looking back, I wish I was more cautious.

That's not what I said...

Thank you 😊

Thank you. I'm curious, why should they watch it?

@@JonathonAslay what you said about breadcrumbing - making us aware of these things we fall for

Yes including women

I know. I get thoroughly disgusted to see this. No class. Drives me nuts.

My pleasure

Glad it was helpful!

Honored 🙏

Thank you so much!

Yes

How do I get on your chat and when do you have your chat times? Also, I only see you coming up once a month do you do videos once a week? I joined your video program, but I have yet to see any benefits.

Thanks for sharing!!

Exactly

It's still better to ask...

​@@JonathonAslay Still - 90% of men will say anything to get sex. So it's up to the woman to decipher what he really wants.

@@VeledaG 💯! And it’s easy to see what a man wants by his actions. Unfortunately women lack patience and belief in what they’re experiencing.

@@Sunlightsam24 In many cases it's possible to see through the lies and the bs. But there are some pretty good actors out there too. Moreover - not every person is able to see through lies and shady behaviour. Today's human beings lack empathy and decency. We live in a narcissistic society in which victims are blamed and perpetrators are admired for their chuzpe. Today's society is a "me me me and only me" society with a stupid yolo mentality that tells peeps "do what you want" regardless of consequences. That's just wrong. And: Let's not put the blame on women please. I cannot stand the trend to blame the victim. If a guy is a liar then he is the perpetrator and the woman is the victim (and vice versa). It is never ok to lie to get what you want - never! You cannot justify theft as being ok just because it is possible. Only people with no empathy and no sense for what is right or wrong could do that.

@@VeledaG exactly!!!

Glad it was helpful!

So glad!

Awe.. thank you. You just made my morning 🌄

There are no words, and I'm sending you a big hug. We belong to a shitty club 😢

WOW! Thank you...

You're welcome 😊

You're welcome 😊

👍🏼

Trust in yourself is the key

@@JonathonAslay So true!!

The wrong men do love it...

With what..

Lol 😆

I shot that video several years ago

@@JonathonAslay I watched it twice . Thanks ☺️

Effort is more important than chasing...

How did it go?

Are you texting them to remind them that you exist?

Indeed

Cynthia, This is s red flag. Men take advantage but don’t give equally back. A guy I’m seeing refuses to help in garden or mowing but is happy enjoying home cooked good meals etc I’m calling it off.

@@eleanormartin6923 he does enjoy my cooking and he said when I met him he didn’t want to have to be a caretaker again. His wife died and had mental illness. He does have no drive but has some mental illness issues

Yes... if you both work on it

@@JonathonAslay Thankyou for your honesty.

Yes, and sadly, women accept breadcrumbs

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Jon you suggest all the terms and conditions but that is a turn off for men. It’s a control that makes them run regardless🤷‍♀️….. men are always on the look out for better even if you are attractive and great.

Jon you suggest all the terms and conditions but that is a turn off for men. It’s a control that makes them run regardless🤷‍♀️….. men are always on the look out for better even if you are attractive and great.

My guy of on and off 6 yrs- now on 7th run but last chance I say! However, he showed me his card in his wallet with my name and partner next to it. This is an emergency card in his wallet with his two sons as contacts as well. Q. What do you make of that? I was surprised and smiled. He plays golf, does JP voluntary work, Rotary which is another volunteer commitment weekly plus Grumps- Grumpy old men club weekly. Fortnight breakfasts with an old Ulysses group he belonged to, so he keeps busy. You might call My part breadcrumbing??? I actually diplomatically said I just fit in where it suits you. He got the hint but still same same. What do you think? I have three men wanting me but I’m not a two timer. Do they want my Money? I have to guard my estate for my children not some man who has earned none or saved like me. I am a widow. I promised my husband I would safe guard for the kids so I’m very frugal. I always pay half of bills and help with petrol money if we do a long drive for the day. I would love your opinion???? Please Jon.❤

Yes mine love bombed me - I suggested to him he was a player. His response, I considered your remark but I don’t agree.🤷‍♀️

I would never use anyone’s vulnerability against them. NEVER. I actually ADMIRE a person who can be vulnerable because it brings that person CLOSER and, it’s sacred regardless -

Thanks

Define chasing? Lol 😆

@JonathonAslay admirers maybe more. Not in like come and hang my curtains kind of way tho. Lol

What?

Are you referring to Jonathan?

This was brand new

Totally honest & forthright! Thank You!!

Exactly!

This was new content....

@@JonathonAslay It may have been- yes, but the same theme...I'm just interested in whether this is mentally healthy after a while, the repetition of the same subject. I think there's only so many ways you can slice bread, in other words.

​@@VolcanoKing-dj5pxI played 3 sports in school. We practiced, practiced, practiced, and practiced repeating the same fundamentals over and over again. Then we were ready for the game to give our best. On this channel, Jonathan consistently coaches ppl who do not have the fundamentals right. He's not being redundant here. It's new material from a different view. But there's nothing wrong with repetition because that's how we learn. He comes at things from different angles.

@@LV-wl7ch To a point. To me, it seems a bit redundant and again, how many ways can you slice bread. Sometimes, less is more. Men are not that complicated.

I think you mean ejaculation is a necessity...

So what would you say, if the kissing is perfect and very longlasting but the man‘s intention was having sex but he couldn‘t physical. Then the date ends because of his inability and no contact for 2 months then he writes but the woman of course is not longer availabe for this kind of bad behaviour😮

I donate money in his honor...

@@JonathonAslay money for your own personal use. Your not lying to me. Stop using your sons death to enrich yourself.

Do you know this to be a fact?

What if I do??

Riiiight

🙏

He's great