I went 85 days no contact. She reached out day 86. Been together now 5 months. Don’t give in. Don’t lose hope.
@graysonleslie97812 жыл бұрын
How long were guys originally together
@clayman93852 жыл бұрын
@@graysonleslie9781 10 years
@nanlesser88092 жыл бұрын
Wow!!
@andrinawanero60432 жыл бұрын
So beautiful✨
@Markdaamannn2 жыл бұрын
Wow 10 years and u got back together I was with my gf for 6 we broke up 8 months ago. Of course it was my fault. I begged for months just for to tell me to let it go no going back or fixing things. Until a week ago I just told her I give up and I am just going to leave her alone and move on with my life. So I’m hoping no contact works for me as well cause I love her and miss her and I’m sure I’ll never find anyone like her again
@GordonPavilion2 жыл бұрын
STOP!… imagining what “they” are getting up to. They are probably just hanging out on the sofa on a Saturday afternoon…with no place to go, …going to work, doing their laundry, clipping their toe nails, scratching their arse, grocery shopping and deciding what tooth paste to buy… they are NOT living the dream…let that part of your imagination go and allow yourself to imagine the life you deserve.
@ErikasCorner2 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆 very true thank you
@katied1325 Жыл бұрын
That’s so true. My ex is posting photos that make him look like he’s having the best time but a friend told me he’s actually in bed with an infection - so there you go.
@Nismolover5 ай бұрын
Good looking women get on a dating app and can get a hookup within a couple hours. Dating apps don't work like that for men.
@free2bme6044 ай бұрын
No he's actually with the new supply . Out dating and living his new best life . After draining me financially. Emotional and mentally and no I didn't wish him the best of luck . I do wish I heal and journey forward .
@user-gc8dh2tm7p4 ай бұрын
Thank you, sir 🫡
@bosslady991 Жыл бұрын
The no contact is actually You dumping the person who dumped you … it feels wonderful 😂🙌
@pwaceke2 жыл бұрын
The single most important thing i learned is that NC isn't for the other person. It's for you. Eventually, the ex comes back and they find you happier. You can then decide if you want to take them back.
@armano41252 жыл бұрын
It is for you to get them back
@signsignsign742 жыл бұрын
It’s not always that your ex comes back
@os36882 жыл бұрын
11 months havent heard from her
@armano41252 жыл бұрын
@@os3688 how old are you both, and is she "the one"?
@pwaceke2 жыл бұрын
@@os3688 I guess by now you have worked on yourself until you are comfortable with her not coming back.
@thirdwatchupdate2 жыл бұрын
A miracle happen tonight. No contact worked! We ran into each other and we talked, hugged, He said he missed me. We are on schedule for coffee too. Wow, this is great!
@joegiordano4437 Жыл бұрын
Ironically, when someone breaks up with us, they suddenly become MORE attractive, we may not have valued them so much before, and NOW we suddenly NEED them. The brain drives us to want things, but it drives us to actually fight to KEEP things. Keeping things is a much more powerful stimulus than having things.
@JohnDoebr476 ай бұрын
Also, if they take too long to reach out to us, their value will decrease day by day. That's when you'll be over them for good.😊
@trevorthomas33942 жыл бұрын
Five months no contact. 2 year relationship. Never argued once. Two trips to Turks Caicos. Oh well. The pain did finally stop thank god. Three first dates, and my second date with one of them tomorrow. It’s nice to be able to smile and laugh with someone again. I still think about my ex every day, but I deserve happiness so here I go. I’m not going to lie, it hurts and takes a while to heal but eventually you just wake up, shrug it off and realize that you can only worry about yourself. Good luck everyone.
@anonimous74742 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@cap5762 Жыл бұрын
5 / 6 months seems like the right time to move on. I am on month 3.
@OsunaEdu Жыл бұрын
I'm on my second week of NC... I admire you guys. Hope to be like you some day 🥺
@stan______ Жыл бұрын
@@OsunaEdu updates?
@lilliankillian7366 Жыл бұрын
Ty coach I am working hard to stay strong as you say and continue n c for another day or another another week ir month it's over a month now ty your a big help to alot of hurt people. Ty
@fathiakilani80062 жыл бұрын
2 months in NC, it was extremely difficult at times, and I almost broke it, I would always watch these videos whenever I felt I needed to contact him. But NC WORKED, I finally saw the relationship for what it was and I never want my ex back. I’m extremely proud of myself for sticking with NC. Trust me your future self will thank you!
@jerescot2 жыл бұрын
I've the 2.5 month mark of NC, thought I was getting able to move, then today I get hit by huge dose of nostalgia of the intimacy we once shared. So I'm back to binge watching coach Lee for a few hours 😂
@jerescot2 жыл бұрын
What's your update?
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
@@jerescot how are u now?
@jerescot Жыл бұрын
@brandon ohara happy, and moved on. She contacted me a couple months to tell me she had gone back to her toxic ex, and thebreason she felt we could never progress was because she never got over him. Go figure, hear that logic helped me move on. I'm navigating a new relationship with someone else now, we've been dating for 4 months and going strong.
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
@@jerescot awesome bro Good for you bud
@DILL6382 жыл бұрын
Here to share my success story. I had an extremely dramatic/horrible break up. I realized my wrong doings, and started working on myself the next day. I changed everything about my life that wasn't working. I went into no contact as well and after 2 weeks it started to work its magic. 6 weeks later, my girlfriend and I are not back together but we are close. Thank you coach lee, I hope I don't have to come back to your videos anytime soon, but they saved me.
@adam1thomas1207 ай бұрын
Update?
@bosslady991 Жыл бұрын
Some ppl need more time than others ..stay in the no contact ..heal take care of you don’t jump in another relationship too soon ..it’s during that healing time they will miss and contact you and if they don’t you will go into your next relationship with a learned experience clear mind and a healed heart..
@Liz-dragon-street. Жыл бұрын
❤️🙏
@bosslady991 Жыл бұрын
@@Afternoon99 stay in the NC if he returns tell him nicely how you feel about the situation if he’s not willing to make changes then he’s all about himself and you need to search for someone else.. bc you dont want to be miserable with someone who’s not willing to make the changes to make the relationship work.. the heart will heal .. theres more fish in the sea..😉
@simay5346 Жыл бұрын
@@Afternoon99 update?
@Afternoon99 Жыл бұрын
@@simay5346 many things happen. I broke NC to say if he wants to come back in this year he can cuz I won’t date. He asked after 19 days asking how it’s going so far (as how my life has been), replied I’m doing well and asked him back he said he’s fine and then we stopped talking. 2 weeks later he texted me again saying “it feels strange, I used to spend all day with you but now I feel empty, bored and alone”. And ofc I bursted my eyes out asking why he seem to hate me and he said he didn’t hate me but hate my action and telling me stuffs about it and also said I turned from caring to controlling. So I replied I understand my shortcomings and told him why I acted how I acted and it doesn’t mean I’m the only one doing bad in the relationship and he did as well. He left me on seen again so after 2 weeks I texted him he made me confused because he just made it seem like he missed me but why disappear. He told me there’s nothing to talk to begin with we’re not together anymore and it’s not right for him to talk normal and he keeps telling me I was controlling even tho I explained why, and ge also said we don’t have the same taste in music and likings. After reading all that I sent him messages why it’s not fair for me just because we have different tastes in music and stuffs. Yes I sent him paragraph and I’m done. No more reaching out to him. 17 days later which is few days ago he texted me if I went into his Spotify to create a playlist (bcoz he let me use his Spotify account but after he broke up w me I stopped using his and create my own account) so I said him I didn’t use it, he then left me on read and that’s just it. So basically I’m not reaching out to him again cuz he made it clear to me we’re not meant to be or whatever. No more anxiety and trying to convince him. If he reaches out again that’s on him cuz that’s not my job. If he doesn’t then I’ll just find someone else who’s not as immature as him. We both did mistakes in the relationship but no one cheated. I know well and he as well does. If he doesn’t step up and own up his mistakes when I bring it up then I’ll let him be and find someone better
@hellohelena88762 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how you approach things. I find other coaches often address things from a manipulative, arrogant "gotcha" game manner and whereas you have a completely logical approach, never devaluing the situation but rather emphasizing the importance of self worth and improving yourself for yourself. As someone with a lot of anxiety it's a lot easier to listen to your tone and pace. Your voice is calm and message isn't rushed. That's what makes your messages all the more empowering.
@henrypido31522 жыл бұрын
@hellohelena do you have IG?
@hellohelena88762 жыл бұрын
@@henrypido3152 no, I'm off social media
@moniquelampkin72122 жыл бұрын
God has anointed Coach Lee indeed to minister in quiet biblical way truth of the matter. He helped me not allowing my emotions (fleshly) to rule me and be led by holy spirit. He is giving practical biblical advice. Restraint, disciple, obedience, hope, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, peace, guarding the heart from more further damage. Gods Blessings to CL.
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
@@moniquelampkin7212 AMEM 🙏 The flesh is weak. We need God
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@abbsolute57582 жыл бұрын
This is rough business, a daily uphill battle. It’s like we’re the Spartans and coach Lee is King leonidas rallying everyone to keep pushing forward.
@lisabaughn2 жыл бұрын
Right? I often think Coach Lee has a tough job.
@JasonSmith-sl5kt Жыл бұрын
I am SERIOUSLY struggeling with being dumpped!!! I feel like crying most of the day. We broke up about a week ago now. I am clinging to your advise and trying my best to just "live".
@RealCoachLee Жыл бұрын
One day at a time. Let no contact work. Do NOT contact her.
@KatieThomas-jl2rn5 ай бұрын
It will get better Jason. I felt like you 3 months ago but now I feel much more like me again. Stay with it. You will feel better.
@victoriarendon32942 ай бұрын
It’s so hard. It sounds stupid, but I print out calendars and after every day of NC, I put a big ❌ through it. Seeing a week of those makes me know I’ll be ok. I have one ❌ at this point. And hurting constantly 😢
@DMuvvy24 күн бұрын
@@victoriarendon3294how are you doing now, sweetie? I hope your heart is feeling better❣️❣️❣️
@lizardink29002 жыл бұрын
When my marriage of 20 years broke up, I followed Coach Lee's advice of no contact. I gave up hope and mentally moved on, until one days she called me out of the blue. We have now been back together for a year.
@kboogie12212 жыл бұрын
Maybe there is hope for me after 12 yrs.
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
Were yall separated or divorced?
@lizardink2900 Жыл бұрын
@@CiluhStyle1 Just separated.
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
@@lizardink2900 I'm goin through that now...married for 7 years come March but together for 8 years...she dumped me 4 months ago but we were semi living together. Just separated last week and ita rough. We have children so no contact is a bit of a battle. Do you have children as well? And how long were you two separated?
@WhoCaresWhatIThink7 күн бұрын
@@CiluhStyle1how did it go? I have children and been separated 2 and a half months. Mostly strategic NC for 1 month and a half
@LobsterJesus2 жыл бұрын
After a little over a month of no contact she messaged me about an hour ago and talked about how it was hard for her to not talk to me. She also said that we’d be talking more in the future. NO CONTACT WORKS!! It was so hard to stick to it but I feel like I’m top of the world. I’m not out of the woods yet but significant progress was made and I’m ecstatic. Thank you Coach Lee!
@jasminealexia2 жыл бұрын
Congrats! 🎉
@freedomfinancial2 жыл бұрын
how is it going now?
@LobsterJesus2 жыл бұрын
@@freedomfinancial we both acknowledged stuff we did wrong in the relationship and are seeing how it goes. I feel confident that in the long run we will get back together but we don’t want to rush anything in the moment
@Liz-dragon-street. Жыл бұрын
@@LobsterJesus ❤️🙏
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
Dont wait on her keep going until shes ready n see where you are and if it's worth it then
@ptrsrfns2 жыл бұрын
I love your no nonsense approach. You're like the friend we all need in our lives.
@danielabumti35982 жыл бұрын
Hey . I can say that no contact rule works so well. Especially for you and your mental health. After I went through a break up 7,8 months ago now I can say that I am fully healed because of the no contact . Trust me , everything will be ok .
@hristotro701 Жыл бұрын
0тнцхс😊😊лтт😊
@hristotro701 Жыл бұрын
Б0п
@user-iq7hv7ud8u Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@ranjitsardar99208 ай бұрын
I hope I heal, I'm about a month out, feeling like total shit, crying every day, she left me because I lost my temper and said some horrible inexcusable stuff, so I don't think she's coming back, which makes me feel sick every day knowing that, like I just don't care about anyone except her. But I don't think it's coming back even with no contract In fact this would be the second time that she'd be coming back so that's probably why. But yeah. I hope I heal, and just come out of this shit feeling and shit life
@bootyjoel2 жыл бұрын
Point is, to take care of yourself and outgrow your ex. Drink more water, go back to school, eat healthy, workout, read, pick up a new hobby, try something new. Even if they don't come back, it's still a win win
@sondraharris538 ай бұрын
So true!
@littlemizzQT2 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee I want you to know everyone knows you’re the best. Never stop doing what you’re doing, I listen to you whether my relationship is bad or not because your videos also boosts my self worth. Anyway that being said, my baby just dumped me and came back 2 hours later 💀🤦🏻♀️
@blackrose48582 жыл бұрын
He is the best in the game hands down in the game I didn't get my ex back while I was on no contact but my wife found me like no joke I was not even looking but feel in love 1sr time I saw her just got legally married 2 weeks ago people stay strong and listen to the man life takes care of its self
@nbee62172 жыл бұрын
You got yourself back and someone who sees your value, found you.
@blackrose48582 жыл бұрын
@@nbee6217 yes you are 100 right thank you that made my night
@thewarboiz12052 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your calm insight into the mature approach to dealing with hard feelings after a breakup. I've lost loved ones to death, and a breakup feels eerily similar, which can be unsettling. I've gone no contact since I was broken up with while she was in Nashville over the 4th of July. I currently have packages coming from Nashville from when she was there but I'm focused on the final stages of a interviewing at a great job, training, lifting, and eating better than ever, and growing from the pain of this journey. Thanks for all you do.
@guiagallarde80122 жыл бұрын
Listening to your advices give me strength and knowing my worth and value. I've slowly accepted that it can be okay if he won't get back to me because I realize that I did what I can when we were together and we had great times & I'll cherish that. If he can't see those good times we had and work on getting back to me, well it will be his loss! Thank you for the wisdom and encouragement! Keep it up! We can do this! 😉👍🏼🙏🏻
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@Afternoon99 Жыл бұрын
Did he come back?
@jonhysimonzreactionz1326 Жыл бұрын
💯
@GunGraved2 жыл бұрын
No contact worked for me in the context of getting over my ex (mostly). It took over a year but I'm finally open to dating again.
@davidspears93512 жыл бұрын
most important thing i learned from watching these videos is that no matter what you do reaching out to someone only pushes them away so no matter what do not reach out to them because all it does is make them move further away if you think that every time u feel like you want to contact them you know in your own mind its pointless and counter productive .also the longer you leave them alone the more you come to peace with it your no longer angry nervous clutching at straws your confidence comes back and its a lesson learned everything will be ok in the end either way whatever happens happens do not lose faith in yourself 👌👍💪👊
@davidspears93512 жыл бұрын
@@abubakarlambu6511 im trying nothing if it should be it will and if not then im also cool with that im the important person here not her anymore i concentrate on myself 👍
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
@@davidspears9351 well said bud
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
@@davidspears9351 I'm 3 months in
@xclent19752 жыл бұрын
If its over let it be over...Coach Lee 2 years ago I got my Ex back only to have the same issues after the "honeymoon" new months back together was over. I woke up after breaking up the 2nd time on my terms and had a healthy rediscovery of myself and sure enough I found a wonderful loving woman who treats me the way I deserve and want to be treated :) So Happy BTW you look healthy and I am glad to see you helping so many others see the "light"!
@donniehough54642 жыл бұрын
That means she was never meant at all and it's good that u found something better..keep up the good work
@lincolnhtschick6 ай бұрын
Good for you! ❤
@wodahsu2 жыл бұрын
These past two weeks I’ve been taking steps forward in my life. Finally finalizing my college classes for this semester and finding a new job. Coach Lee helps me stay on track for no contact. I don’t know if I want to go back to her, so I’ll just keep moving forward
@riseandshine61932 жыл бұрын
Haha. College keeps us busy. Really helps with no contact.
@Sarahh_ Жыл бұрын
Your videos along with constant prayer and trusting gods plan have tremendously helped me. Everytime I blame myself, although I was nothing but good to him , I come back to your channel to keep me focused on my self worth. It’s tough but I can tell you’re giving true advice from the heart. Best coach I’ve come across my entire life. You’ve saved so many peoples emotions during these tough times. And your logic on NC runs way deeper than we think. The more you explain it the more I feel like you’re actually consoling me. Thank you ♥️
@Cmoney692 жыл бұрын
Second time I have been broken up with and didn’t want the relationship to end. Back to couch lee. But I must say it doesn’t feel as bad once you have experienced a broken heart. Just remember it will get better and one day you will actually forget all the struggle and pain you are going through. You will be ok, I promise. We have all gone through the same Thing you are feeling. Don’t feel alone, be loving to yourself. You got this.
@Cmoney692 жыл бұрын
I can actually laugh about it now. As odd as that sounds I can laugh at that heart break. You will make it out!!! Much love
@Cheree_Wright Жыл бұрын
If it’s been over a year since you’ve heard from your ex, keep it moving. Technically no contact always “works”. Every guy I’ve dated has reached out to me at some point- even 12 years later in one instance. But, the passage of time is an indicator of how much someone desires your presence in their life. When that much time has passed, things will obviously be different. That difference will undoubtedly keep you from getting back together. Things just won’t be the same
@LeeEverett13 ай бұрын
After a year? Should be a month.
@nealmccoy57272 жыл бұрын
When the relationship was bad, you have the benefit of clarity seeping in after a few weeks of NC.. The clouds will eventually dissipate and you can start seeing the relationship for what it was. A bad relationship ending should thus take quicker to get over. Of course the tricky thing is when you perceived it as good and it ended abruptly. Often times you don't get an explanation. You just have to ask yourself: why would I want to be with someone who is so heartless as to not give me one ounce of explanation about what I was doing wrong or what turned them off? That is narcissistic and deserves no forgiveness. Remind yourself of that daily. A compassionate partner will tell the person what they need to improve so they can move on, gain closure and become better for the next person..
@jannlewandowski55402 жыл бұрын
Neal, when my ex and I broke up, there was NO CLOSURE AT ALL to this day. It ended abruptly, and we went our separate ways. I had to leave him bcse he was using me. This was 11 years ago. .Take care of yourself..
@noorsami79035 ай бұрын
What if your ex actually tells you the reasons and one of was the fact that you didn't know how to handle anxiety now, so how you gonna handle it after marriage?
@irishtommy54302 жыл бұрын
I did all of the wrong things. She's never coming back and I've accepted that. I'm concentrating on me and making myself the best version of myself I can be. I will always love her though.
@kcash63592 жыл бұрын
Well, I did all the wrong things too. She is not coming back and I don't even want the relationship anymore. She doesn't even seem like the person I was with for so many years. At this point, I can do much better.
@vishnunot79202 жыл бұрын
Irish you the best
@jaredvaughan16652 жыл бұрын
Think of the story of the Prodical Son. The father did not run after the son but let the son come back to him.
@fitforfreelance2 жыл бұрын
It works! You can focus on your fitness and get back in touch with yourself while they figure out whatever they've got going on
@a.6552 жыл бұрын
My ex was stuck in his past & was concerned why he didn’t “feel butterflies” while being with me. Meanwhile I was trying to hard to keep him happy & be his peace/safe place, which he repeatedly stated I was. I even threw him a surprise birthday party, invited all his closest friends. He broke up with me in a cowardly manner. Gave me all the pathetic excuses such as needing to work on himself, blah blah blah. Said I made his life better & wanted to remain friends. I agreed to it at first, that lasted about 3 days til I went no contact. Maybe I should’ve added some ✨toxicity✨ & give him reasons to be ✨anxious✨ to spark those butterfly flutters.
@izzyrose25009 ай бұрын
update?
@a.6559 ай бұрын
@@izzyrose2500 it’s been about a year and a half now? Maintained no contact & I haven’t heard from him nor have I searched him up so idk where he’s at or what he has going on. I moved on & forgave him for hurting me. No contact served its purpose 🙏🏼
@kotone_lovesanime8514 Жыл бұрын
It’s been almost 3 months since the break up and I haven’t heard a word. Still giving him his space like he wanted and just doing what I need to do for myself.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Kotone_lovesanime. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which is excellent. It has EVERYTHING you need including strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@Amkilu2222 жыл бұрын
Hi coach Lee. The relationship was so complex and lots of factors needed to align for it to work. I won't go into mega detail. I felt this girl was the love of my life at times, but like u say in the video, love and loss seperation was illuminating. I can't see her ever coming back but no contact and your videos have worked. Living in the moment has also helped. Thank you sincerely from a guy on an island across the Atlantic.
@cocochannel89322 жыл бұрын
@coachlee thank you for literally saving my life. I was dying from a broken heart - you made me realize nothing is permanent. Because of YOU. I have gotten out of bed and have been making beautiful memories with my family. And learning I can live without him- and one day all of a sudden you realize time has passed and you have actually survived and begun to thrive . THANK YOU FOR SHOWING ME I AM WORTHWHILE AND I MATTER !!
@ranjitsardar99208 ай бұрын
That's how I feel. Like I'm dying from a broken heart
@alvmusic44022 жыл бұрын
The more I watch these videos, the more I realize I probably don't need to get this ex back. Yes, no contact might work to make the other person curious and reach out out of curiosity, but otherwise it's already too spoiled... They lost attraction because they got bored and they KNOW this about you (that they lose this attraction from you)... this will only bring them back briefly but they will leave again as soon as they don't like the slightest detail, and that's how they have it all the time. You don't deserve the type that comes and goes, and just uses you as a go-to when they have no other options. Find somebody that is willing to make it work with you.
@lisabaughn2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Sometimes I think if I did get back together with him the relationship would just make me feel mega insecure about everything, day and night. I would be waiting for him to take off at the slightest thing. Who wants that???
@beingfree717211 ай бұрын
Eight months ago, we broke up, and for the past seven months, we haven't had any contact. I no longer experience anxiety and sleepless nights like before, but I believe I am still waiting for her. Therefore, I occasionally watch Coach Lee's videos, sometimes more when I think of her. I hope that whatever happened might have been for the best.
@rajanuj62145 ай бұрын
Update??
@LisaDavis-xd7dp Жыл бұрын
I am 69 and have dated and broken up with a few dozen boyfriends. By the time we broke up, I was so sick of the circumstances there is no way I would have ever considered another relationship. Of all of them, only one did not reach out after our breakup. The only one who broke up with me, I heard from again later and we stayed friends until he died. One boyfriend continued to call me periodically for 45 years until I made him mad about 5 years ago..
@yeuruuerueeheue Жыл бұрын
a few dozen boyfriends???? hahaha and im over here crying over my first love for 3+ years thinking ill never love again
@verve_33392 жыл бұрын
This video couldn’t have come at any better time personally! You’re a legend!
@ZhengSW2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't stay strong after just a week and I'm furious at myself because I can tell she still doesn't want anything to with me. To everyone out there, don't make the same mistake as me. It's just going to backfire and cause you a lot of hurt.
@krd1920 Жыл бұрын
The beautiful thing is that I don’t even care anymore. You’ve empowered me Coach Lee, to not accept his breadcrumbs of communication, to not be his comfort blanket while he’s on dating sites and to know my worth. I didn’t think it would happen because I was devastated but this week - week 9 - I feel good! I know he isn’t because he is posting stories like mad and trying to get me to reach out and make him feel better. I will not. 💪🏼🙏🏻 And interesting as I come out of the dark the law of attraction kicks in and the universe has come to support me. Thank you Coach Lee. You’re amazing.
@youssef_moustafa_music2 жыл бұрын
After approximately a month and a half of no contact, I am meeting my ex tomorrow because we're playing in the same string quartet for a recording session (we're both violinists). I have done awful things that caused the break up, but I have definitely owned up to these mistakes and learned all my lessons the hard way. I feel that I have truly evolved in a short amount of time. I love her so much. I'm gonna go tomorrow in my new clothes, new cologne, a nice haircut, and just overall my best-self. I have a good feeling about this one (even though I am nervous af). Wish me luck ya'll! ❤️
@HasnaMardhiah2 жыл бұрын
keep us updated!!
@chesoccra32262 жыл бұрын
Best of luck
@polymerrrr2 жыл бұрын
Update
@youssef_moustafa_music2 жыл бұрын
I think I've done well. I maintained my composure and had light yet professional energy all the way through. She was talking to me during the session about some music stuff and she kept the conversation going for a little bit. It was a great moment and there were many times she'd giggle at some of my stupid jokes during the session. Other than that, at the beginning of the day, we met at the hallway outside the studio and she said 'hi' in a very formal way, and I responded more or less the same way. After the entire session ended, we practically didn't speak a single word to each other, and she didn't say bye to me when she left, and neither did I. I think overall these are great signs. The day went quite well, and I remained calm and myself throughout and I resisted the urge to talk to her afterwards or to even text her. Now it's back to no contact, but I could feel that there is progress!
@applesnicolle51442 жыл бұрын
Youddef- women like long hair
@bpatrickl38442 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in no contact for a few months now and tbh I don’t have much hope that I’ll ever hear from my ex again. I’ve recovered enough to get back to my day to day life but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t still hurting inside and missing her tremendously.
@jarrodoberg2078 Жыл бұрын
Did she ever reach out?
@FriendlyCelestial2 жыл бұрын
Idk if anyone sees this but if you do. IT WORKS. Even if you think you lost all hope. I’m the end it’s a win win for you. They may never come back. However you grow to be a better person. If they do come back. AWESOME! But in honesty. It took me 2 years to get my partner back. And It works.
@ashleysales1958 Жыл бұрын
Thank you coach for your videos. I’ve been watching everyday for almost 2 months since my breakup. Finally coming to terms and accepting the break up and I won’t lie I have given up hope with him. But I know that in my heart I did everything I could to try to save the relationship and acknowledge that I also have a lot to learn. Slowly I am starting to feel whole again and regaining the love and confidence back to myself with the help of your videos. Appreciate it with so much gratitude.
@kayaking10002 жыл бұрын
She said she didn't want me in her life anymore. I looked at her and said, I think we're great together however I accept your decision and if you have a change of heart you know where to find me. It's been a week and she messaged me to fix some work at her house that i did and that it's an emergency. I went over and nothing was wrong so I didn't play her game and left. Back in no contact
@awsum7132 жыл бұрын
i lost hope after 3 weeks. im starting to move on even though it hurts. No contact will help you move on. It hurts but that's life. Thank you coach Lee. Your videos give me strength.
@stan______ Жыл бұрын
Don't
@stan______ Жыл бұрын
What happened
@Ellael987 ай бұрын
3 weeks? That’s nothing my friend
@donniehough54642 жыл бұрын
I just pray to keep getting better and wait for God to keep me strong whether she comes back or not
@katiakay2 жыл бұрын
No, contact is a dangerous road.
@emcarcia2 жыл бұрын
came back here because my ex texted me out of nowhere after a year without contact 😌
@terael56372 жыл бұрын
Heya! Did you reply?
@sitmengchue4077 Жыл бұрын
Yes, strength is very powerful. I can only imagine how very painful n difficult it is to try and win someone back. Coach Lee, your advice is very correct and excellent strategically. You might have saved the sanity of some of those who have been left. U probably saved them from going mad from the pain. Suddenly, their world went dark n your advice was like an emergency torchlight and a pair of strong hands holding them up. There is no clinic to run to have emotional pain treated. You are the emotional ER.. Coach, you will be mightily blessed for helping people in such difficult times. Your advice may not work for all scenarios but i think it's the best shot. Thank you.
@HibiTeamQueso2 жыл бұрын
Idk, almost 8 months now and not a single sign. My expectations were too high but the good thing is that I stopped caring a long time ago
@user-ic3ld2qb6z2 жыл бұрын
Hi everyone! I'm from Russia, sorry if I make mistakes in my text :) Don't lose hope, my ex reach out after 3 year relationship and in the end I begged a lot, but she did it! And in that message she send to me tables were turned and now she begged me to answer her, she told me how she miss me. But the problem was that I've moved on already, so I didn't answer. They will come back and reach out if you were good person to them. Now I have new breakup, but this breakup was after short term relationship, and now i'm not sure she reach out because it was only 3 month we been together ( I really miss her, we had very good time together. I'm in NC for 3 weeks now.
@cliffiehayward7635 Жыл бұрын
I am doing the no contact rule. Yes at the beginning i chased and saw it was making things worse. No with the no contact rule she sends me messages often. I reply but short. We are married 15 years with kids. I hope for her return everyday, still no divorce letter yet. I pray many times and watch youre videos consistently. Will continue with youre advice and hope for the best. 🙏🙏
@frankyvilla77892 жыл бұрын
Here I am still watching these videos. My ex still doesn’t want me
@jinglebells36592 жыл бұрын
Same , 8 months down the road
@brianorinda8022 жыл бұрын
Hang in there. Continue with NC, it will eventually pay off. You can do this!!
@DM-yw8dn2 жыл бұрын
Do you really want someone who hasn’t wanted you for 8 months she Will of been with someone else I’m sorry to say .. the best thing you can do is show her she messed up get in the gym dress smart get your money up and then after you do all this get your money up and then watch the shock you give her and then never give her a second of your time again become a high value man instead of a boy waiting for someone who doesn’t want you sorry it’s harsh but this is the advice I got and it worked now I’m stronger as ever and will never allow a women to make me feel how i use to feel after the break up it’s turns out the grass wasn’t greener on the other side
@jinglebells36592 жыл бұрын
@@DM-yw8dn i am actually a girl (29) and my ex is a man (28). He will absolutely have been with someone else.. I however have not :( I’m not sure if women are wired that way, I know i’m not…
@devontezp3472 жыл бұрын
@@jinglebells3659 it's time to move forward. I was in a relationship that lasted seven years. My ex & I finally got married on March 27, 2021 & she asked for a divorce January of this year. She got engaged to her girlfriend the next month. Knowing that she's moved on is helping me heal. My ex & I have three kids together, so no contact is helping me heal, so I can become a better man for my babies. Do not wait around for someone who tossed you to the side like yesterday's trash. Become a better version of yourself & move forward with your life. You deserve nothing but the best out of this life.
@Karma_has_arrived2 жыл бұрын
Omg! I seriously can’t go on without coach Lee! Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@bobaygaming19782 жыл бұрын
I just want to throw this out there. I was absolutely devastated when my old relationship ended but things really do turn around. Now many people say it’s unhealthy to jump into a rebound, but casual dating will honestly save you. Don’t lead people on too much, explain your situation and that you just want to have fun and meet new people. After literally just one date I realized my ex was far from the only person I could get comfortable with. Take your time and heal, but don’t be afraid to let new people into your life so long as you’re open with them and don’t put too much weight on any outcomes.
@jasminealexia2 жыл бұрын
Yeah dating and being social helps produce abundance mindset for sure
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
Depends on severity of heartbreak and circumstances
@Projectrun242 жыл бұрын
Recently broke up with someone. Ive had some days to reconcile and realize where i went wrong. I did a lot of things wrong without even knowing it. I had no respect for myself and thus had no respect for her. Im currently working in myself and she said she is too but i hope we can get back in the near future. Im sorry jia. I was too immature and inexperienced. I can see things more clearly. I know moving on is apart of life, but so is learning from the past and working together again.
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
Instead of running toward ya ex, run toward yaself! Put all that energy and effort into you! Forget about pleasing others, make you the best friend for yourself and everyone will gravitate toward that energy. Love yourself, live within yourself and it will connect you to people the same. She left you because you left yourself a long time ago!
@Deathmetaldaddy792 жыл бұрын
It’s been over 8 months. I feel completely pathetic. I am just try the no contact and it is helping me move on some. We have children so zero contact can’t be achieved. These videos help a lot. Thanks coach.
@lisabaughn2 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry Brian. These things are so depressing to live through.
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
Same
@NorthernCoveCreations2 жыл бұрын
I used no contact and he married the girl he left me for, 17 year age difference. No contact didn’t work, it taught him how to live without me.
@NobleBandit2 жыл бұрын
You dodged a bullet.
@TheQueenIsWithin9 ай бұрын
No contact also helps you to heal. Constantly seeing someone who broke your heart on a repeated basis or that you miss badly will only deepen the wound. You need some time away from them to balance yourself. There is always room for improvement and when someone emotionally neglects you or betrays you they've been doing it for a while its just that you tolerated it or ignored it for some time because you used them as a coping mechanism to fill some other needs you couldn't fill at your own expense. That means you really need to spend more time catering to yourself and building yourself up. We're all flawed beings and understanding and compassion has helped me to heal. It gets better and they say time heals wounds.
@jamiea24692 жыл бұрын
I was in a 3-month-long relationship, that was really great. I made a mistake, and owned up to it. She forgave me, but then still broke up with me, a few days later.. I was in shock, begged a little, and made a few of the mistakes that you had mentioned, but that was only for the day after the breakup. I don't think it was anything too bad. At first she said that she would probably never change her mind, but then she said she needed time and distance.. I found your video shortly after that.. I've been in no contact for the last 7 days. I have your videos on a loop.. Thank you for the great advice. 👍
@Nimbus36902 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat as you for a 2 month relationship. I did occasionally reach out but she is completely ignoring me. 2.5 months NC now. 4.5 months broken up. I have little to no hope though
@gagsjjmomom90142 жыл бұрын
update?
@gagsjjmomom90142 жыл бұрын
@@Nimbus3690 update?
@Nimbus36902 жыл бұрын
@@gagsjjmomom9014 nothing. I think she's dating someone else. But I've moved on
@jamiea24692 жыл бұрын
I maintained no contact for over 60 days.. She never reached out, but I also worked with her, so I don't think she really ever missed me. We only communicated for work stuff, sporadically during that time.. Even though we didn't talk, I think because I was there, it made it easier to move on. Even though she said she forgave me, I don't think she did.. it's okay, she totally took me for granted, I deserve better.
@gilliangroenewald60832 жыл бұрын
25 years of marriage and now he no longer wants me. What makes it really bad is that we still live in the same home. Neither of us can actually afford to move out. My 13 year old daughter has such emotional issues.... I WISH her and I can leave and start over.
@ranikster9955 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the only thing that works is next to the No contact rule, is to knock that stupid ex of the pedestal. It sounds harsh but it is true. The ex should be adding value to your life not be the most importantthing in ypur life. Those of us who have been dumped have put them on a pedestal for no reason..sometimes for years! The No contact rule can help us do that and maybe imagine that we are just as amazing as well. So even if we don't get our exes back... we can become happy again and not give so much importance to a person who more or less made the conscious decision to cut us out of their lives.
@mutechannel132 жыл бұрын
Don't take an EX back at all..... They only come back after they have tried to replace you and failed at it. They may need you to come back to pay half of the rent or some type of financial support... once a break up happens the love may live on but the trust and loyalty dies and it never fully comes back
@brandonnykyforak2 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is like that. Not everyone ends to get with other people. I’m sorry if that was your case but a lot of people have valid reasoning to end things. Also, it may be ur fault they left and it’s ok to take them back if you’ve learned and changed
@Markdaamannn2 жыл бұрын
@@brandonnykyforak so true
@pablo90102 жыл бұрын
Im 9 months of no contact without any sign of contact from her. Last week was horrible I felt like all the confidence that I have in the beginning was shit and with no hope anymore. Im trying to hold on because I understand that no message that I can send to her will cause any change because she left me and hasn’t contact me is because she doesn’t want me.
@mkdaprojin72292 жыл бұрын
Same here, it's been around 9 months I haven't got any sign of contact from her. However I recently met another wonderful lady who really makes me forget her very efficiently. I really hope the same will happen soon to you.
@noammimon2 жыл бұрын
Yah same boat. I think NC only works for the first three months. After that changes drop significantly and you can kiss her ass goodbye. Sucks
@nanlesser88092 жыл бұрын
After 9 months, what do you have to lose by contacting her? Even if she has moved on, at least knowing that for certain will bring you closure. Nothing is worse than wondering. I am in no contact, by my choice, and I just completed 10 days, and I feel like an addict needing a fix!! after my serious relationship ended about 3 months ago, he continued to message me. So I finally had to ask him to hold off for a while so I can heal. He may never return. But I'm going to give this another few weeks and see what happens.
@chainz7006Ай бұрын
if u got broken up with dont contact them let them contact u
@bevolkisch4628 Жыл бұрын
I think it works basically if your partner cheated on you and was seeing someone else but then that relationship didn't work out, so then they come back after the other relationship is over.
@kliccs47692 жыл бұрын
My ex of 5 years Broke up with me alittle over 2 months ago didn’t really get a valid reason. I’ve been in no contact for a month In a half , she’s going on a trip to Spain to visit her bestfriend , I have the feeling the relationship might be clipped but your videos really get me through the day and I am so thankful for you !! I never thought I would get better but I slowly am and I thank you for that !!
@edwardsanchez1542 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Thank you Thankyou, I'm still in no contact one month in, but watching your videos helps push on through. there may come a day where I may have to just let go, but for now I'm holding on for hope. I'll definitely update on any changes. For now just a BIG thank you!!
@Steven-L Жыл бұрын
The hardest part is being in no contact & not knowing what they're doing or what they're thinking & if they even miss you or are happy with someone else. I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, she was my lover & my best friend. I told her that I loved her & didn't agree with the breakup. Afterward, I went into no contact & haven't reached out once. It's been 3 months since the breakup & 3 weeks ago, she reached out. I've decided now that I'm going to let go of everything. I'd love for her to want to work this out, but I'm no longer waiting around for her like I was. Sometimes, late at night, I just think about how things once were with us..I miss those days so much
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Steven-L, Steven, did it ever occur to you that you probably loved her much more than she loved you? If I went into NO CONTACT with the guy I loved, I would RUN to him when the no contact duration was over. I am so sorry. ❤
@paveljakl2 жыл бұрын
23 days of no contact i will never contact her again she already living with new guy. I just want to forget about her and some days are great and some days not so much but i feel its not gonna be too long in my case to move on..
@starttakinnotez2 жыл бұрын
I don't use no contact to get my ex back. I use no contact to get myself back. You're all trauma bonded looking through rose colored glasses. The person you loved is immature. Probably had issues communicating. Why would you want to go back to that? You deserve something better. Respect yourself. Raise your standards. Level up people!
@evanevander12992 жыл бұрын
Dear Couch Lee i really hope that you make a specific video about "How if my ex never come back" more talks about heal from loss hope and the accept that ex wont ever come back.
@victoriarendon32942 ай бұрын
He broke up Sunday morning. I cried hard but didn’t even drink the coffee he made. Hit the road, removed location from sharing, went no contact. I’m struggling and suffering but also setting short term goals for fitness and travel as a distraction. These videos give me the strength I need to hold steady and I listen to them many times like a crazy person.
@Felleberre-tk8bg2 ай бұрын
My ex came back to me few days ❤ago got help from a Relationship Restore Dr Wilson who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc.
Thank you Coach Lee for helping people to recociliate their relation
@justiceforall39732 жыл бұрын
It’s been over 5 months, it’s not going to happen for me. Oh well! It is, what it is! Time to move on! 🤷🏻♂️
@katiestrombeck5703 Жыл бұрын
It's frustrating because I know the breakup needed to happen. I was completely dependent on him for my happiness. I also needed to grow up in a lot of ways. I needed to move on from my past, let go of control, learn to show more respect to others, be patient, and just be kind. I messed up in a lot of ways in our relationship and I'm worried that I lost him for good. It's been 10 weeks since we broke up and I haven't heard anything from him.
@jarrodoberg2078 Жыл бұрын
Did he ever reach out?
@katiestrombeck5703 Жыл бұрын
@@jarrodoberg2078 nope! after 4 months of no contact i reached out and basically said “im moving forward in my life, if u want to pursue something let me know otherwise i’m moving on without you” he responded within a minute and said “best of luck” so i got my answer that i had been waiting for months super quickly. that was the final push i needed to finally get over him even tho i never thought i would. now i’m dating someone who is so much better for me in every way!
@jarrodoberg2078 Жыл бұрын
@@katiestrombeck5703 glad to hear. I’m day 12 NC just found out that she had a tinder account already. We’ve been broken up for 14 days…
@katiestrombeck5703 Жыл бұрын
@@jarrodoberg2078 I am so sorry. I know how that feels (not with this past relationship but before that). No contact is so incredibly difficult. Each day felt like a year. But I feel like I learned the most about myself during that time. It sucks and it was awful but I had to go through everything that I did in order to be prepared for the relationship I am in now.
@EO932 жыл бұрын
6 years together with my ex girlfriend and she broke up with me 3 weeks ago. Im in no contact for two weeks now but its so difficult and hard :(
@lottofever30612 жыл бұрын
Update?
@Markdaamannn2 жыл бұрын
Same position we broke up 8months ago I was begging for 6-7 months straight. U time a week ago I just told her I give up I’m not trying anymore and I’m just going to move on so I pray we get back together but idk anymore hopefully this NC works
@melissajohnson10822 жыл бұрын
It’s just so hard. Feel like I’m grieving a death or something. I’ve been taken advantage of far too long that I started the no contact last week and he kept texting calling. I finally hit the blocked button and I feel like I’m suffering or something. We spent every day together and we’re inseparable but this time I chose me. I find myself thinking about all the good times than the bad with him but I can fight it. I Just looking forward to seeing the brighter side of eventually 😊.
@sharc.9259 Жыл бұрын
I understand how you feel completely. My boyfriend and I were together for almost 2 years. It was amazing. We never had a fight or argument and one day he sent me this text saying how he doesn't see our relationship progressing and how hard it is to say it. Then he says he will always care for me. I thought I was going to die. It's been a month and it's still hard. Hold on and don't give up. We can do it!
@melissajohnson1082 Жыл бұрын
@@sharc.9259 thank you! We got this. I just want this to pass
@sharc.9259 Жыл бұрын
I totally understand
@cuteworldaa2018 Жыл бұрын
If he come back it means he attracted to me and wants to live with me but if he is not come back , he doesn’t want to stay with me with love so I should let him go and I get my strength back .
@graysonleslie97812 жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship for 5 months, 62 days since the break up, 45 days NC, does anyone think I have a chance of getting him back?
@SkylerOakley2 жыл бұрын
My ex and I dated for 2 months and split. I begged and cried for a week and then went NC for about 4 months. I reached out in late December to wish her well and happy holidays and we were back together for 2.5 years! It’s possible. But she just left again because i got complacent in the relationship and wasn’t making an effort. I miss her so much… One important thing to consider is I had gotten to the point where I realized “wow… I really haven’t thought about her in 2 whole days… I couldn’t even think of a world where this would be possible 3 months ago” and then I waited a couple of days and thought hard about it before I did reach out. I decided I wouldn’t be too upset if she didn’t reply but she did! You must emotionally reset yourself before anything can happen, and we will get there!!!
@amityjd8442 жыл бұрын
Loved you on studio 22 podcast can't believe you are 42 years old you still look so young. Ape here with adhd where is my banana at lol. But seriously thanks for what you do coach Lee you saved me and my respect for myself ❤
@projectf0252 жыл бұрын
My ex left me last month and I'm trying everything I can to win her back, gain her trust show her the new side of me with counseling and new hobbies and so forth. We only contact due to our 7 year old and when she comes over to get her things, sometimes she hot sometimes she cold, i wish she would come home I miss her so much we have a unique history and I would love to keep that history going with her
@HasnaMardhiah2 жыл бұрын
There couldn't have been a better time for you dropping this video, today would have been our first year anniversary, but he broke up with me around a month ago, and we're currently on day 23 of no contact. I had done a little begging and pleading at the time of the break up (because of course I hadn't watched any of your videos yet) and the next day he texted asking how I was. I did not demonstrate strength with my answer, and a few days later we texted for like an hour just like the old times before we broke up. After that radio silence from both of us for a few days and I broke and texted him how he was, and he was really cold. I asked him if we were doing the post breakup no-contact thing and he said yes, as he was still reassembling himself mentally. That was 23 days ago and we've been radio silence since. I hope I hadn't completely messed up my chance of him getting back by asking if we were doing no-contact :( Anyways, in the day which I thought would be a celebration, I am instead still grieving and your videos have kept me going and given me strength. Thank you Coach Lee.
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
You shouldn't have spoke of no contact
@crystalinalee8585 Жыл бұрын
I been 73 day of no contact .. he didn't reach out... I miss him alot..
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Crystalina Lee, I've spoken to you before. Give him a little more time. If you don't hear from him in the next 2 weeks, move on, honey. Take care..
@jacqui83922 жыл бұрын
A true life/mind saver Coach Lee, empowering xx
@abdulsamadsubhan5046 Жыл бұрын
Coach lee help please, 6 year relationship broke up 3 months ago , been in no contact since 32days looks like no signs of her coming back it looks impossible :(( please help
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
abdulsamadsu, I am so sorry to hear your pain. We can help you. I recommend Coach Lee's Workshop for you which will help you immensely. You will learn so many things about yourself, and strategies to make you feel better. know it's really difficult and I've certainly been there. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.
@abdulsamadsubhan5046 Жыл бұрын
It’s been 43 days no contact still no sign ?
@user-uc3rg7lm2l24 күн бұрын
I’m 52 days into no contact, and it’s not even like I’m worried about breaking it because I’m not, I’m waiting for her to reach out! But low-key I wish I had no hope because then I could just move on! But things like she still has us in a relationship on Facebook, she still has our pictures up on Facebook is giving me hope whether it’s false or not is irrelevant! If she took those things down, I would take that as it’s over and move on
@hungerxhunger2 жыл бұрын
I figured there’s no use if she already went through grief before we even broke up. I didn’t give her enough attention so she blindsided me. Goodbye 8 years, I’ll take all summer and more to move on. Is there hope? I wish my cat understood English, I’m so lonely.
@randomvideos36742 жыл бұрын
Its been 5 yrs and nothing and we only talk for my 2 girls and she rents the property i own why doesnt she leave we had so many memorys at that property
@andredarin89662 жыл бұрын
There are times when it makes sense to attempt to reconnect with a woman who has kicked you to the curb; there are times-most, by far-when it is high-risk and a big mistake. One study of 3,512 people who got back together after a breakup showed just 15% of people actually won their ex back, while 14% got back together just to break up again, and 70% never reconnected at all. The big problem with using any gambit to win an ex back is that often the breakup was the result of deep-seated unresolved issues-cheating, incompatibility, abuse, etc. These issues do not magically disappear with reconciliation which is why only about 15% of couples reconnected and stayed together. If someone really had a fail-safe method for regaining lost love they would be richer than Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, and Elon Musk combined.
@veeoby3364 Жыл бұрын
Truth and nothing but the Truth. Most are not mentioning the Real reason the breakup occurred in the first place. The odds are much higher that you and your ex will not be back together for good. An ex is an ex for a reason.
@crystalinalee8585 Жыл бұрын
he told me last week he see someone else ..before I go no contact... i now going 3 days for no contact rules ... I hope everything is fine.. I miss him so much... I want him back..
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Crystalina, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It works great! myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@jamesheseltine82832 жыл бұрын
I’m 2 weeks into no contact. She has started openly searching me on Facebook and viewing my stories every morning from both her 2 Facebook accounts. She dumped me and I’ve not looked at her profile once ☺️.
@michellemelton9120 Жыл бұрын
How do you find out if they viewed or searched you on Facebook?
@b2k-desiel6304 ай бұрын
My break up is one off those super rare break ups what don’t usually happen in the way it did 😔
@guyhume5446 Жыл бұрын
Hey Coach Thank you so much for your advice. I just messed up recently got dumped by my GF about a week ago. Went into NC for 4 days then she text me and I stupidly replied to her and she has ignored me ever since. Need to stay in NC and follow your rules. The only reason i replied was she has an important interview this week to become a deputy principal of a school so is a big deal for her. I merely just acknowledged the text wishing her good luck. She just wanted a reaction and I should have been smarter.
@user-hi1se4ms4j Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend lives in England and we have had an 11 year relationship but I will not go see him without a commitment to me IE; Marriage......he says he can't do it because he doesn't know what he wants....so I am going no contact......he says he just wants to live alone because he is used to it but he still wants to talk to me....I am not going to be "breadcrumbed" any longer.....He is 67 and never been married....I don't need this.....if he doesn't know what he wants....then I am leaving his life.....