How not to hate | Wannasingh Prasertkul | TEDxBangkok

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9 жыл бұрын

Hatred around the world arise from small differences that gradually turn into conflicts. As we might begin to unconsciously discriminate people with different attitudes, Prasertkul invites us to put ourselves into others' shoes and try to see the world through their eyes. From hunter tribe in Africa to the Dalai Lama to political protestor groups in Thailand, each and every individual has their own reason supporting their beliefs. This talk will help us realize that behind a few differences, human beings share greater similarities regardless to groups or parties they belong to.
Wannasingh Prasertkul is a television host, a documentary maker, a writer, an explorer and a societal developer. His career in media industry allows him to journey around the world and learns about the difference in culture, perception and moral standard in every place he has visited.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@gdd170
@gdd170 2 жыл бұрын
I really need this. There are so many people who have wronged me in some of the worst ways. I hate them so much I could just lose it. I hate a lot of things. I am so tired of it. Hate has only made me so sad.
@ericab9050
@ericab9050 4 жыл бұрын
"If you really know me and you really know yourself, you would not have killed me"
@zephyrr108
@zephyrr108 Жыл бұрын
Not talking about you, but some people probably deserved.
@mrrtee
@mrrtee 9 жыл бұрын
I'm agreed with you that why do we judge people by their race, skin, religion, or whatever.. nowadays we consume lots of information by media, news, social, etc.. but we never realize that what information is true, what information is fake, how much can we trust that information.. I would suggest to hold down your thinking and consider that information carefully by without bias
@rock0of0faith
@rock0of0faith 9 жыл бұрын
wow, this should be shared virally! Such a message for the whole world to see.
@Pokeymeister80
@Pokeymeister80 9 жыл бұрын
I think this video deserves more attention.
@Ernesto1317
@Ernesto1317 6 жыл бұрын
devlin_76 when we start thinking that way we take the path of hate. Is it not wonderfully sufficient that it is mind opening for you?
@diegoambrosio9903
@diegoambrosio9903 5 жыл бұрын
Goodness is what connects people. The manner which it happens varies from place to place, time to time, culture to culture. The need for connection remains constant. Excellent talk!
@ogudkungo
@ogudkungo 7 жыл бұрын
if u can't change it then understand it if u can't to understand it then try to accept it if u can't not accept it Ask u self what else you really can do it i love that part
@guesswho5790
@guesswho5790 Жыл бұрын
I feel like this only applies to larger scale hatred. When you oppose a certain ideology or group. But what to do about those who knew you and showed NOTHING but hate towards you? What to do about those who purposefully made things harder for you during a vulnerable time in your life? This conference talks about feelings of impersonal hatred. I am still lost over what to do about the need for payback and make those who hurt you at your worst feel the same pain if not more.
@Smitha123able
@Smitha123able 4 ай бұрын
Agreed
@ThanantTansathian
@ThanantTansathian 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much...
@armc.
@armc. 8 жыл бұрын
Deep down its not the matter of hatred or not, crises or disputes happening these days are caused by the conflict of interest among people. Not every decision or action made can benefit or make everyone happy in the society. Educating general group of people is simple, but it would not halt the problem entirely. Instead, policy makers,decision makers or the one that runs or represents the society should learn to be more selfless and do more to benefit the people, or at the very least be compassionate. But still, I think making everyone happy is nearly impractical but we should at least try to be near perfect.
@littlebanana7372
@littlebanana7372 Ай бұрын
i have a fear of being left alone, and people who tried to do that to me, to bully me, make me hate them so much... Now I cannot see the good in others, i dont trust anyone... It's literally killing me and I want to stop that...
@Amina088
@Amina088 8 жыл бұрын
The whole talk was wonderful, esp the introduction and conclusion which shound very... human-like. I love humans too. But sometimes I can't accept- nor forgive what they did to me, or perhaps, to other. Anyway, I like you quote at the end of the talk. Don't say it is not your quote. I think you should be proud of such beautiful ideal. If I were to create any quote like that, I would say... "This" is my quote. :) Lastly, thank you for such an inspiring journey!
@nanok048
@nanok048 9 жыл бұрын
Great talks
@takdanainaka5805
@takdanainaka5805 7 жыл бұрын
if you still cannot accept it .. ask yourself what else can you really do?
@phannathips1651
@phannathips1651 4 жыл бұрын
Love you Khun Singh ❤️
@eyuppaduppadueyuppaduppadu1112
@eyuppaduppadueyuppaduppadu1112 5 жыл бұрын
I love this man 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
@ovenci8560
@ovenci8560 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks i rlly need this
@maneerattaweepongsawut4549
@maneerattaweepongsawut4549 8 жыл бұрын
Great one!
@power3545
@power3545 5 жыл бұрын
You should teach key frame how to love other nationality
@mahsa9022
@mahsa9022 6 жыл бұрын
its really a good talk!
@supattho5717
@supattho5717 8 жыл бұрын
The way leading to the cessation of Hatred is loving kindness because the loving kindness is the enemy of hatred Jor bor จบ.
@pornyamonbrennan7248
@pornyamonbrennan7248 4 жыл бұрын
คลิปนี้ผ่านมา 5 ปีแล้ว เราพลาดไปได้ไงหนอ
@boya_UFC
@boya_UFC 6 жыл бұрын
very cool speech!! man
@serendipitymedee7319
@serendipitymedee7319 4 жыл бұрын
❤️ Wannasingh
@AudiRS6NP47
@AudiRS6NP47 4 жыл бұрын
Respect❤❤❤
@pollyrockstar8652
@pollyrockstar8652 9 жыл бұрын
interesting viewpoint ka.
@TheNaf44
@TheNaf44 2 жыл бұрын
14:35 the real answer
@DrPiangdin
@DrPiangdin 5 жыл бұрын
Hatred for different opinions, of course, has no justifications, but shouldn't you hate injustice and dictatorship? I don't hate bad or dictatorial people blindly, but I hate the ill actions they take that affects others' lives unfairly. To fight against injustice and dictatorship, or tyranny, Wannasingh, is to help the world, and, for that matter, to accept or ignore them serves the contrary. I agree, however, that we can and should fight against bad deeds without hatred toward the wrongdoers. Yet again, we must act as a responsible human one way or another, I think, when injustice, or tyranny, is manifested in front of us.
@tweeporntriyasutti371
@tweeporntriyasutti371 5 жыл бұрын
Cute.. 😍😍😍
@NiceShotStudio
@NiceShotStudio 8 ай бұрын
❤ Dare To Learn
@Natalieandinsight
@Natalieandinsight 2 жыл бұрын
👍thank you for this great speech!
@minkanickyrangsithadakul9138
@minkanickyrangsithadakul9138 8 жыл бұрын
I am fourteen I try to translate this by my self Cuz i want to be exchange student Keep fighting everyone ! Move to destinations ✅👍🏻
@meteechaloemkoon6478
@meteechaloemkoon6478 8 жыл бұрын
Good job... Try Canada.. I was once an exchange student and I went there... It'll be a lot of fun, trust me.. people over there are so nice and helpful Dream on, girl... Wish u all the best
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 9 ай бұрын
Amen
@songleejeng
@songleejeng 8 жыл бұрын
Just like a simple words. In the Bible books said, If someone hit your face you just turn the other side for them. This is a easy words that i try to translate for your guys which who would like to know HOW NOT TO HATE? So what is it mean? Jesus said, Love is the only one thing that can do everything. Everything possible in our Jesus.
@songleejeng
@songleejeng 8 жыл бұрын
+Rosa Phavinee I know thats why you never have a true love because you never give the true love for anyone. Let you know i have an experience that God saving the life from cancer. You have to trust and have a faith in God. Doctor is the one that God sent him to help people who have cancer. But have you know? Who is the on created human? what is BiBle said ? Its very normal of the human like you, when they got a problem they always blame to God but that never look at themselves. I know Human is human no way to be like God. Thats why i try to tell you guy have to consider yourself and look at your like that follow the way of God or not?
@piyawanman6531
@piyawanman6531 7 жыл бұрын
I love you
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 9 ай бұрын
Anger is different injustice
@natthipboonnak6682
@natthipboonnak6682 8 жыл бұрын
แปลไม่ได้หรอก แต่ชอบฟัง
@saranyachinwattanawong7410
@saranyachinwattanawong7410 7 жыл бұрын
กด ตรง CC ข้างๆ รูปดอกไม้ แถบล่าง จะแสดง ซับไตเติ้ลให้ค่ะ
@napatc9710
@napatc9710 9 жыл бұрын
ลองฟังในสิ่งที่ "ชายคนนี้พูด" แล้วทำความเข้าใจในสิ่งที่เขาต้องการจะบอกดู!
@siwakritthanasawatporn6988
@siwakritthanasawatporn6988 6 жыл бұрын
Napat C ต
@SurawutAnurak
@SurawutAnurak 8 жыл бұрын
At the early of the talk, it is interesting when he said he was a yellow shirt, a political supporter believing in good-man ideology. However, the yellow shirt group was originally created by a hatred of Taksin, the former prime minister. This makes me really want to hear what he has to say about how not to hate. After listening to the end, I was not surprised to find so many biases and attitudes that the Yellow shirt always has - HATRED. Here they are: Firstly, he searched for a definition of good men though he should have known about it very well because the Yellow shirt always claim they themselves are good people. Secondly, he showed how difficult life the Red shirt supporters had at the time of protesting and showed the after-match, the damage of burned Central World building, though no one knows who did it (despite the fact that no one commits arson). He also expressed that he feared of getting hit by the supporters when he visited them (Why? Did he wear a yellow shirt? Did he think they would hit a person randomly?). Eventually, he surprisingly found himself offered impressive basic sticky rice(Much better of getting hit. Eh ). On the other hand, he did not show what damage the Yellow shirt had done, and he did not fear of the Yellow (He may need to wear a red shirt to prove goodness in the Yellow). He finally gave a conclusion about how not to hate that I doubt whether his conclusion would help people out of hatred since his presentation still showed it.
@NWRsk
@NWRsk 6 жыл бұрын
First thing first, you need to realise he didn't have the whole day to clarify what now and what then he had found himself in. Focusing on his intention, we all saw that he tried to show us the similarity of colours, and none of it seemed to lead him to any bias. I'm not a fan of him, but at least I know the point of his speech and yeah you should too.
@wanpatyoung
@wanpatyoung 4 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more! Instead of talking about how not to hate, he'd better talk about how to hate justly and effectively. First, to hate justly is to hate certain people with certain reason, in which such a hate is motivated by your love of justice. I can't imagine how one could consider such a "just" hate as undesirable. Second, to hate effectively is to openly and creatively hate those who commit injustice. If everyone shows their hates for dictatorship and injustice, then we could have seen the improvement of democracy in our society.
@user-yh5im3nd3s
@user-yh5im3nd3s 3 жыл бұрын
ใครมีซับไทยบ้าง
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 9 ай бұрын
Political I am not people can be so mean and selfish hate is a strong word love is stronger love others
@lila-yw2gn
@lila-yw2gn 5 жыл бұрын
Ignore this comment as this is a personal msg for someone For Michael Do i hate you? No, not really
@chanunpornu7589
@chanunpornu7589 5 жыл бұрын
ฟังแล้วแทบร้องเลย ครับ ไม่ได้ซึ้งนะ แปลไม่ถูก ผ่าม! 555 หยอกๆๆๆ อย่าเกลียดผมนะ 😁
@tikejourny2187
@tikejourny2187 8 жыл бұрын
I want english sub.
@Second_Sister504
@Second_Sister504 7 жыл бұрын
สมรรถชัย ศรีพิทักษ์ they're providing subtitles in so many languages make sure you check at the set up menu at the corner of video
@ophelia4208
@ophelia4208 3 жыл бұрын
Turn on the cc
@Candyjerry_bear
@Candyjerry_bear 7 жыл бұрын
รู้จักพี่สิงห์จากเถื่ิอนทราเวล ชอบเวลาพี่พูดภาษาอังกฤษมากค่ะ555
@mateuszzielinski1534
@mateuszzielinski1534 Жыл бұрын
"ToLaRaTe VoLiAnCe" xD
@botowner8623
@botowner8623 Жыл бұрын
Impossible
@panatdajn8252
@panatdajn8252 3 жыл бұрын
on this situaion in Thailand, Are you still say this kind of stuff ""differebt ideas on politics" ????
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 9 ай бұрын
Act out of they're nature blame its affects others on intentions to harm destroy keep the peace I want to shake a honest man than a dishonest man its hard to tell
@devyaniroy2232
@devyaniroy2232 8 ай бұрын
How do i accept israel
@nonglocallao1862
@nonglocallao1862 4 жыл бұрын
T huk 😁
@user-gi1lb3mx5f
@user-gi1lb3mx5f 6 жыл бұрын
😂ฟังไม่ออก...
@kkjhonynitro175
@kkjhonynitro175 6 жыл бұрын
Wtf i went to the person who i hate to talk to him instead of talking he punched me Instead of getting rid of hatred it has deepen more This trick is not applicable to everyone and every situation 😪
@poonsinsratonghoi2944
@poonsinsratonghoi2944 8 жыл бұрын
he became no one lol
@ashwinikerhalkar1112
@ashwinikerhalkar1112 Жыл бұрын
This just intellectual non sense
@purpleturtlehurtle
@purpleturtlehurtle 4 жыл бұрын
bla bla bla ...look at me , i travel a lot....bla bla blaa
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