How relationships will be effected by Red Pill ideology in the future

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@Evilmindy12
@Evilmindy12 2 жыл бұрын
I'd also like to add that there are a lot of men and women who haven't grown past a certain age mentally. Some are still trapped at the age where they were last truamtized. Many people don't unlearn bad behaviors either with or without a therapist.
@ShandraGraham
@ShandraGraham 2 жыл бұрын
Also alot of us dont date or swear off dating AFTER life altering trauma, dudes just think everyone is just this healed and always happy human when they approach us but we're not. The last person that touched us could have literally put us through hell, so yes some guard is going to be up. Everyone doesnt just bounce back and ready to date the next man in a few weeks, I know they want that to be the case FOR THEM and to remain unaccountable for leaving the last woman/situation, because ya know "shell be alright, shell get over it" If men keep leaving/and feeling unaccountable, there will be women everywhere with that same story.
@chocolatesugar4434
@chocolatesugar4434 2 жыл бұрын
it's true, they say narcs and pedos etc can't change, only be more self aware
@EmpoweredPursuits87
@EmpoweredPursuits87 2 жыл бұрын
Arrested Development. Freezes you in trauma. Leads to many personality disorders.
@DaQueenPope
@DaQueenPope 2 жыл бұрын
Very true. It called distorted adolescence. I recently realized how some of my own traumas had embarked this upon my own life and it's only with my dedication to god that I have outgrown this thought pattern. I now know I am healing but accountability is key in regards to this, it may be painful but it is very important not to point fingers but actually look in the mirror because often times our traumas stem from mindset, choice and bad discernment that attracted that experience that led to trauma. God bless anyone who is going through this
@Machelle3200
@Machelle3200 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree..They need therapy but most won't admit it..
@daydreamer2k10
@daydreamer2k10 2 жыл бұрын
It is so refreshing to hear a male perspective that accepts ACCOUNTABILITY 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Men are the leaders of society, and when women follow your lead, you can’t be mad when you went the wrong way!
@DaQueenPope
@DaQueenPope 2 жыл бұрын
I say this all the time. Men...started...this shit. I'm sorry not sorry. If the head is messed up so will be the body. And most women want only thier man and most women I know want to be Faithful. I remember how ready and pure I was at such a young age of 18. I moved out of mom house and my thoughts of a beautiful relationship was tainted by people telling me that no one is faithful out here and that I'm in a fantasy. Then my first love got a girl pregnant on me. Everything he is saying is facts. And I don't say this to point the blame. But we as a black community need to get back to God. Fr.
@mr.simmtheprofessor2919
@mr.simmtheprofessor2919 11 ай бұрын
So basically, women can avoid accountability in any action and just blame some man some where
@daydreamer2k10
@daydreamer2k10 11 ай бұрын
@@mr.simmtheprofessor2919 men and women both should take accountability of their faults and stop blaming each other.
@mr.simmtheprofessor2919
@mr.simmtheprofessor2919 11 ай бұрын
@@daydreamer2k10 but your initial comment was a complete excuse for women for theirs OWN actions
@daydreamer2k10
@daydreamer2k10 11 ай бұрын
@@mr.simmtheprofessor2919 that’s not at all what my initial comment says but if that’s what you took from it, it shows me a lot about your mindset
@EButta71
@EButta71 2 жыл бұрын
Very good analysis. There's a lot of contradictions in the "red pill/manosphere"--its food for the soul for lost boys.
@Mikirono23
@Mikirono23 2 жыл бұрын
Junk food* taste good now gives problems later
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 9 ай бұрын
exactly..this will backfire the men who give their ear to RP very bad@@Mikirono23
@kamys6133
@kamys6133 2 жыл бұрын
Somebody gets it! I get so sick of the negativity towards women. Like let's go back to where and how it started. They don't wanna acknowledge that!
@drphil4ril161
@drphil4ril161 2 жыл бұрын
Didn’t it start in the garden of Eden when the woman wanted to be a god over the man?
@cindywebb9786
@cindywebb9786 2 жыл бұрын
@@drphil4ril161 wasn't it a male demon that enticed the female with lies?
@kamys6133
@kamys6133 2 жыл бұрын
@@drphil4ril161 Go away with this childish nonsense smh!
@ravengyal
@ravengyal 2 жыл бұрын
@@drphil4ril161 dude, she just ate a fruit. How did you twist that into wanting to be god?
@dalinkwent202
@dalinkwent202 Жыл бұрын
@@ravengyalhat kind of self-delusion is one of the side-effects of the “red pill”.
@Army_Brat1980
@Army_Brat1980 2 жыл бұрын
If people worked on themselves, they'd have less time to hurt others.
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 2 жыл бұрын
Preach
@Gabster1990
@Gabster1990 2 жыл бұрын
That's what red pill is all about but then it started hating on women.
@Army_Brat1980
@Army_Brat1980 2 жыл бұрын
@@Gabster1990 the red pill is about people who couldn't get laid so they started a group to commiserate. I love it! The more they hate, the further they get from getting laid. It's amazing to watch. Social media is an experiment in human psychosis.
@ravengyal
@ravengyal 2 жыл бұрын
@@Army_Brat1980 no, those are incels. Not the same group
@rjohnson8675
@rjohnson8675 Жыл бұрын
@@ravengyal you may not know this but incels are your foot soldiers.
@denesejamerson2356
@denesejamerson2356 2 жыл бұрын
Ladies when we meet these "Red pilled" jokers, keep it moving! No use for them!
@Price8903
@Price8903 2 жыл бұрын
Facts, block party.
@morrickushuff4127
@morrickushuff4127 Жыл бұрын
Yeah you can't use em that's why you have no use for them...
@markuchiha7737
@markuchiha7737 8 ай бұрын
No one wants a woman with high body count.
@aslysa2277
@aslysa2277 7 ай бұрын
Cope
@lilmisslegal3018
@lilmisslegal3018 2 жыл бұрын
My husband said almost the same exact thing about the redpill stuff. It's nothing but trauma bonding
@NiniBonita
@NiniBonita 2 жыл бұрын
Facts 👌🏽🇬🇲
@teemay967
@teemay967 2 жыл бұрын
Not my 🤡 husband, he falls for it but not stupid enough to leave though because I damn near walk on water; but it gets thrown in my face for the least lil thing I do. I want out, I’m tired of being the savior while he listens to 🤡s. Let him build a house and accomplish stuff with the red pill or ww. He stays because he know he can’t but then I’m unhappy because I’m a super hero and not a wife and he won’t go no where.
@ohreally9847
@ohreally9847 2 жыл бұрын
@@teemay967 leave his ass quickly my dad fell for the redpill shit and at first my family was like “what” and tried correcting him but over time he continued to watch tommy,Kevin and fresh and fit and it got worse he’s married to a black women and has two black daughters the disrespect is awful I wish my mom would leave him.
@arleneaugustahair8393
@arleneaugustahair8393 2 жыл бұрын
@@teemay967 my husband tried to fall for it but I shut it completely down. I seriously had zero idea what he was talking about. I really thought feminism was a lesbian group. I found out in November it wasn’t. I have just been living my life.
@teemay967
@teemay967 2 жыл бұрын
@@ohreally9847 💯💯 girl then here my daddy come. He swallowed the red pill in the 70s. Been with ww the whole time and gon ask to come live with me. I said when hell freeze over. Better ask them ww to build you a house.
@Kmama801
@Kmama801 2 жыл бұрын
Agree with everything you said. A well known person once said you can’t be skeptical about love and expect it to come into your life. I don’t understand people’s goals anymore but it seems to be some sort of avoidance of any hurt (which is part of life and helps us grow) and getting to the money money money
@dejstoney
@dejstoney 2 жыл бұрын
Why should hurt be apart of life? If you can avoid toxicity you should try. But the red flags gotta be there and u gotta be smart or discern them. All we can do is try.
@Kmama801
@Kmama801 2 жыл бұрын
@@dejstoney of course avoid toxicity! That’s horrible. What I meant was if love and a family is what you want, you have to go for it knowing that it might not work out and you might get hurt. That’s part of life but it seems now people are so afraid of this that they rather assume the other person is out to get them and stay single
@SunshineTheLover
@SunshineTheLover Жыл бұрын
@@dejstoney because it simply is. no one goes their whole life without pain. we just arent set up that way. we can try to avoid it but we have to understand some things arent foreseeable and some things are unavoidable
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
Plus conflict isn't pleasant but it's inevitable.
@kimdiscounts
@kimdiscounts 2 жыл бұрын
Just had a man block me because I’m doing it Gods way... practicing abstinence. Well at least I know what he was after.
@deadcell1
@deadcell1 2 жыл бұрын
I had a woman tell me the same thing, I told her "If you are doing it God's way then why are you still smoking weed, popping pills, and listening to gangster hip-hop?" I later found out she was sleeping behind my back with someone else and was actually pregnant with his child..
@kimdiscounts
@kimdiscounts 2 жыл бұрын
@@deadcell1 wow! I’m sorry you went through that, but at least you didn’t marry her. It was God protecting you from a harder life
@winning3329
@winning3329 2 жыл бұрын
Red pill is mostly condemning women for having preference and not wanting to settle for them. I saw a video of a red pill guy degrading women on dating sites for not choosing to talk to the ugly men. But red pill dude's be saying they don't want women who are fat or ugly.
@markuchiha7737
@markuchiha7737 8 ай бұрын
Do you want a fat woman, be true
@lilyflower5576
@lilyflower5576 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a young woman 23 and I even get suggested red pill videos! On my suggestion page! All I watch is cooking exercise videos and dramas 🤣 Red pill is really spreading around
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved 2 жыл бұрын
Same and I’m tired of it. I always block these channels and they still come up
@winning3329
@winning3329 2 жыл бұрын
@@Brandiisbeloved report them for hate speech
@arleneaugustahair8393
@arleneaugustahair8393 2 жыл бұрын
Me too! I mainly watch Cricut and Home Organization videos though. My husband is over my baskets and me. 😂😂😂 He’s definitely over IKEA and Hobby Lobby.
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 9 ай бұрын
and for a good reason..if youtube is pushing it, it means, it serves an agenda.. not for you and me and our neighbor Joe and Betty...no....this is a part of anti-human agenda. @lilyflower5576
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 9 ай бұрын
same @@winning3329
@aquasun8953
@aquasun8953 2 жыл бұрын
A man wiith sense and intellect. How refreshing
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
Sense, swag and intellect. The best.
@mybrownsparklez
@mybrownsparklez 2 жыл бұрын
Tell 👏🏾the 👏🏾truth👏🏾. I’m so tired of hearing men preach their IDEALS and watch them behave contrary to that IDEAL.
@Hubtones1
@Hubtones1 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's too much, I can't listen to that negative stuff about anybody all the time. It doesn't sit right with my spirit. Edit: And yep. We definitely need to get back to the Bible, it just sucks how hard people fight against it for one reason or another. That's Oshay Duke Jackson talking against people of faith, yet he himself is a semi believer
@yourstrulymsanita
@yourstrulymsanita 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you brother. Your message is straight to the point, painful to hear but you speak truth. The Lord God has really given you a gift to speak truth and bless others and help those who will listen. May God continue to cover you and keep you Always. Bless you, your wife, and you kids.💖🙏
@TheShumakeWay
@TheShumakeWay 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@justgbali4293
@justgbali4293 2 жыл бұрын
I like the red pill to an extent, just like you said. Work on yourself and be the best version of yourself. Along the way, you might meet someone. Working on yourself means making yourself a MAN or WOMAN with VALUES and MORALS
@itsHappening-ry2ef
@itsHappening-ry2ef 2 жыл бұрын
What you said sounds good but the truth is the evil 👿 that they spruce you can’t get the build yourself message
@susanhaines7358
@susanhaines7358 2 жыл бұрын
The area that gets me is wont marry a woman but will use her sexually drives me insane
@stephaniemurria5534
@stephaniemurria5534 2 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@proudseeker4814
@proudseeker4814 2 жыл бұрын
Me too!! Don't touch another woman then! You can't stand women, don't touch another one.
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved 2 жыл бұрын
They have no morals or standards. Just accepting everything offered to them
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 2 ай бұрын
And yet they constantly whine about 304's, women being ran through and body count. Who is running them through then, idiots?!!
@user-gu2pb7km8f
@user-gu2pb7km8f 2 ай бұрын
🎉BINGO! Evil to break a wm heart & think its cool. psycho-sociopaths!!
@SK-le4lj
@SK-le4lj 2 жыл бұрын
I've been asking God to heal me from the garbage I ingested in that community. I needed this video, thank you
@countrylay_d4389
@countrylay_d4389 2 жыл бұрын
OMG. Too much negativity by these people ( both men and women) they say any wicked thing for likes and money. Sorry for those who can't think for themselves. That poison is spreading and people are being hurt. God help your people.
@Army_Brat1980
@Army_Brat1980 2 жыл бұрын
Facts...
@lstr-wp2lq
@lstr-wp2lq 2 жыл бұрын
The ones that choose to follow the ways of the world are going to be cut off by the Most High. This woman and man bashing is one example, and theirs many others sins that will get both males and females condemned by the Most High.
@sunsnowden3729
@sunsnowden3729 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you my brother in Christ for showing your Bible. We need more men reading the Bible and applying the 1Truth in their lives. The Bible is Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth. May God (Jesus) Bless you, family and anyone else that reads this!
@lovelyladyleo9205
@lovelyladyleo9205 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾 Amen and Amen again. I'm glad to know that there are men and women out here that's reading thru this red pill and city girls mentality. I'm praying for all of us that want a real relationship with someone that is equally invested and interested in them.
@Flowers4YourMind
@Flowers4YourMind 2 жыл бұрын
These men are predators and their preferences are prey. I'm so glad they're outing themselves and leaving the community dating pool. More and more BW are side-stepping the bullshite and moving on to more productive partnerships.
@debrapeterson8315
@debrapeterson8315 2 жыл бұрын
You are correct - we can’t fix our personal lives, families and/or communities being at war with one another. We need to focus on positive force multipliers.
@gentleasa5728
@gentleasa5728 2 жыл бұрын
I am an elder. I listened cuz I have three sons, and I believe God stopped me at your video. Thankfully my sons are a lot like yourself. Anyways, I subscribed because I really do appreciate your message, and faithfulness in God. Unfortunately it’s rare to see, and hear anyone speaking the truth. I love to hear the younger generations speaking sense! Thank you for that opportunity! I commend your mother, father. Your wife, and children , your a blessing to them, as they are to you! Amen. 🙏
@soblessed4844
@soblessed4844 2 жыл бұрын
Well said, l totally agree! 🙌🏽
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
@theshumakeway ya heard
@khem127
@khem127 2 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile these men try to find their children that they left alone to get them take care of them when they get old and have no one.
@pinkymcd4684
@pinkymcd4684 2 жыл бұрын
Shumake, sadly there are many of us, that still don't realise that a 'seismic' shift has occurred in the world, and that God is on his way. We seem to still be of the feeling and opinion, that there is still time to do whatever we want, before we have to repent, and live the way God asked us to, but instead, continue to live a hedonistic life. Man has learnt from history, that man never learns from history, and is destined to continuous repetition. Lord please forgive us. 🙏🏽
@misclaudiarene6752
@misclaudiarene6752 2 жыл бұрын
THOSE red pill vids do more harm then good.
@maryburton9308
@maryburton9308 2 жыл бұрын
You're speaking truth. I'm glad that I found your channel. Thanks for caring enough about us to inform.
@TrishaBurris
@TrishaBurris 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Much needed Truth. Gods way is the only way 🙏🏽
@Mimi-xv6jm
@Mimi-xv6jm 2 жыл бұрын
A change in mindset, men and women choosing to do what’s morally right.
@reneedennis2011
@reneedennis2011 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about how our turning our backs on God has ruined our community!
@parnaerue
@parnaerue 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been thinking this for a while!! I wish you & Soul Immortal would collab, y’all def get it! Men & women really need to hear this on a large scale. It’s like a big blame game going on.. over taking accountability, forgiveness, & healing.
@autumnmoon8459
@autumnmoon8459 2 жыл бұрын
I would like to know how men can say they are “healed” when they can’t go 1 month without sex? Not all men but most want to point a “she’s crazy” finger and consider themselves “healed”.
@deadcell1
@deadcell1 2 жыл бұрын
Sex is beautiful when it's in the confidemen of a relationship. Why would you not want to give your man what he wants? Would you rather he cheats on you with someone else? Just saying
@autumnmoon8459
@autumnmoon8459 2 жыл бұрын
@@deadcell1 I am very perplexed why random strangers always have a “situation” about me that they think is true and know nothing about me and ALWAYS WRONG!
@Price8903
@Price8903 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. A man who’s only controlled by sexual impulses is a man without a purpose or a vision.
@morrickushuff4127
@morrickushuff4127 Жыл бұрын
Sex is for suckas, The money and purpose is the only that matter. People hate red pill content because of the truth it brings to the light for men: Men being step dad's is for weak/Stupid males, Men being comfortable by himself is a great thing and Most women only see men as a tool to be used up therefore men should never focus on women....
@Emptytopfloor
@Emptytopfloor 11 ай бұрын
@@deadcell1 you sound like those who expects cancer patients to suffer through intercourse with their husbands?
@dandeelion
@dandeelion Жыл бұрын
This makes me feel good to hear. I just had a talk with my oldest son and soon my second oldest and told him pretty much the advice and guidance you just spat to these youngins in this video. So hearing you, a man, makes me feel good I'm guiding them right. Peace and blessings to you and yours. By the way, I share alot of your videos with them, so thanks for what you do. 🙌🏾
@user-jl5ey7se3m
@user-jl5ey7se3m 8 ай бұрын
❤ Thank-you ❤
@SingleWomanChronicles
@SingleWomanChronicles 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad a man said it.
@HappyHealthyHair
@HappyHealthyHair 2 жыл бұрын
Yep They keep tryna pull me in Betta pay attention to what's really going on If a nigga dont want me, glad I know now instead of later Keep it movin I'm keep reaping what I sew, AMEN I'm be over here doin my Soul mission and I pray I get to pair up with a good man who's on his Soul mission too🙏🏽
@Donnakdk
@Donnakdk Жыл бұрын
You are 100% correct! My ex abusive, DL, narcissist, got addicted to this new red pill content, and went completely extremist /nuts, to point of dangerous when he already had a multiude of mental issues & damaged confidence! I have seen a ton of the new content out there and its very scary! I am an older single mixed mom, and because of the red pill youtubers, I dont stand a chance out there in the dating world anymore, they tell these men to never date women like me before even getting to know me. Its backwards and I hope your videos get seen by these men out here, I would hate to see ALL the men influenced negatively by this new content or disturbed men like my ex!
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 9 ай бұрын
true!!! my bf also fell for it big time,,,,he is still falling....into the pit of deception!! ** makes me worried for my 2 young nieces, in what kind of world will they find themselves once they get in the marriage age, how the men will treat them ....This is a very very worrying trend, that actually IMO anyway, is going to tie in depopulation agenda and destroying of family unit at basis, by destroying men/women relationship by these DISTORTIONS!!! WITHOUT HEALTHY MEN/WOMEN relationship there won't be families. Not even relationship, tho, this RED pill BS is achieving putting a grandiose wedge between both genders, putting plain enmity and that cannot and wont result in anything even remotely positive and beneficial for EITHER of genders!!
@shannadean4098
@shannadean4098 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being the influencer you are you could have chosen many paths but you chose this one thanks.
@itsHappening-ry2ef
@itsHappening-ry2ef 2 жыл бұрын
They will also end up on child support with multiple baby mamas like most BM already have 😮
@ravengyal
@ravengyal 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t point fingers. It’s not helping 🤦🏾‍♀️
@dawnjones7303
@dawnjones7303 2 жыл бұрын
And thank you for not being shy about the value of living by Bible principles. ;)
@reneedennis2011
@reneedennis2011 2 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@MrsBrittanyGold
@MrsBrittanyGold Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy you are speaking the truth on this!!!
@tierrajones6210
@tierrajones6210 Жыл бұрын
Accountability is what is needed. Everyone wants to play victim but never account for the part they played in it.
@AmericanDreamer
@AmericanDreamer 9 ай бұрын
100% !!!!!!!!!!!!
@queenbee0129
@queenbee0129 2 жыл бұрын
YOU SPOKE FACTS!!! They are all men who have been rejected and couldnt measure up to the standards she has set. This is why the divestment community is growing they are not Swirlers. Divestor do not date BM at all Swirlers date all men from different Races and cultures.
@ServantofAnubis007
@ServantofAnubis007 2 жыл бұрын
I myself, personally don’t believe in marriage anymore but I want to become a single foster father and adopt.
@countrylay_d4389
@countrylay_d4389 2 жыл бұрын
Ain't nothing wrong with the institution of marriage ( I respect your opinion. You got a right to it) it's the people who don't understand/respect that institution that mess it up.
@amaj_lex
@amaj_lex 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same, single mom by adoption
@vizeas
@vizeas 2 жыл бұрын
That’s great I am a single mother by artificial insemination wanted children more than a husband. We all have different paths. Good luck and God bless
@dmoon6137
@dmoon6137 2 жыл бұрын
@@vizeas 🤦🏾‍♀️
@soblessed4844
@soblessed4844 2 жыл бұрын
That’s great! 🙌🏽My husband and l have fostered two dozen boys over the last 20 years. I wish you well and hopefully when your heart is ready, you will meet the right lady.
@jessicascreenwritingservices
@jessicascreenwritingservices 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this honest & smart take on the toxicity of that community. It wasn’t bad when the focus seemed to be on personal development, but they also talk badly about women having emotions and not being logical in the way a man is. It’s like ummmm our nature as women is to be emotional. It’s a bunch of contradictions in that space.
@brishaberries0101
@brishaberries0101 2 жыл бұрын
I approve this message.
@jaymlangeni1373
@jaymlangeni1373 2 жыл бұрын
On my side, this red pill stuff ruined me, I lost the woman that I really wanted, honestly I'm at the end of myself, my only option is to go back to God really strong, I'm really regretful, apologized but it's too late, I'm tired of that content, I want a family and honor God. I realy messed up, don't even think I'll be comfortable enough to even go back into the relationship if the chance is presented. I'm really disappointed in myself.
@thebeautystarlet
@thebeautystarlet 2 жыл бұрын
I'm praying for the healing of both parties and that you would find rest, forgiveness, and restoration in the arms of God. God loves both of you and has chosen you both for a calling and a purpose, whether you're together or not.
@reneedennis2011
@reneedennis2011 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽
@mamat1213
@mamat1213 2 жыл бұрын
It will be ok, no matter what! Focus on yourself right now and change what you’re taking in, guard the gates of your eyes and ears to improve your relationship with God. I know it’s tough but you need to forgive urself and move forward 💙
@mamat1213
@mamat1213 2 жыл бұрын
@Elevate & Prosper good advice can come from any source, it’s just a matter of what you’re listening to. Women do the same thing and it can be helpful if it’s the right message
@tuneaparks9529
@tuneaparks9529 2 жыл бұрын
I thank the LORD that I am contented with being by myself. When you concentrate on the GOD, he will give you PEACE beyond your understanding
@ChavisGreenard
@ChavisGreenard 2 жыл бұрын
Facts! All of this is facts!!
@mahoganymuffin2628
@mahoganymuffin2628 2 жыл бұрын
Whew! You preached Shumake!
@livingwithlexyoutube
@livingwithlexyoutube 2 жыл бұрын
It’s very important that people do the work to make themselves happy before entering into a relationship others look for happy doses from other people almost like happiness vampires and people whether their intentions are genuine and honest or not you can’t live a shallow life and expect meaningful relationships
@jayreeves5905
@jayreeves5905 2 жыл бұрын
😌Beautiful job. This was very concise and you make great, well- balanced points.
@4u2cre8
@4u2cre8 2 жыл бұрын
"They will not put a woman on TV or give her a record deal if she ain't got the ability to turn dudes on." Faacts. That's why there are so many struggle singers at the top of the charts, lol
@dejstoney
@dejstoney 2 жыл бұрын
This more so applies to female rappers than r&b singers. R&b singers these days are tryna be more free and themselves. Singers like H.E.R barely even hypersexual. She even dressed like Billie Ellish in the beginning of her career.
@4u2cre8
@4u2cre8 2 жыл бұрын
@@dejstoney H.E.R. is one of the only few exceptions and not the rule. I think the industry will inevitably pressure her to play up her sexuality to stay relevant as they do with every non-hypersexual female artist (Ex: Chloe Bailey). Hopefully she's able to stay true to herself and remain successful.
@erickalucas5660
@erickalucas5660 Жыл бұрын
Write a book Shumake! a relationship book that gives guidance on bible based relationships or rectification of bad relationship decisions…they may not pick up a Bible but gotta start somewhere right? You’re advice is very balanced. You tell women when they are wrong and men when they are wrong and it’s not your opinion, it is biblically based. Great video
@senayon85
@senayon85 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your honesty....
@shimmeringchimps3842
@shimmeringchimps3842 2 жыл бұрын
Love your content! I'm new to your channel and never heard of Kevin Samuels, but I just checked out his channel and it's exactly as you described: him "interviewing" Jerry Springer types, twisting their (probably fake) stories into sensational misogynistic headlines, and holding that up as a warning to men that all women are like that. And what's worse, his audience eating it up and announcing their undying allegiance to him. So disturbing and dishonest. Thank you so much for speaking out about this.
@TheeSimoneB
@TheeSimoneB 2 жыл бұрын
I hit the like before I even started playing this video because relationships are about to get worse. I can’t believe women are aligning with some of the toxicity. Those men just look their way, agree and keep complaining. Lol They don’t want them either.
@indymg4456
@indymg4456 2 жыл бұрын
In my opinion those men from that platform have mommy issues prime example u have a relationship with your mother and u respect women cause one ☝️ she didn’t let u down 2 u are not low key gay cause to me men that go on and on like that they are in the closet they really like men
@Tezzybiz
@Tezzybiz 2 жыл бұрын
Straight Facts 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤝👌
@chloelageaux769
@chloelageaux769 Жыл бұрын
This is awesome and he made some great points! It's so sad that we live in a world where ppl will allow themselves to be fooled by the enemy and lead on a pathway to hell!
@ChavisGreenard
@ChavisGreenard 2 жыл бұрын
Shumake, I want to collab with you someday soon. We're speaking a lot of the same things, especially about the toxic, demonic red pill/Manosphere. Please reach out whenever you are able. May the Lord Jesus Christ bless you and your family.
@dmoon6137
@dmoon6137 2 жыл бұрын
Please don't collab. If the your intentions are pure than put the message out there on your own instead of linking up under the guise of "doing good works". This will lead to ego and pride via views and followers. Please, for God's sake don't collab. This ain't hip-hop/rap.
@ChavisGreenard
@ChavisGreenard 2 жыл бұрын
@@dmoon6137 This isn't about making music. This is about standing united to bring a strong message of holiness, positivity, and manhood. We see enough evil folks united to speak and cause chaos. I hope to share the Gospel and show men a better way, especially away from the wicked ways of the Gender War. In Jesus name, I want to see souls saved.
@dmoon6137
@dmoon6137 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChavisGreenard use your head. Of course, I know this isn't about music. I was being facetious. The point is this - just do.the.work. Share the message and stop thinking of collaborations, etc. Dang. Even once Jesus came to earth he wasn't collaborating with John. John wasn't collaborating with his father, Zechariah. Hell, even once the 11 apostles spread the gospel after Jesus rose they split up and spread they focused on SPREADING THE MESSAGE, not collaborating with somebody. But hey, do you. Black men have been doing a bang up job for the past 500 years more or less (btw, that's sarcasm. So that won't go over your head).
@ChavisGreenard
@ChavisGreenard 2 жыл бұрын
@@dmoon6137 So, those who do evil in public and private can work together to further push agendas and whatever they desire, but those of us who want to do good should stay solo? The disciples did indeed go out and shared the Word and performed miracles as Jesus commanded, yet there was usually 2 or more together. Let's not forget the friendship/partnership of David & Jonathan. There were wars being waged even as the Bible was being written and the soldiers were united and focused (especially if they were in God's will) won. The body of Christ is united under the Head who is Jesus. Yes, Jesus said that the Word can cut right down to the marrow. He said that He came to cause division, but the division is to be between the wheat (God's people) and the tares (those who hate God in actions and speech). He wants those of us who are serious about Him united as we go forward in Jesus name. When I expressed my desire to work with Mr. Shumake, it's not to gain likes and follows. It's about gaining people to Jesus and seeing the demonic Gender War burn into nothingness. I can care less if I become famous. Let God's will be done. If Mr. Shumake doesn't want to collab, all is well. I'll still watch his videos and support him. If he does, all is well. Either way, praise the Lord Jesus Christ. You will feel how you feel regardless, but I had to put this out here. I'll walk away from this and focus on the mission. Have a good day.
@ChavisGreenard
@ChavisGreenard 2 жыл бұрын
@@CHRISTNCALI Amen!
@Dalitszz
@Dalitszz 2 жыл бұрын
We fix it by going to therapy
@karinw6255
@karinw6255 2 жыл бұрын
You always talk sense...thank you🌻🖤🌞💛
@israeloagiledintlhe4166
@israeloagiledintlhe4166 Жыл бұрын
I've heard a red pill guy say "good women" are good cause they ugly, And I was like, well this is misleading, cause I've met attractive women who also have "good intentions"...
@kendrawilliams5703
@kendrawilliams5703 2 жыл бұрын
All Facts!!! Appreciate the realness!
@cindywebb9786
@cindywebb9786 2 жыл бұрын
Just like in the Matrix, unplug these Red Pill ideologists from the real world. Good riddance!
@Lala123Oh
@Lala123Oh 2 жыл бұрын
Soooo true…. Finally people get it… so relieving to know I’m not the only one who understands…♥️ Great videos i resonate with a lot of them as far as point of understanding. 🙏🏾
@TheLeviticalPrincess
@TheLeviticalPrincess Жыл бұрын
It’s only 2 dudes on KZfaq who keep it all the way💯 you and Philip Scott. Thank you
@lovelyladyleo9205
@lovelyladyleo9205 2 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed and sharing with all my friends... male and female. I need to hear something that speaks life.
@letmeseemm
@letmeseemm 2 ай бұрын
This aged like fine wine 🍷 you saw through the bs back then
@stephaniemurria5534
@stephaniemurria5534 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this commentary.
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 2 жыл бұрын
It’s all good bcuz it’s an opportunity for solitude and inner growth. Guys are doing just what they should do, namely, making nice decent women avoid them like the plague. Bcuz nice decent women aren’t the ones who broke their heart, but they still want something that they can’t get from the kind of women they prefer. Which is things like kindness and loyalty. Conservative women have these qualities but are not these guy’s type. So what the guys do is play them, knowing that these women won’t jack them up or be mean like their preferred types do. And the same ordeal they been thru, nice decent women goes thru with them. Playing women for kindness they don’t really deserve. So the guys are unscrupulous and it’s on good women to become aware and not let undeserving men touch them. They will only gaslight good women when they get one.
@rdouglas01
@rdouglas01 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking truth Shumake. The devil is very much in the mix.
@MSROCKEFELLA
@MSROCKEFELLA 11 ай бұрын
this video is a year ago but aligns with today and the girl that recently got hit with a brick crazyyyy
@perrykeshahwalker5321
@perrykeshahwalker5321 2 жыл бұрын
Bruh, you are a reformer. Let's start the movement.
@itsHappening-ry2ef
@itsHappening-ry2ef 2 жыл бұрын
They are very miserable 😮😮 and will end up depressed and some stay tuned 😮
@tawanamazyck84
@tawanamazyck84 2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why women are a target . I don't find jokes about women., or even women hating on another because she is being manipulated to by a man . Most of these men have daughters. Another question I have ,why dose anybody have the power to tell a grown woman that doesn't deserve a relationship.
@jennifer9797
@jennifer9797 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think MGTOW is anything new to black men in general. They've always gone their own way, done what they wanted to do regardless if they have "stuff" or not. We can see the effects of such a mind set also and the stats aren't good.
@kohlewitak
@kohlewitak 2 жыл бұрын
Would appreciate more spiritual & self development topics, peace
@chelsearosaya8661
@chelsearosaya8661 2 жыл бұрын
Very very well said! I don’t do religion. Spiritual never Religious. Every paster’s home (the church) is not always bless.
@poeticpriscilla6302
@poeticpriscilla6302 2 жыл бұрын
This world is getting worse and wicked!!! And you spoke nothing but true #facts
@IndigoWarriorAngel
@IndigoWarriorAngel 2 жыл бұрын
Amen Shumake, everyone needs a Bible and they need to start reading it, get to know God and follow God.
@bonnieoliver8461
@bonnieoliver8461 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing 👏 I don't know what else to say but thanks for sharing this juicy tip bit. I've shared your video. Walk in peace.
@xorayajb
@xorayajb 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s keep it real…red pill is popular due to the lack of fathers in the household in our community. This community is flooded with boys/men that had no one to really look up to. When Kobe died there was soo many men I know affected by it because they looked up to kobe as a father figure. Do you know how sad that is? Red pill is toxic. The intention in the beginning may have been good, but like all things when money is involved, it outweighs the overall message. People need to be honest. These channels have the numbers to prove that most men don’t want the accountability content; they want to be entertained. Also if men are really doing the work, let’s be real…they wouldn’t be on their phone constantly watching because from what I’ve learned you have to immerse yourself in the new skill, in your new routine, etc. this stuff derails you. This is why I love sports for boys because these coaches play such a big role for the boys that didn’t have fathers. Now ppl are giving boys content creators to watch smh. Stop getting brainwashed and go outside. Learn something. Take a walk. Travel. Get off social media. Meet real people. Join a club. These people on the internet are not your friends. At the end of the day you are a consumer. Your engagement pays them. Be engaged in your own life. Unplug for real human connection because this is not it. Also, men really need to do better. Your absence is what’s magnifying the problem. Red pill wouldn’t be needed if fathers were more present.
@minervasworld3476
@minervasworld3476 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your message. May you continue to be blessed.
@mslele2113
@mslele2113 2 жыл бұрын
Facts....new subscriber
@friday727
@friday727 2 жыл бұрын
Yes u are correct
@misclaudiarene6752
@misclaudiarene6752 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for calling MEN on their shit.... BUT , they have been coached by other men.
@amaj_lex
@amaj_lex 2 жыл бұрын
Ernie and Bert lmao
@PaperMario64
@PaperMario64 2 жыл бұрын
Lmbo! It’s funny, but it’s an insult to Bert and Ernie. They are actually worth listening to and learning from.
@reneedennis2011
@reneedennis2011 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video.!
@misclaudiarene6752
@misclaudiarene6752 2 жыл бұрын
ONCE AGAIN YOUR ON POINT.
@misswill8488
@misswill8488 Жыл бұрын
Very well said!
@robinnewton1061
@robinnewton1061 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!!!🙏🏾👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@suuchi6309
@suuchi6309 2 жыл бұрын
Given that the birth rate, marriage rate & sex rate are down I’d say their ideology isn’t useful to the collective that want those things but it seems like there are people who benefit from it financially
@jillianmcleod6912
@jillianmcleod6912 2 жыл бұрын
Yea say that! the real high value man and woman is the praying and fasting one cause if you can’t cast and rebuke these devils we are battling the money won’t stop the devil.
@misclaudiarene6752
@misclaudiarene6752 2 жыл бұрын
OMG,, THANK YOU...... men started the cycle and now LOOK am the women now!!!!!!
@dawnjones7303
@dawnjones7303 2 жыл бұрын
Well put.
@asj7732
@asj7732 2 жыл бұрын
Not Bert and Ernie 😂😂😂 this was a very truthful conversation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@kellymills8779
@kellymills8779 Жыл бұрын
Great content. ❤️👍🏿👍🏿
@toneswisdom168
@toneswisdom168 9 ай бұрын
Last thing ill say is that im a Christian as well. Dated a girl from church who was so involved in ministry she was pretty much the right hand of the pastor at her church. And she cheated on me with an ex before breaking up with me and if found out through her friend months after the breakup LOL so the redpill and shining light to the other side of it now of what the men go through. Im a Christian to this day and got rebaptized recently but the red pill is shining light to the realities of what all men go through. Christian men share a very common reality to non Christian men bro. Again some of their stuff is ridiculous tho
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