How to ask Great Questions (and Listen Actively) | Conor Neill from Montevideo, Uruguay

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Conor Neill

Conor Neill

Күн бұрын

How to ask great questions?
Fact, Opinions, Impact, Change
There are several good frameworks to structure your questions… one good framework is this one from RAIN sales. A longer explanation of their framework and approach to questions in the context of sales training is available in this pdf: Keys to Leading Masterful Sales Conversations (pdf from the RAIN group).
The 4 levels of Questions
The 4 levels of questions are listed and described below:
Facts - questions about what is basically true for us both and we can agree upon.
Opinions - questions about the other person’s opinion about the facts, the trends in the facts, what is important about the facts, what does it mean, who else is affected.
Impact - questions about the short, medium and long term impact if we do or do not take action. The secret to a good impact question? it has the word “impact” in it.
Change - questions about what it would be worth to achieve a change, what actions we are willing to commit to, what it would be worth to us if we could achieve a better future.
Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.
Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: / conorneill
Visit my channel for more videos: kzfaq.info...
Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.
What is Persuasion?
* What does it take to move people to action?
* What does it take to have impact when you communicate?
* How can I inspire the people around me to be the best version of themselves?
These are questions that I answer. I answer these questions with tools that work for politicians, business leaders, entrepreneurs and professors.
Where do I begin?
The Complete Guide to Personal Habits: 158 Positive Reflections in 7 Categories to Be The Best Version of Yourself bit.ly/1Z3baAz
10 Personal Habits of Resilient People bit.ly/2N0PqsQ
14 Things Highly Productive People Do Differently bit.ly/2MXWdU9
Simple Rules for Effective Meetings bit.ly/2N8A2KK
6 Ways to get your Email Ignored bit.ly/2MXWCpD
17 Daily personal habits for a fulfilling life bit.ly/2MXWM0d
Free Speaking Course bit.ly/speakpractice
Speak as a Leader is an email driven course. You will learn to deliver speeches that are interesting and lively so that you can capture and maintain your audience’s attention.

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@garo9954
@garo9954 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Conor, A few days ago I had to talk to a patient and her daughter explaining her that she will probably never walk again and had to use a wheel chair for the rest of her life. It wasn’t something that I enjoyed to do but somebody had to do it and most of all had to do it the right way. Your lessons and recommendations helped me a lot becoming a better discussion partner for my patients. Thanks a lot for your input and I wish you the best on your personal journey exploring life.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, that is an important message for me... thank you for sharing. This makes all these videos seem like it really is worth it to create and share regularly. Thank you.
@JOSEMORAGAARRANZ
@JOSEMORAGAARRANZ 2 жыл бұрын
Very peaceful those birds as background sound
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
and it really does sound like that in the classroom! the windows open and the trees are full of birds ;-)
@susanna305
@susanna305 2 жыл бұрын
So grateful I found your videos on TikTok. I will send it to my youngest daughter who have started a network in University in landmanagement and who will hold her first seminar tomorrow.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@NishantChoudharyJi
@NishantChoudharyJi 5 ай бұрын
You always inspire all the human being from your great skills and wisdom
@visitesenalsaceleilakopff2727
@visitesenalsaceleilakopff2727 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! When I go through small challenges, your video always come on KZfaq. How amazing is that. Keep well and thank you for sharing!
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
I am glad that youtube thinks highly of my ability to be helpful in moments of challenge ;-)
@abdoubcf5114
@abdoubcf5114 2 жыл бұрын
Big big thanks to you Conor Neill for your sharing ,God bless you ,love and support from Algeria
@nazrulabuzhar2210
@nazrulabuzhar2210 2 жыл бұрын
Love the content, sir! from Malaysia
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Kind words, thank you
@gvingmobil3613
@gvingmobil3613 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@digitallawnavigator
@digitallawnavigator 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your great videos.
@ranaalotaybi749
@ranaalotaybi749 2 жыл бұрын
شكرا جزيلا ، نصائحكم الرائعة ساعدتني كثيرا وبخاصة في مجال العمل ، كل الشكر والتقدير ...
@ahtharalimuhamedhilmy8940
@ahtharalimuhamedhilmy8940 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Conor I always listen your advice
@richarddasselaar
@richarddasselaar 2 жыл бұрын
Really good! Thank you.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Richard - hope to travel to Amsterdam in the near future!
@lonelywanderer7188
@lonelywanderer7188 2 жыл бұрын
Liked and commenting even before it begins
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
I saw that! thank you Lonely Wanderer!
@marcberthoudmercier743
@marcberthoudmercier743 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent insight just before starting a challenging meeting! Thanks a lot
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@AvBia
@AvBia 2 жыл бұрын
Great insight. Very helpful. Thank you.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Kind words, thank you ;-)
@AHMED-kd2op
@AHMED-kd2op 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Dr See you soon
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for joining the live premiere Ahmed - have a great day
@thebigmora
@thebigmora 2 жыл бұрын
great topic with our fabulous speaker Conor.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Kind words, thank you 🙏
@dn18vn
@dn18vn 2 жыл бұрын
love this
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ;-)
@alfonsos5446
@alfonsos5446 2 жыл бұрын
Great content 🙌🏻from Monterrey, Mexico
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Buenos días Monterrey!
@AbdulBasithaba
@AbdulBasithaba 2 жыл бұрын
Great insights & always excited to wait and learn something from you. This time, you really made an impact on me in knowing how important it is about how to ask great questions and the technique of 1. Fact, 2. Opinion, 3. Impact, 5. Change. Thanks a lot Conor for bringing this to our attention from Rain Sales.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
👍🏻
@wycliffowino3917
@wycliffowino3917 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing from Kenya
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Kenya in the house ;-)
@pabloleivafernandez1593
@pabloleivafernandez1593 2 жыл бұрын
W-A-I-T .. got it Masta!
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
You nailed it!
@Danlucco
@Danlucco 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Conor, I would to read this book that you mentioned. The title is Rain Sales? Thank you for sharing this important message.
@mwalimuobubatv5695
@mwalimuobubatv5695 2 жыл бұрын
When will you have zoom conference I will love to attend one
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
Nice idea... how could we set this up?
@mwalimuobubatv5695
@mwalimuobubatv5695 2 жыл бұрын
@@ConorNeill just hit my email with the link the day you do such conference I love it so much
@pljplj8716
@pljplj8716 2 жыл бұрын
W.A.I.T. = why am I talking ? Thanks for this I’m going to keep this top of mind when there is awkward pause at my next meeting
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
;-) it is a powerful reflection
@ahmadmisto
@ahmadmisto Жыл бұрын
Great video as usual. I think this is SPIN selling in your own words and perspective. Don't you agree?
@ricardotorres6993
@ricardotorres6993 2 жыл бұрын
I would like to attend a least one of your conferences here in Montvideo. How can i do that ? I am not part of IM School, but I have been following your videos for a long time.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
I'm back in Barcelona, but will be back next year. IEEM always run one or two sessions with me for future students - so that would be a good chance to come and join.
@sergiorodrigues6694
@sergiorodrigues6694 2 жыл бұрын
I noticed you didn't use the word WHY..That's because it sounds inquisitive, implies a judgment and my put someone into a defensive state?
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
you got it!
@ranaalotaybi749
@ranaalotaybi749 2 жыл бұрын
أرجو إضافة خيار الترجمة إلى اللغة العربية، مع الشكر ...
@justinlucas2515
@justinlucas2515 2 жыл бұрын
Rain sales book title does not exist.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 жыл бұрын
The website for the rain sales group is here www.rainsalestraining.com/
@justinlucas2515
@justinlucas2515 2 жыл бұрын
Ah. Thanks for the clarification.
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