I've lived my whole life hearing people tell me I need to "raise my voice". This video is helpful :)

Video ideas: 1. Dating etiquette 2. Business meetings etiquette 3. Meeting someone for the first time (introducing yourself, shaking hands etc.) 💕

Soothing and calming voice : the highest form of etiquette.

Do one about interviews: 1. What to wear: shoes, hairstyles, bags, etc. 2. How to speak 3. Body language You know the drill. Love you so much!

I need to stop cursing after every word first

I'd love to watch videos on: 1. How to dress 2. How to look confident in every situation 3. How to speak confidently when you're nervous 4. How to make small talks 5. How to make conversation with someone you don't have much common with 6. What to talk about when you accidentally bump into some old friend 7. How to walk properly 8. How to greet your guests 9. How to behave properly when you're a guest 10. How to NOT look rude

Video summary (starts at 5.12) ⏩ What affects the sound of our voice: 1. Pitch: women have a higher pitch as compared to men. 2. Volume: men have louder voices as compared to women. 3. Culture and upbringing. 4. Tone and rhythm. Control and use it the right way. Monotone is boring. ⏩ Tips: 1. Breathe. Fill your lungs with enough air before and while speaking. 2. Take pauses while you speak. They help the listener understand your message better and act as full stops to your sentences. 3. Don't speak too fast or too slow. 4. Have a straight posture while speaking as it allows air to enter your vocal cords more easily. 5. Sip water to hydrate the vocal cords throughout your speech. 6. Raise your voice, when necessary. If you want to draw attention, lower your voice. If you want to be heard by those at the back, raise your voice. 7. Enunciation is important. It's different from pronounciation. 8. Record yourself speaking. Avoid video filming as it may distract you from your actual voice.

I love you content, I also really like your soft pitched voice. Because I'm very sensitive to sounds, sometimes I click on a video but I really can't keep watching it because of the person's voice. But yours is soooo soothing.

Confidence comes from doing something you're not good at ✨ Thank you so much for sharing that story. Just gets to show that if you practise anything is possible. I used to have a terrible fear of public speaking and also doing videos. But the more I do it the easier it gets. Loved this video 😊

Since we are moving to phase of virtual meetings/webinars, please make a video on Video Conferencing etiquettes? Points like- -things to remember if you are taking meeting from home, - how much camera frame should cover - something to note if you are hosting the conference

Jamila, please do hair etiquettes. Maybe styles or something too

5:12 still i would recomend u to see from start but time is important so here u go

I am much louder when I speak and that was the problem I always get irritated of. always I think about to change it but I can't. You know when I get more interested on a conversation I automatically become louder and after that I get embarrassed of that. After seeing your videos I understood how much pretty and amazing is when people speak very calmly & slowly.I love the way you speak, you smile and everything. God Bless You & Hoping for more videos.❤❤ Much love from Kerala(India).🙏❤

I understand completely when you speak of "projecting" your voice. My mother always told my sister and me that, "Ladies do not speak loudly". But she never said anything about laughing. Hence, I speak softly and I laugh quite loudly! 😁

omg I have the same problem I can't speak loud enough ... and if I do speak loudly for even an hour I loss my voice😊 thanks god am not alone 😂 and BTW thank you for your courage to film this video because we human cant be perfect in every thing and that what makes us unique 💕✨

I would love a video about table manners: correctly setting a table, how to use the appropiate spoon for each course that requires it, not to make noises when chewing... those kind of things.

It would be really nice if you had a podcast...your voice is honestly so soothing

I'm 16yrs old Whenever I'm angry, depressed,sad I listen your voice it's best relief

I'm in love with your videos! You're so intelligent and sweet. I've been studying etiquette on my own for the past 7 months, and you're one of the few consultants that don't sound judgemental or pretentious when speaking about elegance. Thank you so much for that! Kisses from Brazil 💕

I'm so grateful for your content, dear. "Accent + speed = disaster". I totally agree. I'm a native French speaker and every time I tend to speed when speaking in English it's a bit not elegant. Thanks a lot for your advices. 🌱🌱🌱

Your intention of teaching can be seen. You are teaching with all of your heart. I love this about you, you are being honest. You are teaching honestly. Would love to learn more from you. And above all, proud of you, and loving you with my heart and grateful ofcourse as you are helping me groom my self. Thank You ❤️

I love your videos! Could you do a video on car etiquette? Like how to enter and exit a vehicle in a more proper way. I feel like I lack the grace in that area and don't know how to fix that.

Jamila your full of etiquette. The way your eyes moves , soft voice and happy gesture. I can listen all day. no need to speak 😅 Your best teacher... I am sure one day I be turn into a gentlemen under your Jamila channel. Thank you for awesome Channel. Have Good Day/ Night Mam 😊🌺

Your voice is so relaxing ♥️

Aaww, i Fell in love with you because of your voice and style of speaking, i love to hear you all day. Lots of love Jamila. Nighat

Today I realize that the thing I have been doing wrong all these years is "tone". I'm a very sensitive emotional person and become really expressive while speaking. I will really try to sound amicable and control my tone. Thankyou jamila ❤ love from Pakistan🇵🇰❤

I think speaking clearly and enunciating each word, and not using too much slang is just as important as our volume and tone. I know someone who is very elegant except for one thing. She uses slang, and doesn't enunciate her words well (such as saying "wanna", instead of want to, or "gonna", instead of going to), which instantly brings her elegance level (and credibility) down a few notches. Perhaps I will share this video with her. Thank you for sharing your great tips!

Thank you so much for all these videos. I learn new things with every one I watch. You are truly a great teacher.

Honestly, I am so grateful to you for all your guidance through your videos ❤️.

These lady etiquettes does not go unnoticed. Subscribed and Listening.

Jamila I feel so empowered by your videos, thank you.

Thank you so much for this amazing video Jamila. Your content is really helpful! Keep it up 💕

Every point mentioned was super helpful and thought provoking, it definitely makes sense how this cud help improve us

You radiate so much of positivity. So calming and relaxing your voice is.. i am learning from you❤️❤️ thankyou for your contribution to make us better!

love your voice, it is so soothing! Lovely to listen to. 🥰

It is truly a delight watching you Jamila. Thank you for sharing your grace and pleasance with us. So glad I found your channel :)

"Thank you Jamila for sharing about the soft skill. Its relate with my job & help me improving my skills." 👍

So spot on! I really enjoy listening to your voice and the information your imparting 🥰

Thank you so much for this video! ❣️ I have read a lot of articles but this helped me (perhaps helpful for all of those who watched for sure) to be a better speaker!😊 I want you to know that (not bragging) I didn't use my headphones and you sounded quite soft and your voice is so low that I volumed to the limit and it didn't cross my room even when it was almost midnight and nobody was annoyed😂💝

finally, most awaited. thank you for making this video :)

Jamila!!! This video came at the perfect time for me because I have a big virtual event this weekend. Thank you so much. You are incredible! I wish you were my mentor ❤

Loved ❤️ this video! Thank you for taking the time to make this :) I'd love to see you talk about, how to give a good presentation and the aftermath, answering the questions the audience may have. Much love!

I feel so calm when you speak. So glad you made this video!

This channel has quickly become one of my favourites. Thank you so much for sharing so much, I always learn a lot ❤

💕🦋🦋♥️🌸🌸Thankyou! Elegance is a strong word that not all people have and some things cannot CANNOT BE REPLACED WITH MONEY OR WORDS!! You learn that as you grow. 💕♥️♥️🦋🌸🌸

Hello!! I start watching your videos from the past few days😄 And glad to see you teaching about these things in so brief and in an easy way which I always wanted to learn.✨✨ Thank you so very much, dear! I truly appreciate your work!💯❤ Thank you again with all my heart😊😊

Jamila , i love your voice and i really want to thank you for these tips you gave . All of these have been coming handy and i really cant thank you enough. Lots of love💓

As expected, I always learn something new whenever I watch your videos. I have to admit, some of these I already know but a lot of the times I completely neglect doing them. Your videos always serve as a good reminder and are really helping a lot of us rebuild our foundations ♥️ Thank you, Jamila

wow, ma'am every lecture of you add much value to us. You happily share many important tips to us. Very professionally you speak without hurting others and also by not giving fraud information, Very useful what you say. Kindly do more videos on public speaking if possible . Always great thank you .

I like you. I watched a few videos and showed my little daughter the walk and sit etiquette. We enjoyed them. The blooper video also 😄

I started watching your videos just 2 days before and I must say that your content is really helpful. Thanks a lot.

I spend my whole day just on watching ur videos!😍❤️🙏🙏

Jamila, you’re just awesome! Totally an inspiration to me. The way you speak, the way you dress, the way you address things, in short I love all the things about you. I can listen to you all day long. Thank you so much for making this video. ❤️☺️

i swear everything you say sound so interesting, like you really have the gift of comunication!! you're amazing!

Finally this is the video I was waiting for ❤

Thank you so much for an informative guide towards being a good speaker. God bless you.

Thank you very much Madame. I love your teachings 💕

Thank you for your videos,your voice is a beautiful gift.

Fantastic presentation! I'm glad that you discussed the issue with annunciation. I deal with customers that need to watch your video. Thank you again for your valuable tips.

Pls keep on posting daily or at least twice a week we need this content....

Thank you for sharing about the struggles and how you are working to overcome. Your voice is quite lovely. I find it very elegant and refined.

Thank you! You're such a nice person sharing your knowledge and experiences with us. . Your viceos are very useful and informative. I like your sweet voice🙌🌹

Much needed content maam, thankyou so much🙏

You should have a podcast You’re voice is so soothing

Thank you for the Video Jamila. I have take notes and I will implement the tips. Congratulations for the great work, it is helping me a lot in so many areas of my life. Greetings.

Her smile is so contagious

Thank you very much for this video! You always present very interesting Content and I'm happy when I see a notification! :) The point that I found the most interesting is that we have a cultural difference in Volume in Speech.

You have a nice tone of voice..🥰i love the way you speak..This video is really helpful..thumbs up!👍

This is my favourite video among all of your videos on your channel. Very professional informative, also love the examples that you made, e.g. Margaret Sacher. Please keep going at this direction and similar topics.

I'm a new subscriber and in love with your content! You are sharing very valuable information in such a classy and sweet manner, thank you for all what you are doing! Sending you lots of love and gratitude

I really like your video, this is absolutely useful! I am a very shy person and tend to speak softly in front of people, usually presenting a speech/ PowerPoint. I also tend to blush and speak with "emm" continuously as I'm not so confident of myself. Many teachers comment that they can't hear my voice when I'm talking but I actually thought that I spoke loud enough but not to others. With this video, I hope I can be more confident to speak loudly and powerfully.

You’re speaking so beautifully ♥️♥️And I see a real lady through you♥️♥️♥️

I absolutely LOVE your voice! Its sooo relaxing. The perfect pitch and pace for me! Its so funny how some things that seem like failures in life turn out to be the greatest asset. Your voice is definitely something that sticks out in the Greatest way! Its very feminine and lady like!

I was waiting for this video. I'm your new subscriber and I'm learning a lot from you. Thank you Jamila❤️

The first feature of your videos to catch my atention and keep me watching was precisely your voice. It's kind, pacient and has a good volume. Thank you for your hard work and your kindness.

Great lesson. Really we need it. Thank you very much.

I discontinued drinking coffee because i always felt that it didn't help at all throughout the day,but thank you so much because now i know why water helps more.

I love your voice, it is so soothing! Lovely to listen to. 🥰

very informative! Thank you for posting these kinds of videos. It is helping me improve into a better person.

Hello, I recently discovered your videos and they are super helpful ! Thank you for your content.

Very helpful video. I love it, and your way of speaking is very beautiful and respectful.

dear Jamila, frankly i say you are very gogerous. of course you give knowledge it is very important . i like ypur videos . they help me very very much .....

Love your videos ❤️❤️ I am learning so many new things!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thanks so much 😊😊

Every video of yours is inspiring. Thanks so much for the video. 😊

Your work is so helpful. Thank you for everything.

It's good to know that breathing is so important for speaking as it's for singing. I like that people have their own voice and you can recognise it.

OMG! I never thought my request for this video would be granted so soon. You are the best ❤️❤️❤️

Cheers from Bulgaria, dear Jamila! I've just stumbled upon your channel and love the presentation, advice and charisma you give off. Wishing you lots of success! An idea for a possible video: the etiquette of giving and receiving gifts, especially with the Christmas season coming for many people. Of course, it could just be about gifts for people who are our business partners, colleagues, etc. I know that some objects and colours vary across cultures. All the best!🌹

Clear and refined presentation. Thank you.

I love her speaking , I feel relax and want to listen

Thank you for those very interesting advices!

Thanks for all your delightful tips 🌺🙏🏽 I think, another thing I will add is to look our audience in the eyes (without staring), a little like you do in your videos. When we're stressed, or too much in our heads (and trust me, I know), we tend to look away because we're thinking at the same time and not fully mindful of our interlocutor. So, yeah, I would add, finding a way to connect with the audience, through smiling and eye contact is a great way to go. Sometimes, our presentation would be average, but because our presence and level of "intimacy" with people was on point, people will remember us as very interesting and relatable.

Thanks for the good feedback on good public speaking! So informative!

Thank you so much ...❤️✨ it is so useful for me as I am not confident to talk in public ... thank you once again ✨

thank you very much. i really appropriate your videos and look forward to more of your content. 🌻

I geniully like some of tips and write down on sticky notes and pin over everywhere ...so that i can see and follow reguarly during mirror practice....thanku sweetheart😘

Thank you so much for this wonderful video 💖

You are the gem 💎 Jamila . I love you so much , you are my role model ❤️ waiting for 10million subscribers soon ❤️ God bless you 💕

I just stumbled upon in this channel. This is good for self improvement.

I need this 😌