How To Be a SOFTER WOMAN *without losing who you are*

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How To Be a SOFTER WOMAN without losing who you are

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When you’re trying to learn how to activate your feminine energy and how to be more feminine, you need to tap into your inner softness. We all have it - and you don’t need to change who you are to bring it out. So if you want to know how to be a softer woman and how to live a soft life, these tips are for you!
Your divine feminine energy is very magnetic, and your softness can be your strength. Learning how to be softer as a woman will not make you weak - it can actually make you feel more powerful!
I hope you enjoy this video! ❤️
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CHAPTERS:
0:00 How to Be a Softer Woman
0:25 Reminder about feminine energy + softness
1:27 Which woman are you? (and why I’m bringing this up lol)
3:03 Tip #1
4:22 Tip #2
5:51 Tip #3
7:05 Tip #4
7:52 Tip #5
8:53 Tip #6
9:52 Tip #7
10:46 Tip #8
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@ZapatosVibes 2 жыл бұрын

Strangely enough, as a man, listening to your videos inspires me to be a better, more masculine man to be a match to that feminine energy.

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Aw this comment made me so happy 😊

@samyal8r 2 жыл бұрын

This brings me joy

@laurenw1168 2 жыл бұрын

That's amazing ❤️

@christine5684 2 жыл бұрын

I love this!

@magda9062 Жыл бұрын

That's so awesome!

@rimaaouadi9092 2 жыл бұрын

Finally a channel about femininity that doesn't make me feel so uncomfortable, i always wanted to be a soft woman but people talking about it always made it seem like being weak and submissive and always meek and sheepish and sometimes even dumb and that's just not who i am, love your channel and your content so much

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Ah well I’m so glad you found me!! 🥰🥰

@JyoSco007 Жыл бұрын

Agree with you. Millions of people (more men and few women) are asking women to become feminine (=submissive, surrendering, cheering only her husband, being a housewife and doing all the household chores and not expecting the man to do anything because he's "providing, etc etc etc).....and their asking or preaching is so imposing on the women...I hate them.

@evb1601 Жыл бұрын

I agree ~

@Himmiefan 3 ай бұрын

I totally agree. Conservative religion really made femininity a liability. This channel has really helped me heal and appreciate my femininity. You can be equal and feminine at the same time.

@ivanarudolf3656 Жыл бұрын

I haven't had a mother figure in my life. I used to be afraid of femininity because it was foreign to me. But through your videos femininity radiates warmly and Jilian, because of you, I'm bravely embracing it.

@brittanyperez2559 Жыл бұрын

I struggled as well. I had a mother but I didn't live with yet full time. I really struggle with being feminine, motherhood and what both look like to me

@TR-nh7xf 2 жыл бұрын

This is another great video. I struggle with aggression. I have more masculine than feminine energy. I really would like to be more soft and feminine, but I have behaved this way for so long, change is hard, but I am working on it.

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it 💜💜

@mahaultpons 2 жыл бұрын

Yeeees I feel you! Same struggle. Things that helped me recently were slowing down my movements, toning down my voice, and LOTS of self-care

@spacebar9733 2 жыл бұрын

I'm trying to give genuine advice and i know this is easier said than done, but after I watched Mean Girls I started channeling my aggression into volleyball, life changer. Maybe you can find a gym or just go on a run a few times a week to help. Best of luck, I hope you find something that works for you !!

@TR-nh7xf 2 жыл бұрын

@@spacebar9733 I have tried both, but am not consistent. I'm working on that too, but thanks for the advice.

@laurenw1168 2 жыл бұрын

Same. I have to work so hard to tone down my aggression so that I don't use it on my kids because it's usually my first instinct for everything in my life. I'm doing better than I used to but it still sneaks out sometimes.

@heaven-leeneville3156 2 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed, the soft life is the life for me. Feminity in it's healed and pure state is a woman's silent but blaring strength. She is empowered to express it. Thnx a ton, Jillz! Bless✨

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

@evb1601 Жыл бұрын

"Feminity in it's healed and pure state is a woman's silent but blaring strength". Yes!

@magda9062 Жыл бұрын

Alright I have to say this, START A PODCAST I wanna be able to listen to you in a walk, long drives, on my way to school

@Heather_Phillips Жыл бұрын

I second this!

@scottlandon4149 Ай бұрын

Yes! I was thinking the same!

@dewshine3359 Жыл бұрын

I live with my mom, sis and grandma. So we are like 4 women living together without a man. Sometimes the going gets tough because of this and i find myself becoming more aggressive and masculine to compensate the lack of men in our family. But everytime i behave more aggressive and manly, i feel out of alignment with who i am. Your videos are helping me get in touch with myself and being soft and feminine and not having to constantly fight to be seen and to prove myself. Thankyou from the bottom of my heart, Jillz🙏❤

@sydneycamille1932 4 ай бұрын

Sometimes when I’m listening to you I just cry… not because I’m sad! You’re just so beautiful and radiate so much love! Thank you for being you 🤍

@justinegreen7509 2 жыл бұрын

I love being a woman. It is an enchantment all its own. I can use my femininity to both create and destroy. I choose to use my feminine wiles for good, but I am very much aware of the ability to use it otherwise. I would say I have a healthy respect for the darkness and shadow aspects of my femininity, but I intend towards the light and softness. It is a strength all its own. A quiet, cozy, smoldering blaze... But it burns all the same, no?

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Love the way you worded this 💕

@evb1601 Жыл бұрын

Beautifully said ~

@SweetCicely Жыл бұрын

Walking away or being silent by not responding to negativity/negative people is a soft energy that is a powerful strength💥

@lasantuzza777 2 жыл бұрын

i’m definitely hot and cool and the example you gave was perfect! i’m sicilian and i noticed most mediterranean and latin women are like that perfect blend of hot and cool. very sensual, confident, passionate and opinionated yet at the same time extremely nurturing, soft, and motherly. something ab the culture allows women to love and embrace their nature and express it very freely i’ve always been grateful for that its just that pure venus energy that makes men go wild lol. you gotta have heat to you or you will be seen as weak and bland. but if you don’t have any coolness, you will be seen as a liability. i think like you mentioned about mother nature it’s important to have both and that makes an ideal man or woman imo

@Kathyfili 2 жыл бұрын

definitely a hot woman, and i came into a point in my life where i realized I need to be more soft and in my feminine energy. which is what led me to your videos a month back. so wonderfully said, as always thank you for the content! ☺️ always make my sundays.

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Aw yay so glad!! 💕

@Astro_molldoll 2 жыл бұрын

Same with me!

@alyfink Жыл бұрын

The example of the hot and cold woman made so much sense!

@tanningandtarot 2 жыл бұрын

Slowing down your movements is the best advice. It does work, 100%

@IM-uh5tk 2 жыл бұрын

3:10 start being soft towards yourself 4:32 let down your defences 5:56 embrace vulnerability 7:08 slow down 8:20 soften your body

@joanagoncalo3935 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely cold woman. I love the way you introduce the subject by bringing in the vast expansion of what a woman is. This video is more than amazing!! Thank you so much 💙🌸✨

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

So glad you liked it!! 💖

@moonraccoonkatyafedotova2277 2 жыл бұрын

I like your videos so much! 😊It's exactly what I need because I am not familiar with my feminine energy. When I was a little girl, my dad left my mom and wanted to take my brother with him. He said that he didn't need a daughter, he always wanted to have a son. And my mom always told me that boys are smarter and better than girls in so many ways. I even thought that I am a transgender and want to be a boy because of that! Because I was so afraid to be rejected because I am a girl. And it made me didn't want to become a woman. I wasted so much time trying to prove to my mom that I am smart enough by competing with guys and showing that I can do the same. Now I am a grown woman but people still think I am a teen because I am not in harmony with my feminine energy. And I finally feel that it's time for me to heal my childhood trauma and not be afraid to wake my feminine energy up. Your videos helping me a lot! Thank you!

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

So glad they’re helping you!! 💙

@teruhashi6705 2 жыл бұрын

im hoping the best for you and i hate your dad for being the worst human ever.

@moonraccoonkatyafedotova2277 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Things gets so much better in my life now. I accepted myself as a woman, I am not afraid to be feminine now and happy with myself. My Dad was not a good dad for sure. But I look for a good side of everything. Thanks to that difficult experience I came to my true nature from denying who I am at first. It helped me to become a very deep feeling & thinking, accepting and not judgmental person, and it attracted to me many wonderful people from other countries and I very happy about it. In my country it's very common for dads be not care of their kids and men here often has a very low emotional intelligence.

@justinegreen7509 2 жыл бұрын

Clark Kegley, and Crappy Childhood Fairy are both KZfaqrs that have helped me through something similar to what you describe. and Read "the untethered soul"

@moonraccoonkatyafedotova2277 2 жыл бұрын

@@justinegreen7509 Thank you very much! I will check those KZfaq channels and the book.

@lovellytshotshi345 2 жыл бұрын

I thought i was a "Hot" woman until you said "Usually extroverted" 😅 Definitely not that but i am more passionate, even explosive about my feelings. Sometimes i'm too aggressive with my words that it comes out harsh. I'm working on chilling and mellowing out. It all starts with being self aware and actively working on being softer from the inside out. Thank you Jillz, i was actually avoiding this video because i thought i never wanted to be the "Soft" woman. So i'm soooo happy you pointed out that you don't always have to be soft nor is it an entire personality, just a small trait that comes out in a few situations 🤍

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I think so many women resist this idea of being soft because it almost sounds like being boring or a pushover or weak. But it’s so much more than that 💕💕

@claudiaamaro7215 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad to have come across your videos I think growing up and going through so much we forget our softer side and we have been thought to act tough and we do tend to forget Thank you for the tips

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely agree! 💕

@johnsonjo8454 Жыл бұрын

@@JillzGuerin beautiful💋💋💋

@evb1601 Жыл бұрын

Jillz ~ you are sharing things in a way that really brings it home to me. I am 68 and have been quite 'hard' my whole life, mostly as a means of survival. Your other video about reinventing myself and this one have given me so much inspiration! May you be abundantly blessed for your sharing of these beautiful concepts.

@laurenw1168 2 жыл бұрын

The critical comment hit me hard. I'm so so critical of myself and have always been such a perfectionist. While it gives me an awesome work ethic, it makes it impossible to live up to my own expectations. I've been working on that so I don't put unrealistic expectations on my kids, husband, and friends and family. I also constantly preach to the girls that I mentor to give themselves grace, but I have a hard time doing that myself. I guess I have a hard time reeling it back because I don't want to go so far that I become lazy and apathetic towards things, so it's been hard to find the happy medium where I'm allowed to set goals and have standards, but don't allow them to define me as a failure and maybe learn how to adjust them when it's needed.

@aphroditerr 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate how these tips cater to everyone bcs most femininity tips I encounter always suggest changing a part of who I am or how I act so this was refreshing!! Thanks for the great vid 💕

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

💕

@rs624 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy I found your channel. The quality and work you have put into this is so very much appreciated. I'm on this internal journey fighting these damaging ideas that femininity, humility and vulnerability is a sign of weakness. The pressure that is placed on us to perform and conform to masculine ways can feel almost strangling, so your words truly feels like a breath of fresh air. My heart feels lighter already. Thank you so much!

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Aw I’m so happy you found me too!!! ❤️❤️

@justlisa2924 2 жыл бұрын

Auch a good Video thank you!! I know I’m in my masculine energy because I’m very critical and harsh with myself and this way naturally hardened. I feel like everything is my responsibility… I hope I can turn my internal self around.

@JillzGuerin Жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it!! ❤️❤️

@astromama8193 Жыл бұрын

I love you jillz. My feminine energy heals in real time as I watch your videos. I can literally apply everything you’re saying to my life and that’s very rare for me. Thank you for sharing your journey and to the angelic beings behind your beautiful testimonies. I just started following and I already feel like the woman I need to always be. You know, this energy is so complex sometimes and I’ve felt myself rushing through it most, if not my whole life. Feeling uncomfortable with it even, when I should definitely feel more uncomfortable in the opposite energy but it became a norm. Most of my astrological energies are masculine lol, my mother and older sister (the only women I had growing up to be an allegory of femininity) seemed to be so in their masculine. So I honestly didn’t see the use in or why I should even like pour more into my feminine nature. Im extremely goal oriented; a mix between hot and cool. This feels invigorating. It’s crazy now it seems weird to be so hard and on fuckin edge 😂 I definitely rather be soft and in control of my inner world. The other way around.. I can be so nervous, angry, and honestly just those two drive me crazy; it interrupts and clouds my inner soft dialogue. Then somehow turns it into monologues of me talking myself out of this state which sinks me deeper so to say. 😂 it’s been a tough ride and I’m just happy to see beautiful women like yourself during the quest. Thanks again queen 💚

@estelleleroux5868 2 жыл бұрын

Completely a cool woman. I get a lot of comments about how people feel calm in my presence.

@jmd4253 2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t know how much I needed this video. Thank you Jillz!

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@alyfink Жыл бұрын

Same!

@johannaphillips9511 2 ай бұрын

Jillz I love all your videos❤ You are wise beyond your years, and so inspiring. Thank you for being you and sharing your light xxx

@samyal8r 2 жыл бұрын

The resistance part though! It’s the root of all my anxiety

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

I hear ya on that one! ❤️

@vedikajoshi1410 2 жыл бұрын

Such a wonderful video! I can totally relate to feeling as if everyone is constantly trying to put me down, or come at me.. it makes being laid back so much harder! Thank you, Jills 😊❤️

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

@capricorntarot123 2 жыл бұрын

Everyone should just balance masculine and feminine energy in themselves.

@andv993 6 ай бұрын

Not really. I think it depends on what your natural inclinations are, but if you are a naturally feminine woman, being more masculine will not be what males you happy. Of course you will need to be more masculine frok time to time, because life is like that, but the goal shouldnt be to develop the masculine energy, but tu improve upon your strengths

@Toekneeann 2 ай бұрын

Yess I love watching your videos because you are more soft and a lot of women making feminine energy videos are more fiery and thats not my jam haha I want a nice mix of both but leaning more towards soft.

@joudisall6474 2 жыл бұрын

this color looks stunning on you !

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Ah thank you! 💕

@krystinehamre7851 Жыл бұрын

I would say I’m quite a balance of both firey and cold. Thanks to videos like these I have learned to be a softer woman ❤️

@francescamason7680 8 ай бұрын

Ugh!! This video is amazing and so helpful! So glad I found your channel!! I really love all the tips and wisdom you had to say!

@dianacrainiciuc8440 Жыл бұрын

You are definitely a woman who has a soothing and calming effect on others. When I watch your videos, I feel reassurance, calm and peace. I too am a calm woman.

@alyfink Жыл бұрын

Haven’t even watched yet but I NEEDED this topic!!

@OsiyoTemple 2 жыл бұрын

You’re radiant ☀️ Thank you so much for the content you create. 🙏 🌸 I think I’m more hot but can be cool too depending on the situation.

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Ah thank you!! 💕💕

@MrsKFord222 9 ай бұрын

This is the second video I watched of yours. Just these words as a concept used to make to make my whole body recoil. The way you share about this is so warm…I sincerely thank you. ❤

@kpsalm Жыл бұрын

I struggle with defensiveness and needing to be understood/ prove Myself

@haniyehnabi7011 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this topic😘

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

@vaambond2570 8 ай бұрын

Iam both. Fire and cool. Depends on situation.😃🙏

@rosasellers1813 2 жыл бұрын

I only get hot when I feel unsafe or in a trauma response but my baseline is cool

@mrk1ttyzx Жыл бұрын

Im both, i love helping people but i also can get hot headed

@angiemashi21 2 жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this so much. Thank you!

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@arlenaholmes 2 жыл бұрын

This was a great video. I've listened to it several times!

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Aw so glad you liked it! ❤️

@miel6812 2 жыл бұрын

Your hair is so beautiful! Drop the hair care routine please🤍🙏🏻

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! 🥰

@user-et8iv8wt2z 10 ай бұрын

I love the way😂you bring your Self love out of you,, when you explain for us to understand relationship nice work Jill. Stevens

@MsButterbaby 7 ай бұрын

I love this channel.. I played basketball all my life & watch at least one of your videos everyday & I appreciate you so much for helping me relax & soften myself. Thank you 😊

@LuvMaude Жыл бұрын

Love your videos ♥ Appreciate the knowledge being shared 😊💖

@anushilaghosh7844 2 жыл бұрын

Can you do a video about body types and describe which colour palette goes with which body type. I want to know about it in detail 💜 love you ✨.

@lenaandi8351 Жыл бұрын

You are beautiful. Thank you for existing.

@allisonrios5913 Жыл бұрын

Im naturally a soft woman and need to learn to be more confident

@rebeccapaiva5999 2 жыл бұрын

Greetings from Brazil! Just found your channel and it’s awesome. Thank you 😊

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

So glad you found me!! 🥰

@kaitlananderson4302 Жыл бұрын

A video explaining the the basics of what feminine energy is, also versus masculine energy, would be very helpful. Like if the masculine energy is doing and the feminine energy is being...then what do I actually "DO" if I'm just supposed to be "being lol.

@AchemySoul 4 ай бұрын

Tip #8 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 I love your content Jillz, im going back to the beginning lol

@maix139 Жыл бұрын

I think I am both? I am soft and calm but I like to encourage and compliment people which makes them fire up haha I listen more and ask questions more and it makes people talk more and express themself. I just throw in some comments here and there.

@EleventeenEleventy Жыл бұрын

You make it sound so easy.

@imanijx 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this!!! Thank you :-)

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

💕💕

@Jak_powiedziec_po_niemiecku 9 ай бұрын

I needed this video in this moment so much ❤

@melanieh.3137 2 жыл бұрын

Jillz that thumbnail!! 🔥💫💓⚡️🔥💖

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Ahhh thank you!!! I really liked it too 🥰🥰

@caror0 Жыл бұрын

I love you so much.this video is life changing. Thank you so much!

@katherine_art05 Жыл бұрын

I need it! Thank you. I love it.

@sultanaxavier7108 2 жыл бұрын

love your videos! one question: is it possible for a woman to be lacking masculine energy? is there anything as too much feminine? would love a video on the topic! ❤️

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Yes definitely! I’m hoping to do a video on this eventually! 💕

@DeograciaYolanda 2 жыл бұрын

Is KZfaq reading my mind and my heart..even my life? Your Channel suddenly popped up and I clicked it and....every video from you is giving me slap in the face...wow

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Haha so glad you found me!! I hope my videos are helpful for you!! ❤️❤️

@sallytemraz8614 2 жыл бұрын

I loved all the tips! Very well put.

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! So glad! 💕

@catrocastre8215 6 ай бұрын

Hey, could you do a video about Femininity in the work place? I hate feeling harsh, rough and uncomfortable in my own skin just to be able to set my boundaries. 😢

@christiewilliams3558 10 ай бұрын

im defenitely like you, im cool and I am really good with calming people down.

@selmadelrey1969 2 жыл бұрын

Hope u share about choosing the right shade n more beauty natural hacks ♥️

@vylia Жыл бұрын

Lovely video, Jillz. Great invitation to soften ourselves a little without losing our authentic selves. Thanks for sharing it.

@JillzGuerin Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💕💕

@meghanusry Жыл бұрын

Jillz, enjoying your videos so much! Any chance of converting your videos to a podcast? I’d love to listen on the go!

@livagyangaming9890 Жыл бұрын

Omg-

@i..am.. 9 ай бұрын

I've been trying to be more vulnerable. Found out the hard way that I had a narcissistic crazy best friend and it totally destroyed my relationship and that fake friendship.

@Trevinov888 Жыл бұрын

Yes dress 👏🏽

@2eyeluvmac2 Жыл бұрын

Great video. Thank you.

@gardenofdeb Жыл бұрын

I love your videos! 💜*

@pavilova29 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your videos!!!

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! 🥰

@themichelleyaa550 2 жыл бұрын

I definitely think I am a cool woman with hot woman tendencies! Absolutely loved this video 💕

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

Yay so glad you liked it!! 💜💜

@sarahflynn9395 4 ай бұрын

I've always been the fiery woman but because that's interpreted as being 'a problem'. I've always wanted to be a cool woman. My mom was barely five feet tall and 100% fiery lol she had that passionate, fiery expression you see in like Italian women 😂 my mom was Acadian (French Canadian but our family came from France, on her side). She was a tomboy, but she wore red lipstick when she went out lol. She was a business owner, but also raised the kids at home (our house and business were maybe 20 steps apart 😂). I want to be soft, and I can be.. But I lean fiery and against the grain. It's hard to accept it, but I think it was actually something my husband fell in love with lol so, I don't want to lose it. I'll figure it out, but the inbetween is tough lol

@QueenRiri0 2 жыл бұрын

You're the best❤️

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@gigixxx4189 2 жыл бұрын

Love you jillz ❤❤

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@GP-kb2oq 5 ай бұрын

Thank u❤

@PansyChannel-WomansExcellence 3 ай бұрын

As a woman, love yourself before loving the world.

@arianna7018 2 жыл бұрын

Hot woman! I have a lot of passion for everything I do. But men are always scared and don’t understand my passion,even though I am very feminine and kind

@priyankakurlawala8413 5 ай бұрын

I have a genuine question. I have started lifting weights currently and while that is great I am struggling to feel strong yet feminine at the same time. Like I am struggling to associate muscles with femininity. Because we have it engrained in our brain that to be feminine is to look "soft" as well. Would love some tips 🥺

@KimberlyBorchardt92008 Жыл бұрын

i used to be FIRE’ey.. Now, i’m much much more introverted … not sure why exactly but I AM quiet, reserved, private not boastful, not aggressive. i’m at peace

@JackieEco 10 ай бұрын

Somebody reads Louise hay😻

@rgrandberry1234 23 күн бұрын

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wonderful !!!! xxoxoxoxo

@rileypaigemc7018 5 ай бұрын

Im definitely a HOT woman, so the idea of being soft…just didn’t seem to make sense. But now it does 💖💖💖

@veggied4life 2 жыл бұрын

Best video!

@JillzGuerin 2 жыл бұрын

💙💙

@whippedcream244 Жыл бұрын

I think, I am a cooler person rather than hot) I've been struggling to accept my calmness last years cause I wanted to be more energetic and exciting but that state is super exhausting for me personally. After being active energetically I need to rest for a longer time😅...

@lexihammond02 11 ай бұрын

I’m a hot woman, but I want to be more cool. I want to be the person that makes people calm. I’ve been told I make people anxious

@lisadonaldson1656 Жыл бұрын

You are getting me through a tough time 😕

@JillzGuerin Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@jennifermccarthy4820 Жыл бұрын

How do you know which you are fire/ice.. I was raised with strong masculine energy from both parents .. never learned softness .. environmental conditions make it difficult

@cultivatingelegance1577 14 күн бұрын

More often than not I'm a cool woman.

@Emma-Laya 9 ай бұрын

Where do you find dresses like those in the background with the fluffy short sleaves (one in light pink, and some in blue...?) ?? 💗

@marcimorgan1369 2 жыл бұрын

Cool ❤️

@catvee3694 11 ай бұрын

I really like the idea of the hot woman and the cool woman. And I really appreciate saying they're different aspects to the woman. I think that's makes it interesting. Part of my problem is being too calm cool alll the time and maybe not showing enough feelings are vulnerability. That may be why it's soup. 2 parrot child therapist patient with my ex-boyfriend. That I was ine up and he was one down.