how to: BE CONFIDENT! (STOP caring what people think!)

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@mylenmondigo7223 5 жыл бұрын

Stop asking permission. Stop seeking validation. Stop comparing yourself to others. Instead, start trusting your thoughts and your own judgements of yourself. Start embracing your uniqueness. Somebody else's opinion doesn't have to be your reality. What others think of me is none of my business, so carry on! 💪💪💪 Don't compete just dominate 😊 Were not supposed to be competing with anybody else other than ourselves. No one is you and that is your power!!! The more your faith will grow, the more your confidence will grow. Don't worry about fitting in when your custom-made! Whatever you focus on magnifies. More power girl!!!

@leighalexandrastrolis4039 5 жыл бұрын

Mylen Mondigo AMEN!!!😄❤️

@hafsoj 5 жыл бұрын

Mylen Mondigo I really love this! So well said 💜💜💜💜

@Star-vg7ix 5 жыл бұрын

As Apostle Paul said...run your own race nut to win it

@northpeace6250 4 жыл бұрын

I'm not seeking anything, it just I don't want people to judge me .

@WatsonDynamite 4 жыл бұрын

If you wrote "1 million dollars" on a piece of paper, it wouldn't start being worth 1 million dollars no matter how much you want it to. It would only be worth that much if others judged it to be so. Self-value does not exist. Self-power does not exist. We are worth nothing except what value we bring to others. It is that simple. Believing otherwise is lying to yourself.

@HeyPaulaCooper 5 жыл бұрын

"you can be the juiciest and ripest peach and there will still be someone who doesnt like peaches" Dita Von Teese

@ninawestlake5005 5 жыл бұрын

Jeeez! I love this! And i love Dita. Thanks, girl!

@MisseverythingNewNew 5 жыл бұрын

Great comment i love this quote

@Plushbabyy 5 жыл бұрын

A mf fact!

@lolitazavala1879 3 жыл бұрын

Facts 💯

@toril7318 3 жыл бұрын

@@joreybrown733 SORRY WHAT

@joyxwrld 5 жыл бұрын

When she wears that fur coat she means business

@ashwajeshi1558 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@Decorum.n.Decisions 5 жыл бұрын

Facts. N more facts.

@iamiesfinest 5 жыл бұрын

Joy Kabue B.B. y

@annasophieschulte6011 5 жыл бұрын

I hope it‘s fake fur ...

@Lou-fb3fj 4 жыл бұрын

@@annasophieschulte6011 Why??

@KeyEpic 3 жыл бұрын

Confidence is literally a mindset that you can force

@soscript3121 3 жыл бұрын

HOW PLSS I NEED IT

@ella-wz5xi 3 жыл бұрын

@@soscript3121 fake it til u make it

@wandasslut4358 2 жыл бұрын

@@ella-wz5xi faking it is still very freaking hard

@sophie-iu3xr 2 жыл бұрын

@@wandasslut4358 no one said it’s easy, keep going and you’ll make it!

@melaniecoleman4069 2 жыл бұрын

@@wandasslut4358 but you CAN do it believe in yourself and persist, you are capable!

@CelineandMerlin 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like family has a huge impact on your confidence. Especially when they're never satisfied of your achievements.

@nanaakosua2673 3 жыл бұрын

Very true

@grrrohmy665 2 жыл бұрын

this is my household

@randomblackgirl6007 2 жыл бұрын

Yes my mother always instals self doubt in me. Like when we’re at the shops she’ll say “but what you want” and proceed to criticise every thing I pick out. Same with her friend. She’ll say such hateful things like “you’re getting dark like your mother” (not a bad thing but if you heard the tone she uses you’d understand). She never stands up for me either and when I complain about how insecure it makes me feel she’ll tell me to ‘take a joke’ or ‘stop being too serious’

@shayyy9098 2 жыл бұрын

@@randomblackgirl6007 I can be really confident around my friends or new people, but when it comes it family i go from 100 to 0. Being in a family that criticises you on everything you do and has an issue with how you look, how you do things, why you do things can really bring a big toll on you. Whereas if it was someone outside of family, i don’t mind because they dont know ME to a T. And that’s why with family it hurts or you feel no support coming through also when they’ve been with you your whole life. My advice to you is to just get yourself together mentally, and then keep on doing what you do because the biggest lesson I learnt is that they’re going to judge regardless. No matter what you do they will keep picking at you and say things that might hurt even if you don’t do what you want to do. Just keep being you. ❤️❤️❤️

@randomblackgirl6007 2 жыл бұрын

@@shayyy9098 thank you I’ll try sending lots of love

@jay_qualine 5 жыл бұрын

She said, “you can’t look like Naomi Campbell all the time, sometimes you look like MEEK MILL IN PRISON” 💀😂

@littletiff1000 4 жыл бұрын

Jackie Mitchell lmfao

@thatonegirljazmyne1397 4 жыл бұрын

Right😂😂😂😂😂

@jihanecherqaoui6403 4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣she's totally right

@Choxchip63 4 жыл бұрын

yeah, that one got me!! lol

@Lifeisfun84 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@ginahfebres4870 5 жыл бұрын

"You don't worry about fitting in, when you're custom made"❤❤❤❤❤

@keshaebarrett1219 4 жыл бұрын

This should be my quote

@procrastinatingidiot6702 4 жыл бұрын

"Somebody's opinion of you does not have to become your reality." Damn.

@DomainOfficial513 5 ай бұрын

Facts 💯

@xfaroutzx3637 4 жыл бұрын

When someone says something that offends you, it means they've just brought up something that YOU believe is ultimately true but you don't want to accept it. People can't hurt you if you don't have weak spots. Take note of things that offend or hurt you and see where you need to confront those beliefs and work on challenging them.

@flowerflower-mo6oc 2 жыл бұрын

When som1 says something bad abt you they're actually projecting their insecurities on you i found myself doing that unconsciously

@althly7 2 жыл бұрын

This is such a good quote !!

@lavieestbelle6068 5 жыл бұрын

I changed my hair and my coworkers said oh, We liked the previous hair. I smiled and keep enjoying my new hairstyle 😊

@gma904 5 жыл бұрын

Zender 2016 C Those people are so annoying. Rock your new do.

@meganhughesyt 5 жыл бұрын

Yassss! Work it ✌

@remirodney1528 5 жыл бұрын

Zender 2016 C enjoy your hair

@sophieeee6661 4 жыл бұрын

This is really inspirational

@22chuuya 4 жыл бұрын

Yesss I stan 🤪

@aerialbrittnails 4 жыл бұрын

“You don’t worry about fitting in when you’re custom made!” Say that! 👏🏼👏🏼

@tsammadipao3652 4 жыл бұрын

"No one is you and that is your power."

@amayaraymond4486 5 жыл бұрын

2019 is for self love and authenticity

@naimalee1046 5 жыл бұрын

💯💯

@teaireab6503 5 жыл бұрын

👏"Somebody's opinion of you does not have to become YOUR REALITY" #FACTS👌🙌🙋

@PistachioMustachio_ 4 жыл бұрын

"I can do all this through him who gives me strength." - ‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4:13‬ ‭NIV‬‬

@michellebryant2735 4 жыл бұрын

Even at 50 I'm still having issues on how I feel about myself. I have been a big girl all my life and it has always been a problem in dating. I just can't find my confidence but thank you for all the advice.

@Mllemama1 3 жыл бұрын

You look beautiful on your profile picture

@DoomyGloomy 2 жыл бұрын

Girl in your profile picture you look 30! Even if you're insecure about your weight you're still doing something right to look so young! 😭

@bberfnn Жыл бұрын

don't take it wrong but you look so pretty!!

@jacydavis2104 5 жыл бұрын

I love to see women love themselves

@XxQueenChristinaxX 4 жыл бұрын

@Dem 1 You had to ruin it. Lmao.

@PistachioMustachio_ 4 жыл бұрын

Dem 1 "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters." - ‭‭1 John‬ ‭3:16‬ ‭NIV‬‬ Love is more than just what you do in the bedroom, it is a strong bond between two people that can never be broken and that’s beautiful.

@wonderfulrainyday 5 жыл бұрын

“You don’t need to worry about where you fit in when you’re custom made.” - why have I never heard this before? Thanks Breeny!

@icewater4725 5 жыл бұрын

They need to put that on a tshirt and sell that ish! 🤑🤑🤑

@tonyadeshawnvlogs9142 3 жыл бұрын

Whoever is reading this, let me tell you how freaking amazing you are today. And omg let's not forget about how beautiful you are on the inside and outside. Keep being the magnificent person that you came here to be.❤

@bubeudeh 2 жыл бұрын

so much love 💖💖

@AyeshaNoelle 4 жыл бұрын

Reprogramming my mind helped me so much to go from self doubt to finally trusting myself and realizing that I am enough. I just started posting affirmation video’s on KZfaq to help people that are feeling insecure to accept themselves and radiate confidence.

@kyral7362 5 жыл бұрын

It’s mad how quickly I learned this. I was 16, I came in the first day of year 11 and everything had changed. I went from invisible to everyone saying ‘she thinks she’s bad’, ‘she thinks she’s a model’. At first it was weird but after a month I genuinely stopped hearing the comments. It got to a point where my friends had to come and tell me someone was talking about me for me to even notice. And the second time they came reporting to me, I told them to never let me know again. I was not and am not concerned with opinions about myself that aren’t from me.

@khyati7733 5 жыл бұрын

Fuck yes

@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын

So do you like being invisible or like being talked about?

@TheVictress 5 жыл бұрын

Yes powerful queen!!!

@gayanngodfrey2824 Жыл бұрын

Ok Queen teach me!

@alyssagant5292 5 жыл бұрын

I feel personally attacked. 😂 She’s like the big sister keeping me in check. ❤️❤️💗💗

@alexandriadacosta 5 жыл бұрын

Dulce De Lyssa lol that’s exactly how I feel. She always comes through right when you need her 💞

@anber4129 5 жыл бұрын

Literally same ♥️♥️

@thereal_tammie_baby673 5 жыл бұрын

Please subscribe o my channel & lets grow together. My 1st video will be at the end of February, dont miss it!!!

@ea6390 4 жыл бұрын

@Alyssa Gant, Right...me too😊

@l.f.3583 4 жыл бұрын

"now i can relax, now i can breathe".... i always thought how i was feeling was rare...and maybe a little bit crazy...you teached me that it's not. if you are not yourself, its like acting 24/7. That shit is hard

@Mai-sx3yf 3 жыл бұрын

Taught

@Peanut_taco_muffin Жыл бұрын

Exactly. So exhausting constantly being “on” in front of others that I actually feel too drained to want to be around people at all

@l.f.3583 Жыл бұрын

@@Peanut_taco_muffin but being selfish causes problems too .. arguments, disappointment, pain .. so whats worse.. being lonely and authentic or have people around you and be „on“… i don‘t know so i act again 😔

@aggy8886 4 жыл бұрын

“You don’t worry about if you fit in, when you are custom-made” - omg I love you so much, I felt like a really wise loving aunt was speaking to me. 🥰

@Glo_up576 5 жыл бұрын

You've changed so much. Like a completely different person. I think its infectious. Be authentic. You're not looking for acceptance it counts alot. Its very attractive. You're beautiful now.

@angen5487 5 жыл бұрын

Breeny, I don’t think you realize how helpful your videos are.. God is actually using you to help young women to embrace themselves and believe in themselves. This video was the exact pic me up i needed today.. keep it up.. rooting for you girl! 💃🏽

@AWholeLottaLola 3 жыл бұрын

_sis, i needed to hear this so bad. the thing with me is i'm confident then something bad happens then I'm unhappy for the rest of the day. i need to focus on God and not what other people think. It's a growing process but I know I'll get there._

@JIsla3 4 жыл бұрын

I love how The Lord knows i'm struggling with personality issues and growth in my young transitional years, and just sends a KZfaq blessing like Breeny Lee. A shift is coming. Also this video is exactly one year old, ironic. Love it, love you xx

@Azra94569 3 жыл бұрын

Your gorgeous!!!

@Millenesouza__ 5 жыл бұрын

You should write a book!! I love how you are honest

@jasminefernandez6494 5 жыл бұрын

When she’s in the car you know it’s getting serious lol love these car talks💓

@alerotuoyo3112 3 жыл бұрын

Lol... all her videos are literally in the car

@lauramariska 4 жыл бұрын

I would love for you to start a podcast, your so motivating and funny at the same time!

@On_Point10 3 жыл бұрын

I embrace my energetic, unique and quirky personality ♥️

@priscillaxsafi 5 жыл бұрын

“ Don’t worry about fitting in when your custom made”🥀

@spongywuver29 5 жыл бұрын

I love how you get straight to the point. KZfaqrs be talking wayyyy to much😑

@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын

Sha Xx exactly. They spend the first 10 minutes talking about subscribing to their page it makes me sick.

@spongywuver29 5 жыл бұрын

daphnee paul so annoying! Sometimes i’ll just watch something else because of how annoyed it just got me😭

@aaminahadisa-adesina2702 3 жыл бұрын

she said " no one is you and that is your power" damn that hit me harrrrddddd ngl that video really did help i used to compare myself and not speak up and as part of my self love journey ive learn that no one cares so now i do what i want

@flowerflower-mo6oc 2 жыл бұрын

"you not finding me attractive does not stop me from being attractive" PERIODT

@aishah7106 5 жыл бұрын

You’re honestly going to change lives! Imprinting this mindset into young girls as myself is such a game changer loveeeee ur videos so much!

@priscillaxsafi 5 жыл бұрын

Aisha Hassan 💯

@Sabrina-sf5hg 5 жыл бұрын

Aisha Hassan completely agree 💯

@serenarennock5590 5 жыл бұрын

Such a lit comment 👍🏾🙌🏾

@user-ex6ln3ut2q 5 жыл бұрын

Very true

@mercyosore1622 5 жыл бұрын

I've also grown to realize the beauty of silence n being by myself

@muffingangayye5770 4 жыл бұрын

I'm still young and I still gotta learn👍🏽

@je39981 4 жыл бұрын

What does that mean ? "beauty of silence"

@monicamuchindu 4 жыл бұрын

I embrace this😍

@curateddaisies4128 4 жыл бұрын

I'm realising the ugliness in silence instead. I need to find the beauty of moderation. When to speak and when to say nothing.

@mikabarak996 4 жыл бұрын

Girl I’m so proud you make videos talking about this kind of stuff, there’s so many people that don’t realize that self love is more important than anything else and are literally controlled by social media. I myself can relate to everything you’re mentioning and it’s sad.

@Saimanayen1123 4 жыл бұрын

Damn I just went through a breakup and my self esteem is at the lowest. This video definitely is helping me

@ratbastard6293 5 жыл бұрын

13:43 “There could be 100 people in the room and 99 of them don’t believe in you, but one does and that was him”

@CoolStorySista1 5 жыл бұрын

I literally clicked play on a Star is Born on my tv and randomly read this quote at the same time...I’m in awe

@onlyup4456 5 жыл бұрын

@@CoolStorySista1 Synchronicity is real

@luvjoy9662 5 жыл бұрын

I feel everything she is saying I have allowed my parents, church people, coworkers etc...to impose their opinions on me. It leaves me feeling confused, drained and disappointed in myself for not being who they want me to be. Yeah, your family and friends matter but God matters the most he said you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Now if I could really get that in my spirit throughout the day is my prayer for me and others. Thanks Breeny I REALLY needed to hear this

@Introvertwoman1989 4 жыл бұрын

Luv Joy I feel you,even at church you can’t avoid some words from them only tried to bring you down. You know yourself better than anyone. & most important is you know better than anyone is your relationship to God.

@lml445 4 жыл бұрын

Luv Joy same here

@curateddaisies4128 4 жыл бұрын

*nodding furiously in agreement*, church, family, yas, like I need to step up when it comes to strangers and colleagues, but level two is step up to my family too, strange thing is my family will help me step up to the strangers running my life and waging war against me, but my family also has their own way in which they hold me back, I guess God is really needed in that area.

@d.l831 3 жыл бұрын

❤️

@officialvnessa 3 жыл бұрын

You are amazing, I’m 17 trying to find more acceptance within myself, finding your videos is one blessing to me, thank you so much💖

@bealambwouldya 3 жыл бұрын

I have to learn how to stop apologizing. 😩tired of apologizing for every lil thing. I’m gonna make this an affirmation. And start teaching myself not to say I’m sorry so much

@acier4334 5 жыл бұрын

*BREENY I LOVE YOU, YOU HAVE HELPED BOOST MY CONFIDENCE SO MUCH. I LOVE YOU QUEEN YOU DESERVE THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD*

@thatgirlreeree 5 жыл бұрын

Yesss

@thereal_tammie_baby673 5 жыл бұрын

Please subscribe o my channel & lets grow together. My 1st video will be at the end of February, dont miss it!!!

@funkychick4lyf 5 жыл бұрын

“Every colour looks good on me” *flips hair* YASSSS BREENY 👌🏾😫 l can’t get over your vibe 👑

@marvannie 3 жыл бұрын

"It's human fallen nature to compare" I love it. Thank you Aunty Breeny.

@tillycomedy2194 4 жыл бұрын

sis your advice is literally gold. "you don't worry about fitting in when you're custom made" 🤩🤩🤩💛💛💛💛💛

@shallonshallon9772 5 жыл бұрын

When you grow up ,Literally things shift naturally...You just gotta do You...People come and go but he is always there❤️for us

@lilmzkrazygirl 5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@redviolet521 5 жыл бұрын

For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. Galatians 1:10

@lilmzkrazygirl 5 жыл бұрын

redviolet t Amen

@kel_871 5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@kenderlieedmond7850 5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@shemilore1510 2 жыл бұрын

I come back to this video often and it’s been sooo helpful over this past couple of months! Thank you for putting this out Breeny!

@sonimwangi4339 4 жыл бұрын

People on social media represent who they want to be than than who they are !!!! Point

@chelsy356 5 жыл бұрын

I’m an introvert., but I learnt with years to just accept it. You cant be appreciated by every one. I’m grateful for everything I have. Thank you God. 🙏

@electricred91 5 жыл бұрын

Yes .... i can totally relate people will say why are you so quite it looks like you dont want to bothered.

@nabifwo 5 жыл бұрын

I totally relate. And besides that, i have social anxiety so when i'm around people and i'm not talking, they say that i'm rude or something.

@chanezperez4473 5 жыл бұрын

@@nabifwo I do not have social anxiety but I am very quiet and shy, I was also asked several times "why are you so quiet, you never talk" so I can definitely relate. I have noticed that it has never bother me unless other people pointed it! Last year I started to accept it and god it feels waay better! The first step is accepting yourself and not blaming. I know one day I'll be the person I want to be and wish that to everybody

@jasmind247 5 жыл бұрын

I am very independent and introverted and all of my friends are very sociable. I try to do sociable for them but it’s hard because being outgoing is draining for me and if I just need a day of alone time they feel like I’m ignoring them. It makes me have a guilty feeling when I just need to put my phone down and stay to myself for a day.

@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 5 жыл бұрын

How are you ignoring when you are just doing your own thang.. maybe they not doing what they need to do for themselves it's so sad . They probably ain't got nothing going on with their life simple

@tammyschannel8809 5 жыл бұрын

You would never have guilty feelings with good friends only toxic friends gives you that guilty feeling 💔

@hawadiarra9470 5 жыл бұрын

My life!

@anber4129 5 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️

@strawberricakeland 5 жыл бұрын

Yes !!!!

@malikahadam3807 4 жыл бұрын

Soooo glad I came across your channel! The sister I always wanted ❤️ Thank yooou for alll the pointers!

@ric9401 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve literally been having such insecurities and your videos helped me so much !! Your freaking awesome . I love how self assured u are and confident and just ugh YESS QUEEN

@monetcompany8772 5 жыл бұрын

The 2019 Philosophy for Success... Confidence has no competition, find satisfaction within yourself, work toward being significant and express gratitude in every facet of life.

@mooret212 5 жыл бұрын

❤

@EdiBeth 5 жыл бұрын

Yes when I was younger I wasted my time pleasing others and now I'm myself whether anyone likes it or not and focus on pleasing myself❤

@Africanbeautyy93 5 жыл бұрын

Edi Beth absolutely!

@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын

Edi Beth I know you should not please others but what if it’s your mom? Should you please her?what if the only reason you’re pleasing her is to saver her life because you don’t want her to get a heart attack and die? For example, I was raped and never told my mom because if I tell her she will surely die from a heart attack. So I’m literally saving her life by not telling her. Also she had the opportunity to abort me when she was pregnant and she told the doctor no. She kept me so I’m Pleasing her by becoming a doctor for her. she always wanted to see one of her kids become a doctor before she does and since my sister is not doing it im gonna do it. I hate medical school but I feel that if it will make my mom happy I don’t mind goin to 8 years of school. And plus she’s paying for it. Is that bad?

@EdiBeth 5 жыл бұрын

@@daphneepaul3737 if your mom was given the opportunity to abort you and she didn't, then she loved you no matter what. If you were violated and abused and got through it for her and were strong for her, if you finally told her your secret, she will continue to love you more no matter what. If you discontinue medical school and pursue another career, she will love you and support you no matter what because what a mother wants while on this earth is happiness for her children no matter what decisions you make and no matter if they work out or not. AS A MOTHER myself, I promise you, she will love you and support you no matter what❤

@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын

Edi Beth ok thanks. I’m quitting cause I hate it. But I’m not gonna tell her about the rape though.

@EdiBeth 5 жыл бұрын

@@daphneepaul3737 there is something special about a woman who surpasses everything that was meant to destroy her. Best of luck on your future endeavors.

@jessicarai3764 4 жыл бұрын

My favourite channel to watch when I’m feeling low. Always brings me back up.

@MsMimi879 5 жыл бұрын

I teared up a bit watching this. Thank you for this Breeny!

@dee2919 5 жыл бұрын

“every color looks good on me babes”❗️ yasss ma’am!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@RachelNicole 5 жыл бұрын

TRUST IN GOD NOT OTHERS TO VALIDATE YOU 🤗🤗🤗

@visitingval 5 жыл бұрын

Hallelujah!!

@shinecam1 4 жыл бұрын

Rachel Nicole That’s the key to it all🕊

@marthawainaina9102 4 жыл бұрын

Honestly I felt like you were speaking to my soul. There is so much that I have been holding onto and by the end of this video I felt free. Thank you so much love!

@Jalpaandsienna 5 жыл бұрын

This video has just made me feel 1000 times better this is just what I needed x

@EmmaLouiseHamilton 5 жыл бұрын

Strive to be better today than you were yesterday! Compete with yourself 👌

@_opoku_ 5 жыл бұрын

I realized that I will NEVER be able to make everyone happy. I have to do what I have to do for MYSELF and my mental 🤷🏾‍♂️ Period. If it makes me happy then I’m doing it lol. Idc who thinks I’m wrong or that I’m not doing what I’m “supposed” to do. I learned that if I am not going to be myself, then I could loose myself along the way in the future. So glad I’m getting my life 😩 Like seriously Breeny you changed my life. 🙏🏾

@gugulethutembo 4 жыл бұрын

I never comment on stuff, but I like your message. It’s soo empowering. Keep doing what you doing sis, it’s helping a lot of women out there!!❤️❤️

@lennycee27 4 жыл бұрын

I loooooooooooove you so much Breeny Girl! Your videos keep me going.. I'm about to finish here in college and I'm actually learning a lot from you because the world out there is dangerous. Gonna start protecting myself, my sanity

@skecre 5 жыл бұрын

“Opinions are like arse holes, everybody has them” enough said, point blank period! 👏🏽👌🏽

@missp8527 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@tryphenaeady8560 5 жыл бұрын

How do you deal with negativity? Don't!!!😎

@mercyosore1622 5 жыл бұрын

Yesss!...Don't deal with it

@sarahmen1994 4 жыл бұрын

Genius

@zyriasingleton310 4 жыл бұрын

This is probably the first video I’ve watched all the way through about confidence ❤️, thank you I really needed this 💞❗️

@Jajeuf_Bamba 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my Godness. This is literally my favorite video on KZfaq. I happy I found you. This is soo powerful. Thank you

@realvesselgem6527 5 жыл бұрын

You just breathed life into a business idea that I have! I was scared!

@Andrea-vk5eq 5 жыл бұрын

Deja Vu happy for you!!

@inmeditatewetrust 5 жыл бұрын

Here's more 🔥🔥🔥 for the business idea. I too have been inspired to start a creative project.

@MsTroibrown 5 жыл бұрын

Same here..I'm baffled at how inspiring and meaningful Breeny's videos have been for me. Thank you

@mercyjohn9734 5 жыл бұрын

Happy for you... I can relate

@BrieTwins 5 жыл бұрын

I AM ENOUGH! ❤️

@Mmmfdhb11 3 жыл бұрын

I’m literally here at work listening to u on my headphones like a podcast, giving me vibes, confidence, laugh, and hopes for the future 💜

@rachael7095 3 жыл бұрын

Aww I love this! You were a delight to watch! Just simple enough to make me feel better and happier with myself! Thank you!!

@cedricjohnsonn 5 жыл бұрын

I’m so ready for this pep talk you couldn’t have come at a better time Queen 🖤🤗

@tryphenaeady8560 5 жыл бұрын

I like that...I'm not gonna let your compliment control me!

@Introvertwoman1989 4 жыл бұрын

Tryphena Eady Me too

@libawn 4 жыл бұрын

I've been watching your videos over and over again. Especially the breakup ones. You're a blessing to all women who watch your videos. You're really empowering. Thank you so much!!!!

@kaylamckenzie1981 3 жыл бұрын

Breeny this is my second day of listening first thing in the morning and yesterday has been mentally freeing😌 Thank you so much, I’m so grateful you came to me through you tube🖤

@KylaCharter 5 жыл бұрын

It is WILD that you wanted a nose job, you've actually got the cutest nose I've ever seen. Like literally it's perfect for your face.

@stacierose1692 4 жыл бұрын

Yasssssss

@parnaerue 5 жыл бұрын

You don’t worry about fitting in when you’re custom made... def my new fav quote 💜

@atiya. 4 жыл бұрын

Girl, you are an amazing advice giver. This is your second video that I have watched, and I am astounded at how much your words affect me. thank you so much.

@elvanwyk6573 4 жыл бұрын

You're awesome Breeny. Do more on self-esteem. I shared your video with a friend whose going through some challenge of lacking confidence in herself.

@BreenyLee 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my! Loving all your quotes and comments! Loving this lil community we got going on! Thank you all for watching!! Looking forward to seeing all my UK Women at my VISION BOARD PARTY this weekend! Only a few tickets left if you want to be there! Let's change the way we do life this year! Get your tickets here: goo.gl/WmkumY ❤️

@taytayl3866 5 жыл бұрын

Love your confidence and realness hun! Thank you for these videos.. You're just saying what we allllll thinking but too scared to say lol xxx

@xxjaynelouisexx2902 5 жыл бұрын

Love this and your other video's, oh and your hair is amazing girl :)

@wtvr4772 5 жыл бұрын

Yeesss! Spit that truth sista!

@misscool37 5 жыл бұрын

I love your level of ‘woke’ girl.i need friends like you 🔥💅🏾

@MizNixFoYa 5 жыл бұрын

I love you, girl. #CustomMade 🙌😙

@mbeingforgwei8053 5 жыл бұрын

i truly love your content, no jokes. its not only for girls, but boys too. what makes you different from the others is the fact that u r a beautiful woman, and God fearing too. that's awesome . keep doing what u r doing, and the LORD will grant all ur heart desires in His riches in Glory. may God bless you and your work..... AMEN!!

@raylaughlan5324 4 жыл бұрын

mbeing forgwei I agree with this beautiful comment, and I’m an atheist! 😂

@NinaThomas 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve gone to counseling for years and your advice hits the nail on the head. The minute we no longer NEED that validation from others, we are free!

@cs7021 5 жыл бұрын

Your pep talks are EVERYTHING 🙌💕 thanks for getting me pumped up 😘

@kindranadine9513 5 жыл бұрын

This video felt like a warm hug! Thanks for posting it!

@Schwing97 5 жыл бұрын

I clicked SO fast!!🔥🔥😍

@NTUNKNOWN 4 жыл бұрын

I swear girl I love you. Thank you. I hope you make these kind of videos more. Ill watch your videos on repeat until the things you say become facts in my head.

@marjieramirezz565 4 жыл бұрын

This video was truly amazing. The part in comparing yourself is so true. It does steal joy from one self

@MsPeanut93 5 жыл бұрын

I really need to stop comparing myself to others. It's deadly.

@laurynh.603 5 жыл бұрын

This came at the RIGHT time. I’m 17, 18 in 2 months and one of my most toxic traits is that I am so reliant on other people. I really don’t know myself, I thought I did but I realized I try to find myself in others (whether it be relationships or friendships). Then when they leave me, I don’t know what to do without them, I’d say borderline depressed. I hate to say it but I loveeee validation..but when the one that gave it to me doesn’t “want” me anymore I just plummet. I wish I could be self dependent but it’s so hard for me 😭 one minute I think I’m so secure but if ONE person looks at me side ways my feelings are hurt. Hopefully I’m able to work on myself, know my worth, and just be happy on my own

@galleryofexistence 5 жыл бұрын

Girl I really believe that you can do it ! Believe in yourself ❤

@lidarren343 5 жыл бұрын

2019 is the year we're all thriving sis, and you just KNOW you're gonna work on this!! It's never easy and takes so much time, but you can work through this--hell, the mere acknowledgement that this is a probably is a good start, and you can build on this❤ don't give up.

@sherixxn1420 5 жыл бұрын

I'm the same way damn never had someone else phrase it that exact way. It's so true

@noonescrush 5 жыл бұрын

Lauryn H. same,,,

@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын

shahahazadiii 1812 don’t worry. Write everything u like about yourself in your notebook and create a vision board. You can buy a poster board at Walmart and start putting down your vision on it.

@gabriellemccord4542 5 жыл бұрын

I just want to say thank you Brenny i have been struggling with finding myself and caring about what people think of me all my life and it has destroyed me now trying to find myself and self confidence has been so hard thank You for the words of confidence you are AMAZING!!!!!!

@kempire5645 2 жыл бұрын

So, I just went through a breakup and I started watching your videos and I feel a whole lot better! The inspiration you've given me has affected me so much that I have started going on a self-journey!

@nerimamusonge9734 5 жыл бұрын

Meek mill in prison 😭😂😂😂

@RachelNicole 5 жыл бұрын

Lilian Musonge philly support

@yellaaaayari5120 5 жыл бұрын

Me at home lol!!!

@makeitmakesense4836 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂...Just got to that part 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@shallonshallon9772 5 жыл бұрын

Lilian Musonge 😂😂😂😭my chwest

@neveobrien2999 5 жыл бұрын

"U don't worry about fitting in when ur custom made"

@mary-pujehunsamba7711 4 жыл бұрын

It’s funny how she commented about disliking her nose cuz I actually LOVE her nose! I actually was focused on my nose too. I wanted to get it done but randomly I stopped thinking about it and now I’m fine with it