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HOW YOUR CHILDHOOD EFFECTS YOUR ADULT RELATIONSHIPS
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@ItsKimmyAlexandra 4 жыл бұрын

“What happened in your past is not your fault. It had nothing to do with you.” Now I’m crying.

@sarakandeh3808 4 жыл бұрын

Dear Alexa that part hit me hard !

@1love847 4 жыл бұрын

Check out the 4 Agreements Book. Its a game changer. There are 4 of them. Its a simple way to remember never take anything personally.

@ReadingActivist 4 жыл бұрын

@@1love847 please send a link, is that a book? Sounds interesting

@mariyaberezhnova9871 4 жыл бұрын

Christinah Blaai 4 agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

@Princesssestrela 4 жыл бұрын

that book is amazing

@ellasarol2353 4 жыл бұрын

"Do not accept lower because your parents set the bar that low" ❤️

@Lyftwithmee 4 жыл бұрын

Ella Sarol DEEP

@ChocolateBabe_ 3 жыл бұрын

Whew girl I needed this. Forgiveness is so tough.

@jamesinman7364 2 жыл бұрын

I'm James Inman and I approve this comment 👍

@suzanned9680 4 жыл бұрын

Stable people do not always come from stable homes.

@BreenyLee 4 жыл бұрын

Suzanne Doke that’s why I made sure to state “with exceptions”

@quieteyes307 4 жыл бұрын

I did not hear it like that. There are exceptions and she mentions that. But the majority of stable people, yes they do come from stable homes. Most people in unstable homes do not take the more narrow path of becoming better. Don’t live your life in offense. She even gave you her story of her home life which was anything but stable, now look at this woman. She has changed MY life through her growth. This woman is fulfilling her purpose in this life and will be at the right hand of God. Will you?

@RosequartzDivination 4 жыл бұрын

Unstable people come from unstable homes. And the other way around is generally true too but there are exeptions ofcourse.

@lydialaggstudent1209 4 жыл бұрын

She said there are exceptions

@missovercomer2488 4 жыл бұрын

That's why she said with exceptions.

@DIYQueendom 4 жыл бұрын

Re-parenting yourself is gold! What I’ve been doing is looking at myself in the mirror and seeing my inner child then I talk to her by looking at myself in the mirror. I am the grown up and I speak to my inner child in the mirror by calling out my childhood name and saying all the things I wish I heard as a child. ❣️

@sharonokeyo195 4 жыл бұрын

Lovely

@SkyAree 4 жыл бұрын

I do that daily..... I thought it was a mental condition...

@conservativelatinausa9005 3 жыл бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤that is truly beautiful!!

@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын

Oh wow...that just might work!!!

@CadiaIsatu 3 жыл бұрын

I’m starting this.

@ebonyselman2886 4 жыл бұрын

“no man is going to come and make me whole” amen! I can listen to you talk all day

@lorrainezingwena 4 жыл бұрын

A cheating man is not my portion . Speaking this into existence

@saraiayemperoumal 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely love this

@gracelewis6071 4 жыл бұрын

The brain works in positives. May I suggest "Healthy, wise, kind men are my portion." Or whatever you do want to speak life into :)

@starryeyed777 4 жыл бұрын

Grace Lewis I was just about to comment this too! Peace and love my sisters ✌🏼

@nicksmith-cx1fx 4 жыл бұрын

@@gracelewis6071 spot on, totally agree on this. We create our own perception and perception is reality

@priscillaxsafi 4 жыл бұрын

Lorraine Natasha LOUD AND CLEAR

@VenusVanessa06 4 жыл бұрын

You say you"re "sexually Liberated" but YOU'RE HURT... That touched me so deep down inside, I used to be that very same girl.

@lilladycn 4 жыл бұрын

Venus Chappie right?? damn.

@warriorhippie 4 жыл бұрын

Yes me too. Until I had a child with a highly narcissistic individual. Now I’m so done with people.

@smartymcfly7972 4 жыл бұрын

Abena C don’t stop your shine for ANYONE! Narcs can’t be helped unless they want to be. We will be the best we can be for our babies! ✌🏾❤️

@simonembatha7707 4 жыл бұрын

I felt that !!!!

@coenplat2732 4 жыл бұрын

“Self love is the foundation and love is the icing on the cake” is one of the most beautiful and true things ive ever heard!

@danilorojas-velasquez8892 3 жыл бұрын

¿Qué parte del remix de "Don Don" te gusto más? 🤔 ➡️ What part of the "Don Don" remix did you like most?

@creamy6680 4 жыл бұрын

“Your type is dysfunctional” well damn Breeny, I wasnt prepared to be exposed like that 🙃

@yolir.u9452 4 жыл бұрын

4_10October same🤣😭😭😭

@muralmica 4 жыл бұрын

this title alone is coming for my NECK

@nicksmith-cx1fx 4 жыл бұрын

sorry I don't understand what this means?

@sarakandeh3808 4 жыл бұрын

nick smith 😂😂😂

@muralmica 4 жыл бұрын

nick smith lol basically I feel attacked because it’s a direct message to my life... lol hope that helps

@nicksmith-cx1fx 4 жыл бұрын

@@muralmica aah ok got you, I understand now it directly resonates with your life

@Iamclerichena 4 жыл бұрын

i just cried laughing at this!

@idaradairies 4 жыл бұрын

Can’t wait to heal my inner child and be a better adult

@YourGirlSudanny 4 жыл бұрын

Your self awareness & the lessons you've learnt over the years & are now passing on is genuinely so beautiful & admirable. Thank you for sharing girl x

@BreenyLee 4 жыл бұрын

YourGirlSudanny - Thank you ♥️

@paixducoeur5773 4 жыл бұрын

Omg you had me in tears. When you said "Forgive your parents" 😭😭😭😭 I’ve been soo angry with my mom for so many years because of the choices she made that has affected my life in the most destructive way... thank you for this video.

@ko_2232 3 жыл бұрын

Forgive her! And if you are religious, pray for her. I am in the same situation and I can guarantee she needs it as much as you do. I hope you and your mom can one day come together in love, peace, and kindness. 🙏❤️

@sanyaantic9392 4 жыл бұрын

“We come into this world alone and we come out of this world alone” This changed my life and perspective. It hit me like a tonne of bricks in one of your other videos and also relieved me. Thank you Breeny you are a blessing to this generation I look forward to your future videos.

@Philosophyoftruth_ 4 жыл бұрын

Dysfunctional parents breed broken kids. Turn your pain into passion and your wounds into wisdom. I have a father , but he isn’t my dad. I live with my dads ex wife - my caretaker not really a mum.

@Belihoney 4 жыл бұрын

She's your mum. She may not be your "Mother" but if she takes care of you and actually cares for you, that can be a better situation than being with the mother. It's how your treated rather than the title that is important

@Philosophyoftruth_ 4 жыл бұрын

@@Belihoney I don't think she cares. There's more to this story, in the same way, there are two sides to the coin. It's larger than a "simple" divorce. Just because someone is family, doesn't mean they have the "best" intentions for you. The statement "actually cares for you", yes she does fulfill her parenting duties, but her dharma (the eternal and inherent nature of reality, regarded in Hinduism as a cosmic law underlying right behavior and social order) duties ... never did. Children are not a distraction from more important work. They are the most important work.

@RachelNicole 4 жыл бұрын

We all have daddy issues in some way shape or form 😕

@ItsKimmyAlexandra 4 жыл бұрын

Rachel Nicole I have Mommy issues and I feel like that hits harder.

@danai3630 4 жыл бұрын

@@ItsKimmyAlexandra same

@nongrada6004 4 жыл бұрын

Dear Alexa what is Dady iseus / mommy iseus ?

@blank1505 4 жыл бұрын

All kinds of damn issues, who else? Say IIII

@amasion2882 4 жыл бұрын

It’s weird but a good dad can make dealing with men as a romantic prospect tricky. I had a wonderful father figure but he passed away in my late teens. We were family and he took good care of me, but he was also just a wonderful gentleman. Very smart, kind, funny, well-mannered and debonair...all my girlfriends from school adored him. We also shared intellectual compatibility and enjoyed each other’s company. We were best friends. I think after his passing I assumed it was IMPOSSIBLE to meet a boyfriend or husband with all or some of his great qualities. So I really lowered the bar in who I dated. I married an unsuitable man and the marriage failed for obvious reasons. I get it now. If you are accustomed to being treated lovingly and respectfully, provided with a stable peaceful home, and enjoying good rapport... it’s NOT spoiled or unrealistic to require similar treatment from a life partner. I don’t expect a second dad, but I can’t accept inconsistency or abusive treatment from my husband.

@moments22 4 жыл бұрын

You’re speaking my life ....... alone, isolated, introverted , followed by being severely bullied, sexually abused. These things did attracted the wrong kinds of friends , narcs, sociopaths etc , and behaviours that didn’t serve me . I recently came back to my faith ,. Crying watching this. Because I’ve reached a certain age now . No husband for me by now , looks like a life of celibacy, which is fine. Yes our happiness is an inside job . All of us who have been through these things , and don’t see our own value , we are still here . Love your channel 💓💓💓💓

@nosipho4899 4 жыл бұрын

Sending love and blessings your way💜

@mybeautifuljourney7540 4 жыл бұрын

You probably need the alone time, to focus on yourself and heal to avoid repetition. If you need a husband he ll show up at the right time. Goodluck healing Sis....

@221rabiyat00 3 жыл бұрын

Me too. I am about to accept that living single and alone is my destiny

@krabhadie9986 3 жыл бұрын

I wish you greatness, you are loved, God is always there for you 🖤

@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын

I can totally relate to what you experienced in life..God Bless and keep you!! 😌🙌🏾🙏🏾

@jonettaross6030 4 жыл бұрын

Thats why women we all need to Love and understand each other. We can help one another

@vanessakasongo4245 4 жыл бұрын

"We have to be people that overcome , rise and go above and beyond what our parents did." Say it louder for the people in the back!!!

@jey7169 4 жыл бұрын

"You're type is dysfunctional" Sadly, this is big facts.

@emilyd871 4 жыл бұрын

“What happened in your past was not your fault” thank you!

@teewalkaa 4 жыл бұрын

“Reject you before you reject me”-me af🤯

@SandrineJamaica 4 жыл бұрын

For some women who have suffered through rape or violation from an older person who you trusted it can really distort future relationships. I pray we all get healing. I need it.

@richauntie316 4 жыл бұрын

Amen sis,u ain't alone

@moneshamcdaniel8604 4 жыл бұрын

"forgive your parents" that broke meeeee they really didnt know any better... i am crying.. but i do appreciate the release.

@saintzya7839 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! I didn’t realize how many things I was doing out of spite of childhood trauma until this past year. I’m still trying to break some of those bad habits and generational curses. I suggest every young woman, especially us black women to dig into your childhood and find out what bad habits you’re carrying from it! ♥️

@ebonyr.b.1216 4 жыл бұрын

This is a year of rebirth for me. After my mom passed away 6 months ago, I was thrown into a whole new level of maturity. I'm 34 and realizing how blind I was throughout my 20s. It's refreshing to hear a story that I can relate to. :-)

@BreenyLee 4 жыл бұрын

Ebony R. B. - sending love ♥️

@SaadetOZTRK 4 жыл бұрын

Next vid suggestion: How to find our passion in life

@wonderfulrainyday 4 жыл бұрын

Breeny. Sometimes I get sucked into old patterns and I immediately play your videos and voila- I’m back. Thank you. ✨

@jenniekiki5583 4 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah me too

@liberty_rimmer 4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree thank you Breeny

@zurireynolds3512 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Breeny Love, Every emotionally damaged QUEEN

@mybeautifuljourney7540 4 жыл бұрын

Zuri Reynolds Thanks for this

@elishadomingos5082 4 жыл бұрын

I really felt that part on reinforcement and how the lack of love and affection at home can lead to deeper issues. I feel like this is the reason why I tend to be emotionally unavailable. Breeny please do a video on emotional unavailable people😭

@lamissea7289 4 жыл бұрын

are you a psychic? like seriously every video comes at a time where i need to hear your exact words..you’re magical Breeny. ps : yes i cried.

@RachelNicole 4 жыл бұрын

14:28 is definitely facts. Once you start to heal yourself and acknowledge God in all your ways he will not only direct your path, but bless you and show you the truth as to why life happened the way it did. I literally just recorded how my life has improved without no social media (besides youtube) for over two years because I want to help others heal and share the benefits

@tiadillon 4 жыл бұрын

Wow, literally feel like we lived the same life

@shaneroque_ 4 жыл бұрын

"Forgive your parents, because they didnt know better, if they could they would. They didnt know how" . Thank you so much for sharing this, I love this and really needed to hear this. For years I blamed myself and my parents, but now I know there is no one to blame.

@steffikreis2030 4 жыл бұрын

i relate to insecure coming from lack of affirmation and so many people don‘t understand how much it impacted me because they always say „oh but you weren‘t abused you should be fine.“

@km7890km 4 жыл бұрын

Hoping you get a podcast🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@badvibevs4052 4 жыл бұрын

13:00 “what happened to you in your past was not your fault. It had nothing to do with you”...thank you❤️

@d4i1ynn 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I click on your videos thinking it may have nothing to do with me, then I watch it and it has everything to do with me. God brought me here, thank you so much!

@Sara-vh6sq 4 жыл бұрын

I really needed to hear this. Never knew how my childhood effected my adulthood. Makes a lot of sense and breaks my heart. 💔😭 I don't even know where to start to heal.

@BreenyLee 4 жыл бұрын

Yaya B - Start with acceptance. Sending virtual hugs 🤗

@Sara-vh6sq 4 жыл бұрын

@@BreenyLee Thank you sis! I appreciate you and the videos you make.

@blank1505 4 жыл бұрын

Did someone say self sabotage...? 😰 currently, I am in a loving, healthy, secure relationship. However, I am my own enemy. I was doing great with my partner for almost a year and now I feel like I am crashing and slowly burning... I have plenty of childhood trauma in different areas which I’ve been learning to heal from. These hinder me in my relationship. It’s a bit easier to deal with it on my own but now I have a beautiful partner who is INCREDIBLY understanding and patient with me, which makes me feel even worse. 😖 You see what I mean here? Anybody else?! Thank you for providing this wonderful content and keeping it 💯 with us. Sending love and light.

@annishakanyepa9303 4 жыл бұрын

I had a childhood that shaped me for adulthood before I was even one 😑 finally embraced it so that I can move another step in life without thinking of how much I've been through 😐it's all thanks to God😇🙏

@jazzlynnleday6921 4 жыл бұрын

that’s right😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏

@authenticmars6682 4 жыл бұрын

This is really hard to take in . I admire you for having so much courage to talk about childhood trauma. I don’t know you personally , but I can resonate with everything. Much love from 📍 San Francisco , CA

@musicloverkeke3314 4 жыл бұрын

You are speaking the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

@ladylorp5436 4 жыл бұрын

It’s sad but it’s the truth, I’m filled with so much anger I cry when I speak about it but this therapy is gonna give me the help n closure I need I’m hopeful

@tamarathomas4199 4 жыл бұрын

Nothing else excites me like your update!!!!

@loveyvo 4 жыл бұрын

Dealing with loneliness in winter while overcoming negative patterns :P

@pardisarjmandi8889 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve known my childhood has affected my adult life now for a few years. The thing that is most difficult for me is using my knowledge from books and videos and actually changing. I still haven’t been able to fully heal from it but it gets better over time ❤️ don’t lose hope people

@4uThereAlways 4 жыл бұрын

Haven't seen my dad since I was 14, and now at 20 I still find myself attracted to guys who end up leaving me out of nowhere. Working on loving myself and living for my inner child

@missfi8684 4 жыл бұрын

I didn't know how deep I had buried my past until this video. I've cried my eyes out 😭😢... Thank you so much Breeny for being our big sister and wanting us to be the best us we could be. I love you

@juliaj3403 4 жыл бұрын

Breeny, you are a real life angel! Thank you for sharing your old soul wisdom with the world. Lets all heal and grow together :)

@BreenyLee 4 жыл бұрын

Julia J 💋♥️

@ladylorp5436 4 жыл бұрын

I’m in therapy right now for this topic, my childhood has affected n is still affecting my adulthood and I’m currently in therapy and reading Breaking the spirit of Rejection recommended by my therapist, it’s sad but it’s true

@melinoesedah9762 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your encouraging words. It took me years to acknowledge, accept, and overcome my childhood/teenage trauma. In my mid 20s I realized that I had a choice between being bitter about the past or forgive. I've seen what years of resentment and bitterness can do to people and I don't want to be like that. I forgive but won't forget the ugliness in certain people's hearts.

@larasmith2931 4 жыл бұрын

🦋so true, you never know what a person has been through until you walk a mile in their shoes

@lalasings21 4 жыл бұрын

I believe she’s a goddess

@h.k.ih.k.i2777 4 жыл бұрын

Wow wow wow wow! This girl is what I call reflective and outspoken. Breeny you’re literally my life coach. May god bless and protect you and yours. Thank you really. I’m gonna forgive my dad and re-parent myself!

@hollyrichmond5213 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve had a similar childhood my mother was so busy looking after my disabled brother and my dad was abusive wasn’t there much think this is why I seek male attention and lower my standards. Thank you Breeny for your kind words💞

@zuzanna4380 4 жыл бұрын

"that's not who you are anymore" I'm not gonna lie, so many things changed since then but I stull used to feel like that's me, but it's not. Thank you ❤️

@TheCristibsb 4 жыл бұрын

Happiness is an inside job, people can only add to what you already have and feel. Teach us queen ♥️

@larasmith2931 4 жыл бұрын

🦋Patience is hard but you have to trust Gods timetable

@KAY-sk6tk 4 жыл бұрын

I literally argued with grown ass women (late 40s early 50s) about how your upbringing affects your dating decision in adulthood. Ppl seriously underestimate the affect your childhood has throughout your lifespan.

@Alessaria 4 жыл бұрын

Love your videos. You feel like my big sister giving me her wisedom when I need it. Love 💕

@13MissSammy 4 жыл бұрын

The forgiveness part is what I struggle with, letting go of the anger for all the issues I have because of them.

@Aphrodisiac000 4 жыл бұрын

I was sexually abused by 6 men in my life I’m 21 now. I’m still trying to heal for it. It happened when I was just a 6 year old to my teenage. I’m glad that I had my spiritual awakening and I can see things on a different perspective but still it’s disturbing when I get this thoughts

@mariannimoh5276 4 жыл бұрын

Who are the 4 haters who disliked this video?!

@missharris1880 4 жыл бұрын

That's exactly who they are "Haters"!!

@cheriemadame933 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Breeny! This video is exactly what I needed in order to realise that things what happened in the past are not my fault and neither from anyone else. I spent a lot of time in the hospital in my childhood and my parents took good care of me, but I realise now that I needed their support by telling me that I am strong enough and responsible of my life and that everything will be fine. The trauma of the hospital is still affecting me as a grown up woman but I realise that no matter how hard the situation is, God is here to protect and that everything is going to be fine:)

@evrydaykris 4 жыл бұрын

you are really anointed. I don't even know if you know that but you are.

@sweetandsour46 4 жыл бұрын

Your wisdom is memorizing

@mahajahthermo 4 жыл бұрын

This video is exactly what I needed. My dad grew up with no one telling him he is loved and cared for or praising him for being good so naturally he raised my siblings and I like that. On the other hand my mom grew up with her parents always telling her she is loved and actively showing interest in her. This video brought tears to my eyes especially when you said that genuine love can melt a cold heart and that's exactly what happened with my dad over time. He never told us he loved us or genuinely took interest in us but we still did. All my siblings and I ever wanted from him is for him to show he cared or say that he cared and take interest in us and he has been doing that although now we're older (im 19) he now says he cares about us and loves us and wants to get to know us. I love your videos and I will definitely be watching more of them.

@tacos6977 4 жыл бұрын

I can't thank you enough for this. I'm a student and to be completely honest I'm really self insecure and my self esteem is so low, that sometimes I can't even study because I know I'll fail every test. But I'll try I guess. Thank you breeny, you make me feel like I have someone who believes in me💜

@bryannaweigel9581 4 жыл бұрын

“I am already whole” is such a powerful statement/affirmation. Thank you for emphasizing this.

@Sageambitions 4 жыл бұрын

I have such a similar story as you and probably many other women. I pray we all get through our childhood trauma. The wounds and the trauma wasn’t our fault but the healing is OUR responsibility. Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏾 Love & Light ✨

@Justin-TimeForDaShitz 4 жыл бұрын

This was beautiful...I’m 43 years old and I finally have the time to work on myself. I’m a mother of 3 so I was always busy and didn’t have the time to heal my past wounds and childhood trauma. Thank you for sharing your story and giving us this valuable information to start the healing process.

@Sashyalove 4 жыл бұрын

Amazing how I was thinking of this last night about how growing up in a toxic household made me feel like I am owed lovey dovey romantic film type of love. Many failed attempts of being in a real relationship and yet I'd always get the "you're a really good woman but" that line became tedious so God led me to 2 corinthians 12:9-10 and it's almost like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I got my notebook started studying that verse and I feel its the first step to healing... I believe in my last relationship "I had to lose him to love myself" I'm going to restart my celibacy journey, going to work on my relationship with God and incorporate fasting and get rid of the negative emotions that drag me to my past , soul ties, acenstor ties etc... God is good and he puts you in bad situations because he has a divine purpose for you 🙌🏾♥️thanks for the video it's like a double confirmation of God looking out for me

@VANTED 4 жыл бұрын

This is what I needed more than ever

@Ashleyunfiltered 4 жыл бұрын

Seriously you are like my big sister , God Bless you ❤️ I didn’t even know you were a believer ... makes it that much sweeter 🙏🏾😩

@mwakamatembo7606 4 жыл бұрын

I come from a home where I dont have a bond with my dad and I would say that has really messed up with my emotional state and it has really messed up the whole set up of family...i was so depressed because of what my home had become...I just accepted christ as my saviour and watching your videos is making heal Thank you

@mystery369 4 жыл бұрын

My husband is so cold its because his mother is a narcissist And i am struggeling to get him Open up and speek about his feelings i See that he enjoys my Love but he struggles showing his Love back What can i do girl? I Love him so much and he is such a good men i want to help him heal

@sfilms2963 4 жыл бұрын

Is marriage therapy an option or individual therapy for him? Also if you’re Christian, it may be wise to seek spiritual guidance from a spiritual advisor like a pastor or an elder within a Christian community and ultimately prayer and lots of engaging in spiritual warfare.

@yam153 4 жыл бұрын

You have the power of speech and word Sister! Blessings in Jesus Name! Thank you!

@Chaptersaudio 4 жыл бұрын

13:55 How beautiful, this is exactly what I seek in a partner. I am blessed because I had a great childhood. I was raised by a strong, confident, honest man that was a successful and was also a pastor. He loved me profoundly and taught us never settle in life. It is why I only want a man that will give me the acceptance I need. I have literally gone through life seeking a man that can live up to what I saw in my dad. The failed relationships I've had each were with men that lacked self confidence, were insecure and were cold. Because of their dysfunctional childhood. I am over trying to heal a man. I want a man that is equally yoked for me. Period. Breeny I love every word of this video.

@amib6887 3 жыл бұрын

Wowwww I absolutely love my mother but when Breeny Lee said this at 15:35 I instantly remembered when my mum told me how it’s naive and dumb to expect your husband to never cheat on you and it did rub me the wrong way like it shouldn’t be naive to expect respect from my significant other for our relationship it really almost made me think I was being naive and it is better to expect it to not be dissapointed but I realise no ! It’s not .

@hithereitsbloop3003 4 жыл бұрын

*When Breeny & Shallon Lester post at the same time !!!*

@tj8169 4 жыл бұрын

Kathryn Dowling what do u mean by that?

@shebalimmugs7896 4 жыл бұрын

Ooooo yeeesss!!

@tj8169 4 жыл бұрын

Kathryn Dowling no I don't know what that means "she's got a side to her". I'm not a native speaker you know

@D.j.2580 4 жыл бұрын

Kathryn Dowling which side are you talking about, I am curious ?

@hithereitsbloop3003 4 жыл бұрын

@Kathryn Dowling please elaborate

@Jj-ke3ug 4 жыл бұрын

You're Blessed, because I still don't have a partner who truly loves me and now in my 40's.

@sixteen.candles.4644 4 жыл бұрын

Same here...i do have a son though.

@Jj-ke3ug 4 жыл бұрын

@@sixteen.candles.4644 I've got a son also

@Mizzbadbihhcentral 4 жыл бұрын

No lie Breeny this hit my heart like my core. Thank you loved this

@nikiaa1151 4 жыл бұрын

Breeny. You’re always on time. ALWAYS. 💕💕💕💕

@chayah147 4 жыл бұрын

Wow, we have such similar stories. Bless you sis! Thanks so much for that therapy session 😌❤

@lindabediako_ 4 жыл бұрын

you is so motivational girl💞💞

@JP-nw3ht 3 жыл бұрын

Wow! I needed to pause and breathe for a while once you said 'Whatever happened to you in your past was not your fault'. Thank you!

@beatricesenesie 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I love the fact that you wearing black. I get distracted very quickly with stuff. This video was a PERSONAL ATTACK on my life! You’re incredible. Love you 🥰♥️

@cheeex5469 4 жыл бұрын

Ever since I discovered u I've been binge watching ur videos! Would love a video where u talk about how to not self-sabatoge in relationships. I met someone who's genuine but b/c I've seen and experienced toxic guys in my life, I think the worst of my new guy at times and I overthink and make myself believe he doesn't have my best interest. I have a tendency to close up and he tries to get me out of that shell and I don't want to keep closing up on a potentially good opportunity w/ someone

@smartymcfly7972 4 жыл бұрын

Breeny out here saving lives!!! ✨💆🏾‍♀️✨

@lauraashley1 4 жыл бұрын

Breeny, Breeny, Breeny... Every single time 🔥 When I see you made a new vid I get so excited just like when my fave programme dropped a new episode. Everything you say speaks volumes to me. Thank you universe for bringing you to me! And your hair... 😍 Beautiful! And you are a truly impressive orator 🎯 Keep slaying 💯

@nurulfajriaulia3848 4 жыл бұрын

Love, you don't know how much you've helped me to grow as a person by doing these videos. I'm subscribing right away! xx

@gehrilin2210 4 жыл бұрын

Your words are so comforting. Thank you so much Breeny. Much love!

@marcibailey6839 4 жыл бұрын

Everything that was mentioned in this video was on point. Love your videos Breeny❤️

@AdeleDaisyx3 4 жыл бұрын

i love the way you look at things and explain things, it truly speaks to me and i feel injected with insight and will to improve myself for myself

@basicinfo2022 4 жыл бұрын

Its called LOVE BLUEPRINT.

@Iamclerichena 4 жыл бұрын

There's so much healing that happens when we share stories like these, Thank you so much for sharing this. The world needs it!

@hotgirljanet 4 жыл бұрын

I’m so thankful I found your channel about a year ago because you’re words have helped me in my healing and growth process SO MUCH. Please keep doing what you’re doing because you’re such an empowering figure, it’s so crazy all you’re videos are divine timing for me bc this is exactly what I needed to hear❤️ thank you.