be confident and be yourself, don't try to act like somebody that you are not just because of videos like this. If your a simple guy and she's looking for someone more exciting then so be it, she missed out on a great guy and trust me you are worth it! Just be confident on who you are and who you will become in the future.
@timegoesby4212 жыл бұрын
Thanks bruhh👍🤝
@balaram91622 жыл бұрын
Yes. This is right. She sucks. She tells these things cause she's needy.
@ImNoneOfUrBusiness420 Жыл бұрын
Ikrr!! Like I mean if they ever start liking you, they at least need to know who u actually are. I mean how are they supposed to like a person who literally changed their personality cuz of youtube videos 🤷🏻♀️
@SemoreButtt9 ай бұрын
Ok
@SemoreButtt9 ай бұрын
I’m going to ask her out
@laryok94082 жыл бұрын
"Hi" Instead say "Greetings my fellow human, what will thou be doing on the fine evening"
@Cris_tiano865 Жыл бұрын
Im texting this to my crush rn. Edit:I DID IT
@laryok9408 Жыл бұрын
@@Cris_tiano865 oh dear. Did it work?
@Cris_tiano865 Жыл бұрын
@@laryok9408 YEAH IT DID HE ASKED TO VIDEO CALL
@WickedEditz.Ай бұрын
@@Cris_tiano865 he ☠️
@Cris_tiano865Ай бұрын
@@WickedEditz. ik this sounds weird but i ain't dude im a girl😭
@DeguzmanFrancisco2 жыл бұрын
What i think is when the person is really into you she will exert effort on messages.
@bridgotaj65782 жыл бұрын
If I’ve got to be ‘hot’ over text to get someone to like me instead of acting like myself, I don’t want it.
@Thatmusicnartgirl2 ай бұрын
WAIT A DAMM MINNM✨✨✨✨ok this is how too
@calebbrown65952 жыл бұрын
FYI this is only for attractive guys. So she forgot to mention that
@chrismeadows42162 жыл бұрын
Most would be branded as incels for doing exactly these things.
@jake54032 жыл бұрын
Maybe they’re attractive because they do this
@arjunarun30332 жыл бұрын
@@jake5403 phsycially attractive. If you aren't that then doing this will brand you as a creep
@NellielsHusband2 жыл бұрын
@@arjunarun3033 literally smh
@XanderXel912 жыл бұрын
So take this as advice for after you've hit the gym hard for 6 months, overhauled your wardrobe, and learned an interesting hobby.
@elianotate49603 жыл бұрын
This girl is a legend rly like those shorts and the advice
@koba23482 жыл бұрын
Trash
@HorseyPorsey2 жыл бұрын
Bro she's 18. Don't take advice from 18 year olds👍
@nikkisumesh2 жыл бұрын
@@HorseyPorsey most of the viewers are even younger-
@uber1ns4n1ty82 жыл бұрын
@@nikkisumesh That makes things even worse...because thay might actually believe what shes saying.
@zangrygrapes45712 жыл бұрын
@@uber1ns4n1ty8 they already are
@savannah79063 жыл бұрын
loving the shorts!
@Undead_Gothic0187 ай бұрын
.. it was on my fyp… AND YES I DO NEED IT SO THANK YOU FOR THE BLESSING 🙏🙏
@uber1ns4n1ty82 жыл бұрын
Yeah, as a guy, id ask you to NOT do these things the way she said. First of all, keep saying just "hi" to girls, the ones who think youre "boring" because of a simple "hi" definitely arent for you, so you will filter out the filth, those are the girls that are the "complicated" type. The ones that respond normally and or show interest, well shoot your shot mate and good luck. The other things she mentioned, dont work at all if you arent generally attractive. Just so you know. If an attractive guy sends her a video or voice mail, it will be cute...if an unattractive guy does the same, she will see it as creepy. Point is, dont deal with these 304s. You will have better luck and chance doing it in person than over text. If youre a guy thats self concious, just work on how you carry yourself a little bit, work on your body a little bit and trust me, you will have no problems.
@nikkisumesh2 жыл бұрын
Yeah yeah. I just want a guy with a d and a pulse
@transparentcd2 жыл бұрын
@@nikkisumesh That can be arranged
@nikkisumesh2 жыл бұрын
@@transparentcd hi bae
@embracemasculinity75362 жыл бұрын
True mate
@uber1ns4n1ty82 жыл бұрын
@@nikkisumesh Yeah yeah. We both know that aint true.
@syrae75112 жыл бұрын
I was scared to ask my crush out but the second I did I just closed the Messages app and I waited for the response and to my surprise she said yes and I was absolutely in shock.
@Marialoveeeee Жыл бұрын
Girl, you don’t know how much that helped me my crush just texted me and I was so freaking awkward
@picklethedinosaur Жыл бұрын
is no one gonna talk about how good her “wait a damn min” at the start was?! girl you should be a professional singer!
@graceanne.2 жыл бұрын
This girl always giving me the best advice 😩 like idk what to do
@ishitajain53152 жыл бұрын
So happy to see that this was not another "play hard to get, reply after 6 hours" type of video
@vaibhavmourya68902 жыл бұрын
God I struggle in making out what part of the video is sarcasm and what isnt
@Classicsdaily2 жыл бұрын
For me, recently started talking with my crush, needed it.
@cailindowd2963 Жыл бұрын
me watching this over for the wait a damn min bc i luv her voice
@vivian2262 жыл бұрын
Is anyone else going to talk about how good her singing voice is?!??!
@Iamthecookiemonster1234 ай бұрын
I needed this…
@sophiagrove95833 жыл бұрын
Can you make a short how you made a start and acting and what you used
@maryblum16062 жыл бұрын
I freaking love her!!! Like fr 🥰
@sandramulota-wx2so11 ай бұрын
True 🦋
@madisonjackson50072 жыл бұрын
Shes such a good singer
@Linds008 Жыл бұрын
POV: your crush doesnt have a phone yet. Welcome to my world!
@kingjet51232 жыл бұрын
So basically the man has to do everything, be talented funny confident and the woman does nothing. Maybe it's you who needs to give the man a reason to be interested
@BamM882 жыл бұрын
Such a toxic game. It's easier to just ignore them at that point.
@raritica84092 жыл бұрын
Lol don't even say hi, just start slangin washed up pickup lines used 1000s of times.
@Ella-dv8ef2 жыл бұрын
She didn't mention gender. Stop complaining
@kingjet51232 жыл бұрын
@@bobsaget338 😂😂😂 exactly
@Bernard_Horner2 жыл бұрын
Holy words!
@kyr27782 жыл бұрын
Right when you said if you come in worth a hi.. my friend literally just sent me hii 😂
@frederickali40442 жыл бұрын
Her advice is amazing plus she's really pretty too what an individual
@dm19722 жыл бұрын
Wow. Gee. Thanks Spence. Needed these tips.
@asapmoa75982 жыл бұрын
The Snaps!! 😂
@gvi3419842 жыл бұрын
She will never make it as a guy
@ninasharp4622 жыл бұрын
I am being true girl. I love your attitude and you always make me smile every day. I always used to be insecure about my body now I’m not because of you!! Love u x
@rishuyadav9667 Жыл бұрын
It's far better chasing excellency and greatness rather than girls
@TheGrimKnight2 жыл бұрын
I need more of this
@manvichauhan46833 ай бұрын
Trust me I used to send such boring snaps like what would one do of em? But then i showed more of my life maybe when I am travelling and my cute doggo, and stuff and he legit sent me a snap, and that was his way of telling me that he wants to create a streak with me , after sometime I just stopped for sec cuz I thought why am I only keeping the streak alive , and trust me the other day he sent me the snap to keep the streak alive and going on.
@actuallyreallyspider-man8202 жыл бұрын
Yeah I needed this video
@islajenkins41813 жыл бұрын
Omg I just searched up on Famous birthdays my birthdays the 29th of October and So is your omg I’m matching with my ONE of my fave KZfaqrs who gives great advice EEEEEK
@nataliamusicals2 жыл бұрын
Need another one like this
@arizonatimpson296611 ай бұрын
This is on my FYP because I Freaking love you!
@jaymonyirmanang260110 ай бұрын
Your so sweet n that’s the truth
@ayathassan786 Жыл бұрын
Can we just appreciate her singing like brooouuuu 🎉❤
@callmemistahcrypt22206 ай бұрын
Alright, this is actually good advice, just gonna add something on top of it. If you guys are acting kinky together, get possessive, if you wanna see what I mean by possessive, read any romance novel that includes a woman thinking a guy is hot, for example something like Twisted Games or Fifty Shades Of Grey (don’t actually be THAT abusive but yk what I mean) or Hunting Adeline. (This is extra effective if your girl reads romance novels, you’ll be a living dream, trust me). STILL BE NICE, NEVER SAID DONT BE NICE!!
@matthewbrown52282 жыл бұрын
"How to be more attractive over text" "Send a video or voicemail" Umm...those aren't text.
@Belovedfire8 ай бұрын
“Snap like these” Me: “get you in the friendzone” 🗿
@itsteezr38743 жыл бұрын
Your advice is the best , I hope you make it 1 mil some day , remember us people when ur a big youtuber 👍🙂
@koba23482 жыл бұрын
This advice is trash
@HorseyPorsey2 жыл бұрын
Dude shes 18. Stop taking advice from 18 year olds😂
@edenbos69762 жыл бұрын
@@HorseyPorsey she would know more about this stuff than you?
@HorseyPorsey2 жыл бұрын
@@edenbos6976 maybe but my point being that you shouldn't listen to an 18 year old about things like this. She's not a professional and Frankly 18 year olds don't know anything😂 if you want dating advice or whatever then go check out appolonia ponti. Shes like 35 and is a relationship psychologist that gets payed to give advice like this as her job and she gives much better advice on every facet of dating and relationships👍 sorry for the rant!
@micahrichmond64692 жыл бұрын
Just wanna clarify that this is good advice for boys as well as girls. Can't count the amount of "don't be boring" bio's that I matched with and got a hi from 😂
@softaylorsversion Жыл бұрын
“✨YAH, they SUCK✨” is that just me who found that iconic. Also i know this is over a year ago, but I love Spencer!💗
@VinexAesthetics2 жыл бұрын
“If you want to catch fish, you don’t ask the fish. You ask the fisherman”
@slicklizardchamp Жыл бұрын
Facts…don’t ever take a woman’s advice on how to text women.
@Justice17112 жыл бұрын
Don't say hi, you're boring - will be ignored and girls deserve better than that. You could also say hi back and not ignore that, guys deserve better than that.
@shubhtripathi19442 жыл бұрын
never ask a fish how to get trapped..
@SepiKeyk Жыл бұрын
Lesson learned; saying 'hi' is bad and if I do it again, everyone I know will leave me for being boring.
@Itskentrell28 күн бұрын
ME SITTING HERE LIKE “I don’t have snap” #strictparents😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@timtoot33142 жыл бұрын
Lol I love how this girl thinks she knows it all
@timtoot33142 жыл бұрын
@@bobsaget338 Yeah that’s what I was thinking. Although, that could just be how she acts infront of a camera. At the end of the day we don’t know her
@edenbos69762 жыл бұрын
@@bobsaget338 there’s a difference between being narcissistic and loving yourself
@edenbos69762 жыл бұрын
@@timtoot3314 her mom is a psychologist, she knows a lot😂
@timtoot33142 жыл бұрын
@@edenbos6976 Oh yeah I’m sure her Mom learns about attractive texting, and what every single guy on this earth likes
@ish7ta2 жыл бұрын
Hon, don't be jealous just cause you're not confident.
@Lauryn115 Жыл бұрын
Omg spencer u are gorg!! Pls pls pls reply it would make my year!! Liv u
@xqyzstar Жыл бұрын
bro when he said bye for the first time i died idk why (btw it was the first guy i actually ever likes and texted)
@hampter4565 Жыл бұрын
12 hours timezones gonna laugh at this
@syamalif96742 жыл бұрын
Your smile and the way you look so attractive
@JamesRussle3652 жыл бұрын
Here’s a better one. Drop all forms of social media and texts and actually call the person. Old school never fails.
@dymize27792 жыл бұрын
Any conversation tips?
@goldrichig2885 Жыл бұрын
I suck at calls, I have nothing to talk about usually
@ctbarnum1664 Жыл бұрын
I like your picture video thank you💕
@bellofigoitaliano50382 жыл бұрын
Basically all she taught was how to keep funnelling women more attention💀
@ahmadrufaimuhammad28492 жыл бұрын
Dude you're the best
@alissasims232 жыл бұрын
Wait a damn minute... The way it sound so good (Not meant to be rude 😊)
@spiderboy34912 жыл бұрын
So saying "hi" just isn't enough anymore, girls and their expectations I swear
@madiiii_03272 жыл бұрын
Dude, we want men with personalities and that are able to start a convo. If you’re trying to win a girl like this: ‘Hi’ ‘Hi’ ‘Wyd’ *what the girl is doing* ‘Cool’ Then ur probably not getting the girl. Sorry. It works the other way too, if a girl is trying to win you like this probably run the other way
@DarthNightmareNL2 жыл бұрын
@@madiiii_0327 itsa joke...
@ayanna38952 жыл бұрын
Are you serious saying that? Girls want a guy who actually engages in a conversation with them and doesn't just say the same thing every time they talk. Geez.
@emmastone87792 жыл бұрын
@@ayanna3895 they’re being sarcastic 😂
@ft.xsammy2 жыл бұрын
Ok who wanna date a boring man who cannot even start a conversation
@Roozy_Persepolis2 жыл бұрын
But when a girl likes you, the best they will do is to say Hi, that's it. When it's their turn,they'll say just Hi,but when we have to start,we need to write a love novel.
@chris-sama9132 жыл бұрын
I love how perfectly inaccurate this is😂
@sarahbranham19492 жыл бұрын
Ik someone who needs this video
@jop79552 жыл бұрын
I really don't get why so many people think they could get an actually good advice from her 😂 Guys, don't do any of these. I tried it, didn't work. A simple hi/hey as an opener works just as good and is a lot less effort. The girls that want you to do something "special" just after you first saw a picture of her are really not worth your time anyways and would never give you any effort. So just relax. Or as an old German saying goes: you are always best when you really don't care ;)
@edenbos69762 жыл бұрын
I don’t think you understand her advice..,
@BJenks112 жыл бұрын
Bro “you get what you give” bro all I give is love and helpfulness and all I get it bullshit and hate like I get that it’s out there and your gonna get it but THATS ALL I GOT
@imperialdebauchery5988 Жыл бұрын
One of my girl friends just got a new puppy and posted it on her IG. I commented "Who doesn't love a little doggy?" 😁
@Anabeexxoo72 жыл бұрын
Proud to say I looked this up 😃
@kingwesleywilliams2722 Жыл бұрын
I swear exactly when u said "snaps like these" someone sent a snap
@itz_shadowe1533 Жыл бұрын
This actually worked now I am dating my crush ty
@MADZOUA2 жыл бұрын
Yasss that's what I doo
@klaudia77452 жыл бұрын
Im not nad at the hi, I can have interesting conversations with a hi at the beginning but if someone is dry after that then IT is an issue
@mse58422 жыл бұрын
Notes lads, send brave prequel memes
@blake_frostedflake3362 жыл бұрын
I liked the beginning
@nabildk6954 Жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for myself watching this 😆
@instrrxx11 ай бұрын
I just send "bread" instead of "hi" and they fall in love with me
@parushibeniwal19072 жыл бұрын
That vid was on my fyp
@shannieb830011 ай бұрын
Yeah I need this video lol I suck so bad at texting cuz I dunno how much is too much so I hold back 🤦♀️ Today basically got dumped over text
@bored_92 Жыл бұрын
I just got my crushes snap and now I’m watching this 😢
@ayeitstrey41622 жыл бұрын
Yea I don’t know about anyone else, but I don’t have the confidence or courage to do any of that…
@2RayMakavelli2 жыл бұрын
Same, but not because I’m afraid of rejection. I’m afraid of them telling their friends “(blank) sent me a snap asking how are you” and then they gon be giggling at you for the rest of the semester.
@imhotterthanabowlofsoup32022 жыл бұрын
@@2RayMakavelli fr me too please help me out
@lewisdepatserlord473711 ай бұрын
Don't just say bye, say goodbye.
@laflamme49642 жыл бұрын
Looks like I’m too socially awkward for a girlfriend 😂
@yukhzia Жыл бұрын
I hit up my gf of 3 years randomly on a ig post and introduced myself just straight up and asked her if she wanted to see my cat and it worked 😁
@pdub50352 жыл бұрын
okokok i need some help the girls i like likes me back and we used to talk allll dayyy longggg then she suddenly just stopped talking to me and i was like ok i’ll just play it cool and not worry about it we’ll it’s starting to get to the point where it feels like she’s losing feelings and i don’t want her tooooo what do i do???
@Samara-xx1qr2 жыл бұрын
Never sending him a boring snap.
@Prathikraj_mysorean Жыл бұрын
You be telling : All the keys for impress a girl in a girl way . Me a boy : didn't understand anything . 🤣
@crystalvbae2 жыл бұрын
Yuh yuh
@ivoryacademy8709 Жыл бұрын
I am severely envious of all those confident and extroverted people 🫠 I cannot say a word, Nevermind send a video of me dancing 😭😭😭
@christianrose2272 ай бұрын
Actually wrong. If you post a selfie on social media and they like it or heart it I’ve always jsut messaged them “hiiii” and they always replied
@i_am_thebatman2 жыл бұрын
Put an F in the reply chat for All the guys who commented on an Instagram post thinking that would get them a DM
@krishnasinghrathour32142 жыл бұрын
Mridul in foreign version 🤣
@freshcoastrider Жыл бұрын
You got the crazy eyes
@pixachild36342 жыл бұрын
Damn, my crushes friend got me used to calling everyone SEGGSY as a joke 😭
@asahiazumane8541 Жыл бұрын
When you can only text him on Instagram because he hasn't excepted your friend request on snap could not be me....
@colonelrubix2 жыл бұрын
The advice is don’t do it. Most likely you are talking to somebody you know. The best types of interactions that we remember happen in person. A boring conversation in person is still better than a great one over text.
@anonymousgara84152 жыл бұрын
God bless.
@Becksnnc2 жыл бұрын
The only thing I agree with is the hi thing. When I used to be on dating apps so many guys would just start with a hi and it's just an instant no. Solely for lack of effort. It doesn't take much to think of something a bit more interesting to say to get my attention if you're actually interested you know? Most people that I've pursued something with have started a conversation about what I'd written in my bio. It's not that hard lol And yes I am kind of traditional and I will wait for the guy to message me first, UNLESS it's someone Im really into.
@llcooldrockindahouse46312 жыл бұрын
I def agree 100% however on chat sites like kik and meet me they don't have anything in the profile to icebreak but ur right when they have an actual profile u can say something witty or ask her about something that caught ur eye. But she's 100% right, a simple hi it is boring. Cuz there is lack of effort. Witty or joke is what gets then started. Girls love a guy with humor and confidence.
@edwardy.46032 жыл бұрын
I do what you guys say here, in fact I take the best input from people so I can properly navigate the social and dating life because I'm an introvert. I put a lot of effort, mention something from their profile that I share interest with and be authentic as much as possible and some humor when I try to talk to someone but no one seems to respond. It bothers me even more if they say they want deep connection with someone and yet practice such toxic trait like ghosting. For someone who is painfully average, I feel like it all comes down to looks. Like I understand you guys have standards but damn.. I think you know that the ball is always in your court. For the record, I'm just stating the harsh reality for us guys. I'm not an incel but I kinda sound like one rn. Hahaha. Definitely not a misogynist, In fact I love women, sometimes a little too much but not in a creepy way, more like a respectful appreciation 👍🏼 (cookies if you know where this is from)
@Becksnnc2 жыл бұрын
@@edwardy.4603 especially online looks are a big factor. But it goes both ways as well. You're not gonna be interested in a girl that you think is unattractive. Of course looks plays a role. We all judge people by their looks even if we try to deny it. Looks aside what I just mentioned is gonna repel you even more. Even if you're a good looking guy, if the conversion is dull it's a no. For me anyway, I can't speak for every woman..
@edwardy.46032 жыл бұрын
@@Becksnnc I'm not disagreeing with you on that. but in my case, as much as it pains me to say it, even the not conventionally good looking ones who seem to have a nice personality and same interests as mine tends to be choosy as well. it sucks that it has to be this way. I admit I may not be the best talker out there but I'm trying to learn. no one even bother to get to know someone anymore
@donteo5082 жыл бұрын
@New Soul.9 Was my first thought. Why should i wrack my brain trying to come up with something to say that isn't hello only to be ignored or just be given a "hey" back? Why not even go through the effort of trying to get to know someone first before writing them off completely?