How To Be More Attractive While Speaking Korean

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In this episode, we learned how to be more attractive when you’re having a conversation in Korea🌹
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@rosea4497 4 жыл бұрын

Step 1: Learn Korean Step 2: get money to travel to Korea

@theybevibin 4 жыл бұрын

Rosé A step 3: avoid eye contact

@hixtorie433 4 жыл бұрын

In America eye contact means you’re actively engaged in a conversation, like listening with your eyes and ears. It can seem like you’re uninterested and dont care if you’re looking out the window or at the table, it’s crazy how much cultures differ

@joey9646 4 жыл бұрын

Sees title, thinks: “Can Rachel be more attractive? She’s already amazing.” Watches video “Yes she can”

@mrrandomdude4291 4 жыл бұрын

Oooh Korea sounds perfect for me, I already have trouble maintaining eye contact 😅

@mikeyjagger8855 4 жыл бұрын

Haha same! That's exactly what I thought when she said that 😅

@jasmineuelese730 4 жыл бұрын

Me too 😂😂😂😂

@MoonlitSummers 4 жыл бұрын

I can tell the eye contact thing is going to be a struggle for me.

@ramo13121 4 жыл бұрын

😂🤣 that bird story part was hilarious and adorable

@AI-MusicPlanet 4 жыл бұрын

Having been raised in America, making eye contact was ingrained from childhood. It's a sign of respect, and shows you are listening. I would agree that too much eye contact between male and female does get awkward.

@quietisonline 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been working on good eye contact all my life and now i perfected it, when i go there imma be at square one lmao

@98pennygirl 4 жыл бұрын

Spectral lmfao !

@suz-2050 4 жыл бұрын

Idk if I can look attractive but it’s worth a try... anyone else with me?

@abeer1882 4 жыл бұрын

Can u please tell me what (Idk) mean ?

@iggyiggz1999 4 жыл бұрын

@@abeer1882 IDK = I don't know

@abeer1882 4 жыл бұрын

@@iggyiggz1999 oh thank u 😊

@suz-2050 4 жыл бұрын

Abeer아비루 I don’t know😊

@abeer1882 4 жыл бұрын

@@suz-2050 thank u 😁😊

@Alexis-nq9nl 4 жыл бұрын

That eye contact part stresses me out where else do I look airbwit

@delilahblue64 4 жыл бұрын

“Look at me when I’m talking to you!” How many times did I hear that growing up? 😂 To do otherwise is disrespectful, dismissive. We were taught that ppl who can’t maintain eye contact were shifty, untrustworthy. This is going to be a challenging thing to unlearn.

@fatikamrou3911 4 жыл бұрын

Hahahha right 😂😂😂😂

@aboutkaro 4 жыл бұрын

The reaction to: It's the perfect condiment to you hotdog was so funny😭 Wow if my co-worker of someone with a higher status would react like that, I would've stopped after 15 sec, apologise and leave them alone. I would just assume that they think that I'm bothering them.

@killian_reid 4 жыл бұрын

I wish the eye contact thing was different in America. I don't do eye contact well, it feels too intimate.

@avyluant9416 4 жыл бұрын

same here

@triton576 4 жыл бұрын

When I show eye contact also shows interest. Thumbs up to ya !!

@TheRemoXII 4 жыл бұрын

I to say that one, it is awesome that you told the monk and the bird joke... I learned about that joke in the summer semester of my Korean class. Also I agree and personally I hate intense eye contact while having a conversation. It feels super awkward..

@mishmashmixofstuff 4 жыл бұрын

Rachel's story from 2:16 to 2:50 was so funny. 🤣 These tips apply in America too, except for the eye contact. In America making eye contact is way of being respectful because it means you are paying attention.

@mx5hong 4 жыл бұрын

“Netflix and chill at my place😊?” “Jin-jja?” 😡 Or.., “You’re the father.” “Jin-jja!!!??? 😬😥😮🙅‍♂️ Hahahaha!!!🤪😜

@kavinduabishakemunasinghe1517 4 жыл бұрын

It's okay Rachel, I found the bird story funny xD

@BigEvilLadia23 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Rachel I love your video I am still learning speak Korean

@Ricccardo80 4 жыл бұрын

Another great and very informative video! Loved it! The staring to the eye situation is pretty similar to the Italian culture so it wasn't that difficult to me once I got to South Korea but I wish I could have watched this video to avoid many mistakes in the past. Thanks for the great content and for the positive energy you always pass by through your video. I wish you a lovely start of the week

@terebiomimasu 4 жыл бұрын

Ok. I'll admit. That bird story joke got me laughing pretty good.

@aimeej1773 4 жыл бұрын

Interesting. I'm not big on intense eye contact it makes me more nervous especially if I don't know the person really well.

@uiop2k7 4 жыл бұрын

The Eastern half of me feels comforted about the eye contact issue when living in a Western European country 🤣

@akanshabhora6586 4 жыл бұрын

Rachel whenever you speak Korean you sense like a complete different person that comes rarely on your channel.

@Xol1004 4 жыл бұрын

The bird joke is actually pretty funny

@genuinetallguy6318 4 жыл бұрын

I love your energy Rachel.

@CuzCanHawaii 4 жыл бұрын

네? 진짜요?! Thanks for the helpful tips. I haven’t talked to anyone from Korea yet but i should be more confidant in speaking it by next year, when I visit Korea.

@skylineinspiration1798 4 жыл бұрын

I'm just like you Rachel when it comes to eye contact so I won't have a problem with the first point at all as I feel it starts to get awkward when staring at someone for too long.

@martencedric 4 жыл бұрын

If i come past my stutters and fear while speaking korean since i'm quite new to speaking, i'll try to remember this ;p

@bmac6730 4 жыл бұрын

Eye contact is important for many things. In America it's taught as a sign of respect. Also eye movements can tell you many things. You can see if someone is lying or isn't being honest. You can also see love and affection. I think what foreigners need to understand is what's acceptable eye contact for strangers. Once relationships are established I think you can dial up the eye contact. For me, I'm always cracking jokes and sometimes I use my words other times I use my face or eyes.

@kat02127 4 жыл бұрын

You are so cute And I just want to say LEE DONG WOOK!!!!!!! ❤

@turnitupwithnelly-2337 4 жыл бұрын

I KNOW!! HOW IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT HIM

@arima5389 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos are so helpful! Thank you for your tips and have a good day ^^

@vc739 4 жыл бұрын

I've ALWAYS felt the same about eye contact, I hate long eye contact when speaking with others.

@pharaon3251 4 жыл бұрын

Rachel is back! Good video

@drowning_ship 3 жыл бұрын

That story waa really funny specially when Rachel told us😂😂😂

@Randomstupidthings 4 жыл бұрын

Ending Sunday with Rachel is best

@iain11301980 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Rachel!💓 Here looking at someone when your talking is more important!;) It shows you care about what someone has say!💓

@RS-ej9yj 4 жыл бұрын

This helped me so much! 감사합니다!

@BigEvilLadia23 4 жыл бұрын

I have a best day when I still learning speaking Korean thanks Rachel Kim You make my me happy and I have a best day in my life

@rxlxviii 4 жыл бұрын

As for a person listening to your story, I don't think it has to do with hierarchy. It has more to do with how much interest you have in the person or even the story. An older person most likely has experienced more things than you have and while you find your experience novel, the older person may have already experienced something similar so to them it is old news. For example, let's say you graduate from school and start your first job, You are experiencing a lot of new things, but an older person would have already experienced similar things when they started their first job. So to them, it's old news and nothing new. It is hard to get excited about a story that you've already heard or experienced before.

@lavatelculo 4 жыл бұрын

damn ima need to get used to the second thing you mentioned because usually when people show no interest in what i’m saying I just stop talking and let the person talk instead 😅

@robertreynolds9228 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Rachel! Good to see you sweetie! Ive had a few studys concerning body language and conditioned responses. Good subject overall sweetie. Have a great day.

@reallexYY 4 жыл бұрын

Idk but I think her pronounciton is really good....

@iloveyousomuch7440 4 жыл бұрын

Your so funnnyyyyyy🤣 ~~likeee BOOMMM!!!

@alexgarza5211 4 жыл бұрын

7:15 PM here in Houston, Texas. Prepping a presentation for tomorrow on my desktop. Boring stuff. Got my phone's earphones on so I can have some soothing backqround music while I type. Suddenly I realize that it's evening time and I haven't had my dose of Rache today! No Prob! Utude and Rache in my ear. Type, Type, Type. Ha Ha Ha, Rache is soo funny. Wait, What? ... Don't look at Rache's Eyes while she is talking to me....Damn Rache! Now I Cant stop staring at you!

@iniminimo 4 жыл бұрын

Maybe I should tone down my eye contact now that I think about it lol

@rae_raquelle 4 жыл бұрын

thanks for this!!

@beatless3105 4 жыл бұрын

Your best Rachel 👍🏻

@lisablair8847 4 жыл бұрын

Love your videos! I want to learn how to order in a Korean restaurant.

@user-mg8fw1lw9f 4 жыл бұрын

Active listening

@chrisbeck5099 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you RACHEL for another great video! 👋👍🌹🌷🌸💐🌹🌞😀😍

@anilpatra1249 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos are really helpful .

@domxov 4 жыл бұрын

Lol she’s so cute and funny.

@CAMCAM413 4 жыл бұрын

Yay I learned two more words - the hot dog reference will help 😂

@AlexSigrist 4 жыл бұрын

Why am I craving a hot dog all of a sudden? '🙇

@harrisonharley3533 4 жыл бұрын

This video was so cute LOL. ❤️

@jennifersantucci1855 4 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this video! The nuances in another culture are hard to catch in the beginning. I appreciate you sharing this! You shared how the amount of attention someone gives to while listening depends on the hierarchy placement of where they are. The examples you gave were good but what about in a social setting? Elders and/or ppl older than you? Is it the same way?

@anniesetting1687 4 жыл бұрын

The eye contact thing stresses me out so much where would I look???

@turnitupwithnelly-2337 4 жыл бұрын

Oh wow. The cultural difference is really different. For me, if someone isn't looking at me when i speak, i think they aren't listening 😂😂😂

@Hillary_Official_1 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Rachel

@bladeofSteele 4 жыл бұрын

Rachel: *tells me I how to be more attractive in conversation* Me: 아~ 진짜요? 🤔👀😏

@avyluant9416 4 жыл бұрын

I'm not korean but I also can't look people in the eyes when talking to me it feels intimidating

@kawaiisakurapotato873 4 жыл бұрын

Also I'm probably gonna do ok I'm very understanding I'm a great listener and not much of a talker I also suck at eye contact wow I feel like I'm born for this 😂😂😂

@mahe588 3 жыл бұрын

When Rachel says "that's it for this video" I kinda in shock everytime Like.."why so early??

@kawaiisakurapotato873 4 жыл бұрын

Well that's a relief I suck at eye contact anyway 😅 I'm not confident hehe😅

@i_am_b1anca_207 4 жыл бұрын

You’re so funny 😆 🙏🏾💓

@yoopi7073 4 жыл бұрын

I can’t even make eye contact once our eyes meet I literally look somewhere else

@TomHendricksMusea 4 жыл бұрын

Pardon me Sir But have you heard That on your back There sits a bird. At first I didn't even notice, Thought my eyes were out of focus. Now I think it's just absurd That on your back There sits a bird. (My poem from back a while.)

@dunamiswihmee 4 жыл бұрын

Besides moving to Korea what’s the best way to learn Korea. Fluently? Or most effective way? I really want to learn Korean but I can’t move there and don’t want to have a heavy accent.

@vzwc89 4 жыл бұрын

진짜? 대박!

@justwatchingandcommenting 4 жыл бұрын

I even fing it awkward to stare in your eyes while watching the video xD so I really know what you're talking about 😅

@number1coolguy322 4 жыл бұрын

Can I just use 그래 too like 진짜 and 그랬어?

@coofzilla 4 жыл бұрын

나: 아 그래? 여친: 야~ 듣고 있냐? 나: ㅇㅂㅇ after a while, even Americans don't get the 진짜~그래 pass lmao

@theybevibin 4 жыл бұрын

I’m a person who definitely makes eye contact 24/7 sooo..

@vianneymunozr3143 4 жыл бұрын

Wow thx LMFAOO ily

@kristenjansen7941 4 жыл бұрын

I'm good at making eye contact but it gets awkward for me too 😂

@kayeth2391 4 жыл бұрын

@mustardroshi418 3 жыл бұрын

We call that staring in ur soul.. Seoul

@yumiyam9857 4 жыл бұрын

I hate eye contact. yayyy

@cbigalex 4 жыл бұрын

No Rachel I'm not trying to read your mind I'm reading your soul.

@strzyga420 4 жыл бұрын

I'm a simple woman. I see Lee Dong-wook, i click.

@leftcoastfunk 4 жыл бұрын

진짜? 😅😁❤️

@yurixkai 4 жыл бұрын

Oh I'm early

@arieswar4327 4 жыл бұрын

@Rachel I love to meet you one day I love your video

@acharyaj2852 4 жыл бұрын

Hiiiiii

@Patrick-zc4kr 4 жыл бұрын

😺✌🏻👍🏻👌🏻

@cuteologist82 4 жыл бұрын

You are so cute and sweet. You have very big hand movements which is surprisingly very Italian

@anni5237 4 жыл бұрын

I‘m from germany. I consider intense staring into each others eyes awkward too. 😅

@janniedejong3432 4 жыл бұрын

I can't bare it if someone looks to long in my eyes 😩it's indeed akward but its unrespectfull if you dont do it in the netherlands ESPECIALLY to eldern people 😂 (I DON'T LIKE IT AT ALL )👏 except for handsom guys with beautifull eyes 🧐

@robertreynolds9228 4 жыл бұрын

Very handsome and Hazel eyed guy at your service! Jannie de Jong.

@markheisler2349 4 жыл бұрын

Well, the whole eye contact thing is engrained in to our heads so that we're not staring at a Woman's chest.😉

@turnitupwithnelly-2337 4 жыл бұрын

Well yeahhh

@cintianormal3177 4 жыл бұрын

진짜?

@dyah22h12 4 жыл бұрын

Gosh. Have convo with someone in higher society must be sucks

@AlexC595 4 жыл бұрын

Where do foreigners fit in that power hierarchy?

@ChancellorMango 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, too much eye contact is a red flag

@phonotical 4 жыл бұрын

Did you get a boyfriend recently, or dumped? I've noticed a huge theme lately, you aren't who you used to be 😢

@RachelKim 4 жыл бұрын

lol what are you talking about? what theme?

@phonotical 4 жыл бұрын

@@RachelKim hahaha, how to sound more attra give, how to tell if a Korean likes you, boyfriend warning signs, next is baby parenting advice? 😁😂

@yjalaska2546 4 жыл бұрын

Okay oh, you don't like people looking in your eyes I get it, how about now you do all your videos from the neck down or just don't show your face at all? Let's see how many people watch your videos after that