How to build resilient children | Teresse Lewis | TEDxTemecula

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Why do some kids thrive despite adverse experiences? The answer can be found, not in the children themselves, but in the adults around them. Learn the lessons that every adult needs to teach the children in their lives in order to build resilience in them! A child of the inner city, Teresse Lewis has long wondered why some students thrive amid difficulty and others don’t. The answer, she says, is both simple and complicated. As executive director of The Empowerment Center in Temecula, also through her work as a licensed therapist and school social worker, Lewis has helped many youngsters move from risk to resilience. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@BrentonCrosby
@BrentonCrosby Жыл бұрын
1) Adversity is not personal 2) Teach Forgiveness (No anger, fear, self-loathing) 3) “I see you” 4) It is OK to need other people
@jessicahue5676
@jessicahue5676 10 күн бұрын
Thank you! Ive been saying for years that the schools should have required classes thst teach emotional intelligence and resilience and mindfulness and all that good stuff because that is when there is the oppertunity to influence almost every single person in the country. Psrents should some do... most try...but many dont heve the knowledge or the capacity or the patience or whatever to teach or guide them to be stronger.
@ParentingPlanet
@ParentingPlanet Жыл бұрын
The real fact of resilience in children is that it is the ability to bounce back from adversity, adapt to change, and effectively cope with challenges by developing emotional, cognitive, and behavioral skills, often fostered through supportive relationships and a nurturing environment. Resilience enables children to maintain positive well-being and thrive despite difficult circumstances.
@bridgetlishy
@bridgetlishy Жыл бұрын
She said "I'm not gonna cry"... It's okay, I cried for you. That was beautiful.
@TheEmpowermentCenter
@TheEmpowermentCenter Жыл бұрын
💗
@rebeccatoboolul-hossen3171
@rebeccatoboolul-hossen3171 4 ай бұрын
So did I.
@andrewflorkowski4338
@andrewflorkowski4338 2 жыл бұрын
Go get them girl... Everybody needs to be aware of this. Everyone needs to try at least a little bit.. Which would go a long way. For the most important thing on this planet Are children. Don't stop spreading your message.
@IJ2050
@IJ2050 2 жыл бұрын
Unrelated but she has four children?? Her body is GOALSS.
@oluwasegunagboola6743
@oluwasegunagboola6743 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting topic delivered the best way possible, I am inspired by this, resilience all the way.
@barbraarinaitwe813
@barbraarinaitwe813 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for teaching us. Needed this for me and my kids. GBU
@shloimynoy
@shloimynoy Жыл бұрын
This is INCREDIBLE. I'm a college professor teaching a course on child development. Resilience is an important piece of the course and this video is now an integral part of my course!
@NaturallyPrettyBrownK26
@NaturallyPrettyBrownK26 3 ай бұрын
@bermudezzz3971
@bermudezzz3971 2 жыл бұрын
They both made a a huge impact on humanity
@yery
@yery Жыл бұрын
This video needs to be seen by the masses! And Therese more acknowledgement 💫
@teresak6252
@teresak6252 Жыл бұрын
wonderful talk.. great insights.... thank you
@TheGAztec
@TheGAztec Жыл бұрын
A powerful message. It’s all about who we grow up around that builds that confident inner voice
@StephanieTaylor-km2ju
@StephanieTaylor-km2ju 3 ай бұрын
Great talk. Turning a life experience into a life lesson to help others is paying it forward. Humans can learn to be humans by listening to your story. Thanks for sharing.
@leroymalu4675
@leroymalu4675 2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic. Thank you.
@K.M.-tb8bg
@K.M.-tb8bg Жыл бұрын
Wonderful talk . Thank You very much
@lynnemanning9553
@lynnemanning9553 Жыл бұрын
Mrs. Lewis you are absolutely right! Struggling is a part of life....Forgivenenss, great to learn that as a child, and "I truly see you"... and it's okay to need other people! Very smart and wise of you Mrs. Lewis...thank you for your excellent effort teaching adults and kids how to love and be more resilient ....You have a very nice way of being so down to earth and authentic, and that is why you are a superb human being.....Wishing you much joy 💟
@TheEmpowermentCenter
@TheEmpowermentCenter Жыл бұрын
💕Thank YOU!
@thisintrovertsheart
@thisintrovertsheart 6 ай бұрын
Amazing, amazing, amazing! So well done! It all comes down to COMPASSION and displaying God’s love. Amen!
@nancyaleman4438
@nancyaleman4438 2 жыл бұрын
Inspired!
@ic8586
@ic8586 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏great talk
@hymedcare
@hymedcare Жыл бұрын
fantastic
@nancyhagan7553
@nancyhagan7553 4 ай бұрын
amen
@santubanik633
@santubanik633 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately our schools in India don't think it this way....
@bonum_consilium4998
@bonum_consilium4998 2 жыл бұрын
Klas 🦁
@kyliel7021
@kyliel7021 Жыл бұрын
More solutions?
@santubanik633
@santubanik633 2 жыл бұрын
Like the comment" the messages that they receive are the messages that they repeat"...
@Luft-xz2oh
@Luft-xz2oh 2 жыл бұрын
14:28 you shouldn't miss.
@Sacs.thepsychologynexus
@Sacs.thepsychologynexus Жыл бұрын
Interesting viewpoint - thank you. We have a Psychology channel that discusses attachment and resilience etc. Any support is appreciated.
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