How to Choose a Doctor (or Midwife) for your Labor & Birth!

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How to Choose a Doctor (or Midwife) for your Labor & Birth! | Sarah Lavonne

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Sarah Lavonne

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@StefaneJaspering 6 жыл бұрын

I’m currently in labor. I have been seeing this midewife throughout my entire pregnancy. I didn’t like her day one but she was the only midwife close to us who did the natural thing I was looking for. I’m seriously regretting it. She is unsupportive and treats me like an inconvenience. I’m scared to call or text her. I’ve been in labor close to 24 hours and only talked to her twice. Please ladies make a good decision, if you don’t like them GO TO SOMEONE ELSE! Your midwife can make or break this experience for you

@StefaneJaspering 6 жыл бұрын

Sarah Lavonne thank you so much for your sweet reply! You are such a kind person. I had to be transferred to hospital because my water broke without “strong” enough contractions within 24 hours. It turns out that natural childbirth just isn’t for my body. It was not a good experience but I would do it all again for my baby. She is wonderful and I’m madly in love with her. Thank you so much for all of your fun and informative videos. You’re helping more women than you know. Keep up the good work. ❤️

@debsworld2820 4 жыл бұрын

Punky J good advice. I’m 9 weeks pregnant and am shopping around for a good obstetrician in Melbourne Australia, I insurance but can’t believe how much out of pocket costs will be. I had no idea about all this.

@LinaYahia-of9bv 5 жыл бұрын

I give birth to my daughter at Massachusetts general hospital, I was pushing for almost 4 hours, it was about 10 doctors in my room 😂😂😂😂 plus 3 students and one angel nurse, they are all great , all patients have the right to fire anyone who disrespect or miss treated them

@shrijakanth 6 жыл бұрын

U deserve more subscribers 😍 u r amazing

@merrickjulius6053 3 жыл бұрын

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@trentmiles5616 3 жыл бұрын

@Merrick Julius yea, I've been watching on InstaFlixxer for years myself =)

@emilykaye47 5 жыл бұрын

Sarah, thank you! You have helped me beyond belief I’m watching all of your videos I wish I had known about you sooner but I just discovered you. Hearing it all from a professional puts me at ease and I feel more equipped to choose my Dr/midwife. I’ve taken notes on multiple of your videos to help me choose a doctor/midwife/ hospital, and tons of questions that have come to mind as I watch. You’re so helpful I’m so thankful for you!

@thebellyblossom4802 5 жыл бұрын

What a great video! I find so many people are still confused about the topic and find it hard to make an informed decision. Keep up the great work on your channel :)

@debsworld2820 4 жыл бұрын

Seriously!! The first video that’s been SUPER helpful in all of this. I’m 9 weeks now and I’m looking for a good obstetrician in Melbourne Australia, and I’m freaking out because even though I have insurance it’s still gonna cost so much out of pocket expenses, it’s been a bit stressful to be honest! I feel really reassured watching your video. Thank you so much 😊

@liliummoonbeam4465 5 жыл бұрын

I changed my doctor my last doctor really upset me and actually made me cry and the nurse that was in there didn't even stop him from making me upset he also completely shot down my whole idea of what I wanted my labor to be like but now that I've switched this new doctor is the best anyone who lives in the Nashville area should visit baby co birthing center and ask work with Doctor Thigpen he's been making my husband and my birth experience so much better we always leave the center in the best mood afterwards and it's so comfortable

@savannahbrewer6161 3 жыл бұрын

how do you stop your provider from doing stuff against your will?

@beatzies 2 жыл бұрын

thank you

@courtneypoo4820 5 жыл бұрын

I need a plus size pregnancy video!!!!

@teris3030 5 жыл бұрын

That's a good point you made about asking what the C-section rate for each doctor vs. hospital is. Good to know! I just found your channel and am enjoying the videos.

@kaylaayala2936 5 жыл бұрын

Probably sound stupid but whats the difference between an ob doctor, midwife, or doula? Do they all accept insurance? I am not a fan of my ob doctor and for my next baby i would like someone more helpful in answering my questions.

@lauraflannery5656 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your detailed advice, binge watched all your videos from Ireland x

@MsBnjohn 6 жыл бұрын

this is so helpful as usual!! thank you!

@savanahlee3743 5 жыл бұрын

Oh man this hits close to home... I wish I could switch but once I realized I should it was too late and no one in the area who is a better fit would take me. It’s so hard to make these decisions because doctors don’t really welcome “labor and delivery” talk early on in pregnancy so you may not find out how they honestly feel about stuff until later on, even if you ask. Frustrating. I also wish I’d switched doulas earlier when I started getting red flags. Now I’m basically stuck with someone who doesn’t respond to my texts and I’m only a month away from my due date 😔 ugh

@monicag.1527 Жыл бұрын

I know what you mean. My first appointment with the OB was really supposed to be more of an interview because I wanted to get a feel for where he was at in his practice. He was late for an induction so he was trying to rush through my questions. I totally understood but he didn't disclose that till towards the end of the appointment and kept initially telling me that we would have many more appointments to discuss things at along the way. He has since had no issue with me asking questions, but he isn't very forthright with info, and I feel like he perceives me as "one of those patients" as opposed to someone who just wants to be informed and inloved with their own healthcare. I have made it a point to not conduct myself in a way that would cause myself to be labeled as difficult, but still feel that may be how he views me. Hoping to have a heart to heart with him and let him know where I'm coming from as a patient and that I truly want to work with him and not be contentious.

@blancacrum2873 5 жыл бұрын

am so so so happy I found your channel!

@blank_notyou 3 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure there's something in my medical record warning future providers to not take me seriously, because I have had terrible luck with choosing a doctor that will listen to and respect me and take the time to get to the bottom of what's happening.

@awkwardpodcast 5 жыл бұрын

I wish i seen this video before I chose my doctor because I honestly don’t like them ! It wasnt a planned pregnancy but next time I definitely will choose better

@llesseniabustos8595 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you thank you thank you!!

@hannahzook5190 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this! Is is common practice to be able to set up a meet and greet/initial interview? I have been trying to set these up and some people seem like that is not something that people normally do/I have to set up an actual appt.

@dulcesandoval2787 5 жыл бұрын

Im 38 weeks pregnant today and i was wondering what’s the best position and push when you have an epidural? Plus anxiety prior to birth?

@unicorngamer160 4 жыл бұрын

I live in a small place,almost all doctors have super high csection rates.I want to try for a vbac.I am now almost 30 weeks pregnant and between 2 doctors.One has experience with vbac and is pro natural but our chemistry is awful.I am not feeling comfortable at all and believe he lacks motivation and encouragement.The other one has been my obg for many years,I feel comfortable with him.But... he has just started to have women with vbac,he has experience with only 1 or 2.Also I am afraid he will make up excuses for a new csection at the last minute.I am thinking about having a doula at home before getting to the hospital with my doctor in order to increase my chances for a vbac.What do you think? Thank you!

@rachelloftis8574 5 жыл бұрын

How far away or how close should the hospital or doctor be from your home? Is 45 minutes or an hour too far?

@thebellyblossom4802 5 жыл бұрын

It is recommended to be within 30 minutes of travel to your hospital, but depending on your risk factors, this may shorter. Talk to your doctor or midwife on their recommendation specific for you :) Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy.

@jebbehkamara4614 5 жыл бұрын

What a great video's

@AG-rk6gx Жыл бұрын

When you say to set up a meeting with a doctor to see if they are the right fit, do you mean an appointment? I was charged $195 on my first visit with the midwife, ended up hesitating if I like the practice she works for. I’m confused about the shopping for a doctor process. Will this shopping cost me a fortune before I find the right fit?

@blank_notyou 3 жыл бұрын

At what point would they declare you not low risk? If I choose a midwife and then transfer to a hospital, I still have to pay the full amount for the midwife or nearly full amount.

@jdbsvsnkxj 3 жыл бұрын

i heard myself that women obgyn's are better or even a midwife but i'm not having anymore kids i'm staying away bc of too many contraversies

@shauntaemiller9278 4 жыл бұрын

Do pregnancy health care providers who do not force you to do prenatal exams exist? I am burdened so deeply with the thought I having to go through that with a stranger &I worry this distressing experience will effect my long term mental health. I can't help but think I'd feel violated . Which I would.

@plamondonworks6948 4 жыл бұрын

No offense but You're going to habe to get through that if you want children because the entire pregnancy and birth process is very invasive and it needs to be that way.