How To Communicate With Your Partner Without Arguing

How To Communicate With Your Partner Without Arguing | Paul Friedman

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How to communicate with your partner without arguing?
I'd like to help you with this. Communication is a facet of marriage and it really has taken a very prominent position role in marriage because people think, "Oh, my communication is off. His/her communication is not right. I'm not understood. I don't understand." All of this and the reality is that communication is very much on the surface of marriage when you think of marriage sort of schematically, what is the core of marriage?
Core of marriage is your soul mates, love. Love is the big center of marriage and it's a very thin
aspect is communication. Because if the love is so powerful that it's influencing your communication, your communication will be loving. If it's loving, there won't be any arguments.
Did you get this? It may sound simplistic or even too philosophical but trust me and we'll get there. I'll give you some methods to avoid arguing but you should understand that the basis
of your relationship with your partner is love.
Have you ever seen a picture of the world taken from outer space?
You have this big blue ball and there's this thin atmosphere, very thin that surrounds it. And think of communicating in that way, you're a big ball of love. Your spouse, your partner is a big ball of love. You want to connect and you use communication verbal, physical, communication
to connect but, what are you really wanting to connect? Yourselves because yourselves, your souls and the word soulmate is not just made up for greeting cards. You want this merging to take place this love and communicating with words with speech, with gestures. It's thin and it has much more meaning if it's a sincere bridge in between the two of you as souls.
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@TheMarriageFoundation 3 жыл бұрын

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@wolffame Жыл бұрын

Love the quote, "Fools argue, Wise men/woman discuss." We can't put too much of emotions into it wither it's fear, anger, or needs.

@Raminakai 2 жыл бұрын

This is excellent! Out of the heart, the mouth speaks. If your heart isn’t right, your mouth won’t be either! This is harder than saying or not saying anything.

@marynaksendz46 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, really appreciate this channel!

@dja-juicepowersourceproduc2887 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for great advice 👍 God bless 🙌 🙏

@jessicalong6011 5 ай бұрын

So very helpful and easy to disgust. Thank you 🙏🏾

@TheMarriageFoundation 5 ай бұрын

I am so glad this helped you 🙏

@kathyling8746 3 жыл бұрын

God bless you too! Very good information!

@TheMarriageFoundation 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@annamathews735 2 жыл бұрын

Please I need to learn more from you please

@TheMarriageFoundation 2 жыл бұрын

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@GiannaMassimino-uv7jh 11 ай бұрын

Do you offer pre-marriage counseling?

@TheMarriageFoundation 11 ай бұрын

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@NathalyTannerBeauty 3 жыл бұрын

But what happens when they want you to argue and then tells you that you are now stonewalling

@TheMarriageFoundation 3 жыл бұрын

Nobody wants to argue. Arguments occur when somebody reacts to something then the person reacts to the reaction. All you have to do is not react. Then, if the timing is good you can discuss with a desire to love your husband and want to get on the same page, together.

@Yuneed2no 2 жыл бұрын

That's called gaslighting